There are situations where it isn't as bad tho... I mean, it depends how they go about it? If they are really in need, they would probably try scaling down, and reassure like "I will give you back the money, I just need a bit of time" or things like that.
Once the SO says that someone else is her main priority over you, then leave. It's called a partnership for a reason, if you're not your partners main person, then it's not a partnership.
She acts like a dependent child emotionally. Kyle sees her as a ticket he can hang onto for access to other avenues of wealth or to get ahead. He feeds her enough emotionally to keep her hooked but looks out for himself. Yikes. She needs professional help if she's gonna have any hope of getting and keeping a real loving relationship.
They were raised together in the foster system, right? That right there tells us everything we need to know. The system is ROUGH and at one point they probably had each other’s back (like siblings). I think that over time the dynamic shifted in such a way that the “brother” became controlling and abusive and saw the GF as a useful tool for his own needs (instead of whatever is best for her). She ends up finding OP - who is trusting, “rich” (which just means he is financially responsible and secure - which can be a very foreign concept to those raised in an unstable/impoverished setting), and kind of a pushover…. If anything I think the GF is the worst one off. She literally has no agency and doesn’t seem to understand that.
Can't claim an engagement ring as a gift because it's seen as a contract to marriage. If the marriage doesn't happen, the ring must be returned. At least in the states and if you can prove its an engagement ring. Same with promise rings in some situations.
@pirubix that’s actually not true, it’s a contract to marry and marriage is a contract in all at fault states, what she did is fraud and he could sues her for all the money he invested into her, it would be different if he choose to be unfaithful but in this case it was her, so idk where you get your info from but if your ever in this situation I hope you do more research and not just read some comment from a but hurt cheater who doesn’t want to give the ring back.
@@pirubix I think youre confusing an engagement ring for a promise ring, which most states say is a gift and not a conditional one like an engagement ring.
@@jesusgalvanavila921 You are wrong, he is right. The ring is not the contract, that would be the marriage license. The ring is a custom with no special legal status and its custody is decided the same as any other marital property.
@@Jermbot15you should use google and check out the court cases. Like he said in at fault states judges will rule that an engagement ring isn’t an outright gift and had conditions.
I don't even know why that truth made any difference for him. If they were real siblings I would have assumed they were incestuous. Or even if I was 100% sure they were not doing anything romantic the way he described his relationship having to fight for her attention vs him seemed so exhausting.
This should have been over the moment she defended her "brother" attacking her boyfriend. If you are in an altercation and your SO defends the other person, the relationship is over!
Just a warning: if you “instantly click” with someone, sometimes it’s because they’re actively tailor-fitting themselves to be appealing to you. Some narcissists, manipulative people, and habitual or compulsive liars are able to shift gears so quickly you may never know they’re doing so.
They may never know they're doing so either. It's weird. That's why discarding happens so quick, because they finally realize what they're doing and quickly revert.
Kyle definitely ingrave to her head that "he's the only one that would truly love her and that everyone will leave her soon enough" took advantage of her vulnerability.
Tina and Kyle deserve each other. Imagine calling someone your "sibling" but also being your first everything. It's just so disguting. Just be together instead of dragging other people into your "incestous" relationship.
Nah It's a common thing here in LATAM Comes the poor girl who started dating loaded guy (LG) so as they continue living she brings up she has to support her brother from the same country so out of love you send money and even bring him over to help their family. Surprise bitch, it's actually her lover and pray God they just get away with your money, some times they just murder you to rob you or take over your house.
Tina and Kyle were playing the long con. The house was the ultimate goal. Had OP put only their names on the house, he would not be able to claim it. Hell, had Tina played the right cards during divorce OP would have been on the hook for all the expenses of the house post-divorce! Thank God he didn’t do it.
How are you so sure it's fake? Or are you just one of those idiots that think everything in life is fake and we have reptile overlords in the government?
@@coriweaver4343While OP was talking with Betty(Tina's best friend) for one sentence Tina's name changed to Emily the sentence was something like this "Emily hid this" or smth but yeah you get the point
@@Saf1- Tina could be the fake name and Emily could be the real one. Tons of people use fake names on Reddit so again. How does anyone know it’s a fake story?
He saw how they treated each other. If does not give a clue of what is going on, nothing will. I mean, he ignored all the signs just because she was beautiful.
They obviously weren't brother and sister. He was either willfully ignorant or just stupid... that's if this story is true. "I'm not bringing anything into the marriage, so give my 'brother' the house." Uh..
Well I mean remember British people think 2 hours is long but you know if you live in America or any other type of big country it's kind of not really long at all in fact 2 hours drive to somewhere is pretty short
…… dawg the fact you ignored the red flags makes you weird. The adult brother and sister sleeping in the same bed? Interupting ur dates? Ect.? Honestly thats weirder to me then if they were just childhood friends.
how are you suppoed to know her family tree when she is an orphan? you really think everyone who is an orphan has somehow their family tree available? or even KNOWS who their actual parents and familymembers are?
@@tintinismybelgian, wow that is all I can say is wow, you don’t know the time and effort it takes to research any family tree when you don’t have information on where to start. My wife was into finding about my family tree. We. On my Dad’s side it goes; Dad, Grandfather, Great Grandfather and just ends. My sister even hired an ancestor detective. The problem was they came from Poland. The town my Great Grandfather lived I does not exist anymore. During World War 2, the Germans wipe the town off the map. So, no records remain. So, no the government can’t help with tracking people’s family tree.
I'm sorry, but you're telling me op couldn't put two and two together? Then he moved her in? At that point, I'm like I'll stay for the rest just to judge op harshly.
Fun fact: an engagement ring is one of the only gifts that legally has to be returned upon the breakup ( In the USA, I don't know about other countries) because that "gift" was contingent upon a marriage. If there is no marriage, there is no gift. So fellas and ladies, if you propose to someone and the relationship ends for any reason, the ring recipient legally must return the ring. The same can't be said for other gifts unfortunately. At least not in a court. Any decent human would immediately return expensive gifts anyway, but legally they don't really have to.
that was I think an elaborate scam attempt, kyle and Tina was an item and they just wanted to scam someone, if Kyle's name got on the house deed, then at a divorce Kyle and Tina would have gotten 2/3 of that house.
It's a relationship like in Russia: a pretty girl plus a rich guy plus her true love, i.e. the guy she supports. In Russia, such relationships are accepted because there are large social differences. I doubt Tina really loved OP. I think she is comfortable with him: the guy practically supports her,pays for everything etc.
I told her our relationship was a sham, i deserved better and had been contemplating breaking up *5 mins later* I proposed to her, we're planning the wedding for June
I'm going to be real honest I really don't get how he would be okay with his girlfriend fucking loving and even marrying a different dude like I gets all part of the scam but did the dude think like what is she actually falls in love with him
Always have your partner pay for their part in the economy and if there is big differences in wealth, prenup. Never include others in the deed, if other doesn’t add to it.
You earned it from the word go for being such a damn simp. Never buy your fiance, gf, whatever their dream house. This shit should take years of marriage, loyalty, and dedication, years of proving themselves. Fiance is just some gf with a ring at best. Wife to a degree is gf with a slip of paper.
"I am 6'3" and much taller then him so i had to hold myself back from seriously damaging him" lmao LOL oh god what a good one lol height means absolutely dog doo doo in a fight lol
Right so the brother turns into a cousin. Op goes from being employed earning 6 figures to being in college and then back to earning 6 figures. The girlfriend gets a paid internship and splurges her money on bags and shoes then its says a year after her graduation she still hasnt landed a job and was constantly being rejected? There is far too many inconsistentancies for this to be entertaining even as a fake story.
This guy😂, he picks up a girl from a fast food joint, learns she grew up in the system, and only the brother was a red flag, she was using this guy for money and its obvious, she didnt love him, she was jist doing what she learned to do growing up, survive, she almost uad her and her brother a house
I'm not going to lie I feel bad for both Tina and the poster because auntie's side she had such a rough upbringing due to the fact that she was constantly going through foster care and the only person that remotely felt like family to her was understandably Kyle even though it's sad that now that the results he doesn't see it that way no more because he still thinks there's going to be this endless relationship of them being a couple and I think that's what he wants then on the other side there's the poster and everything you know put him through when she should have just came out with the truth then told him what was up with her and Kyle but instead it took a random mutual friend of theirs for him to find that out and I'm not going to lie I can see why that's such a heartbreaking thing for anybody to go through because not only did you think that this person was somebody's sibling but to find out that they're their lover yeah
This is just another crazy story that beeds to be told on mas to men who are too trusting of a pretty face. Even women need to know this because if wome. Are capable of this, then so are some men.
People, once your SO is using you for money and taking you for granted, LEAVE.
I think that was the entire relationship though…
@@SSFighter1701 that's the drawn conclusion
There are situations where it isn't as bad tho... I mean, it depends how they go about it? If they are really in need, they would probably try scaling down, and reassure like "I will give you back the money, I just need a bit of time" or things like that.
Once the SO says that someone else is her main priority over you, then leave. It's called a partnership for a reason, if you're not your partners main person, then it's not a partnership.
@@ritaerror7829 sounds like a good way to be scammed 😹
Kyle doesn't care about Tina. She is the only one who is still holding onto that sibling relationship
She acts like a dependent child emotionally. Kyle sees her as a ticket he can hang onto for access to other avenues of wealth or to get ahead. He feeds her enough emotionally to keep her hooked but looks out for himself. Yikes. She needs professional help if she's gonna have any hope of getting and keeping a real loving relationship.
@@tallyp.7643she would never cut the ex like a brother off, so she'll never get better
They were raised together in the foster system, right?
That right there tells us everything we need to know.
The system is ROUGH and at one point they probably had each other’s back (like siblings). I think that over time the dynamic shifted in such a way that the “brother” became controlling and abusive and saw the GF as a useful tool for his own needs (instead of whatever is best for her).
She ends up finding OP - who is trusting, “rich” (which just means he is financially responsible and secure - which can be a very foreign concept to those raised in an unstable/impoverished setting), and kind of a pushover….
If anything I think the GF is the worst one off. She literally has no agency and doesn’t seem to understand that.
He is her fast time .. they are not siblings begin with ... It's disgusting ...
Can't claim an engagement ring as a gift because it's seen as a contract to marriage. If the marriage doesn't happen, the ring must be returned. At least in the states and if you can prove its an engagement ring. Same with promise rings in some situations.
Ya, no. Most states consider it a gift. No federal law on it. Even heirlooms can be hard to get back without court and a lot of evidence
@pirubix that’s actually not true, it’s a contract to marry and marriage is a contract in all at fault states, what she did is fraud and he could sues her for all the money he invested into her, it would be different if he choose to be unfaithful but in this case it was her, so idk where you get your info from but if your ever in this situation I hope you do more research and not just read some comment from a but hurt cheater who doesn’t want to give the ring back.
@@pirubix I think youre confusing an engagement ring for a promise ring, which most states say is a gift and not a conditional one like an engagement ring.
@@jesusgalvanavila921 You are wrong, he is right. The ring is not the contract, that would be the marriage license. The ring is a custom with no special legal status and its custody is decided the same as any other marital property.
@@Jermbot15you should use google and check out the court cases. Like he said in at fault states judges will rule that an engagement ring isn’t an outright gift and had conditions.
Op was a poor sod but at least as soon as he knew the truth, he bailed.
I don't even know why that truth made any difference for him. If they were real siblings I would have assumed they were incestuous.
Or even if I was 100% sure they were not doing anything romantic the way he described his relationship having to fight for her attention vs him seemed so exhausting.
This should have been over the moment she defended her "brother" attacking her boyfriend. If you are in an altercation and your SO defends the other person, the relationship is over!
Just a warning: if you “instantly click” with someone, sometimes it’s because they’re actively tailor-fitting themselves to be appealing to you. Some narcissists, manipulative people, and habitual or compulsive liars are able to shift gears so quickly you may never know they’re doing so.
They may never know they're doing so either. It's weird. That's why discarding happens so quick, because they finally realize what they're doing and quickly revert.
Even a blind fighting bull could see these giant red flags.
So true
So well said
Kyle definitely ingrave to her head that "he's the only one that would truly love her and that everyone will leave her soon enough" took advantage of her vulnerability.
Not even 3 minutes into the video and it's obvious that OP is color blind, because nothing else explains all the missed red flags...
😂😂 good one
The red flags are strong with this one.
So true😂
LOL
Red flags power level Over 9000!
Tina and Kyle deserve each other. Imagine calling someone your "sibling" but also being your first everything. It's just so disguting. Just be together instead of dragging other people into your "incestous" relationship.
Nah
It's a common thing here in LATAM
Comes the poor girl who started dating loaded guy (LG) so as they continue living she brings up she has to support her brother from the same country so out of love you send money and even bring him over to help their family.
Surprise bitch, it's actually her lover and pray God they just get away with your money, some times they just murder you to rob you or take over your house.
Tina and Kyle were playing the long con. The house was the ultimate goal. Had OP put only their names on the house, he would not be able to claim it. Hell, had Tina played the right cards during divorce OP would have been on the hook for all the expenses of the house post-divorce! Thank God he didn’t do it.
Aww cute her ATM is a doormat but at least at the end he did kick her out.
"This is why I kept my relationship-destroying secret from youuuu.."
She didn't even need to keep it secret, she could've told the reality and just become independent but noooooooooo childhooooood traaaaauuuummmaa
"Cousin brother" tells you exactly who wrote this story.
I’d take her to court for all school costs and the money she spent on her “brother”, also charge him with assault
I don’t know what to make of this one, he didn’t mention getting a full ride scholarship in a prestigious college
I don't know what writers get from not only writing fake stories, but also from making the main character a complete doormat.
How do you know it’s fake?
How are you so sure it's fake? Or are you just one of those idiots that think everything in life is fake and we have reptile overlords in the government?
@coriweaver4343 really ?
@@coriweaver4343While OP was talking with Betty(Tina's best friend) for one sentence Tina's name changed to Emily the sentence was something like this "Emily hid this" or smth but yeah you get the point
@@Saf1- Tina could be the fake name and Emily could be the real one. Tons of people use fake names on Reddit so again. How does anyone know it’s a fake story?
He saw how they treated each other. If does not give a clue of what is going on, nothing will. I mean, he ignored all the signs just because she was beautiful.
You get what you tolerate.
They obviously weren't brother and sister. He was either willfully ignorant or just stupid... that's if this story is true.
"I'm not bringing anything into the marriage, so give my 'brother' the house." Uh..
“Only an hour and a half away from my office” ???
Well I mean remember British people think 2 hours is long but you know if you live in America or any other type of big country it's kind of not really long at all in fact 2 hours drive to somewhere is pretty short
Im thinking he maybe only has to go to the office once a week or something. I've worked with people like that who prefer to be in remote areas
@@tbnrwolff3354an hour long drive is the same distance to Las Vegas to Kingman, and the fact your paying for gas, and the time too
…… dawg the fact you ignored the red flags makes you weird. The adult brother and sister sleeping in the same bed? Interupting ur dates? Ect.? Honestly thats weirder to me then if they were just childhood friends.
A relationship builded from a lie will not last for long.
on an unrelated note when are they gonna release the sonic 3 trailer
Good question. Can't wait anymore
Could potentially be at the summer game fest which is June 7th
Thank goodness you dodged a bullet before you got married
Nah, that was like a bomb dodged!
@@DatOneSwedishBoi69 more like a asteroid dodged
Man, that friend deserves a huge shout out. She saved this man’s life.
"whirlwind of emotions" lol
Same shit every story
AI written stories, for sure. Can't tell if it's ChatGPT generated or a different AI. Might be a different one tbh
6’3? 6 figures? Yeah this is fake 😂
low 6 figures isn’t what it used to be…
How is a marriage proposal happening if you don't even know her family tree?
how are you suppoed to know her family tree when she is an orphan? you really think everyone who is an orphan has somehow their family tree available? or even KNOWS who their actual parents and familymembers are?
@@kaedeshirakawa1979 Background checks? The government might be able to provide a paper trail.
@@tintinismybelgian, wow that is all I can say is wow, you don’t know the time and effort it takes to research any family tree when you don’t have information on where to start. My wife was into finding about my family tree. We. On my Dad’s side it goes; Dad, Grandfather, Great Grandfather and just ends. My sister even hired an ancestor detective. The problem was they came from Poland. The town my Great Grandfather lived I does not exist anymore. During World War 2, the Germans wipe the town off the map. So, no records remain.
So, no the government can’t help with tracking people’s family tree.
Asking to add the parent to the deed is such a crazy person move, i never hate someone so heavyly while watching these
If this is a real story,OP is a doormat and needs to grow a pair... would have ended that about 6 months in...
My hard learned life lesson: Never start something with someone who has more issues than yourself. QED.
You don't treat your brothers like that adoptove or otherwise. She is a whorrible human.
do not try and rescue 'damsels in distress'. all you end up with is a distressed damsel.
Wow such a cheater
Classic settling story. She only sees him as her ATM
he is definetly the IATA not with Tyna but with himself to allow to be a doormat to everybody for so long.
My guy was the definition of simp no shit he would get walked all over
I have no words about op
ClownP
I'm sorry, but you're telling me op couldn't put two and two together? Then he moved her in? At that point, I'm like I'll stay for the rest just to judge op harshly.
The days where there are multiple uploads = a good day
Really the only way he should be covering all the household expense's is if she is putting her money into her education, but shes not..
🤨 This guy…. just seems to be oblivious to the “brother”. He really is at fault
The stories would be more believable as a reddit post if they came even close to the post size limits
Fun fact: an engagement ring is one of the only gifts that legally has to be returned upon the breakup ( In the USA, I don't know about other countries) because that "gift" was contingent upon a marriage. If there is no marriage, there is no gift. So fellas and ladies, if you propose to someone and the relationship ends for any reason, the ring recipient legally must return the ring. The same can't be said for other gifts unfortunately. At least not in a court. Any decent human would immediately return expensive gifts anyway, but legally they don't really have to.
Is he her fake cousin or brother?
Reads like a high school virgin writer that can't keep his characters straight. He was also making 6 figures and in school at one point in the story.
@kenoh5887 one of those "cryptogods" eh
@@isrln Cryptogods??
op should have broken up with her sooooo early in the relationship so many red flags or just like have a real talk
I don't understand why people who write fake stories can't make them good and believable
Some real coffin of andy and leyley vibes from this one
Nah fr
Spill the beans, the international sign of AI.
The "mix of emotions" and "eyes widened in shock/surprise" are also a dead giveaway.
Oh and that Tina was briefly called Emily doesn't help, either
that was I think an elaborate scam attempt, kyle and Tina was an item and they just wanted to scam someone, if Kyle's name got on the house deed, then at a divorce Kyle and Tina would have gotten 2/3 of that house.
You stayed with this crazy woman ? This must be fake.
It's a relationship like in Russia: a pretty girl plus a rich guy plus her true love, i.e. the guy she supports. In Russia, such relationships are accepted because there are large social differences. I doubt Tina really loved OP. I think she is comfortable with him: the guy practically supports her,pays for everything etc.
Soooo much red flags and yet...
Not the cousin brother lover!!!!
Ah. Another story with the name Kyle.
I told her our relationship was a sham, i deserved better and had been contemplating breaking up
*5 mins later*
I proposed to her, we're planning the wedding for June
God, it's so weird hearing my name in a story.
Tina, please seek therapy.
I'm going to be real honest I really don't get how he would be okay with his girlfriend fucking loving and even marrying a different dude like I gets all part of the scam but did the dude think like what is she actually falls in love with him
1 hour storys reddit boi im an addict
I have started to watch these stories 2 hours a day for almost 2 months I think I'm getting addicted 😮I'm gonna stop from now
Always have your partner pay for their part in the economy and if there is big differences in wealth, prenup. Never include others in the deed, if other doesn’t add to it.
You earned it from the word go for being such a damn simp. Never buy your fiance, gf, whatever their dream house. This shit should take years of marriage, loyalty, and dedication, years of proving themselves. Fiance is just some gf with a ring at best. Wife to a degree is gf with a slip of paper.
The OP is stupid, there are so many red flag but he never care 🤦🏻♀️
The most clueless guy on the planet
These stories don't exist anywhere on the internet. This page posts fake stuff
Nah he should play offense and date Betty
"I am 6'3" and much taller then him so i had to hold myself back from seriously damaging him" lmao LOL oh god what a good one lol height means absolutely dog doo doo in a fight lol
well higher height usually means higher mass which would make him hit harder
Yeah and professional fighters are divided in weight classes just for fun size difference doesn't matter!!! 🤡
Bro big mistake marrying Tina.
Red flags are everywhere but op chose to be colorblind
Right so the brother turns into a cousin. Op goes from being employed earning 6 figures to being in college and then back to earning 6 figures. The girlfriend gets a paid internship and splurges her money on bags and shoes then its says a year after her graduation she still hasnt landed a job and was constantly being rejected? There is far too many inconsistentancies for this to be entertaining even as a fake story.
You do everything she ever needed she still bangs w her ex hell nah
Who is Emily? He brings up Emily when talking to Betty.
Hope you went to the police
So, that's how it is imtheir family.
This must be fake! Nobody is this pathetic
This guy😂, he picks up a girl from a fast food joint, learns she grew up in the system, and only the brother was a red flag, she was using this guy for money and its obvious, she didnt love him, she was jist doing what she learned to do growing up, survive, she almost uad her and her brother a house
Do it for Dan
Bro is blind af
All those red flags and you just kept on with it
I'm not going to lie I feel bad for both Tina and the poster because auntie's side she had such a rough upbringing due to the fact that she was constantly going through foster care and the only person that remotely felt like family to her was understandably Kyle even though it's sad that now that the results he doesn't see it that way no more because he still thinks there's going to be this endless relationship of them being a couple and I think that's what he wants then on the other side there's the poster and everything you know put him through when she should have just came out with the truth then told him what was up with her and Kyle but instead it took a random mutual friend of theirs for him to find that out and I'm not going to lie I can see why that's such a heartbreaking thing for anybody to go through because not only did you think that this person was somebody's sibling but to find out that they're their lover yeah
I don't even know if this story is true, however if it is, there were so many red flags dude. You should have respected yourself more way earlier.
Hi, what is the song you play on all your videos ?
Game is not game
Tooo much Talking & trust for no reason.... If there's a smoke means there's a Fire.
Venezuela moment
My guy you gotta work on your naive nature.
This is just another crazy story that beeds to be told on mas to men who are too trusting of a pretty face. Even women need to know this because if wome. Are capable of this, then so are some men.
Yeah, this is a fake. Mildly entertaining, but it sounds like a fanfic that a teenage girl wrote
NTA
🥇 first
🎶Nobody cares nobody cares🎶
@@elijahz6522don’t be too mean, this is the only time this poor guy will actually be first in anything for the rest of his life
@@admonius9668 ohh no poor loser describing his existence 🥹
@@admonius9668 blud couldn't achive anything in his life and telling others what they can achieve or not. poor soul 🤷
@@BhagyaBhatnagar-r2fachieved plenty. Just don’t need a cheap dopamine hit to feel good about myself and the instant gratification that you clearly do