"She argued that she wanted to give the money to her mom, so she could live comfortably, but I don't believe that anyone would just sell a freaking house to give money to someone else? That's pure bs." I think that right there tells us all we need to know about what kind of person OP is. But then he was kind enough to add the line about "usual over-emotional woman bs" for anyone who might have been tempted to give him the benefit of the doubt.
His GF's father DIED, man is fricking dead, and OP mad he didn't get the man's laptop? This boy doesn't need any of the inheritance he seems to want so badly, he has AUDACITY FOR DAYS! He legally has no grounds for an opinion, for access to, or possession of any of these assets; what he needs is to sit the hell down, and stfu. Girl needs to run.
She doesn't need to tell him anything about her inheritance. They aren't married. She "claimed" things? you're kidding? she claimed things that HER father left to HER? He wants to mooch off of her. He's a POS. Whoever sent it to GF is my new hero!!! He actually wants to turn in his GF's mom????
I don't know about laws elsewhere, but here an inheritance is for the recipient only, regardless of being married. It is solely theirs. What a POS for being angry at her mom. This man is all kinds of terrible.
Inheritance is changing her? HER??? Scuse me???? Bro is delulu lmfao!!! Video isn't even at 5 min yet, but I'm hoping it ends with her dumping him LOL! EDIT!!! OMG it's better than I could have ever hoped for!!! Bwahahahaha!!!!
Hilarious. OP would definitely be singing a different tune if the roles were reversed. She just lost her dad, she’s adjusting to the life changing fortune that fell into her lap while still trying to maintain some level of normalcy. If OP wasn’t such a gold digger he would realize that it’s his girlfriend’s inheritance not his. They’re not married even if they dated for four years. Whether she chooses to share her inheritance is her choice. OP has the choice of accepting that fact and continuing the relationship or walking away.
Hearing that they’re uni age makes a lot of this make more sense, not only his attitude but her not seeing the red flags and tolerating a lot of nonsense. I definitely accepted a lot of bad behavior from exes because I thought it was normal. SO glad they went to therapy! Haha
Girl needs to listen to her mom. Hopefully the person that sent her the Reddit posts will wake her up. Guys a horrible gold digger. He doesn’t get a say in anything she does with HER inheritance.
She deserves better. He strung her along for 4 years. I don't believe in dating for more than a year. If you're not married after dating a year, the relationship isn't doing anything. I don't believe in shacking up and such. He's 24 and in uni and NOT working??? Seriously? What a gold digger. He should leave college a move back home and work and save money.
So, what this should ACTUALLY say is…”my GF inherited money and now I expect her to be my sugar mama and shower me in wealth, and she isn’t allowed to make decisions without my say so…cause we are NOT married and didn’t even live together, and are just in our mid 20s, so clearly it’s a very casual relationship but now that she’s rich, I need to lock that shit down”.
Oh, Dusty. Why did it take so many sentences until you let loose the red flags? So they've dated for 4 years (as he keeps saying) are just now moving in together and he's surprised she isn't acting like they're married? Dude, you've strung her along for years without so much as a ring and you're surprised she acts like what she is - an independent woman? Ahahahaha.
It just kills me that these people have these kinda of views and opinions on women no matter where they are in life. This boy is broke, homeless, dependent, sexist etc... And STILL feels entitled to control her life.
OP doesn't need a financial advisor because he has no money, it is all hers. If they had been talking engagement, marriage, any type of long term commitment before the inheritance I would have expected him to say that in the post, but it sounds like they only moved in together because he could mooch. Also, the only thing we know she did with the money so far is give the house proceeds to her mom, we don't know if/how she is spending any other money except for letting bf mooch. Maybe she's selling the apartments and investing in low cost index funds because she doesn't want the headache of being a landlord. Regardless of what they had before, the money showed him to be an entitled AH and his self centered worldview makes it hard to be anything but gleeful at his comeuppance. It's also more likely that if he had come into the money he would have gone out looking for an upgrade instead of treating gf right because money just makes people more who they are and we already see who he is with nothing.
She doesn't trust him for good reason. I've never understood why people date people they don't, what's the point? I can see not disclosing your assets in the beginning, but after 4 years you can't trust them, move on. She she dump him and be done with it.
I can understand feeling a bit slighted because she inherited loads and didn’t tell OP. But sadly, that’s not what’s happening here. Is this even real? Are there people who are really like this and really this obnoxious out there?
I guess I’m the odd one out because i kinda see his point of view. If you’re with someone 4 years together and suddenly can claim 5 apartments and a house. Isn’t it wise to discuss with your partner which one to stay in for OUR future. Don’t you feel sharing is okay, share the car and laptop? I’m not sure. 4 years is a commitment and often leads to marriage, is she not thinking about their future? I mean if she was this insecure of HIM, why is she with him? I wouldn’t want to be with a man who suddenly got stuff but didn’t involve me in it as a couple. You don’t have to be married for that
In principle, i can see the validity of that point of view. Trouble is, nowhere does he ever mention that all this "stuff" came to as a direct result of losing her father, and how that might be affecting her. He went straight to his grievances on what she isn't giving him. There's also no telling how reliable a narrator he is of how gf actually communicated about all this. From everything he said at the end, from therapy onwards, he seems like a self-centred, sexist pig who was counting on being a kept man "now that she has all this money." He doesn't want to live with his parents cos they're not rich? Dafuq? Yeah, he's a piece of something!
My brotha. You are there. But 1, you're not married, so you legally don't get a say. 2, her father left everything to HER, so again, you legally don't get a say. 3, this was her FATHER! Her father died and all you care about is the payout? Girly pop, get out of there.
This man is a walking red flag who now wants to get even with her mother as she got something but he didn't. The therapist must have identified this. She needs to walk away.
I understand that OP feels like his opinions do not matter when they are in a relationship that he feels he could have an input in their lives together. OP had better back off about her spending if he values their relationship. OP if you want to do something to help her and you out suggest that she consults a financial advisor. EVERYONE can benefit by doing that.
Honestly i was kinda on his side till he started calling her names. Because it is weird that if your partner is struggling you wouldn’t help when you have excess.
Wow! Lol entitled much?! Lol Her dad seen this coming, im sure of it lol. Dude lol have mercy! I would love the ex girlfriends side. I net its steller! Lol
Dusty I think your happiness is uncalled for. How about giving this guy some actual advise that is beneficial, like seeing a financial advisor. You have no clue what their life goals were before she came into all of that money, perhaps they dreamed of all they wanted to do together and all the what if's, but now she is just thinking of herself and not of their future. Yes that it her money but when is she thinking of him, she agreed to pay more of the bills as she makes way more but the therapist jumps in and says that is not fair he should pay half, that is BS. They need to be a team but that is clearly never going to happen. Did you ever think that if the shoe was on the other foot that he would spoil her rotten, guess we will never know because their relationship will not last. And if she keeps spending the money the way she is with out an advisors help she will be broke before she if 40.
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"She argued that she wanted to give the money to her mom, so she could live comfortably, but I don't believe that anyone would just sell a freaking house to give money to someone else? That's pure bs."
I think that right there tells us all we need to know about what kind of person OP is.
But then he was kind enough to add the line about "usual over-emotional woman bs" for anyone who might have been tempted to give him the benefit of the doubt.
That was the exact line that gave me all the info about what kind of person he is.
My favorite part is someone found him on FB, found the girlfriend, and showed her his post!!! I wish someone would also tell her "RUN!!"
Oh I think she’s gonna now that she’s been let in on what trash he is.
Somebody out there doing God's work 😂
Spicy...
Dude it's not your inheritance. You are not entitled to what SHE inherited from her DAD. Gold digger and yes you are absolutely the AH.
"She's claiming" . She's not claiming anything. They belong to her.
In other words - we keep changing therapists until I find one that agrees with ME. What an absolute clown 🤡
not OP denying he is a huge gold digger
This is my favorite story of the whole month!!! 🤣🤣🤣 The only thing that could have made it better is if we got to hear OP’s girlfriend’s side. 😂
I would love to hear her side too.
YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!! WHO EVER SENT IT TO GF IS FREAKIN AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!
Whoever sent it to the gf is a god send! ❤ you saved her!
His GF's father DIED, man is fricking dead, and OP mad he didn't get the man's laptop? This boy doesn't need any of the inheritance he seems to want so badly, he has AUDACITY FOR DAYS! He legally has no grounds for an opinion, for access to, or possession of any of these assets; what he needs is to sit the hell down, and stfu. Girl needs to run.
She doesn't need to tell him anything about her inheritance. They aren't married. She "claimed" things? you're kidding? she claimed things that HER father left to HER? He wants to mooch off of her. He's a POS. Whoever sent it to GF is my new hero!!! He actually wants to turn in his GF's mom????
I don't know about laws elsewhere, but here an inheritance is for the recipient only, regardless of being married. It is solely theirs. What a POS for being angry at her mom. This man is all kinds of terrible.
Inheritance is changing her? HER??? Scuse me???? Bro is delulu lmfao!!! Video isn't even at 5 min yet, but I'm hoping it ends with her dumping him LOL!
EDIT!!! OMG it's better than I could have ever hoped for!!! Bwahahahaha!!!!
Hilarious. OP would definitely be singing a different tune if the roles were reversed. She just lost her dad, she’s adjusting to the life changing fortune that fell into her lap while still trying to maintain some level of normalcy. If OP wasn’t such a gold digger he would realize that it’s his girlfriend’s inheritance not his. They’re not married even if they dated for four years. Whether she chooses to share her inheritance is her choice. OP has the choice of accepting that fact and continuing the relationship or walking away.
Someone is on a high level of delulu
Mom is so right! Run. Fast. My mom passed while I was married and he didn't want or give any suggestions, unless I asked
“Usual over-emotional women bs” 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩
😂 I ducking laughed at that because I was like
" keep digging your hole jackass."
I want the ex-girlfriend's side of the story. I want it so bad. I'm gonna go all Veruca Salt on this: "But Dusty, I want it, and I want it now!"
The entitlement on this little earthworm. SMH 🤦♀️
Hearing that they’re uni age makes a lot of this make more sense, not only his attitude but her not seeing the red flags and tolerating a lot of nonsense. I definitely accepted a lot of bad behavior from exes because I thought it was normal. SO glad they went to therapy! Haha
Can you say prenup if they ever got married, run girl run!!!
Girl needs to listen to her mom. Hopefully the person that sent her the Reddit posts will wake her up. Guys a horrible gold digger. He doesn’t get a say in anything she does with HER inheritance.
She deserves better. He strung her along for 4 years. I don't believe in dating for more than a year. If you're not married after dating a year, the relationship isn't doing anything. I don't believe in shacking up and such.
He's 24 and in uni and NOT working??? Seriously? What a gold digger. He should leave college a move back home and work and save money.
Dude..... wtf...... why would you think you should have ANY SAY in ANYTHING she does
So, what this should ACTUALLY say is…”my GF inherited money and now I expect her to be my sugar mama and shower me in wealth, and she isn’t allowed to make decisions without my say so…cause we are NOT married and didn’t even live together, and are just in our mid 20s, so clearly it’s a very casual relationship but now that she’s rich, I need to lock that shit down”.
Oh, Dusty. Why did it take so many sentences until you let loose the red flags? So they've dated for 4 years (as he keeps saying) are just now moving in together and he's surprised she isn't acting like they're married? Dude, you've strung her along for years without so much as a ring and you're surprised she acts like what she is - an independent woman? Ahahahaha.
“No one would just sell a house to give the money to someone else.” 😬 wow selfish much?
5:24 OP's sooooo jealous!
9:36 How much do you bet this guy wouldn't even try to salvage the relationship if it wasn't for the wealth!!!
A parade of red flags, she needs to run!
The red flags just keep coming. Time to go test her eyesight to make sure she isn't colour blind.
I cannot believe the delulu on display here. There isn't a bowl big enough to contain the narcissism on display in this post
Oh my gosh the amount of entitlement in this post is gross, but the pure joy felt when the girlfriend found out, worth it. Best Reddit ever
I bet one of her friends/family saw the post and knew what it was
It just kills me that these people have these kinda of views and opinions on women no matter where they are in life. This boy is broke, homeless, dependent, sexist etc... And STILL feels entitled to control her life.
I've been away for a bit(seriously ill) and, although I didn't think it possible, you are more handsome than ever!!!❤
My head hurts from irritated I was the whole story but 😂😂😂😂😂 mine mine this is a story for the books 😂😂😂😂
I wanna know how many red flags and unfair behaviors she ignored in the 4 years of the relationship leading up to the father’s death. YIKES.
Redditors unite! So happy they found her and told her exactly what kind of a$$hole gold digger her ex is.
This was such a good one that I need to listen to it again! Ha.
I feel like Dusty needs to have an on-call lawyer to help navigate some of the stories with legal consequences. It'd be spicy af
It’s her money not his. He needs to mind his business.
Whom ever it was that did the detective work and linked OP’s GF is ABSOLUTELY A HERO!!! 😂🤷🏽♀️💯
OP doesn't need a financial advisor because he has no money, it is all hers. If they had been talking engagement, marriage, any type of long term commitment before the inheritance I would have expected him to say that in the post, but it sounds like they only moved in together because he could mooch. Also, the only thing we know she did with the money so far is give the house proceeds to her mom, we don't know if/how she is spending any other money except for letting bf mooch. Maybe she's selling the apartments and investing in low cost index funds because she doesn't want the headache of being a landlord. Regardless of what they had before, the money showed him to be an entitled AH and his self centered worldview makes it hard to be anything but gleeful at his comeuppance. It's also more likely that if he had come into the money he would have gone out looking for an upgrade instead of treating gf right because money just makes people more who they are and we already see who he is with nothing.
I'm so glad people found the girlfriend... Dude has personal issues.
She doesn't trust him for good reason. I've never understood why people date people they don't, what's the point? I can see not disclosing your assets in the beginning, but after 4 years you can't trust them, move on. She she dump him and be done with it.
This exactly.
This dude is delulu!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's her inheritens and he is only her boyfriend. It feels like he wants to use her. Op is yta.
Oh my god … she needs to leave
I can understand feeling a bit slighted because she inherited loads and didn’t tell OP. But sadly, that’s not what’s happening here.
Is this even real? Are there people who are really like this and really this obnoxious out there?
Not wanting to change therapists is actually pretty normal. Once you build a relationship with one changing can feel very awkward and difficult.
This was a glorious unraveling
This op is disturbing and disgusting. The gf needs to put him in her rear view mirror. Listening to him rant & complain is nauseating.
Edit: good news about linking gf to the Reddit post. Still no accountability from op.
Please tell me OP’s gf broke up with him…
this was gold😂😂
Happy for gf❤🎉❤
Great story!
It belongs to her!!!!!!
Solid gold content
I guess I’m the odd one out because i kinda see his point of view. If you’re with someone 4 years together and suddenly can claim 5 apartments and a house. Isn’t it wise to discuss with your partner which one to stay in for OUR future. Don’t you feel sharing is okay, share the car and laptop? I’m not sure.
4 years is a commitment and often leads to marriage, is she not thinking about their future? I mean if she was this insecure of HIM, why is she with him?
I wouldn’t want to be with a man who suddenly got stuff but didn’t involve me in it as a couple. You don’t have to be married for that
In principle, i can see the validity of that point of view. Trouble is, nowhere does he ever mention that all this "stuff" came to as a direct result of losing her father, and how that might be affecting her. He went straight to his grievances on what she isn't giving him. There's also no telling how reliable a narrator he is of how gf actually communicated about all this. From everything he said at the end, from therapy onwards, he seems like a self-centred, sexist pig who was counting on being a kept man "now that she has all this money." He doesn't want to live with his parents cos they're not rich? Dafuq?
Yeah, he's a piece of something!
Classic Narcissist
She needs to dump him ASAP
The only thing I understand is the apartment stuff. I would want to discuss where we live if that is an option. He is the AH in everything else
OP is so funny😂😂😂😂😂
My brotha. You are there. But 1, you're not married, so you legally don't get a say. 2, her father left everything to HER, so again, you legally don't get a say. 3, this was her FATHER! Her father died and all you care about is the payout? Girly pop, get out of there.
He is delusional!!!!
Hmmm recently I can see that guys just expecting their girls pay for everything.
This man is a walking red flag who now wants to get even with her mother as she got something but he didn't. The therapist must have identified this. She needs to walk away.
It sounds like he feels entitled to her dad's stuff. A laptop? That's her dad's laptop. Wtf.
I understand that OP feels like his opinions do not matter when they are in a relationship that he feels he could have an input in their lives together. OP had better back off about her spending if he values their relationship. OP if you want to do something to help her and you out suggest that she consults a financial advisor. EVERYONE can benefit by doing that.
Not your inheritance, not your say. Brozo and she needs to run from this Ascon 1
Yikes, I’m at the MacBook part and he sound a bit gold diggery
This guy is a gold digger
I'm so glad karma came back around in the form of redditors 🎉😂
He's a boyfriend! Not entitled to anything!!!
Where are the comments from Reddit? Are people really not calling this dude out?
My siblings and I watched this and we think Op Is wrong here.
I wish OPs ex GF would post her side.
This was highly entertaining. OP was so off base. SMH
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This guy is clearly living in his sofa life era. Clearly he hung on becuase he's a bum
I want to see a post from the GF
THIS DUDE!!! 💩🤡💩
🎉🎉🎉🎉
Honestly i was kinda on his side till he started calling her names. Because it is weird that if your partner is struggling you wouldn’t help when you have excess.
Wow! Lol entitled much?! Lol Her dad seen this coming, im sure of it lol. Dude lol have mercy!
I would love the ex girlfriends side. I net its steller! Lol
"Been together 4 years"... means You Are NOT married. Her stuff is NOT yours!!! Get over it.
Bro 4 years and no ring? Gtfo of here
Dusty I think your happiness is uncalled for. How about giving this guy some actual advise that is beneficial, like seeing a financial advisor. You have no clue what their life goals were before she came into all of that money, perhaps they dreamed of all they wanted to do together and all the what if's, but now she is just thinking of herself and not of their future. Yes that it her money but when is she thinking of him, she agreed to pay more of the bills as she makes way more but the therapist jumps in and says that is not fair he should pay half, that is BS. They need to be a team but that is clearly never going to happen. Did you ever think that if the shoe was on the other foot that he would spoil her rotten, guess we will never know because their relationship will not last. And if she keeps spending the money the way she is with out an advisors help she will be broke before she if 40.