I bought several dolls when I lost my parents and I ended up keeping them for about a year. I realized I was trying to comfort my inner child. After some healing I was able and ready to sell them after they served their purpose.
@LadybugLuvblahblah What a beautiful post from you here ✨ Honouring your parents and the grief at losing them both. They would have understood and wanted you to heal. I feel that your words about 'comfort' have much to offer others experiencing their own heartache.
Well done Sue. I’m so proud of you. I don’t think you’re a real hoarder at heart. I think you’ll be much happier rather than sad that you’ve gotten your life back together. We all need to deal with trauma in some way and you’ve broken through. ❤❤❤
That was nice. The home wasn't dirty like lots of hoarders homes, it was just disorganised and full of trivial stuff. I hope Sue is enjoying her grandchildrens visits now
Not dirty? Seriously? The light switches for one example, covered in greasy marks, it would have literally taken ten seconds to clean each one with a damp cloth.
Its really not that bad at all. Except for the disorganised dolls. Which she doesnt have soace for. Everything else is not hard to accumulate. Its all so clean. Just nowhere to store it all.
@@paulmiller9384greasy marks on light switches are the concern of those with oc disorder. Its very normal and common to have dirty light switches when someone in the house is a mechanic. Usually people have dead cats behind the stack of rotting maggot filled pizza boxes. She is comparatively a saint of cleanliness compared to the usual filth in these shows.
I picked up the terms "dry" and "wet" hoarder. Dry hoarders have tons of stuff and chaos but no rotting food or decaying animals etc. Wet hoarders have all the disgusting things on top of too much junk.
My adoptive mother routinely cleared our books and toys as we grew. Never asked as we matured if there was anything we treasured or wanted to keep. I did not have anything really to recall as mine from those days of 55 or so years ago. Sigh. When married i collected Czech glass, & other items. Gave most all away over the years. I still do that with my treasures. Now i downsize books and jewelry i make as a hobby. Its nice to clear out every so often!
I'm sorry your adoptive mother gave your old toys and things away without asking you! Good for you for being able to give stuff away now, when you can choose yourself.
Why would shá ask you? If it was your thing it would be in your possession surely? In your room on your bookshelf in your school bag. Was she sneaking into your room while you were out and chucking things?
Why would she ask? If they were your things wouldnt they be in your room on your bookshelf. Was she sneaking into your room to dump your things? Or did you leave them cluttering up her home when you left and then expect her to take care of things for you?
I admire their way of taking care of Sue and her hording without being judgemental! Also giving her some answers to why she's like she is. I'm not a horder but still have a hard time throwing things away! I would love a video with these professionals on how to think mentally when clearing stuff out! A video on how not to become a horder if you like!
Its also crazy the amount of things there are. Like my mom is a hoarder but almost everyone of that generation is. Because they had nothing growing up and had to fight for the use of the overcoaat the house had!! One between 8 kids. And then to go into the 80s of gluttony...
I have a routine for stuff I don't want or need anymore, first I ask family, friends and neighbors. When their answer is 'no', than I put it online, mostly for free. When there are no satisfying results, it has to go, either donate or the bin. There are enough things I can't control, but decluttering isn't one of them..
I understand about the dolls! At 73, I still have most of my old dolls from childhood, they were like imaginary playmates to me, much beloved. They sit in their "Clubhouse" in the top of my closet now. Her baby dolls are beautiful. I used to have a kewpie, too!
I have admit that, decluttering is an ongoing process. We just need to to it periodically until we die. My husband and I and our 3 yo son live in one bedroom apartment and we are very minimalistic. Even so, we need to constantly declutter otherwise the flat would be chaotic.
Sue did so very well - what a beautiful loving lady. Remember to operate a one in, one out policy Sue - whatever you buy, something else has to leave the house so that you keep on top of it.
The hoarder is aware of what triggered this: the death in the family, the mother. Awareness is key, awareness is reality toward change for improvement.
I HATE throwing things in the garbage. Not donating or anything but trashing things. So when imagining what its like for them thats the feeling i think they may feel and it helps understand how hard this can be
Same. I watch a lady who goes dumpster diving at thruft shops in america where people like you and i have given something and they just chuck it in a skip out the back. SHe goes and takes out what she can salavage. She finds brand new things and she finds beautiful old things. Hand crotcheted things or waterford crystal. Amazing! Its nice to see her rescue them. God knows some day when society collapses people will be scrounging for every jar and bowl they can find among the debris thrown out
I have an obsession with clothes, but in particular with dresses. I know why! When I was about 17 years old my mother gave some dresses I had made to a jumble sale. She did not ask me if she could! She just searched in my wardrobe and threw out what I had made. She was envious of my ability to sew pretty garments. I am now 76 years old and I cannot forgive her for this. She has been dead over 40 years but I still hate her, because I realised at that moment how little she respected me and my personal boundaries. So now I have a wardrobe full of dresses which I don't wear, but don't want to get rid of! They are MINE and you can't throw them out. But it's worse than that. I protect my personal boundaries so fiercely against encroachment that I cannot form relationships, whether friendships or sexual relationships, so I'm very lonely. Thanks, Mum. You did a good job of ruining my life. You were unhappy, so you couldn't bear the thought that I might be happy.
Your mother was wrong to disrespect your boundaries like she did. You don't have to continue to ruin your life in honor of your anger towards her. Let all that go today and give yourself the peace and respect you and everyone else deserves
Collections are meant to be prized, to be given on....not cherished in the place of those actually here. She seems like she still has a grip on reality.... beat of luck, love!
Earlier this afternoon I watched a hoarder house being emptied in the UK . They took 20 tonnes of rubbish to the dump.....it took 2 men 5 whole work days ... Is that house / flat messier or not ?
Какая прекрасная коллекция кукол, и некоторые довольно редкие и ценные! Просто у нее нет нормальных условий (полок, стеллажей) для хранения. Остальное уже проще привести в порядок
I like this so much better than "American" Hoarders. They don't expect their clients to live in a bare house and let's them keep a majority not their collections. That alone will help with keeping their hoarding under control.
Viewers may like a series "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning." Fabulous. Many other videos and articles about letting go of excess. Title is about cleaning out before you die and burden people with crap.
I can see a parrot in one of the rooms. Is it a Grey African parrot. Sue that parrot will never leave you. It can live to be 80 years old. You might be gone before. Parrots are lifelong companions. Does he talk or repeat things?
Lovely episode of a nan, whose got room for her grandchildren to PLAY now! They don't want to leave anymore! But if she's wise, she will keep the museum like room with the dolls locked, or it'll be tears for all involved.
My mom was a techers aide and the teacher she worked with was a hoarder!! She use to buy my mom all kinds of stuff! It was a nice jesters but when my mom died I gave it all away or trashed it.
F that lady. I announced in my house anything on the floor is trash. She pick that stuff up as soon as he start picking up handfulls and blindly trashing it.
Id have to get rid of all the dolls. I wouldnt be able to choose. But if i was giving them to poor children somewhere i would be happy to give them away to kids who have nothing and think of how happy it will make the dolls to be loved not shoved in a corner. Hopefullt this gives me a kick up the bum. Ive only one room to go.
Mental experts say it's a mental illness. We have a pair of neighbors like this who are hoarders and meth users! He puts his garbage on our street corner. What a mess!
I really really don’t understand adults who keep baby dolls and stuffies. I refused a second date with a guy who brought me a stuffed animal. Yuck. I’m a grown woman. Bring flowers, candy, wine, a book. . . Take all the kid’s stuff to an orphanage.
@@mackenzie6534 Or maybe I dodged a bullet. I’m not interested in a man who gives an adult a gift that’s appropriate for a child. It shows me that he wasn’t really thinking about me, but just some generic person. So, keep your gifts.
I have a friend who had exactly the same experience and exactly the same response. Who wants a man who tries to infantalise you. He'd probably call you babe as well. @@Mrs.TJTaylor
All those grandchildren + all those dolls and she still wants to cage a beautiful bird. He'll never feel the sun on his back - what a selfish woman! So sad!!!
I bought several dolls when I lost my parents and I ended up keeping them for about a year. I realized I was trying to comfort my inner child. After some healing I was able and ready to sell them after they served their purpose.
@LadybugLuvblahblah What a beautiful post from you here ✨ Honouring your parents and the grief at losing them both. They would have understood and wanted you to heal. I feel that your words about 'comfort' have much to offer others experiencing their own heartache.
I got 2 rescue dogs....
So you have sold your dead parents as dolls?
Never seen a so reflected hoarder on this series. You got this Sue! 💪🏼👏🏻❤️
This episode was moving in so many ways! The end result was not just a clean house…it gave the her insight and clarity! Well done! 😊
Sue did a brilliant job, she really thought she was going to have meltdowns and tantrums. She handled herself and got to business! Well done to all!
Well done Sue. I’m so proud of you. I don’t think you’re a real hoarder at heart. I think you’ll be much happier rather than sad that you’ve gotten your life back together. We all need to deal with trauma in some way and you’ve broken through. ❤❤❤
Right out of the gate this woman is ahead because she understands that what she has going on is a problem and she CLAIMS she wants to change it.
That’s at least half the battle in my experience.
I had to laugh when they found that envelope! I love that her Partner has a sense of humour!
That was nice. The home wasn't dirty like lots of hoarders homes, it was just disorganised and full of trivial stuff. I hope Sue is enjoying her grandchildrens visits now
Not dirty? Seriously? The light switches for one example, covered in greasy marks, it would have literally taken ten seconds to clean each one with a damp cloth.
Its really not that bad at all. Except for the disorganised dolls. Which she doesnt have soace for. Everything else is not hard to accumulate. Its all so clean. Just nowhere to store it all.
@@paulmiller9384greasy marks on light switches are the concern of those with oc disorder. Its very normal and common to have dirty light switches when someone in the house is a mechanic. Usually people have dead cats behind the stack of rotting maggot filled pizza boxes. She is comparatively a saint of cleanliness compared to the usual filth in these shows.
I picked up the terms "dry" and "wet" hoarder. Dry hoarders have tons of stuff and chaos but no rotting food or decaying animals etc. Wet hoarders have all the disgusting things on top of too much junk.
@Baumscheibenkunst oh wow. That's a way to describe it alright!! Holy crap!
Those cleaners were amazing! The lady that went through her stuff was awesome too, bless her 🙂
I like Sue! She would make a lovely friend. Great work, everyone ❤
My adoptive mother routinely cleared our books and toys as we grew. Never asked as we matured if there was anything we treasured or wanted to keep. I did not have anything really to recall as mine from those days of 55 or so years ago. Sigh. When married i collected Czech glass, & other items. Gave most all away over the years. I still do that with my treasures. Now i downsize books and jewelry i make as a hobby. Its nice to clear out every so often!
I'm sorry your adoptive mother gave your old toys and things away without asking you!
Good for you for being able to give stuff away now, when you can choose yourself.
My mother did that and I wasn’t adopted. It’s the way some people are about stuff. I doubt it had anything to do with you personally.
Why would shá ask you? If it was your thing it would be in your possession surely? In your room on your bookshelf in your school bag. Was she sneaking into your room while you were out and chucking things?
Why would she ask? If they were your things wouldnt they be in your room on your bookshelf. Was she sneaking into your room to dump your things? Or did you leave them cluttering up her home when you left and then expect her to take care of things for you?
I was at school.
I admire their way of taking care of Sue and her hording without being judgemental!
Also giving her some answers to why she's like she is.
I'm not a horder but still have a hard time throwing things away!
I would love a video with these professionals on how to think mentally when clearing stuff out!
A video on how not to become a horder if you like!
Its also crazy the amount of things there are. Like my mom is a hoarder but almost everyone of that generation is. Because they had nothing growing up and had to fight for the use of the overcoaat the house had!! One between 8 kids. And then to go into the 80s of gluttony...
So great her family was able to visit and her daughter holding back tears that her children could visit their grandmother
I have a routine for stuff I don't want or need anymore,
first I ask family, friends and neighbors.
When their answer is 'no', than I put it online, mostly for free.
When there are no satisfying results, it has to go, either donate or the bin.
There are enough things I can't control, but decluttering isn't one of them..
I understand about the dolls! At 73, I still have most of my old dolls from childhood, they were like imaginary playmates to me, much beloved. They sit in their "Clubhouse" in the top of my closet now. Her baby dolls are beautiful. I used to have a kewpie, too!
Now Sue and her husband can move forward with their lives. What a transformation. Well done.
Always, There’s still a lot more work she has to do. It’ll be pretty constant for a while. I hope she gets continued help.
Great work 👍😮
She seems like a really sweet person!
I have admit that, decluttering is an ongoing process. We just need to to it periodically until we die. My husband and I and our 3 yo son live in one bedroom apartment and we are very minimalistic. Even so, we need to constantly declutter otherwise the flat would be chaotic.
I gave away my childhood doll Angela, to my sisters granddaughter. Took a trip to Australia to hand her over.
That’s a Lovely gesture.❤
Blessings to her and comforting help.❤
Beautiful house for a beautiful family!
Sue did so very well - what a beautiful loving lady. Remember to operate a one in, one out policy Sue - whatever you buy, something else has to leave the house so that you keep on top of it.
The hoarder is aware of what triggered this: the death in the family, the mother. Awareness is key, awareness is reality toward change for improvement.
She's got some beautiful dolls.
I HATE throwing things in the garbage. Not donating or anything but trashing things. So when imagining what its like for them thats the feeling i think they may feel and it helps understand how hard this can be
Same. I watch a lady who goes dumpster diving at thruft shops in america where people like you and i have given something and they just chuck it in a skip out the back. SHe goes and takes out what she can salavage. She finds brand new things and she finds beautiful old things. Hand crotcheted things or waterford crystal. Amazing! Its nice to see her rescue them. God knows some day when society collapses people will be scrounging for every jar and bowl they can find among the debris thrown out
I have an obsession with clothes, but in particular with dresses. I know why! When I was about 17 years old my mother gave some dresses I had made to a jumble sale. She did not ask me if she could! She just searched in my wardrobe and threw out what I had made. She was envious of my ability to sew pretty garments. I am now 76 years old and I cannot forgive her for this. She has been dead over 40 years but I still hate her, because I realised at that moment how little she respected me and my personal boundaries. So now I have a wardrobe full of dresses which I don't wear, but don't want to get rid of! They are MINE and you can't throw them out. But it's worse than that. I protect my personal boundaries so fiercely against encroachment that I cannot form relationships, whether friendships or sexual relationships, so I'm very lonely. Thanks, Mum. You did a good job of ruining my life. You were unhappy, so you couldn't bear the thought that I might be happy.
She can't hurt you anymore
Your mother was wrong to disrespect your boundaries like she did. You don't have to continue to ruin your life in honor of your anger towards her. Let all that go today and give yourself the peace and respect you and everyone else deserves
Makes us all happier! How sweet they all are.
"How do you find anything?"
-"I don't."
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Which in turn adds to the hoard-- x3 scissors, hammers, screw drivers, etc.
The shelves of dolls . . . all staring blankly . . . UNNERVING.
That is amazing and done with kindness, which is so lovely to see. ❤❤❤❤
I have the gang that some would call dolls but they are not. They are happy characters and I love everyone of them.❤😀🏴
A blythe doll!!! Shes got cool dolls in there. Dolls can be worth alot of money btw
I sell doll molds hit me up blessings.
Reinforcing her mind with the end goal to host her grandchildren ❤
What a nice episode, I hope she makes lots of memories with her grandchildren.
Definitely worth getting rid of dolls to have real little children come to play safely.
All her dolls would make hundreds of little girls happy ...
Superhero Sue, well done ❤
The poor parrot in the cage!
I thought of that too.
Collections are meant to be prized, to be given on....not cherished in the place of those actually here. She seems like she still has a grip on reality.... beat of luck, love!
With hoarder you have throw out a lot of stuff as most places don’t want dirty stuff.
She has a lovely daughter ❤❤
She looked 15 years younger after all that stress was lifted!
I feel for that parrot, imagine them spraying chemicals into a room with a bird in it, I hope it survived.
Watching your RUclips programs makes me declutter often. Hope Sue wants no more than she is suppose to have to enjoy her babies,
The two cleaners looked like twins. I had to do a double take
I love these transformations, well done ladies. Neil stop being such a grouch. 😀
Earlier this afternoon I watched a hoarder house being emptied in the UK . They took 20 tonnes of rubbish to the dump.....it took 2 men 5 whole work days ... Is that house / flat messier or not ?
I love that psychologist :)
Without therapy she will start hoarding again.
I wish I had someone to help me
Yup
Same here.
me too
Omgoodness 😢 the poor Parrot 🦜 all that noise and dust then she sprays airfreshner near it. 😢 people don't think.
The bird is fine
The air freshener wouldn’t be good for the Parrots lungs, chemicals can kill them and do.
Her house is very cluttered but at least it's not as nasty as some of the hoarders here in the US.
Love the dolls!
YEAH !!!!! WELL DONE..
Какая прекрасная коллекция кукол, и некоторые довольно редкие и ценные! Просто у нее нет нормальных условий (полок, стеллажей) для хранения. Остальное уже проще привести в порядок
SHE NEEDS A JAMAICAN DOLLY TO SING TOO HER 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
So why is husband not helping clean say the kitchen why blame her for it all
If she is a hoarder, what about him & his garage/shed? It’s full of rubbish.
I like this so much better than "American" Hoarders. They don't expect their clients to live in a bare house and let's them keep a majority not their collections. That alone will help with keeping their hoarding under control.
A GREAT VIDEO, AND ONE I HAVEN'T SEEN YET ❤❤❤❤😂😂😂
That doll looks like the Queen! 🇦🇺💖
Aw bless her hope she keeps it up and enjoys her grandchildren ❤❤❤❤❤
Viewers may like a series "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning." Fabulous. Many other videos and articles about letting go of excess. Title is about cleaning out before you die and burden people with crap.
I can see a parrot in one of the rooms. Is it a Grey African parrot. Sue that parrot will never leave you. It can live to be 80 years old. You might be gone before. Parrots are lifelong companions. Does he talk or repeat things?
Never shopping vintage again seeing where the stuff comes from. 🤮
Lovely episode of a nan, whose got room for her grandchildren to PLAY now! They don't want to leave anymore! But if she's wise, she will keep the museum like room with the dolls locked, or it'll be tears for all involved.
OMG i dont like dolls..😯
And I don't like identical twins!
Ack. I don't care for a room full of dolls. They creep me out 😯
I couldn't live those dolls, very creepy. Each to their own. Good on Sue for letting go such much stuff.
That didn’t look like 100 dolls; looked more than that
Dolls, especially old ones freak me out.
Is the show back on A&E ?
My mom was a techers aide and the teacher she worked with was a hoarder!! She use to buy my mom all kinds of stuff! It was a nice jesters but when my mom died I gave it all away or trashed it.
It doesn't look dirty like some other hoarder not saying it's good
more like cluttered and disorganized.
Some of those dolls are worth a lot of money, seriously they are.
They're sisters right ? Identical twins....must be.
Hoarding is caused loss. Flat out loss.
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Give it a year , back to square one.
I think she has the empty-nest-syndrom and if she couldn't get her family back in her life,I'm with you...
loved it
Why not the kitchen and bath?
F that lady. I announced in my house anything on the floor is trash. She pick that stuff up as soon as he start picking up handfulls and blindly trashing it.
Why is all the onus on her and not her husband?
Id have to get rid of all the dolls. I wouldnt be able to choose. But if i was giving them to poor children somewhere i would be happy to give them away to kids who have nothing and think of how happy it will make the dolls to be loved not shoved in a corner. Hopefullt this gives me a kick up the bum. Ive only one room to go.
Are those ladies twins?
OMG not this again; another repeat!
American hoarders are much filthier and more hoarded.....we're becoming the world's fattest and messiest people 😢😢
He could take his stuff and move on down the road on his bike!!!
Mental experts say it's a mental illness. We have a pair of neighbors like this who are hoarders and meth users! He puts his garbage on our street corner. What a mess!
Man cave is just as bad
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What a nightmare
I really really don’t understand adults who keep baby dolls and stuffies. I refused a second date with a guy who brought me a stuffed animal. Yuck. I’m a grown woman. Bring flowers, candy, wine, a book. . . Take all the kid’s stuff to an orphanage.
It kind of sounds like that man dodged a bullet. I hope he found a lively person who enjoys his gifts instead of judging so harshly.
Yes! Trust your own judgement!
@@mackenzie6534 Or maybe I dodged a bullet. I’m not interested in a man who gives an adult a gift that’s appropriate for a child. It shows me that he wasn’t really thinking about me, but just some generic person. So, keep your gifts.
I have a friend who had exactly the same experience and exactly the same response. Who wants a man who tries to infantalise you. He'd probably call you babe as well. @@Mrs.TJTaylor
All those grandchildren + all those dolls and she still wants to cage a beautiful bird. He'll never feel the sun on his back - what a selfish woman! So sad!!!
Bit judgie there I reckon, and they might take the bird outside sometimes
Omg . 😮
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They are wearing make was this done in the pandemic ps very good that lady took the bull by the horns and Dr cluttered her home 🇬🇧🇬🇧
Most hoards are toxic
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really I don't see why ppl are like that but I know ppl like that doesn't want to let anything
Too lazy to tidy up
Nothing to do with laziness
People ki11 themselves from mental health issues. Too lazy...SMH