Guys, listen up. This is a veteran of two divorces speaking that learned this the hard way. You get it here without the pain. You see the leash come out, RUN, also, if she is a professional victim, run! There are no female refs in the NFL or Soccer because they will throw a flag, or give a red card for an offense that happened 3 years ago
@@orgami100 actually in my situation both of my ex wives would jump at the chance to give it a better shot...and they both initiated the divorce. 🤦♂️🤣 I get what your saying, though.
@@memyselfi3520 I got one for you about ex-wife's. The last one was a 5-foot 5 beauty, she left because she wasn't happy, then on Facebook few months later there she's married to her lesbian lover with a heading " I'm going to be happy everyday in my life " .. More than a year has passed now, I get a text message couple of weeks ago she wants to talk because she's not happy, she wants to know if she can come back..
There may be perks to being single, but relationships are the default mode for human adults conditioned biologically and socially to pair up. It does benefit men a lot They live longer and healthier partly due to generous sex. Married men tend to be happier but that wanes.
@@sleepsmartsmashstress740 the happiest, healthiest, wealthiest group are never married men. Not married. Not single, which is generally an aggregate, which includes men out of relationships and divorce, aka the prime risk group of suicide and other issues. All in all claiming marriage leads to happiness is misleading.
I used to tell my brothers to pay careful attention to the sort of relationship a girl has with her father. If he abandoned her, or was otherwise absent too much she may be insecure, if she constantly rebels against him she may resent other authority figures as well (especially "bossy" guys - like husbands needing to draw a line), if she adores the ground her father walks on, and he spoils her rotten she'll likely be high maintenance. I have never been wrong.
Exactly spot on , dont forget as well that her mothers relation with her father plays an very important role as its like the example for her future relations !
@@ghostworld89 It's hard to predict how kids will react to a parent's infidelity, especially when one parent involves their own children in keeping "the secret". I don't remember how long I had known my husband before I found out his mother was a serial adulteress. It's not a general topic, so it's not a useful metric for judging the character of your date early in the relationship.
She thinks you are not being supportive when you don't agree with her. She is not interested in self improvement and mocks you when you work on improving yourself (because it makes her look bad). She pushes you away from your friends and family. She looks for ways to be the "victim" including rifling thru your personal stuff to find "evidence" she can use against you. Her "stories" change to fit the current situation for her benefit. She knows how to convince others to do her bidding. She uses her health issues as a crutch without making any efforts to improve herself...Do you really want to be with such a person only because they are very "attractive" and the sex is great??? hahahahaha I wont even bring up money issues LOL
Meditation and metacognition help them to be a smart, loving, and humble person because the part of practicing meditation, metacognition, and breath techniques is also practicing self-love, empathy, and gratitude and analyzing less, practicing nonjudgment, and learning brain-heart coherence. Analyzing can be ok. But if you analyze too often what you will eat during day, or when you should exercise, it lowers the energy of your body and you feel unnecessary stress. The less you analyze the more energy you feel and the more happy you feel. As some say self-love isnt the same as self-pleasure. Self-love is a long-term feeling and self-pleasure is a short-term feeling. Self-pleasure is more about materialism. Self-love is more about energy, and peaceful mind, and getting the nutrients for the body, or learning useful skills, feeling happy and healthy.
Absolutely amazing 🤯 this sounds exactly like my last marriage, for more than a decade I was gaslighted and manipulated, divorced now for three years and still trying to reprogram my mind from all the toxic… you’re absolutely beautiful by the way 🥰
Reminds me of a part in the movie Knocked Up when Ben's father says, "You can blame me all you want, but in the end, until you take responsibility for yourself, none of this is going to work out." In other words, if the significant other takes responsibility, things will work out.
glad to see youre teaching young guys actual good advice, lots of young men arent able to get dates because there are no mentors for us, so they turn to guys like fresh and fits or better bachelor ( who i dont support )
Have you bought your girl flowers to get her in the mood, have you brought your girl on a date and spent money you would rather use on yourself but want to make her happy so you get some nookie at night, have you bought her gifts, payed her bills, etc...you have payed for nookie...nothing is free
You are real, Anna! I've watched you (your videos) on and off for nearly two years - through terrible tribulation, healing, and niw growth. Thank you so very much for your genuine heartfelt inspiration and insight. Your videos are stellar! - Mark
@@sleepsmartsmashstress740 Super manipulative behavior is moving a lot of blood out of a guys brain to inflate the special part. Cookie nookie = she's a winner! You lose again haha.
@@metalmike570 To me brain is the most special part What is the hesitation about use of penis. Bible thumpers have made the genitals into curse words or swear words which needs to shift or we would stay in the dirty gutter. I never lose If you have plenty of blood strong heart and patent blood vessels you must be able to pump enough blood into the penis no matter what. I still dont get what your point is She has not won anything yet Sharp guys are able to get past the manipulative behaviours.
It would bother me a lot to see myself being obviously manipulated. I'd also be bothered to know that the girl thinks that I'm too stupid to tell I'm being used and manipulated. To me, that sounds like your lady friend is more of an adversary than a partner to share with all that life has to offer. Red flag city.
When I was manipulated when I was 17 and tossed over like a garden salad I look back at it and I'm happy without such chaos,I can say it was a great learning experience, and that values stem from rules and creating your own pathway.
I wish, I had this info before , it would have saved me some aggrivations. Your my hero. I love my woman, I just need to how to handle her better. I have no interest in staying single.
Helpful hint: If she EVER wants to go without you to Vegas--much less ostensibly for "a girlfriend's bachelorette party"--pack up her stuff, put it on the lawn, and change the locks while she's gone.
Anna, as always, on her "A game." "No" is the most powerful word that disenfranchises various con-persons, grifters, manipulators that target you. Practice a dead-pan (aka "don't give a shit" as to the outcome, as it is the only way for you to win) "No" response 'til it is as common as breathing. Remember, your Ego is not your Amigo. It IS how the wealthy & powerful navigate biz/life. Thank You Anna & All The Best.
12:02 "If you think you are being manipulated..." I can't help but think that this statement should end with "you are" followed by "If you don't think you are being manipulated, you are." But I am a weak man who just wants to love and be loved without navigating this nightmare labyrinth of despair called dating.
@@YourWingmam I'm quite sure you didn't take quite the message from that which I intended. That's alright though. I was being facetious anyhow. As for the healing and such, that's a kind sentiment and I thank you. However, I surmise that ship has sailed. Maybe in the next lifetime. Have a wonderful evening though and thank you again.
Meditation and metacognition help them to be a smart, loving, and humble person because the part of practicing meditation, metacognition, and breath techniques is also practicing self-love, empathy, and gratitude and analyzing less, practicing nonjudgment, and learning brain-heart coherence. Analyzing can be ok. But if you analyze too often what you will eat during day, or when you should exercise, it lowers the energy of your body and you feel unnecessary stress. The less you analyze the more energy you feel and the more happy you feel. As some say self-love isnt the same as self-pleasure. Self-love is a long-term feeling and self-pleasure is a short-term feeling. Self-pleasure is more about materialism. Self-love is more about energy, and peaceful mind, and getting the nutrients for the body, or learning useful skills, feeling happy and healthy.
Oh....you described some points which lots of guys were talking as tokens of love but in actually those were manipulations....Thanks for exposing and educating....☺😊😉
Got to Thailand or the Philippines and get with a province girl in her 20s. She will be the best for you, choose carefully because the Fem-bot propaganda is starting to creep in over there too. Never bring here back to the west, she will turn toxic like the ones here.
@@kenjohnson961 Filipinas are the best. I had one as a gf. Looking back, she was a chameleon, but in the best way possible. This was a woman who was grossed out by oral sex, but gave it to me because I asked for it. She NEVER refused to give me intercourse. To celebrate a big birthday, I decided to jump from a plane. She accompanied me to the drop zone outside the city to witness and show support, and she chose to do a tandem jump from 10,000', on her own dime. Unfortunately, she was 5 or 6 years my senior, and she wanted a husband and babies. I wasn't ready for that life. So in fairness to her, I ended it. Good times though. I was her alpha male. I told subsequent GFs that she chose to jump from a plane to impress me.
It come down to evolutionary stages females have to adhere to within their make up? One man and one woman husband and wife doesn't work BECOS theres no experience behind it's a trail and error approach and hope for the best Scenario that won't last long ever?
However to add insult to injury? The Arabs and Mormons and several wives and several husbands are way better BECOS these type learning from each others mistakes as they go long and experience are gain from it for the Female and Male evolutionary stages of their personality which is not taught to us it has to come from observation and experience otherwise their end up left out so to speak and the nex person or relationship ends up filling in it's evolutionary stage it has to adhere to; with great painfully process for the couple? Where as the ARABS and MORMONS and multiple wives or husbands got the ground covered to fill the personality evolutionary stages that comes with our built in nature that needs to be adhere to this is NOT taught in Universities and schools? Only unusual people who been through it can explain it properly of how personality evolutionary stages works it take years and experience to come to this conclusion?
At 66 and 2 divorces, I'm done. Fed up with all the underhand tactics and manipulations. When the world opens up, I'm off to lie on a beach with a beer or two for the rest of my life.🍺🍺
Paul Proteus on the 'hot pocket' "It's just not as entertaining as it used to be".... as a man matures logically and emotionally and has been 'there' over and over.
it makes me wonder, i wonder why the majority of us guys, men, or just a large portion of us, why are we never taught the social dynamics or social-skills, social behaviors or flirting behaviors or just skills(as much as that word annoys me) that are essential, imperative for talking to and interacting, attracting women or attracting a woman to become our girlfriend, why are we not taught this stuff in our teens, formative years? since there is a huge dating coach or just dating advice industry, it feels overwhelming
@Ray Jones then why do you think so many guys are not taught this stuff in our teens, formative years? why are we never taught the social-skills that are essential for success with women?
That’s something you need to ask your mothers. Mothers should be teaching their sons this. But if stupid men are taught by manipulative mothers how to accept manipulation from their wives, the horrid cycle perpetuates itself. Same goes the reverse for bad fathers.
Men and women communicate differently. Acknowledged. But if another grown ass person can’t have an adult conversation in a mature way about your relationship, ditch them. Your mind reading skills will never be sufficient.
In my university girls have it as a hobby to play mind games, some of them were staring and giving me all kinds of assured signals and when I approach they act surprised or uninterested which caused me to stop approaching completely and focus on my goals which is mentally/physically/psychologically much more healthier. I think I am handsome by the number of daily smiles and stares I get, but they done lost their chance with me I aint engaging anymore in those pitty worthless mind-games!
@@YourWingmam Thank you so much for your reply and kindess. And to add on what I said, now the signals/smiles/stares have increased so much since I genuinly give the vibe of not wanting anything nor caring, but if they really want to talk to me they are smart they'll create the perfect situation, based on my past experiences I am 100% not putting the slightest effort unless I find the 1!!! I hate games and using people that is why ill never engage in flings nor benefit type relationships.
Anna - first of all, Thank you for your advice! I have been taking notes of what your saying ,you're brilliant! I laughed a couple of times, my -ex was a lot what you have pointed out. Your a beautiful woman by the way- I would love to find someone like you. Keep on doing this please. John
They cant tell you what they are thinking because they dont know themselves. And by the time they start speaking they have stated to think of something else. If the first thought was about going for romantic picnic by the time the conversation gets there she is thinking of the laundry. Go figure. That is called lateral feminine thinking. Men think linearly in stead
Last ex first time we were together she accused me of cheating, we had only been talking to each other for 3 days. I couldn’t get it out of her head for weeks.
@@lightsout176 Society shouldn’t hate period. when you say you could not get this out of her head, did she give you head in the first place where you got it stuck? It happened once in ER or Greys Anatomy when they made lover using crazy glue and he could not get it out her vagina either
@@lightsout176 You went into too much detail. Less is more. The rest of the community is not interested in your exes kinky behaviour.If you don't like her moves then show her the gate.
@@sleepsmartsmashstress740 Nah, she never did, I was basically supposed to fulfill her fantasies, and the moment I felt safe she accused me of thinking of someone else and she said things like the FBI was gonna take her into protective care and give her a new identity or some bullshit...she had epilepsy wouldn’t take her meds or sleep until I told her to. I felt like she really needed a stable relationship. She worked hard and deserved it. Then she changed. Thanks for the laugh.
SIS ...MANY HAPPY RETURNS... MOMENTO MORI ... the gargoyle will always lead by example... I will always be aware of my blindspots .... I am a positive motivator never a manipulator... TRULY ENJOY YOUR DAY ...as I will enjoy mine aloha oe
@@YourWingmam I thought this was pretty comprehensive and captured quite a few of the tactics I’ve experienced! :) Guilt tripping and excessive emotion I’d say are the ones I have dealt with most
I can't believe how manipulative men and women can't be. Wish I had got your advice when I was younger. Would have saved me a lot of pain and heartache. A bit older and wiser now? Great video with lots of good advice. Going to watch your 50 60 + video. See what tip you have for me.😉
Hi Anna, I have a suggestion for a show. How about doing a show on woman of Parental Alienation who grew up hating a parent. Shared persecutory delusion.
It's so exact what you are saying about this toxic person. I wish i had known earlieer about this type of "human" person(s) in life. Thank you for this channel. Love from The Netherlands
I tell you one tactic, it goes like this. "I am not interested in you but that friend of mine that you met MAY be interested". "If you let me friend zone you then perhaps I call you when she comes to see me." I am very surprised how many older women do not know what the "friend zone" is. Women can be considered as dense as men when they need to hear "I will not be friend zoned" a thousand times in a week.
Same here, exactly the same. At 9 years old she was DEMANDING from me a new iPhone, a new iPad and a Mac book Pro. Then wanted me to pay thousands so she could have,"a once in a life time" school trip to China! When I said no she refused to ever see me again......that was 9 years ago and never layed eyes on either of them since 🎉🎉🎉 Definitely her mother's daughter !
All true stuff here. She manipulated me by faking a pregnancy for a whole month, ignoring my calls , didn’t want to get the test. She was so obsessed with dragging the situation out, I was worried as heck because I just met this damn girl, but man it was a headache. Definitely won’t be dating for a while.
My ex uses all of these, I'm really hurt after investing 8 years in the marriage but I leave it as some good years and moved on. I've grown and we are now on different paths I'm ok with that. I'm a rock star (lol) so women being attracted to me isn''t a problem. You do have a lot of interesting points to keep me in the right frame of mind. Besides being so beautiful you are so intelligent which I find a huge attraction ! I have the biggest crush on U
Do you know what really pisses them off when you outright deny them sex saying you're not in the mood because Lord forbid that a man cannot be in the mood for intimate love making
Great video Anna, everyone needs to learn about how people can manipulate relationships happend to me, I recoverd when I landed bac at YVR felt better looked cross at grouse mountain with my tim hortons thought thank Christ I’m away from that relationship , keep up great work Anna
I've seen rants going on about woman helping men are bad simce we only want what we can get so I'm like ok so your mad the ladies are calling you out silly trashy woman want treated like it's 1950's but act like they don't have enough to-do but look good and spend like they own it what they don't realise we will just look over you without a second thought the beauty is meaningless when it's all spent there still a silly woman that's still not worth the time even more so
Sorry for your loss ,I had mine through my wild years, you are brave. Vegas, lol, your a poet and don’t know it. She could arch her back, cry ,cook, and flatter. She is not going to Vegas without me, that is a dealbreaker unless the guy is fool. Like Forest Gump , I know what love is.
Charisma.... yeah that's what I was attracted to.....😄. It's that boo-tay that gets me distracted and in trouble. Oh yeah.......😭. Good vid Anna! Should have seen a vid like this 35 years ago.
It's not just girlfriends and spouses who use this stuff on men. My sister tries to manipulate me all the time by trying to make me feel guilt and pity. She asked me to drive her to a doctor's appointment and then stuck me with the bill for lunch afterward. I mowed her lawn, and then while on the way to lunch she announced she didn't bring any money with her. She tells me she has no social life and is all alone, but when I offer to come over she already has plans. Manipulation is second nature to females. By the way, the last time she pulled this shit on me I made her use her credit card. The woman has plenty of money; she just doesn't think she should have to spend any of it as long as there's a man around. She keeps a ledger detailing exactly what her current boyfriend has given her along with a dollar estimate of its worth. She also keeps a running total. With women it's always what can men do for them.
Women’s memories are also compromised in terms of accuracy given the emotion. Emotion is the bed of memory but it is also SUBJECTIVE. Women remember what they want to remember whenever it’s convenient and will skew memories to fit their purpose of manipulation.
Dear Adorably Cheesy Anna: First things first; Did you get your goodies this weekend? Did that place end up opening? I hope you were able to get your coffee and chocolate. Well, I will admit to you, I have dealt with these kinds of females before, and sadly as I have said before, I put up with it for way tooooooooo long. The bad thing about those women is that the good times can be fun, amazing and memorable; unfortunately the bad experiences eventually end up outweighing the positive ones. I did learn a bit from this video as I always do. Also, and I truly mean this, you did a great job keeping it light, and enjoyable in what could be a very dark topic for some of us men, because a lot of men have truly fallen for those women. Well, that is all for now. I will say Anna, I hope the rest of the week is amazing for you, and I know you have something to celebrate this weekend. I hope you have a blast and get plenty of gifts. Once again Anna, you looked incredibly beautiful. Hug and a big peck on each cheek. If we do not hear from you again, Happy Birthday on Monday!!!
They weren't open but I managed to get some chocolate elsewhere! And you are not alone in having dealt with these kind of selfish women! Thanks for being here, Joe! :)
@@YourWingmam Not sure if you will read this, but I hope you do. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ANNA!!!! Hug and a huge kiss on each cheek!!! You are such beautiful woman!!!!
The tomboy girls that grow up with brothers seem to be the best no-nonsense girls, but every single guy they meet loves them so that's almost impossible to get. 💪🏻😃😃😃😃😃👍🏻
You missed out a big one, but it's related to #3, that of 'jam tomorrow,' ie baiting a man early on by her behaviour that she's interested in him sexually when all along she's only doing it to bait. Think of Scarlett o'Hara in Gone with the Wind. Yes, most women aren't that overt about it, but many are much more subtle and go very far in their approach in manipulating men to try to lure him to become a new orbiter by the push/pull technique that yes, she'd like a physical relationship, but can't right now because, reasons, or will ask the guy out, only to pull out at the last minute because, obscure reasons (very implausible ones), or even grope a guy, groom him, allow him to put his hand on her arm as he talks to her, that increasing physical intimacy as you get to know each other, only to withdraw when she realises she's got you hooked, or revealing some personal info about her to artificially create intimacy and when you relate to that next time you see her, she smirks in such a way that it was all an act. All this is so common it's the default. It's why men give up. Women game themselves out of being dated because this is all there is. The funny thing is that women assume the guy is going to be upset when he realises he's been duped, even be angry. That way she's managed to prove to herself that she's taken a guy down, because she's got more power than him. She doesn't like it if the guy doesn't get upset or angry and is still his cheery, mischievous self with other people - and women - in front of her as it shows her that she doesn't have as much power over the guy or men as she thought she did. That's when her attraction to him vanishes. What Chads do is allow women to think they're manipulating him when all along he's manipulating her, but acting naïve about it. The relationship/affair can only begin if she thinks she's successfully manipulating the guy at every turn. Where Chad wins is that he lets her think that, even though she isn't succeeding at it, but she can't tell he's pulling her strings. And that's standard practice. If a guy isn't willing to do that, or be manipulated by her, he's on his own.
I Enjoy You immensely. Your well Intention pictorial explanations leaves an indelible message in one's mind and heart....as to what thery're going through or feeling with regard to their current situation. YOU GO GIRL!... you're the best wingman I've heard of all these other wingman female/male. you're a smart cookie and I admire you and you're (hidden HELLOOOOOO! at times inner-child delivery).U got me in stitches,.....I love it!....find myself secretly adoring you. You're real and forthright. You blow the competition away. Love listening to you, don't change a thing Dear.😘
You are so charming Anna, with those lovely little roses on your blouse en the flirting with the camara! But let's not forget the content; this video is very valuable, it exactly describes someone I was 12 years of my life with. Thank you.
Good evening Anna. Just wish to say thank you so much for all of your information and guidance. Wish I had found your channel a while ago. Amazing how much seems counterintuitive.
So why do girls do this when you make it clear you want long term relationship? I’m a rather quiet guy so I analyze the fuck out of everyone I date and I leave if I see something fishy or something I don’t like. It’s so frustrating to find love these days boys it really sucks.
Anna, have you done a video about mirroring in order to manipulate? A woman I'm interested in (yes still) drove me away by doing that. It felt so contrived and obvious that I had a hard time dealing with it. She's extremely intelligent and so quick thinking (I'm ok intellectually but not a super fast thinker) that it made me paranoid because of how quickly she would do it. It was sort of overwhelming. I think she was trying to convince me that we are a match made in heaven but it came across to me as being manipulative in the extreme. So who's crazy, me or her? lol
Never help a man. When you step in for him, you take away his power. When you step in for him, you take away your power. Your power is in your femininity. Your femininity is in your trust. Your trust comes from self. Your self-trust helps him. Your self-trust inspires him. Your self-trust holds space for him to become a better man - the one he sees you see him as. The one you hold him accountable to be. You see, when you've embodied your femininity, your authentic essence, you’re powerful. Your allure is enough to inspire him. He wants to. He’s pulled too. Self-trust is your safety. You know that the man for you wants to win you over. You know that no challenge will keep him from you. You know that he will figure it out. He needs no help from you. He’s a man. He’s strong. He’s capable. See him as such. See him as your hero. It doesn’t matter how much you think you know; you don’t know. Because If you knew, you’d understand that at the very core of who he is, he needs to be seen as competent. He wants to save the day, win you over and overcome any challenge in between. When you help in any way, you suggest he doesn’t know; he’s not capable and essentially not good enough. You emasculate him. And fundamentally, you rob him and yourself of his deep desire to be your knight in shining armour; He wants this just as much as you want to be seen, cherished, and adored for who you are, as you are, imperfections and all! When it comes to matters of the heart, it will always remain that the most committed man is the one who captured the heart of the woman who stayed in her worth. The woman who understands at the core of her being that she is too valuable to help him figure it out. When you're that woman. You’ll attract that man and will love you forever and stay with you and be loyal.
All these time I thought I was the issue in my relationship I give all my best but she were able to win me by making me feel like im te hero in her life and blamed me later on mistake reactions remind me of my guilt ; she never had to explain things to me but when I do not come with answer she started that crying games ,this video now gives me strength to see I never was the problem it's a manipulation *,❤
The manipulation im dealing with is she knows I love her and will always do things to help her. She calls and says in a sweet voice how she needs my help and of course like an idiot I can't resist helping her as if we are dedicated GF and BF.... or even as her friends tell me.... that im like a husband to her in always taking care of her. The problem is.... despite how close we've become she doesn't commit to our relationship and continually breaks my heart by dating other men. So she cashes in on having me there for her given I love her.... she manipulates me because of my love so I will be there for her like a husband. Worse still..... when I describe disappointment in her actions of not showing loyalty to our relationship.... and we are close and do get intimate.... when I express my hurt feelings and displeasure she accuses me of purposefully making her feel guilty and says I am manipulating her. She again for the umpteenth time has told she needs her space but that of course she will miss our relationship and this time I made sure that the last text between us was from her to me and I've gone silent.... no reply. You want space here it is. I love her but yet long for the day that I am totally indifferent to the thoughts of her.... the day when thinking about all we shared doesn't cause a longing sinking feeling but instead generates no emotion at all....just becomes a memory and recall of fact. I long for that day for then I will be free. But before that I know pretty surely that soon the ,"hey how are you" text or phone call is going to come and I am wondering how I will handle that. So much manipulation.
For younger men, for what it's worth, there's nothing like letting a woman sense that you're demonstrably on the verge of breaking up to bring her to reality.
More problems than she is worth . . . She extracts a price for everything . . . If she does enough positive things for you without an exchange price then she wouldn't have to worry about any return benefits. All to often she knows she receives more than she gives so she has to manipulate instead. Just a constant headache . . .
So glad I am now single. Can't be bothered with all these mind games and deceptions any more.
Stick to the truth always, brother. Let 'em taste their own ridiculous pride.
I hear ya :)
Hahahahaahahhaahahhahaahhahahah...
Amen To That Dude👍👍👍
It only gets better bro! Focus on yourself and those you care about and you'll be that much more fulfilled 💯💯💯
Guys, listen up. This is a veteran of two divorces speaking that learned this the hard way. You get it here without the pain. You see the leash come out, RUN, also, if she is a professional victim, run! There are no female refs in the NFL or Soccer because they will throw a flag, or give a red card for an offense that happened 3 years ago
2 divorces myself. Red flags are a gift that we always tend to turn down and look past. At almost 1/2 century old I vow never again!
They never forget the good things you've done for them, only remember the bad.
@@orgami100 actually in my situation both of my ex wives would jump at the chance to give it a better shot...and they both initiated the divorce. 🤦♂️🤣 I get what your saying, though.
@@memyselfi3520 I got one for you about ex-wife's.
The last one was a 5-foot 5 beauty, she left because she wasn't happy, then on Facebook few months later there she's married to her lesbian lover with a heading " I'm going to be happy everyday in my life " ..
More than a year has passed now, I get a text message couple of weeks ago she wants to talk because she's not happy, she wants to know if she can come back..
@@orgami100 damn dude...that’s more Jerry Springer than my second!
Girls are stressful af, it's best to stay single.
There may be perks to being single, but relationships are the default mode for human adults conditioned biologically and socially to pair up. It does benefit men a lot They live longer and healthier partly due to generous sex. Married men tend to be happier but that wanes.
@@sleepsmartsmashstress740 the happiest, healthiest, wealthiest group are never married men. Not married. Not single, which is generally an aggregate, which includes men out of relationships and divorce, aka the prime risk group of suicide and other issues.
All in all claiming marriage leads to happiness is misleading.
They're harpies. They fly in destroy everything in their path then leave you with the mess.
AF!!!!!!
@SNAKE PLISSKIN I'm using Rumpy Pumpy
I used to tell my brothers to pay careful attention to the sort of relationship a girl has with her father. If he abandoned her, or was otherwise absent too much she may be insecure, if she constantly rebels against him she may resent other authority figures as well (especially "bossy" guys - like husbands needing to draw a line), if she adores the ground her father walks on, and he spoils her rotten she'll likely be high maintenance. I have never been wrong.
Her Relationship with her father and God determines everything 🙏🏾🙏🏾💯
Exactly spot on , dont forget as well that her mothers relation with her father plays an very important role as its like the example for her future relations !
What about unemployed dads who would bring other women over when wife was working? 😮
@@ghostworld89 It's hard to predict how kids will react to a parent's infidelity, especially when one parent involves their own children in keeping "the secret". I don't remember how long I had known my husband before I found out his mother was a serial adulteress. It's not a general topic, so it's not a useful metric for judging the character of your date early in the relationship.
Never swim where others have drowned. Welcome to the Cluster B seascape.
Funniest thing about this video is she uses the term alpha women😂
So very true.
She thinks you are not being supportive when you don't agree with her. She is not interested in self improvement and mocks you when you work on improving yourself (because it makes her look bad). She pushes you away from your friends and family. She looks for ways to be the "victim" including rifling thru your personal stuff to find "evidence" she can use against you. Her "stories" change to fit the current situation for her benefit. She knows how to convince others to do her bidding. She uses her health issues as a crutch without making any efforts to improve herself...Do you really want to be with such a person only because they are very "attractive" and the sex is great??? hahahahaha I wont even bring up money issues LOL
one word describe behavior fittingly .... narcissist
Yep ...like watching a train 🚆 wreck in motion ...its the
Same reason the devil talked to eve first
Wow that fit my ex to a perfect t!
TRUTH
@@jimmyknight1418 Poor guy!
Anna, if only all women, or even some women, were as mature, sensible, and level-headed as you, there would be far far far fewer break-ups
Lol
DW, Anna would eat you up and spit you out before breakfast
@@russellmiles2861 I think she'd swallow actually
Meditation and metacognition help them to be a smart, loving, and humble person because the part of practicing meditation, metacognition, and breath techniques is also practicing self-love, empathy, and gratitude and analyzing less, practicing nonjudgment, and learning brain-heart coherence.
Analyzing can be ok.
But if you analyze too often what you will eat during day, or when you should exercise, it lowers the energy of your body and you feel unnecessary stress.
The less you analyze the more energy you feel and the more happy you feel.
As some say self-love isnt the same as self-pleasure.
Self-love is a long-term feeling and self-pleasure is a short-term feeling.
Self-pleasure is more about materialism.
Self-love is more about energy, and peaceful mind, and getting the nutrients for the body, or learning useful skills, feeling happy and healthy.
You summed up my ex, exactly as it was. I wish I’d heard this years ago, would have saved a lot of pain. Ty.
❤️❤️. The thing is they manipulate to feel loved. The antidote is to show love to others and yourself.
Pain of relationships is inescapable. None one escapes that . Think of it as a side effect of love. Might wish to add to the list of taxes and death.
@@sleepsmartsmashstress740 well said.
Absolutely amazing 🤯 this sounds exactly like my last marriage, for more than a decade I was gaslighted and manipulated, divorced now for three years and still trying to reprogram my mind from all the toxic… you’re absolutely beautiful by the way 🥰
Even from Europe, it's always a pleasure listening to you, Anna
Reminds me of a part in the movie Knocked Up when Ben's father says, "You can blame me all you want, but in the end, until you take responsibility for yourself, none of this is going to work out." In other words, if the significant other takes responsibility, things will work out.
Good reference! Both have to take responsibility, can’t be one sided though :)
@@YourWingmam That’s a fact. I guess that’s what they mean when they say it takes two to tango.
Boy, you described my first wife perfectly in Tactic #1 - She really messed me up for quite a while.
Sounds like she's no longer your wife, so at least there's that! Thanks for watching! :)
@@YourWingmam No, wife #2 was great. None of those issues at all. Sadly, divorced after 14 years (Too complicated to explain)
How's #3 coming along.?
@@orgami100 LOL -- Someone told me I would marry again. Not on my current agenda though.
@@paulg2132 You never known till you'll met the wrong one again.
I don't believe that there is a right one at least for me.
This is great advice and great value.
There are some women who will be pissed off, as you are exposing them.
Thank you for sharing.
glad to see youre teaching young guys actual good advice, lots of young men arent able to get dates because there are no mentors for us, so they turn to guys like fresh and fits or better bachelor ( who i dont support )
There's no coincidence this just popped up! THANK YOU ANNA!
I pay attention ;) well, sometimes lol Thanks for watching! :)
@@YourWingmam you da Bomb!
Theres never free nookie it always comes at a cost.
If you believe that then you have your own issues you need to work on
Unless you're getting really technical because relationships are all about using each other but you do it unintentionally and hopefully equally
I don't know about that. I don't think that way about my girlfriend. We aren't perfect of course but she doesn't use sex as a weapon.
Have you bought your girl flowers to get her in the mood, have you brought your girl on a date and spent money you would rather use on yourself but want to make her happy so you get some nookie at night, have you bought her gifts, payed her bills, etc...you have payed for nookie...nothing is free
@@OdinTheGiant Yes.
Get the relationship straight before bedroom stuff happens
If she ignores you for fun she sees you as a source of attention rather than a mate. Immediately cut contact and find someone more attractive.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
You are real, Anna! I've watched you (your videos) on and off for nearly two years - through terrible tribulation, healing, and niw growth. Thank you so very much for your genuine heartfelt inspiration and insight. Your videos are stellar!
- Mark
The "tactic three is a juicy one, let's save it for later" thing is clearly manipulative behavior
Good catch! Though the intention is to ensure y'all watch all the info which helps you as much as me. Win win, no? ;) lol
manipulative behavior tends to be subtle enough to escape detection majority of the times.
@@sleepsmartsmashstress740 Super manipulative behavior is moving a lot of blood out of a guys brain to inflate the special part. Cookie nookie = she's a winner! You lose again haha.
@@metalmike570 To me brain is the most special part What is the hesitation about use of penis. Bible thumpers have made the genitals into curse words or swear words which needs to shift or we would stay in the dirty gutter. I never lose If you have plenty of blood strong heart and patent blood vessels you must be able to pump enough blood into the penis no matter what. I still dont get what your point is She has not won anything yet Sharp guys are able to get past the manipulative behaviours.
I almost fell for these tactics and found myself digging a rabbit hole for my own self destruction thank you so much for this video!
Glad you got out before you were buried in misery!
It would bother me a lot to see myself being obviously manipulated. I'd also be bothered to know that the girl thinks that I'm too stupid to tell I'm being used and manipulated. To me, that sounds like your lady friend is more of an adversary than a partner to share with all that life has to offer. Red flag city.
If she's not on your page, it's time to turn the page, no your worth.nobody deserves to be manipulated.
Showing the water works sign, took me way back to my third grade teacher! That triggered a few memories. My, was childhood that long ago?
When I was manipulated when I was 17 and tossed over like a garden salad I look back at it and I'm happy without such chaos,I can say it was a great learning experience, and that values stem from rules and creating your own pathway.
I'm sorry to hear about that, and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
I wish, I had this info before , it would have saved me some aggrivations. Your my hero. I love my woman, I just need to how to handle her better. I have no interest in staying single.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Helpful hint: If she EVER wants to go without you to Vegas--much less ostensibly for "a girlfriend's bachelorette party"--pack up her stuff, put it on the lawn, and change the locks while she's gone.
My ex went on a girls night to GA, she was never the same again ☠️
"Cookie and nookie". That was a fun one!
My ex got a double doctorate in manipulation; she went to “UMG”, the University of Mother and Grandmother.🤦🏾♂️
Anna, as always, on her "A game."
"No" is the most powerful word that disenfranchises various con-persons, grifters, manipulators that target you.
Practice a dead-pan (aka "don't give a shit" as to the outcome, as it is the only way for you to win) "No" response 'til it is as common as breathing.
Remember, your Ego is not your Amigo.
It IS how the wealthy & powerful navigate biz/life.
Thank You Anna & All The Best.
12:02 "If you think you are being manipulated..." I can't help but think that this statement should end with "you are" followed by "If you don't think you are being manipulated, you are." But I am a weak man who just wants to love and be loved without navigating this nightmare labyrinth of despair called dating.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@@YourWingmam Yeah, sorry for the doom and gloom, things have been a struggle.
But you have a good point! Think about what it means though - so, we are always being manipulated? Is that it? What's your thoughts on this? @@ts25679
It's frightening how accurate you describe every relationship I've ever been in without knowing me. Almost like there's 1 common denominator here. 🤣😅😔
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@@YourWingmam I'm quite sure you didn't take quite the message from that which I intended. That's alright though. I was being facetious anyhow. As for the healing and such, that's a kind sentiment and I thank you. However, I surmise that ship has sailed. Maybe in the next lifetime. Have a wonderful evening though and thank you again.
I've never thought a woman would admit women can be manipulative
Lol
Meditation and metacognition help them to be a smart, loving, and humble person because the part of practicing meditation, metacognition, and breath techniques is also practicing self-love, empathy, and gratitude and analyzing less, practicing nonjudgment, and learning brain-heart coherence.
Analyzing can be ok.
But if you analyze too often what you will eat during day, or when you should exercise, it lowers the energy of your body and you feel unnecessary stress.
The less you analyze the more energy you feel and the more happy you feel.
As some say self-love isnt the same as self-pleasure.
Self-love is a long-term feeling and self-pleasure is a short-term feeling.
Self-pleasure is more about materialism.
Self-love is more about energy, and peaceful mind, and getting the nutrients for the body, or learning useful skills, feeling happy and healthy.
Oh....you described some points which lots of guys were talking as tokens of love but in actually those were manipulations....Thanks for exposing and educating....☺😊😉
Don't Bother With Them. Life Is Much Easier 😁
Lol why say that?
Thank you for your helpful advice to all of us.
Got to Thailand or the Philippines and get with a province girl in her 20s. She will be the best for you, choose carefully because the Fem-bot propaganda is starting to creep in over there too. Never bring here back to the west, she will turn toxic like the ones here.
@@kenjohnson961 Filipinas are the best. I had one as a gf. Looking back, she was a chameleon, but in the best way possible. This was a woman who was grossed out by oral sex, but gave it to me because I asked for it. She NEVER refused to give me intercourse. To celebrate a big birthday, I decided to jump from a plane. She accompanied me to the drop zone outside the city to witness and show support, and she chose to do a tandem jump from 10,000', on her own dime. Unfortunately, she was 5 or 6 years my senior, and she wanted a husband and babies. I wasn't ready for that life. So in fairness to her, I ended it. Good times though. I was her alpha male. I told subsequent GFs that she chose to jump from a plane to impress me.
It come down to evolutionary stages females have to adhere to within their make up?
One man and one woman husband and wife doesn't work BECOS theres no experience behind it's a trail and error approach and hope for the best Scenario that won't last long ever?
However to add insult to injury? The Arabs and Mormons and several wives and several husbands are way better BECOS these type learning from each others mistakes as they go long and experience are gain from it for the Female and Male evolutionary stages of their personality which is not taught to us it has to come from observation and experience otherwise their end up left out so to speak and the nex person or relationship ends up filling in it's evolutionary stage it has to adhere to; with great painfully process for the couple?
Where as the ARABS and MORMONS and multiple wives or husbands got the ground covered to fill the personality evolutionary stages that comes with our built in nature that needs to be adhere to this is NOT taught in Universities and schools? Only unusual people who been through it can explain it properly of how personality evolutionary stages works it take years and experience to come to this conclusion?
No triangulation! No speaking poorly behind his back! If shes is caught speaking poorly of you behind your back, there's nothing left to trust
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
WOW ,Nookie haven't heard that in forty years! You're looking GORGEOUS as usual.
"We remember everything". Sometimes not very accurately.
Right all kinds of twisties; some issue in the brain.
I like how animated you are despite how mature your mind is Anna.
At 66 and 2 divorces, I'm done. Fed up with all the underhand tactics and manipulations. When the world opens up, I'm off to lie on a beach with a beer or two for the rest of my life.🍺🍺
Sounds absolute heaven dude. I should have done that years ago before the toxic manipulating bitch manage to pretty much bring me to my knees. 🍻🍻🍻
Paul Proteus on the 'hot pocket' "It's just not as entertaining as it used to be".... as a man matures logically and emotionally and has been 'there' over and over.
it makes me wonder, i wonder why the majority of us guys, men, or just a large portion of us, why are we never taught the social dynamics or social-skills, social behaviors or flirting behaviors or just skills(as much as that word annoys me) that are essential, imperative for talking to and interacting, attracting women or attracting a woman to become our girlfriend, why are we not taught this stuff in our teens, formative years? since there is a huge dating coach or just dating advice industry, it feels overwhelming
@Ray Jones then why do you think so many guys are not taught this stuff in our teens, formative years? why are we never taught the social-skills that are essential for success with women?
That’s something you need to ask your mothers. Mothers should be teaching their sons this. But if stupid men are taught by manipulative mothers how to accept manipulation from their wives, the horrid cycle perpetuates itself. Same goes the reverse for bad fathers.
Interesting that girls I've been interacting with can't remember any of the conversations I can. My long term memory is really good.
Yep I make sure my memory is ON POINT
Men and women communicate differently. Acknowledged. But if another grown ass person can’t have an adult conversation in a mature way about your relationship, ditch them. Your mind reading skills will never be sufficient.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Great. I now know how to manipulate men. I'll start applying these straight away.
Fellas! Watch out for women who are not sympathetic to the pain men suffer at the hands of manipulative women.
In my university girls have it as a hobby to play mind games, some of them were staring and giving me all kinds of assured signals and when I approach they act surprised or uninterested which caused me to stop approaching completely and focus on my goals which is mentally/physically/psychologically much more healthier. I think I am handsome by the number of daily smiles and stares I get, but they done lost their chance with me I aint engaging anymore in those pitty worthless mind-games!
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation and I pray you're able to do what is truly best 🙏
@@YourWingmam Thank you so much for your reply and kindess. And to add on what I said, now the signals/smiles/stares have increased so much since I genuinly give the vibe of not wanting anything nor caring, but if they really want to talk to me they are smart they'll create the perfect situation, based on my past experiences I am 100% not putting the slightest effort unless I find the 1!!! I hate games and using people that is why ill never engage in flings nor benefit type relationships.
Anna - first of all, Thank you for your advice! I have been taking notes of what your saying ,you're brilliant! I laughed a couple of times, my -ex was a lot what you have pointed out. Your a beautiful woman by the way- I would love to find someone like you. Keep on doing this please. John
This is already starting off to be a deep video good information 👍🏽ℹ️🙂💖
Glad you think so! Let me know what you think when you've finished watching! :)
That’s 100% right you saying she manipulated me so much she destroyed me badly seriously
I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
If I had 3 wishes they would be for a chick who tells you what she is thinking and gives you a chance to fairly negotiate before she wastes money.
They cant tell you what they are thinking because they dont know themselves. And by the time they start speaking they have stated to think of something else. If the first thought was about going for romantic picnic by the time the conversation gets there she is thinking of the laundry. Go figure. That is called lateral feminine thinking. Men think linearly in stead
Last ex first time we were together she accused me of cheating, we had only been talking to each other for 3 days. I couldn’t get it out of her head for weeks.
@@lightsout176 Society shouldn’t hate period. when you say you could not get this out of her head, did she give you head in the first place where you got it stuck? It happened once in ER or Greys Anatomy when they made lover using crazy glue and he could not get it out her vagina either
@@lightsout176 You went into too much detail. Less is more. The rest of the community is not interested in your exes kinky behaviour.If you don't like her moves then show her the gate.
@@sleepsmartsmashstress740 Nah, she never did, I was basically supposed to fulfill her fantasies, and the moment I felt safe she accused me of thinking of someone else and she said things like the FBI was gonna take her into protective care and give her a new identity or some bullshit...she had epilepsy wouldn’t take her meds or sleep until I told her to. I felt like she really needed a stable relationship. She worked hard and deserved it. Then she changed. Thanks for the laugh.
SIS ...MANY HAPPY RETURNS... MOMENTO MORI ... the gargoyle will always lead by example... I will always be aware of my blindspots .... I am a positive motivator never a manipulator... TRULY ENJOY YOUR DAY ...as I will enjoy mine aloha oe
Looking forward to seeing the video later when I get home!! :)
Hope you like it! Let me know what you think when you've had a chance to watch it! :)
@@YourWingmam I thought this was pretty comprehensive and captured quite a few of the tactics I’ve experienced! :) Guilt tripping and excessive emotion I’d say are the ones I have dealt with most
I can't believe how manipulative men and women can't be. Wish I had got your advice when I was younger. Would have saved me a lot of pain and heartache. A bit older and wiser now? Great video with lots of good advice. Going to watch your 50 60 + video. See what tip you have for me.😉
Captain Sav-a-ho to the rescue!
Fell for that one more than a few times by the arch nemesis narcissistifrau .....
Why men die sooner, drink, smoke, work late, work on weekends, have a man cave, etc..Great video Anna!!!!! Keep up the good work.
10-4 good buddy!
Hi Anna, I have a suggestion for a show.
How about doing a show on woman of Parental Alienation who grew up hating a parent. Shared persecutory delusion.
It's so exact what you are saying about this toxic person. I wish i had known earlieer about this type of "human" person(s) in life. Thank you for this channel. Love from The Netherlands
You're pretty, probably the wrong thing to say to a relationship coach, but it's true.
I tell you one tactic, it goes like this. "I am not interested in you but that friend of mine that you met MAY be interested". "If you let me friend zone you then perhaps I call you when she comes to see me." I am very surprised how many older women do not know what the "friend zone" is. Women can be considered as dense as men when they need to hear "I will not be friend zoned" a thousand times in a week.
My daughters mom was a liar and manipulator. Sadly no matter how much I tried to teach my daughter not be manipulative she learned to be
🙏 I hope she reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
Same here, exactly the same. At 9 years old she was DEMANDING from me a new iPhone, a new iPad and a Mac book Pro. Then wanted me to pay thousands so she could have,"a once in a life time" school trip to China! When I said no she refused to ever see me again......that was 9 years ago and never layed eyes on either of them since 🎉🎉🎉
Definitely her mother's daughter !
That was funny And educational.
Thank you Sis
😂♥️
My pleasure ❤️
All true stuff here. She manipulated me by faking a pregnancy for a whole month, ignoring my calls , didn’t want to get the test. She was so obsessed with dragging the situation out, I was worried as heck because I just met this damn girl, but man it was a headache. Definitely won’t be dating for a while.
I'm sorry to hear about that, and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
My ex uses all of these, I'm really hurt after investing 8 years in the marriage but I leave it as some good years and moved on. I've grown and we are now on different paths I'm ok with that. I'm a rock star (lol) so women being attracted to me isn''t a problem. You do have a lot of interesting points to keep me in the right frame of mind. Besides being so beautiful you are so intelligent which I find a huge attraction !
I have the biggest crush on U
You *are* a rockstar! Try thinking of those years as an education instead of a bad investment. Thanks for watching, commenting and crushing lol ;)
Holy moly. I just got Bingo in this game. Her name was Alexandra and I saw all of this and quickly broke with her. What a spot on video!
You dodged a bullet 🙏
Do you know what really pisses them off when you outright deny them sex saying you're not in the mood because Lord forbid that a man cannot be in the mood for intimate love making
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Great video Anna, everyone needs to learn about how people can manipulate relationships happend to me, I recoverd when I landed bac at YVR felt better looked cross at grouse mountain with my tim hortons thought thank Christ I’m away from that relationship , keep up great work Anna
Wow, this is brilliant. Anna is going to have a lot of trashy women mad at her.
You mean lot “more” lol
I've seen rants going on about woman helping men are bad simce we only want what we can get so I'm like ok so your mad the ladies are calling you out silly trashy woman want treated like it's 1950's but act like they don't have enough to-do but look good and spend like they own it what they don't realise we will just look over you without a second thought the beauty is meaningless when it's all spent there still a silly woman that's still not worth the time even more so
No, she is gorgeous :)
Sorry for your loss ,I had mine through my wild years, you are brave. Vegas, lol, your a poet and don’t know it. She could arch her back, cry ,cook, and flatter. She is not going to Vegas without me, that is a dealbreaker unless the guy is fool. Like Forest Gump , I know what love is.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Charisma.... yeah that's what I was attracted to.....😄. It's that boo-tay that gets me distracted and in trouble. Oh yeah.......😭. Good vid Anna! Should have seen a vid like this 35 years ago.
That boo-tay will get you if it's any good! lol Thanks for watching, better learning late than never! :)
It's not just girlfriends and spouses who use this stuff on men. My sister tries to manipulate me all the time by trying to make me feel guilt and pity. She asked me to drive her to a doctor's appointment and then stuck me with the bill for lunch afterward. I mowed her lawn, and then while on the way to lunch she announced she didn't bring any money with her. She tells me she has no social life and is all alone, but when I offer to come over she already has plans. Manipulation is second nature to females. By the way, the last time she pulled this shit on me I made her use her credit card. The woman has plenty of money; she just doesn't think she should have to spend any of it as long as there's a man around. She keeps a ledger detailing exactly what her current boyfriend has given her along with a dollar estimate of its worth. She also keeps a running total. With women it's always what can men do for them.
Love Wingman, been watching her for a couple of years, she's not only divine, she's hilarious:)
You are awesome!! :))
Women’s memories are also compromised in terms of accuracy given the emotion. Emotion is the bed of memory but it is also SUBJECTIVE.
Women remember what they want to remember whenever it’s convenient and will skew memories to fit their purpose of manipulation.
Jack and Jill went up the hill each with a buck and a quarter, Jill came down with $2.50! -Andrew Dice Clay
Dear Adorably Cheesy Anna:
First things first; Did you get your goodies this weekend? Did that place end up opening? I hope you were able to get your coffee and chocolate.
Well, I will admit to you, I have dealt with these kinds of females before, and sadly as I have said before, I put up with it for way tooooooooo long. The bad thing about those women is that the good times can be fun, amazing and memorable; unfortunately the bad experiences eventually end up outweighing the positive ones.
I did learn a bit from this video as I always do. Also, and I truly mean this, you did a great job keeping it light, and enjoyable in what could be a very dark topic for some of us men, because a lot of men have truly fallen for those women.
Well, that is all for now. I will say Anna, I hope the rest of the week is amazing for you, and I know you have something to celebrate this weekend. I hope you have a blast and get plenty of gifts. Once again Anna, you looked incredibly beautiful. Hug and a big peck on each cheek. If we do not hear from you again, Happy Birthday on Monday!!!
They weren't open but I managed to get some chocolate elsewhere! And you are not alone in having dealt with these kind of selfish women! Thanks for being here, Joe! :)
@@YourWingmam Not sure if you will read this, but I hope you do. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ANNA!!!! Hug and a huge kiss on each cheek!!! You are such beautiful woman!!!!
The tomboy girls that grow up with brothers seem to be the best no-nonsense girls, but every single guy they meet loves them so that's almost impossible to get. 💪🏻😃😃😃😃😃👍🏻
You missed out a big one, but it's related to #3, that of 'jam tomorrow,' ie baiting a man early on by her behaviour that she's interested in him sexually when all along she's only doing it to bait. Think of Scarlett o'Hara in Gone with the Wind. Yes, most women aren't that overt about it, but many are much more subtle and go very far in their approach in manipulating men to try to lure him to become a new orbiter by the push/pull technique that yes, she'd like a physical relationship, but can't right now because, reasons, or will ask the guy out, only to pull out at the last minute because, obscure reasons (very implausible ones), or even grope a guy, groom him, allow him to put his hand on her arm as he talks to her, that increasing physical intimacy as you get to know each other, only to withdraw when she realises she's got you hooked, or revealing some personal info about her to artificially create intimacy and when you relate to that next time you see her, she smirks in such a way that it was all an act.
All this is so common it's the default. It's why men give up. Women game themselves out of being dated because this is all there is.
The funny thing is that women assume the guy is going to be upset when he realises he's been duped, even be angry. That way she's managed to prove to herself that she's taken a guy down, because she's got more power than him. She doesn't like it if the guy doesn't get upset or angry and is still his cheery, mischievous self with other people - and women - in front of her as it shows her that she doesn't have as much power over the guy or men as she thought she did. That's when her attraction to him vanishes.
What Chads do is allow women to think they're manipulating him when all along he's manipulating her, but acting naïve about it. The relationship/affair can only begin if she thinks she's successfully manipulating the guy at every turn. Where Chad wins is that he lets her think that, even though she isn't succeeding at it, but she can't tell he's pulling her strings. And that's standard practice. If a guy isn't willing to do that, or be manipulated by her, he's on his own.
Cheesy but real ... love 💘 a
Woman who rats out the bad women
I Enjoy You immensely. Your well Intention pictorial explanations leaves an indelible message in one's mind and heart....as to what thery're going through or feeling with regard to their current situation. YOU GO GIRL!... you're the best wingman I've heard of all these other wingman female/male. you're a smart cookie and I admire you and you're (hidden HELLOOOOOO! at times inner-child delivery).U got me in stitches,.....I love it!....find myself secretly adoring you. You're real and forthright. You blow the competition away. Love listening to you, don't change a thing Dear.😘
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Great video! As a women I like to watch this so I won't be like this in a relationship. And P.S. I LOVE you channel name and your personality
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
I feel very lucky to find this channel. thank you !
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Happy Tuesday spicy señorita Anna! Great information 👏🏻
Happy Tuesday, John, hope you got some useful tips and thanks for watching! :)
@@YourWingmam Absolutely 😊
Thanks for spending the time to create and share this content awareness/perspective
My pleasure!
You are so charming Anna, with those lovely little roses on your blouse en the flirting with the camara! But let's not forget the content; this video is very valuable, it exactly describes someone I was 12 years of my life with. Thank you.
Good evening Anna. Just wish to say thank you so much for all of your information and guidance. Wish I had found your channel a while ago. Amazing how much seems counterintuitive.
So why do girls do this when you make it clear you want long term relationship? I’m a rather quiet guy so I analyze the fuck out of everyone I date and I leave if I see something fishy or something I don’t like. It’s so frustrating to find love these days boys it really sucks.
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation and I pray you're able to do what is truly best 🙏
When do you "make it clear"? It's HER job to bring up a relationship.
Anna, have you done a video about mirroring in order to manipulate? A woman I'm interested in (yes still) drove me away by doing that. It felt so contrived and obvious that I had a hard time dealing with it. She's extremely intelligent and so quick thinking (I'm ok intellectually but not a super fast thinker) that it made me paranoid because of how quickly she would do it. It was sort of overwhelming. I think she was trying to convince me that we are a match made in heaven but it came across to me as being manipulative in the extreme. So who's crazy, me or her? lol
I lived this nightmare. It's better to die alone than live with a woman like this. She checked every single box without exception everyday...
Thank you for these videos Anna, you have some great advice
I love the puns and explanations of odd items
Good stuff! Good stuff! Keep it coming.
I'm devouring your videos, Goddess Anna.
Never help a man.
When you step in for him, you take away his power.
When you step in for him, you take away your power.
Your power is in your femininity.
Your femininity is in your trust.
Your trust comes from self.
Your self-trust helps him.
Your self-trust inspires him.
Your self-trust holds space for him to become a better man - the one he sees you see him as. The one you hold him accountable to be.
You see, when you've embodied your femininity, your authentic essence, you’re powerful. Your allure is enough to inspire him. He wants to. He’s pulled too.
Self-trust is your safety. You know that the man for you wants to win you over. You know that no challenge will keep him from you. You know that he will figure it out. He needs no help from you.
He’s a man.
He’s strong.
He’s capable.
See him as such.
See him as your hero.
It doesn’t matter how much you think you know; you don’t know. Because If you knew, you’d understand that at the very core of who he is, he needs to be seen as competent. He wants to save the day, win you over and overcome any challenge in between.
When you help in any way, you suggest he doesn’t know; he’s not capable and essentially not good enough. You emasculate him. And fundamentally, you rob him and yourself of his deep desire to be your knight in shining armour; He wants this just as much as you want to be seen, cherished, and adored for who you are, as you are, imperfections and all!
When it comes to matters of the heart, it will always remain that the most committed man is the one who captured the heart of the woman who stayed in her worth. The woman who understands at the core of her being that she is too valuable to help him figure it out.
When you're that woman.
You’ll attract that man and will love you forever and stay with you and be loyal.
All these time I thought I was the issue in my relationship I give all my best but she were able to win me by making me feel like im te hero in her life and blamed me later on mistake reactions remind me of my guilt ; she never had to explain things to me but when I do not come with answer she started that crying games ,this video now gives me strength to see I never was the problem it's a manipulation *,❤
🙏 I hope she reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
These types of women would make amazing archeologists, they LOVE digging up the past.. 😂 Uh!
Hello Red. Good advice. 😊😊. Have a good day girl ❤️🙏💯👍👌
what about when women give you little put downs for no apparent reason?
Teasing is ok, but there's a line that goes into disrespect. (Tease her back).
The manipulation im dealing with is she knows I love her and will always do things to help her. She calls and says in a sweet voice how she needs my help and of course like an idiot I can't resist helping her as if we are dedicated GF and BF.... or even as her friends tell me.... that im like a husband to her in always taking care of her.
The problem is.... despite how close we've become she doesn't commit to our relationship and continually breaks my heart by dating other men. So she cashes in on having me there for her given I love her.... she manipulates me because of my love so I will be there for her like a husband.
Worse still..... when I describe disappointment in her actions of not showing loyalty to our relationship.... and we are close and do get intimate.... when I express my hurt feelings and displeasure she accuses me of purposefully making her feel guilty and says I am manipulating her.
She again for the umpteenth time has told she needs her space but that of course she will miss our relationship and this time I made sure that the last text between us was from her to me and I've gone silent.... no reply. You want space here it is.
I love her but yet long for the day that I am totally indifferent to the thoughts of her.... the day when thinking about all we shared doesn't cause a longing sinking feeling but instead generates no emotion at all....just becomes a memory and recall of fact. I long for that day for then I will be free. But before that I know pretty surely that soon the ,"hey how are you" text or phone call is going to come and I am wondering how I will handle that.
So much manipulation.
🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.
For younger men, for what it's worth, there's nothing like letting a woman sense that you're demonstrably on the verge of breaking up to bring her to reality.
But if that's what it takes to make her act like a decent human, you are going to be doing this cycle for as long as you know her.
The “waterworks” - does no work with me (often part of a narcs tactics) 😅
More problems than she is worth . . .
She extracts a price for everything . . .
If she does enough positive things for you without an exchange price then she wouldn't have to worry about any return benefits. All to often she knows she receives more than she gives so she has to manipulate instead.
Just a constant headache . . .