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  • Jealous Brother Hooked Up With My Fiancée Right After Our Engagement. So I Snitched To The Whole Family And Now They're Being Cut Off.
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  • @TwilightMysts
    @TwilightMysts 6 месяцев назад +2732

    "Yes mom, it is stupid to have a family torn apart over something as petty as a fight over a girl. Which is why it was stupid of Adam to do something as petty as ruining my relationship with my fiance within days of my proposing. It is really disappointing that you raised Adam to be so petty, but I guess that is just the way it is, and now he has destroyed our family."

    • @thecursed01
      @thecursed01 6 месяцев назад +118

      also no word from her how the narrator feels. should ask her why she never cared that he felt miserable all his life because of her and adam. but demands sympathy and forgiveness when golden boy feels sad as a result of his actions.

    • @artemislove2941
      @artemislove2941 6 месяцев назад +24

      ON GOD!! they always say this in these stories

    • @minustheone80
      @minustheone80 6 месяцев назад +17

      I can understand the ops pain even though I'm not even in such a relationship
      It's so painful from all these stories like the person who you grew up with and you hate.
      In this case his big brother and then for the person who said that they wanted to spend the rest of their life and grow old with them to betray and go after the person that the op hates the most.
      And the worst part is his mom tried to justify it.
      Like literally that's like saying I'm sorry your future wife f##### your big brother but he is going through depression so it's ok it can happen like what justification is depression to cheating.
      And then the biggest proof of the rerentlessness is that his brother tried to flex how much of a jerk he was .the stuff is sent to the op is disgusting if I ever saw the same from my big brother which I hate I would vomit on the spot.

    • @ADHDGUY-qm5nf
      @ADHDGUY-qm5nf 5 месяцев назад +9

      Don’t forget the fact that his mom is acting like the OP was never treated kindly and tormented in high school yet nobody cared as well as the fact that the brother had millions of chances to study and learn about his jobs but as OP says his brother figuratively ran head first into a wall then unprepared broke a bunch of bones and ran into it again multiple times.

    • @lefthand4943
      @lefthand4943 5 месяцев назад +5

      Understandable and agreed

  • @minutemuse
    @minutemuse 6 месяцев назад +1474

    1. Adam is the typical “peaked in high school” type.
    2. If Riley caved that easily to Adam odds are she had already cheated in the past. In a way Adam saved him the trouble of marrying her.
    3. Mom needs to get her golden boy off her breast and let him find his own way. These type of moms set their sons up for failure when they realize the world isn’t going to treat them like “mommy’s special boy.”

    • @JamesAvila-xu7ds
      @JamesAvila-xu7ds 6 месяцев назад +22

      Marrying in the USA is the worst thing possible maybe get his passport and marry a Filipina

    • @jgrAnimations23
      @jgrAnimations23 6 месяцев назад +41

      ​@@JamesAvila-xu7ds that's oddly specific

    • @stupidron7108
      @stupidron7108 6 месяцев назад +15

      @@jgrAnimations23 that's pretty much the play for "passport bros". Establish yourself, move to another country (anywhere in Southeast Asia is the most common), find a girl to marry, and stay there for the rest of your life. As long as you stay true to your values and doing your part as a traditional man, women in other countries will treat you way better than women in the US.
      The Philippines is the recommended route for passport bros because most women here are traditional and family-oriented, and divorce isn't a thing (only annulment). Are there bad apples? Yeah, we're starting to see bits of modern feminism and DEI bullshit forming, but it'll take a long time before it plagues the country.

    • @jgrAnimations23
      @jgrAnimations23 6 месяцев назад +8

      @@stupidron7108 kaya umalis na kayo sa pilipinas mga passport bros nabibilang na ang mga araw nio mananalo ang feminism laban sa inyo

    • @aqijanavrielleo.teyagaraja4403
      @aqijanavrielleo.teyagaraja4403 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@jgrAnimations23 Didn't know you were a Filipino, thought you were gonna speak in English but in Filipino 😅👍

  • @decobyjones9491
    @decobyjones9491 6 месяцев назад +1248

    Massive Bullet Dodged!!!! It's actually scary how fast she agreed to cheat on OP, when he literally just proposed to her. Honestly this might not have been the first time she cheated. OP should get checked just in case.

    • @foureyedelf6151
      @foureyedelf6151 6 месяцев назад

      What I was going to say. If it wasn't OP's brother the literal day after proposing, it would have been some other man at some other time. The circumstances change but cheaters will always cheat and justify it to themselves. Cut out the cancer before it grows. OP is saving himself SO much heartache down the road.
      Her justification is that he manipulated her and that she felt sorry for him. But, you see, it's perfectly possible to console someone without removing your pants for them. Pity sex is no less pathetic and disgusting than any other form of cheating.

    • @kike7631
      @kike7631 6 месяцев назад +132

      This fact right here. You literally just got engaged, and you cheat on him almost immediately with no real work put in at all. This dude flirted with you a little bit, and your first action is to spread your legs. Like what? You don't get to cry and beg for a chance to explain yourself after that.

    • @grandparedpill2695
      @grandparedpill2695 6 месяцев назад +32

      I completely agree with your assessment however, you can't discount the fact that his brother Adam used this as a mean s of revenge for a perceived slight. The fact that his younger worthless brother, did better than he did. And maybe thanks to him will do even better.

    • @FlipTheBard
      @FlipTheBard 6 месяцев назад +33

      She probably thought that her safety net was all set so she could "go wild".
      Foolish of her.

    • @rhaeasoul8531
      @rhaeasoul8531 6 месяцев назад +26

      Yeah. Even if she genuinely felt bad for the guy there’s a pretty big gap between just listening to someone’s problems and hooking up with them.

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar 6 месяцев назад +1356

    It's amazing how, at the beginning, OP said his mother didn't play favorites, yet there she was at his door, downplaying what Adam did and trying to get OP to pity him.
    Adam has always been her golden child.

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 6 месяцев назад +76

      I was going to comment about this. The mom never had to actually play favorites because Adam was so much more gifted than OP. The results spoke for themselves.
      But now is the one time her younger son got the better of Adam, leading to her colours showing.

    • @HelloItsMikkan
      @HelloItsMikkan 6 месяцев назад +15

      I actually experience this.... Adam is most likely playing the victim.

    • @calico_queen8976
      @calico_queen8976 6 месяцев назад +18

      Add to the mom basically saying she expected OP to always be a failure and him actually being the successful one was shocking. Imagine telling your son, you've always seen him as a loser and didn't expect much from him...

    • @Abdallah-zp8jj
      @Abdallah-zp8jj 6 месяцев назад +6

      Yah but some parents have favourites but they hide it very well
      Mom showed her true colours at the end cuz it’s a very serious situation

    • @birder1298
      @birder1298 5 месяцев назад +8

      He should've reminded her that even if it hit Adam VERY HARD to be excluded from the family, he literally rubbed the fact he hooked up with riley on OP's face, so Adam was clearly trying to throw OP into a psychological rock bottom, and whatever rock bottom Adam fell into, thats deserved x2

  • @muhammedahmed3291
    @muhammedahmed3291 6 месяцев назад +542

    That mother, wow. Hope OP can move on from his crazy family...ezcept the uncle and the other relatives who supported him.

    • @MYLORDMOB35
      @MYLORDMOB35 6 месяцев назад +44

      AKA: stop contacting the mother and the brother, but keep in touch with the rest, who are actually good.

  • @rzas798
    @rzas798 6 месяцев назад +240

    1. OP's brother was and will always be mom's golden child.
    2. The fact that Riley cheated so easily on OP show that she most likely cheated before too
    3. The fact that mom brushes off the cheating so easily do suggest that she might have cheated on OP's father too

    • @PastorRapture
      @PastorRapture 6 месяцев назад +31

      OP’s egg donor definitely cheated on OP’s father. OP might not even be his father’s as it would explain a lot, including Adam’s hostility and the egg donor’s preferential treatment of Adam.

    • @mantelumgamingloilol123
      @mantelumgamingloilol123 6 месяцев назад +7

      @@PastorRapturearen’t affair babies better treated by the mother

    • @kelupthegnome2871
      @kelupthegnome2871 6 месяцев назад +19

      ​@@mantelumgamingloilol123 Unless she always saw him as a mistake.

    • @kelupthegnome2871
      @kelupthegnome2871 6 месяцев назад +18

      ​@@PastorRapture Him being an affair child could explain a lot.

  • @puppychan2086
    @puppychan2086 6 месяцев назад +536

    I know this is a bad situation and the brother is terrible...but if she cheated with his brother that easily I have a strong feeling she already cheated on him multiple times before this. Adam kind of saved him a lot of future trouble, it would've been terrible if he found out she was a cheater after marriage and already having a few kids.

    • @MommaSkelly
      @MommaSkelly 6 месяцев назад +33

      Yep.
      Kind of a "silver lining" look on the horrible situation.

    • @largol33t12
      @largol33t12 6 месяцев назад +14

      @@MommaSkellyI agree. The brother's crappy actions probably saved OP from a horrible marriage and likely an expensive divorce, LOL.

    • @goddessrick8734
      @goddessrick8734 6 месяцев назад +5

      Fake story. Too well told and too ridiculous.

    • @danielanderson1931
      @danielanderson1931 5 месяцев назад

      Bro I would do the same thing to like bro she is a simp for Adam bro💀💀💀

  • @low-keydrama1260
    @low-keydrama1260 6 месяцев назад +264

    OP is right. If HE was the one who cheated with Adam’s fiancé, mommy dearest wouldn’t be so forgiving or trying to get the family to forgive

    • @Jude-i8x
      @Jude-i8x 6 месяцев назад +17

      your pfp describes how i think about the mother

  • @dragonthewolf8106
    @dragonthewolf8106 6 месяцев назад +225

    My question is why did she sleep with the brother at all? Like why even flirt? You just got engaged! Was it pity? Sympathy? A power trip? Like I genuinely don’t understand. I’m makes me wish OP had talked with her just so we can know what her bizarre reasoning was. I genuinely can’t fathom why someone would cheat on their literally just now made fiancé, let alone with said fiancés brother that she knew he didn’t have a good relationship with. Like WHAT WAS THE REASON BEHIND THIS?!

    • @MrArielK
      @MrArielK 6 месяцев назад +33

      Because is convenient to the story and entertaining to the readers

    • @fuchsiasecret120
      @fuchsiasecret120 6 месяцев назад

      There is no reason for it, some people are just like that, you cannot trust them because they are complete hoes... male and female

    • @wheninrome198
      @wheninrome198 6 месяцев назад +99

      ​@@MrArielK bro I know people who have been cheated on the night of their wedding, it's not that crazy to believe

    • @Olimar92
      @Olimar92 6 месяцев назад

      Adam made himself out to be such a loser that she basically pity fucked him. She was likely under the impression he wouldn't tell OP. Honestly if she's that easy to manipulate, she'd be cheating at some point in the future.

    • @chessieray1465
      @chessieray1465 6 месяцев назад +55

      ​@@MrArielK Bold to assume that, when truth is stranger than fiction.

  • @christianthrasher8677
    @christianthrasher8677 6 месяцев назад +144

    Honestly with the way op mom is acting I won't be surprised if she had an affair and that op brother isn't their dad's kid

    • @rogueshark23
      @rogueshark23 6 месяцев назад +14

      I think there are reddit stories like that where the golden child is the AF baby.

  • @lynx9311
    @lynx9311 6 месяцев назад +104

    Couldn't be me. I would have responded to Adam's text with: "I know you want me to be mad at you but honestly this is the nicest thing you've ever done. Thanks for showing me how worthless Riley truly was and for giving me the evidence to prove it. You really helped me dodge a bullet there, buddy."

    • @MrArielK
      @MrArielK 6 месяцев назад

      In other words, thx for making a cuck out of me, that what every men dreams off and im sure people don’t laugh at my back

    • @maskednil
      @maskednil 6 месяцев назад +16

      Don't forget about how Adam showed how worthless he is too.

    • @lynx9311
      @lynx9311 6 месяцев назад +14

      @@maskednil OP already knew that. He expected better from Riley

    • @reillycurran8508
      @reillycurran8508 3 месяца назад

      "Hope it was worth knowing you only got your brother's sloppy seconds by making yourself up as the singular most pathetic creature on the face of the earth!"

  • @RandomTrinidadian
    @RandomTrinidadian 6 месяцев назад +428

    When putting cheaters on blast go right ...

    • @K1-638
      @K1-638 6 месяцев назад +26

      I mean what can I say... he shouldn't have sent the screenshots like a dumbass he did it to himself

    • @Jordan-qf4kd
      @Jordan-qf4kd 6 месяцев назад +5

      Things always go right in fake stories

    • @nicky-su4uo
      @nicky-su4uo 6 месяцев назад

      ​​@@Jordan-qf4kdshut the fu#k up no one cares

    • @HuntCares-zo8qx
      @HuntCares-zo8qx 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@K1-638 how is this fake.

    • @K1-638
      @K1-638 6 месяцев назад

      @@HuntCares-zo8qx u responded to the wrong guy 💀

  • @ladyweasellou3367
    @ladyweasellou3367 6 месяцев назад +182

    They BOTH had intentions twords each other from the beginning, otherwise she would not have been texting chatting to begin with.

    • @TheSergio1021
      @TheSergio1021 6 месяцев назад +25

      Yeah exactly. How did they even have each others phone numbers if Adam wouldnt speak to anyone and would leave gatherings early?

    • @kelupthegnome2871
      @kelupthegnome2871 6 месяцев назад +6

      That's what I was wondering. Him and his brother weren't on speaking terms, so there's no reason she should have had his number unless this had been on goung for some time. I suppose it's. Ot beyond reason he got it before he left that night, but for her to cave so quick. It most likely wasn't the first time.

  • @ayceinquisitor190
    @ayceinquisitor190 6 месяцев назад +91

    A bully is never promising as a child, even with good grades or an athletic body. A bully has a certain mindset that will more than likely screw them up in adult life.
    Adam had all this bad stuff going on, but still chose to mess with OP and sleep with his fiance, as if there wouldnt be any consequences. Adam couldve continued to milk sympathy, but OP wouldnt have been able to tell others days after proposing that he's no longer getting married without explanation. Did his mom expect him to lie when that time came? Did his mom expect OP to say Riley cheated but not reveal Adam as the other partner? Did his mom expect OP to not use the proof? Did Adam really screw himself over just to have a big "haha in your face!" to his little bro thinking he wouldnt be punished?
    Ops mom is an enabler

  • @joshuaadkins9820
    @joshuaadkins9820 6 месяцев назад +101

    sounds like girlfriend was just along for the ride because OP made really good money. She was probably cheating on him behind his back before she made the stupid decision to cheat with his brother.

    • @nightking8490
      @nightking8490 6 месяцев назад +12

      Exactly. She is a gold digger.

    • @blue3532
      @blue3532 6 месяцев назад +8

      Second this. She was so easy to get on the bed.

  • @danteerskine7678
    @danteerskine7678 6 месяцев назад +85

    "They can go to hell for all I care"
    That's some real shiit 💯 👏

  • @TheVeggiekat
    @TheVeggiekat 6 месяцев назад +66

    That mom “why can’t you boys just share?” 🤮 Gross

    • @DragonOfTheMortalKombat
      @DragonOfTheMortalKombat 5 месяцев назад +3

      "Share a girl, make 2 babies, one Adam's and one yours. So easy, I'll be a grandma" mom probably.

    • @Eye_Of_Odin978
      @Eye_Of_Odin978 4 месяца назад

      VV0men ☕️

  • @roabarton7962
    @roabarton7962 6 месяцев назад +59

    Mother is an expert gaslighter. Go no contact and be rid of two toxic people.

    • @TheColombianSpartan
      @TheColombianSpartan 6 месяцев назад +4

      Maybe even change surname or aomething. Just to make sure there's absolutely no link between him and those two people anymore

  • @JohnDoe-oy7qr
    @JohnDoe-oy7qr 6 месяцев назад +45

    The way the mom is treating them so differently- I think there are two different fathers

    • @SnowyWolborg
      @SnowyWolborg 3 месяца назад +1

      I have seen this so many times. Single mothers with children(usually boys) from different men almost always treat one much better than the other.

  • @gauravmotiyani4509
    @gauravmotiyani4509 6 месяцев назад +66

    My theory is that the father is not dead, the brother's father left the mother because her 2nd son wasn't his and both the brother and the mother blame him

  • @smorphous8928
    @smorphous8928 6 месяцев назад +46

    I can’t believe Ops mom can be this delusional. Op fiancé cheated on him with Adam and she wants Op to be okay with it, “oh because his life has gone down hill” So?!? That’s not Ops problem.

    • @nightking8490
      @nightking8490 6 месяцев назад +10

      True. As he said, his mom has a favorite kid.And certainly, not op.

    • @PastorRapture
      @PastorRapture 6 месяцев назад +5

      OP would probably have been in a better spot if it was the egg donor rather than his father in that accident.

    • @SailorStar9
      @SailorStar9 6 месяцев назад +4

      I can see this happening in the future once OP gets a partner who's actually faithful.
      OP's Mom: Your brother is depressed, so give him your gf so he can be happy.

  • @09archange
    @09archange 6 месяцев назад +28

    Finally, an OP who isn’t afraid to go to the extreme option and isn’t a doormat.

    • @DragonOfTheMortalKombat
      @DragonOfTheMortalKombat 5 месяцев назад +4

      Funny thing is, his extremes never got law, police or friends involved. He just showed others what his brother did and everything took care of itself.

    • @09archange
      @09archange 5 месяцев назад +6

      @@DragonOfTheMortalKombat Yeah, most people (probably due to therapy) tend to go with “forgive and forget” until the issue has blown so out of proportion that it can’t be permanently fixed anymore without lawyers, and every story that isn’t obviously fake has OPs that are like this.

  • @FlipTheBard
    @FlipTheBard 6 месяцев назад +26

    Why cheaters think they're owed a person's time to "hear them out"?
    Clearly they cheated because they _could_ and because they _wanted_ to, what's there to "explain"?
    Whatever they say will just be a ridiculous excuse for them to try to guilt trip the cheated person into accepting the cheater back and forgiving their "mistake".

  • @shortangel333
    @shortangel333 6 месяцев назад +23

    WTF was Adam's end goal here? Did he expect OP to just not tell anyone about it? Like how foolish is he, no one was going to take his side except for the delusional mother which makes me think she might have had a hand in this too tbh,

    • @DragonOfTheMortalKombat
      @DragonOfTheMortalKombat 5 месяцев назад

      The moment OP told the family, Adam knew HE F_CKED UP

    • @SnowyWolborg
      @SnowyWolborg 3 месяца назад +1

      Adam is one of those people who lived the first 18 years on easy mode, but failed to launch as an adult. And now his brother, who was always the loser, has passed him up in the race of life and Adam feels humiliated.

    • @Chriss..
      @Chriss.. 2 месяца назад

      He’s a man child because his mom raised him that way.

  • @Rj-ij6ko
    @Rj-ij6ko 6 месяцев назад +24

    LOOOOL the nerve of the mother here is actually hysterical.
    “Oh Op, after your golden child brother slept with your fiancé immediately after you got engaged and then sent you pictures of it…but cmon, my precious baby is sad now”
    Ffs whats an awful mother. I’m glad the family disowned them both.

  • @LeleiTheTigress
    @LeleiTheTigress 6 месяцев назад +32

    Adam really is the textbook definition of “play stupid games, win stupid prizes”

  • @unclelink
    @unclelink 6 месяцев назад +17

    They'll come back, mother and Adam, when he finds a good woman and start a family. Mom will try suing for grandparent's rights (whatever that is) and Adam will go after his wife.

  • @guardianangel7589
    @guardianangel7589 6 месяцев назад +17

    "I won't speak to you until you speak to Adam".
    Best response would have been to tell her that you guess you'll never speak to her again.

    • @DragonOfTheMortalKombat
      @DragonOfTheMortalKombat 5 месяцев назад +4

      OP should've told his mother to be happy Adam is breathing after all that.

    • @SnowyWolborg
      @SnowyWolborg 3 месяца назад +1

      So in other words, nothing of value is lost.

  • @mr.tycoon7246
    @mr.tycoon7246 6 месяцев назад +31

    Ngl if OP here had posted it to his workplace through social media and somehow to his employer, he would've been more miserable, I think he deserved more revenge than he did

  • @kenanbilajac5359
    @kenanbilajac5359 6 месяцев назад +4

    Adam: Wanna have s##?
    Riley: Why not now 😍?
    Adam: Okie dokie.
    OP: she did not even take an day of not cheating when Im proposed to her.
    OP: Massive bullet dodged 😎.

  • @BrightElk
    @BrightElk 6 месяцев назад +15

    I’m not sure what Adam was expecting after sending the conversations and pictures of the clothing? Obviously all it takes is a screen shot and a post to social media. He just sent his brother evidence of his crime. What a stupid thing to do.

    • @komododragon410
      @komododragon410 5 месяцев назад

      Because that was his whole point to shove it up in little brother's face, like a bully

  • @MrArielK
    @MrArielK 6 месяцев назад +103

    Was it because of brother that op was a “loser” and suffer on high school? You can’t run away from your problems...

    • @muhammedahmed3291
      @muhammedahmed3291 6 месяцев назад +28

      There is a difference between a "sibling rivalry" and familial shame.

    • @vengefulwarrior5852
      @vengefulwarrior5852 6 месяцев назад +17

      But he didn't run away from his problems though. He found a college that would help him get the profession he wanted and it helped that it was so far away from home so he didn't have to worry about being in his brother's shadow. Being in an older siblings shadow is a very real thing regardless of it being on purpose like this story or if it is a coincidence like with myself and my brother.

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 5 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@vengefulwarrior5852 True that about being in the older sibling's shadow. I'm the older sibling and it took me many years to understand why my little sister (there's a 12 year difference between us) was so bitchy to me. We're now on the best of terms, but it took a lot of work on my part and a lot of growing up on hers before we got to where we are today.

  • @gazzhumbly5433
    @gazzhumbly5433 6 месяцев назад +15

    The trash walked itself out 😂😂

  • @shawnbrooks5293
    @shawnbrooks5293 6 месяцев назад +21

    Adam is only 27, his life isn't over

    • @gapgamer0954
      @gapgamer0954 6 месяцев назад +1

      I'm 27 as well

    • @halllow
      @halllow 5 месяцев назад

      @@gapgamer0954rip

    • @DragonOfTheMortalKombat
      @DragonOfTheMortalKombat 5 месяцев назад +3

      Considering he's lonely, friendless, family less jobless homeless depressed mess, it'll be soon 😉

    • @SnowyWolborg
      @SnowyWolborg 3 месяца назад

      Adam's problem is that he lived the first 18 years on easy mode, and he got accustomed to things going his way. But once he hit the adult world, he learned fast and hard that he's not special.

  • @blackfire6009
    @blackfire6009 6 месяцев назад +18

    Am I the only one flabbergasted by the fiancee?
    Like, now I'm very curious of the kinda reasoning she could produce to explain how she hooked up with her fiancé's bully the day after being proposed to.
    Though to be truthful my money's on them having something for longer than that.

    • @windrider2190
      @windrider2190 6 месяцев назад +9

      She’s probably been cheating behind OPs back the whole time. Adam just screwed Riley over by bringing the cheating to light just to be a prick to OP.

    • @missytanner3501
      @missytanner3501 6 месяцев назад

      The mental gymnastics of 3 idiot's

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@windrider2190That's pure unfounded speculation. We simply don't know why she had sex with Adam.

    • @Eye_Of_Odin978
      @Eye_Of_Odin978 4 месяца назад

      ​@@vaska1999 Whatever.
      I bet you have NO problems "speculating" when the party is a male.
      Typical misandrist.

    • @GCheckCentral
      @GCheckCentral 4 месяца назад

      ​@@vaska1999 if a little sweet talk from a bum can get you into bed the only explanation is being a THOT.

  • @reillycurran8508
    @reillycurran8508 6 месяцев назад +15

    The dumbest part of this all is that mom could have kept supporting Adam and making sure he was getting the help he needed while also not badgering OP to downplay what Adam did.
    It wasn't enough to make sure her son's life wasn't destroyed by his own idiocy, she wanted to go and make his brother who he wronged in all that idiocy do all the work fixing it.
    Had OP bent it would have been a matter of time before Mom would have been on him about how he owes Adam for what he did and so he should give Adam a loan or get him a job and then put his own neck out to defend Adam when his slackass self got in hot water.

  • @catpoofa
    @catpoofa 6 месяцев назад +63

    'she didn't pick favorites but if my mother had to choose one, it'd be Adam.'
    What in the ai generated bullshit is this. So she does have a favorite? 😭😭😭

    • @catpoofa
      @catpoofa 6 месяцев назад +22

      Okay, almost done with the story. HOW MANY CONTRADICTIONS DOES THIS DAMN STORY HAVE? first, Riley was blocked and then he said he hasn't blocked her yet. Then the vagueness of the relatives, like wtf? 😭😭😭 This story is for sure fake

    • @bekleedee
      @bekleedee 6 месяцев назад +10

      That bugs tf out of me 😂 is it one or the other? AI stuff bugs me to no end. Especially the art stuff.

    • @3adgamd3r
      @3adgamd3r 6 месяцев назад +5

      Nah it’s more like my dad, me and my sisters (not his kids) he’d treat us all “fairly” in that he’d always get us the same things, if I got a chocolate bar, they also got chocolate bars, but if I did something wrong he wouldn’t punish me to the same degree as he’d punish them
      I was my dads golden child and my sisters were my mums golden children, and with that said we were all neglected, abused and traumatised, sometimes life is just messy

    • @catpoofa
      @catpoofa 6 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@3adgamd3rI get that for sure, and maybe that's what op in the story meant. Life is quite messy, with relationships and stuff. but let's be real and say it how it is, that is just picking favorites blatently. Sorry that you went through that though, hope everything gets better.

    • @3adgamd3r
      @3adgamd3r 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@catpoofa eh I’m 27 now and haven’t spoken to my dad since I was 23ish, I miss the person I thought he was as a child, but as I grow older the more I realise he wasn’t a good person
      My family sorta imploded a long time ago for various reasons

  • @nightking8490
    @nightking8490 6 месяцев назад +11

    The golden child was just golden 💩. 😂

  • @christopherwilliams1042
    @christopherwilliams1042 6 месяцев назад +8

    Adam high-key saved his brother honestly.... His fiance folded like a beach chair and smashed the day she got engaged😂

  • @donkeyhigh8420
    @donkeyhigh8420 6 месяцев назад +6

    Cheaters and homewreckers makes my blood boil.. God damn I hate those pathetic little things. Cheating should have a sentence.

  • @kennycai8695
    @kennycai8695 6 месяцев назад +6

    That brother sounds like someone who peaked at high school, and cannot accept failure cause he was never put in that kind of position ever, which kind of explains his behavior. I am also going on a limb by saying that the brother resembles their late father more, hence why the mother gravitated to him so eagerly.
    OP, while it's sad that you had to cut out your immediate family and your fiancé, but that's what you do with tumors. At the very least, you have your uncle as a pillar of support, and honestly, not peaking like your brother did was a blessing in disguise. All that's left is to live your own life, away from the toxic individuals putting you down.

  • @kastastadsble
    @kastastadsble 6 месяцев назад +32

    I mean, great guy Adam, he saved his brother years...., who cheats after they engaged the next day...that could have been ruined life..

    • @Souchi-ito
      @Souchi-ito 6 месяцев назад +3

      Because it's all made up. 23 yeras old and huge paying job. Yeah right. And even if it's true, how did he do op any favor? He might do it again with op's next fiance to hurt op. It's so weird you're defending a pos man.

    • @DragonOfTheMortalKombat
      @DragonOfTheMortalKombat 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@Souchi-ito oh no, you don't understand, first of all not every fiancé will be foolish enough to hookup with a miserable lonely guy. Secondly, considering the state of his mind and emotions it probably won't be long before he does the unthinkable 😁

    • @DragonOfTheMortalKombat
      @DragonOfTheMortalKombat 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@Souchi-ito Also you don't understand sarcasm.

  • @maskednil
    @maskednil 6 месяцев назад +7

    Finally at the end OP realizes his mother isn't worth it.

  • @sophiaisabelle01
    @sophiaisabelle01 6 месяцев назад +55

    He's not being a good sibling. Maybe you should confront him. That'll help escalate the drama.

  • @lanceloyer9147
    @lanceloyer9147 6 месяцев назад +11

    This was not the first she cheated, with either the brother or somebody else, OP dodged a huge bullet and his brother did him a favor, but he still needs to go complete N.C. with him and mom forever.

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 5 месяцев назад

      You don't know that. It's just unfounded speculation.

    • @lanceloyer9147
      @lanceloyer9147 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@vaska1999 You don't know that it's not either. If you don't know her personally, it's pure unfounded speculation on your part that she hasn't. It was far to easy for her to jump into bed with the brother even before she was married, like i said, and will say again, this is not the first time she has cheated on him, or anybody else that came before him, it would not surprise me if she has been a serial cheater her whole dating life.

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 5 месяцев назад

      @@lanceloyer9147 Except that I'm not speculating one way or the other, as you are, but keeping to the facts we know.

  • @lolmanv
    @lolmanv 5 месяцев назад +3

    W uncle for being a better parent than his own mother

  • @silverwinterwolf2064
    @silverwinterwolf2064 6 месяцев назад +3

    Pretty Much Most Mothers with Favourite kids in a Nutshell: My Favourite Child took part in an afair of my mother child's Fiance? Oh Don't worry sweetie, its just a little squabble, my favourite child deserves all the happiness in the world for fucking up your Engagement and Life!
    I actually wanted to puke after typing that.

  • @Raph_27
    @Raph_27 6 месяцев назад +7

    I hope op got his ring back from the horse with W

    • @MrArielK
      @MrArielK 6 месяцев назад

      Unlikely, op has no backbone

  • @goatkiller666
    @goatkiller666 6 месяцев назад +5

    Mom - “She wouldn’t talk to me until I reached to Adam…”
    OP - “promise?

  • @RGRaj_1977
    @RGRaj_1977 6 месяцев назад +3

    I'd thank Adam for exposing Riley.

  • @emperorpalpatine2957
    @emperorpalpatine2957 5 месяцев назад +2

    What a Bro, Adam is. Dude removed all the toxicity in OPs life. Removed toxic family, removed Riley who is very likely a habitual cheater, then removed himself from OP's life.

  • @amalgamangel
    @amalgamangel 6 месяцев назад +2

    Brother - narc; Mother - enabler

  • @Rinefi
    @Rinefi 6 месяцев назад +4

    7:07 She wanted to be manipulated, she was into him.
    Honestly, I would be happy, I wouldn't want to have someone like that for the rest of my life

  • @noobyman333
    @noobyman333 6 месяцев назад +4

    If he maintains contact with moms side of the family too, he should treat that relationship with a grain of salt and be prepared for them to possibly start to flip sides later down the line. I'd hope they do not but in the long run people have a habit of wanting everything to magically work out. It's easier for dads side of the family to cut them off for good then moms.

  • @Milky-kz8rr
    @Milky-kz8rr 6 месяцев назад +6

    The mom is right, Adam is a grown man. His downfall is his fault. Op isn't entitled to Adam’s feelings and his life. Adam is stupid for sending the screenshots and stupid for going headfirst into a business he knew nothing about.

  • @Certifieddonkeybrainless
    @Certifieddonkeybrainless 6 месяцев назад +3

    I would have definitely told the family what mom tried to do.

  • @nataliereeves3594
    @nataliereeves3594 6 месяцев назад +4

    Mom is definitely playing favourites. Her enabling him has made him the horrible person he is.

  • @narcissus1111
    @narcissus1111 6 месяцев назад +4

    1. Blocked ex fiancé after sending text
    2. Haven’t blocked her yet
    ??????

  • @markusz_
    @markusz_ 6 месяцев назад +1

    Mom deffo sees Adam as a husband's replacement. It's called emotional incest.

  • @Bxbygwxrl
    @Bxbygwxrl 6 месяцев назад +1

    If your mother admits Adam is an A**hole then that means she had to admit the large role she played in helping him turn out that way, which would mean she needs to confront the type of mother she’s been (including how much she neglected you) but people are cowards, especially insufficient parents😂

  • @tommyvercetti4687
    @tommyvercetti4687 6 месяцев назад +1

    what a disgusting mother.
    Defitely fake, but good read tho

  • @Allantitan
    @Allantitan 6 месяцев назад +2

    I can never understand how people like Adam can betray their siblings. Hell me and my brother might fight on occasion but it hasn’t gotten any worse then an argument here…a bit of fighting there and that’s it neither of us would dream of convincing the others SO to cheat

  • @AdrielDoesGaming
    @AdrielDoesGaming 6 месяцев назад +3

    The brother, mother, and Riley are just horrible for hurting OP like this

  • @quixcover
    @quixcover 6 месяцев назад +2

    Come on man. Brother did him a huge favor. If the brother could get over his pride, he could have apologized for getting his fiance to cheat, said he did him a favor, and used that opportunity to fix things. If she cheated on him that fast, probably was already cheating.

  • @AyaanDB.Editor
    @AyaanDB.Editor 6 месяцев назад +3

    Fake story, contradictions
    "I blocked her"
    "I havent blocked her yet"
    huh???

  • @PancakeNation
    @PancakeNation 6 месяцев назад +1

    Sounds like the mother needs some psychotherapy herself because THE UTTER AUDACITY TO BRING IN YOUR DEAD DAD TO DEFEND HERSELF

  • @lapure2220
    @lapure2220 6 месяцев назад +1

    What if the true reason his mother doesnt show him as much love and support as his brother is because she cheating on her late husband and they don't have the same father?

  • @ladyweasellou3367
    @ladyweasellou3367 6 месяцев назад +4

    It's so weird to me how everyone who cheats and is caught (it doesn't matter if I read it online, heard it from one of these videos, told about it by a friend, co-worker, family member, etc, etc, etc....
    The cheating partner always reacts by "Just let me explain!" Things like "please just wait, just listen"
    Like, seriously, what could you possibly say in explanation at that moment that would make it okay?

    • @windrider2190
      @windrider2190 6 месяцев назад +2

      It’s simply just a rat getting caught and trying to come up with an excuse for why they fucked up.

  • @theretrodragonyope
    @theretrodragonyope 6 месяцев назад +2

    Adam really helped reveal that character.

  • @zacharyrollick6169
    @zacharyrollick6169 6 месяцев назад +2

    He should look on the bright side. Adam revealed who Riley really was before any permanent commitment.

  • @zobiaccancercrab29scotty74
    @zobiaccancercrab29scotty74 6 месяцев назад +6

    What's a booty so good from afar that you just had to ruin it like I don't even know how you even do that every time I watch videos like this I just laugh because all the time it's I they all suffer in the process they get nothing in return and they are completely cut off from the rest are they actually are accepted from the rest and the one person that leaves they need that bad I find it hilarious cuz there's no way I'm doing that I honestly only want to watch the video cuz I already know that the brother already got kicked the hell out😂😂😂

    • @foureyedelf6151
      @foureyedelf6151 6 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah we watch because it scratches that itch in the soul that wants things to work out the way they should.
      Yeah some people are just that horny that they'll ruin their lives and others' over it and not think twice at the time. I know because my "father" was one of those that couldn't keep his pants up. My step brother (found out later half brother) is only six years younger than me. He got people fired. We had to move frequently and change circles frequently when I was a kid. It never stopped. Still might not have, don't know or care to know.
      Unfortunately reality rarely has such happy endings as "everyone got what they deserved in the end". But that's why the good ending stories get so popular. We, as a society, need them.

  • @jitsukoluvr
    @jitsukoluvr 6 месяцев назад +1

    As much as I hate break ups through text THIS MOMENT IS THE MOST APPROPRIATE TO DO SO. Massive bullet dodged.

  • @dt4654
    @dt4654 6 месяцев назад +2

    turns out being good at sports and school isn't as applicable to success as an adult if you aren't putting any effort and jumping straight in with no research.

  • @windrider2190
    @windrider2190 6 месяцев назад +3

    Bruh, how strong of a drug is jealousy for the big brother to throw his life so much further under the bus than it already was?

  • @grandparedpill2695
    @grandparedpill2695 6 месяцев назад +5

    He took your letter badly because that's his projection. It's a truly despicable individual.

  • @UnstableEquilibrium
    @UnstableEquilibrium 6 месяцев назад +1

    Mom: "I can hardly handle losing the most important in my life."
    Also mom: "Being mad at your brother for convincing the most important person in your life to betray you is silly. Get over it."

  • @Silver_Yeet
    @Silver_Yeet 6 месяцев назад +2

    anyway big W for the uncle

  • @ifevil
    @ifevil 6 месяцев назад +2

    so did he or did he not block his ex fiancé 🤔

  • @ndfamgaming597
    @ndfamgaming597 6 месяцев назад +4

    Bro had to get this hand with a side of fries

  • @leegraves8878
    @leegraves8878 6 месяцев назад +2

    Dear mother would have got the back of my hand.

  • @clamiyep7008
    @clamiyep7008 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love that op 😂
    Seriously, the mother has some serious issues. This is so stupid . The brother slept with the fiancée on purpose, even rubbed it on op's face and now he needs to be pitied ? Go to h*ll !
    He's an adult. He should know better than anyone that actions have consequences, and if he wasn't ready for them, he shouldn't have started this

  • @Himmel23
    @Himmel23 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm pretty sure Riley had been cheating with Adam long before OP proposed to her, they had each other's phone numbers when OP explicitly said that Adam didn't talk to anyone, OP also said Riley would always mention Adam when they came back from the gatherings, that's a massive redflag right there, no matter what she was saying about him, if a woman is always talking about another man you can be sure something is up.
    Also there's the fact that it happened literally the day after they got engaged, of course they had already been doing it before as she felt pretty comfortable doing it despite the engagement, you don't go from getting engaged and the throwing it away the next day, that's a stretch to believe, i guess Adam is the typical stupid jerk that didn't think two moves ahead and would try to ruin his brother's happiness but instead ended up saving him from a cannonball of a cheater. Adam could've caused some much more damage if he was actually smart. Imagine if he gets Riley pregnant and they make OP raise it? Later down the line the damage would be way worse. Adam just wanted a quick thrill of feeling superior in the moment like he did when he bullied OP when younger but in the process only made himself more miserable.

  • @randyl8979
    @randyl8979 6 месяцев назад +1

    Won't feel like it so soon but OPs bother did him a huge favor. That girl would have cheated on him throughout their relationship. At least now there are no kids to be hurt or even more years wasted.

  • @doncjack5913
    @doncjack5913 6 месяцев назад +1

    It's sad that he lost the love of his life at the time. But he dodged a bullet for a nasty divorce and settlements.
    He should charge his brother with a restraining order against him anyway to prevent further issues. Also (just to spite his ex), post happy pictures with a new girl to social media feeds Riley views to show how stupid she was to lose the one person who wanted to spend the rest of his life with.

  • @dragonlordasirlies5520
    @dragonlordasirlies5520 6 месяцев назад +1

    not surprised... there are some asshole parents like the mom; my grandma do that with my mom (who is the firstborn due her being a girl) and dotes on her 2 younger boys. and blew my mom supposed inheritance from my grandpa for the boys. eventually she realized her mistake before she passed 17 yrs ago, but the aftermath of that decision makes my mom bitter since she's the only educated person on her side...
    *bonus points if you can guess which kind of family this is
    we can't choose who's family we are born into, but we can choose who's worthed for our life

  • @chetzu961
    @chetzu961 6 месяцев назад +1

    Adam plays stupid game, win stupid prize. He did hurt OP, but at what cost? Now he's a failure rock bottom.

  • @ToaRahkshi
    @ToaRahkshi 6 месяцев назад +3

    Ugh, AI generated and boring/predictable. "I sent the text to Riley and blocked her." Few minutes later "I havent't blocked her yet"

  • @poppy-jb3st
    @poppy-jb3st 5 месяцев назад +1

    so he blocked her after he broke up with her over text but then he said later that he hadn't blocked her yet when she was begging him to take her back? lol. this story is fake/ai written and this comment section is full of people screaming "all women are cheaters!!" but crying "not all men" when a man cheats on a woman

  • @galpojenalyn4672
    @galpojenalyn4672 6 месяцев назад +2

    I hate it when parents playing favorites like why? they are all your child I am happy my sister never did this to her 4 childrens and we never do too to our nieces and nephew so they can love each other equally too.

  • @thegamerchampie8351
    @thegamerchampie8351 6 месяцев назад +1

    I always hate the whole "be the bigger person" thing. Like yes, in some situations being the bigger person is helpful and will save future problems but in others, forgiving someone who will never change or be better will just cause yourself more pain and isnt good.

  • @Gojo_kitkat1
    @Gojo_kitkat1 6 месяцев назад +1

    Fuck Adam and hopefully op finds a loyal girl that is beautiful for him and the most perfect one for op.

  • @sarahheck9831
    @sarahheck9831 6 месяцев назад +1

    The thing is the brother shot himself in the foot. If he had just been content knowing that he had slept with her that would be really bad. But he wanted OP to know he had done it as well. What did he think was going to happen? Did he think people would magically forget about Riley? Also, seems like Riley got off pretty light for being the worst fiancee.

  • @frogsarecool6135
    @frogsarecool6135 6 месяцев назад +1

    bro dodged not just a bullet but tactical nuke!

  • @Sienna6164
    @Sienna6164 3 месяца назад +1

    I bet ya that Adam was the golden child the entire time and that’s why she never stood up for OP

  • @Nik66928
    @Nik66928 6 месяцев назад +1

    Nothing of value was lost

  • @divyanshsahai
    @divyanshsahai 6 месяцев назад +1

    Given how easily she betrayed OP, it’s good that she did that before the wedding. Now take her to court for the wedding expenses. And thank your brother. He did you a favour by taking himself out of your life and also took your low life sorry excuse of a woman.

  • @herohero45665
    @herohero45665 6 месяцев назад +1

    yeah shes def cheating before hocking up with adam

  • @anubishound8179
    @anubishound8179 6 месяцев назад +1

    11:39 lol what the fuck is he in a polycule with his fiancé and his brother

  • @CodyJonesXD
    @CodyJonesXD 5 месяцев назад +1

    *Where's The Video With The Updates!*

  • @MacClay8
    @MacClay8 6 месяцев назад +2

    I have literally never heard a real person refer to their parent's death as their 'demise'.