You’re the first guy who gives relationship advice who actually gives something different and explains how to date in steps. Every other person just repeats what others say and the obvious. Thank you
I tell my girlfriends all the time date multiple men but no they focus on one then get sad when it doesnt work out. Smh. You are single until you are married.
Everything Elliot said on this video is 💯 right on…everything. It doesn’t matter how old one is either, it’s all the same. If you want to be in the best position possible, including reducing the risk he’ll ever cheat, make sure he has to win you!
If a guy truly likes you he will take you off the market through direct action and words, there’s no need for you to do it for him. Keep dating until that guy takes action if he doesn’t then you didn’t lose out on time/effort in one person because you had other options
Elliott, you are right so right. Well, here it comes. This guy has been playing games around my daughter over the winter sport season for the last two years. I keep getting this weird feeling. All of a sudden it happened, he posted a pic (well a little too much) of him with another girl. Yep, he's had another one on the side seeing which will give in first. This is the guy who ran interference over her Valentine's Day. Thank god I told my daughter about investment; and he was more like breadcrumbing. He's young, and I"m guessing he was going for the easiest target.This way she won't be hurt. She shouldn't have to worry about another "girl" in the shadows to have to deal with. I guess the girl finally got him to post a pic of her so she could "come out".
I dont like the idea of talking to multiple men, it makes me confused. I cant give them all the time, and hard to focus to get to know someone. And men easily give up when they notice you arent that focus your attention to them. But somehow its helpful for women so we dont get affected so much when a man is pulling away because we have other options😅
Totally agree. A man shouldn't compete with other men for your attention, he should try to be a better version of himself every damn day. If he can't do that make sure you have another option, choose yourself. Nobody is worth costing your peace. If you are an established woman, you don't have the time, nor the desire to date multiple man if you actually truely want to get to know somebody. But always remember you're better off alone then in a bad relationship. If he doesn't measure up to your standards, let him go!
Hi. Great video. I am still confused though with my past experience: the guy invested on myself, took me off the market. And for the first 3,5 months I was convinced I was the one for him… until he started to pull away and broke up! All in all, i just feel I wasted my time for 6 months. Any comments will be more than welcomed.
I keep telling people this. You just never know which makes dating so annoying. That's why I let them talk and ne themselves and they will reveal eventually.
I'm really confused about this guy I've been talking to for 6 weeks. We get along very well, chat everyday, he even calls me occasionally yet he hates calls. He always wants to learn more about me, he wished me a happy birthday at midnight, sent flowers to my workplace, has said he's looking for something serious... all really amazing signs. But we've only seen each other once. One date in 6 weeks, one date which I initiated. I called him out on it and he said he got to used to long distance relationships and will do better. Its been over a week since that conversation and no change. I really don't understand. (PS I know he's not with anyone else, because I know his colleagues. They used to tease him about being single, and they've been trying to get us together for almost a year.)
56 year old widow here....dating now after a long period of time grieving. I am in a healthy spot, ready to be in a relationship. I am confused about when/if a woman should pay for a date/dinner etc??? How does that factor in, if at all, to your point about the man investing time/resources. Thank you!! (dating again is not so much fun so far-I need help!) 😂😂
"Hopefully you're reciprocating.." if a woman doesn't why should a man keep on investing? That is the difference between courting and chasing. If a man delivers and invests actively while the woman stays passive, for example she is structured and have rules that she won't be the 1st to send a text, a man will not want to keep on being in that kind of dynamics. You get inconsistency, pulling away, mixed signals when you play games with the man. I swear these days all the content is the same. I'm sure Elliot wants to help just don't forget he gets paid by views, the more broken people in the world the bigger the audience so I hope everyone takes in any kind of information with a grain of salt.
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You’re the first guy who gives relationship advice who actually gives something different and explains how to date in steps. Every other person just repeats what others say and the obvious. Thank you
I tell my girlfriends all the time date multiple men but no they focus on one then get sad when it doesnt work out. Smh. You are single until you are married.
Everything Elliot said on this video is 💯 right on…everything. It doesn’t matter how old one is either, it’s all the same. If you want to be in the best position possible, including reducing the risk he’ll ever cheat, make sure he has to win you!
Yup...
He knows his stuff
Make sure he's INVESTING in you.
If a guy truly likes you he will take you off the market through direct action and words, there’s no need for you to do it for him. Keep dating until that guy takes action if he doesn’t then you didn’t lose out on time/effort in one person because you had other options
That is the truth!
Everything that you said is exactly true and happened to me down to the last detail. You rock!
You are the best dating coach on RUclips! I’m so happy I found u. Your authentic and not full of bs ❤
LOVE this topic never clicked so fast 😊😊 EUM are more dangerous than fixk boys
The best explanation 👌
Elliot you look good there!
Why you did Albert like that 🤣🤣 you’re one of the BEST at this!
Elliott, you are right so right. Well, here it comes. This guy has been playing games around my daughter over the winter sport season for the last two years. I keep getting this weird feeling. All of a sudden it happened, he posted a pic (well a little too much) of him with another girl. Yep, he's had another one on the side seeing which will give in first. This is the guy who ran interference over her Valentine's Day. Thank god I told my daughter about investment; and he was more like breadcrumbing. He's young, and I"m guessing he was going for the easiest target.This way she won't be hurt. She shouldn't have to worry about another "girl" in the shadows to have to deal with. I guess the girl finally got him to post a pic of her so she could "come out".
Loved this video 😂. Date him like a dude! Elliot, you're the best 👌
Love teacher Elliot 🎉
Thank you for all your advice. I’m dating after ending a 10 year relationship and I feel like I’m just so clueless.
Love your videos! Thank you
I dont like the idea of talking to multiple men, it makes me confused. I cant give them all the time, and hard to focus to get to know someone. And men easily give up when they notice you arent that focus your attention to them. But somehow its helpful for women so we dont get affected so much when a man is pulling away because we have other options😅
Totally agree. A man shouldn't compete with other men for your attention, he should try to be a better version of himself every damn day. If he can't do that make sure you have another option, choose yourself. Nobody is worth costing your peace. If you are an established woman, you don't have the time, nor the desire to date multiple man if you actually truely want to get to know somebody. But always remember you're better off alone then in a bad relationship. If he doesn't measure up to your standards, let him go!
Hi. Great video. I am still confused though with my past experience: the guy invested on myself, took me off the market. And for the first 3,5 months I was convinced I was the one for him… until he started to pull away and broke up! All in all, i just feel I wasted my time for 6 months. Any comments will be more than welcomed.
I had a guy ghost me after the first date; even after we agreed that we wanted to see each other again and that we both had fun.
Stay off the apps
I’m not on apps. A friend of mine set us up because she thought we’d be a good match.
It's not just online its everywhere 🤣 Does everyone forget what it was like 12 years ago or more? You had time wasters galore offline.
If he does not want to date, leave her alone
Can you do a video on if there is a way to repair this dynamic if you already fucked up and committed too soon
Albert!😂😂😂😂🎉
We don’t exactly have guys lined up at the door like that when we’re older.
Younger women don't even have that 🤣
I keep telling people this. You just never know which makes dating so annoying. That's why I let them talk and ne themselves and they will reveal eventually.
My cousin’s names is Albert!
I'm really confused about this guy I've been talking to for 6 weeks. We get along very well, chat everyday, he even calls me occasionally yet he hates calls. He always wants to learn more about me, he wished me a happy birthday at midnight, sent flowers to my workplace, has said he's looking for something serious... all really amazing signs. But we've only seen each other once. One date in 6 weeks, one date which I initiated. I called him out on it and he said he got to used to long distance relationships and will do better. Its been over a week since that conversation and no change. I really don't understand. (PS I know he's not with anyone else, because I know his colleagues. They used to tease him about being single, and they've been trying to get us together for almost a year.)
Excellent video
@Elliot Scott but why does he pull away then … he randomly leave letters on my car and stalks me . What the hell is that about ???
King Albert from Monaco... 😂... Indeed.
56 year old widow here....dating now after a long period of time grieving. I am in a healthy spot, ready to be in a relationship. I am confused about when/if a woman should pay for a date/dinner etc??? How does that factor in, if at all, to your point about the man investing time/resources. Thank you!! (dating again is not so much fun so far-I need help!) 😂😂
You don't need to pay. Maybe the odd coffee or beverage. That's it.
Be highly discerning and use your intuition. There are plenty of wolves in sheeps clothing.
You fuckin played all the Albert lol
Albert 😂😂😂
pity you into anime Elliot you so cute
I try to not put all my eggs in one basket but… What if u can’t pull multiple men at the same time…… 🥶
Then time to work on oneself lol. Welcome to being a man lol.
"Hopefully you're reciprocating.." if a woman doesn't why should a man keep on investing? That is the difference between courting and chasing. If a man delivers and invests actively while the woman stays passive, for example she is structured and have rules that she won't be the 1st to send a text, a man will not want to keep on being in that kind of dynamics.
You get inconsistency, pulling away, mixed signals when you play games with the man. I swear these days all the content is the same. I'm sure Elliot wants to help just don't forget he gets paid by views, the more broken people in the world the bigger the audience so I hope everyone takes in any kind of information with a grain of salt.
Stay away from Albert’s lol
I wish the way he talks women would pick up on how logical he sounds. Its very hard to find a logical woman.