It’s honestly nice to see how this whole family gathered around Jared and cut Nathan off. I’m so over the stories where the families justify the cheating and pick the cheaters over the one that was wronged. And to start a relationship with your boyfriend’s brother is just disgusting. If they “loved each other so much”, why not end the relationship first, then start dating, instead of cheating for months or maybe even longer?!?!
Jealousy from the brother and stupidity from the ex-girlfriend. Honestly, it's all so wasteful to do all of this and get nothing out of this. Lesson of the story: Don't mess with family and don't stab someone in the back or else.
The dad was a good dad. He never showed favourites and raise his son to not resent the other based on the other's advantage. Example, telling Nathan to not beat himself because Jared is more atheletic and ask him to focus on his strengths than weaknesses, while telling Jared that he need not be envious of his brother's charm and things will happen eventually. Also best advice was him telling Jared not to rush into mariage and get to know his GF better. Imagine if Jared married his ex, he's gonna lose alot on the divorce.
Such true love that she ran as soon as there was trouble and tried going back to the first brother 😂. I'm happy to see a family stand by the one wronged instead of the "love birds"
The balls Hailey has to ask Jared if they could get back together after the wedding to his brother was called off 😂 she’s got a hankering for these brothers goddamn 😭
I'm so glad the parents scolded Nathan and hold him accountable for him cheating on Jared's ex girlfriend and posting it on social media which the rest of the family cutting him off. I wish parents would do that in these stories. Please do more of these
Its so satisfying when the wrong are so treated like they trash they are. She cheated lied and tried to have a good life with the brother and lost everyone in her life. Cheaters like her and Nathan deserve every bit of the hate and disgusting looks from everyone in their lives. Its so nice to see the family stick up for Jared and be there for him and let him know their on his side while Nathan gets nothing. Its funny how the guy who can get any girl, goes after the one girl his brother has. I'm sure he has some deep issues and needs to get looked at but if he wants to play victim and shift blame, he's a lost cause and not worth a dime.
I do remember a post about twin brother and sister. The brother (OP) college girlfriend suddenly broke up with him for no reason and then his twin sister announced her engagement to the same girlfriend that OP dated and wanted OP to be part of the wedding. A lot of the commenters believed that the girlfriend was cheating and OP refuse to be part and go to the wedding which cause tension in the family thinking he's homophobic. The update wasn't any better when he showed his sister the post and yet continues to marry his ex.
Finally a family with fuckin sense I’ve always thought family that excuse the bullshit of siblings and relatives was insane my whole family would fuck me up if I cheated on my wife
If this was my kid, all hell would brake loose. Reasons why it this has happened: Jealousy from the brother because he wanted to take anything the other brother has because he's insecure and intimidated by his success in life while he was not, and stupidity from the ex-girlfriend because she was either tricked or thought she could upgrade to get something out of it... what an ungrateful gardening tool. Honestly, it's all a waste of time to do all of this to eventually get nothing out of it but banishment and disgrace. Lesson of the story: Don't mess with family and don't stab someone close in the back or else.
That's a cardinal rule at home. I've told my girls and when they're older my boys. Don't ever fight over a guy/girl. They're probably laughing at both of you for doing it too. Parents and family acted accordingly. The family seemed to take care of both boys evenly. Therefore, that's disrespect and betrayal to the whole family.
Nathan plans: - Backstab his brother. - Lie to his parents for the wedding. - Lie to his grandparents for the wedding - Raise his voice and taunt his grandad once his fund was denied and can't lie anymore about the cheating. Now the poor baby is crying, isolated and miserable. And Hailey is still a wh*re. Jared dodged a bullet. Best ending.
I am not a parent, so I am in no position to offer any advice. However, I can say that OP did nothing wrong here, and truth be told, the only fault I see in OP's parenting is not coach his sons to spot red flags in relationships, which is how this family got fractured. Plus, as much as parents do their best to raise their children, negative influences can quite literally appear out of nowhere, which I have to guess is what turned the younger son into who he is. It's quite astounding how the presence of one woman drove a massive rift between the younger son and the rest of OP's family, but while OP had to bear the brunt of a fractured family, him and his wife can hold their heads up high cause they did the right thing by not endorsing a union built on betrayal.
I can't help but think about what would happen if the years passed and their son Nathan started his own family, they would be interested in wanting to reconnect with him because at the end of the day he will still be their son and life goes on at the end of the day.
Nathan in a nutshell: Omg! You guys are such hypocrites. It's fine when my brother falls in love but, when I fall in love with the same girl it's a problem. So much favoritism
This sounds AI generated. First Nathan was upset that his grandfather wasn’t giving him the funds for his wedding now he’s upset OP isn’t giving him the funds.
Like every narcissist ever blaming everyone but themselves and cry favoritism when no one sides with em 🤣😒 like yeah sure ur the victim mmmhmm now go cry a river
If I was their father, Nathan wouldn't live to see another daylight especially when I see with my own eyes that my another son is marrying my other son's ex-girlfriend, which had caused a heavy toll on my other son. Parenting rule, always tell your sons and daughters that cheating and having an affair with someone that is in relationship pr married is a mortal sin, no matter what.
@@Flashback-j7q actually they did. You dont seem to get it. Not only did he steal his brothers gf but then proceeded to lie to his grandfather. You seriously think they should take him back after how he tried to gaslight his parents then his grandparents? Even after everything he didnt see what he did wrong. Why should they keep him in their life?
@@sandraal2585 again I never said they should have just taken him back just like that. It felt like they dropped him way too fast and again....please read my comment properly before replying ok dude?
@@Flashback-j7q sis they didnt drop him that quick. He got defensive that quick when they didnt agree with him and then he ran like a child to his grandfather and lied about the situation. Seriously why are you people like that?
@@sandraal2585 again I never said what he did was right. I only said the parents dropped him way too fast and his grandfather was petty and somehow your getting really defensive just because I have different option from you? Dude your kinda acting insecure now
Hailey, what are you doing? You cheated with jared for his brother and thought going to his parents house was a good idea? And when everyone have left you, you plan to go back to jared i can only assume so people will come back and forgive you? Nathan a huge dumb@$$ that can backstab his own brother but what the heck is hailey thought process.
It's not your fault it's your son's fault because Nathan had an affair with his brother girlfriend and that's not right and he should pay for his actions and go to hell for what he has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and he doesn't deserve anything for Nathan had an affair with his brother's girlfriend and you don't have to apologize for anything it's his fault not yours and that's bullshit Nathan is in the wrong here.
The wronged brother is the only one being sensible and logical wow W brother L parents He hates his brother but does not want him to suffer. But the parents goes on a destruction run .... pathetic Honestly 9m52 is enough for me to not want to finish this one its too pathetic how vindictive the parents are .
Ok first off love the sarcasm but maybe you should clarify for the brain-dead morons that it is sarcasm cause I've seen too many comments similar to yours that get flamed for "supporting the villains" when it's clear your not being serious but they somehow believe it's real
Both sides are to Blame and are very toxic. OP talks about sin and unholy relationship and that his son should be judged but the Bible clearly says “let ye not judge for ye be judged 7 fold”. No i don't agree with cheating but I agree with Nathan his parents caused this. This was between 3 people and they brought themselves into this. Which was not needed. They hurt both their kids because now their oldest will blame himself for all of this. I also agree with grandpa that the fund should not go to the wedding but I do not agree with giving it to Jared because that will only further hurt whatever relationship there is between the brothers. This family will probably never hear from Nathan again and I think Nathan should just cut them all off and move on. Both parties are at fault here why stick your nose into other peoples business. Both sides are at fault, the only one not at fault here is Jared because he was trying to move past this not more than likely he has lost all possibility of a relationship with his brother and will miss everything. If i was Nathan I would cut off all family from contacting me whether or not me and Amy stay together and if i am Jared i am distancing myself from the family because clearly what i wanted doesn’t matter to any of them. Jared said don’t and they did. GOD I AM GLAD I HAVE A SEMI NORMALLY FAMILY HOLY SHIT!!!
Its their business, they wanted to invite their families and them being okay with it. Thats when it became thier business. Stop bitching in the comments about Nathan and the SL*t getting consequences for their actions, its actually disgusting the way you try to defend those A holes
OP has morals and standards. The family has standards for decency, and no one is tolerating cheating. Nathan was jealous of his brother and wanted to hurt him by sleeping with and being in a relationship with the woman his brother was with. They are nasty, and if you think it's okay to be around low-down backstabbers, don’t be surprised when they do the same to you.
It is the gaslighting and him running to his grandfather and lying about the situation that made it worse. A parents love is unconditional but a child should know better. Especially seeing as they were adults.
It’s honestly nice to see how this whole family gathered around Jared and cut Nathan off. I’m so over the stories where the families justify the cheating and pick the cheaters over the one that was wronged. And to start a relationship with your boyfriend’s brother is just disgusting. If they “loved each other so much”, why not end the relationship first, then start dating, instead of cheating for months or maybe even longer?!?!
Generally in these stories families favour the cheaters not the victims of the cheaters but this is refreshing
@@mikethoroughgood16No kidding and I hate the ones that make excuses for cheaters and tell the victim to just be submissive.
Family created by an AI.
And the victim gets told to grow up and move on or else they get cut off the will
@@MCBRUCE76i always wonder about that
Awful brother. Awesome parents. Awesome family. Mad respect.
Family betrayal at its worst! Nathan’s choices have shattered everything. How could he do this to his own brother?
At least whole family aside the Nathan had common sense.
Jealousy from the brother and stupidity from the ex-girlfriend. Honestly, it's all so wasteful to do all of this and get nothing out of this.
Lesson of the story: Don't mess with family and don't stab someone in the back or else.
The dad was a good dad. He never showed favourites and raise his son to not resent the other based on the other's advantage. Example, telling Nathan to not beat himself because Jared is more atheletic and ask him to focus on his strengths than weaknesses, while telling Jared that he need not be envious of his brother's charm and things will happen eventually. Also best advice was him telling Jared not to rush into mariage and get to know his GF better. Imagine if Jared married his ex, he's gonna lose alot on the divorce.
Depend on the state if they live in at fault stage she will not get much if not nothing she was the one that cheat, if he can proof that she is done.
Honestly, kudos to this Dad. "Not siding with Jared but with what is right." Glad there are parents like this out there in the world.
Such true love that she ran as soon as there was trouble and tried going back to the first brother 😂. I'm happy to see a family stand by the one wronged instead of the "love birds"
The balls Hailey has to ask Jared if they could get back together after the wedding to his brother was called off 😂 she’s got a hankering for these brothers goddamn 😭
If one room smells like shit, you just leave that room. BUT if every room smells like shit you should probably check your own pants.
this some shit musashi would say after killing an entire village worth of people
Why did this hit so hard
I'm so glad the parents scolded Nathan and hold him accountable for him cheating on Jared's ex girlfriend and posting it on social media which the rest of the family cutting him off. I wish parents would do that in these stories. Please do more of these
Its so satisfying when the wrong are so treated like they trash they are. She cheated lied and tried to have a good life with the brother and lost everyone in her life. Cheaters like her and Nathan deserve every bit of the hate and disgusting looks from everyone in their lives. Its so nice to see the family stick up for Jared and be there for him and let him know their on his side while Nathan gets nothing. Its funny how the guy who can get any girl, goes after the one girl his brother has. I'm sure he has some deep issues and needs to get looked at but if he wants to play victim and shift blame, he's a lost cause and not worth a dime.
I do remember a post about twin brother and sister. The brother (OP) college girlfriend suddenly broke up with him for no reason and then his twin sister announced her engagement to the same girlfriend that OP dated and wanted OP to be part of the wedding. A lot of the commenters believed that the girlfriend was cheating and OP refuse to be part and go to the wedding which cause tension in the family thinking he's homophobic. The update wasn't any better when he showed his sister the post and yet continues to marry his ex.
Mom was on it! She wasted no time kicking him out
He blamed his parents for his own mistakes, damn this is so pathetic of him to do
Yeah he's the type that doesn't want to take responsibility.
Family drama at its worst! Nathan really crossed the line here. 😤
Finally a family with fuckin sense I’ve always thought family that excuse the bullshit of siblings and relatives was insane my whole family would fuck me up if I cheated on my wife
If this was my kid, all hell would brake loose.
Reasons why it this has happened:
Jealousy from the brother because he wanted to take anything the other brother has because he's insecure and intimidated by his success in life while he was not, and stupidity from the ex-girlfriend because she was either tricked or thought she could upgrade to get something out of it... what an ungrateful gardening tool.
Honestly, it's all a waste of time to do all of this to eventually get nothing out of it but banishment and disgrace.
Lesson of the story: Don't mess with family and don't stab someone close in the back or else.
He did everything possible to lose his family 0 sympathy for that level of betrayal.
That's a cardinal rule at home. I've told my girls and when they're older my boys. Don't ever fight over a guy/girl. They're probably laughing at both of you for doing it too. Parents and family acted accordingly. The family seemed to take care of both boys evenly. Therefore, that's disrespect and betrayal to the whole family.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 yes OMG I was so tired of hearing these other families would support the cheating. This is really fucked up to do.
Finally, a story were the mom, dad, and family turned their backs on the sibling that took the other sibling's gf.
People who cheat with a sibling are the lowest of the low.
There’s no bigger betrayal then by a family member, whatever it’s a brother, father or even a son
I have 2 son's and I have told them both, if either of them sleeps with the others girlfriend you will be cut off.
Even if several years have passed since they break up? And didn’t commit adultery.
@@MrLukejstephensDid we heard the same story? Go see the video again, because you are talking bs.
@@MrLukejstephens That is a completely different situation.
Fr@@RanchoSantaAnadelChino
@@MrLukejstephenshow did you interpret that as ?
Apparently this story just doesn't exist anywhere on the internet?
This just goes to show, love isn’t unconditional
Nathan plans:
- Backstab his brother.
- Lie to his parents for the wedding.
- Lie to his grandparents for the wedding
- Raise his voice and taunt his grandad once his fund was denied and can't lie anymore about the cheating.
Now the poor baby is crying, isolated and miserable. And Hailey is still a wh*re. Jared dodged a bullet.
Best ending.
I am not a parent, so I am in no position to offer any advice. However, I can say that OP did nothing wrong here, and truth be told, the only fault I see in OP's parenting is not coach his sons to spot red flags in relationships, which is how this family got fractured. Plus, as much as parents do their best to raise their children, negative influences can quite literally appear out of nowhere, which I have to guess is what turned the younger son into who he is. It's quite astounding how the presence of one woman drove a massive rift between the younger son and the rest of OP's family, but while OP had to bear the brunt of a fractured family, him and his wife can hold their heads up high cause they did the right thing by not endorsing a union built on betrayal.
I can't help but think about what would happen if the years passed and their son Nathan started his own family, they would be interested in wanting to reconnect with him because at the end of the day he will still be their son and life goes on at the end of the day.
Nathan in a nutshell:
Omg! You guys are such hypocrites. It's fine when my brother falls in love but, when I fall in love with the same girl it's a problem. So much favoritism
Perfect example of how some people try to change reality in order to make themselves the victim.
I have a twin brother and could never imagine doing this to him
Somehow I am not surprised. The eldest generation here knows no bullshit...
Good to see there good family still out there. I thought all the family would be against the first boyfriend and make him come to the wedding!
First story I listened to that has common sense.
Great parents, amazing selfless brother,
Doing shitty things when they’re in love isn’t a good reason. But the consequence of that shouldn’t hinder that love right?
Lets shift the blame to his parents and forget that he lied to his grandfather about why his parents wasnt attending
Only thing I woulda asked for is an apology from granddad for going off before knowing the full story
wow, nathan's mom was brutal.
Both Nathan and ex-gf has made their beds, and now is time for them to lie on. P.s, my english is terrible
awesome! that's a good family!
7:18 ummm, what? No, generally speaking people don’t do shitty things when they’re in love. At least not from my experience.
parents smart at supporting the right brother but I think, like most 'P's, they ignored the problems
First time seeing a story where the family was on the same page, and on a good one at that
Wow the parents didn't tell Jared to be the bigger person.. that's new
Dad was a real one for standing up for Jared.
But mom? Going and getting Nathan's papers and tossing them out with him. She's the stone cold OG.
This sounds AI generated. First Nathan was upset that his grandfather wasn’t giving him the funds for his wedding now he’s upset OP isn’t giving him the funds.
Like every narcissist ever blaming everyone but themselves and cry favoritism when no one sides with em 🤣😒 like yeah sure ur the victim mmmhmm now go cry a river
5:42 Yeah! She is THE SAME PERSON!
That's horrible...
I think that you posted the pov/storie of a son that got cheated on before this one
Not sure what you are getting at here? That this page has posted this story before or has posted a story like this one before
If I was their father, Nathan wouldn't live to see another daylight especially when I see with my own eyes that my another son is marrying my other son's ex-girlfriend, which had caused a heavy toll on my other son. Parenting rule, always tell your sons and daughters that cheating and having an affair with someone that is in relationship pr married is a mortal sin, no matter what.
So you would have killed him? Isn't that a bit too much? I know what he did was wrong but damn. They didn't have to drop him like that
@@Flashback-j7q actually they did. You dont seem to get it. Not only did he steal his brothers gf but then proceeded to lie to his grandfather. You seriously think they should take him back after how he tried to gaslight his parents then his grandparents? Even after everything he didnt see what he did wrong. Why should they keep him in their life?
@@sandraal2585 again I never said they should have just taken him back just like that. It felt like they dropped him way too fast and again....please read my comment properly before replying ok dude?
@@Flashback-j7q sis they didnt drop him that quick. He got defensive that quick when they didnt agree with him and then he ran like a child to his grandfather and lied about the situation. Seriously why are you people like that?
@@sandraal2585 again I never said what he did was right. I only said the parents dropped him way too fast and his grandfather was petty and somehow your getting really defensive just because I have different option from you? Dude your kinda acting insecure now
This why you shouldn't tell kids especially siblings to share.
Hailey, what are you doing? You cheated with jared for his brother and thought going to his parents house was a good idea? And when everyone have left you, you plan to go back to jared i can only assume so people will come back and forgive you? Nathan a huge dumb@$$ that can backstab his own brother but what the heck is hailey thought process.
W family
Heard this story before. I always thought this site had new stories.
It's not your fault it's your son's fault because Nathan had an affair with his brother girlfriend and that's not right and he should pay for his actions and go to hell for what he has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and he doesn't deserve anything for Nathan had an affair with his brother's girlfriend and you don't have to apologize for anything it's his fault not yours and that's bullshit Nathan is in the wrong here.
A rare story where the family doesn't stand with the cheater for the sake of family unity.
Sweet sweet karma ☺️
W Grandpa🗿
Too clean. Must be fake.
jared needs to get some self respect
DAMN BRO FELL OFF, 10 SECONDS NO VIEWS? we need new parkour map cmon men
Well Hailey has a type
The wronged brother is the only one being sensible and logical wow W brother L parents
He hates his brother but does not want him to suffer.
But the parents goes on a destruction run .... pathetic
Honestly 9m52 is enough for me to not want to finish this one its too pathetic how vindictive the parents are .
Ok first off love the sarcasm but maybe you should clarify for the brain-dead morons that it is sarcasm cause I've seen too many comments similar to yours that get flamed for "supporting the villains" when it's clear your not being serious but they somehow believe it's real
He is a doormat. He just encourages evil people to be more evil.
If we never had prisons, there would be no reason not to murder.
Womp womp
jesusfuckin christ.. 32 seconds.
🙂
Both sides are to Blame and are very toxic. OP talks about sin and unholy relationship and that his son should be judged but the Bible clearly says “let ye not judge for ye be judged 7 fold”. No i don't agree with cheating but I agree with Nathan his parents caused this. This was between 3 people and they brought themselves into this. Which was not needed. They hurt both their kids because now their oldest will blame himself for all of this. I also agree with grandpa that the fund should not go to the wedding but I do not agree with giving it to Jared because that will only further hurt whatever relationship there is between the brothers. This family will probably never hear from Nathan again and I think Nathan should just cut them all off and move on. Both parties are at fault here why stick your nose into other peoples business. Both sides are at fault, the only one not at fault here is Jared because he was trying to move past this not more than likely he has lost all possibility of a relationship with his brother and will miss everything. If i was Nathan I would cut off all family from contacting me whether or not me and Amy stay together and if i am Jared i am distancing myself from the family because clearly what i wanted doesn’t matter to any of them. Jared said don’t and they did. GOD I AM GLAD I HAVE A SEMI NORMALLY FAMILY HOLY SHIT!!!
Its their business, they wanted to invite their families and them being okay with it. Thats when it became thier business. Stop bitching in the comments about Nathan and the SL*t getting consequences for their actions, its actually disgusting the way you try to defend those A holes
OP has morals and standards. The family has standards for decency, and no one is tolerating cheating.
Nathan was jealous of his brother and wanted to hurt him by sleeping with and being in a relationship with the woman his brother was with. They are nasty, and if you think it's okay to be around low-down backstabbers, don’t be surprised when they do the same to you.
Weird take. Very weird. You a cheater?
While Nathan is completely wrong it still seems crazy for his parents to completely disown their child... i thought a parent love was unconditional?
It is the gaslighting and him running to his grandfather and lying about the situation that made it worse. A parents love is unconditional but a child should know better. Especially seeing as they were adults.
yeah Nathan obviously in the wrong but so is ops dad
How come?
How? Cause he didnt appreciate being lied to and manipulated?
Finally a family that doesn't believe in the "do it for Dan" bs.
W family 🤍
Omg fighting over ussie