I mean its basically just narcism (They think seh/he only cheated with them cause they were so much Better than their current Partner - and of course they are So good that she/he would Never Cheat when he/shes the Partner = Narcism
@@funfungerman8401 I mean, it's really weird. Even if they think that way, how won't they think that she/he will not find a better one than them? They also think that they are the best? Totally Narcissism!
I know OP wanted to prove to his brother that she’ll cheat on him, but if my brother got with my girlfriend like that, I wouldn’t try to warn him to not marry her. I’d want him to have a miserable marriage. Who the hell betrays their brother like that?
I would, dude remember the inheritance the bitch after their parents death and divorcing this fool would get 1/4 of their parents inheritance eventually.
Lol imagine marrying someone who cheated on your brother with you, whose own family disowned her, and who invites all her past conquests to your marriage. Yeah you're definitely special and she changed. Absolutely pathetic.
The parents should have reported her to CPS. She has a pattern of not taking care of the child, so while the foster system has a bad rep, there is a good chance that baby would actually be better off in the long run.
Edit: Yes, Foster System might be an option. Full on adoption though the system sucks though. Most people end up depressed, suicidal, unemployed and or addicted. I doubt it would be better. The statistics don't lie. And yes, in this case it WAS better to get adopted. But my point about general adoption through the system still stands.
@@SyndroOmCaniI can tell you've never spoken to actually adopted people. Also foster care is not adoption. Foster care is designed to be temporary. Adoption is becoming family without genetic ties.
Brother is also garbage, so, you know, they were made for each other. But honestly this story sounds made up, like, it’s baffling that OP goes out of his way to continuously look out for his brother and protect him from The Evil Woman when bro also betrayed OP.
Because lonely men need people in their lives even if those people hurt them. Guys like this will always get treated horrible by everyone because they are afraid to be alone
@@mshake7056 You will be treated the way you allow yourself to be treated. He can maintain contact but make it very clear that what he did is not acceptable. Break a jaw, a leg, something.
@@chinaking918 Yes, and now it is time to for at least 5 years rub it in his face the kid aint even his. Court will make the husband pay child support anyway unless Tasha comes up with a name.
I can do nothing but laugh at Noah, that one manager and that no good whore.😂😂😂 Noah, simply because how you get them is how you lose them. Also, OP had a mini- phone book of receipts and tried to warn him multiple times. That manager deserved a lawsuit for putting those kids in harms way. Kyle deserved to be divorced and taken to the cleaners. And as for Tasha, like I need to say anything else. A few people were all too willing to 🦭 around and find out in this story.
Reeta is saint woman to willingly to adopt a child who is son of cheaters. I’m glad that she ruined her exhusband life by divorce. Now he has to pay alimony and child support to her. As for OP and his entire family needs to stop being the kid’s life even though he is innocent, but Tasha will come back again.
Pathetic, all of them but OP. purely pathetic in thier own ways. Some of them including his brother don’t even deserve a quarter of the grace given to them
Thank you! Why on earth would the parents support this marriage. Why would they pay for the wedding? It doesn't make any sense. People with that much money never tought their kids about prenups and gold diggers? I'm inclined to think it's fake because they are just too stupid to breath.
🤦♂Why is he defending his brother? Both his brother and ex-girlfriend are cheaters. To me, the betrayal of my own flesh and blood would be way harder to bear than some piece I got due to low self-esteem.... 🤔 I'm petty; I would just watch it all burn while eating popcorn.
OP’s dad was the only real one, good family doesn’t condone or partake in someone betraying their own. OP was even gracious enough to warn his brother for his own sake despite his brother not having his back and making jabs at him. Well he made his own bed.
I agree. F*ck OPs mom. F*ck Tasha, most of all. But seriously, if that was my mom, I would tell me dad to have her move out with Tasha if she even tried for a second to babysit a child that is the living result of Tasha's betrayal of my brother. Tasha did so much damage to OPs family, but his mom, rather than having an ounce of pride, let all that go because of her "emotions". Stupidity or lack of spine, maybe both. But I would team up with the rest of the family to tell me mom to rent her own apartment and babysit for Tasha until she was done doing it. If that mom will not support her family against someone who has done so much to damage the family and destroy their relationships, then her little "project of emotion" would be her own. OPs mom's actions are a betrayal in themselves, and OP also seems weak, which makes me suspect this is a fake story.
I can't help it, but why does OOP be so lenient with his brother? He cheated with his GF on him. Taunts him with it. I would have told him: told you so, get lost and be done with it.
Because weak spineless people are afraid to be alone so doesn't matter what you do to them they will cling on to you and forgive you everytime. The brother probably knew this so he didn't care what he did or said to his brother he knew he would be by his side still like a good little doggie
I stopped watching when the op said that his ex gf cheated on him with his own brother and still tried to help his brother bruhhhh if my brother do something like this to me I obviously break up with the whore but I also cut ties with my brother forever … he can be in deep shit I don’t care
Yeah, Tasha sounds a little bit like my "mother" in some ways. Getting children purely for the purpose of child support, always thinking she should get everything for free from other people and others are just selfish if they don't allow her to be a freeloader, all that sort of stuff. I'm sure my "mother" also would have cheated on my dad, but thankfully he wasn't stupid enough to actually marry her and they actually ended their relationship before I was even born (the only reason why he stayed in contact with her at all was because he liked me and wanted to continue being part of my life - I still don't think it was worth it, would have been better for him if he had just cut all contact with her immediately and went on to live his life without her or me).
@@JoeExoticReddo Yeah, that's true. Tbh, if my dad and grandma hadn't supported me as much as they did while I was still legally forced to live with my "mother" I probably wouldn't be here now. Like, literally, either I would have been recruited by some extremist organization and manipulated into carrying out some sort of attack (cause I was exactly the type of person that extremists like to recruit - no friends, regular abuse at home, all that sort of stuff) or I would have become a homeless drug addict. And even that's only if I had survived "living" with her at all. The fact that I can now live an at least somewhat normal life is entirely thanks to them and their huge efforts in trying to overcome or circumvent all the legal barriers that were put in place (custody, severely limited visitation rights, etc).
Wow your dad sounds like real winner, deciding that not marrying your mom but was good idea but still decided to drag another human being into this mess.
I'm so happy the baby ended up with Rita, who sounds like a lovely and caring woman, and not with one of his cheating, lying, neglectful biological "parents"
To be totally honest, cleaner at a daycare? Where your kid gets watched while you clean? (possibly for free?) ... Dream job. Might not pay much, but you're working, earning money, and your kid gets taken care of by certified people.
You can tell she’s one of those people that deflects all her issues onto others and doesn’t taken any responsibility for their actions. It’s often hypocrites that are insecure. Edit: now I’ve heard the rest of the story, she’s a whole lot worse than that and seems like an evil person.
The brother cheated with his little brother gf then married her didn't listen to his brother he got more than he deserved so did the parents. I hope she takes everything.
"I wanted a really hot girlfriend to show off to other guys." I just want to note this line. This line is where a lot of problems start. Perhaps this is jumping to conclusions but... When that's what you're looking for, is it really surprising that the kinds of people who approach you have ulterior motives? After all, aren't you doing the exact same thing with them?
@@gabrielhernanizaguirre383 Sir, the only time when things can't go wrong is when you're dead. And even then, we can't account for the afterlife. No matter what you do, there's going to be a risk. Any reasonable person mitigates those risks where they can without negatively impacting their quality of life. We look both ways before crossing the street. We avoid driving while under the influence and wear a seatbelt. We check the use by dates on food before we consume them... There are, bluntly put, a LOT of things people do on a daily basis to mitigate the chances of things going wrong. Ensuring that you're in the right headspace when you start looking for a relationship is one of those measures. And if it's not for you, it should be.
He claims he was just trying to get back at his brother, but he went above and beyond to protect his brother from a cheater so many other posts have OP wishing hell and death upon their cheating sibling, but it is obvious he didn't feel a thing for Tasha so he was not devastated like other OPs. He was only concerned about keeping her away from his family.
Like mentioned in the video. People who cheat thinks that everyone does it. It's an extreme assumption that is completely wrong. For starters, it's all an huge issue about low confidence in yourself that can trigger that sort of behavior. You start believing your own BS. Even though I've been cheated on multiple times it has been my own fault for choosing a superficial and insecure girlfriends all those times. I refuse to lower myself to such a disgusting level.
Bad people always get what they deserve, not just cos "bad luck" follows them, it's the constant bad decisions they make that will ultimately destroy them, how long can you run from problems until it catches up to you. They never learn to act appropriately, do what's right, do things properly, it inevitably come back to them.
Every story with a grain of salt. But he did say word travels quick in his town. His family also has money, they could get a PI, Rita could reach out for information from them, give them information. Emphasis on them having money, people keep them in the loop to see if they'll give resources. Mom could be invested at that age seems to be retired, so she's got time.
Bro this story is BS his brother thinking the baby was his would have signed a birth certificate so upon divorce he would still have to pay child support if this was in the United States or Europe he just so conveniently learns every detail about this story but the most unbelievable part is an Asian with the name Kyle 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@barryallen3555 Kyle isn't his real name. Most Reddit stories use fake names to hide their and others identity since Defamation of Character is a thing.
@@DeepDownInTheOcean I would actually tell my story on there but I don't like to use fake names for it and I don't feel like debating with people who will bitch about me using real names of those involved. Defamation charge would be easy to beat IF that came up afterwards.
Not only because my brother has children, but I could never imagine being with my brothers girlfriend fiancé or wife. Even if they’re just talking. I could could never see myself being with anybody my brother feels any feeling for.
Brother deserved to get cheated on honestly. Some people are so stubborn and think others are stubborn despite the fact warnings. Then they get hurt. It’s on them for ignoring the red flags
That's absolutely disgusting, why would anyone support this. My father promised to personally bring any of us to the brink of death if ANY of my siblings did this, and my father is an all around good man so you know he means business.
and then imagine someone is going to end up with this cheater just because she’s pretty and be this kids step dad and probably take care of their every need and then still get cheated on! Some people don’t deserve a happy ending. This goes for cheaters, murderers, pedos, and other evil people.
It's long past time that we forced people who want to become parents to undergo an evaluation first, and give increased powers to child services to save kids like this from horrible parents like that, to place them with people who will raise them well.
Feels like everyone in the OP's family was delusional, the OP was but then saw the truth, then his Brother and his Mom and now their all free I guess meanwhile this "Tasha" literally got years before this family realized the problem
What I believe as a brother is you didn’t want your brother to suffer when you had that feeling of wanting to rub it in his face about her cheating. You wanted to vent and have your frustration be heard and an apology. Most times when people wrong us, we want to get back at them to feel like our pain was addressed and understood. No good or regular person enjoys pain in others, inflicting suffering is a defense we initiate out of emotion of our own suffering in a sense. What you two really needed was to talk and apologize
Really apologize, what the brother did to OP is not something that should ever be forgiven or forgotten, the brother slept with he girlfriend and several years later the rubs it in OP face, the brother believed her when she said OP tried to seduce her, and also treated OP and his parents like trash when they tried to show him evidence of her cheating on him
This story really made me sad and happy at the same time. I’m sad because I know there are still some moms, heck even dads who don’t take care of their child who is innocent. I really felt like crying because of hearing what the baby had been through. I’m happy that there are people who are out there who are willing to look after a child who is not even blood related, and take good care of it while the parents were fu*king doing drugs. I’m happy that the baby was adopted by Reeta. Reeta, OP’s mom and OP big W❤
It's not surprising the ex also cheated on the brother, she is just going to ruin all her relationships with her cheating. And I feel no sympathy for her, much less the brother. I find it funny he was cheated on since he honestly deserved it. I don't care if this makes me a bad person, I just hate people who cheat instead of just leaving the relationship
The person doing all this parkour in the background had me suffering at the end when they were completely unable to just open the lowest trapdoor so they could jump up...
I'm very early on into the video but I to have share what I learnt awhile ago, studies show cheaters will cheat again the more you do something personally immoral, the more you lose guilt over it and the more likely you are to do it again
She is too far gone, there is nothing you or anyone can do for her, she is beyond a lost cause from how reckless she lives. Sometimes a drug overdose, losing your child or being near death's door would knock sense into people, but she doesn't care one bit about her life, the baby or anything other than sex it seems. One day she is going to overdose again and this time she won't be lucky a second time
Family can reconnect, but trust is fragile. He can act cordially but there would be little patience where little disagreement could potentially go full blast. Thats why NC is preferable.😢😢😢
I keep listening to these and I my brain literally cannot accept that people like this are real. Like I know people can be stupid and crazy but this is a whole other level of NUTS
sad part about this story is there is millions of these girls walking around. Won't take care of their own kids, just trying to swing from one BF to another.
Ok but OP loved his bro enough to try and help even after this monolithic betrayal only to have it thrown in his face like wtf these kinds of saints don’t exist
Ngl op is also the same breed as his brother because his friends all told him she's no good but he behaved EXACTLY the same as his brother, not believing in his friends. Even the cheated on then op opened his eyes is the exact same process.
Dont mock cleaning jobs,if a place isnt clean it cant be used meaning there would be a loss of money,we cleaners are bottom of the rung but we keep the country running,it pays minimum wage but so do many other jobs,
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She cheated on you but she won't cheat on me. Classic.
OP is definitely a hoodville follower 😂 fucking blackcels
Nah, it's more like, "She cheated on you [with me], but she won't cheat on me."
Whole thing is just disgusting smh
The people who think "It won't happen to me" for ANYTHING are some of the biggest idiots out there!
I mean its basically just narcism
(They think seh/he only cheated with them cause they were so much Better than their current Partner - and of course they are So good that she/he would Never Cheat when he/shes the Partner
= Narcism
@@funfungerman8401 I mean, it's really weird. Even if they think that way, how won't they think that she/he will not find a better one than them?
They also think that they are the best? Totally Narcissism!
the brother trying to rub it in his face and taking digs at him would be the end of it lmao, i would never talk to them again
I know OP wanted to prove to his brother that she’ll cheat on him, but if my brother got with my girlfriend like that, I wouldn’t try to warn him to not marry her. I’d want him to have a miserable marriage. Who the hell betrays their brother like that?
Someone that knows family doesn't mean shit
I would, dude remember the inheritance the bitch after their parents death and divorcing this fool would get 1/4 of their parents inheritance eventually.
@@JustinAdamson270Family doesn't betray you like that...
@@alexdhamp it's not a betrayal just because she left the first brother
@@JustinAdamson270 It IS betrayal that he slep with his brother's CURRENT girlfriend though.
Lol imagine marrying someone who cheated on your brother with you, whose own family disowned her, and who invites all her past conquests to your marriage. Yeah you're definitely special and she changed. Absolutely pathetic.
He IS special... just not in the way he thought
@@TheSergio1021kinda wondering if his IQ is actually double digits.
Right!! The fact these dofus are real people is mind bogling to me, they sound like a soap opera.
And then getting mad at the brother for "seducing his wife" after he literally did that to the brother. Jesus, this is some small town bar shit
he is special, a special idiot
His brother isn't ashamed of his actions or his stupidity ; he's ashamed that he got a taste of his own medicine.
The parents should have reported her to CPS. She has a pattern of not taking care of the child, so while the foster system has a bad rep, there is a good chance that baby would actually be better off in the long run.
Edit: Yes, Foster System might be an option. Full on adoption though the system sucks though. Most people end up depressed, suicidal, unemployed and or addicted. I doubt it would be better. The statistics don't lie.
And yes, in this case it WAS better to get adopted. But my point about general adoption through the system still stands.
@@SyndroOmCani not most some lots of happy adopted people
@@SyndroOmCaniI can tell you've never spoken to actually adopted people. Also foster care is not adoption. Foster care is designed to be temporary. Adoption is becoming family without genetic ties.
@@SyndroOmCanineglect parenting from a single parent household will cause that too. At least the kid has a chance in the foster system.
@@SyndroOmCanibetter to get adopted than live with OP's ex
Reeta is the true MVP of this story... True angel sent to save this child
TL;DR: Brother marries OOP's garbage even after being dutifully informed about why garbage is garbage.
Hilarity ensues.
Hilarity? It sounds like shenanigans to me lol
Dutifully informed? Dude! He snatched her from his brother‘s hands! 😂😂😂 there is no need to inform him, he knowingly took a cheater in
Brother is also garbage, so, you know, they were made for each other. But honestly this story sounds made up, like, it’s baffling that OP goes out of his way to continuously look out for his brother and protect him from The Evil Woman when bro also betrayed OP.
I wanna leave a like, but the comment is at the funny number.
@@Mario-SunshineGalaxy64sadly it's true and all of them died from COVID they deleted themselves as to not suffer let's have a moment of silence
This is so sad for the child. Reeta is a godsend. Kyle, noah and tasha all deserve what they got and more
Why kyle?
@@denizkenger52He cheated on Reeta? And abandoned his baby?
That baby wasn't his, the baby shouldn't have to go through that
(Oh nvm I got the names mixed up)
I am not sure why OP did not go NC with the brother when he found him and his then-GF together. That was a line no one should ever cross.
Because lonely men need people in their lives even if those people hurt them. Guys like this will always get treated horrible by everyone because they are afraid to be alone
Then on top of that the brother tried to rub it in his face that they’re happily married meanwhile Tasha was cheating with every Tom,Dick and Harry.
@@mshake7056 You will be treated the way you allow yourself to be treated.
He can maintain contact but make it very clear that what he did is not acceptable. Break a jaw, a leg, something.
@@chinaking918
Yes, and now it is time to for at least 5 years rub it in his face the kid aint even his. Court will make the husband pay child support anyway unless Tasha comes up with a name.
@@jamegumb7298 Tasha already found the baby's father. You may have missed that part in the story.
I can do nothing but laugh at Noah, that one manager and that no good whore.😂😂😂 Noah, simply because how you get them is how you lose them. Also, OP had a mini- phone book of receipts and tried to warn him multiple times. That manager deserved a lawsuit for putting those kids in harms way. Kyle deserved to be divorced and taken to the cleaners. And as for Tasha, like I need to say anything else.
A few people were all too willing to 🦭 around and find out in this story.
The brother is no good either he prue trash by getting with his little brother's girlfriend.
Reeta is saint woman to willingly to adopt a child who is son of cheaters. I’m glad that she ruined her exhusband life by divorce. Now he has to pay alimony and child support to her. As for OP and his entire family needs to stop being the kid’s life even though he is innocent, but Tasha will come back again.
I love the classic statement when it comes to cheaters. "If they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you."
If this woman asked me somewhere alone with her I'd definitely be recording it even if on audio.
That's the only thing OP failed to do regarding Tasha; otherwise OP would have nailed Tasha to the wall with evidence of her infidelity.
Yes. Shame. That was a really good opportunity with all the forewarnings and ample prep time
Pathetic, all of them but OP. purely pathetic in thier own ways. Some of them including his brother don’t even deserve a quarter of the grace given to them
THANK YOU
Seriously, what a bunch of doormats except for op.
All except OP and Rita
@@Homiloko2 ohh shoot, yeah Rita’s cool too
Thank you! Why on earth would the parents support this marriage. Why would they pay for the wedding? It doesn't make any sense. People with that much money never tought their kids about prenups and gold diggers? I'm inclined to think it's fake because they are just too stupid to breath.
🤦♂Why is he defending his brother? Both his brother and ex-girlfriend are cheaters. To me, the betrayal of my own flesh and blood would be way harder to bear than some piece I got due to low self-esteem.... 🤔 I'm petty; I would just watch it all burn while eating popcorn.
OP’s dad was the only real one, good family doesn’t condone or partake in someone betraying their own. OP was even gracious enough to warn his brother for his own sake despite his brother not having his back and making jabs at him. Well he made his own bed.
I agree. F*ck OPs mom. F*ck Tasha, most of all. But seriously, if that was my mom, I would tell me dad to have her move out with Tasha if she even tried for a second to babysit a child that is the living result of Tasha's betrayal of my brother. Tasha did so much damage to OPs family, but his mom, rather than having an ounce of pride, let all that go because of her "emotions". Stupidity or lack of spine, maybe both. But I would team up with the rest of the family to tell me mom to rent her own apartment and babysit for Tasha until she was done doing it. If that mom will not support her family against someone who has done so much to damage the family and destroy their relationships, then her little "project of emotion" would be her own. OPs mom's actions are a betrayal in themselves, and OP also seems weak, which makes me suspect this is a fake story.
OP is weak af. His bro stepped all over him even after the betrayal and he still forgave him so easily. But yeah the dad was the ONLY real one.
And the parents just let their son get away with sleeping with his brother's girlfriend. Unbelievable.
I can't help it, but why does OOP be so lenient with his brother? He cheated with his GF on him. Taunts him with it. I would have told him: told you so, get lost and be done with it.
Because weak spineless people are afraid to be alone so doesn't matter what you do to them they will cling on to you and forgive you everytime. The brother probably knew this so he didn't care what he did or said to his brother he knew he would be by his side still like a good little doggie
@@mshake7056 No. because family
@@lewid019He shouldn’t still see Noah as his brother. So no longer family. Shouldda presented his parents with “disown him or me, no longer brothers”.
He would be no longer my brother after that.
I stopped watching when the op said that his ex gf cheated on him with his own brother and still tried to help his brother bruhhhh if my brother do something like this to me I obviously break up with the whore but I also cut ties with my brother forever … he can be in deep shit I don’t care
OP said that he was still resentful so he tried to out her as a cheater out of spite, just to rub it in his face.
OP’s spine is made out of jelly or something. Poor sack.
I don’t understand how family do this to each other and then expect the other person to be ok with it, madness!
Rita is amazing. She didn't care where that baby came from, she decided that he would be her baby.
There is something really disturbing about people who are comfortable sleeping with siblings.
Story one OP is a nice guy wimp. They betrayed him, and he was worried how his brother would work out with the cheater. He needs to grow spine.
Yeah, Tasha sounds a little bit like my "mother" in some ways. Getting children purely for the purpose of child support, always thinking she should get everything for free from other people and others are just selfish if they don't allow her to be a freeloader, all that sort of stuff. I'm sure my "mother" also would have cheated on my dad, but thankfully he wasn't stupid enough to actually marry her and they actually ended their relationship before I was even born (the only reason why he stayed in contact with her at all was because he liked me and wanted to continue being part of my life - I still don't think it was worth it, would have been better for him if he had just cut all contact with her immediately and went on to live his life without her or me).
well, your father truly loved you, and it looked like he saved you from becoming just like your mother
You had a good father and none of this was your fault. Take care of yourself!
You’re lucky to have had a caring dad. Most of us had dads that don’t care or starting caring too late
Take care of yourself and have a great life
@@JoeExoticReddo Yeah, that's true. Tbh, if my dad and grandma hadn't supported me as much as they did while I was still legally forced to live with my "mother" I probably wouldn't be here now. Like, literally, either I would have been recruited by some extremist organization and manipulated into carrying out some sort of attack (cause I was exactly the type of person that extremists like to recruit - no friends, regular abuse at home, all that sort of stuff) or I would have become a homeless drug addict. And even that's only if I had survived "living" with her at all.
The fact that I can now live an at least somewhat normal life is entirely thanks to them and their huge efforts in trying to overcome or circumvent all the legal barriers that were put in place (custody, severely limited visitation rights, etc).
Wow your dad sounds like real winner, deciding that not marrying your mom but was good idea but still decided to drag another human being into this mess.
When you fuse narcissism and drug abuse together, a recipe for disaster
Tasha is the town bicycle. Everyone gets a ride.
When they tell you body count doesn't matter lol yes it does because that body count comes with a history a history you might be doomed to repeat.
@@mshake7056 also you don't just have sex with her, you also have sex with everyone she had sex with
i would never stop teasing him for what he did to op
So many red flags ignored...
People are not doing a good job teaching men to think with the brain and not the lil head or the funny chemicals.
Reddit is a full of them lol
I'm so happy the baby ended up with Rita, who sounds like a lovely and caring woman, and not with one of his cheating, lying, neglectful biological "parents"
To be totally honest, cleaner at a daycare? Where your kid gets watched while you clean? (possibly for free?) ... Dream job. Might not pay much, but you're working, earning money, and your kid gets taken care of by certified people.
You can tell she’s one of those people that deflects all her issues onto others and doesn’t taken any responsibility for their actions. It’s often hypocrites that are insecure.
Edit: now I’ve heard the rest of the story, she’s a whole lot worse than that and seems like an evil person.
Reeta is a hero and I hope the baby values her more than either of his biological parents.
i have never seen a family full of doormats.
God bless Reetafor pulling through for the kid
The brother cheated with his little brother gf then married her didn't listen to his brother he got more than he deserved so did the parents. I hope she takes everything.
"I wanted a really hot girlfriend to show off to other guys." I just want to note this line. This line is where a lot of problems start. Perhaps this is jumping to conclusions but... When that's what you're looking for, is it really surprising that the kinds of people who approach you have ulterior motives? After all, aren't you doing the exact same thing with them?
Pointless, you can seek for love and still find gold diggers xd
@@gabrielhernanizaguirre383 Sir, the only time when things can't go wrong is when you're dead. And even then, we can't account for the afterlife. No matter what you do, there's going to be a risk. Any reasonable person mitigates those risks where they can without negatively impacting their quality of life. We look both ways before crossing the street. We avoid driving while under the influence and wear a seatbelt. We check the use by dates on food before we consume them... There are, bluntly put, a LOT of things people do on a daily basis to mitigate the chances of things going wrong.
Ensuring that you're in the right headspace when you start looking for a relationship is one of those measures. And if it's not for you, it should be.
Op should've called her Trasha, because there are cheaters and then there's Trasha.
You have to let people learn their own lessons.
He claims he was just trying to get back at his brother, but he went above and beyond to protect his brother from a cheater
so many other posts have OP wishing hell and death upon their cheating sibling, but it is obvious he didn't feel a thing for Tasha so he was not devastated like other OPs. He was only concerned about keeping her away from his family.
Like mentioned in the video. People who cheat thinks that everyone does it. It's an extreme assumption that is completely wrong. For starters, it's all an huge issue about low confidence in yourself that can trigger that sort of behavior. You start believing your own BS. Even though I've been cheated on multiple times it has been my own fault for choosing a superficial and insecure girlfriends all those times. I refuse to lower myself to such a disgusting level.
Bad people always get what they deserve, not just cos "bad luck" follows them, it's the constant bad decisions they make that will ultimately destroy them, how long can you run from problems until it catches up to you. They never learn to act appropriately, do what's right, do things properly, it inevitably come back to them.
She let em hit it raw now she a single mom
The fsct that originally OP wanted to save hos brother because he didn't wanted him to go for the same thing... Damn
yea I would NEVER be with someone who my sister was with unspoken RULE
I dont know how OP knows all that he knows.
Bro knows everything
Every story with a grain of salt. But he did say word travels quick in his town. His family also has money, they could get a PI, Rita could reach out for information from them, give them information. Emphasis on them having money, people keep them in the loop to see if they'll give resources. Mom could be invested at that age seems to be retired, so she's got time.
Bro this story is BS his brother thinking the baby was his would have signed a birth certificate so upon divorce he would still have to pay child support if this was in the United States or Europe he just so conveniently learns every detail about this story but the most unbelievable part is an Asian with the name Kyle 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@barryallen3555 Kyle isn't his real name. Most Reddit stories use fake names to hide their and others identity since Defamation of Character is a thing.
@@DeepDownInTheOcean I would actually tell my story on there but I don't like to use fake names for it and I don't feel like debating with people who will bitch about me using real names of those involved. Defamation charge would be easy to beat IF that came up afterwards.
Not only because my brother has children, but I could never imagine being with my brothers girlfriend fiancé or wife. Even if they’re just talking. I could could never see myself being with anybody my brother feels any feeling for.
Brother deserved to get cheated on honestly. Some people are so stubborn and think others are stubborn despite the fact warnings. Then they get hurt. It’s on them for ignoring the red flags
That's absolutely disgusting, why would anyone support this. My father promised to personally bring any of us to the brink of death if ANY of my siblings did this, and my father is an all around good man so you know he means business.
and then imagine someone is going to end up with this cheater just because she’s pretty and be this kids step dad and probably take care of their every need and then still get cheated on! Some people don’t deserve a happy ending. This goes for cheaters, murderers, pedos, and other evil people.
It's long past time that we forced people who want to become parents to undergo an evaluation first, and give increased powers to child services to save kids like this from horrible parents like that, to place them with people who will raise them well.
Nah the rest of us NOAH's don't claim him...I'd have laughed in his face the entire time. Bro can eat it.
Feels like everyone in the OP's family was delusional, the OP was but then saw the truth, then his Brother and his Mom and now their all free I guess meanwhile this "Tasha" literally got years before this family realized the problem
The whole family is full of door mats not going to lie but I'm glad they kicked her out at the end finally
Dude, I wouldn't have given a fck about my brother at all after catching him with my GF, even if she was a cheating 304.
That baby is beyond lucky in the end. Glad to see it.
Op better than me cause I would've been on my sibling about that I wouldve "oh hows the marriage going" "you excited for fathers day"
This story is just wild! Can't believe the nerve she had to demand that 😳
What I believe as a brother is you didn’t want your brother to suffer when you had that feeling of wanting to rub it in his face about her cheating. You wanted to vent and have your frustration be heard and an apology. Most times when people wrong us, we want to get back at them to feel like our pain was addressed and understood. No good or regular person enjoys pain in others, inflicting suffering is a defense we initiate out of emotion of our own suffering in a sense. What you two really needed was to talk and apologize
Really apologize, what the brother did to OP is not something that should ever be forgiven or forgotten, the brother slept with he girlfriend and several years later the rubs it in OP face, the brother believed her when she said OP tried to seduce her, and also treated OP and his parents like trash when they tried to show him evidence of her cheating on him
My god i don’t know why or how op was so supportive of his brother when he was *so* smug about the cheating
perhaps he just wanted to be the one to say I told you so
I’m so glad things ended up okay for the poor baby 🙏
I’m just glad the baby got a loving mom out of all the chaos that crazy woman put him in
So glad the baby eventually ended up with someone who would actually care for him
I love the whole “you don’t trust me because you did a paternity test on a child I lied to you about being yours! You’re terrible!!!”
I love women like Rita 😊
sounds like she was the one giving out the jobs
If cheaters never change... neither will your brother.
This story really made me sad and happy at the same time. I’m sad because I know there are still some moms, heck even dads who don’t take care of their child who is innocent. I really felt like crying because of hearing what the baby had been through. I’m happy that there are people who are out there who are willing to look after a child who is not even blood related, and take good care of it while the parents were fu*king doing drugs. I’m happy that the baby was adopted by Reeta.
Reeta, OP’s mom and OP big W❤
It's not surprising the ex also cheated on the brother, she is just going to ruin all her relationships with her cheating. And I feel no sympathy for her, much less the brother. I find it funny he was cheated on since he honestly deserved it. I don't care if this makes me a bad person, I just hate people who cheat instead of just leaving the relationship
Do more insane MIL stories besides cheating divorces
YA DO MORE INSANE FAMILY DRAMA PLZ 🥺🥺🥺
@@SlyFox-d5r😂😂don't admit it openly that we are actually here for the drama 😂
The person doing all this parkour in the background had me suffering at the end when they were completely unable to just open the lowest trapdoor so they could jump up...
I'm very early on into the video but I to have share what I learnt awhile ago, studies show cheaters will cheat again the more you do something personally immoral, the more you lose guilt over it and the more likely you are to do it again
Reeta the real mvp 😂
honestly. i wouldve been the pettiest person ever and id never let my brother live this down. to me it wouldve been the funniest thing ever
And she's on fb like "Where's all the good men" 🤣🤣
Lol what goes around comes around
This chick body count might be a phone number now
She is too far gone, there is nothing you or anyone can do for her, she is beyond a lost cause from how reckless she lives.
Sometimes a drug overdose, losing your child or being near death's door would knock sense into people, but she doesn't care one bit about her life, the baby or anything other than sex it seems. One day she is going to overdose again and this time she won't be lucky a second time
Should have disowned his so-called brother soon as the affair came out and forget them both...
Rita is the real MVP of this story
Reeta is the real hero of this story.
Family can reconnect, but trust is fragile. He can act cordially but there would be little patience where little disagreement could potentially go full blast. Thats why NC is preferable.😢😢😢
Why does it seem like the cheaters are always the one who is paranoid about getting cheated on lol 😂
I've always said if they cheat with you, they will cheat on you.
OP don’t feel bad over your ex. She put herself in that position. Making reckless choices.
I keep listening to these and I my brain literally cannot accept that people like this are real. Like I know people can be stupid and crazy but this is a whole other level of NUTS
This woman is the epitome of "but wait, it gets worse!"
So she used protection with the husband and not with the cheaters, 1000 iq move
Ngl the parents (esp the mum) were spineless for helping Tasha and the kid even after finding out it wasn't Noah's
sad part about this story is there is millions of these girls walking around. Won't take care of their own kids, just trying to swing from one BF to another.
Ok but OP loved his bro enough to try and help even after this monolithic betrayal only to have it thrown in his face like wtf these kinds of saints don’t exist
From the streets she emerged. To the streets she shall return.
Wow is it really a flex that you stole your brother sloppy seconds😂
Ngl op is also the same breed as his brother because his friends all told him she's no good but he behaved EXACTLY the same as his brother, not believing in his friends.
Even the cheated on then op opened his eyes is the exact same process.
Dont mock cleaning jobs,if a place isnt clean it cant be used meaning there would be a loss of money,we cleaners are bottom of the rung but we keep the country running,it pays minimum wage but so do many other jobs,
The child isn’t to blame because they came into existence from the choices the mother made. So I can only hope the kid gets treated well
even after he did his brother wrong he’s brother tried to help him out
She asked for child support..the audacity of this woman
5:25 Why? Does dear brother need a new wife?