Why She's Not Ready For A Relationship
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- Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
- Coach Corey Wayne discusses why women continually say they are not ready for a relationship when you are dating and sleeping with them, and what to say and do differently so they ask you to be their boyfriend.
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why do i always find the right video after i messed up
so you can learn
So you know what you gotta do next time
I love your comment dude haha
Jonah Barroga same
Its alright Jonah! You're here now!!
Women do this to test men. Its their way of finding out if you weak or not by your reaction. The best thing to do is step back and not make much effort. They comeback if you stop giving them what they want. Show that your fine without them.
THIS IS TRUTH.
dang it okay I'll stop messaging her already fucked that up but I'll start now
You tell her your looking to go to Blank and you would enjoy her to accompany you.
Woman are not attracted to needy men
Sorry if I’m late but thanks I really needed this
Remember that we sometimes ignore the fact that she’s not that into you. I had this experience, I was trying to hard to convince her, but ignored the fact that her interest was not the same anymore after a month. Don’t waste youre time on someone who doesnt want to be with ‘you’. I needed to learn this the hard way like Corey also says in his book. Women don’t want to hurt youre feeling so they not going to be honest that they just not are in to you. Pay attention what there actions are and never chase more then 20/30% (this is the hardest part). Most important lesson I learned that you have to have a take it or leave it mindset (abundance mindset). You need to be natural instead of forced, women will notice this. Let the force be with you, read the book! Goodluck next time guys (;
yeah i need to chill, i got a chick that likes me but i am moving too fast, i only met her twice lol
mayhem mayhem once 2 heart clicks why wait
You got this man! "Just back the fuck off a bit" like coach says 😂😂
I feel like Corey is having a beer with me talkin to me straight up..like a buddy.
This is the only coach I’ll watch .
Guy tells us how it is .
Everything else here on RUclips seems like mind games
This guy gives us the knowledge for us to find the brass tax of what we are looking at in our relationships .
You rock dude
It's all true. The girl I'm dating having fun and hooking up with keeps telling me she's not ready when I talk about it and makes her feel uncomfortable and unsure. When I don't bring it up she's more into me.
Believe her!
Never bring up a serious relationship no matter how much you like her. Hangout hookup have fun, let her bring it up. Then have the conversation with her about it.
watching these videos just to understand myself lmfaooo
1zeldarulez lmao
lmao , me too !!
Damn
So am I😂
Knowledge is power
Corey, I love you. Thank you so much! You make my life so much better!
I wish I saw this video before that happened. Damn
thx for making this vid you really helped me out man
Thank you for getting me to understand. See there is this girl I like, and she always says that to me when I try too early to tell her. Now I notice that she does show me that she does have feelings for me, but I'm going to wait until we are both ready for a relationship. Cause right now I don't want to force it on her, it just wouldn't be right. Plus I'm letting God tell me when to decide.
Smart man I will do the same let god handle it brother!
I was able to find this video before I fucked things up! This girl I'm into sent me a text saying "I want to have fun with you, but just not a relationship right now." She sent it to my Facebook messages, I opened my inbox but never opened her message! I instantly looked for Coach Wayne's advice and I'm so glad he made an exact video on what I should do!!! Now I know what to do! I was trying to force things with her a bit at first. As I was forcing things, she said "I don't think we should meet or see each other anymore". So what I did after that was, I took a step back instead of forcing things. I didn't even respond to the text lmao! But I did read it so she'd know I read it, on purpose. She has me added on Facebook and following me on Instagram so what I did was, I started posting my fitness content again, other hot girls that are into fitness.. even a few guys..Basically showing her my lifestyle and that she's not the center of my life! And since I didn't respond to her Facebook message, of course! She started looking at my Instagram stories every single day because she was wondering why I didn't reply to her text on Facebook! Days went by of me posting on my Instagram story and feed and then something random happened! She contacted me first and sent me 3 more texts saying " Are you okay, I was going to text you but I was giving you your space, it was hard for me to say what I said you". I responding by saying "I'm doing really great! I get it, I'll give you your space as well." She instantly replies "I don't need space, I like talking actually." 😂😂 I had already given her space by ignoring her messages for days and posting on social media! Exactly what she wanted! Also ignoring her messages gave her the feeling that I didn't I was pulling away as well so that helped a lot. So I responded to her message hours later saying "well when you said we shouldn't see each other, I assumed you were busy and needed some space, I like talking too." 😁 I never assumed she rejected me, real men never get rejected! She replied "I'm so glad to hear you say that because most guys act funny after I say something like that." I responded a whole day later saying "No need to act funny. If you don't think we should see each other and have fun together! Then I'll just move on". 😁😁😁 Guess what her response was? Yup! You guessing it! She said "I do, just not in a relationship right now". I never opened her message, instead I went on RUclips and found this exact video of Coach Wayne telling me what to do in this situation. That was this morning! After watching this video, I know exactly how to approach this situation....I'll just have fun with this girl! Build sexual tension that Coach Wayne talks about all the time! Keep things playful and flirty! No holding hands, no texting her all day anymore, no calls over 15 minutes, keep posting my lifestyle on social media, and sticking to that 30% rule that coach Wayne always talks about😁😁😁 I'm gonna make this girl crazy about me...Allowing her to make a move on me when she feels ready! Even after that ill still keep things cool! Increasing her attraction for me! So my question is, where do I take this girl out with me????? Do I take her to the movies? She doesn't drink and neither do. We both play basketball a lot and really love it! She's really competitive and good! Do I take her to the park or a gym to play together??? I want to avoid spending lots of money out with her right now because I'm low on cash currently😂😂😂but lucky for me, she's not the materialistic type at all! She's laid back and just likes to laugh and enjoy good times! She likes playfulness! Where should I take her??? Anyone please help?! I don't wanna fuck things up again😂
any updates?
@@carlosfernandez-pello3631 LMAO
So what happened
Lmaooo love this post
I love your videos. Very pleased to have found you. Truly fulfilling your skills
Spot on. All men are messing up big time. 2nd date and I’m out. I’m tired of them being clueless. Thanks for your videos. I hope they all watch lol
They are far from clueless. They’re just good at convincing us they are.
OMG!!...spot on dude!...this guy rocks!!
Today I split up with a girl who's not not ready for serious rs. She travels a lot for work, loves doing it and really, in my view, doesn't have the capacity to be serious at this point in her life. Coupled with the fact that in her most recent rs her ex was very needy when he probably realized that she's not quite emotionally available, things weren't looking great. Sex was amazing but I can't fuck around with someone without any commitment whatsoever. I need (not to be mistaken with neediness) an emotional connection with the partner in order to want to have sex 3 times a day. Otherwise the feeling is that I'm just some peace of meat and, if that's true, what's the difference between me and any other dude? She agreed to most of this and we decided to stay friends. Shit burns but I'll get over it, not my first rodeo.
I had the same experience with a girl, she’s just not on the same planet as me. Ignore your ego and move on
I feel the same way.
Time to step back!
If you date a girl for a year bit no kissing or no sex and she says she is not ready for a relationship. Then I told her I went on a date with another woman. She went crazy. I did not understand.
Damn man, i feel you. Women sometimes play games and she's upset you found a woman for you who is better. Women are insecure to the core.
Ive acted so needy lately knowing its not whats going to bring her closer to me watching this video is like ive ben blind this whole time
Where are these women that sleep with you but don't want a relationship? Every single girl I've bonked from that day forward won't leave me alone and wonders why I haven't made them my girlfriend by the end of the week. That includes the women I tell directly " Before we continue, I am not interested in a relationship with you," they always say they are fine with that. Without fail the next day "Oh I want to see you' "oh I want to hug you" "Oh how can you do that and not have at least some interest in a relationship." I say the guys that write in the emails that say they have slept with the woman are full of shit.
Agree. And dudes don’t have groupies on rotation to date like he talks about. It’s amazing how many guys are sitting home alone, desperate and dateless. That’s the impression I’m getting from talking to people on these apps.
Defo needed to see this I wanted the label of us talking but she kept saying about being friends for now as she does like me just doesn’t want anything atm
Corey, why do always assume that ua guys are always diing something wrong. You can be the perfect guy and still not get the woman. Sometimes women simply aren't ready for a relationship PERIOD. Has nothing to do with the guy. Us guys don't do everything wrong. Sometimes us 3 percent guys are to much for aome women.
Eddie Jones there's always a reason why they aren't ready. maybe they aren't into you or something..which in case you did something wrong
Rule is if y'all been dating for a while (few months) and things aren't progressing, cut it lose and move on. Life is too short to be wasted on someone who isn't ready for YOU.
I agree. I was like that for good part of my life. Just put a fucking wall between me and anyone I felt I could fell in love. Some people just feel they missed something in life. To be ready for it, you must be intrinsicaly ready to give love in order to accept one
Exactly, some girls are just so fucked up they can't love anymore. They need time
yeah I need to elarn to be patient....we miss talking to each other on a daily basis,but she holds back....I mean we know each other for just over a month....am I rushing too much? I mean she is into me,but soooo holding it back....
LEGEND
I met a women , some at she not ready for a relationship despite we when out several time. What are the cause she gave a distant look?
We’ve been dating her first love used to live far away and they’ve been friends ever since then but now he came back she told me she doesn’t know what she wants she said she still wants us to hang out bug she said said she is going keep being friends with her ex
Wish I had seen this video 2 weeks ago :D
I was in a 2 years relationship, then suddenly out of nowhere because of past fights or arguments she decided to break up with me giving me all the bs like she’s the problem and she wants to focus on herself and I’m the good person and she’s bad bla bla bla. I did ask her if we can work on it and fix it but it looked like she made up her mind so I gave up as well and walked away. I went into no contact and a week later she called me and played with my feelings, then I tried reaching out to her few days later but she was distant then I went again into no contact for two weeks and I caught her stalking my instagram stories, etc (we don’t follow each other anymore) then she sent me a message few days later and eventually we spoke and she says she’s not ready for a relationship and she wants us to be normal but it’s hard for me cuz I love her and would always want to be with her. I told her I can’t be friends and all and eventually ended the convo and went again into no contact. She did say that it’s hard for her to move on. I just don’t understand why is she forcing herself to move on tho. Do you think it will work between us or it won’t work at all?
You can't have a good time...if there's no one there
This helped so fucking much
Ah thanks Corey
The girl I deal with will tell me she's not busy on a certain night... so I ask her if she wants to get together then she backs off and tells me she doesn't know what she is doing... So I try to get a solid yes or no and she accuses me of pushing to hard for a relationship.... The only way is to wait until the last moment and see if she wants to spend time...which is against Corey Wayne fundamentals...
But yes relax is the base of it all oh yes
I am friends with benifit with a girl and she is perfect for me. Just broke up with her ex and is interested in other guys. I freaked out and I didn't know what to do until I saw this video. Soo helpful, now I know just to keep creating a romantic opportunity and relax and take it slow
My girl texts me so much, i cant even set so many dates. We've had just one date yet and it went really well, but since then she is texting me about 10 times daily. I dont want to ignore her, but its a bit annoying and im busy working or just want to hang out with my friends. Is it because she is insecure? I've already set the next date with her next week, i really dont know why she is constantly contacting me...
Michael depends, is she using you as an emotional tampon? Flirting? Just telling you what’s going on in her life?
Am helping a good friend through grief after husband died (also a very long time friend).4 weeks ago. I also list my wife. Cancer. We have exchanged prayers every night for 20 months. How do I help her now (still wants my prayers) yet eventually, hopefully evolve into romantic relationship? Am into read #6 of 3% Man.
Coach you do a ton of videos on how to get a girl. But I think you should make a video on what to do if you go out with a girl a few times and you slowly but surely find out that you're not into the girl. Im by no means an asshole and would love to know how to back off from a girl who is obviously head over heels into me.
Tell her you're not feeling it
Straight up, tell her in your own way that you only want friendship. I had to do it recently. It was obvious they had an outcome in their head and the neediness came out. Glad they’re out of the picture now.
my situation was weird... dated for a month, we agreed to take things... that didnt last we had sex 2 weeks later, went on dates, and making things official never came up from either, at some point early 2016 she left her ex of 6 yrs, we dated December of 2016, well of the sudden she says she wasnt ready for a relationship, i did everything right, i was just my self, made her laugh we clicked, sex was good, i let her do all the talking and all the contacting on the phone, took my time replying and all, i basically just went with the flow she was giving me... so.. im confused to why she said she wasnt ready? again... i didnt bring anything up, i was waiting on her... so now im stumped.. im gonna move on, but i told her that she has my number to contact me when shes ready, im just confused with the out of the blue decision she made... mind you she said she wanted me to spend the night cause her family was out of town and then she changed her mind and i was perfectly fine cause it was a bit soon and all... im good catch, lots of qualities. maybe i scared her cause she wasnt used to a good man?
Leandro Vereda probably she was maybe used to less than great and you set the standard so unfortunately no matter you did right she may have residual damage. I'm speaking from experience. sorry you went thru that hun. good luck.
Andrine Toussaint probably right! oh well
Leandro Vereda sorry about that. us women need to work on ourselves big time. it's hard both ways. good luck hun
How have you been since this? I’m going through the exact same thing
What do i do when I've went no contact. And she hasn't text or called like before when we first started talking. I feel like she's waiting for her ex to come around so they can date again.
because she wants to be with her ex, thats it bro, accept it, heads up and be a man, let her go and dont expect her to come back
Yeah, let her go, keep dating others and if she reaches out just ask her how’s it going with the ex. If she says she’s still into him or still seeing him just say you don’t pursue unavailable women, keep dating others and have fun. If she’s become unattached then set up another date, rinse and repeat. 🔥💀
Hello, I need an advise. I met this girl online about a month 1/2. She met few of my good friends, and they asked some questions about our relationship and stuff. She got really uncomfortable and when I asked her why, she told me that she got out of a bad 4 year relationship about 3 months ago. She tells me that she loves everything about me, but she doesn't want to think about the future just now because she is scared, and she just wants to enjoy the time with time without worrying about anything else. I really like her, and from what I can tell she really likes me too. We talk everyday, hangout every week, and she talks about me with her friends all the time. Even her friends and people around her tell her that I'm a great guy and she should really think about establishing a more serious relationship with me. From what she's told me, the guy was really bad, controlling her, and just being an asshole to her. I want to be patient, but I do not want to get hurt either. What should I do?
HHH ( Hangout have fun and Hook up )
how do you hook up
@@jakelee4472 hanging out and having fun
Why didn’t you just call the video “she isn’t ready” basically she’s not ready bc she isn’t ready lol
y'all think there's a way to turn around being to pushy or should I just say fuck it and give up
I'm experience this now when she texted me saying she not ready for relationship or commitment. I step back she text me again after didn't reply for one day. Then she start calling me.
Pianist Prodigy yo
Bro there’s this girl I have been talking to for a while she likes me and I like her and then we talked and everything was going well and I made a move to hang out and she says she’s not ready and we haven’t sparked about 3 days what happen now??
Anthony Jordan bro idk man girls be always doing this, yesterday I was at the movies with this one girl from school and we kissed and cuddle and went out to eat and then a day later she’s like “listen your amazing person but I just don’t want a relationship right now but don’t get me wrong we are still bestfriends” it pisses me off, that’s the second time a girl told me that after making out. Like why waste my time.
@@rodriguez6720 so know what you still with her? i mean i guess the sign is giving her time u know maybe she still likes u but giving her more time maybe idk bro
Anthony Jordan naw she wants to be bestfriends cause she think that she’s thinks she cheating on her ex WHO LEFT HER 2 months ago
why woman just can't move on seriously... that's really annoying and it's always happen with the woman i interested with
I dont understand what i did wrong. This girl i've been dating for 2 months is telling me suddenly that she doesnt want to be in a relationship with me because she's not ready for that. Even though i never brought that up? Last month she's the one who asked me to be exclusive to her and also introduced me to her parents (things were moving a little fast imo but at the same time I was fine with it). Earlier this week we were at a track event in which I competed. I held her hand at this public event when she was around her friends and because of that she's now telling me we should stop seeing eachother. I'm aware that there's probably more going on that i don't know about but this is super confusing.
Update #2: After getting back together I gotta admit that I made it a little too easy for her. I always went to her place because she couldn't always come over to my place due to logistical issues. And after a while she started to have less and less time for me which caused me to unconsciously become needy & impatient to see her. Long story short she dumped me again so I walked away again (I will keep updates on the situation). It truly sucks because I could've easily avoided this situation by being patient and rejecting to go to her place instead of mine.
There's a reason why we gotta read the book 10 to 15 times. But hey, lesson learned & back to the book
@@OhQuickly Any updates man?
@@swamp1138 after she dumped me I went no contact on her, she couldn't handle the fact that we were no longer talking so she immediately asked me to take her back. Then 3 weeks later she dumped me again, this woman couldn't make up her mind...
Anyways long story short she's now dating some loser and is exclusive with him & I'm currently having the time of my live without her & all the doubts and stress she gave me. (But I have to admit that I still kinda miss her sometimes)
@@OhQuickly Good on ya man, I'd say you're better off without her. Get yourself a girl that's mature and consistent. Chances are she'll probably leave that dude and come crawling back. Don't take her back. She's using you for free validation. If she's amazing in bed, smash then dump her. Let her know how it feels.
@@OhQuicklydude what a rollercoaster
Why do they friend zone you if ythave been trying to do exactly what you saying?
But what if it's been 6 months and she's been dating another dude the whole time? Should I walk..I'm feeling no progression.
It wouldn't lose time with women at all no
i been texting a girl for a year and a half and we dated several times in the last few months but she says shes not ready for a boyfriend because she had bad relationships before i assume thats why but its been 3 years since her last break up? her sister is married to my brother can i get any advice??
read the book
can u give me some quick advice?
3 years? She's not very into you I'm afraid...
I have a question......
She said that she loves me, but she is not ready. We had sex like for how many times. And if i say i love her, she will also say, she loves me. But at the end of the day, she tells me that she is not ready.
The question is. How to stay away from her? I dont know how since its like im expecting something but i dont understand. So I wanted to slowly, stay away from her, but how? Where to start? . Hmm how? Please help.
Give her time. Tell her you're ok with that and tell her to give herself some time. Most of the time she's just testing you to see if you will lose your balance or stay firm and her rock mountain BUT keep some self respect. If you feel like she's getting all distant and cold no matter what you do let her go. You deserve better.
@@BoneMaestro thaks for your reply. Ill keep that in mind. 👌
@@AlagangMotoFilYou're welcome
Recently I got a response that says "I don't do dates" - how do I respond to that? Keep in mind, I'm quite a psychopath at times because I get direct to the point without playing games
She doesn't want anything with you dude
@@lote0278 dang, you really didn't have to do the younger version of me that badly 😂
Relax. its in the fucking bag dude.😂
Do they do this even if you've been on multiple dates?
Can you help us women also
Please her help me . She say not really for relationship I sad 😔