i like that you encourage women to be the best versions of themselves instead of using manipulation and deceit to “attract” a man like so many influencers i see. my husband and i watch those types of videos for entertainment because it’s pure delusion. men see through the desperate and inauthentic tactics but some will play dumb to get what they want (ie sex). it was interesting to watch you break down common tactics that are promoted to women to manipulate men and discuss why they may have some merit but also why they often times backfire. i wish everyone peace and it’s my belief that something you obtain through deceit is not going to last or be in your best interest . the universal law is balance.
“Understand him more than you love him” and “he needs to just love the hell out of you and not understand you much” rings so close to the old saying “the man needs to love the woman more”. And for some reason to me it sounds a lot like settling.. it’s hard to come to terms with such a reality.
@miaaa24 look at the big picture and the reality only 2-3% of single men are high value and worth being marrying to and having their kids, so if he ain’t obsessed with you it will be very easy for him to cheat, women literally offer themselves to them, competition is real and brutal so YES he has to love you more always!
@@eglantinafemmininefitrah I agree with what you said, don’t get me wrong. It’s just that in my head, when I hear that statement I associate it with the man being obsessed while the woman is just meh. I definitely think both spouses need to love each other for a happy marriage, and with the same intensity on good days (because of course the intensity of feelings may fluctuate sometimes). Having an imbalance of feelings just wouldn’t fulfill me personally.
I just wanted to let Margarita know that I've recently discovered these videos (like the anxious attachment and detachment ones) and it's helped make me so much more self-aware. I've fallen (I think) for a guy who doesn't seem to show a lot of interest (at least through text), and navigating it through these videos has been life-saving.
You are a mere mortal human. Everyone makes mistakes. No one is walking around thinking about your mistakes. And anyway what other people think of me is none of my business. Your programming from your childhood wants to keep you being hard on yourself. Fill your subconscious mind with positive “I am” affirmations at bedtime! Forgiveness happens in an instant. And don’t go backward with men. Men are in the moment. They forgive and move on. We need to do this too. ❤
Wow this is such an insight for me that women amongst themselves praise those who are work horses, the ladies who can do it all. But men actually don’t care in the same way so if you are being a work horse just to impress a man you won’t get that recognition you may be looking for. Thanks for this golden nugget ❤
as a man who veers between anxious and avoidant the hot and cold thing really works on me. i watched this bc i’m trying to learn more about myself and my current situationship bc she is avoidant and this was very helpful.
Being the best version of you is truly the greatest thing you can do for the world - your partner, your children, your business partners. Really, there is no excuse not to work on it. Thanks for the great video Margarita.
again, extremely helpful advices! straight to the point, valid, non-biased, and not abusing the feminine qualities. Toxic femininity always bring consequences later on.
This piqued my curiosity because I was manipulated by my ex for years, subtly and I cannot understand why anyone wants to trick someone into a faux feeling of love. This has been educational. I want the man to be masculine and able and I want to be strong and feminine as a woman, attracting a strong, masculine man.
I’m in my mid 50’s is a number I know . I’ve read books on attachment and listened to podcasts, audible on all things relationships, speakers like Lewis Howes , Lisa Biyelu , diary of a ceo , and you ! Love your words , your authenticity, down to earth , direct and loving way you are . I’m gaining wisdom and clarity listening . Many blessings to you and your family 💕
I love listening to you, there's many amazing women that do the same. However, you carry yourself so differently, your energy radiates and speaks to me. The way you communicate makes me feel like you know me and want the best for me. Thank you Margarita!
Watching your videos and hearing you say how women react to men and their behaviour just makes me realise how different my upbringing was from everyone else's. I grew up in an abusive family where I had to supress all about my personality, needs, emotions... and now it is impacting so negatively in my life and my relationships that any kind of demand I make to my partner I feel like I am not entitled to ask for it (even if it is just pick me up at home or hold my bag for a minute). I feel like I am demanding and overreacting and that makes my partner feel entitled to say demand more and more from me and not "bother" him with anything
I totally relate to what you’re saying and feel for you ❤ The good thing is you recognise it and you’re seeking out help through people such as Margarita, so you’re making a step toward change and having a better life
Margarita you are a absolute gem, the World needs more people like you. ❤ I think generally males can be very self-centred and love "me time". Sometimes it helps to give a wake up call in terms of carrying their fair weight and share of relationship responsibilities, rather than x, y, z is the Woman's role... but of course there is a whole approach required for that to be effective and it's not one of nagging, but instead emphasising the weight load, its effect and impact it is having. If he genuinely cares and values his relationship he should step up and share the work load. This also helps him to attune his emotional understanding and the less communication barriers generally the healthier the relationship as both form deeper understandings of each other. These are just my thoughts, I'm no health professional etc...
Love the energy you radiate Margarita!❤ and I really do gain help from the stuff you talk about in your insightful videos. Sending much love and appreciation. 😊✨
A very nicely made video. Provides a number of insights. In my view, most men see through these and other manipulations women employ. They simply ignore them to get what they want.Manipulations tend to reduce relationships to transactions
I really appreciate that you are debunking a lot of these “myths” but showing what is the healthier spin on it. The last one of hot and cold - that one really made me think about how that can apply to everyone in your life, not just your partner. Bottom line is have your own life and find balance on always being there for everyone.
This was helpful as I'm in the initial stages of a new relationship. Knowing how I made mistakes in earlier relationships and how can I avoid doing the same thing all over again is actually lovely. Thank you so much❤
Please margarita, talk more again about self confidence , I feel so weak this times , and I don’t control my emotions and my energy is very low 😔 love you ❤
Just came across '9 Ways to MANIPULATE a Man...and how to not go wrong doing it' and it's an interesting perspective. While manipulation isn't recommended, your insights on healthy communication and understanding are valuable.
Margarita, I first came across your videos when I was searching for anxious avoidant attachments but ended up listening to every RUclips video and podcast you’ve put out. Your advice has singlehandedly transformed my relationship and friendships and made me more discerning about what I was letting into my life. So thank you for that!
Why do I need to initiate a "change in her life"? A couple should be a compliment to one another. Manipulation is a terrible thing for any human being to do to another.
Thank you. I watch and listen to all of your videos and podcasts ❤ Could you please do a video/podcast about the difference between being feminine versus being passive in a relationship? Thank you ❤
Understanding man is real deal. I am very frank and open minded when it comes to boys. They all tell I'm a good hearted human. They all seem to love talking to me, share their secrets, have great laugh and all.. But I remain just a friend. None ever approach me. I am quite talkative. They might find me tomboyish Or something. I cant give off that girly girl energy as I fear of being seen as needy. I am sooo confused what to do! 😭
I have to be a workhorse right now bc my husband passed away at 46. This really sucks. I hate doing it all and I don’t even know how to do it all. On top of balancing 2 children on my own. I miss my partner.
I found your podcast a month ago and it has been life changing. (Dramatic? No lol) Both of my parents are present, only physically. You have taught me things, as a young woman, that I have craved to have from my mother- and didn’t even know I needed. My perspective has changed with men and myself and it is literally seeing life through a different lense. Thank you for all you do, for being brave, for being unapologetically YOU. You’re an amazing human being and I just about fell out on your most recent podcast when you said “my little chicken soup” 😂❤️ I love hearing what you have to say, I am now in the mindset of being and fulfilling everything I deserve in my feminine flow. Thank you🥰🫶🏼 can’t wait to hear about your experience as a girl momma now! With love from Biloxi, MS. 💕
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
You did a video about how to make him obsessed at the beginning, and I loved it T^T Could you do another video like that but in a husband-wife relationship? Like, how to act when you become the wife to keep him obsessed with you ^^
Hello, a fellow guy here. I think I’m a victim of manipulation from a female friend. It’s the second time it happened. First time was with a different girl. You’re spot on. Do you think I’m potentially dealing with a psychopath? I thought I’m in love like I thought I was with my ex, but after this video I sort of understand why I could never give myself to her fully, because the entire relationship was based on her manipulation and now it’s happening again, but why? Why not someone else? Why me?
Hello Margarita! I really do enjoy your videos, very educational very enlightening, refreshing. your like the maternal figure i never had. or older sister 🥰. thanks so much . But i do have a question, we can practice detachment and follow this ideals all day. However, how do we know we have found the right guy? 🤔🤔 thanks.
I recently went through a tough breakup. My 7 year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been really hard for me. I still love my ex so much and can't stop thinking about him. I've tried everything to win him back, but nothing has worked. It's frustrating, and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I've been trying to move on, but I can't seem to get him out of my mind. I know it might sound strange to share this here, but I miss him a lot and just can't stop thinking about him.
I understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar situation when my 12 year relationship ended. I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, and their guidance ultimately helped me to bring him back into my life.
What about for single mothers, who have to take on both masculine and feminine energy, having genuinely a lot on their plate, how can they not come off as overly masculine (with all the responsibilities). I fear that this can intimidate or turn a man off because some single mothers are so use to having to do everything, resulting in unintentionally projecting masculine energy.
Unfortunately what all women fail to under is that women are the majority and men are a minority so when the woman withholds intimacy there are dozens of other women who are just waiting for them to mess up so they can move in and take their man and they will give him what they refuse to give their man.
What if it’s the man constantly threatening to leave? I’ve been physically left 4 times between 2 different states. Gets in a car or a plane and abandons me. He also threatens divorce anytime there’s an argument.
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"Value is given to those who give themselves value" THAT PART!
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Real intimacy is made on honesty not manipulation.
i like that you encourage women to be the best versions of themselves instead of using manipulation and deceit to “attract” a man like so many influencers i see. my husband and i watch those types of videos for entertainment because it’s pure delusion. men see through the desperate and inauthentic tactics but some will play dumb to get what they want (ie sex). it was interesting to watch you break down common tactics that are promoted to women to manipulate men and discuss why they may have some merit but also why they often times backfire. i wish everyone peace and it’s my belief that something you obtain through deceit is not going to last or be in your best interest . the universal law is balance.
I love that you see what I’m
Doing here xxx
“Understand him more than you love him” and “he needs to just love the hell out of you and not understand you much” rings so close to the old saying “the man needs to love the woman more”. And for some reason to me it sounds a lot like settling.. it’s hard to come to terms with such a reality.
To me that’s an ideal life BUT it doesn’t need to be it for you. Xxx
He has to love you more. That’s just fact
@miaaa24 look at the big picture and the reality only 2-3% of single men are high value and worth being marrying to and having their kids, so if he ain’t obsessed with you it will be very easy for him to cheat, women literally offer themselves to them, competition is real and brutal so YES he has to love you more always!
@@eglantinafemmininefitrah I agree with what you said, don’t get me wrong. It’s just that in my head, when I hear that statement I associate it with the man being obsessed while the woman is just meh. I definitely think both spouses need to love each other for a happy marriage, and with the same intensity on good days (because of course the intensity of feelings may fluctuate sometimes). Having an imbalance of feelings just wouldn’t fulfill me personally.
sadly, altho he loves me so much, him not understanding me much makes our relationship so hard. (and he is slightly autistic)
I just wanted to let Margarita know that I've recently discovered these videos (like the anxious attachment and detachment ones) and it's helped make me so much more self-aware. I've fallen (I think) for a guy who doesn't seem to show a lot of interest (at least through text), and navigating it through these videos has been life-saving.
@SummerLuvinAlaiand what is the situation now? Are you still dating this guy? Does he genuinely likes you? Or are you guys not dating anymore?
Could you do a video on regret and forgiving yourself please?
Yes, I’m struggling with regret and forgiving myself. I had no idea it could be this hard.
😰😰
You are a mere mortal human. Everyone makes mistakes. No one is walking around thinking about your mistakes. And anyway what other people think of me is none of my business. Your programming from your childhood wants to keep you being hard on yourself. Fill your subconscious mind with positive “I am” affirmations at bedtime! Forgiveness happens in an instant. And don’t go backward with men. Men are in the moment. They forgive and move on. We need to do this too. ❤
I will
Make it xx
try eft tapping on forgiving yourself. It will change your life xxx@@Iriesoul717
Wow this is such an insight for me that women amongst themselves praise those who are work horses, the ladies who can do it all. But men actually don’t care in the same way so if you are being a work horse just to impress a man you won’t get that recognition you may be looking for. Thanks for this golden nugget ❤
If you’re reading this I pray you receive the highest form of love. You deserve the best.💗🙏🏼
Yesss 💯
I desperately need it at this time.
authenticity is the currency of high value elite individuals who you want to be with
as a man who veers between anxious and avoidant the hot and cold thing really works on me. i watched this bc i’m trying to learn more about myself and my current situationship bc she is avoidant and this was very helpful.
as a man i appreciate your work of enlighting women
Being the best version of you is truly the greatest thing you can do for the world - your partner, your children, your business partners. Really, there is no excuse not to work on it. Thanks for the great video Margarita.
You are the best on this subject. Period.
again, extremely helpful advices! straight to the point, valid, non-biased, and not abusing the feminine qualities. Toxic femininity always bring consequences later on.
obsessed with your videos. this is true feminine power!! LIVING FOR THIS!!
This piqued my curiosity because I was manipulated by my ex for years, subtly and I cannot understand why anyone wants to trick someone into a faux feeling of love. This has been educational. I want the man to be masculine and able and I want to be strong and feminine as a woman, attracting a strong, masculine man.
I’m in my mid 50’s is a number I know . I’ve read books on attachment and listened to podcasts, audible on all things relationships, speakers like Lewis Howes , Lisa Biyelu , diary of a ceo , and you ! Love your words , your authenticity, down to earth , direct and loving way you are . I’m gaining wisdom and clarity listening . Many blessings to you and your family 💕
I cry constantly whenever I need to say that I don't like something, I just cry a lot and don't know how to fix it
Can you please do a video on texting men, the do’s and don’ts, their texting habits and what they mean etc ❤
I love listening to you, there's many amazing women that do the same. However, you carry yourself so differently, your energy radiates and speaks to me. The way you communicate makes me feel like you know me and want the best for me. Thank you Margarita!
Watching your videos and hearing you say how women react to men and their behaviour just makes me realise how different my upbringing was from everyone else's. I grew up in an abusive family where I had to supress all about my personality, needs, emotions... and now it is impacting so negatively in my life and my relationships that any kind of demand I make to my partner I feel like I am not entitled to ask for it (even if it is just pick me up at home or hold my bag for a minute). I feel like I am demanding and overreacting and that makes my partner feel entitled to say demand more and more from me and not "bother" him with anything
I totally relate to what you’re saying and feel for you ❤
The good thing is you recognise it and you’re seeking out help through people such as Margarita, so you’re making a step toward change and having a better life
Margarita you are a absolute gem, the World needs more people like you. ❤ I think generally males can be very self-centred and love "me time". Sometimes it helps to give a wake up call in terms of carrying their fair weight and share of relationship responsibilities, rather than x, y, z is the Woman's role... but of course there is a whole approach required for that to be effective and it's not one of nagging, but instead emphasising the weight load, its effect and impact it is having. If he genuinely cares and values his relationship he should step up and share the work load. This also helps him to attune his emotional understanding and the less communication barriers generally the healthier the relationship as both form deeper understandings of each other. These are just my thoughts, I'm no health professional etc...
I love this video, can't get this honesty anywhere else
Love the energy you radiate Margarita!❤ and I really do gain help from the stuff you talk about in your insightful videos. Sending much love and appreciation. 😊✨
Very practical advise 🙂 I just wished I had seen something like this before
This is such a fresh perspective on these 7 behaviours, thank you!
The title and thumbnail are so perfect. I can’t help but kind of chuckle.
Margarita, your content has helped me so much. I wish you'd been in my life sooner
A very nicely made video. Provides a number of insights. In my view, most men see through these and other manipulations women employ. They simply ignore them to get what they want.Manipulations tend to reduce relationships to transactions
A queen has uploaded again!
I really appreciate that you are debunking a lot of these “myths” but showing what is the healthier spin on it. The last one of hot and cold - that one really made me think about how that can apply to everyone in your life, not just your partner. Bottom line is have your own life and find balance on always being there for everyone.
Always with the facts, Margarita. The man should help, not completely help you out 24/7.
This was helpful as I'm in the initial stages of a new relationship. Knowing how I made mistakes in earlier relationships and how can I avoid doing the same thing all over again is actually lovely. Thank you so much❤
You dropped Gems💎 Thank you!
Please margarita, talk more again about self confidence , I feel so weak this times , and I don’t control my emotions and my energy is very low 😔 love you ❤
Just came across '9 Ways to MANIPULATE a Man...and how to not go wrong doing it' and it's an interesting perspective. While manipulation isn't recommended, your insights on healthy communication and understanding are valuable.
This was very revealing, and amazing food for thought!
Margarita, I first came across your videos when I was searching for anxious avoidant attachments but ended up listening to every RUclips video and podcast you’ve put out. Your advice has singlehandedly transformed my relationship and friendships and made me more discerning about what I was letting into my life. So thank you for that!
I love the way you express yourself very unapologetically because im only 27 but I feel like were the same person in different bodies you're a queen.
This was the most informative video yet!! ❤️ It helped to see the way to do it right vs ways it can go wrong. Love it! Have a nice thanksgiving
This is soooo true. Never resonated more with a video.
I struggle with setting boundaries. The guilt is bad.
I am enjoying your content! Thanks!
I love your work. Your Advice is empowering us all women regardless of our race or background.
can't go wrong with a petite body, long hair, a clear complexion, & pretty mani/pedi. That alone will get you almost anything you want.
no it wont
@@tensevoyou must be a male.
you must be a manipulator@@gigitv5176
lol. You have to have an engaging personality as well.
This !!!
I loved this video. I think what you said was spot on and appreciate you sharing it. 😊
Why do I need to initiate a "change in her life"? A couple should be a compliment to one another. Manipulation is a terrible thing for any human being to do to another.
Wish I had you a long time ago, however I’m still grateful for you now. Thank you for being you!!
I’m getting scorpio vibes lol love your energy & blunt perspective ❤☺️ !!
Thank you. I watch and listen to all of your videos and podcasts ❤
Could you please do a video/podcast about the difference between being feminine versus being passive in a relationship?
Thank you ❤
Oh I like this! I find it hard to find that balance and either come across as passive or too assertive and maybe masculine
Loving this ERA ! 🪐🪐🪐
Understanding man is real deal. I am very frank and open minded when it comes to boys. They all tell I'm a good hearted human. They all seem to love talking to me, share their secrets, have great laugh and all.. But I remain just a friend. None ever approach me. I am quite talkative. They might find me tomboyish Or something. I cant give off that girly girl energy as I fear of being seen as needy. I am sooo confused what to do! 😭
your content is gold
I have to be a workhorse right now bc my husband passed away at 46. This really sucks. I hate doing it all and I don’t even know how to do it all. On top of balancing 2 children on my own. I miss my partner.
That’s heart breaking….I’m
So so sorry my love
Sorry for your loss. 😢
Sorry for your loss
I loved it! I would like a video where you go more in depth about this hot and cold dynamic ❤
These videos are like homework for me. As soon as I start it I get out a notebook and pen😂
Thank you Margarita ❤
20:47 "Value is given to those who Give themselves value!"
Your voice is si adorable ans captivating , besides the way you transmit everything is impressive.
As a man. I really enjoy you
You really do have good insight into the male mind, I feel very seen.
I value your input x
It’s so sad that even a small wrong step can break relationships… 😢
When I start overthinking about things, I find great solace from the wise words of Matthew Hussey: “The right relationship is not fragile.”
It means fixing it is also important
Welcome to the world of non top 15% men
Your videos are so informative and eye opening
I found your podcast a month ago and it has been life changing. (Dramatic? No lol) Both of my parents are present, only physically.
You have taught me things, as a young woman, that I have craved to have from my mother- and didn’t even know I needed.
My perspective has changed with men and myself and it is literally seeing life through a different lense.
Thank you for all you do, for being brave, for being unapologetically YOU.
You’re an amazing human being and I just about fell out on your most recent podcast when you said “my little chicken soup” 😂❤️ I love hearing what you have to say, I am now in the mindset of being and fulfilling everything I deserve in my feminine flow.
Thank you🥰🫶🏼 can’t wait to hear about your experience as a girl momma now!
With love from Biloxi, MS. 💕
Very good video, thank you! Lots of love ❤
Binge watching you ❤ you’re amazing girl x
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked he up now online. impressive
Thank you for sharing!
👏👏👏wonderful analysis!!! Thanks a lot !!
You did a video about how to make him obsessed at the beginning, and I loved it T^T
Could you do another video like that but in a husband-wife relationship? Like, how to act when you become the wife to keep him obsessed with you ^^
Hello, a fellow guy here. I think I’m a victim of manipulation from a female friend. It’s the second time it happened. First time was with a different girl. You’re spot on. Do you think I’m potentially dealing with a psychopath? I thought I’m in love like I thought I was with my ex, but after this video I sort of understand why I could never give myself to her fully, because the entire relationship was based on her manipulation and now it’s happening again, but why? Why not someone else? Why me?
Love you and you're as funny as hell....I always resonate with what you say♥️♥️😂😂🥰🥰
Can you do a video on how to be your most authentic self?
thank you for all of your words of wisdom you're someone I look up to a lot!!
I can x
Pretending to be someone else is too hard. Honestly I think I'd rather stay single 💀
Thats what im thinking 💀
Relationships are based on trust
Hello Margarita! I really do enjoy your videos, very educational very enlightening, refreshing. your like the maternal figure i never had. or older sister 🥰. thanks so much . But i do have a question, we can practice detachment and follow this ideals all day. However, how do we know we have found the right guy? 🤔🤔 thanks.
That’s an episode coming soon x
@@Margarita.Nazarenko yess please! 😁
One of your best videos thank you so much
The last one hit me. I always say I’m leaving in every argument 😢 learning now.
always got an advice on point
Damn woman, you’re GOOD! Thank you for sharing your knowledge ❤
I recently went through a tough breakup. My 7 year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been really hard for me. I still love my ex so much and can't stop thinking about him. I've tried everything to win him back, but nothing has worked. It's frustrating, and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I've been trying to move on, but I can't seem to get him out of my mind. I know it might sound strange to share this here, but I miss him a lot and just can't stop thinking about him.
I understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar situation when my 12 year relationship ended. I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, and their guidance ultimately helped me to bring him back into my life.
Amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I contact them?
Thanks for sharing this valuable information. I just looked him up online and I'm impressed.
I saw the title and clicked so fast! Tell me how to manipulate this man 🤣🤣🤣
This was very insightful.
What about for single mothers, who have to take on both masculine and feminine energy, having genuinely a lot on their plate, how can they not come off as overly masculine (with all the responsibilities). I fear that this can intimidate or turn a man off because some single mothers are so use to having to do everything, resulting in unintentionally projecting masculine energy.
there should be no manipulation. PERIOD.
What if you cry tears of joy when he does something nice? Sometimes I feel like that comes across just as out of control
Yeah it probably maybe work on regulating your emotions.
@@jlinaok lol I haven’t in front of him yet but I do sometimes after when I have the memories of the moment 😅
I think that is beautiful. As far as i noticed they are comfortable with emotions as long as it is positive.
I will consider your recommendations ❤
When intimacy is withheld it’s usually bc it’s been ongoing issues in relationships
Unfortunately what all women fail to under is that women are the majority and men are a minority so when the woman withholds intimacy there are dozens of other women who are just waiting for them to mess up so they can move in and take their man and they will give him what they refuse to give their man.
23:23 is gold, for any topic
Great advice 👍
Sweetheart, you’ve never walked into a room and been the most intelligent person in it. Bless your heart!
Not never. But sure maybe half the time. X
Could you do a video about what to do or say if you're triggered by yelling
Happy new days
generally good advice
Here taking notes on how not to get manipulated.
Nice video I love your advice ❤
Omg I’m soo guilty of this I can’t believe I did this because I was scared of losing him but didn’t understand i was playing games
What if it’s the man constantly threatening to leave? I’ve been physically left 4 times between 2 different states. Gets in a car or a plane and abandons me. He also threatens divorce anytime there’s an argument.
Read “why does he do that?” by Lundy Bancroft
how i love your mindset ,thanks for the enlightening other special us the women loooooovve uuuuuu so much ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
The best line - if you overuse your emotions maybe it's crying or pampering or caring so hard ...it will turn man off