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Them asking for a selfless woman that isn’t influenced by beauty standards but also wanting a woman that’s attractive and has a nice body and care about her looks is hilariously ironic
Took the words out of my mouth...
They just want a submissive wife to lord it over.
They want the best of both worlds. They want someone submissive and ignorant about sex who doesn't inconvenience them with beauty routines and waits on them hand and foot AND someone pretty who will be adventurous in the bedroom, be assertive in the ways that are convenient to him and somehow also still has the time and energy to take care of a bunch of kids, a husband and the house.
I’m comfortable knowing I’ll repel guys like Paul.
Yeah, I understand he wouldn’t want to be with a democrat, but we don’t want you either Paul! I’d never be with a man who had an issue with my queer friend
Exactly what I was thinking!
I've been saying this. 😂
I would too if I was younger. I have some queer friends and I actually wouldn't let a man "lead me" people adults lead themselves each individual adult person is the lead of themselves. I couldn't be submissive. It's not in my culture or genes. Screw that noise! I tell my oldest daughter never submit to a man that's controlling
Beautifully said. These guys are really thinking they are doing something here. The only thing they are doing is making alot of people uncomfortable.
paul saying it’s hard to find a woman who isn’t consumed with self is hilarious. he comes off as truly the most self-obsessed person.
I hate when pastors or Christian influencers say “we are getting real.. this may be controversial” and then proceed to say something that has been said in church 10000 times. Like ohh your so edgy. Like bro no.
I KNOW they're just echoing the prevailing ideology, but congratulate themselves for being bold and honest? It's like if my raised in San Francisco self was like "Look guys, I'm gonna get really raw and honest here so this may ruffle some feathers... but I think recycling is better than throwing your garbage straight into the sea"
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I think they need it to be controversial because that's their only selling point. Otherwise they'd have to be honest and say "It's the same crap we've been saying for years."
I was molested when I was four years old, and a Christian boyfriend who I was deeply in love with was very disappointed about me not being a virgin when I confessed this to him. This is something to understand about the thiknking process of evangelical men. They will hold anything over you they can.
So true. I told a Christian boyfriend (who had slept with multiple people before we started dating) that I had watched porn once in high school, and he told me that I had "stolen" something from him because I wasn't technically a virgin anymore. Literally from seeing porn once. The evangelical church teaches these guys to manipulate.
Also, I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hope you're doing well and have been able to find healing.
God, I'm so sorry. That must have been incredibly retraumatizing.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Sometimes it feels like just a power trip in our patriarchial society in general. It feels like anything can be used against you. The first boyfriend I was with actually told me he wished I was not a virgin. It hurt, even though I don't think he meant it to be hurtful, but it made me want to respond with do you want me to just go grab someone off the street so that I can have more experience? You're too innocent, you're not innocent enough, you can't win because you have to somehow be it all as a woman. It's like Paul saying I want someone that puts effort into looking good, but not in a slutty way, so be non-sexual, but my sexual fantasy too and I'll leave it up to you how to perform that magic trick.
That, and on top of the abuse itself, is just horrifying. To hear something like that from a person you love and trust enough to share it. Really relieved for you that it's an ex boyfriend. Hope you're doing great now and have awesome people around you!
that's disgusting.
no contempt for the piece of trash that abused you and HIS sexual immorality. but you, a literal child, oh yeah, you're the one in the wrong.
gimme a freaking break. This whole fundamentalist/evangelical ideology is toxic garbage.
side note, i'm sorry for what happened to you, but you NEED to know it wasn't your fault. you didn't do anything wrong. and it doesn't change your value or your worth as a person. you're still amazing and worthy and wonderful. *hugs*
If Paul was so worried about how long the video was he should have just said “I look for a woman who is easily controlled and manipulated so I can mold them into a wife who behaves and thinks the way i want them to and forgives me even when I’m abusive”
You hit the nail on the head!
Exactly he wanted to sugar coat it. Politics really don't affect relationships unless the people in the relationship make it an issue or problem
Don't forget that she's also HOT. She must be hot, and she must be willing to fold to all of his desires. Basically.
Ho! Man that's it right there 😢ew
This is exactly what he's looking for. But he would never admit to it.
Paul is the epitome of everything I do not want in a man😂😂😂
Hey, Paul - Democrat women called, they're not looking for a husband like you either 😂😬
Yessssss. Best comment
This!!!
Same with moderate, independent women as well.
My sister broke up with a guy who treated her like this. “Oh we disagree? How cute. You’ll see it my way if you really think about it.”
I find right wing men do this a lot where they diss on left wing women as if they expect us to be shattered that we're not "datable" to them. Why would we *want* to date them? It's such a selfish way to look at dating as if everyone should want you and feel insulted if you're not interested in them.
Paul wants to turn a “dating advice”video into a “bitching about the Democratic Party “ video
A woman who is not consumed with self = a submitted woman who has no boundaries
Yep. “Not consumed with self” to these bigots means “be my handmaiden.” It’s hilarious when Paul says these things while going on diatribes about himself. Like stfu dude lol
Not consumed with self, but into holistic fitness and takes care of her appearance, dresses well, but modest…. Do you really need to list everything out? This just sounds so oxymoronic.
Guys like Paul: Women should not be consumed for themselves
Women: ok
Guys like Paul: haha women put makeup and dress up for male attention!!!!
Women: ok?
Guys like Paul: NOOO you’re not suppose to let yourselves go!!
To an outsider, "not consumed with self" probably sounds like it would mean "someone who isn't selfish all of the time"; in other words, a positive quality. But it's actually a dogwhistle. I was accused by conservative Christians of being "consumed with self" as a teenager for wanting to spend time with friends occasionally, doing chores I enjoyed rather than only doing chores I hated, wanting to tell loved ones about my day after they told me about theirs, sleeping, and using my free time to make art and rest rather than volunteering every minute I had. There really is no line for Christian women and girls where they can no longer be accused of being consumed with self; any moment they spend on enjoyment or self care, no matter how obviously necessary, is open to attack with this logic.
'Just say that you're a bigot and go' made my day
As a Christian woman, I can’t even with these guys 😂
The anti-veganism amongst many evangelical Christians was such a headache to deal with when I was still in the church. Like just let me live please, jesus.
That’s genuinely so weird to me! Like aren’t Christians supposed to believe we’re stewards of the environment or whatever?
@@dayoolorunnisola162 American evangelicalism is historically tied to Republican and right-wing politics; they see environmental stewarding as a thing for liberals/leftists/communists. Toss in a disbelief in evolution, belief in a literal 6 day creation and evil causing everything to decay so who cares, and hope for heaven/rapture to heaven, and there is very little to persuade them to give a flying fig about fellow human beings now and in the future.
It’s just projection. They know Jesus would proudly smile upon any soul that seeks to end all suffering in any way they can. And they know they do not choose to do so when they can. Never allow their tragic, pathetic inability to grow as a human, to shart on your gorgeous soul hun. No God would sneer at anyone trying to stop pain and suffering of anyone or thing. That’s THE WHOLE POINT OF EVERYTHING.
@@dayoolorunnisola162 that was what I tried to explain to people when I was still in the church! It was very much a spiritual issue for me, that we be environmentally conscious. My own mother laughed in my face, she believes the rapture will happen in her lifetime and the earth won’t matter
@@roseyfields2729 damn, that’s crazy, I’m sorry that happened! It’s pretty reminiscent of things that I’ve heard from Evangelicals: that this generation may not die and all that. I guess your mom reached the natural conclusion from that line of thinking: that ultimately the earth and what happens to it is immaterial
Morgan is just one of those people who naturally come off very likeable and non threatening. It makes it hard for my brain to process some of the atrocious garbage that she says because it sounds like it should be coming from a different person lol. That and she definately became more of an extremist over the course of her relationship.
Paul’s vibe is uhhhh… aligned with his rhetoric so it’s easier to comprehend how he’d say that stuff.
That’s so true!!
Extremist? Come on.
I get that a lot of you have religious trauma but calling this extremism is silly.
Also maybe Morgan is just a nice person and you want to hate her bc she’s religious, which is a toxic mentality.
Morgan gives off the vibe that if she wasn't married to Paul she might become a better person, and Paul gives off the vibe of being an emotional abuser so it also creates this feeling of pity for Morgan as well as a curiosity as to who she could be if she wasn't influenced by him.
@@_sofie no she's not nice. Nice people don't constantly shit on marginalized folks.
@@_sofie Not all Christians enforce an extremely narrow, rigid concept of acceptable behavior and acceptable thoughts/feelings. I'm Christian and my church is not like this at all.
We're not calling it extremist just because it's religious, we're calling it that because the subculture she's immersed in meets many standards of a cultic group.
The way Michael is talking about his date learning to “extend grace and forgiveness” towards him him and Paul saying his dates had to show “openness towards change and correction” is really telling. They just want a woman who doesn’t stick to her believes and boundaries and is easily manipulated and moulded into conformity.
my thoughts exactly! and when he discusses wanting s woman who’s maybe not politically informed so he can “feed her information”. Weird!
They really do want women who are ignorant and can be manipulated. I remember a fundy man explaining that he was pro-child marriage (for underage girls to adult men) so that she could be married to a husband who would keep her in line before she could grow up enough to gain a bit of independence and maybe decide she didn't want to follow all the religious rules she was raised on. It was very blatant that he wanted to marry girls off in order to prevent them from leaving the religion.
Tbh I’d rather they just say “no fat chicks”
Edit: expanding on this, when you frame it as “well it shows they’re disciplined and have control and it’s holy” it just sounds like you’re saying that fat people are morally bad.
Yup
They do think fat people are morally bad lol they’re giant fatphobes. I wonder if they’ve ever watched the Olympics to see all the ranges of what a fit, top level athlete body looks like
Yep and sadly when they say that it's exactly what they mean :/
I wondered what they would say about someone who works out regularly but isn't the societal norm of "skinny" plenty of people like that exist. I have gfs that work out all the time, in way better shape than I am, but built differently.
Democratic values like…feeding the homeless, taking care of the poor, helping the environment.
50 bucks say they're just avoiding saying "pro-gay" explicitly
That little dig about Jimmy Carter who is arguably the most authentically Christian president we’ve had in the modern era was super weird and tells me exactly what neither of these guys understand about the nuances of politics or Christianity as written in the Bible. You’ve hit a number of points I had listening to them like it’s all really their preferences so why are they pretending it’s a universal truth? 😂
And on February of this year, they announced that former president Jimmy Carter is in hospice care. I wouldn't be surprised if the Evangelicals, conservative commentators, pundits, influencers and those in the American right circles are going to start sharpening their knives to make a final attack on Mr. Carter.
Yeah that was weird. Especially considering how these dudes probably worship Reagan and demonstrates the two types of Christians, one of substance and one of image.
The people who are so hateful about Carter probably know nothing whatever about him except interest rates were high. No thought as to why that might have been.
It's interesting to me that being a Christian influencer is Paul's whole job. He has all week to read deeply and learn and grow, and yet, all their RUclips videos are just the most surface level topics. I know they've found a niche, but you can go deep in a niche and provide more valuable content.
In such controlling environments, most people feel unsafe to share or even consciously experience their genuine thoughts/feelings. So things tend to stay superficial for the most part.
They make most money off rage bait.
Yikes!! Paul wanting someone who is open and willing to listen to other points of view is hilarious since he's never once tried that in his life! This was soooo weird for them to make. These 30 hear old men in committed relationships talking about what they want in a wife... Paul you've already been married for like 7 years... Idk it's just weird. Paul and Micheal seem really compatible though, maybe they should just get together and leave the Morgans alone.
Haha I agree
These men demand gentleness but say women are too weak to lead
Yep, women can’t win either way.
Yeah I kinda think they want a woman who "gently challenges" them 1) because they have very sensitive egos and 2) because you can ignore "gentle challenges" if you disagree with them.
The selfless attracts selfless thing is unequivocally not true. Selfless often attracts narcissists or generally opportunistic and selfish people who know how to benefit from selflessness of someone who loves them.
31:30 "Some people really don't like being challenged [in their beliefs]" I'm surprised no one has turned that around on Paul and said "what about you? Is no one allowed to challenge you on your beliefs?" The way he speaks about others with such condescension really grinds my gears!
I was living for your expressions throughout this video B. 😂❤
As Paul’s wife I would be violently uncomfortable with the way he framed this video as if he was still searching for a partner.
Not sure, that seems a little insecure. Not saying you're insecure. But what I am saying is that someone who would get mad/jealous about fictional content just for views and money, that seems immature and insecure to me.
That's like saying if a couple was in college and one party wrote a paper on say relationship redflags than the other person would be fair to get mad? No that's ludicrous lol
What I hear Paul saying is, he’d rather have an ignorant, apathetic person to mold into his own image, than someone who cares and educates herself, and leans democratic on more issues than not.
I mean, its working. Morgan went from “I don’t want to have seggs when I’m angry at you” to “Its important to still have seggs while Im angry at you AND guys who don’t are LOSERRRRRRRSSSSS”
Paul is so performative in his presentation, like I do think that he genuinely believes some of the things he says but I think it's so clear he wouldn't be emphasising the things he's emphasising if there weren't cameras on him and attention to be gained
“Culture is telling women they have to look like this and act like this” as he’s telling women how to look and act to get a man
Omg the fact that they did a video called “being a virgin on your wedding night” knowing Morgan isn’t a virgin???? The only reason to do that is to publicly shame Morgan. Paul doesn’t love Morgan. You don’t publicly shame such a key part of someone’s identity(sexuality), if you love someone. I would have no self esteem if I was her and was married to someone like Paul.
I do wonder if he got off of the idea to FORGIVE her, but never really could actually cope with the fact, or if he chose her to hold it over her head forever.
They are still banging that boring drum, he never stops going on about it
They seem to put SO much into being a virgin, there is so much more to a marrage, they are cringe
It's the video version of the misogynist manual!!! WOW!!! How much is Paul willing to be open to differing opinions? Did you notice what Paul does whenever Michael spoke...he nervously rocked himself as if self-soothing him through another person talking...shook my head through the entire conversation.
I've always noticed Paul rocking . I wouldn't be surprised if he has undiagnosed autism or adhd. My 4 yr old is severely autistic. She doesn't rock but stims and spins. Girls with and are Also different than boys who are on the spectrum too
Rocking when someone's talking isn't inherently nefarious, it's normal with ADHD. But yea in combo with other details I did get the sense that he was emotionally struggling to share the space.
@@stilltrying619 I know it seems he has that or autism . He probably isn't severe boys are different than girls on spectrum too
The vagueness with which they described their political preferences... why do I feel like they don't know as much as they'd like others to think? Just with the amount of times they just repeated the same sentence over and over. Also, Paul saying he'd be more than happy to have a politically clueless woman that he can educate himself is just, wow. He could not have told on himself more blatantly.
The gag is they probably don’t know all that much. Most evangelicals are single issue voters and literally only care about abortion and LGBT rights (that is, taking them away)
Hahah paul wishes he got a virgin, 18 yr old fresh out of an all girls Christian high school raised in the church lifestyle "fearful of jesus" etc. That way he can MOLD her into who he wants her to become as his wife, his spouse, his this his that etc etc its sick its sick! Its narrsassric!!!
He said “educate” but what he meant was “indoctrinate” these guys are the worst
This was honestly pretty disturbing. Essentially they want a woman who will listen to them, bend to their opinion, not have progressive views/compassion for others, and be hot...
Something about the fact that there are two non-single men talking about what they look for in a woman and not even using the past tense or conditional form (aka. I LOOK for this vs I LOOKED or I WOULD LOOK for) gives me the major ick. It's as if they are actively still looking at women and evaluating them for marriage/breeding potential despite the fact that they are both supposedly happily in relationships. If my husband made a video like this I'd be incredibly uncomfortable.
I thought this too!!!!! Paul never once said when I saw this in my wife I knew … or I love that she does this …. both are strange little boys that probably wouldn’t know what to do with themselves if a strong independent woman was around
The difference between Paul and the other guy's "list" is pretty striking. Paul's was all about what a female can do for him, she better be humble, etc. But the other guy was much less arrogant and narcissistic. Paul's the worst.
Also, let's not forget Paul had a Tinder account. Sketchy AF for someone who shames women so quickly for not "waiting for a guy who will pursue them in a god honoring way" to also have an account on TINDER! The hypocrisy is mind blowing to me. I wouldn't be surprised if some women came forward saying Paul was perusing them is a VERY unChristian way.
Like Paul just say you can’t defend your positions 😂 “I don’t want a democrat unless she’s clueless” because he knows any actual progressive would demolish his points in an instant
One thought regarding the “must have a servant’s heart/not be self-involved” thing: In the religious culture of my youth group years, these traits were measured solely through outward performance and the most visible acts of “selflessness” (i.e., free labor) for the church community. So as someone who was shy and introverted, and whose acts of kindness were quiet and subtle, I was repeatedly chastised for being too self-absorbed. 🙄
*Wow, I really love* how they are saying if a woman is in a toxic relationship with a man who doesn’t treat them right, that the woman just doesn’t know her worth… the victim-blaming is strong. I know self-worth is important, but I don’t believe the only solution is to know your self-worth as a woman. Yes, knowing your self-worth and boundaries overall is a good thing, but let’s also acknowledge that toxic masculinity, and the patriarchal lens we grew up in, is a HUGE factor that shouldn’t be ignored.
Not to mention abusers are often very good at manipulating people. Abuse is so common because it's easy to get away with if you know who to target and how to come across as someone who would never do it.
I have been a Christian all my life … parents were pastors …. My mom and dad literally warned me to stay away from guys like this ….. any time a guy says they want to lead me … I say bye ….. they both will end in divorce…. They have high school thinking of what they want ….. it’s embarrassing
My win is that I finished a painting this past weekend.
But um, two Christian guys who are in committed relationships talking about what they're looking for in a girl is WEIRD. And acting like what is clearly A LOT of personal preferences they're saying applies to all Christian guys desires/expectations ... I can't. I just can't. 😂😭
Not to mention very self-absorbed of them.
But when are men in these circles ever held to the standards they put on women?
Find a literal Morgan. Is that it? Lol
It is weird! I think it would make more sense if they did a video for the boys/men who watch. How to behave towards women, on dates, in a relationship, etc. Just listing some personal demands doesn't help anyone..
@@caseyw.6550but this is advice for women, no, sorry for “gals.” So they’re saying BE a Morgan.
@@jglobetrotter2830 oh right! Doh!
Paul: openness = the woman accepts CORRECTION
I worry about Morgan, so I suppose I have a soft spot for her too.
Yes, for sure. But it's getting really exhausting to worry about her. I can find better ways to spend my spoons.
She’s definitely more molded by Paul and the other “crazy” Christian RUclips bubble, in recent years.
Around the 41 minute mark - I really want someone to inform Paul of sampling bias. You are asking men in a gym environment if they want a partner who likes to workout. Chances are that's going to influence their answer. If you went to a DnD session or a science fair you might get a totally different answer.
Right? Worst sample ever 😂 but that’s the extent of Paul’s research to speak on behalf of conservative Christian men…
22:31 “I need a girl that will forgive if I cheat or emotionally manipulate her and not be selfish to set boundaries”. Forgiveness and communication are huge in a relationship but again I feel with everything they say there is a weird motive or underlying message they aren’t saying out loud
“Guys get raw and honest” lmfaooo
I'm very glad i'd repel guys like this.
As someone that has struggled with weight gain/loss my whole life, I'm a firm believer that physical looks will change on everyone but personality is something that is deeper.
100%, and it's so incorrect that fluctuating weight means you're "less disciplined" than a thin person. I've been thin most of my life and before my metabolism changed with age I used to not-uncommonly eat half a box of pasta and multiple cupcakes at dinner. I've also been pretty athletic at times and that was just because I enjoyed it and needed the endorphins. There was no morally-virtuous self-discipline involved lol
Super annoying when people shy away from being honest. These men are not looking for a super healthy gym mouse lol they want someone with a slim figure.
Right?! I work at a gym and we have trainers who are technically overweight (who have lost 100+ pounds, workout 20 hours a week, and are strong AF). These men wouldn't give them a second glance.
I think the conversation about “appearance” was really just them saying they don’t want their wives to be/become fat lmao
They spent way too much time justifying that fitness point. 😆 Guys, just say you don't want fat women. You don't need to cloak it in "fitness". Edit: B and I are clearly on the same wavelength here.
Yeah, I'd really be interested to see what they would say about me (if I fit their other criteria -- my political views would be an immediate turnoff). I'm on the thinner side and I can't really work out due to a significant disability. I walk with a cane so the disability is clear, but I look "fit" according to their standards. Think that would be enough? Because I'm calling bullshit -- I'm pretty sure this is about looks and not about fitness.
@@rachelcarpenter3965 100%
I was coming to find this comment. They are 1000% meaning they want a girl who is “skinny” because going to the gym doesn’t equate being small/w muscles. So if a girl goes to the gym 6 days a week and is 200 pounds - guaranteed that’s not what they are looking for
@@rachelcarpenter3965 and yeah I’m pretty sure Morgan doesn’t work out but she’s just thin and he married her
I somehow doubt they would think it's acceptable for a hot girl to turn them down because she wants a buff hot dude. Then they would call her "selfish" and too focused on looks. Fundamentalism constantly makes excuses for men to be selfish and shames women for it.
These guys don't realize how many women they are repelling. And I feel for the ones they are attracting tbh. Especially those attracted to men like Paul. Ladies, please don't subject yourselves to these types of men. They don't actually like you. They possess, control, judge and have an inner disdain for you even if you meet all of their "requirements". Do yourselves a favor and actually know your worth by avoiding wasting years of your life for someone who is so hypocritical and will make you miserable. Lol
41:54 AKA if you’re not skinny would you be willing to lose weight so you can look the way I want you too.
I have this happen to me at my Bible study all the time. I am 5’11 and thicc girl woth short hair. No guy ever approaches me to even make casual conversation. Yet they all approach the shorter and clearly less weight women. OnlyRespecting women you find attractive isn’t respecting women
I was shocked how much guys stopped talking to me the second I cut my hair. I was like damn if this was the trick to repelling superficial creeps I'd have done it years ago. Also here's hoping you can ultimately find a Bible study with a more supportive environment (if you want to keep doing Bible study). Mine is 3/4 very kind elderly people and 1/4 very kind gay 20-somethings and it's the most comfy I've ever been in a group setting
I already knew Paul was real-life Dennis Reynolds, then he goes and confirms it by showing up with his pal Charlie
Wow. Fucking on-point.
I am a Christian democrat… personally triggered lol.
After all Jesus was a socialist.
Re Paul’s second point about the Democratic Party
Is he saying he rejects it because it accepts LGBTQ+ people? If that’s what he means, why doesn’t he have the guts to just say that
Dancing around the subject gives him plausible deniability (“I never said that, but if you look at the scripture…”), and it baits people into engaging with him (“what was that supposed to mean??”). It’s internet trolling with extra steps imo
I can’t help but get the vibe that these guys were into someone super hot, but she had her own opinions making it impossible for them to date 😅
These boys are clueless lol they get SO CLOSE to making some great points here, but then they elaborate and it's like "aaaand you missed it" lol
Exactly lol. Some of the points seem fair but then the more they say, the worse it gets.
Like a fast train. There it is and it's gone!
I didnt have the stomach to watch this on my own, so thanks for reacting to it!
Happy to help you get through it! Lol
I didn't want to give him the view cause I know him well enough to know what would be in it *sigh* so unoriginal Paul smh
My win for the week is, I got out of a depressive slump really quickly by going on a walk to the store to get a donut and it made my feel a lot better 💕
Your face when he said he was a dating and love expert made me hit the subscribe button. lol
😂😂😂😂
I'm really hoping that was sarcasm...
It’s infuriating and nauseating that these types of pro birth (& I say pro birth because these type of people don’t care about the baby/fetus beyond the birth) exploit such heartbreaking and tragic situations like late term abortion. No one is choosing to do that. No one just decides in the 7th, 8th, or 9th month to all of a sudden have an abortion. It’s always a tragic situation where the baby was very much wanted and there is some extreme medical issue. And no one is killing an already born baby, they are delusional or maybe just lazy for not verifying this disinformation. That quote is referencing whether the parents want to keep resuscitation going on a baby that absolutely not live. Ugh, sorry for ranting, but I truly hate this type of disinformation. It causes so much harm, especially to the parents that have to go through something like that.
Say it louder, girly! And never stop!!❤
It is horrible ideology. I'm friends with a wonderful couple who finally left Evangelicism because their baby was developing without a face or a higher brain. They chose to abort (7th month) after learning that their baby would have the neurological structure to feel pain, but not take in comfort. People in their church wouldn't stop warning them against aborting and advising them to trust God.
You don't have to be personally delusional or lazy for not fact-checking while indoctrinated in a cult-like environment. People living under extreme social pressure and surveillance naturally limit their behavior to what feels safe within the group. Not saying the disinformation isn't super harmful, but it's more complicated than individual choice
@@stilltrying619This kind of shit drives me mad! Maybe god sent that doctor to tell you about the baby's condition so you could save it from suffering? After all, god allows spontanious abortions (miscarriage) all the time, clearly he isn't worried about preventing the "murder of the unborn" if he makes it so common and beyond our ability to prevent!
I agree. Be honest that you want someone fit because you prefer them to look that way. I workout because I want to look better, AND because it is good for you and the discipline thing is also true, but if we're being honest a big factor of it is looks! No shame in that, but just own up to it!
Right? It’s okay to admit the truth!
But isn’t all that self care Selfish? 😂😂
On the flip side I used to work out (before I got too ill) simply because I enjoyed it and felt like I was jumping out of my skin when I didn't. There was no virtuous discipline involved, I just moved toward what felt better.
I am glad these two have each other 😂 And on the flip side, I’ll hang out with my “clueless” lady friends.
Just two dudes gettin' raw & honest✨️
Prayer closet sounds like a metaphor..
They’re SO proud of themselves 😂
Something really off about two married men saying what they are looking in a wife lol big “daydreaming about their next wife” vibes
Riiiiight
I kept waiting for them to kiss. Very disappointed. 0/10.
B - I just love your videos. Truly cracked up when you said - “if you’re a bigot, just say it and move on” these boys should be ashamed of themselves. What does one persons interests in their own sexual orientation have anything to do with them?! Ugh!
Thank you for giving me the ability to become aware of content like what Paul&Morgan make without needs to give them views and traffic. Also, thank you for YOUR content, I like your channel.
My friend and her husband had an agreement when they married more than 30 years ago, she would not get fat and he would not get bald. He's not doing so great on his end! LOL
Yikes
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Huh, I guess they're both thick-skinned people and well-matched in that way? Cuz personally I find that super sad/yikes. It's like agreeing never to age
“Holistic fitness”
Absolutely agree with your analysis, B!
But also, will the guys do the housework and take care of the kids to free up time for the wife to work out?!
My goodness, Paul seems to live in his ego quite a bit even though he thinks he's proselytizing to the opposite.
Edit: he is so thinly veiled about all of his hypocrisy. You need to "take care of yourself, " but also not be too confident because then you're "into yourself?" This just goes nowhere fast. This so-called dating expert is convoluted. So condescending.
It's okay to take care of yourself, as long as it's ultimately for his benefit
I don't know why but every time Paul says "heart posture" drives me crazy! LOL!
Wtf does that even mean?
I love these kinds of videos from Paul and guys like Paul so I know how to repel them in the fastest and easiest ways lol
As a gay Christian guy, having a guy in my life who is also a Christian is a plus but not a must. We don't even believe the same things theologically and that's ok with us. Also kindness and understanding is important because I'm physically disabled. But yeah, that's my take. Also I think these guys are wrong about selflessness. You have to strike a balance between giving some time to help others and taking time to care for ourselves. Also it's the old you can't be a Democrat and a Christian argument. Ugh the Christian speak in their video is so cringe. It's almost triggering.
I'm glad you found someone who you can have a relationship with as a gay and Christian guy. I'm pansexual happily married to a man. I do feel stunted on my own pan journey thought because of how the church shaped and limited my views during my most formative years. I hate how how much control and power my church had over my sexuality
I really just wish they would cite their sources of information. I feel like most of them would be “Facebook” or “my friend told me”
If it wasn’t about wanting her to be hot they’d have just said they want a woman that has discipline or prioritizes their physical/mental health. 😒 Just say you want your wife to be hot. Everyone knows that’s what you mean, but they know it sounds bad to say it out loud.
There is so much piggybacking in this video that I CANNOT not imagine them on top of each other hahahaha
What, a person who cares about the environment and animal lives? Worst partner ever!
All I can hear when they keep repeating, "openness, gentle challenge, and receiving" is Joey trying to practice his speech for Monica and Chandler's wedding. 😳😂
Who the hell would change their core beliefs like political affiliation or religious beliefs with a guy they met on fucking Tinder? PAUL. Why were you looking for women on Tinder Mr I want a good Christian girl. I smell bull!
this sounded like some middle school locker room talk
Anyone who yaps about how selfish and sinning people naturally are without Jesus- you know they are unusually selfish and sinful.
I finished sewing the curtains in my living room, and they look great!
Christian girly here! I wouldn’t feel safe in a room with these guys & I hope no one takes their advice to heart! 🥺💗
I would say in a relationship board hames would work better as a building activity than movies. Because of the interaction.
I can't imagine how traumatic it would be for the mother to decide whether or not to resuscitate a possibility non-viable newborn 😢 that would be the hardest decision and I don't envy them.
I could see ‘selflessness drawing selflessness’ in a way but.. Selfishness is pretty compatible too heh
43:15 Bees face while Paul takes a million years to say “I want that tradwife meme but irl”
It was a pleasure to hear your thoughts and opinion! Thank you!
I kinda have a soft spot for Morgan too 😗
Wish you to feel better and good health to you! 💚
I think Paul makes constant little jabs at Morgan. As a woman, you can’t help feel sympathetic watching their dynamic.
In a couple of years we will see you do a critique of Paul and Morgan as they discus biblical divorce.
Josh Duggar LOVED his prayer closet
Part of what they say feels like just a power trip in our patriarchial society in general. It feels like anything can be used against you. You're too innocent, you're not innocent enough, you can't win because you have to somehow be it all as a woman. It's like Paul saying I want someone that puts effort into looking good, but not in a slutty way, so be non-sexual, but my sexual fantasy too and I'll leave it up to you how to perform that magic trick.
Also the whole Democrat thing is so ridiculous. The arrogance in how they descirbe why it is unaccepatable is astounding. I can list plenty of things in the Republican party that run contradictory to Christian principles, but I don't have the arrogance to then assume that noone in the Republican party may have reason based on morals and reason for why they lean Repulbican. Just astounding arrogance.
22:03
Michael: Knowing how to forgive
Paul, who lords Morgan’s lack of virginity over her head every 5 head: (well good thing this is for women…)
Michael: You can put he or she, I think its applicable. …Someone who is willingly to extend mercy-
Paul: *sweats nervously*
I just effing love that these LEADERS of women in their households get their news from memes on facebook. Oh, please, sir, make sure that your wives are well informed when it comes to politics. Thanks. OMFG
Oh we had a prayer closet growing up. Was locked in it often because I was of the devil…
Can you imagine living with these guys being preached at 24/7 ? Oh heck no
My win is that I fixed something at work that no one else seemed to be able to fix! Also, I agree with what you said in the beginning about having a little more empathy for Morgan and more judgement for Paul. I'm not sure I could sit in a room and with him and listen to him speak about anything, even if it was something I agree with but I would absolutely talk to Morgan and try to see her side and see if I could encourage her to think a little more about the things they discuss.
It’s so funny seeing how Paul treats Michael in the video😂
In the beginning when he said I’m Paul and pointed at Michael to indicate it was his turn to speak 😂 Paul thinks he’s Fonzie in his head
It is interesting for sure ... his ego was really coming out in this one smh
when he said "I'm just gonna say it... I'm not looking for a woman who's a democrat" I actually snort-laughed
Your reaction to Paul's "truth bomb:" priceless!!! 💣😂😂😂
Imagine these types of guys talking about their friends this way when talking about looks. "I'm only willing to surround myself with other men who are aesthetically pleasing. Who care to work out. Who look good in my eyes."
Having a type is okay, but these guys go after only very specific *looks* and it's freakin weird lol.
Lol the look on your face towards the end of the video. You were just so done. 😂