The fact that he's still fighting to get his kids out of there is libing proof that the misandrist custody laws have nothing to do with "the best interests of the child."
Yeah and more stories i hear like this the more i feel their should be reforms for the male parent as well like rights to parternity and stuff. To lessen the unsavory women characters actions but the sad thing is it is horrible how evil people always find a way to abuse things set up.
Most laws were created during a time when women did not earn decent incomes and had no property to fall back on. They desperately need an update, but also a lot of courts today are more fair than what most people think. Laws are not set in stone, and several times it will entirely depend on what kind of judge you have
Well said. If someone gets wind of the ex's bipolar, she'll lose custody of the kids, when social services removes them from her and her AP, remand the daughter in a children's psychiatric hospital, place OP's bio-son in out-of-state (Illinois) foster care, and then, with a loving family, through closed adoption. In fact, OP's bio-son SHOULD be taken away from his mother, and placed with loving foster/adoptive parents, and he would have a great life.⚠️
Ok but The fact that OP's girlfriend, in response to OP's Ex sending him nudes, asked for Ex's number so she can send her, her own nudes to "show her how it's done" is fucking iconic. LMFAO
@@RanchoSantaAnadelChinoOh, yes, then, she'll go to date/marry a guy who's a psycho, just like her mother is, controls, abuses her, mentally, emotionally, verbally, and physically, to the point where cops and EMTs show up at the door, traps her, and threatens to end her if she breaks up with him, next, she'll flee across the country, with the help of cops and DV social workers (because she's scared that her psycho SO and mother will take her baby away from her), and stay at one women's shelter, after another, because she won't have OP, or other relatives in the east coast to take her in.⚠️
Repost (I think some of the comments at the end may be new, but I'm not sure), but still a good story nonetheless. So, what do we learn from this? 1. if your partner cheats on you or lays their hands on you, end the relationship; 2. if someone cheats on someone else with you, they'll eventually cheat on you with someone else.
Same here, but my heart bleeds for OP's son; I predict that OP's son will be bounced from one foster home to another, when CPS/social services removes him, the daughter, and the other kids from the mother and her AP, next, after aging out of the system, he'll stay with a girl who's being used as a free babysitter for younger siblings from different fathers, have a kid with her, and end up caring for their kid alone, after his baby mama self-deletes, then, move with his kid to Illinois to keep her away from his mother, stay temporarily with roommates in Chi-Town (Chicago), while he gets his GED certificate, find a cheaper apartment in the Lincoln Park, Edgewater, Rogers Park, or Lakeview neighborhood, take online college courses, find a job to support his one-parent household, and ask neighbors to babysit for him. But sadly, he'll lose contact with OP, and his kid will never get to know her grandfather; the only family the son and his kid will have in Illinois is each other. Plus, instead of ever finding new love, just like OP had, the son will need to steer clear of potential new partners, be super-vigilant with whom he trusts, and whom he lets get close, concentrate on getting therapy for himself, raising his kid, being there for her, and creating a stable and safe home environment for her as a good single dad.⚠️
God this is what I thought too. He decided to stay and let his kids witness abuse every day just to avoid a “broken home” my god, dude is and idiot and a doormat
@@IvyFlowerPotts perhaps it is s comment for people currently in similar situations to allow someone to rethink their idea of not wanting to come from a broken home?
@@athrunmoza8996 as I listen to a youTube regarding the escalation of abuse to others when someone with a personality disorder is mortified by consequences they created it is understandable to be strategic in timing to separate from such folks
OP did not want his children to have a broken family, so OP chose to show them what married life should be like, internalizing that abuse and being unhappy are normal in a marriage?
1:53 It breaks my heart how many men have normalised abuse within relationships. Just because you are strong doesn't mean that a woman hitting you doesn't hurt. I hope we change that as a society
No, social services will take the kids before OP does; instead of placing the kids with OP, they'll place the son with a loving foster/adoptive family in Illinois, and remand the daughter to a residential program that specializes in behavior modification.
The fact he still lovednhis daughter shows that he wasnt a bad father or turned into one after the paternity test. Abuse? You should've filed for divorce way earlier but u got some evidence for fulk custody
Good for him, good for the girlfriend, all that, yada yada- for the love of GOD people- take it from someone who grew up in a dysfunctional family, sticking it out with an abuser “for the kids” is not the way to go, my mother stuck it out with an abuser for so much of my childhood and I still resent her to this day for not leaving him sooner after me and my sister begged her too. You’re just traumatizing your kids and making them resent you in the long run.
Slightly different title and different footage, but this channel had already done this story at most two months ago and no new content. I know, I listened to it last night.
It's not your fault it's your ex's wife's fault because she was cheating on him with her AP and she was abusive to him and hitting him and she stocked his new girlfriend and she insulted his girlfriend and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for cheating on him with her AP and she was abusive him and she hitting him and she stocked his new girlfriend and she insulted his girlfriend and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her fault not yours.
The new gf should have walked away from OP. This dude is a wimp and was weak. An embarrassment to men. You let her hold on to the key because you thought that she would change her mind and come back after she was screwing ol dude, you wanted his leftover bits..
Speaking of updates, if there is one, it will be where OP finds out that his ex-wife is committed to a maximum security mental hospital, the kids are removed from her AP's home, the AP's kids are declared wards of the state, the daughter is also committed to a mental hospital, the son is adopted by a mentally stable and loving family in another state (Illinois).
That's the importance of being rational and egoistic to some point, no one believes in a perosn like this without being rational. No one will be free of that situation Without being egoistic to some point or after suffering far too much damage. And I have to be honest, my taste for women sucks I definitely won't made that great of a choice, it will probably be some codependent mentally ill, too. But from all the choices None is worse than the one that isn't truly with you.
Again - this is AI generated. but even so, the ex wife if completely crazy. copying her ex husband's girlfriend and the nudes - that was indeed the last straw hat.
It's just a way to call someone crazy and/or unhinged but in a more joking manner, similarly to saying that someone has "a few screws loose (in the head)". You can substite the words for pretty much anything with a format of saying "a few X short of a Y" where Y is a complete set of something that can technically work without all the required X, but poorly.
Not a fan of OP, why does he spend so much time listening to that woman? The minute she called screaming, I'd hang up. The only thing they need to talk about is the kids.
This dudes gf is goated fr. The amount of security, confidence, and intelligence she has is insane
also his bro for reaching out in the first place
She thinks in 4k
The new GF asking for his Ex’s number so she could send her own nudes back to “show her how it’s done” had me dying. What a Queen fr
Your girlfriend is a saint for helping you with all the baggage you brought into this relationship.
she is also lucky to find such a nice guy.
That's a repost ?
Don't forget that Women like Drama. This could be filling up that innate want too.
The fact that he's still fighting to get his kids out of there is libing proof that the misandrist custody laws have nothing to do with "the best interests of the child."
Yeah and more stories i hear like this the more i feel their should be reforms for the male parent as well like rights to parternity and stuff. To lessen the unsavory women characters actions but the sad thing is it is horrible how evil people always find a way to abuse things set up.
And they say the world is against women.
It's sad when families struggle with honesty and trust. These situations can be deeply hurtful and damaging.
Most laws were created during a time when women did not earn decent incomes and had no property to fall back on. They desperately need an update, but also a lot of courts today are more fair than what most people think. Laws are not set in stone, and several times it will entirely depend on what kind of judge you have
@@DragonOfTheMortalKombat There are double standards everywhere. THE WORLD SUCKS FOR BOTH OF US
The fact that a narcissistic and abusive stalker got custody of the kids is crazy
The law is fair, but many judges are sexist against fathers.
Well said. If someone gets wind of the ex's bipolar, she'll lose custody of the kids, when social services removes them from her and her AP, remand the daughter in a children's psychiatric hospital, place OP's bio-son in out-of-state (Illinois) foster care, and then, with a loving family, through closed adoption. In fact, OP's bio-son SHOULD be taken away from his mother, and placed with loving foster/adoptive parents, and he would have a great life.⚠️
@@danacarter9147Imagine think cps does something to help kids in abusive situations,also why not just give the son to OP💀
Well, that is how a lot of parents are allowed to behave towards their kids.
So at least society is consistent.
@@Otis56They'll tell OP that he's not an option, and that he waited too long to get full custody.
Ok but
The fact that OP's girlfriend, in response to OP's Ex sending him nudes, asked for Ex's number so she can send her, her own nudes to "show her how it's done" is fucking iconic. LMFAO
OP should sue her for domestic violence as well. Especially because he has proof that she admitted hitting him just because she felt like it.
That would be smart, but you're forgetting one very important fact that guarantees OP will not get justice.
He's a man.
Western courts would laugh and throw it out telling him it was his fault.
@@Otis56yeah because he is a guy
No one cares about them
"I didn't want to have my kids grow up in a broken home"
My man, your son watched your "wife" choke you. That home was as broken as it could be
OP, found a gem of a GF. She literally took all his ex bull and just tossed it right back into her face.
I feel like I already heard this story here but could be wrong.
No it not wrong
yeah definitely heard this story before
Possible reupload
It's a repost
Yeah 100% repost
The little girl is gonna grow up exactly like the mom if he doesn't get her out of there.
Well said. And then, she'll end up in prison, and worse, a maximum security mental hospital.
Nah the daughter seems be more self aware
@@demonic_myst4503 self aware?
No, because of the power of true hate 😆.
She will hate her mom and want to be nothing like her out of spite.
@@RanchoSantaAnadelChinoOh, yes, then, she'll go to date/marry a guy who's a psycho, just like her mother is, controls, abuses her, mentally, emotionally, verbally, and physically, to the point where cops and EMTs show up at the door, traps her, and threatens to end her if she breaks up with him, next, she'll flee across the country, with the help of cops and DV social workers (because she's scared that her psycho SO and mother will take her baby away from her), and stay at one women's shelter, after another, because she won't have OP, or other relatives in the east coast to take her in.⚠️
Repost (I think some of the comments at the end may be new, but I'm not sure), but still a good story nonetheless.
So, what do we learn from this?
1. if your partner cheats on you or lays their hands on you, end the relationship;
2. if someone cheats on someone else with you, they'll eventually cheat on you with someone else.
3. if your partner is a jerk to people for no reason, they will do the same to you eventually. leave asap.
The new girlfriend is a keeper, glad she is there for him.
Same here, but my heart bleeds for OP's son; I predict that OP's son will be bounced from one foster home to another, when CPS/social services removes him, the daughter, and the other kids from the mother and her AP, next, after aging out of the system, he'll stay with a girl who's being used as a free babysitter for younger siblings from different fathers, have a kid with her, and end up caring for their kid alone, after his baby mama self-deletes, then, move with his kid to Illinois to keep her away from his mother, stay temporarily with roommates in Chi-Town (Chicago), while he gets his GED certificate, find a cheaper apartment in the Lincoln Park, Edgewater, Rogers Park, or Lakeview neighborhood, take online college courses, find a job to support his one-parent household, and ask neighbors to babysit for him. But sadly, he'll lose contact with OP, and his kid will never get to know her grandfather; the only family the son and his kid will have in Illinois is each other. Plus, instead of ever finding new love, just like OP had, the son will need to steer clear of potential new partners, be super-vigilant with whom he trusts, and whom he lets get close, concentrate on getting therapy for himself, raising his kid, being there for her, and creating a stable and safe home environment for her as a good single dad.⚠️
The fact that the gf asked for the ex’s number to show her how to “properly send noods” is so freaking badass
If someone treats you this way YOUR HOME IS BROKEN...
you are just choosing to continue to live with something that is broken 😖🙄
Love, my friend. You have to understand OP. If they already knew what kind of rabbit hole they would have left asap
God this is what I thought too. He decided to stay and let his kids witness abuse every day just to avoid a “broken home” my god, dude is and idiot and a doormat
@athrunmoza8996 agreed, no one knows the future and it's not the victims fault
@@IvyFlowerPotts perhaps it is s comment for people currently in similar situations to allow someone to rethink their idea of not wanting to come from a broken home?
@@athrunmoza8996 as I listen to a youTube regarding the escalation of abuse to others when someone with a personality disorder is mortified by consequences they created it is understandable to be strategic in timing to separate from such folks
Cheaters should loose custody of their kids. Period.
"It's only love when you're homeless." LOL
I know I shouldn't laugh 😂, but she's one twisted cookie.
OP did not want his children to have a broken family, so OP chose to show them what married life should be like, internalizing that abuse and being unhappy are normal in a marriage?
"Give me her number so I can show her how it's done." Bro your gf is a goddamned legend.
6:50 nahhh now that’s iconic
how ironic, the man she been having an affair with cheated on HER lmao. like alot of people say, "once a cheater always a cheater"
1:53 It breaks my heart how many men have normalised abuse within relationships. Just because you are strong doesn't mean that a woman hitting you doesn't hurt. I hope we change that as a society
His new girlfriend has to be the best person to have around. Truly a queen
Both of the last uploads have been reuploads, yes you heard them before
"my ex had keys to my house, and I didn't want to change the locks so she could freely invade our privacy" was all I heard for the longest time. Wtf.
Sounds like ex needs to swallow a 2nd ammendment device
Probably but unfortunately they never do.
Its always the worst people that live the longest, to spite the rest of us.
@@Eye_Of_Odin978ain’t that the truth 😑
Probably make her happier than life.
That fool dug her own grave, take your kids and keep your walls up.
No, social services will take the kids before OP does; instead of placing the kids with OP, they'll place the son with a loving foster/adoptive family in Illinois, and remand the daughter to a residential program that specializes in behavior modification.
Cheaters deserve each other
Are you even sure the new boyfriend cheated?
He could have just insulted her verbally. Including by telling her the truth.
Don't keep Crazy in your life. It will make you crazy, too.
Never trust a traitor...
thats one hell of a repost
i had a bipolar partner and he was not on any meds or therapy and it was a disaster. I'm glad op is safe and I hope kids are too
The new GF is a champ
I think both the posts today are reposts.
Dude should have put her in place from the vary Beginning just like her BF..... Showing weakness & tolerating Abuse is the road of Downfall.
The fact he still lovednhis daughter shows that he wasnt a bad father or turned into one after the paternity test. Abuse? You should've filed for divorce way earlier but u got some evidence for fulk custody
Good for him, good for the girlfriend, all that, yada yada- for the love of GOD people- take it from someone who grew up in a dysfunctional family, sticking it out with an abuser “for the kids” is not the way to go, my mother stuck it out with an abuser for so much of my childhood and I still resent her to this day for not leaving him sooner after me and my sister begged her too. You’re just traumatizing your kids and making them resent you in the long run.
Slightly different title and different footage, but this channel had already done this story at most two months ago and no new content. I know, I listened to it last night.
Do you have the video?
a few french fries short of a happy meal lol that is a phrase i will be stealing
How much of a doormat are you to get inti an abusive relationship and maintain it when it adds nothing if value to your life?
"You're making me sound like trash"
But you kinda are
You cannot be nice with insane abusers, they enjoy putting you down. It's not being the bigger person, it's being a victim and a doormat.
That subzero quote 😂😂😂😂😂
Why the heck did you let her Keep the apartment keys ffs
It said she made doubles of his sons Key's. So it didn't matter anyway
Had an ex like that
Luckily no children
6:17 just like Borat. I hoped he says "She can't afford great success"
cheaters getting cheated on gotta be the funniest thing ever
The girlfriend is a force not to be reconned with
Bro his gf saying she was gunna send nudes to his ex to show her how its done..
Dam
Thats insane
DOORMAT....
Is this a repost bruh
Mandatory. Paternity. Tests. At. Birth. PERIOD!!!!
It's not your fault it's your ex's wife's fault because she was cheating on him with her AP and she was abusive to him and hitting him and she stocked his new girlfriend and she insulted his girlfriend and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for cheating on him with her AP and she was abusive him and she hitting him and she stocked his new girlfriend and she insulted his girlfriend and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her fault not yours.
Play stupid game, win stupid prizes
Stop with the reposts pls
6:55 this new GF is actually the boss
The new gf should have walked away from OP. This dude is a wimp and was weak. An embarrassment to men.
You let her hold on to the key because you thought that she would change her mind and come back after she was screwing ol dude, you wanted his leftover bits..
Can someone please show me where the update is or tell me what happened after
Poor brbr he got abused like 😞
So he didn’t join the band but it’s his band? Sureeeeeeeeee
same stories again
theres a update on this story sucks u didnt add it
What's the update?
Speaking of updates, if there is one, it will be where OP finds out that his ex-wife is committed to a maximum security mental hospital, the kids are removed from her AP's home, the AP's kids are declared wards of the state, the daughter is also committed to a mental hospital, the son is adopted by a mentally stable and loving family in another state (Illinois).
Um hello? Repost?
"Gimme her phone so I can show her how it is done" based gf
Has he won yet?
OP girlfriend is a keeper.
So...uh...why did this get reposted but via a new name..?
Because this is the laziest content besides reactions :D
Because this a content farm channel, and that's just what they do.
Not really complaining bc, that's kind of what I expect for this tier of channel.
they explained that they read stories everyday for months/years and can't always remember if they have posted them.
he cheated??? GASPPPPPPP
Is emergency custody not a thing where this story was made if its not ai made
That's the importance of being rational and egoistic to some point, no one believes in a perosn like this without being rational. No one will be free of that situation
Without being egoistic to some point or after suffering far too much damage. And I have to be honest, my taste for women sucks
I definitely won't made that great of a choice, it will probably be some codependent mentally ill, too. But from all the choices
None is worse than the one that isn't truly with you.
Why do u copy stories
what does that mean? doesnt he get them off reddit like most reddit channels?
Maybe there are Updates.
@@gracelouise3091this story and the 2 or 3 befor this story was posted 3 months ago or so. They are already on his channel
Bc it's telling Reddit
@@Safetyman64 there were not
@Telltales Hey man can you please mention the song u use for background it helps me calm my anxiety
8:08
Again - this is AI generated.
but even so, the ex wife if completely crazy. copying her ex husband's girlfriend and the nudes - that was indeed the last straw hat.
Can anyone explain the "Few french fries short from a Happy Meal" thing? It sounds hilarious but I'm not native so I don't get it. 🤣
It's just a way to call someone crazy and/or unhinged but in a more joking manner, similarly to saying that someone has "a few screws loose (in the head)". You can substite the words for pretty much anything with a format of saying "a few X short of a Y" where Y is a complete set of something that can technically work without all the required X, but poorly.
@@tiinaniinikoski2964 alright, thank you!
Damn 46 with a 6 year old
10:31 🤨
Whats the case number???
Got any cheating husband stories to tell?
Another reupload?..
What a ratchet story.
Dejavu
Not a fan of OP, why does he spend so much time listening to that woman? The minute she called screaming, I'd hang up. The only thing they need to talk about is the kids.
Repost
WTH does stbxw stand for?
soon to be ex wife
Link
Gender swap
First
DNA testing should be mandatory. Also NEVER Never date or marry someone with bipolar disorder.
This dude almost deserves it. So many red flags before marriage and still stayed all those years after. Complete beta simp.