She Cares For Me But Is Confused

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  • Опубликовано: 5 дек 2017
  • What you should do if a woman you are dating says that she cares for you, but is confused and not ready for a relationship.
    In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a guy who is dating a woman who has been a platonic friend for the past fifteen years. About ten months ago they became romantically involved after her relationship of eight years ended. However, she is bouncing back and forth between saying she needs space, is confused and not ready for a relationship, but she contacts him when he backs off and they hangout, have fun and hook up. He desperately wants to have a relationship with her but he is fearful that if he backs off more, she will find another guy, or if he pursues her more, she will permanently banish him to friend-zone. He wants to know what he can do to help her get over her fears so they can be together and have a great relationship.
    “An alpha male is sure of himself, his self worth and what he brings to the table in a relationship. He does not feel the need to prove himself to anyone and is repulsed by women who do not recognize his value no matter how hot they are. He knows he deserves a true equal and teammate who mutually chooses him also, and who makes a mutual effort to be together. A beta male is fearful, unsure of his value, thinks he must prove his worth and tries too hard when women do not recognize his value, and this leads to inevitable rejection. If you don’t recognize and act like you are valuable, women won’t see you as valuable either. You attract how you act.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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Комментарии • 361

  • @magiccarpet9172
    @magiccarpet9172 6 лет назад +496

    Hook up with other girls, her friends, and her sister. She won't be confused anymore,

    • @happy11111100
      @happy11111100 6 лет назад +58

      I like your style
      No fucking about
      Wish I had your mentality after my breakup
      I'm soooo fucking weak at the minute

    • @derrickanderson4525
      @derrickanderson4525 6 лет назад +1

      lmao

    • @Torchzy
      @Torchzy 6 лет назад +3

      Magic Carpet 💀💀💀💀😂⚰️

    • @magiccarpet9172
      @magiccarpet9172 6 лет назад +59

      happy11111100. I have been through it. I know how you feel. Solution: go to the gym and get buff. Find a purpose in life and get rich. Women will jump all over you.

    • @Dan-lx1wz
      @Dan-lx1wz 6 лет назад +3

      Yes, some tough love is needed here.

  • @blksheepramirez
    @blksheepramirez 5 лет назад +261

    The sad part is that all this shouldn’t be necessary. Love and attraction should be simple and direct, we can thank society for this

    • @lennart2089
      @lennart2089 4 года назад +20

      It´s not only society that is to blame, but yeah it has made things even more complicated. Women is, as Corey states multiple times in the video, the one to make the step forward to a relationship.. Why?,, Because in the end they are the ones being pregnant, deliver and nurture a baby.. So it´s ingrained in the female psyche to look for a stable "sperm doner",, and this applies even if there will not be any kids involved.. It´s in their nature, and we can´t change that.

    • @cheapstixxx
      @cheapstixxx 3 года назад +10

      And social media

    • @mikenutritionfit
      @mikenutritionfit 3 года назад +7

      In a perfect world yes
      But this world is far from perfection
      So in order to be balance; masculine and feminine energy must be balanced in that regard

    • @vincentpicone6501
      @vincentpicone6501 3 года назад +4

      Its because the parents

    • @mmondt9440
      @mmondt9440 3 года назад +8

      I agree... the more we act like we could give two shits about women, the more they want us.... Then she gets a ring on her finger and wonders why the guy doesn't pay attention to her

  • @elevationtalkpodcast7623
    @elevationtalkpodcast7623 6 лет назад +172

    It's crazy what "space" and "doing nothing" does!

    • @Decyg23
      @Decyg23 5 лет назад +5

      Yup it is

    • @Decyg23
      @Decyg23 5 лет назад +9

      @_ BUDDHA _ dont do anything she has to do 100% of the work dont act like his dog She thinks ur garanted for sure?? Show her if she gets overconfident on that u go away and never come back but do what u say u do dont say anything do her 3 min later that i want u bla bla bla tha is weak

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 3 года назад +19

      It really is. It’s just unbelievable how every woman behaves in the same way. I’ve practiced infinite patience. It’s the absolute, motherfucking, hardest thing you will ever do and 99% of men won’t be able to do it, because your emotions override everything and it goes completely against every fibre of your being and what feels natural. 18 months later out of nowhere she’s hitting me up wanting to meet me. I did nothing. We hooked up again. It’s like they have cognitive dissonance. I’ve been told in the past how she will never have sex with me again blah blah blah. Don’t take any notice of what she says. Means nothing. Just emotions in the moment. All about her actions.

    • @furyborn.1409
      @furyborn.1409 3 года назад

      @Saint Kaden You’re sorry as fuck. Lol.

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 2 года назад +2

      @kidofdarkness_
      Mate, in that time you’re dating multiple women.

  • @alexzamoraclips
    @alexzamoraclips 4 года назад +59

    It’s crazy how when you start dating other girls the ones that were giving you a hard time all of a sudden want to hang out and show up very submissive! This guy is my hero

  • @YourWingmam
    @YourWingmam 6 лет назад +55

    Always be willing to walk away from the deal and mean it. Anything less comes across as needy, desperate, insecure and overall pathetic. Women can FEEL it. Such a turn off.
    As a woman, when you read some of the emails you get, I can instantly empathize with the women who’ve been turned off.
    But like you say, they don’t teach this stuff in school and chick flicks aren’t real life. Sooo true.
    Thank God you’re helping guys learn how to become real (decent) men. 🙏

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 3 года назад +2

      Through being on my mission and purpose and creating the life I want, I will be walking away from her. Literally. I’m relocating overseas later this year. The strongest negotiating position in life is being able to walk away and mean it. I love her, I want her, but I don’t need her. I will have a great life, with or without her. I will get my answer one way or another. She needs a wake-up call and to realise I’m not waiting around as the back-up.
      Only issue is, I will have to break no contact to inform her of my plans?

  • @sparkzmentalz2
    @sparkzmentalz2 6 лет назад +149

    When you give women space to come and go as they please, they'll return if there's an attraction.

    • @philreypaderogao3520
      @philreypaderogao3520 6 лет назад +2

      I agree...hahahaha

    • @TrompieTrompie
      @TrompieTrompie 6 лет назад +3

      Hahahaha.... i don't

    • @Mike-mc3sh
      @Mike-mc3sh 6 лет назад +5

      Well I hope you're right. First time NC was about 2 days, second time NC was 4 days, and I now find myself in NC for the 3rd time, since yesterday. So maybe 6 days NC this time? Things kinda ended pretty bad yesterday so lets see if she comes back, god I hope so.

    • @carloscabrera5311
      @carloscabrera5311 6 лет назад +4

      Sparkz Mentalz depends how long they lasted together and what damage was done. A one night for example, he messed up but he's good looking ? Like Corey says; flip a coin...lol 🤣🤣

    • @jessmanley3701
      @jessmanley3701 5 лет назад +4

      Ok don't hate me but the woman in this perfectly described me but I hate it and I can't help it. It has nothing to do with them acting like men or women though. I realy like a guy but when I'm in the relationship, it freaks me out and I break up with them. I play with them and I hate myself for it. Idk what to do because I can't commit. I may be only 15 but it happens with every guy and when it does happen, it's like a dark cloud comes over me and I want to avoid them at all costs. My ex was the most generous and caring person ever who supported how I felt but I broke up with him for this reason. Now I regret it but it I was to get back with him, it would just repeat itself. I wish i could help it or get someone to understanc what I'm feeling but I doubt anyone will.

  • @jamescurran3574
    @jamescurran3574 4 года назад +32

    Her: I'm confused, I just dont know..
    Me: I'm not, bye now

  • @Legitimatekid
    @Legitimatekid 4 года назад +35

    I ended up doing the same thing with my ex. We did end up getting into a committed relationship, but it didn't last long. If I would have just enjoyed the time I was spending with her rather than focusing on a relationship and just let things develop naturally I would probably still be seeing her today.

  • @mav1877
    @mav1877 6 лет назад +31

    Great example of the more you persist, the more they resist.

  • @eduar-b1238
    @eduar-b1238 6 лет назад +155

    UnderArmour should sponsor coach Corey wayne

  • @dvanaken89
    @dvanaken89 6 лет назад +25

    My man! This video hit home for me, prefect timing... Corey Wayne has never steered anybody the wrong way. Thanks man.

  • @riley530
    @riley530 3 года назад +2

    You hit the nail on the head. I'm actually blown away. I needed to hear this!

  • @jasonbarbosa708
    @jasonbarbosa708 6 лет назад +2

    Corey you are a scholar and a gentleman. Thank you for everything you have done for men and woman. Bought your book a week ago and am already half way through it, just downloaded the audible version. Will be donating whatever funds I can! Thank you again, I’m excited to create the dating life I’ve always wanted!

  • @Toineuchiha
    @Toineuchiha 6 лет назад +66

    This is like AskHodgetwins, exept he gives actual useful advice and doesn't completely roast the person asking for help😂

  • @Don-pk2uy
    @Don-pk2uy 6 лет назад +28

    this bro is incredible

  • @nightnol
    @nightnol 3 года назад +8

    This man has helped me see myself in ways I didn't see before. I've been out with some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. Now I have the knowledge and wisdom to walk away from the ladies that aren't a match for me, even if they're supermodel attractive. Thanks coach!

  • @SediMusic
    @SediMusic 5 лет назад +8

    I love the subtle hilarious comments he says.. great stuff!

  • @1-7-0-1
    @1-7-0-1 6 лет назад +5

    Coach, I absolutely appreciate and enjoy every video you've practically ever made, but this one hit close to home on so many levels, it may very well be my favorite of all time, so perfectly put you can write essays on what you just imported here!
    Donation on the way..
    Thank You so very much!
    Dean

  • @gnnaal
    @gnnaal 6 лет назад +2

    KUDOS for repping the Starks and Targaryens! You are the man Coach! Thanks for all you do in helping rekindle romance.

  • @nebulae10
    @nebulae10 6 лет назад +1

    Looking forward to the new book and tweaking things tight.. Thanks Corey..

  • @itsagoodday2165
    @itsagoodday2165 6 лет назад +11

    You definitely should have more subscribers! Thank you as always. Hopefully one day there will be a book from you for women as well. Coach, you are the best!

    • @philreypaderogao3520
      @philreypaderogao3520 6 лет назад +1

      That book is also for women...(Coach already said that many times in his previous videos) So you'll know what a normal female that has her shit together will normally act based on the actions of a guy..hahahahaha

    • @HowToTutorialHelp
      @HowToTutorialHelp 5 лет назад

      They need to be coached to be feminine and submissive and then we will all be happy.

  • @lmErnest
    @lmErnest 5 лет назад +10

    I call it the squirrel method. Placing the nut closer and closer then you can snag them. Just remember you don't always get the squirrel. Sometimes it hard to let go of the ones you really want. Learn from it and repeat. Most of the time it's the girls issue. You did it once you can do it again. Always be ready to walk away.

  • @olamidefalowo1407
    @olamidefalowo1407 Год назад

    Really insightful and helpful, thanks for this.

  • @JSoulKeys
    @JSoulKeys 4 года назад +1

    Big congratulations on 400k subs my dude!!! Thanks for all your work

  • @anjomarortega2322
    @anjomarortega2322 6 лет назад +1

    Absolutely right thank you coach

  • @spyrol
    @spyrol 4 года назад +1

    I just had hernia surgery and when I saw this video I laughed so hard that I got scared my stiches would pop out, you are a very funny guy!

  • @RYEINDUSTRIAL
    @RYEINDUSTRIAL 6 лет назад +6

    This was me a couple months ago. Im still giving off the relationship vibe with girls Im really attracted to. Hard to admit since I have been following the book for a while now. Time to read it again and freshen up.

    • @everzamora9031
      @everzamora9031 6 лет назад +1

      RYEINDUSTRIAL Don't eat where you shit bruh👌

  • @simonescarantino5568
    @simonescarantino5568 Год назад +1

    If she says she’s confused and want you to waith she just want to have you around as replacement

  • @DeanRam23
    @DeanRam23 6 лет назад +5

    8:45 Goddamn it! I knew you were the coach for me hahah badass!The Last Jedi is near =]

  • @timdunk7278
    @timdunk7278 6 лет назад +10

    Got to admit that after fifteen years, there's bound to be habits to remove in such a friendship - to move on...

  • @bigchile2325
    @bigchile2325 3 года назад

    Omg thank you so much Mr. Corey Wayne I use to make the mistake of over pursuing. Thank you so much for keeping me focused on my goals and dreams. Now I let women come to me. Love you bro thanks you so much .
    This is life changing knowledge once truly learn the material.
    Btw Thank you!!!

  • @bradbyrd4485
    @bradbyrd4485 5 лет назад +3

    OMG I heard those exact words. Exact situation!

  • @thisgustin
    @thisgustin 4 года назад +36

    What kind of love is this? I don’t want a relationship with a f**kin’ cat

    • @scottthegreat9393
      @scottthegreat9393 3 года назад +3

      I know man, but I’d say about 95% of women are like this. Just keep raising your value as a man & find a women who brings you more value than just her looks.

  • @daryoushsami6121
    @daryoushsami6121 5 лет назад +2

    Hey mentor, thanks so much, yes thanks so much at this moment

  • @joshuamac6302
    @joshuamac6302 5 лет назад +3

    My goodness. I didnt know. Exactly what Im going through!!!

  • @ebidash
    @ebidash 6 лет назад +1

    Man !!you’re the best!!

  • @harrietl9765
    @harrietl9765 6 лет назад +7

    Coach Wayne Your awesome.

    • @H8H8H8
      @H8H8H8 6 лет назад

      Sandra Hooper you're 😆

  • @7777anonymous
    @7777anonymous 5 лет назад +6

    Holy shit this all makes sense now. I was starting to get really pissed off because she basically told me I was a great guy but she wasn’t sure how she felt about me. I just couldn’t understand that but now I know I just have to back off.

  • @Vpopov81
    @Vpopov81 6 лет назад +2

    sick setup Corey!

  • @blkplaguelmc
    @blkplaguelmc 2 года назад

    We love you coach

  • @4812megan
    @4812megan 2 года назад +2

    She has seen him for 15 years as simply a friend and cannot see him as a partner.
    She is confused because he is still behaving like he has for the last 15 years.

  • @TheBishop12
    @TheBishop12 5 лет назад +6

    The reason why she says she is not ready for a relationship and is confused is because you’ve fallen off your masculine frame and she sees you more as a friend (you’ve probably done too much platonic things) and doesn’t want to commit cause she doesn’t want to take the chance that the friendship will end if she fully gives herself to you. She all likely does care a lot for him due to history but the longer you know a woman and don’t pull the trigger and focus your message on what you want the more a woman will want to be just friends but never commit. I guess it is true that you let women come to you. It has to be their idea. But women can also be skittish. She subconsciously wants it to be her idea but her societal mindset doesn’t because women always play the victim. Oh it was his idea but I went along with it (subconsciously), the date sucked, he made me go on a date with him. Conversely if the date went well, she will forget the converse and be like oh I was right (my womanly intuition) all along I’m glad I gave him a chance this turned out much better than I thought. Fine lines here.

  • @Torchzy
    @Torchzy 6 лет назад +1

    Aye coach you the 🐐🐐🐐💪

  • @xilix
    @xilix 6 лет назад +16

    I just lost the love of my life doing all the wrong shit, and I wish I had snapped out of it sooner and returned to form. This shit is real. Never, ever enter desperation-mode, or try to talk a woman into anything. It's always the wrong move. Just relax, keep doing you, and listen to Corey's advice.

  • @777dave
    @777dave Год назад +1

    What makes the content by Corey Wayne so good is that it’s just the same stuff applied to all kinds of scenarios. The same philosophies, quotes and humor like
    1. The cat analogy
    2. Love in a way the other feels free
    3. Hang out have fun hook up

  • @jjuniper274
    @jjuniper274 6 лет назад +12

    Omg...this sounds SO familiar! Now I know why I say the things I say! It is partly because of them being too clingy, and me wanting my freedom. Next time, I'll mention your work, maybe before we date, haha. Spot on Corey!

    • @tropicallifestyle723
      @tropicallifestyle723 6 лет назад

      Jen Mulyck lol

    • @Brian_Barby
      @Brian_Barby 6 лет назад +3

      I've been following Coach for a year now and I had mentioned him to my sister because her boyfriend was exhibiting a lot of beta male clingy behavior which she couldn't stand and was about to leave him. Two months later she states,"Wow! That guy really knows his shit! Now it's like night and day with him...confident, happy, more masculine, and not up my ass 24/7 anymore!" Lol

  • @kevinkang4427
    @kevinkang4427 Год назад

    I wish I came across this video earlier! Thank you

  • @timmeeyy2103
    @timmeeyy2103 6 лет назад +1

    lol, shit. man, you're gold :'D laughing my ass off over your brutal (but funny) honesty. keep on doing what you do, mate!

  • @MasterKrzystar
    @MasterKrzystar 2 года назад

    Corey it was like a revellation! But I must say that for me, for my brain, reading the book is not enough, I need examples, I need to find a video about simmilar situation to understand by the example! When the brain is fixed on the girl we REALLY like it is almost impossible to understand the fundamentals unless we find similar situation from another guys problem! I don’t know if it is not to late in my case, but is clear now that the girl must have like me very much she put up for so long and trying to help me saying ‚i do not want anything, i just want to do some stuff with You’ whenever i started to initiate something or showing off to much or even bantering to much. It was to much for her. But when i do nothing when she stops texting, she just get back to me in a day or two and ask to meet. But if I get to cocky or show to much confidence in bantering, she backs off. Happy new year! :)

  • @ninadoratic7495
    @ninadoratic7495 Год назад +2

    I was that girl with one guy I really liked, but there was more things that didn't feel right with him.
    I thought it's because he was too feminine and insecure, but even when he behaved more masculine I just didn't feel that connection! I wasn't attracted to him sexually, even though we connected emotionally, spiritually.. The more he tried to convince me the more I got repulsed by him..
    I couldn't see him more than just a friend.. ( but I chose not to be, because it was not possible/healthy)
    Conclusion : MAYBE is (still) NO.
    My advice is to move on and have self respect.

    • @StevensBorowsky
      @StevensBorowsky 7 месяцев назад

      Typical with mentally ill western women

  • @redxiii1810
    @redxiii1810 6 лет назад +1

    Sick reference bro

  • @frankfleming9558
    @frankfleming9558 4 года назад

    When i read on a subject i want to understand , I go back over the book one paragraph at a time and read it until I feel like I’m eating the words rather than them being a wall of text.

  • @crf122
    @crf122 3 года назад

    This is good stuff

  • @andresribas1060
    @andresribas1060 4 года назад +4

    Hang out have fun hookup. Ignore her let her call/ msg you first set up the date have fun let her come to you if she says no relationship/ space relax don’t worry about that. take your time. call me when you really miss me let’s just have some fun

  • @bostjantrancar9605
    @bostjantrancar9605 6 лет назад +1

    Intresting video's all true.... 👍

  • @p1nesap
    @p1nesap 6 лет назад +37

    I like that about *sexual polarity*

  • @redfloyd69
    @redfloyd69 4 года назад

    I laughed so many times during this

  • @kipter456
    @kipter456 6 лет назад +2

    Nice tee coach.

  • @Ascension_3030
    @Ascension_3030 4 года назад +8

    So many guys are such astounding simps nowadays. Its borderline criminal how their masculinity got squashed. This is so cringe worthy

  • @CameronBaileyQuote
    @CameronBaileyQuote 6 лет назад

    I'll leave you a email today coach...I'm in a unique situation with a girl I was dating. I hope you make a video about it.

  • @Champ1988
    @Champ1988 6 лет назад +2

    It's OK! She just doesn't know where she's able to be at this point in her life.

  • @tyrius7629
    @tyrius7629 4 года назад

    this man is spittin

  • @stevensjoseph95
    @stevensjoseph95 6 лет назад

    Corey wayne you're the best.💪

  • @leoarguello2
    @leoarguello2 6 лет назад

    Love ur vids

  • @THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG
    @THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG 6 лет назад

    LEGEND

  • @ragedragon8883
    @ragedragon8883 5 лет назад +3

    Relationships are hard but if you just have trust in each other and faith in each other it would get easier and if she says she needs Giver space give her space
    Because she could like you but you're not really sure if it's going anywhere just give it time
    To think
    We all think that if she says she needs space thats the whole world is going to end

  • @provost5752
    @provost5752 5 лет назад +6

    These damn non stop RUclips commercials make it damn near impossible to watch anything anymore.

  • @noorsyiam6981
    @noorsyiam6981 3 года назад

    The game of thrones banners in the background tho
    Epic

  • @RearAdmiralTootToot
    @RearAdmiralTootToot 6 лет назад +5

    Love the Stark Targaryen pride in the background

  • @ArrogantKey
    @ArrogantKey 6 лет назад +2

    This might be your best video

  • @svenk5221
    @svenk5221 4 года назад +3

    Wow the girl I'm dating says the exact same stuff to me. She said becoming my gf would be total logical but she just doesn't feel it. She cares a lot for me, reaches out everyday and the sex is incredible but every time I brought up the relationship thing she pulls away. I just realized I chase. Needed that video and I have to read the book more often (2 times yet but it's really not enaugh)
    Thank you very much

    • @hushanimation2855
      @hushanimation2855 3 года назад +2

      Why are you guys having sex without a commitment first??? This is a VERY common mistake I see people in failed relationships make.

  • @ThiefKingofLegend
    @ThiefKingofLegend 5 лет назад +1

    It's hard to wait for her to chase when I'm leaving the country soon

  • @donkndave7811
    @donkndave7811 6 лет назад +2

    Mangina! Bahaha! I get the best new words from Corey. It's funny, when I go out now I can see the ones being that way.

    • @Don-pk2uy
      @Don-pk2uy 6 лет назад +2

      2001 called and wanted its saying back

  • @hedgehog1893
    @hedgehog1893 6 лет назад

    The fun bus...hahaha

  • @geneisxincuenta9447
    @geneisxincuenta9447 6 лет назад

    Hey coach. I was searching through your videos and couldn’t find any of them talking about handling a date where the girl brings a friend. Recently a girl of the past got in touch with me and we will have a date this next week but im worried about her bringing one of her girlfriends and if she does do i say something like “you should of told me to bring a friend too” or say “I wanted to spend time with you but you brought a friend and I think that’s not cool so call me when you figure out whether you want to hangout romantically or you want a buddy because im certainly not here for that.” I would like to know what you think? Or how youd handle it?

  • @danielmateofitness7618
    @danielmateofitness7618 4 года назад +1

    If your test and security is that high, you can keep it real with your girl and still show your heart and emotion lol. If shes with you already shes aware of your value to other people. Also def don't want to be too pushy to the point of annoyance.

  • @CameronBaileyQuote
    @CameronBaileyQuote 6 лет назад +10

    He went from the friend zone Coach...I thought that never worked.

  • @stevehirsch8413
    @stevehirsch8413 6 лет назад

    I just started learning from your videos and yes I'm going through what's looks like it's going to be a break up after four years... Can somebody please tell me the name of "the book" that is always being talked about? I went to the website and there is a whole bunch books so I'm not sure where to start...

  • @ledenonebo6927
    @ledenonebo6927 6 лет назад

    Game of Thrones flag behind hahahag awesome

  • @epicvibration1759
    @epicvibration1759 3 года назад

    Even if he stopped asking, it could also be his energy, a tension or the way he's acting that's causing her to feel this way, so maybe he really WASN'T asking near the end, but still being needy.

  • @bebelvillar4390
    @bebelvillar4390 4 месяца назад

    Run!

  • @Kaprlaalis
    @Kaprlaalis 6 лет назад

    Totally sounds like my situation. I wish I read the book and saw this video 3 months ago... I'm implementing no contact strategy, she texts me once a week and sounds like a robot all.the time - "what's good, what's new", I guess I blew it this time because I replied that I'm not interested in virtual communication by the principle of "what's good, what's new" and I dont have time for that. I said that I would love to meet her and then we can talk even about everything. Until then, next time she write's me the same questions - she will have to buy me a dinner. (In a playful manner). I suggested that we use texting only to set up a date. - no response to this for 6 days now. We'll see. I guess I was a bit harsh. :D

    • @contactogeocastfrn7251
      @contactogeocastfrn7251 6 лет назад +1

      Angry Acorn sounds like a boring girl who has nothing else going on in her life. I just let them text me and try to set up a date if they don’t I just tell them to get back to me once they figure out their schedule and leave it at that.

    • @bhaweshjan02
      @bhaweshjan02 6 лет назад

      3 Percenter yes ur right sounds like a boring gal who's not open to real life experiences.

  • @tinychamberz
    @tinychamberz 6 лет назад +1

    Did he just call him toilet paper? :D

  • @ALEXANDERNEVERMIND1958
    @ALEXANDERNEVERMIND1958 21 день назад

    LET ME HEAR THAT JARGON AGAIN: “I NEED SPACE” FROM A HYPOTHETICAL STANDPOINT, IM JUST GONNA FALL OFF A CLIFF.

  • @bennyblanco6704
    @bennyblanco6704 2 года назад

    😂 the cat is not purring let it go !!

  • @ScribbleVicious
    @ScribbleVicious 6 лет назад

    My ex moved in with her mother and my 2 yr old daughter a few months ago. She said she wanted to be together but wanted to work on herself. She has a ton of anxiety issues. One day she loves me and talks to me all day, the next she doesn’t talk to me at all. I always wait for her to contact first. If she doesn’t talk to me that day I don’t say anything. I keep my cool when she is around and I don’t bring up the relationship. I put up with being dragging along the last few months because I got to see my daughter every other day. But obviously I got sick of the situation. My life has been at a standstill. We only had sex once in the last 5 months. Haven’t gone any any dates with her. Just doing family stuff.
    I told her that we need to start progressing forward. I didn’t say she had to move back in or anything extreme. That I wanted to start going on dates with her or I don’t want to talk anymore. I felt like this was reasonable. I’m not going to be dragged along by someone who isn’t sure if she wants to be with me or not. The ultimatum blew up in my face, she flipped out basically. She decided not to be in my life anymore, besides exchanging my daughter. I feel I did the right thing. I guess I got my answer.

    • @MrRba122
      @MrRba122 6 лет назад +1

      ScribbleVicious yep. Move forward. Her loss. Your job is not to save women. Your job is to be with someone that is at the same level as you. Otherwise, problems happen.

  • @elidaqt
    @elidaqt 6 лет назад

    Man of the future 😂

  • @jrdiggie3382
    @jrdiggie3382 4 года назад

    Holy shit this guy’s smart. I’m gonna create some distance man. Thanks

  • @shortingthetrend
    @shortingthetrend Год назад

    This must be an old video cus no background yet. Great to go back and look at the beginning when near the end.

  • @jtyke03
    @jtyke03 6 лет назад

    Coach. Okay here's my story. I dated a great woman (she's 40 & I'm 37) for 1.5 yrs and it was to the point of me about to move in and she even going as far as ring buying and us taking tours of wedding venues. Now a bit of history...we met right after her divorce from a 14 yr marriage and in the 1.5 yr we dated she broke up with me 3 (this being the 4th) times. Usually within a wk she comes back swearing she knows she can't be without me and that she will face her commitment issues from now on instead of running...but 4 mos goes by and she does it again. Now, she did open up the last time we got back together and told me about things that happened to her as a kid and felt that since she finally opened up abkut it, she thinks itll help her let me in 100%. We have never had even one argument and really seriously click. So this time it has been a little over 2 mos since the last split and I admit, I tried like crazy until 2 wks ago to save us (all the things u say not to do) and now have gone total NC the past 2 wks. Before no-contact she said she misses us sometimes, looks at our pics, thinks of us, weekends without me there to wake up with are hard and that I was so good to her but she's admitted to being selfish. She is financially set and I'm comfy but not as set as she is with money...she claims that's part of why she wants to be alone. She doesn't want a bf to answer to right now and wants to go on trips etc as she pleases without wondering if I can afford it at those times. She admitted she knew she was letting a good thing go and it scared her to think she may not find it again but she just doesn't want it right now. But I kept trying (I know, I know) until she told me in email that she doesn't love me and we'll never get back together. Idk if that was anger talking to force me into leaving her alone or if she meant it? Either way, I have left her alone since. She has dated right after we split but swears she's not "seeing" anyone and hasn't met anyone that gives her butterflies like I did/do. So, do you think I'm doomed? Do u think I may have a chance again? What do you think about the situation?

    • @MrRba122
      @MrRba122 6 лет назад +2

      john jones damn. Dude. That sucks. Just let her go. There are thousands of women out there. Her loss. Go meet other women.

    • @vme1111
      @vme1111 6 лет назад +4

      john jones she’s jerking you around, bro. She’s letting you down easy. Move on and forget about her. It’s not advice any of us wanna hear, but it’s the right answer. It’s not fair for you that she’s living her life and exploring options while you’re waiting on her

    • @CH-pc6wz
      @CH-pc6wz Год назад

      @john Jones hope you are okay after 4 years brother! I had something similar and it didn't work! Good luck and all the best!

  • @BeardAxeMcAxeBeard
    @BeardAxeMcAxeBeard 4 года назад

    Director and driver of the fun bus.

  • @mupicap7927
    @mupicap7927 3 года назад

    This on my playlist just to remind me how stupid iam. Lol

  • @servant2478
    @servant2478 6 лет назад

    Hey Coach, there is a woman that touches my shoulder and slowly lets go walks away. I don't make a move because in my job a great job I would get displaced or fired(no bias clause she is a company employee). I read your book 12 times and have not found video that deals with topic. How do I put things on hold? She is not the one, (u know) the one is 4 hours away.

    • @servant2478
      @servant2478 6 лет назад

      no I was trying to say, I cannot go out with them guy or gal. I have situation where is book will not work. Maybe he had video that would keep a woman interested months on out till I accidently run into her in public.

  • @destryl1076
    @destryl1076 2 года назад

    Attraction isn't a choice and if a woman is confused and she is balancing you and another isn't really a bad thing either. Backing off some, but do keep the communication open from time to time usually helps with the confusion and will help her see or miss in the long run

  • @MrTheomighty1
    @MrTheomighty1 3 года назад +1

    My woman of 15 months has told me today why aren’t we talking about moving in together or why no mention of married, why aren’t I inviting you around to be with my family snd spending each and everyday with you . I told her because if I had spoken about it to you you’d be running after 15 months and I’d be either chasing you looking needy or not be with you, then she says she’s confused and doesn’t know what she wants, I’m so confused but I let her initiate contact around 70%, and me 30%. I learned the hard way with my previous ex’s where I’d be trying to tie them down and I’d be the one chasing but with my new woman I’ve done a total 180 I’m letting her come to me and yet she’s still confused about being with us, now what do I do

    • @algrime5111
      @algrime5111 2 года назад

      Give up. 404 error not found

  • @jimgraham4355
    @jimgraham4355 6 лет назад +1

    I live with my ex, we own the home together, no idea what to do from here

  • @robertowences9002
    @robertowences9002 3 года назад

    Thanks for your comment brother but what can you say when my wife likes to talk long time on her cellphone she start in las Vegas with my sisters then to Houston then to Acapulco then to her family but she gets frustrating if my ask for coffee do you think is normal.
    Chilli bean.

  • @tobynorris9259
    @tobynorris9259 6 лет назад

    hey Corey, when is your new book coming out?

  • @maxmaxou8448
    @maxmaxou8448 5 лет назад +1

    I've been with a girl for nearly 6 months with ups and downs. She broke up with me two months ago and said she wants to stay friends, which I refused... I chased for two weeks then I stopped contacting her. I went "no contact", but she kept sending me texts twice a week on average and/or calling, sometimes more, and each time i consistently replied the day after and said that I was not interested in friendship. But she still keeps texting me even when she's on holidays overseas. Yesterday, she reached out, she said she unblocked me on FB and invited me to check her pictures of her holidays... I replied this morning and tried to escalate the discussion but she replied "I don't love you, i don't miss you... I simply appreciate you as a friend..." It's been like 10 times that I tell her I'm not interested to be her friend and she keeps reaching out... What's going on? I want to get her back, what should i do?

    • @RinneganPathMadara
      @RinneganPathMadara 5 лет назад +4

      Seriously? She told you loud and clear she doesn't love or miss you. She just wants to be friends. You don't....so back your words with actions. The last text you send her says you're not interested in being friends and to stop texting you anymore. You get a relationship or you move on...

    • @isaka1293
      @isaka1293 3 года назад

      She test you, it can take much time. You should say.
      Nice to hear from you! Give me a call when you want to hang out and have fun in a romantic way.

    • @Giopowered
      @Giopowered 3 месяца назад

      She’s playing you as a sucker lol she ignored your decline of a friendship and kept pushing it on you to beat your balls.

  • @petermichael8921
    @petermichael8921 6 лет назад +11

    You're literally damned both ways. Corey's tactics work, and these lines mentioned are literally used verbatim. The only problem is the only girls I know who have run this routine are literally down to screw every guy that gets their attention. So, in review, if you're prospect can just come to the table and tell you like it is, that's a lady worth pursuing, but if she's running the routine mentioned in this video, then she is not sold on you and literally is f'ing at least one other dude and playing a hypergamy game with the lot of you. Walk away. If you're into just having fun, sure, play along, but she ain't serious lady material, and of course, you're not ready for that anyway if that's what you're doing.
    I found Corey's tactics like any other on the topic to be correct, but literally lost all respect for the lady when I saw how easily she responded.

    • @farmsalot1233
      @farmsalot1233 4 года назад +1

      That's a you problem

    • @petermichael8921
      @petermichael8921 4 года назад

      @@farmsalot1233 so you're saying good quality women aren't the small minority?