HOW I REDUCE STRESS 😬
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- Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
- Hello Friends! I am so excited to share today’s video! Today I do some cleaning and I hope it gives you some cleaning motivation! Although I do clean and tackle some projects, this video is really about sharing some things I have done to reduce stress when it comes to homemaking. They are tips and tricks that help with my cleaning routines, decluttering and help keep My Home running smoothly! I hope some of these ideas can help you if you feel stressed when it comes to homemaking! I hope you feel encouraged and know that you are doing a great job!
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Hi friends! This video is a little different than I normally do! I just wanted to share with you a few things that help me have less stress as I maintain my home. Stress is a real thing and it’s easy to get overwhelmed! 😬 If you have ever felt stressed about your homemaking, I hope this video is a good reminder that you are doing a great job! Thanks so much for being here! Much love to you all! 🫶🏼
Great video and thoughtful reminders!
Thank you so much! I appreciate your support every week! 😊
Hi DeeDee, this was a good video to enforce what I've been feeling. I am 78 and really can't relate to a lot of content on RUclips that I can follow. I want to eat healthy but watch lots of cooking even though it's not my choice of food. I have bone on bone knees and am limited in what I wish I could do and used to do. However, I still feel guilty and out of date with decor, etc. I have changed my feeling over the last couple of months and relate to what you said on this video. Thank you! My husband passed away in 2016 and it has taken me a while to invent myself to an older person living alone. I don't entertain anymore except three friends sometime come for lunch or to play games, so I can move as slow as I want. I have stopped buying anything except what I feel is needed, not wanted. I am donating or selling quite a bit to keep my 2 sons from having to sort and divide after I'm gone and I will be tickled pink to live in a house with less.
Hello there! oh my goodness, this does my heart good to know that I am not the only one feeling this way! I am sure that your bone on bone knees is quite painful and limits what you can do. We can only do what we can do. I have been buying so much less and I keep getting rid of all of my surplus items. I am like you I don’t wanna leave my children with a lot to go through. I want to enjoy the things I have right now, and if I’m not enjoying them, I’m getting rid of them. thank you so much for being here and sharing. It’s nice to know others feel like I do. I hope you have a fabulous weekend and please take care of yourself. 🤍
I really love your tips. I don't always clean every day or week but that's ok I get to it when I can, and as long as our home is clean and organized I am happy and don't have to have it be perfect, I really don't shop for decor anymore I keep it neutral for most of the year and really decorate for fall and Christmas!!
Hello Annette! What you’re doing sounds a lot like what I am doing. I do love a clean and organized home and I definitely try to keep it that way, but I have thrown out this notion of perfection! The older I get the more I realize what’s truly important! Thank you so much for being here. I really appreciate you taking the time to share with me!
I’m an empty nester and love to follow other empty nesters… I’m guilty about the perfect home rabbit hole and put unrealistic expectations on myself. I work 40-50 hours a week from home and give myself 45 minutes a day to clean, so my weekends aren’t completely spent cleaning and enjoy some down time. Thank you for saying the quiet parts out loud. Love your content.
Hi Leah! 👋🏼 so happy to have you! I really have been trying to change my mindset about this delusion of perfection! I’m like you, I like to do a little bit cleaning and tidying up each weekday so it frees up my weekends more! Thank you so much for watching and taking the time to let me know you are here! I hope to hear from you again! 🤗
This just might be my favorite video yet! Also I am definitely going to use your contact storage method! Wonderful job! ❤
Oh thank you so much, Brad! I truly appreciate the encouragement! I’m glad you liked it! 🤍🤍
What a great Idea Miss Dede...for a Video... .. ! Inspiring, and am here watching, Update to follow ! 😊🙂
Well, my Friend...I finally made it to the Update ..lol. I had actually written it Yesterday (!) And it disappeared.. ! 😮🤔...So, I am here.doing the update ... I
L o v e d this !! .. Such a great Topic and Tips for not allowing that " Stress " to take over .
I was so smiling when I heard you say that you don't cook every day....because, when I tell people that,... they do not understand that I do not WANT to cook every day at this juncture.I do not.I make a lot of Refrigerator and Freezer meals. ( I also use a lot of leftovers which my Grandmother called " Food Rationing") ...And I'm not interested in cooking food every single day....I'm just not..! Lol. So it's why I plan out my Meals, so I know what is to be used for Leftovers . Etc. I actually
L i k e. to cook.. but not every day !! I make several dishes that are like my stellar recipes and every so often I want to make those but I plan those out.I'm not making them on a whim LO.L...Yay Dede! And, we all know ...some Foods just taste b e t t e r after getting acquainted in the Refrigerator! Lol. ( Taco Meat. Chili. Salsa. Spaghetti Sauce ...etc )
Yes, accepting Unrealistic Socisl Media ... it is a Recipe for feeling " Less than ",...as you stated.
You know, Deedee? I stopped using Pinterest honestly like 5 years ago or more. And when I say I stop using it, I'm not using it that much. I can tell you in the last year. I've probably went on that site. Maybe 3 or 4 times,in a Year... but I know people that use it constantly. They're like addicted to it and I'm not. It lost its luster for me when it became that " Pinterest worthy " thing that you referred to... ... It was so over saturated and so much of it is all the same... so I seldom use it.
That was Gold .. : " Comparison , she's the Thief of Joy ... our Homes are supposed to be Our Safe Place " ....that was profound. Thank you for addressing this in such a kind, yet firm way.
I also ( now ) so particular about what I'm buying / bringing into my Home / For my home. I only have certain things that I truly truly wish to purchase. And I'm not going into a Thrift Store.( or any other Store/ Shoppe )...." Just looking around....." I am looking for certain items. I am looking for something in particular, it's on a list ,lol. ...and if I can't find it, unless I find something that is so unique and I know I can incorporate it. ....I'm just going to leave empty handed....And I have, lol. Shocking, I know ! 😅😂 But when one becomes older , ( And I loved your description of that, By the way,..! yes, I'm older, I know what I like.I know what I don't like.I know what Bothers me, what doesn't.... so I always take that into account when I'm Shopping...! ).
Such a GREAT Video Topic ... more of these , please... whenever you feel led to do one !
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Yay!
What a great video with some very good advice. Life in general is stressful, so any way we can reduce it is fantastic! Thanks for the reminder to just be good enough!!
Thank you, Nancy! You are right, life can be stressful! Anyway, we can take it down a notch is a good thing!! Thanks so much for watching!
Good morning DeDe. Another great and informative video. As far as meals go, I usually cook a specific meal every night. But I do occasionally double batch cook for another meal. I really do enjoy cooking but there are some nights that I want it quick. We dont go out to eat a lot. Usually Friday nights. When it comes to cleaning I try to just maintain my clean home. It is 3 of us here in the home but my daughter is not here a lot. She’s an EMT and works 24 on and 48 off. Working full time I’m tired when I get home. I try to save bathrooms and dusting for weekends. But I still maintain my home during the week. Now that I’m home for the summer I changed things up and maintain the house all week long so my weekends are free to spend with hubby! Next Sunday we leave for 5 days to Cabo San Luca Mexico. We’re ready to relax and enjoy. Have a great weekend! 😘
Good morning friend! I did not realize you still had someone at home! That is nice that you have your children and grandchildren nearby!! I’m sure you do adjust your schedule a little bit once school is out, I know I always did. I am so happy for you and your upcoming trip! I have never been to any place like that! You are the second person this week that had mentioned about going to Cabo! I hope you have a wonderful relaxing time! I would love to hear about your trip when you return! Have a great week, friend!
@@MyBigTidyUp will do. We are using the same resort we always do just in a different destination. We are happy with them. This will be our third stay. I will send you pics via email. I thought you knew my daughter came back home. She moved out for 3 years while in school. (She moved closer to college 30 minutes away). But quickly realized there’s no place like home. lol. She will be 24 next month. My son who lives about 10 minutes from me will be 28 in August. Tonight we are having a play date with the boys. I have fun stuff planned for us while mommy and daddy go on a date night.
Hello! I came across your video by suggestion. Let me just say WOW!
I just turned 50 in March and have just recently started my journey to minimalism and finding a likable routine.
Your video DID IT!
Thank you for your suggestions. Evey single one hit the nail on the head for me! I couldn’t hit that subscribe button fast enough!
Oh my goodness thank you so much, Karen! Welcome to My Big Tidy up! I am so glad you found me outhere in RUclips land!! I am so glad the video resonated with you! When I was making it, I wasn’t sure if other people would feel the same way I do! Thank you so much for watching and taking the time to let me know you are here! I look forward to hearing from you again!
Oh ps- I don’t know if you do Instagram or Facebook, but I am there as well and share humor, encouragement, and sometimes tidy uppers will send me photos of their projects, and it really is a community page! If you don’t have Facebook or Instagram, no worries I just wanted to invite you if you did! 🤗
What a great idea for a video! I am very much working on the whole comparing myself to others thing. With passing time, it is getting easier as I remind myself that I never really know what other people are going through. Their lives may look beautiful, fun, and easy on the outside but I don't know what they went through to get there, what they are feeling, or what they are dealing with. I am with you on only buying new decor for specific reasons. Also, when it comes to buying new things, I try to ask myself "Why am I buying this? Am I bored? Do I really need this? Do I feel inspired to buy this? It really does save on the wallet and gets me to look deeper at why I do the things I do. I like what you said about the "all or nothing" cleaning mentality. There are times, like today, when I had a great mindset and energy and was able to do a thorough cleaning of everything. Other times I spot clean or only focus on one area at a time. Either way, things don't really get out of hand too much. And I like what you said about showing yourself grace with this. I say that a lot! For myself and others. I appreciate the reminder about decluttering on a fairly regular basis. I admit this is something I could do better on. Bit by bit, I am! Thanks again for such a wonderful video. I hope you and your family have a great weekend!
Hi Matt! Yes, yes yes! Yes to everything in your comment! I love the questions. You ask yourself when you are thinking about purchasing something! I do that as well! I asked myself are you just a little down? Are you looking for a little pick me up? I never thought about asking myself if I was bored! it makes perfect sense. That’s the reason why I snack sometime I’m sure! Lol! I really have been working on the fact that I don’t always have to be doing something or entertained! Sometimes it’s just okay to “be” I hope that makes sense?
Congratulations on having one of those energetic days! It always feels nice when you can get things accomplished! As always, thank you so much for your insight and encouragement! We all love your thoughts! Have a wonderful “ reduced stress” weekend! 😉
Yes, it makes sense about just being sometimes. I believe that our worth does not come from what we produce. Showing ourselves grace, going with the flow, and doing whatever we can, whenever we can should be and is enough. We are all definitely works in progress, aren't we?
@MattMuschott yes sir… a work in progress… the journey continues. 😊
Hi DeDe, this is the best video I’ve seen this week! I love what you are NOT doing. I batch cook as well. I don’t call it leftovers unless you’re eating the prepared food in the exact same way. I’ve stopped shopping clearance aisles for just in case items or clothes that don’t match anything in my current wardrobe. I’ve tossed out the all or nothing idea when it comes to cleaning too. It’s just too much pressure. I do enjoy watching other RUclipsrs clean, organize and declutter as entertainment not discouragement as my younger self would! I still find myself decluttering pretty often bc I struggle with letting go of useful stuff. I just have to remember that’s it’s not useful for me! Happy Weekend, friend!❤
Jennifer, thank you so much! You have no idea what your comment means! I wasn’t sure making this video if it would resonate with anyone, and I am so glad it does with you! I still have to Declutter fairly often myself, but they are not quite as big! Years of collecting does take a while to thin out. Summer is heading our way so I probably will be decluttering next week since the new season is approaching! I sure do appreciate your kind words and nice to know others feel the same way! Have a great weekend, friend!
Hi my tidy, fellow left handed, empty nester buddy! I'm thankful I never tried to live up to someone else's standard. Life has enough stress we can't control so any way we can avoid more stress is great. Thanks for this helpful video, DeDe. Have a nice weekend!
Hello Carolyn! You are right life is stressful anyway, there is no need to add extra! Thank you so much for watching Carolyn and I’m glad you thought the video was helpful! That means a lot! 🥰
I don't meal prep but every month, I make out a dinner calendar with what we will be having each night for dinner for the month. That way I don't have to figure out what to make each night and I can buy only the things we will need for the upcoming week's meals. Also no more "what's for dinner?" questions from kids and husband.
I think making a dinner calendar is definitely meal prepping! I think that was one of the most stressful things is trying to figure out what to prepare! When I still had kids at home, I would do a meal plan for every two weeks and I would just try to go to the store twice a month.
Thanks so much for watching Kelly and sharing what you do!
...I l o v e d tbis Topic,/ Video .... This has to be one of my Favourites to date ... from " the Comparison Game ".. the Unrealistic Socisl Media thing.....to " priority Cleaning " giviing oneself Grace ,as you mentioned.. because there are days / times when we
A l l need sone " Grace " and to take some Time to " do nothing "( or .." do very little," lol!) ..To " just be ".. rather than " be doing " ... .. to help create a Balance.
More of these ,please, my Friend!
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Thank you so much for the encouragement friend! I tried to speak from the heart and share my truest feelings. I am glad the video resonated with you. I was concerned at first that it might not connect with people, but then I realized the people that needed to hear it, the video would find them.🤍
Loved this video. Very motivating and encouraging.
Thank you, Karen!
I love your attitude!🙂❤️
Thank you, Debbie! I appreciate you tuning in!! 🤗
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Thanks so much for watching! 🤗
Hello my beautiful friend. I'm back! I just said to myself earlier that I need to clean our doors. I really think our brains are connected somehow. Have a fantastic weekend.
Glad to see you back! How are you feeling? I hope you finally fully recovered! Yes, I do think our brains are somewhat connected! Time to clean your door! 😂 have a great weekend!
@@MyBigTidyUp I'm feeling pretty good finally. Thank you for asking.
My husband of 46+ years and I go out about once a week for dinner. The other nights I’ll cook something. If I’m not hungry (with migraine), then hubby will find something. Or, I’ll make something for him. I do keep snack foods in the freezers. I m blessed that I don’t have to cook every single night. (Maybe that’s why we’ve stayed married so long - Lolol.)
Hi Beverly! That’s wonderful that you’ve been married 46+ years! Congratulations! That sounds like a pretty good system you have for meals! That’s nice that you go out to eat once a week, sounds like a perfect date night! Thank you so much for watching and taking the time to share with me! I hope you have a nice weekend!
I batch cook also….it makes life so easy…especially chicken a million things can be made with chicken 😊❤️ I agree never compare yourself to anyone ….i know who I am and I kinda like me 😂
That’s awesome Francine! I kinda like you too!! 😂 In life, sometimes you just gotta be your own cheerleader!! Thanks so much for watching!