“He’s perfect” 1. He’s going to prison three months after their wedding and has served time before 2. He was 20 and she was 14 when they met. 3. They can never get divorced because of religion. Yes this is really a match made in heaven. 🤔
What's wrong with Britans? They all look so old. This girl looks like 25 or more, this guy is awful, its not love just maybe attraction ... isin't this kind of pedophilia? 😭😂 what the fuck I am watching ?! this will be a disaster!!!!
So he groomed a 14 yr old child, treats animals like that, pointed a loaded gun at his 8yr old brother, has been to prison for violence by 20 and is heading back. Coolcoolcool That poor poor girl :'(
She was 14 when they met and he was 20... This may be considered a part of their "culture" and no disrespect but that's disgusting. She's literally a child.
@@tamielizabethallaway2413 They have broken the law, that's why he said he's probably gonna go to jail after they get married... He is an adult and she's a minor. It doesn't matter if they don't take part in sexual activity, it's still illegal for him to date her.
Just imagine marrying the random looser you were dating when you were 14. And then being stuck with that person for the next 60 years. That priest should be ashamed to even think about marrying them, but even though he clearly know what’s in store for her he seems creepily gleefully about her fate. Ew.
Lmao my bf was Jorge and he is a marine now 😂 but im definitely happy i waited till i was 25 .. And married a sweetheart .. Jeorge was a jerk kinda still is but grew up .
These girls are always so striking and beautiful & the guys are always so immature and questionable. It’s crazy because the only way these gypsy men could get these intelligent & beautiful women are because of this outdated tradition. I hope the girls can be happy, it’s sad that they probably grow to realize they want more out of life later down the road.
The guys are immature because they are guaranteed a beautiful wife without having to make something of themselves. A recipe for disaster and abuse. Stupid guys always end up degrading their wife. Too stupid to appreciate what they have.
Yeah I'm know they're not always striking and beautiful. I'm not going to lie this girl here is very attractive very pretty but I've seen more often than not that they were not attractive
Her body language! She stands with her head down, behind her husband with a blank face. This is very disturbing. The priest encouraged a 16 year old child to marry, just upsetting.
I mean, is it better for her to get pregnant at 16 and dumped? Like so many girls in America, 21 years old with 3 kids from 3 different dudes who aren't in the picture, sleeping with a new guy every few months and all the kids know is a string of mom's loser boyfriends? It seems that is celebrated in the USA, so why not have some subset of people in the UK celebrating having children in wedlock with a dedicated father? Even if he is a loser, at least he's there, unlike the 80% of single moms out there who are just hump and dumps for whatever thug walks within 50 feet.
@@Dove353 exactly I don’t understand western people. They have kids outside wedlock but God forbid someone gets married young! It's better then having babies with no fathers.
@@wowso4 people that have kids outside of marriage is because they are inmature. Is the same as awful to get married young as to have babies without fathers. Marriage doesn't mean the father is going to be responsible with the children. Do you think that western society clap people that have children outside of bedlock? You need to stop believing your fantasy ideas of western life
I think that might be a cultural difference, rather than anything to worry about. I'm a Traveller and I'm married to a non-Traveller, which has really opened my eyes to how the communities view thing differently. He will have told her repeatedly that she's perfect for him, but it's considered being "full of yourself" to say that as a Traveller. You say you hope that's the case because you want to be humble and don't want to jinx it, but if you weren't sure, you wouldn't be getting married. In English culture, saying that he's told you you're perfect for him is a sign of confidence, so it's viewed very differently. The difference is probably both cultural and religious. Catholicism demands humility. It's not a gender subjugation thing, though, because if they'd asked Brendan the same question he would have said words to the same effect (that she was perfect for him, and he hoped he could live up to her expectations). I know in English culture that it's easy to think her words mean that she thinks she's not good enough, but I promise that's not the case 💕
@@eleanorbenoit-means1257 No problem at all 👍 Cultural differences make it really easy to misread things with no malintent whatsoever - & we can't expect you to understand our culture if we don't explain it. Thank you for taking my comment the way it was meant (as an explanation rather than a personal dig) 💕
Can you explain why gypsy weddings are like that ? What is this called ? What is this tradition!? Why do they always get married young ? Why do they have these colorful dresses? Why so many jewelry ?
@@The_Moving_finger_writes I heard from a gypsy that normallt they do not get married this young. Most are inbetween 20-22. The picture that these vids show is false and doesnt truly represent the gypsy culture :)
@@The_Moving_finger_writes as of the dresses most try to outdo the other brides before and after them. Some are so young they go for dresses that are from princesses. And the Gypsy’s are just very colorful people, and like to show off their wealth as well
That priest is creepy as hell.. blessing the marriage bed of a literal child and her peadiphile fiancé and saying how wonderful it is that a young 16 year old won't divorce 😬
Religious weddings in general are like this. They don’t actually know the person they’re marrying because they’re not allowed to get to know them. 🙄 It’s not a traveller thing. It’s a strict Christian/Jewish/Muslim thing. I’ve met more oppressed Muslim wives than traveller. Imagine having to tell your coworker that her husband shouldn’t be ramming it in dry and he’s the reason she’s in pain and receiving medical treatment for friction burns and then telling me all her friends husbands do the same. They’re sex toys but nobody will say anything to compare the 2 communities. 😒
@@kirstybrown1185what Muslim do y'all meet exactly I am Muslim and have to disagree with you these women just don't chose the right husband and now arranged marriages are rare y'all love to spread lies on us don't blame the religion but the culture cuz Muslim countries have a very awful culture in the perspective of men and women for some reason but not because of religion don't judge a whole religion beacuse of some poeple you met that just like saying that every black person is a criminal or every white person is rich and racist
While I agree with you, I would like to point out that I was 32 and with my husband for 11 years already when we got married and I still couldn't look at him when I said my vows. It was just awkward as shit. I'm guessing because the kids are getting married so young, that they're likely just embarrassed/feel awkward too.
So basically we just watched a grooming video (no pun intended) to fruition. He was 20, she was 14 when they met and the priest is in on it. He needs to go to prison for more than whatever charges are pending and she needs an intervention.
@@ekg891 It was not normal in my grandparents' time. The average age of a wedding in the US in the 1940s was 21 yrs for women and 24 yrs for men. Laura Ingalls Wilder wrote in one of her books about how shocking and controversial it was when a young teenage girl got married in her pioneer community.
@@ekg891 The 40s was the highest it has ever been in US history and still was only 12%. It was controversial and a lot of people disapproved, much like teen marriage and pregnancy now. If one out of 10 girls was doing it and people disapproved greatly, it was certainly not a norm and therefore not normal.
He did choose not to go out before the wedding bc if he were to get arrested, he would ruin everything. He definitely needs to mature but I wouldn't completely write him off. I always refer to my 20s as the stupid years, he'll probably say the same some day.
Idk,I kinda agree with her, what difference would it make if she waited a few years? In their culture, she’d be shamed/forced into marriage at a young age eventually, might as well do it while you’re young enough to be stupid and not jaded and really believe in “True love”. Obviously it’s horrific, but she seems to realize that. And marrying s guy going to prison means fewer pregnancies and potentially traumatic sexual encounters for a couple years. Shame the fuck on this priest, though. Absolutely DISGUSTING. Did they mention his name in the video? I’d like to look him up. I just wanna talk.
@@jazzyj6640 literally same. I am what they call in the south “a spinster”. Zero fucks given. Sadly, most ppl DO care what others think of them, to the point that it’s essentially crippling. That’s why they have to be pacified, to be shown some level of acceptance. So that they’ll stop talking. It is a valuable trick if you work with the public.
I'm not condoning it in the slightest (so don't jump on me for this - I certainly wouldn't do it), but it's an old school way of washing a dog that's rolled in something horrible before taking it home. It's not normally launched like that, though, so I imagine the kid's young age, bravado, and the presence of a camera crew played a part (this show is known to try and get shock footage to up their views, so they probably egged him on). You're supposed to just use the puddle water to wash the worst off, not launch the poor dog in, so I imagine the kid got a royal bollocking when his parents found out for exactly the reasons you've listed...
@@georgina-a - I wasn’t as concerned about the water (and what the outside temperature might have been) as I was about the shallow puddle. Landing hard on the ground could have resulted in an injury; the water wasn’t deep enough to provide a cushioning for its little joints. Thanks for your input, Georgina.
Any younger and it’s illegal so it’s probably the youngest legal ceremony he’s done. You just literally can’t get younger. Definitely not the youngest girl he’s wanted to marry tho, dirty old codger
4:10 Her letting the guy go in front when they were literally walking side by side says it all. I mainly watch these videos for the dresses, but it's so sad seeing all these young, beautiful, smart lovely girls get married at a young age. I hope she's truly happy and living the life SHE wants.
I'm aware of that. What I'm saying is it should be 18 in general. I dont think parents should be able to sign off on their child being married before then.
Around 15/16, I had my first boyfriend and was with him for 3.5 years. I can't imagine being "stuck" with him for the rest of my life. I can't see how they can decide this at this age and basically just after a year. This culture is crazy to me
This is what they're taught. She's never been taught to think about doing anything else with her life. The culture is stuck in the dark ages with this but also don't forget that it really wasn't that long ago that all women were expected to get married and have kids right away. It's the way society has been for hundreds of years. It will take many more years for it to die out completely
Those girls at the veryyyy end have seen it enough to know how horrible of an idea it is to get married young. I couldn’t imagine getting married at 15/16. Absolutely NOT.
"I'll also be married and pregnant in 10yrs time, what's the difference if i marry and get pregnant now!?" Ohh there's a LOT of a difference im telling you. And you'll fully understand that soon.
Sooo my Fiance and I have been together for 8 years. We MET AT 15 and now we are 23. We are still young but mature enough to make the decision, and have a great friendship and relationship. But to be married at 16 ??? Just wow
You guys were able to choose who you stayed with- but some of these marriages are arranged, rushed, and the pressures surrounding their relationships are different. They’re expected to marry the first and the last guy- not date freely and see who or what they like.
My science teacher and her bf were together for 12 years and just this past year they finally got engaged. She's in her mid 30s and waited for him to be ready and for them both to be ready and she doesn't regret it.
I got married at 23 and now at 25, I still feel like a child bride. I was way too young. Marriage is not a fairytale. Adulthood is not a walk in the park.
Same here. Married at 23, new baby nine months later and one every year or two after. 16 years later, separated with four kids and I’m realizing that my individual life halted immediately at 23. I spent my 20s raising my family but forgot about raising myself. It’s something that others don’t prepare you for.
I'm 23 and my school friend of the same age is getting married. I can't believe that because I feel like a child. I've had so much depression so I couldn't even start my career by now but building a career and a life and deciding what I want in the future is my top priority right now. I'm not even gonna date let alone marry until I feel like myself and have a good career.
Me 17, him 18, married at 22, separated at 26, divorced at 27…………….Grew up, began to understand and find myself. ………Second time, me 29, him 29, married at 35. Now, 42, we’ve been together 12.5 years, and I’ve found my partner in life and love. Why is number two working out? It’s simply because at 35 I knew myself, knew what I wanted and didn’t want and found someone who truly loved and respected me for me. Marriage is hard, it had ups and downs you cannot imagine! Both of you need to be mature enough to work through it (and have solid role models to show you how to live and love healthily); not to mention truly love each other. People grow and change, it’s human nature; there is no way I knew what I was doing at 22! I feel so sorry for this poor girl, she doesn’t stand a chance and we all know by watching him for 30 minutes that he won’t do a thing right by her; we all know he showed his true colors, and they are not beautiful. I hope she makes it out alive, not totally traumatised and without 6 small children.
That wasn't a "puppy," it was a full grown dog. But yeah, it would have been perfectly fitting for one of the brothers to have shoved that little b_________ into the mud right behind the dog!
Yeah that explains it I hope he goes to prison and Stays there people go to prison for a reason but he should have a longer sentence for grooming because she is really young she’s 15 and he’s 20 do you see the problem there
I think about how much i changed as a person from 18 to 30 and even now at 40. I cant imagine the concept that if i picked a person to marry that young that i would feel the same way 10 years from then. I want completely different things in a partner now.
Why are her parents letting their barely 16 year old marry a man who is in trouble enough he could go to jail 3 months after they marry. What sort of parents are they.
Usually, it's only the father who can "say something"....the mother has to follow his lead (even in an ignorant culture that is based on who-knows-what...), and he's very likely glad to have one less mouth to feed.
I find this so fascinating... by the time I started dating she will have been married for 10 years already. That just blows my mind. To Travellers I would be ancient and no hope of finding love dating at age 26, but I'm in a awesome relationship and glad I didn't date sooner as I don't think it would have ended so well.
I’m 17 and haven’t dated a single person. It’s crazy seeing a 16 year old get married, especially to some guy who’s more than 5 years older. In my eyes this is just ridiculous
as a 15 year old rn i cant even begin to imagine getting married at this age, im happy in my relationship at the moment but i’ve got my whole life ahead of me and its really sad seeing young girls be trapped in these relationships fresh out of middle/highschool :(
Most of them don’t even go to secondary /high school They are pulled out of school after the end of primary school age to help mother with the children (Big families ). As a result way to many of these girls have only had a primary school education.
So he was 21 year old hanging out with a 15 year old girl. Is no one worried about that? Why is there a crowd of people at the wedding? Not saying it’s bad, I think it’s lovely seeing citizens come and congratulation them. But I’m just curious
From others of these videos I watched recently, when the locals find out that travelers are in town and getting married, they want to get pictures of the wedding party because, as the one woman on this said, "It's very much like a royal weddin', and the brides are always so beautiful." Makes their day to see such things, I suppose, when one hasn't too many interests in their own life.
It's so sad how brainwashed these women are to believe that they aren't "clean" if they had previous boyfriends .... or that they would be worried about the wedding being called off over something like that. My heart breaks for the cycle. that continues.
She was 14 and he was 20 he preyed on a little girl. The fact that these girls are raised to get married is another thing. If I had a daughter I would encourage her to find her passion in the world not get married.
would definitely love to receive updates on there well being for both of em I they did it...regardless of how I feel now all I can do is wish them the best and hope against hope they will be okay
So glad it wasn't me who noticed this. That's the 2nd time on this show where I've seen dogs being thrown into bodies of water without regard for the animals safety or care.
Of course she’s perfect for him. He’s a total fuck up, loves fighting, about to go to jail. She’s “pure” gorgeous, taught her whole life how to be a good gypsy wife. He looks like an ogre, has no education, and obviously has control issues. She better hope he doesn’t ever turn his anger back on her. Fingers crossed for that lovely girl. 🖤
This is scary, because I was in a relationship at her age with a man who was 21 as well. I didn't know any better and adults around me encouraged it. Im really glad I stood up for myself, put my foot down and told him to get lost. It makes me really sad to see this happening and being broadcasted on a large platform. None of this is okay. She is a child!!!! She doesnt know any better.
Women between 15 and 30 to not mentally mature much, if at all, they. just. grow. older. Yes, women do have a _base_ maturity that kicks in around 14 (has to be that way since they can be made pregnant) but beyond that they are pretty much stagnant and will not mentally mature much until they hit around 33ish. Men however, do NOT have the base maturity women have, but men DO mentally mature between 15 and 30, having reached full mental maturity around 30 (which is why, if we go really far back, a man was NOT allowed to vote until he had hit the age of 30). A 15 year old female has the same maturity of a 25 year old male. Recoiling at the age difference Micheala is making a mistake, because it *presumes* that men and women are equal and just the same (which also presumes they mature at the same age and pace) alas they are not, not even close. Que the outbursts and the name calling.
@@ravenbaa7989 no they dont, especially if no one teaches them its wrong. if they are taught from a young age that being preyed upon by adults is fine, and even something to be proud about, they WILL think its okay. we've seen it
She is stunning and oh so young. I wish them well. I’d love to know how his court date turned out. If I had married my first boyfriend it would have been a huge mistake. He’s never been monogamous with any of his women. Not saying Brendan won’t be. Just you make rash decisions at that age.
Oh stfu not everyone wants to be a skank before getting married tf you have plenty of people who marry their first love and still thriving girl bye you sound bitter please stay single if you want to sleep around but don't rain on somebody else's parade Karen
@@annarogers8545 but the problem is that this girl is too young to even understand the concept of love and also they’ve only been together for a year and she’s 15 and he’s 20 so it’s not the ideal age to get married
At 16 we all felt like we was going to marry our first love, & be together forever. Unfortunately its not the case. The older we get the more we change.
When I was 16, I wanted to marry David Cassidy, we see that didn't happen.The point I'm trying to get across is, at 16 we should be DREAMING about our crushes,not marrying them.We should be dreaming of what we want to be when we grow up, Doctor? Lawyer? Social worker? NOT marrying someone we just recently met and ending up running after a passel of kids.This whole thing makes me sad, and a bit angry at the parents as well.
They don’t seem to treat animals very well. My grandmother said when they would come through her litttle town everything would close down because they would steal everything that wasn’t locked down.
@@bharvey3214 I agree, no jealousy in general 💁🏽♀️ I've been privileged with my genetics in many ways- just not when it comes to cancer and other illnesses 😂 I hope a long and healthy life for them both.
She's so young and shy (naturally), especially during the practice scene at the church. Hope she's okay now. I wonder if she's still as enchanted with him now as she once was. It'd be a miracle, I say.
I am always surprised when they talk about discrimination against travelers because everytime they show people they seem cool with them and are cheering them along the road
I dont know about the UK but here in Ireland there is still a huge amount of discrimination... people will come cheer them on because who doesn't like a big wedding, and then the local hotels refuse to host their reception or charge ridiculous "deposits"
It's the business owners. Travelers have been known, are known, for having huge fights when the men get drunk, and just in their everyday living, they trash the hotel rooms, the restaurants, bars and pubs, and whatever wedding venue they manage to get. No business wants to have to spend thousands of dollars in repairs, but many have gotten stuck with that in their past, so they refuse to serve travelers. That's according to several others of these particular videos on YT.
“He’s perfect”
1. He’s going to prison three months after their wedding and has served time before
2. He was 20 and she was 14 when they met.
3. They can never get divorced because of religion.
Yes this is really a match made in heaven. 🤔
What's wrong with Britans? They all look so old. This girl looks like 25 or more, this guy is awful, its not love just maybe attraction
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isin't this kind of pedophilia? 😭😂 what the fuck I am watching ?!
this will be a disaster!!!!
They did get divorced lucky!
@@txdoraaevans4431 they divorced?
If they could not get divorced and she hated him she can always "make him disappear"
It is heaven for the men in their culture.
The way people are defending the relationship between a child with a full grown adult, let alone a WEDDING is wilddd
Like it seemed like no one wanted to be there.
Ik it's tradition but tradition is not alway good
@@lee-ys9vv well their tradition is disgusting and shouldn’t exist.
@@lee-ys9vv this!!! Like tradition can’t always be an excuse
The problem is that boy isn't a full grown adult yet..he asks like he is 12.
Everytime I watch one of these I’m just like omg what if I married the boy I liked at 16 😭 I’d be depressed
I'd be miserable and so would that poor boy! 😬
@@DutchIsraeli yeah if I’m depressed I couldn’t see him being any happier 😂
If I married my first boyfriend I'd be married to a guy who owned a bag of hair
Don't ask
I am REALLY glad I didn't marry my first boyfriend 😬 I did not have my priorities straight at all yet
I’d be in jail.
The way the priest said "and the marriage bed of course" with that grin on his face was super creepy...
Right? Made me cringe and so uncomfortable
Dirty old man practically popped a stiffy over the idea of a 16 year old girl getting married
Gloriously beautiful young woman? Not the description of a bride from a priest you hear everyday.
@@robink620 -especially one as young as Danielle
Hes disgusting i can't even look at him
So he groomed a 14 yr old child, treats animals like that, pointed a loaded gun at his 8yr old brother, has been to prison for violence by 20 and is heading back.
Coolcoolcool
That poor poor girl :'(
She was 14 when they met and he was 20... This may be considered a part of their "culture" and no disrespect but that's disgusting. She's literally a child.
So...? She's still a virgin! They haven't broken any laws!
@@tamielizabethallaway2413 it's d i s g u s t i n g
@@tamielizabethallaway2413 it doesn't matter
@@tamielizabethallaway2413 They have broken the law, that's why he said he's probably gonna go to jail after they get married... He is an adult and she's a minor. It doesn't matter if they don't take part in sexual activity, it's still illegal for him to date her.
@@cielthomas5105 I agree with you, but that’s not why he was going to jail. He was due in court date for a previous offense.
Just imagine marrying the random looser you were dating when you were 14. And then being stuck with that person for the next 60 years. That priest should be ashamed to even think about marrying them, but even though he clearly know what’s in store for her he seems creepily gleefully about her fate. Ew.
Also that priest gave me very creepy vibes. Her body language towards him said it all.
It’s disturbing. Most priests would say no to marrying them.
Lmao my bf was Jorge and he is a marine now 😂 but im definitely happy i waited till i was 25 .. And married a sweetheart .. Jeorge was a jerk kinda still is but grew up .
@atlaslex OMG...when you put it like that 😱
i can’t even remember who i liked at 14, and i’m only 18 now😭
These girls are always so striking and beautiful & the guys are always so immature and questionable. It’s crazy because the only way these gypsy men could get these intelligent & beautiful women are because of this outdated tradition. I hope the girls can be happy, it’s sad that they probably grow to realize they want more out of life later down the road.
The guys are immature because they are guaranteed a beautiful wife without having to make something of themselves. A recipe for disaster and abuse. Stupid guys always end up degrading their wife. Too stupid to appreciate what they have.
Striking and beautiful? Lol. Striking in a circus kind of way and beautiful? Lol. Come now.
Yeah I'm know they're not always striking and beautiful. I'm not going to lie this girl here is very attractive very pretty but I've seen more often than not that they were not attractive
@@kokolynn17 most of them are conventionally attractive if not all. You’re just lying at this point. I haven’t seen one where the girl wasn’t pretty.
I've noticed most of them are very pretty they just get really ugly tans and wear weird and heavy makeup. But their face structure is pretty.
Her body language! She stands with her head down, behind her husband with a blank face. This is very disturbing. The priest encouraged a 16 year old child to marry, just upsetting.
She chose him? Also at least they not sleeping around from age 13 with anyone and everyone and y'all ok with that
I mean, is it better for her to get pregnant at 16 and dumped? Like so many girls in America, 21 years old with 3 kids from 3 different dudes who aren't in the picture, sleeping with a new guy every few months and all the kids know is a string of mom's loser boyfriends? It seems that is celebrated in the USA, so why not have some subset of people in the UK celebrating having children in wedlock with a dedicated father? Even if he is a loser, at least he's there, unlike the 80% of single moms out there who are just hump and dumps for whatever thug walks within 50 feet.
@@Dove353 they met when she was 14 and he was 18, do you not find that creepy at all
@@Dove353 exactly I don’t understand western people. They have kids outside wedlock but God forbid someone gets married young! It's better then having babies with no fathers.
@@wowso4 people that have kids outside of marriage is because they are inmature. Is the same as awful to get married young as to have babies without fathers. Marriage doesn't mean the father is going to be responsible with the children. Do you think that western society clap people that have children outside of bedlock? You need to stop believing your fantasy ideas of western life
“Hopefully I’m perfect for him” that broke me 😔
I think that might be a cultural difference, rather than anything to worry about. I'm a Traveller and I'm married to a non-Traveller, which has really opened my eyes to how the communities view thing differently.
He will have told her repeatedly that she's perfect for him, but it's considered being "full of yourself" to say that as a Traveller. You say you hope that's the case because you want to be humble and don't want to jinx it, but if you weren't sure, you wouldn't be getting married. In English culture, saying that he's told you you're perfect for him is a sign of confidence, so it's viewed very differently.
The difference is probably both cultural and religious. Catholicism demands humility. It's not a gender subjugation thing, though, because if they'd asked Brendan the same question he would have said words to the same effect (that she was perfect for him, and he hoped he could live up to her expectations).
I know in English culture that it's easy to think her words mean that she thinks she's not good enough, but I promise that's not the case 💕
But she did go on to say she hoped he was perfect for her.
@@georgina-a oh, okay thank you for explaining it to me 💕
@@eleanorbenoit-means1257 No problem at all 👍 Cultural differences make it really easy to misread things with no malintent whatsoever - & we can't expect you to understand our culture if we don't explain it.
Thank you for taking my comment the way it was meant (as an explanation rather than a personal dig) 💕
Ya thanks for explaining it makes more sense now
The younger girls at the end giving advice to the bride.
Priceless.
Can you explain why gypsy weddings are like that ? What is this called ? What is this tradition!? Why do they always get married young ? Why do they have these colorful dresses? Why so many jewelry ?
@@The_Moving_finger_writes I heard from a gypsy that normallt they do not get married this young. Most are inbetween 20-22. The picture that these vids show is false and doesnt truly represent the gypsy culture :)
@@The_Moving_finger_writes as of the dresses most try to outdo the other brides before and after them. Some are so young they go for dresses that are from princesses. And the Gypsy’s are just very colorful people, and like to show off their wealth as well
@@avm6414 oh 😮 thank you for responding 🙏🏻💙
@@annamartin2569 oh I see.
Thank you Anna 💙
That priest is creepy as hell.. blessing the marriage bed of a literal child and her peadiphile fiancé and saying how wonderful it is that a young 16 year old won't divorce 😬
A priest condoning pedophilia. Who knew.
@@berenicececilia a _Catholic_ priest too.. it's unheard of!
Right! They’re so sickening🤮
Not unusual tbh 🤢
@@berenicececilia 🤣🤣 your not wrong
I love how no matter what episode I watch…the girl can’t look at the guy saying the vows. Absolutely says something
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Trust me, they are convinced that this is their fairy tale.
Nobody can convince them otherwise…
Religious weddings in general are like this. They don’t actually know the person they’re marrying because they’re not allowed to get to know them. 🙄 It’s not a traveller thing. It’s a strict Christian/Jewish/Muslim thing. I’ve met more oppressed Muslim wives than traveller. Imagine having to tell your coworker that her husband shouldn’t be ramming it in dry and he’s the reason she’s in pain and receiving medical treatment for friction burns and then telling me all her friends husbands do the same. They’re sex toys but nobody will say anything to compare the 2 communities. 😒
@@kirstybrown1185what Muslim do y'all meet exactly I am Muslim and have to disagree with you these women just don't chose the right husband and now arranged marriages are rare y'all love to spread lies on us don't blame the religion but the culture cuz Muslim countries have a very awful culture in the perspective of men and women for some reason but not because of religion don't judge a whole religion beacuse of some poeple you met that just like saying that every black person is a criminal or every white person is rich and racist
While I agree with you, I would like to point out that I was 32 and with my husband for 11 years already when we got married and I still couldn't look at him when I said my vows. It was just awkward as shit. I'm guessing because the kids are getting married so young, that they're likely just embarrassed/feel awkward too.
So basically we just watched a grooming video (no pun intended) to fruition. He was 20, she was 14 when they met and the priest is in on it. He needs to go to prison for more than whatever charges are pending and she needs an intervention.
Yup
So agree sex offender the vicar on board erm no this has wrong written all over it
@@ekg891 It was not normal in my grandparents' time. The average age of a wedding in the US in the 1940s was 21 yrs for women and 24 yrs for men. Laura Ingalls Wilder wrote in one of her books about how shocking and controversial it was when a young teenage girl got married in her pioneer community.
@@ekg891 The 40s was the highest it has ever been in US history and still was only 12%. It was controversial and a lot of people disapproved, much like teen marriage and pregnancy now. If one out of 10 girls was doing it and people disapproved greatly, it was certainly not a norm and therefore not normal.
@@ekg891 That does not change that early teenaged marriage was factually NOT the norm which you claimed in an earlier comment.
That boy is so immature! I see a lifetime of him being drunk and in and out of jail or prison. So sad for her!
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Close Helen they live in a council flat in Harold Hill above shops and being around here he is a little boy compare to some people we have round here
He did choose not to go out before the wedding bc if he were to get arrested, he would ruin everything. He definitely needs to mature but I wouldn't completely write him off. I always refer to my 20s as the stupid years, he'll probably say the same some day.
That priest was giving very creepy vibes. Wheezing and relishing in the fact there’s no way out for that poor girl.
Yes. I thought I was just being silly. He was gross.
Yes… he gave me the creeps as well
He creeped me out for sure!
Yessssd! Something isn't right.
Do priests really visit the ‘wedding bed chamber’ to bless their home?
This is like the worst decision this CHILD could've made.
And the priest is sus
Lol yes the priest with the "and of course let me bless the marriage bed wink wink"....bro...what are you doing
you got that right!
Idk,I kinda agree with her, what difference would it make if she waited a few years? In their culture, she’d be shamed/forced into marriage at a young age eventually, might as well do it while you’re young enough to be stupid and not jaded and really believe in “True love”. Obviously it’s horrific, but she seems to realize that. And marrying s guy going to prison means fewer pregnancies and potentially traumatic sexual encounters for a couple years. Shame the fuck on this priest, though. Absolutely DISGUSTING. Did they mention his name in the video? I’d like to look him up. I just wanna talk.
@@Miss_Camel I would rather be shamed rather than being forced to marry.
@@jazzyj6640 literally same. I am what they call in the south “a spinster”. Zero fucks given. Sadly, most ppl DO care what others think of them, to the point that it’s essentially crippling. That’s why they have to be pacified, to be shown some level of acceptance. So that they’ll stop talking. It is a valuable trick if you work with the public.
“He could be an idiot!”
Gurl, you are not wrong 😆
HAHAHA
*Igit.
"The marriage bed" 💀 someone investigate this man
The way they threw the dog in the water. That’s pure animal cruelty and they shouldn’t be allowed a dog if they can’t look after it’s properly
I’m not sure if it’s a genetic trait, but a number of travelers have those beautiful eyes.
Yes they have stunning eyes
her eyes are gorgeous
I noticed that as well
Considering that they only marry within the community, it makes it either to pass onto the next gen. and yea its really pretty
And STUNNING hair
Tossing that poor little dog into the puddle like that could have resulted in a broken leg or worse, its pelvis!
That pissed me off too
That was such a stupid thing to do!,,,
I could be wrong, but I don't belive animals have rights like they do in the USA.
I'm not condoning it in the slightest (so don't jump on me for this - I certainly wouldn't do it), but it's an old school way of washing a dog that's rolled in something horrible before taking it home.
It's not normally launched like that, though, so I imagine the kid's young age, bravado, and the presence of a camera crew played a part (this show is known to try and get shock footage to up their views, so they probably egged him on).
You're supposed to just use the puddle water to wash the worst off, not launch the poor dog in, so I imagine the kid got a royal bollocking when his parents found out for exactly the reasons you've listed...
@@georgina-a - I wasn’t as concerned about the water (and what the outside temperature might have been) as I was about the shallow puddle. Landing hard on the ground could have resulted in an injury; the water wasn’t deep enough to provide a cushioning for its little joints. Thanks for your input, Georgina.
Priest: “this is the yongest I’ve ever done“ me: I seriously doubt that you creep me out!!!
I felt creeped out too 🤣
Def not the youngest he’s ever married.
Any younger and it’s illegal so it’s probably the youngest legal ceremony he’s done. You just literally can’t get younger. Definitely not the youngest girl he’s wanted to marry tho, dirty old codger
4:10 Her letting the guy go in front when they were literally walking side by side says it all. I mainly watch these videos for the dresses, but it's so sad seeing all these young, beautiful, smart lovely girls get married at a young age. I hope she's truly happy and living the life SHE wants.
The small kids in this show are a crack up, they're brutally honest
This is why you should have to be 18 to get married.
You do without parents consent
I'm aware of that. What I'm saying is it should be 18 in general. I dont think parents should be able to sign off on their child being married before then.
18 is still too early, only 2 years older than 16
21 and no parental waiver.
Older
Around 15/16, I had my first boyfriend and was with him for 3.5 years. I can't imagine being "stuck" with him for the rest of my life. I can't see how they can decide this at this age and basically just after a year. This culture is crazy to me
Same!!!!!!!
Seriously, doesn't she have any ambitions, goals she would like to accomplish in life? Her life!
This is what they're taught. She's never been taught to think about doing anything else with her life. The culture is stuck in the dark ages with this but also don't forget that it really wasn't that long ago that all women were expected to get married and have kids right away. It's the way society has been for hundreds of years. It will take many more years for it to die out completely
I met my husband when we were 14 and 15. We got together at 16 and married at 20. Some relationships work out young but In this case ? Prob not.
Wow same here!!
Those girls at the veryyyy end have seen it enough to know how horrible of an idea it is to get married young. I couldn’t imagine getting married at 15/16. Absolutely NOT.
“You’” you”
"I'll also be married and pregnant in 10yrs time, what's the difference if i marry and get pregnant now!?"
Ohh there's a LOT of a difference im telling you. And you'll fully understand that soon.
She was raised for this they don’t know any different. You can’t compare this, to other people who weren’t raised like this.
The conversation between Repunzel and Mother Gothel comes to mind:
Rapunzel: I've even met someone
MG: Ah, yes the wanted criminal. I'm so proud! 🙄
Why would you just chuck a small dog into a puddle 😭
I’ve seen in another ones of these videos the groom doing the same thing!
That’s so mean!
Thank u I thought I was the only one pissed about the dog
14 and 20 year olds have WAY different interests. This is so weird. A literal preteen and an adult. EWW
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14 isn't a preteen
By definition, a pre-teen is anyone less than 13 years old, but at least 10. She was a TEENAGER when she met him, not a "pre-teen."
@@vinegorre yes it is??? You haven’t even done ur damn GCSEs yet
@@vinegorre go date a year 9 in uni then
I got a feeling when they were exchanging vows that it hit her, her face just seemed to me like she knew it was a mistake.
Yeah, she looked like she was about to pass out at one point during his vows.
I saw that too!!!
honestly feel so bad for her. I'm sure later down the line she'll realise what a mistake it was to marry this guy.
Sooo my Fiance and I have been together for 8 years. We MET AT 15 and now we are 23. We are still young but mature enough to make the decision, and have a great friendship and relationship. But to be married at 16 ??? Just wow
You guys were able to choose who you stayed with- but some of these marriages are arranged, rushed, and the pressures surrounding their relationships are different. They’re expected to marry the first and the last guy- not date freely and see who or what they like.
My science teacher and her bf were together for 12 years and just this past year they finally got engaged. She's in her mid 30s and waited for him to be ready and for them both to be ready and she doesn't regret it.
He is just so perfect...after he pays for his criminal acts.
😨 😨 🤡
😅🤣🤣🤣 still they are getting married ?
The entire video was funny
Thank god I left my brain in the fridge before I watch this
My partner has served time but he's a changed man now we now have a kid together
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@@kristinpedersen4915 he hasnt served time for grooming children tho has he
If i married the boyfriend i had at 14/15 i would be dead. Seriously. I feel for her and I hope that shes alright.
She’s stunning and he, well he’s going to prison.
HA
😂
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
I saw the update video he didn't go to jail
I got married at 23 and now at 25, I still feel like a child bride. I was way too young. Marriage is not a fairytale. Adulthood is not a walk in the park.
Same here. Married at 23, new baby nine months later and one every year or two after. 16 years later, separated with four kids and I’m realizing that my individual life halted immediately at 23. I spent my 20s raising my family but forgot about raising myself. It’s something that others don’t prepare you for.
I'm 23 and my school friend of the same age is getting married. I can't believe that because I feel like a child. I've had so much depression so I couldn't even start my career by now but building a career and a life and deciding what I want in the future is my top priority right now. I'm not even gonna date let alone marry until I feel like myself and have a good career.
Me 17, him 18, married at 22, separated at 26, divorced at 27…………….Grew up, began to understand and find myself. ………Second time, me 29, him 29, married at 35. Now, 42, we’ve been together 12.5 years, and I’ve found my partner in life and love. Why is number two working out? It’s simply because at 35 I knew myself, knew what I wanted and didn’t want and found someone who truly loved and respected me for me.
Marriage is hard, it had ups and downs you cannot imagine! Both of you need to be mature enough to work through it (and have solid role models to show you how to live and love healthily); not to mention truly love each other. People grow and change, it’s human nature; there is no way I knew what I was doing at 22! I feel so sorry for this poor girl, she doesn’t stand a chance and we all know by watching him for 30 minutes that he won’t do a thing right by her; we all know he showed his true colors, and they are not beautiful. I hope she makes it out alive, not totally traumatised and without 6 small children.
@@ja_miiiright there with you! I had to go back and grow up. I wish you all the best for the future.
He’s a walking red flag… and at the end she does not seem like she wants to do it
the bit at 6:33 where that boy throws that poor puppy into that mud makes me sick
That wasn't a "puppy," it was a full grown dog. But yeah, it would have been perfectly fitting for one of the brothers to have shoved that little b_________ into the mud right behind the dog!
Ohhh my God, if I'd married the guy I was in love with at sixteen I would be MISERABLE.
She barely looked at him during the wows, very strange!! And that priest, very strange, to much info .
When Brendan said he’d never been to school before I was like what.
I have no idea how they get away with that, other than schools would rather not accept trash like him?
Yeah that explains it I hope he goes to prison and Stays there people go to prison for a reason but he should have a longer sentence for grooming because she is really young she’s 15 and he’s 20 do you see the problem there
I think about how much i changed as a person from 18 to 30 and even now at 40. I cant imagine the concept that if i picked a person to marry that young that i would feel the same way 10 years from then. I want completely different things in a partner now.
Would love to see how their future turns out.
They are still married with 2 children :)
Abuse and divorce
No kidding!
@@abbiet9475 obviously if you get a divorced the community kicks you out.
@@mandymadison6244 Exactly 💯
Why are her parents letting their barely 16 year old marry a man who is in trouble enough he could go to jail 3 months after they marry. What sort of parents are they.
It's traveler culture. It's more complex than just love, it unites families and big doweries are paid. It's very complex if it goes wrong
Usually, it's only the father who can "say something"....the mother has to follow his lead (even in an ignorant culture that is based on who-knows-what...), and he's very likely glad to have one less mouth to feed.
I find this so fascinating... by the time I started dating she will have been married for 10 years already. That just blows my mind. To Travellers I would be ancient and no hope of finding love dating at age 26, but I'm in a awesome relationship and glad I didn't date sooner as I don't think it would have ended so well.
He should not be allowed to hold a gun. He knows nothing about safety.
15??? You've got to be kidding. Gypsy or not, intelligence reigns supreme. Where are her "parents"??
Her dad was in the video at the stag party. Unfortunately her mom passed away
@@hayleytovey9479 that, unfortunately, says a lot.
Behind it all orchestrating this tradition from the day she was born.
I’m 17 and haven’t dated a single person. It’s crazy seeing a 16 year old get married, especially to some guy who’s more than 5 years older. In my eyes this is just ridiculous
I have two friends who were together since highschool, to this day they are still together!
as a 15 year old rn i cant even begin to imagine getting married at this age, im happy in my relationship at the moment but i’ve got my whole life ahead of me and its really sad seeing young girls be trapped in these relationships fresh out of middle/highschool :(
I'm 17 and never had a bf, seeing this makes me feel so sad for them.
Most of them don’t even go to secondary /high school
They are pulled out of school after the end of primary school age to help mother with the children
(Big families ).
As a result way to many of these girls have only had a primary school education.
As a 23 year old, I can't either.
Regardless of my disagreement with these marriages ~ I will say ~ you all make absolutely Beautiful brides 💜
So he was 21 year old hanging out with a 15 year old girl. Is no one worried about that?
Why is there a crowd of people at the wedding? Not saying it’s bad, I think it’s lovely seeing citizens come and congratulation them. But I’m just curious
From others of these videos I watched recently, when the locals find out that travelers are in town and getting married, they want to get pictures of the wedding party because, as the one woman on this said, "It's very much like a royal weddin', and the brides are always so beautiful."
Makes their day to see such things, I suppose, when one hasn't too many interests in their own life.
Well, I’m saying it IS bad…😂
..... prison..... seriously. Her parents are ridiculous.
If the men financially support the home how will she live if he goes to jail?
@@sindimathe4232 then hell just stay home and unwed until he gets out of jail
@@Wareaglegirl9960 that’s too much sense for a teenager. I swear, that age needs to be listed in the DSM as a temporary brain dysfunction
How will/does he make a living with zero education??? He stated very proudly that he's never been to school a day in his life!
That poor dog 😔
Just casually out there throwing small animals in water and pointing guns at each other.
“He could be an idiot.” 😂😂😂
What a great ending line!
This was 10 years ago. They are now 26 and 31. I would love to see an update.
Someone responded to my comment saying they are still married and have 2 children.
@@krislatoya7556 , only two???
@@richardbowness1595 That's the update I saw 🤷🏾♀️
@@krislatoya7556 yes and somebody else said they were divorced🤷♀️
There divorced she married again as he in out jail and cheated violence to her Google or u tube it
It's so sad how brainwashed these women are to believe that they aren't "clean" if they had previous boyfriends .... or that they would be worried about the wedding being called off over something like that. My heart breaks for the cycle. that continues.
She was 14 and he was 20 he preyed on a little girl. The fact that these girls are raised to get married is another thing. If I had a daughter I would encourage her to find her passion in the world not get married.
How many school girl crushes do you have and say "I love him". The guys going to prison. Where on Earth are her parents? What are they thinking
And I thought I had issues with red flags. This guy is literally a stop sign; as in, stop, turn around, and run.
I always end up crying with these videos. It's just so depressing.
would definitely love to receive updates on there well being for both of em I they did it...regardless of how I feel now all I can do is wish them the best and hope against hope they will be okay
Saw a comment that someone said theyre still married W 2 children
Another family where they like throwing a dog into a pond 🙄
So glad it wasn't me who noticed this. That's the 2nd time on this show where I've seen dogs being thrown into bodies of water without regard for the animals safety or care.
@@heywaitMarlee it’s awful honestly
I know it breaks my heart
Of course she’s perfect for him. He’s a total fuck up, loves fighting, about to go to jail. She’s “pure” gorgeous, taught her whole life how to be a good gypsy wife. He looks like an ogre, has no education, and obviously has control issues. She better hope he doesn’t ever turn his anger back on her. Fingers crossed for that lovely girl. 🖤
I'm marrying the person I fell in love with at 17...... 10 years later at 27
I’m sure you didn’t have the same pressures or expectations surrounding your relationship like this poor girl did.
Same. Met at 19, married at 29. So many ups and downs during that time we were not ready to settle yet.
The vibe from the priest is giving me the ick 😒
😂😂😂 I thought the same
This is scary, because I was in a relationship at her age with a man who was 21 as well. I didn't know any better and adults around me encouraged it. Im really glad I stood up for myself, put my foot down and told him to get lost. It makes me really sad to see this happening and being broadcasted on a large platform. None of this is okay. She is a child!!!! She doesnt know any better.
Women between 15 and 30 to not mentally mature much, if at all, they. just. grow. older. Yes, women do have a _base_ maturity that kicks in around 14 (has to be that way since they can be made pregnant) but beyond that they are pretty much stagnant and will not mentally mature much until they hit around 33ish. Men however, do NOT have the base maturity women have, but men DO mentally mature between 15 and 30, having reached full mental maturity around 30 (which is why, if we go really far back, a man was NOT allowed to vote until he had hit the age of 30). A 15 year old female has the same maturity of a 25 year old male. Recoiling at the age difference Micheala is making a mistake, because it *presumes* that men and women are equal and just the same (which also presumes they mature at the same age and pace) alas they are not, not even close. Que the outbursts and the name calling.
I hope u r doing better now❤😳
Yes they do
@@ravenbaa7989 no they dont, especially if no one teaches them its wrong. if they are taught from a young age that being preyed upon by adults is fine, and even something to be proud about, they WILL think its okay. we've seen it
@@byerage they need to still cover up🤮
Yesssss!!!!!! Thank you 😊 💓 ☺ 💗 I have been looking for this video for sooooo long!!!!
Is no one gonna talk about how they literally chucked the poor little dog into a puddle because they were bored 😭
She is stunning and oh so young. I wish them well. I’d love to know how his court date turned out. If I had married my first boyfriend it would have been a huge mistake. He’s never been monogamous with any of his women. Not saying Brendan won’t be. Just you make rash decisions at that age.
There’s a update video. He doesn’t go to jail.
Too young to really understand a choice like this.
I agree. And her saying she would still wanna marry him in 10 years... Girl please. Shes clueless!
This is her first boyfriend too and she's only known him for a year. I don't think she even knows what love is.
Imagine marrying your first boyfriend. I'm cringing thinking about it. 😫🥴
Oh stfu not everyone wants to be a skank before getting married tf you have plenty of people who marry their first love and still thriving girl bye you sound bitter please stay single if you want to sleep around but don't rain on somebody else's parade Karen
@@annarogers8545 but the problem is that this girl is too young to even understand the concept of love and also they’ve only been together for a year and she’s 15 and he’s 20 so it’s not the ideal age to get married
"Prepare for the worst and hope for the best"
I’ve noticed trainers seem to be a common theme for footwear with lavish gowns. I regret my choice of ornate heels.
Watching this makes me appreciate the fact that my parents thought my being educated was a priority.
They should start a follow up show haha
At 16 we all felt like we was going to marry our first love, & be together forever. Unfortunately its not the case. The older we get the more we change.
When I was 16, I wanted to marry David Cassidy, we see that didn't happen.The point I'm trying to get across is, at 16 we should be DREAMING about our crushes,not marrying them.We should be dreaming of what we want to be when we grow up, Doctor? Lawyer? Social worker? NOT marrying someone we just recently met and ending up running after a passel of kids.This whole thing makes me sad, and a bit angry at the parents as well.
‘The two face an uncertain future because he could be going to jail’ I-🤦🏽♀️
THE WAY HE THREW THAT DOG IN THE RIVER 😭😭😭
Thank goodness there’s subtitles on this episode- I can barely understand what half of the men are even saying! 🤦🏼♀️
They don’t seem to treat animals very well. My grandmother said when they would come through her litttle town everything would close down because they would steal everything that wasn’t locked down.
Those kids at the end speak more sense than anyone else is 😂
15... I'm 30 this year and she still looks older than me. She is absolutely gorgeous though!
Jealousy gets you nowhere
@@bharvey3214 I agree, no jealousy in general 💁🏽♀️ I've been privileged with my genetics in many ways- just not when it comes to cancer and other illnesses 😂 I hope a long and healthy life for them both.
@@bharvey3214 it's true tho, she looks way older
She was far more beautiful before she piled on all that hideous, outdated makeup!
These guys are so immature I can't believe that this stuff is happening to children
Why do they abuse the animals? He threw, that dog in the pond and my heart broke.
Because they were bored. Unbelievable!
Why do those people always have to throw dogs into water?And why are they ever still allowed to even have dogs?
She's so young and shy (naturally), especially during the practice scene at the church. Hope she's okay now. I wonder if she's still as enchanted with him now as she once was. It'd be a miracle, I say.
Pointing guns at children, throwing a dog, facing prison! Oh my word.
As a former 15/16 year old, I thank my lucky stars that I didn’t get what I thought I wanted 👍😂😂
This is indeed a marriage I dreamed of having…
Thank god I woke up and realized it was just a dream!
We ain’t gonna talk about the way he threw the puppy in the water 😭
Christ, he had zero trigger discipline. Shock he didn’t kill anyone.
I am always surprised when they talk about discrimination against travelers because everytime they show people they seem cool with them and are cheering them along the road
I dont know about the UK but here in Ireland there is still a huge amount of discrimination... people will come cheer them on because who doesn't like a big wedding, and then the local hotels refuse to host their reception or charge ridiculous "deposits"
It's the business owners. Travelers have been known, are known, for having huge fights when the men get drunk, and just in their everyday living, they trash the hotel rooms, the restaurants, bars and pubs, and whatever wedding venue they manage to get. No business wants to have to spend thousands of dollars in repairs, but many have gotten stuck with that in their past, so they refuse to serve travelers.
That's according to several others of these particular videos on YT.
In some of the other episodes you see so many rental cars not show up and venues cancel.
He's 21 and she's 15?! Recipe for disaster. What does he have in common with a child?
14 when they met!
@@leonamay8776 🤮🤮🤮 I can't believe they allowed this.
the end all be all to me is that she looks him in the eyes ONCE during their vows
That priest gave the the ick. He should be ashamed of himself for marrying off a child.