5 Signs He's Not Going to Marry You
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- Five Signs He's not Going to Marry You
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You’ve been dating for a while now or maybe even living together. He’s a good guy and he has everything you’re looking for - he is good-looking, he has his career sorted out, he’s family-oriented and all that good stuff. But he hasn’t popped the question “Will you marry me” yet.
All your friends are engaged or married and you spend your days watching wedding videos and day-dreaming about your wedding day - the wedding that you’re not sure if it’s even going to happen.
There are a couple of reasons why a guy can’t commit to a marriage. It’s a big responsibility anyway.
Most serious relationships have the end goal of getting married but what if you feel like your partner is not gonna marry you? Save yourself from losing precious time and check out this video to see the signs if he's not going to marry you.
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12 years in and he hasn’t proposed. Sucks to feel I’ve given him my best years for nothing.
I'm sorry to hear about what happened, Natasha. So how would you like to move forward given the situation between the two of you?
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I have been in a relationship for almost 16 years he has proposed years ago but yet no marriage I'm ready to walk away but I love him so much it hurts so bad and I have no one to talk to
@@krystisherman2425 Honestly, if you're not marriage withing 6 months to a year it was a sham engagement to stop you from leaving. I'm sorry :(
1. No talks about future that involve you.
2. No interest in your future endeavors
3. He's there for the good times but ghost you during the bad times.
4. He has commitment issues in general.
Ex. Indecisiveness on short term plans
Ex. Unable to commit to a job or career
5. All his ex girlfriends are "crazy"
Ex. All of them can't be crazy maybe it's him and he just never committed to anyone or anything.
If you re not dating to marry you're dating to break up
It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman: if all or most of your exes are 'crazy,' the common denominator in all of those relationships is *you. You* are the one who is choosing the fools. Clean up your own act and take responsibility for who you let into your life. Treat yourself well so that you will know when someone else is not. Don't let anyone into your life who doesn't treat you respectfully in general.
It’s not what people want to hear but it’s what people need to hear.
Actually my ex was crazy 😅😅 Like legit...but my fiance isn't ❤
Ever since I been taken accountability being married to GOD is ten times better. Just don't get married in Satan's system.
I’m 28, we’ve been together since I was 20. I gave him an ultimatum and I have’t from him in over two weeks...I’m so hurt.
Ultimatums rarely work out unless your ex is at the Crisis Point in the 5 stages of getting back together. I'm sorry that you're hurt. I know that thing like this can really hit hard.
Ultimatums are psychological abuse. They are a lack of a functional relationship. That alone reveals issues with yourself, which you need to fix.
Wow, sounds like he's stringling you along. Waiting for more than five years is too much especially for a women as we age faster than men. There are better guys out there.
Ouch. That's clearly a red flag.. Sadly, men don't do that to someone they truly love
Lucero Villegas worst feeling ever
5:35
"Oh she was crazy, cuz she wanted to get married."
it was then that I burst into tears :( not sure why that part specifically got to me so much
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A sign that he isn’t going to marry you is when he doesn’t marry you.
Now you got it, girl.
All theses signs in my EX (been 3 weeks now )
Ah well 10 months of a relationship that taught me what I don’t want next time
Amen 🙏
Elizabeth Monica amen
This will be me very soon lol! Wish you the best.
"He won't buy the cow if he can get the milk for free." Biggest predictator.
Stella Mcarty I think he has big cows with heavy boobs let him have milk free that's the ideal life for him than putting someone in shit.rhis is called america.and we Asians have better valuable things.ans also can find decent men.
That's something my grandfather would say.... were you born in 1941? 🤔
@@YaneMontesDeOca91 No but there are living spiritfilfilled souls than dead and empty shells.
Yeah, if you're dating a guy who sees women as commodities that supply sex, then marrying probably wont be too positive anyway.
He is not getting the milk we sleep in different bedrooms
1. U r not in his future.
2. He s not interested in your picture.
3. He s celebrate with your good times but not for ur during bad times.
He s not there for ur whole spectrum in your life.
4. He has a hard time committing.
5. All of his ex girlfriend is crazy.
Weve been partner for 5 years and i never feel that i was important to him. . . Everytime i ask him about marriage hes always end up saying we dont had enough money to get married. . . . Then right now we had money but still hes not asking me for a wedding. . . . I didnt expect anything from him. . .i stop putting emotions from anything and less my expectations, the more less emotions & expectations the better your life is. . . .
Same thing with me 6 years in a relationship Money issues but when money comes still no marriage… i ask for civil wedding no large money involved but yes still no marriage. If he wants to he will
God why didn't see this videos years ago...its ok I'm moving alone
We've been dating for 5 years and I gave him a break after realizing that he don't have plans for me in the future. I told him to find what he really wants in life and I'll be waiting for him to come back. He hasn't come back since then. But I know he loves. It just hurts..
Hi Seline, I'm sorry to hear about that. We understand how marriage can be important for some and other's might take some time to be in that level of commitment as it would require emotional and financial readiness. we understand the hurt that you might be feeling as you truly love the person. but you have to keep in check as well if both of your values and things that you both want in a relationship is aligned with each other. All the best.
I'll give you the straight dope, unvarnished, no sugar coating to help the pill go down. It's not about "being ready" for the man. We DO NOT want marriage. We might fall in love. Sure, we're human. We might even live with someone. But, we aren't going to marry. We've done the risk/reward analysis. We've paid CLOSE attention to what has happened to the marriages and men around us when the divorce inevitably happens, and we've elected out. It's that simple.
Love has nothing to do with it. It's business, not personal. If you really loved him you'd want to be with him no matter what, without the condition of marriage. But, the marriage is more important to you than the man. For us, the man is more important than the marriage, and we will let that woman walk. Statistically, it was gonna end in divorce anyway. We're just saving ourselves a mountain of bullshit. I've let two women go. One gave the ultimatum after 5 years of living together. The other after three. I was honest from the start about marriage. I loved them both. But, when they gave me the ultimatum there was no debate even for a minute. It was just, okay...this is over, now. My immediate response was, "I love you. I want nothing but for you to be happy. If THAT'S what you need to be happy, then I want that for you, too. But, you need to find it somewhere else." Losing them hurt for a time, of course. But, that's nothing compared to divorce. Men can do break-ups standing on our heads. A few weeks, MAYBE a month or so of "meh" and we're good. Piece of cake.
Not taking the ultimatum doesn't mean he didn't love you. It just means he's a realist living in a practical world who made the best business decision for himself. You can absolutely put a price on love. It's marriage and divorce. Two things definitely NOT worth the price for men.
@@e.l.norton that may be true for some men but what about men that marry the next woman after stringing one along fir years . That's the predicament many women are in today . I have a freind still hanging on to a guy she met in college 20 years ago . She wants kids and marriage and he still hasn't asked. Another is living with a guy,no kids he's almost 40 and she's almost 30. Been together almost a decade and no ring and worse she lives with him. He's way too old to not know better. We think he stringing her along too
@@jocekhiy626 Maybe it's best for men (especially older men) to be upfront and honest about not wanting marriage or children from the start. But also, if a man does that, then women need to accept that he's allowed to make that decision. And she can't expect to change his mind.
@@e.l.norton Absolute bs! How about if the man really loved her he'd take the risk and marry her instead of potentially degrading her social status to a baby momma. If all he cares about is the potential risk to himself, he's selfish and doesn't love her and is not fully committed. He wants to keep one foot out the door at all times in case something better comes along. Marriage is not just a peice of paper.
Omg this is exactly how my bf is
And he’s taking a break from me after I stressed him out too much about marriage 😂
What a coincidence, Nana. It's truly amazing how you were able to relate your situation in one of our videos.
nana nanana same thats why I left him 👋 bye felicia 👋because it’s not only my job to talk about marriage and if iam dating you for 3 years and you can’t even come to my parents and ask my hand in marriage then screw you🖕
That’s not how you do it girl. Never pressure a man into marriage. If you want him to marry you, focus on yourself, obtain and achieve goals and move in with your life with him in it. Maybe even schedule a Club Med trip but don’t do that shit
@nana banana
It's not about pressuring him, but influencing marriage. See, without influence, he'll just continue to go along for the ride until you've had enough.
Red flag. Stop being loyal to someone who isn't. He's wasting your time.
Great advice
Pretty sure it’s just best to be a “crazy cat lady”.
Thank you for great information
I like the 4th sign about not knowing what to do with his free time, future, etc. Then he might not want to commit.
Thank you.
I will leave him and forget him all the way
Edit Edit true I'm going through the same thing
I'm with you, girl!!!
I went out with a guy who ticked ALL these boxes and YES! You are absolutely right, of course you are bcos you are a man. Thank you for making this vid, youre absolutely on point, hah hah, I'm so glad Ive come into a place where I can actually laugh at some of these sighns bcos it was very painful at the time experiencing them all. I found out the hard way, so ladies listen up! Save yourself the aggro and confusion, be wise.
Excellent topic! I have an interracial and age gap marriage and am always looking for good advice to share with others interested in same. You made some good observations.
Thanks. I'm half-Asian, half-white, so interracial relationships are something close to home for me.
So that’s why you look so damn weird. Yuck
@@aaronlalembaarook5626 who the fuck are you to say yuck to him. Get loss n be gone ugly ass weirdo. You can't compare to this guy big toe.
More like his in all those signs... thank you very much... Finally a direct message and no running around the bush...although I do understand he has mommy and daddy issues...
Again thanks Loved the video...very direct...
Thank you, Stephanie. We truly appreciate your kind words and it means a lot to us. :-)
Clay Andrews
You Welcome... thank you for taking the time to make these harsh yet needed signs to help us know exactly where we stand as woman...
Thanks you
I knew I had to leave him when he didn’t come to my Grandads funeral this year, I.E not being there for the downs :(
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25 signs I'm not going to marry him
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And he will not introduce you in social media.. and families.. this is one point
Great video and also great advice!
@Purple Violet, thanks for the positive feedback. We truly appreciate that. :-)
@@ClayAndrews You're welcome
Did not tell me what I wanted to hear but
you are Right
There is a reason why the ex gf is crazy. For sure the ex gf she have reason why she becoming crazy.👍👌
Yep, if all your ex-girlfriends are crazy, then there's a strong chance the guy made them that way 😒
5 out 5 wow 😳
You’ve got a good point. Keep it up 😁
You're welcome, Starlet. Glad to hear that our videos are helping you a lot. :-)
Ur points are valid...
Thank u tell them million times
Amazing video.. Agreed on each and every point.. Very helpful!! Thank you!!
Thank you, Kriti. We are happy to hear that the video had helped and inspired you. :-)
Awesome, I'd like to add an important one: if it's been years, say a decade, he's kept his options open in hopes of finding someone else. He's just using you while he finds her :(. Also always mentions 'if we ever break up'...
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I’ve been with mine for almost 9 years we’ve talked about it and he says he wants to get married eventually, but still nothing he wants kids now but I want marriage, it isn’t abuse, it’s basically telling him if he can’t commit then you have to leave because it will never work if he can’t provide you with it. I actually talked to my therapist about this ive never actually gave mine the ultimatum yet but I’m about to be close to it, idk if it’s a fear of it or a fear of change , because he supports his mom, his brother and his brothers family, and I told him I don’t mind him helping his mom but at the end of the day we need to learn how to fly and be independent and start our family of our own, same with his siblings I don’t want him to be supporting others and trying to support us to , like honestly I’m so lost, I’ve actually been wanting to talk to mine to because he’s been talking about buying a home, he says for his mom then he says for us then he says him and her will live in it then when we’re ready he will find a place for her, but honestly I don’t want that , if it’s her place it’s hers, plus how do you explain if something happens to them what will happen to the home if it’s not our dream home?
Your basically married already
Great. This is really good advice I'm just feeling a little salty....
IT'S ALL ABOUT OPTIONS..PLAIN AND SIMPLE
Yeah I've been going out with this guy for 4 months and he said he definitely don't want to get married and I looked at him like I never said I wanted to hear but I think maybe I might I don't really get each had a hard mirror so I guess that's why and so did I but I think that it might work I don't know I'm tired of him telling me that he doesn't
So Ive been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years.We lived together for 4 of those years.We did talk about marriage and children after year 2 so 3 years in.I was half way not serious but started thinking seriously about it for the past 2 years.Wanting to get married and start a family and whatnot I let him be his own person but we have nothing in common we can't even have a conversation about anything.Ive honestly lost all interest and am now preparing to leave him.I told my self j would give him one more year to make up his mind chose me for once build something real with me instead of always just talking about it.Hes about to years younger than me which isn't much either so we should be on the same level at this point but I now know for a fact our relationship isn't going anywhere it does hurt a little but I know I can stand on my own two feet because he literally has not bettered me in anyway.
If the two of you have nothing in common, then I really doubt that is going to change any time soon. I mean, if it was, you would have seem something happen in the past 5 years you were together.
It sounds like you already know that you and him aren't really going anywhere. I don't know what value waiting an additional year will have except to put on the inevitable and allow you to stay in your comfort zone.
It's fine if you want to wait a year, but that's one less year you have to find a guy who is the right fit for you.
Move on now...another year won't change things but will change you
I waited 4, almost 5 years longer than I said to myself that I would wait to get a commitment, I wish I had not kept waiting. Wasted 4 years. They either want you or they don't. We know in our heart. Why keep waiting?
Wow thats scary. Start living your life now. Be scarce to him now. I met a guy who was living with his girl for 9 years n he never married her. She left him n now hes broken. He said he would've married her if she wanted him too. Guess he thought she was happy for 9 years. Now shes move on n won't come back.
He hasn't bettered you in any way but you've been with him 5 years? I call bs
I've been dating that kind of guy for three years. 🤔 He's my first bf, and I'm really naive back then. He keeps asking what my plans in my life but he won't tell his. And he had never been with me in my hard times. I'm really stupid back then.
JoJo JoJo you seriously need help
I tried no contact before but it did not work until I meet a powerful man of God who help me restore back my relationship with a powerful prayers
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Eye opener
Does this apply if we're engaged but he never bought a ring and we're business partners?
Thank you Clay for your perspective and wisdom. I know your audience is mostly serial daters or women who attract commitment-phobes, but speaking from someone who has been married multiple times, there are men who marry and still exemplify all of the traits you mentioned. So yes it's possible to get married and they not be interested in your future, nor building a life together, they can strategically avoid being around during a crisis, they can place your financial stability in jeopardy, all while enjoying the benefits a marriage without commitment. So it's more about the quality of the relationship not just going to the altar.
Hi Glen, Thanks for this great insight. We truly appreciate that. That's is what we are trying to advocate in our course. Marriage may be the ultimate end goal of every relationship but having a strong and quality foundation will always make a big difference. :-) All the best.
If feel so sad that what u a saying is true but am sad my boyfriend does all the things u say
It's better to know sooner rather than drag something out for years only to realize the same thing. I'm sorry if your BF doesn't seem ready to settle down.
For me it's they say they want to but never did.
I was even In 7 year relationship but he just left me hanging can you make a video why men do that
Because you do not set your boundaries n expectation from a guy let him clearly know what you wanted.
Jane, don't live with a man. It is like, "Playing House" instead of being a true marriage and you getting to be a true wife. You are worthy to be a wife, but you have to set that in stone that you will not live with another man. That, when it is the right guy, it will have to be marriage or forget it. Please read I Corinthians 13 (the whole chapter), that will tell you what true love is. I pray things get better for you.
Never NEVER ever live with a man before marriage. And never date for more than 2 years if he doesn't want to discuss marriage. Most men know if they want you for a wife within the 2 ND date., Never date for 7 years.... that's a lease.
Not just 1 Corinthians 13, but 1 Corinthians 7 is the KEY message about our rights regarding marriage, sex and single-hood/celibacy. Those who are called to have it will have it. Those who aren't wont. Those who wants it shall achieve in what they desire, and those who don't, won't. It's choice in this life and everybody HAS a choice. Whether its a life or death decision.
Exactly!
Whenever I talk to my bf to getting married or a commitment he be like don't freak me out else I won't stay with you . Haha
Thank you Mr Andrews
You're welcome, Claudie :-)
I meant one who said that he wanted me to be the head of his Harem, that's a bad indicator. I met another who said that it wasn't going to work out and I realize that he said that to everybody at the beginning of his relationships because then later he could say that he had been truthful in the beginning so I was careful on that too. There are men whose entire idea of happiness is to chase women and that's what they want to do with their lives. They really don't want to do anything else. But they've learned that if they're truthful they won't have any luck with a lot of women so they play a game of pretending that they're looking for someone to love.
GREAT video..How can you marry someone who is unhappily married to someone else. 2. I am a divorcee..nobody wants a divorcee right? 3. He is non committal and a orbiter. He likes a social life of a multiplayer and games. Listen this may come as a news flash, I am not LOOKING TO BE MARRIED for this reason alone. I am self sufficient, a self starter and happy with being by MYSELF. I would one day like a mature companion that appreciates and values my worth. My EX is charming, creative and talented. He really is a WINNER if there EVER was one. He brags about his options regarding women. I am wondering why he is ALWAYS wondering what I am doing and who I am doing it with, since I am NOT in his future and I mean NOTHING to him.
Hi Tracey, We cannot say not no one in the wide population would not want a divorcee. One may not like us but that doesn't mean everyone won't like us. That is why we encourage our viewers to do the 5 x 5 list and use it as a basis when we are dating someone. Try doing this small exercise.
Write down the following
- 5 Must-Have Qualities in a Partner / Relationship
- 5 Deal-Breaker Qualities You Do NOT Want in Any Partner / Relationship
- This list is critical to having a successful and healthy dynamic in a
relationship. The person you want to be with MUST meet ALL 5 “Must
Haves.” If this person has 1 dealbreaker OR doesn’t meet all of your Must
Haves, the relationship will continually be a challenge.
All the best.
Absolutely right. So much better to love yourself and never have the desire to love someone else and never eventually marry. You dont Have to marry, but its as God planned for a couple. Good for you. BE STRONG. We all have our own views on life. 🤔
My ex ticks all of these. So glad I left. It’s still hard though! It’s been a month and I’m trying to come to terms with the reality of the situation 😞 anyway, thanks for sharing!
I tried no contact before but it did not work until I meet a powerful man of God who help me restore back my relationship with a powerful prayers
+1(929)473-1956
@@hauserstjepan6766 you’re preaching to the converted ☺️ haha, thank you. God has helped me immensely
Once you live with them or it's been years and nothing its obvious. Some women do all the wife things especially when they move in and why would he bother at that point . At the end of the day just being a gf after years especially when you want more is sad. It's like they value that specific guy over their own happiness. Only what he wants is important.
we’ve been together 6 years (2 years engaged)not even mentioning marriage. Then opportunity comes up to work on a cruiship but seperate, it will take us 2-3 years until we see each other again. He promised me marriage before leave but weeks past not even mentioning again this time its not right i only have 2 weeks left before my flight only to find out he’s not gonna do it. It hurts really But i ended it up i dont wanna wait another 2-3 years again no assurance by that time im 31 im not gonna waste another day. Let’s be wise
true.. he always stalk that another girl pictures all the time 😭😭😭
But you can get him stay with u love and adore you
1. He doesn't have any future goals/desires. He says he thinks he'll be dead by "then". He's been saying he thinks he'll die by 30 since I met him at 24, and he's 31 now...
2. He doesn't have any interest in what my goals are for the future.
3. He avoids me or is "more upset than me" when I'm upset. I literally lost a job I had for 9 years because he let me sleep in and turned off my alarm, so I was an hour late...and he said it was my fault.
4. Gets jobs easily, but then quits for no reason because he "doesn't feel like going in anymore" and then makes up some excuse about how they mistreated him. He also has the habit of going back to old employers after he quits recent jobs. They take him back because he does work hard, but he quits when he feels he's worked "enough".
5. All of his ex girlfriends cheated on him.............so I'm accused of it almost dailyduring the bad times and monthly during the good times. I often I feel it's an excuse to leave so he can tell people I did something wrong by him when they ask why we separated. Like, he even had a dude move into our townhouse when I told him no, and then kept trying to "catch us hanging out"...
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Do you really need your ex back
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We've reached our 4 year mark back in August. We moved in together last year. We got together when we were both 24, now were both 28, I'm about to graduate college with a Bachelors in a few months, neither of us has kids. I'm hoping that hes not waiting until his parents say something to him about it to make a decision.
wow I have something similar too.thanks for the say
What if you have been engaged for 2 years and live together?
All women want to be married but not all women want to be wives...
These better be some facts...
Will you can laugh at me don't care. When Vietnam took my real love away l was into single life and I had more men wanting to marry me than I had money and clothes.
I don't know why a man is a relationship with a woman who doesn't want to get married. It seems that he probably never loves her and he want only sex with her. So, they can be friends with benefits with no emotions. No reason to-be in a relationship if someone who doesn't love you. Falling in love very easily maybe is not a good thing. Girls, don't be in a relationship with someone that you are not sure about his feelings for you. Actions speak more loudly than words.
Thumb up ! Haha
I had 2 exes. One kept giving loads of BS same as all the points mentioned in the video of nt marrying me n the other didnt evn let his family knw abt me. Now im happily single. If its in my cards will gt married if nt thn single life suits me too. My only life regret is i kept waiting n wasting a decade over them.
Lahat ng mapadikit s tao un ang mataas ng tingin nl s sarili nl.pahalikan b nmn paa sken dhil close cl ng guy
8 years in and pregnant now ....
This is upsetting because I'm fat
You forgot one, he might be MGTOW.
MTGOW men don't usually get into long term committed relationships tho
No problem for me👍
I was not doing well in life till 40. SO I am not commited type ???
That cool thank you
1. He's smart
2. He knows what marriage laws really are
3. He realizes marriage is unnecessary for a successful relationship
4. He realizes weddings are a waste of time and money
5. He is stable, independent, and doesn't need a girlfriend or wife for his value
No one is replying u back🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 cause they know its true!!!
Well said King.
Please reply me ... I'm in living relationship he is so good kind .calm and patien he take care of me in my bad times and good times. . He treat me like a queen he share all his money. bank account everything. But he can't marry me and he is looking for a girl and crying dying for another girl.. . because I have a kids from my ex but that kids are taken care by my ex.. but since I'm a mother and a different religion and I'm not beautiful enough . He don't want to marry me .... HE said I wish that his another girlfriend has a same character like me .. he love my personality so much but he said he can't marry .. but the way he take care of me I love him so much .and nobody love me like he love me in this world.. I love him so much we live together but since we don't have a future I'm so upset... he said even he married also he will support me not to worry.. but I don't want him to marry other girl I'm afraid to loose him ..NO MATTER HOW MUCH I TRY TO KEEP HIM HAPPY. Marriage is impossible for him .and his parents are very strict....WHAT SHOULD I DO .. I'm always with tears .. please give me advice
You can only control yourself no one else. Tell him that this isn’t working out for you and if he wants another girl the door is open but not necessarily open for him to come back in. Please genuinely ask yourself why do you want a guy that tells you that you aren’t good enough? Do you love yourself enough to be alone and happy single? Men don’t like desperate women women so he will leave anyways if you don’t have enough self respect to walk away. If men respect you then they love you. Please watch Greta Beresaite on RUclips! She helped me get my ex back and become a high value women but still after everything he put me through and the games I broke up with him.
I knoe him for 2 months. We are in live in. But he said he has 2 priorities now his parents and business. Then he will think about him. so he said i just don't want to commit. Is this normal? Please help me
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Watzap him🔵🔵🔘☝
I'm glad I'm single.
My boyfriend of 4 yrs won’t marry me because he wants me to move to another state with him before he marrys me and I don’t want to move out of state because my children live here.
I told him up front that I would not want to move because of my children and I being very close. And we both became grandparents this year, his children live in the state he wants to move to.
Not sure what to do
are your "children" like 30 year olds or something?
You are joking, right Nancy?
My bf says he wants to marry me I’m the future we’re 20 but he says thinking about marriage stresses him out and he doesn’t want to even talk about it because saying my wife makes him sound out and gf is a young guy thing
Im not expecting "HE WILL MARRY ME, AND I'M NOT ASKING TO MARRY ME TOO", but what the God if he give it to me i will accept.✌
wooow u got me something to think about ..Only GOD nows .
He's not going marry you if you let him test drive you. Why should he buy the cow when the milk is free? It's best to move on with your life. You are better off by yourself. The worse thing a woman could ever do is live with a man when she is
not married him because all he's going to do is test drive her/you and then use you up and move on and marry someone else.
TELLING ME HE DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED TO YOU. I ASKED HIM HE SAID I GOT YOU BABY.. WE GOT EACH OTHER
que ti porta señorita i was sad the other day because something similar he said to me like you. I asked him about that our anniversary was coming up in April of being together even though we’re not married yet and he said “people who are married celebrate that” and I told him “So what are we “ he said “ a couple” 😢😓that just turned my whole thought 💭 about us. In he’s perspective we have each other and that’s what counts I’m looking for a god fearing man who will have he’s presence and do the right thing I’m a sinner and don’t want to be in that path anymore because in gods eyes I’m doing wrong I want to fallow righteous ness in Jesus path. It brings me to tears and need to do what is right in my ❤️ heart I love this man but sometimes you have to do what’s right In my heart.
Raquel Drift who ever you are.... We been married for along time and I think I know you by the way you say things but whatever. Shit happens and that's him. He chooses me and forever we will be cuz of this coronavirus he will not touch another women cuz he's feared that this can not be fix. So I know I got him beside me. I'm sorry that he's not loving you.. little by little he's making the marriage life go stronger with me.💍💋💏
I don't need mariage in the first place. That is not important to me.
How about? Me and my live in partner staying for 10 years and we have a daughter ,she is 6 yrs old but . I am wishing he marry me. But I don't feel he wants to marry me what should I. Do??
Have you both had a talk regarding the concern you have? Communication is important to a relationship so that couple would understand each other's needs.
I tried no contact before but it did not work until I meet a powerful man of God who help me restore back my relationship with a powerful prayers
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Straight up. 100
Been together for 6years and still no marriage plan eventho I gave him an ultimatum. I feel like I’ve been wasting my time all this years. We broke up 3years ago and he came back to my life with his promise to marry me but till now nothing happen. Sad
There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
Any kids involved? If not RUN majority of the time if a man leave you, wants a break, doesn't marry you within 2 years he's not the one and you're not the wife he's looking for. Sad but true. Think of it like this... When you broke up do you really think a man who believes you are his wife is going to entertain a thought and make a reality of you two breaking up with the chances of another man getting with you? No. No chance. And if another man has got with you and he's taken you back then you're definitely not the one lol
Run away best thing to do and yes he'll come back a few times but not because he loves you but because he has access to you. Keep your legs closed for the next man and stop believing what men tell you it's all lies they just want what's between your legs. Be that one in a million that makes him work for you
@@yipeedo372 thank you . I left him few weeks ago with no regret and now I’m moving on. I thought it’s gonna be hard but hey I’m so much happier than ever. Cheers
exactly that's my ex
Sorry your ex wasn't able or willing to give you what you wanted. But it's best to put that behind you and find someone who is willing or able to give you what you want.
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Yeah.... The future talk thing is usually bs. Actions should match those words!
He won't even live with me, almost 2 years
What if u have been together just like 2.3 months
Is it the right time to talk about marriage
Is he open to the possibility? Have you checked on each others values and beliefs regarding marriage?
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He does not talk about the future at all
He rarely asks me anything
I just feel that I'm wasting my time
He did not even bother himself to come to my country to see me (I asked him before the virus began)
He does not give logical excuses
I'm moving on. He likes me just as a body and appearance, I deserve better. Someone who would die to marry me, I will never beg for him to do so. Many cute guys still out there.
BTW we have the same beliefs, as a religion , but we don't have the same values, it's just a waste of time, he had never mentioned marriage even jokingly .
Thank you
I'm going to work on my future instead.
@@najwabadaoui9774 I tried no contact before but it did not work until I meet a powerful man of God who help me restore back my relationship with a powerful prayers
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@@najwabadaoui9774 you're wasting your time long distance relationship for men is not real
And the man he is not show up to me and he is not talking in a video call it means his not truely loving me. Always tested and looking at me only what kind of a love is this?
Sally Adlawan I LOVE YOU TOO vy
Be vulnerable. Huh huh. That would be a sin😆
Hi Keri, Being vulnerable is not a sin. As long as it is displayed in the right time and you know the boundaries between good and bad vulnerability. :-) All the best.
He s loving me and caring me so much but not interested to discuss about marriage....what I shall do ...he s maintain complete silence ...waiting for his reply for 2 years
Hi Neethu, I am not quite sure what may be the exact concern that he may have. But it looks like marriage is something that is important to you as well. The question is, how long will you be able to wait until he would make such decision?
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I have a boyfriend we are together for 3 years now but everytime i came up with the topic that i want to marry him he just say do you really need to bring it up. And when we where 2 years together he will always talk about it and now everything stops just like that. I know he calls me his everything but it isn't the same.
I tried no contact before but it did not work until I meet a powerful man of God who help me restore back my relationship with a powerful prayers
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The problem is it's wrong to ask a man if they will marry you at some point however it's not wrong to tell a man FROM THE BEGINNING of the relationship when you guys become exclusive that you EXPECT marriage and kids in the future. Give yourself a time frame and stick to it.
Instead you jump into bed with a man in the first month and to be honest even in 5 months to a man you are easy. So quick to sleep with a man, but slow to bring up important core values? It's a joke
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I am here and he is there
I been in my relationship with my boyfriend for three years now. And he always say he want to marry me. But when I ask him what's stopping him he always say wait he get financial stable and I always tell him we can always go get married at the courthouse. But it always be something. And plus every since we been together he missing with another woman for like a year or two. And he expecting us to be cool with each other. So I told him I don't like it at all that he doing that to me. So I told him to choose me or her. But he want do that cause he still seeing her and talk her. And me and him living together and she know about and she don't care at all. So it's only one thing I can do is just leave
"All the things we accept, be the things we regret." - Ashanti ... So if you're accepting him being with another woman and staying, you will regret it later on.
don't look back and leave. Before you realize, You'll have wasted your most precious years. Wish I had the courage 10 years ago. I know a woman who wasted 20 years and is now to old to have children. Never ever waste time for someone who doesn't deserve you, NEVER !
8 yrs and nothing wait on GOD
He said he dates to marry. Been together 3 years. He said we're building a relationship and will take it further. Does he need 3 years to marry a person??
His exes all want him back.
Hes respectful, supportive, helped me alot. Tells me he loves me. But still??
Hes a wise man 👌 avoiding marriage.
@@szaszrobert9661 I almost left him once. He almost got a heartattack. There is a small issue which hes hesitant about tho.
@@dbedazzling1 Can you respect a man who claims hes gonna have a heart attack if you leave him? ......
Hi seems like a big loser for me who doesn' t know how to handle life with out you.
@@szaszrobert9661 honey hes the CEO n owner of multiple companies. A Leader in every aspect. This is no weak loser😂😂. Furthermore I never said he claimed to have a heartattack. His reaction to me seeing other ppl showed me this. It's my opinion.
it depends on his emotional readiness and to take the responsibility to be married. Being married may take a lot of commitment and readiness as well. So it really depends on the capacity of the person.
We are living together for about 2 years now but he takes drinks and i loved him so much. What should i do?
Get out while you can. Real love is when a man wants to marry you. Also, if he is drinking, do you want that in your life for the next 50-60 years?
My bofriend for 2 and half years broke up with me 1 month ago, because He said I only want to get married and He can’t give me time. I told him that I would not bring up the marriage anymore and see if things work out. He said “ I dont know yet, it’s a stressful time” it’s just making me sad that He would rather breaking up with me than being with me. Is it possible that He will change his mind in few months ?
Ignore him...see what happens
Move on
OK. 2. Down. 3. To. Go.
Dont hurt peoples heart if we no marred once we love then why we hate him or her love is not deed
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Dump him and move on he isn't worth your time.
exactly a guy will not wait around on locking down