WHY MEN REJECT BEAUTIFUL WOMEN! Sadia Khan on Attraction, Jealousy, and the Power of Self-Esteem
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025
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Why do men sometimes react negatively to beautiful women? Relationship expert Sadia Khan dives into the psychology of attraction, explaining how self-esteem shapes our responses to beauty. Discover how men and women both project insecurities, and why jealousy and self-worth play a huge role in romantic dynamics. If you’ve ever been curious about what drives attraction-and the surprising ways we react to it-don’t miss this insightful episode. Learn how self-respect and authenticity can lead to a happier, more fulfilling relationship!
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This is very true. My husband admitted to me he's intimidated by my beauty. Its been a rollercoaster marriage to say the least. 😔
Sadia is such a good role model for young girls and women: intelligent, educated, well-manner, elocuent, with a good moral compass (I say that as a Catholic) and respectful. On top of that, she is beautiful and feminine. I'm her age, an engineer, married and with a teenager son. I grew up hiding myself because I attracted too much attention of men and too much jealousy from women. Despite working in Scandinavia, where women have some of the most equal conditions, you can expect prejudice on your capacities if you're "too beautiful". You will need to prove your worth more than an equally attractive man. I embraced my appearance and femininity some years ago, after a well-established career. No woman should feel ashamed of their beauty. We should appreciate beauty; both inside and outside. Sadia is the perfect example of a true beauty and a woman many of us can look up to ❤
This is so personal trauma based!!! I celebrate beautiful women and people in general!! … we can aspire with people who attain internal and external beauty!
It’s all about our own personal esteem!!
Thank you for being as vocal as you are about the "pretty privilege" curse. I could never understand in elementary why all the little boys wanted to be my best friend. I wondered why all the little girls DIDN'T want to play and would bully. Even the boys as I get up to middle school and the little boy is asking the whole class what they're so in "awe" of with my reading...The teacher was quick to recognize where that statement was actually coming from and embarrassed him in front of open class about it. She asked him...Why wouldn't we be...she's a great reader...she even got into character with the reading. It's like I was listening to audible. I have always known and confirmed myself to be a great poet, musician, reader, writer, and playwright due to multiple comments such as these.
I've had 2 boyfriends and a whole husband become jealous of me, just lost my best friend because of it. She was the one I was saving in high school from being bullied because she was always overweight and would run to me for protection when a girl who was the same name as her came calling. I protected her through two years of constant hazing...how? I was always Top in PE super athletic, long hair like your to where girls are secretly trying to feel through my hair for tracks when I tell them there aren't any.
I come to my first homeless shelter this year after losing my best friend to jealousy. Three of the gossipiest staff women already don't like me and have put the word out I'm boogie and extra. They start harassing, bullying, and stalking me instead of helping me stay off the street. I was domestic violence victim still getting abused. They didn't care. I fled to my abusive ex husband's house due to being falsely imprisoned in the shelter. My abusive hsuband then abuses me further then gives me less than 24 hours to find another place to live because he became jealous due to me expressing my rights/views on our son's schooling. He thought I should be taught a lesson and here comes second homeless shelter. This homeless shelter I didn't just have all the women literally in a group in the first month copying me like a cult leader...it was crazy as my ex bf who I met in the place had become entranced as well.
They were literally trying to figure out how to get my hair texture without a perm. smh. I knew it would only be a matter of time before jealousy would kick in as I just experienced the same with my bestie. All the girls that were acting like my bestie, stating I was an inspiration to them, now state I act boogie, better than them, toxic, aggressive, and non-Christian like. Lol I love when this shift happens as I remain the same person they can't shake the envy/jealousy/positive vibing beautiful woman who doesn't act ghetto and can handle herself in any engagement. My effect shakes up the "whole group" just this past Monday as I started re-visiting one of my churches and it's like a fox in a hen house. Everyone's staring. Half are good stares that welcome my presence knowing just who I am without corrupted view and the other half that I shake up their demons and they can't wait to gossip. I give them a show by being myself. They'll flock every year Lol
I really enjoy watching your channel. I’m 65 and still experience all of the jealousy from women and men. I still have trouble with understanding the level of meanness from people. You nailed it though! The men can’t have you so they react negatively at times and the women, well, they don’t hold back the attacks. Add success and it goes next level!
Ugh!!
Just love everyone. No intimidation then. Easy.
Yeah I’ve overlooked attractive women before because of the attitude and the fact that I assumed the assumed mess down the line. 😅 this is a fact!
I bet you overlooked attractive women that didn't want you anyway 😅
Having low self esteem and no confidence is something you develop throughout your life. It is not so easy to stop it and being like this is not a sin. Not much fun to feel fragile most of the time.
Rejecting a woman can also mean we’re just genuinely just not interested regardless of how they look since we may have other focuses, goals and ambitions other factors like being celibate till marriage or timing can play a part too, these are interesting discussions but I would say a lot of men just need real brotherhood above all else
Attractive women have tonnes of options. All day, everyday.
They're not bothered.
If you don't, another will.
Then why seek attractive women?
Women also fear handsome men !
handsome is not important to women, I am not attracted to handsome men, more women are attracted to successful men, its not the same
If he's handsome and he's poor, most women will friendzone him cause there's nothing he can do for us. Men are honored for their resources like money unlike women who are coveted for their beauty. Both are currencies in the dating world but for different genders.
At 20 I did fear handsome men yes I was still a girl mentally
Yeah I think it’s true. Rejections hurt.
@@andrealuna984 speak for yourself
That awe can go into hostility out of nowhere
Aww that ending 🥹🥹 So sweet 💜
Internal vs. external locus of control. An external locus means you don't think you're capable of achieving something by yourself --> you get jealous --> it's easier to destroy someone else than complete with them honestly.
Women generally hate other women, out of jealousy.
TRUE!!!!
People would FALSELY ACCUSE Sadia, of speaking QUEEN 👑.
Well, she's obviously has a nose job.... She does wear a lot of makeup....the nails, the heels
She uses glamor magic 🎩 Those of us who know - know 👁
Yes maybe she is speaking something that favours your gender.
Thank you for the good video! ❤😢😢😢
Merry Christmas team Sadia Khan
Sadia, I think you may be at a point for a re-evaluating process. Don't take it personal, your perspective does have some merit, no matter how misguided on certain points. Thank you for providing more insight outside the rigorous discipline required in my current residency as a future psychoanalyst. I now fully understand the importance of becoming a Medical Doctor.
Sadia is fantastic ❤❤❤
I think maybe men fear beauty at the beginning if they don't know the person! After a while you deal with another human being like verybody else (I am an average man who dated a super beautiful lady) so i say from my experience. With a beautoful woman you need to focus on mannly traits of your character and that's it!
Is it true that men marry ugly women
What podcast is this??
In Brazil there is a frase: Beautiful women is like watermelon 🍉🍉, you don't eat alone.
I adore Sadia! Brilliant and beautiful!
She is always on the nose about real life issues; aligns with my observations as well.
Sadia you are so beautiful and intelligent. I admire you in all your videos.
Wrong. Men fear the reactions of other men. Some will stop at nothing to take an attractive women from other men.
4:57 Mens jealousy is probably based more so on how desirable they are to other women. This can range from looks to money, but it’s what it affords them which is access to more desirable women.
What if their Asexual?
@ Then it doesn’t apply. They may or may not have jealousy or they may be jealous of something else entirely.
Don't understand what you're saying😮
@@PatrickBateman-t7x Yeah i can see why, I wrote it kind of weird.. you have to listen to that part of the video 4:57
What I’m saying is that men will often get jealous of how many women another man can get. Men with plenty of options are often envied by men who struggle with women.
Oh yeah. They know we have the power 😂
Beautiful, smart woman..
Do degree in Psychology or Psychiatry?
Just wondering what would u say about a 14 year relationship with the girl a
Taking the step mom spit and the the 11 year the couple happily makes an new baby and at the 14 year she has had a emotional relationship with the neighbor
Beautifull woman bring in relationship few more men who is waiting in background.
Well that's not true there's only 7% of the world is considered attractive 3% physically fit only 13% of the world work out it's not that many beautiful women
Women ate also VERY INTIMIDATED by bery HOT GUYS!!!💪😉👍
@@r.e.4640
I would love to see Sadia address this !!!
Not really. I respect people that take care of themselves. Outer doesn’t matter when you fixate on character.
They're not bothered about hot guys. They're bothered by men with money. Looks can't do much.
is she even qualified to talk about dating? she just talks about anti-woke points, and things that aren't really that deep. And as a Muslim woman, what experience does she have in dating??! She only has a platform due to her looks and being anti-woke and traditionalist.
♥️👏
Nobody knows who the black guy is?
No, the negative assumption is relative to her being extremely high maintenance!!
Then look for someone that is on your level and low maintenance.
Psychological colonialism. Love that will be taking this
Attractive women are not pleasant to be around in most cases. And once those looks fade you are stuck with an unpleasant not so attractive woman.
But y'all won't date women you deem not attractive anyway 😂
Even when her looks fade, you'll still use her to take care of you when you're sick, build you up for another woman , get her to go to work while you take her money etc. A woman never loses value 😉
@@ak-47intelligence75 Women have moved the goal posts. It used to be men would marry a young attractive woman and enjoy the best years of her life and then grow old together. Now she gives her peak years to Chad and then wants to settle down after she hits the wall. That’s not a good deal for men. Women start losing value in the dating world at about age 25. Don’t be naive. I go to the doctor when i get sick and the vast majority of women do not share their money with their man. His money is their money and her money is her money.
Maybe it's the Palm Springs CA area I live, but I find confident attractive women to be more open and accessible to interact with...🙂
@@chrisevanko6785 Either that or you’ve never actually interacted with attractive women…
@@John-78well, I guess I could make a comment about interacting with beautiful women based on zero reality in the real world...not sure what the point of that would be, but okay if that's where your mind needs to go with it 🙃
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the sad thing is almost all the assumption are true:( everybody knows this ...there are maybe a few exceptions here and there but c'mon let's face it! yeah,i know i/m gonna be regarded as low self esteem but i'm not !i am 1.82 tall ,gym body and all that and very happy and confident and regarded as well as a hansome man! I can tell you it is not because fear of rejection this is quite silly it is because we can see past all the bulshit
You think you can see past all the BS because you're listening to your delusions.
Keep at it while everybody else is dating around and having a good time.
sadia is toxic in her page not very self confident she goes into petty arguments
Why are you here? To get into petty arguments?
Fear beauty???
Most but not all.
For the rest Its not about beauty, but about that most beautiful women are stupid/ extremely pride/ etc.