True love is hard to find but when you do it hits hard and there’s nothing like it. I fell in love with my wife but didn’t realize it for six months well we were at a wedding and had a argument and I left and went home. I went to bed and couldn’t get to sleep. After four hours I realized how much I really loved her and went to her house and told her I was wrong and how much I loved her. We been married now for 46 years.
GUYS PRAY FOR SAM AND COLBY THEY BEEN DECEIVED BY DEMONS AND ARE IN DANGER THEY ARE RUclipsRS❤ God wouldnt allow souls to be trapped on earth, its umbilical and never happened all souls belong to God, so you cant sell your soul to the devil❤ And not everyone is a child of God jesus said it himself youre of your father the devil and your desires are to do his will true children of God are the ones who have been born again spiritually and repented from sin❤ So many people say they love God, but most of them never repented from sin and have a personal relationship with him, and love isnt just a feeling love is doing❤ Familiar spirits are demons well if I'm wrong I wasted nothing because I got peace and joy from him, but if you're wrong you wasted your entire life!! ❤️🎉 And demons love when people believe that lie that God doesn't exist and they love it when people don't know they are there ❤I copy n paste this everywhere❤ And no one talks about repentance, God will never lower his standards to be okay with your sins, sins is very serious in the eyes of God hes holy and righteous and it seperates us from him❤ Demons exist, and the devil comes to steal kill and destroy and uses people to do so❤ Btw telling the demon to stay doesnt do anything unless you have the holy spirit you arent safe. People: okay please stay this is your place❤ Demon: okay People: **leaves** Demon: **Goes with them anyway** Demons arent gonna make it obvious they are there so yeah. Demons are fallen angels that uses the form of our passed away loved ones to make us believe ghost exist and the souls of the person we knew still remains here❤❤ Astrology is demonic before my relationship with God I would always do zodiac signs literally just a bunch of sins put into each one I bet if everyone was sinless zodiac signs wouldn't make sense and literally a cover up for demons❤ Hearts are deceitful above all things, listen to God❤ Depression can be a demon you may need deliverance❤ God said unless you're born again spiritually u will not enter the kingdom of heaven also God doesn't judge us by our good works he's judging us by our sins Gods standards are so high he's that HOLY saying oh my God is using Gods name in vain it's called blasphemy ❤ To get to heaven you must believe with all your heart that Jesus died and rose again paid full price for your sins repent and receive his Holy spirit. RUclipsrs I recommend Impact videos ministries David diga Hernandez IsaiahSaldivar Mapalo DLM christian lifestyle Billy garham Danial adams Living waters Mike Signorelli Okay now pray this to be saved and to get to heaven pray out loud Jesus I confess that you are my lord and savior I believe in my heart that God raised you from the dead I ask to receive your holy spirit and I repent of my sins with your help❤ by faith in your word I receive salvation now Thank you for saving me! I am now reborn a christian a child of almighty God I am saved thank you Jesus! *Be genuine when praying this* Watch videos on how to receive Gods holy spirit on YT God creates Jesus redeems The holy spirit changes Now our good deeds and works we think are good are like filthy rags in the eyes of God Things to get rid of in your home 1sage 2dream catchers 3crystals 4crystal ball 5ouija board 6 tarot and angel cards 7religious statues 8demonic movies music or video games 9soul times items 10pornography Now like a theif robbing a store, demons won't make it obvious they are there unless they have to. Now know you can't save yourself Jesus said I am the way the truth and the life You have insurance on your house if it ever caught on fire which rarely happens but when it comes to your soul, you play with it like you have forever to make your choice which you don't 150k+ people Die everyday and you never know when it may be you God spent 9 months shaping and forming you before you were born but only 7 days on earth you're fearfully and wonderfully made beautiful in the eyes of God❤ Don't waste time Hearts are deceitful above all things ask God for wisdom and understanding we are just tiny humans with a 3 pound brain and our imaginations cannot go beyond what we already know❤ Your souls is so valuable both Satan and God want it but it's your choice who you will serve You serve the devil when you Lie Hate Blasphemy Disobey Lazy Gossip Gluttony Wanting what others have cause what God has for you is for you he will never deliver your male to someone else's house Hate And unforgivness And cussing murder and more And once you die, you're locked with your choice of where you're spending eternity God doesn't care about you doing more good then bad cause he's not judging that God never said that's the way to heaven So who's lying you or God? Be serious about this❤ God is holy and righteous God is love So either you would play around because you don't believe hell exist or you don't believe you're going there but the bible makes it very clear The path to destruction is wide and easy many are on it the path to eternal life is hard and nerrow very few find it and to get into heaven u can only enter through the nerrow gate❤ You dont have to wait until you die to know if youre going to heaven you can know right now 100% where youre going❤ Satan doesnt rule hell this is a myth when lucifer known as satan now became prideful and rebelled against God he took many angels with him Demons are fallen angels we live in a spirital and physical world so hell was made for punishment for satan and his angels and the reason why people go there is because they Align themsleves with the devil in SIN! Sin separates us from God and the wages of sin is death if youre found guilty with one sin on judgment day you will not enter the kingdom of heaven so the thing is We us humans broken Gods law and jesus paid the fine! So the good news is you dont have to go to hell if you accept him as your lord and savior! God offered us eternal life as a free gift and you receive it by faith! You dont have to work for it you dont have to pay all you have to do is receive it by faith❤ Don't expect Gods best when you always give him your least don't reject him anymore let him come in and change your life❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
The biggest misconception is that love is a feeling. It isn't. In fact, love is an act of will. Love is when you will still cook your man dinner and bring him a plate even when you're mad at him. Love is when you'll change the oil in your girl's car even after she said something mean or stupid that made you mad. I would argue that if you base love on a feeling, given how fickle and fluctuating feelings are, then you will always be doomed. Because, if your love i based on a feeling, then every time a moment comes where you don't feel a certain way, then in that moment you don't love that person. That isn't real love. Love is the willful commitment to someone regardless of how you feel.
I think you are both right and wrong. Love is DEFINITELY a "Feeling". That "feeling" grows and matures into the "love" you describe. But love is definitely a feeling in the beginning. It is such a STRONG feeling that only those who have FELT it knows what it does to you. It is kind of like a drug because under the influence it takes over a lot of you and controls you... kind of like how alcohol takes over a huge chunk of you, your ability to think, your motor skills, your speech.... Love does this also but different than alcohol. So yes it is absolutely a FEELING and it is such a STRONG feeling you cannot simply dismiss it or deny it. It is amplified when it blindsides you when you were not even looking for it... it REALLY hits you then. To say it is NOT a feeling is just... wrong. Once you get past that part, then it develops into the "unconditional love" that you describe.
A man can buy a woman flowers, candy, sexy lingerie, take her out to dinner and movie, and she still be like "I don't know if he likes me" even though we aren't being subtle but she expects us to outright tell her. Well check this ladies, despite you telling us your deepest darkest secrets and turning into a complete giddy ditz around us, we still gonna be like "I don't know if she like me" until you outright say it.
There's another type of love that far surpasses mere feelings. It's an unconditional love and most people crave it. That kind of love transcends all others and results in a true trust that frees one up to be completely honest at any time and never fear of losing that love.
I am lucky to have been in a relationship where we loved each other unconditionally. I knew it was because the feelings never went away years after we spilt. Fast forward 30 years we are both in our early 50’s and reconnected, the love we had has come straight back. I can only put it down to true love never dies.
*When she hesitates to make long-term plans or seems hot and cold, it’s often because her feelings are deeper than she’s ready to admit. Patience and reassurance go a long way in showing her you’re worth the risk.*
A friend and I became really close after 2 years of knowing each other to the point we shared secrets with each other. One night I opened up and told her about my feelings and she told me she had too much baggage to get into a relationship and felt she didn't deserve anyone. She said nothing would change and we'd still be friends and I took that hard but accepted it. She closed up for a day or two after but then things seemed to be back to normal. However in a month things did change, she wasn't as open with me anymore, we texted less and didn't hang out as much. We started to grow apart and then the texts just stopped. That was 3 years ago and we haven't talked since...
sorry man but she wasn't into you. When a girl says "she has too much baggage to get into a relationship and felt she didn't deserve anyone" just know that she feels bad but your a little too ugly or nice for her and if she wasn't such a whore she would of chose you in a different life but right now she has too many options of ice cream flavors to taste and she feels a little guilty for wanting to try them all. Girls are selfish when they see a guy they really want they will go after them especially if he tells her he wants her. But girls are also nice enough to find ways to turn a guy down but not hurt his feelings if shes really not into them and ghosting always a part of that if they really don't care for you. Rule #1 never share your sad secrets with a girl. Keep that shit to yourself if your not super hot she honestly wont care. And if you are super hot and you decide to share your feelings/sad secrets/past with her she will use it to manipulate you so she can keep you to herself. Don't think about her man just find the points where you went wrong into being the "nice guy" and focus on making your self healthier and your bank account fatter. If your not super hot just focus on being fit and wealthy while learning how to be a more "fun/spontaneous/funny/tough" type of guy. You will have women left and right and you will become a cold mfer because reality is really stupid just like the movies lol. But hey at least your not chasing while wasting your valuable time anymore. keep on staying strong brother never suicide over a girl that don't give no F about you.
@@theunholy1812 Some of that I kinda figured out but it does help hearing someone else say what I was thinking. Yea I'm never sharing secrets again too. I've been over her for a while, this was something I thought to share. Thanks for sharing your wisdom though, and don't worry bro she's not worth giving my life up over.
Exactly! Reading through the comments is terrifying, has confused me more than anything, and is having a toxic effect on my new found optimism and courage. I guess I'll ignore everything and just do it my way, although that approach seems to be ultra wrong according to most people here. I also wonder what the average age in the comment section is.
My gf was afraid of commitment.But we have been in love with each other for 5 years.She is more confident and assertive and does not want to lose me.Her honesty is what still holds me.She knows she has a good man and thankfully doesn't play games.I love her more than ever.
Its really nice when you have a female that cares about you it means she wants too be there for you matter what happens in your life its so cut and powerful too have someone around
If a girl is very nervous, it may be how he speaks or interact with people and she doesn't want to get hurt by him. In this way she is giving him space as she pull off and see if the guy like her too then he has to help her open up the conversation so the fear will reduce andshe will feel confident. But if the guy is reacting somrhow that means he has one kind of intention over her. It's not that she doesn't like him but she doesn't want to regret speaking to him.
Love and fear cannot abide together. Either you ARE love or you operate from fear. This is why it’s so difficult for me to date a women because the woman gets scared of the feelings and is afraid of losing me. This is not love coming from her. Love is not a feeling but who you truly are
@Thunder Life Studios where do you think manipulation comes from? It comes from fear not love. For example, my mother is bipolar and is the master manipulator. She has lost touch with reality and with being real and honest with herself. Everything is everyone e else’s fault and not hers. She does not even realize what she is doing most of the time. This comes from fear and not love. Love forgives and is open and honest. Fear and hate are the opposite
@@jeremyledbetter8022 no... it does not come from fear... it sounds exactly like narcissism. The description you gave are the hallmarks OF narcissism. Everything revolvs around THEM, NEVER their fault... always someone else to blame, she has not lost touch with reality because that IS her reality and yes she does not even realize what she is doing because it is NORMAL behavior for her. The only thing you really didn't mention that is the OTHER big trait in narcissism is the lack of "empathy". They do not feel empathy for others but in fact they do have a TON of empathy.... only it is reserved for THEMSELVES. I worked with a narcissist that was my boss for years... For a few years I had a single word to describe him... CLUELESS... he is either clueless and has no clue what he is doing to others... or he is just an asshole. Then I found out what narcissism is and yep... he is just CLUELESS.... their brains are wired differently than others. They cannot "fix" it or "change" it... it is just the way they are. They do not have empathy so hurting someone in their manipulation to self service themselves so they are "clueless" as to the hurt they cause. BUT... they can TRAIN themselves to UNDERSTAND that when they do THIS it makes other people PISSED OFF and it HURTS them. So they CAN know and understand that if... then... type of ideology so they cannot understand the "feeling" of the other person but they can absolutely KNOW that IF they do this THEN that is what happens. Pick your battles to fight... find a way to not engage with her about it... because that just results in her being the innocent one, EVERYONE ELSE is at fault and she is the victim... You know... the BRICK WALL you beat your head against.... Don't ENGAGE about it... blow it off and soon after do the exact same thing to HER... and yes... she will become unhinged... it will be the END OF THE WORLD as she rants and raves about what YOU did to her.... and when she calms down a little you simply say it SUCKS HUH? Remember this morning or yesterday morning... you did that to ME or WHOEVER ... it don't FEEL good does it? But it has to be short enough time for them to remember actually doing it... it will implant a CONNECTION between their ACTION and the EFFECT of their action and they will FEEL the hurt caused the one it was directed to... she won't feel YOUR pain... but HER pain when you did it to HER and she still can't feel YOUR pain but she now has a connection between what she DOES and how it affects YOU when she does it... because you made HER feel it for HERSELF. It works... and it DOES allow them to not KNOW the pain they cause but to at least UNDERSTAND that when they do THIS then THAT happens and also FEEL the pain of THAT happens to other becuase it SUCKED for them. It's not that they WON'T change, or CAN'T change... its the fact that they are CLUELESS that they are even DOING the bad thing. I am not a psychologist but this method comes from experience, real world experience dealing with a narcissist that even had position and title above mine and the "power" to rule the underlings under him. Psychologist will tell you they are not capable of "fixing" their condition, they are just wired that way and cannot change the way they are... but this method does allow them to LEARN and KNOW that what they do will do that to you when they do it... It is the best you can hope for and at least it is proven to work... at least on THIS narcissist I dealt with... and even then I had to pick and choose the battles I fought with him. Hope this helps some.... not exactly "on topic" for the thread but eh.... :)
Feelings and emotions are not love, they lead us towards a person but if this does not follow then it is just feelings and sometimes mean as hell, which I found out as many have. Here is a Bible definition of love..."4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs. 6 Love takes no pleasure in evil, but rejoices in the truth. 7 It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
The relationship paradigm has shifted from a traditional model to finding relationships that support your soul growth. People are evolving at a significant rate and it’s beginning to make more sense to opt out of relationships until you are aware of and connected to the authentic self within, not the self that is composed of mental constructs that give you an identity.
People are devolving, not evolving. People go to work, come home, consume cheap entertainment, sleep, and repeat. People don't have friends anymore, they don't have strong families anymore. They don't have a culture. They don't have a purpose. There's nothing noble about the way people live. Intentionally isolating themselves even further is just about the worst thing anyone can do.
@@christopherenders4280 Only yourself can solve your own problems. Going in a relationship can fill the void created by those problems, just like drugs or alcohol. Pain is there for a reason and when we erase it, it allow us to keep going instead of stopping to look into ourselves. Once we go pass that, a relationship can take a different meaning... It's not the peoples who are devolving, it's society which influence human thoughts toward the fragmentary thinking of division and fragmentation in the name of control (which is money, but control existed before money).
How about a video explaining the subtle (or not so subtle) differences between terms like “dating”, “in a relationship”, “seeing each other”, etc. For example, does one term imply a sexual relationship while another term implies no sexual engagement?
Someone who play games are either imature, toxic af (because this makes them feel empowered by toying with you) or they like your attention but not you. Someone who is serios don't play games. They like you and make this very clear.
Friendship is a powerful asset to have in life. And, it can grow deep. Tread carefully and be considerate of the complexity of the other person. And that way you will figure out which path it is.
@@silencescreams4680 Or... turn into your "sister" more or less. And yes.. they can be just "friends" and still "love" each other just as you would love your sister.
Hi Anna, you know I think we're all a bit scared, love is so much fun, I refuse to give up! I hope you dance!! The dance of love is a furious force! Also the most calming affect!
Trust me Joyanima, no girl ever loved me. I was a creepy bad guy with lustful intentions. No not on a conscious level, but I learned later in life that I am addicted to lust! I never dated or loved/ was loved by anyone ever.
What gets me is all the mix messages I seem to get. Example is I will respect a situation so will inquire in a certain way so as not to make a scene at her work. She says no on one thing so I just think to myself ok I got a answer so all good. Then two minutes later I get told that I was kind in how I asked my question then proceeded to ask me what I was doing rest of day. I just shook my head and was like what the heck lol
We had a hilarious first day! She signed off the dm with "Sleep with the angels." Then we were supposed to meet up and she ghosted me. I asked to meet her again, she was busy. Then I figured she wanted me to go away but I wanted a direct answer. She wrote..."Our meeting was a fluke." I wrote back...I will accept a "fluke' and I will not bother you again . Take care! Mark All gone!
Well almost all the signs you talk about are in my girlfriend but I never understand her girls are so complicated sometimes and deceiving. However my girlfriend always nervous and shy around me and she apologies quite a lot. she text me a lot everyday.
This was a good video and I get where you’re coming from but there is one issue worth mentioning. At the beginning you give a definition for the word Love: “The meaning of the word Love is an intense feeling of affection for someone” I feel that many people have problems in relationships because they are misled and thus don’t really have the proper definition of love. When one’s understanding of love is that love is a “feeling” it’s also easy to believe that love is gone once it no longer feels the same, and then to act on that by giving up on the relationship assuming love has gone. If people believe that they will be inclined to bail rather than do the necessary things to rekindle those feelings through actually living out what true love is, if that makes sense. There is a huge difference between “falling in love” and real love. When people speak of “falling in love” they knowingly or not speak of a self-centered thing. A feeling of pleasure, the desire for gratification and feeling the gamut of chemical-induced reactions and emotions that accompany becoming addicted to someone new is not really love, those are things mistakenly called love. We all know inwardly, or should know anyway, what this really is- desire- but to make it sound respectable people come up with terms like “falling in love.” Such feelings can begin to happen immediately upon meeting someone and there is no guarantee that these feelings are going to last or that they represent any greater truth. “Falling in love” (feeling desire) has nothing to do with what love actually is. The term is greatly misleading. People don’t want to seem thirsty so instead they choose “love” as a cute substitute word for desire. It sounds higher and better to tell someone you love them than it does to say that you desire them. But desire and loving the time one spends with someone is not the same thing as actually loving someone. That definition is all wrong. On the other hand actual love when shown has true substance beyond any emotions or feelings. Over time the accumulation of benefits given and the weight of true acts of love give proof of the existence of love. Love is a verb, it is an action word. One cannot without lying claim to love someone or to have loved someone unless or until that has been proven over a period of time and consistently. Love (not the feelings that people call love, just love by its correct definition) can only be confirmed following action and can only be revealed and proven with hindsight. Love is the opposite of self-centered feelings. It involves placing the well-being of another over one’s own feelings. Love is something sacrificial (not in a religious sense, rather it involves the actual sacrifice of self-will in the caring and providing for another) and results in tangible, materialized and infinitely valuable benefits to the other person. Sure one can promise to another to truly love them- but whether that promised love is true can only be determined through the unfolding of time as love is given and tangible benefits are produced. Someone just meeting another person or only just entering into a relationship with not yet having had any opportunity to live out a life displaying actual love on a day-to-day basis can not truthfully say to that other person, yet, that they love them without it being untruthful. And yet people say, “I love you” all the time to someone they’ve just met. Well no, sorry, you don’t and haven’t loved them yet. What such people are really saying is, “I desire you and gosh I really like how I feel when I’m around you!” If two people feel desire, tell each other they love each other but then only proceed to gratify their feelings and never give true, sacrificial love to one another that relationship will run out of steam fast because all they’ve done was cater to self-gratification. When the initial romantic feelings lessen as they inevitably will there’s no solid foundation underneath for that relationship to stand upon. People end up “disappointed in love” or feeling that “there’s no such thing.” And that’s the issue I have with the vast majority of dating advice videos. They perpetuate the teaching and leading people to believe that their own feelings are love and that the techniques to connect with someone for self-gratification are proper ways to show love. It really does matter what definitions we use. If we wish for and pursue real things and if we want those real things to last it’s important that we not confuse how to obtain something real with how to obtain fleeting gratification. It’s important that we not confuse our first steps toward something real with the thing which is real itself. Everyone wants true, real love. It’s not easy to come by. But it’s easy for a content creator to promise a path to Love and instead give people easy, workable tips on how to achieve mere self-gratification (sex) and pass such methods off as the way to actually get Love. That’s disingenuous. Sure, it’s theoretically possible that a tinder hookup might result in love, one never knows! But if I put out a video on ‘how to find love’ and the content was basically ‘how to swipe left and hook up’ that wouldn’t be honest. My vid should be called ‘How to hook up’ so as not to mislead and waste the time of a person looking for info on love rather than info on easy hook-ups. There’s a difference between meeting a person and keeping them. The majority of dating advice videos focus only on meeting someone. There are endless videos on that but very few on how to love and keep someone long term avoiding break-ups and divorce. Videos which claim to be about love should actually be about love, not about how to satisfy one’s own desires for sex, imho. Finding and keeping true love is a lot harder to do and much more important than simply knowing how to strike up a conversation, establish a connection and determine whether the other person wants to get laid. Not that that’s not good info to know but labeling feelings and desires ‘Love’ is to confuse the definition of something lasting and real with that of something temporary. That encourages people to unwittingly lie to one another and to mistake the result they get as a shot at the ‘real deal’ when in fact it’s anything but, and when these temporary ‘relationships’ quickly dissolve it reinforces the idea that true Love doesn’t exist, only passing pleasures. In turn people get disillusioned; just read the comments section under any of these vids and you’ll find disappointed people who have come to believe there is no such thing as true love because heck even the “experts” don’t know!
To some extent this book is ridiculous, the the difference between love and lust is very clear. Do you think about and care for that person, do you feel real chemistry, even when apart! or do you think about what you want to do with that person sexually! A bit of both is ok, but one much more than the other tells you whether it is love or lust.
Honestly, I'm just here for your voice. I know she's not into me much (she's an ex who texted me and got me hooked again instantly), but maybe... I dunno. I'd love to see her at least. See someone after so long.
I quite liked a woman at work, probably about 10 years older than me. We seemed to have chemistry, staring into each others eyes long after we finished talking and couldn’t help but simile. It seemed like there was tension there too at times if we didn’t talk, almost as if we weren’t purposefully talking to each other because we wanted to other one to say something first. I also got the feeling that she didn’t like me talking to this other woman that she didn’t get along with, as if I didn’t want to talk to her, when in fact the opportunity was true. I would catch her staring at me from across the room, I would just look back. If one of us was walking past we would stare in each others eyes for a while and smile. Just recently she seemed to up the ante, one day she just stared at me like she was in love, she seemed a bit more nervous around the whole staring and smiling thing. That’s when I think I fell in love. Who knows? Maybe she just liked staring at people, how do I know she wasn’t just trying to manipulate me? She’s an immigrant and maybe that sort of intensity is normal where she is from. Sometimes I think she may have liked my friend more though, he would make her laugh more whereas I would be a bit more serious. Although it didn’t seem like he had the same connection with her as I did, she would bring him books and find excuses to talk to him. Maybe she just found me attractive and wasn’t into my personality as much. I’d never been in a situation where I was doing this intense flirting thing with a woman I really liked. I don’t think anyone else saw what was going on though, so it’s pretty much ignored if I bring it up. My friend would say she would outrageously flirt with him. Here’s the main thing though, she’s married. So, is she just playing games and wants the attention? When I didn’t speak to her for a whole day she started to cry. Was this because she wasn’t getting that daily validation or that she actually liked me? I really liked her, I couldn’t wait to see her everyday. I would imagine being in a relationship with her and generally just being loving. She, on the other hand, may not have really cared at all. Now it’s all I can think about and I’m not sure if I’ll ever see her again.
I have a similar situation. Shes older than me and it feels like she seemed to not like the fact i had interaction with another girl. It feels like she also likes another guy at work more, although she never spoke to him. What happened to her and you?
Nah, men are taught to have confidence and go after what they want. Now it’s the woman’s turn to show the man that she has confidence and go after me. For me, it’s “me” until the girl proves to me it should be “we”
A female friend who I haven't seen in a long time came to visit & commented on my eyes saying I have beautiful eyes of course had I known then what I know now I wouldn't of quoted my favorite show & commented something nice back to her she also enjoyed that I wore a shirt she got me for my birthday last year made her happy
Was in a situation with a female best friend. We had chemistry and of course I fell in love with her. She was absolutely beautiful and amazing in every sense. Of course I told her more than once how I felt about her and never got the same back in return. She’s all I think about even until now and it’s been quite hard to move on knowing I don’t have a choice. It’s crazy cause even now kno matter who I’m with or what I’m doing I’m dropping everything to b with her. I knew something was there and I think she did too and it was so powerful never felt anything like it. Don’t think I will ever love anyone as much as her. I still love u McGrath and always will!!
I know what you are talking about and can feel your pain. Couldn't be worse. I won't say that I hope you will get over it. You can't. But I hope someday you will find someone who appreciates that you are capable of such deep feelings. You deserve it.
same shit happened with me at work, for 6 months me and this woman ate breakfast and lunch together everyday, I knew she was attracted to me, she's about 7 yrs older and at first I had no interest sexually I just wasn't bothered, she asked me to go walking with her along the beach front one day walking back from the canteen over to the main hospital building and I said no then when she asked me to do some work in her apartment I said no, when she asked to watch a movie I said no, I went to the pub on her birthday and opened up a bit and kissed her but after I text and said I didn't want anything serious, she stopped talking with me which hurt bad, we did start talking again ( mistake ) after 2/3 months we're texting and I ask her to spend an evening together, she doesn't respond, I stop speaking with her, she ends up in A+E by the end of the week feeling sick, she thought I'd be working there, I go to see her and we have a very long talk, she either couldn't remember or said I misinterpreted everything she said and said we are friends, when she rejected me I felt intense emotional pain and when I did it to her she felt the same so much so she felt physically sick, I no longer talk to her we act like we are invisible to each other( it's easier ), I've never felt anything like it in my life and don't want to again, I still have to see her but avoid her as much as possible, this connection wasn't like ooh I wanna fuck this woman it was something way way beyond that like we could feel each others emotions, so anyway I feel your pain man and know exactly what you're talking about, all the best from Ireland
@@brianbadonde8700 im sorry but it seems like you both wasted signifigant amounts of each others time, why go on breakfast and lunch dates everyday, in this intimate sounding situation, reject all advances, then go get drunk and makeout, if you did not like her at least a bit. she probably did the same in retaliation later on. seems like you werent that connected if you didnt wanna see her outside of the pub or snack time. maybe you guys shouldnt have known each other :P
I seen on Jerry spinger although some say it's fake.. they will cry their eyes out saying they love you after you find out they cheat on you. Some may not care..some would say love isn't enough.
Dear Joy, my first love 42 years ago is back again, but she is in no contact. I do not know if this is the problem, or if she is too married. She left me hanging.
I've watched a number of different clips by various uploaders from both the woman's and men's point of view for the fun of it and to get an insight into how young people view this subject and how they are interacting with today's world I've studied people, psychology and psychotherapy all of my 70 years on the planet and your clip has the hallmarks of good information done from quite a logical aspect without any hype To me the most important sign a person who really cares about you will show you is respect That doesn't mean being weak and as a matter of fact it requires strength to show respect but it does seem to be something that people in general are missing these days A well produced and presented clip
Because the parents are not teaching "respect" to the children for the most part.. and the "red ass" syndrome has become "child abuse" for the most part... now when they do stupid shit or things that they shouldn't do... its a "time out" to go "think" about what you did. I can tell you I got a case of "red ass" a time or 2 growing up... got my OWN switch, and thought I outsmart them by picking the one I wanted vs the one they wanted lol. The WORST was the "sit and think about it" while the "red ass" comes later on after I thought about it.... not knowing when you gona get it, you think a little HARDER about what you did lol. Child abuse... um... no... I was never abused as a kid. I don't hold it against them. Mom/Dad both were not religious, didn't go church.... cussed like sailors.... and to this very day it feels "wrong" to cuss in front of them.... even though they have "sailor mouth" themselves lol. When a word does slip out, I still feel the "guilt" of doing it. They were not even overly "strict" either. The talk about alcohol was that they rather me not do it but if I do it then do it at home instead of trying to hide it and then trying to get home after... rather me do it AT home than out there trying to hide it. Same with tobacco. Had a friend over one day and he had a cigarette and mom came in and he threw it trying to hide it and guess what? She gave HIM the same speech I got... If you gonna do it, don't try and HIDE it and burn the house down in the process. So... ya I got "red ass" a time or 2 or 3... or lol. But I was NOT abused. When you see an article in the paper that says "6 or 7 year old shoots mom/dad because they took away their XBox as punishment"... I think it is a CLUE that "time outs" are not exactly WORKING very well and maybe "RED ASS" syndrome needs to make a comeback. If you have a dog that chews up your shoe and you tell the dog NO! BAD DOG! but do it in the "Good Boy" voice.... what is the dog going to think when you say NO! BAD DOG!? He will continue chewing up your shoes because there is no consequences FROM chewing up your shoe.... unless you have an ASSHOLE dog that KNOWS he not supposed to... runs in and grabs your shoe and sits down and looks u in the eye with the shoe in his mouth and sits just far enough away that you can't reach him and soon as u go to get up, takes off with your shoe.... anyway!!!! lol
I have a friend who acts like this, but her work is complicated. She works for the State Department. I didn't realize how I felt about her until almost was too late. Now she's overseas for a year.
with my luck I always meet or know or even work with women interested in me but they never express their feelings about me to me, nor communicate openly, nor read my mind, always sending the wrong signals, not going all the way, not finishing what they started, always being shy with me and very flirtatious with other guys, always quiet with me and very talkative with many other guys, always being an introvert only with me, but always showing openly to me that she is not shy with other guys and being an extrovert with them. I take it like a put down that she/them is'/are not interested in me at all, and all she is./they are only teasing me, playing hard to get, mind games, making me jealous etc, etc So I always pull away I dont like to play games. Either you are into me are you are not. Go play games with the other guys. For me when women do that, talk to other guys and have many male friends means that I am a third wheel, she/they treat me as an option and not a priority and that they are promiscuous
There's a girl I like we're not friends just acquaintances so we don't text or talk that much. We see each other and say hello. I asked her out a few years ago and I think it might have been too much too fast or she wasn't ready for a relationship. But we're sort of forced to see each other so I keep it friendly and realized I still have feelings for her. I've been trying to flirt and be funny around her. I might be getting her interest. I'm not asking her out again. Will she come to me and let me know she's interested? I really don't want to ask her out again. I did that. Now it's her turn. Will she take the initiative?
You definitely missed that, some girls are fully confident and assert it even when they really like you. Ive felt this with a girl and we really clicked still 🤷 life is funny so.e times 😅
Confusing from day 1 and insisting we have no relationship, yet 3 months intimacy and chatting in the morning, talking at lunch or a zoom call at lunch, calls me in the evening, and then plays chess with me at night. Soon to 6 months I caught her dating a new guy. She was arrogant, so I asked him and he was pissed
Hello! I'm in couple but the the interaction between woman and men still fascinating me. Thank you so much for helping me learning more. And yes you're very cute!
There is great advice. I'm rewatching again as I am in this situation with a dear friend. Hot dear friend. Alas, hitting 60%... What's it mean she can only flirt with me in front of certain of her friends, including her best friend and certain of her relatives? Wow, some bitter comments...
@@beowulf_of_wall_st I agree and I am moving on. She will remain a trusted friend and has been honest the whole time. Since I've had ex-girlfriends set me up, I'm just not going to burn a bridge.
@@MyrslokstokShow it with actions not words. Ive known this lady for awhile, at first she even admitted for awhile she thought I had some bad intention towards her but she realized I didn’t. When we hung out I never touched her, came onto her or anything. Just hung out treating her like a human being. Now she hugs me, walks closer to me and wants to be more closer in my personal space. We’re just friends at the moment, but that connection can go deep and turn into more or just have a great lifelong friendship. Last time on the phone she said “ You’re crazy but a good kind of crazy “ she knows I’d never lay a hand on her in a hurtful way. I showed up in her life on accident, stayed at her worst, had her back when she needed help and I’m still here. I show with my actions what kind of man I am. I’m genuinely kind but confident. I don’t want to get into a woman’s pants, unless I’ve got a strong emotional connection with them. Haven’t dated much but I’m not going to change how I am just to get laid..
People in general are vulnerable around me, so that sign doesnt really mean much. I'm not trying to sound cocky or anything, its just a weird thing that very often happens with me :0
Who else is watching this knowing full well that non of these involve you Side note I'm not looking for pitty me points but all of the women I knew have long since gone from my life which sucks in of its self but hey that's unfortunately the cards I have been given
I watched this on a whim and nearly all of these traits are present with the girl I’m interested in. My advice would just be to work on yourself. Don’t overly pursue. Keep it cool. Keep it fun. Love should be easy. If it’s too much effort, next.
I was wondering if this could be a sign that a woman is interested in me. She used to work at the bakery I go to a lot, and we chatted and connected so many times. On her last day, she said my coffee was on her. One day, I ran into her at the bar. We chatted, and I said something about her bravely coming out of her shell better than me (however I worded it) because of her singing karaoke during her first time here. Not long after, when she and her friends were singing again, she gestured me toward them and pointed to the lyrics on the screen. What's funny is I had told her I didn't like being in the spotlight during the "out-of-shell" conversation. Not to criticize her action and encouragement! Just saying it's interesting and I'm wondering about her motive, perspective, and if it could've meant something. Did it? Should I ask her for her number, next time I see her?
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True love is hard to find but when you do it hits hard and there’s nothing like it. I fell in love with my wife but didn’t realize it for six months well we were at a wedding and had a argument and I left and went home. I went to bed and couldn’t get to sleep. After four hours I realized how much I really loved her and went to her house and told her I was wrong and how much I loved her. We been married now for 46 years.
GUYS PRAY FOR SAM AND COLBY THEY BEEN DECEIVED BY DEMONS AND ARE IN DANGER THEY ARE RUclipsRS❤
God wouldnt allow souls to be trapped on earth, its umbilical and never happened all souls belong to God, so you cant sell your soul to the devil❤
And not everyone is a child of God jesus said it himself youre of your father the devil and your desires are to do his will true children of God are the ones who have been born again spiritually and repented from sin❤
So many people say they love God, but most of them never repented from sin and have a personal relationship with him, and love isnt just a feeling love is doing❤
Familiar spirits are demons
well if I'm wrong I wasted nothing because I got peace and joy from him, but if you're wrong you wasted your entire life!! ❤️🎉 And demons love when people believe that lie that God doesn't exist and they love it when people don't know they are there ❤I copy n paste this everywhere❤
And no one talks about repentance, God will never lower his standards to be okay with your sins, sins is very serious in the eyes of God hes holy and righteous and it seperates us from him❤
Demons exist, and the devil comes to steal kill and destroy and uses people to do so❤
Btw telling the demon to stay doesnt do anything unless you have the holy spirit you arent safe.
People: okay please stay this is your place❤
Demon: okay
People: **leaves**
Demon: **Goes with them anyway**
Demons arent gonna make it obvious they are there so yeah.
Demons are fallen angels that uses the form of our passed away loved ones to make us believe ghost exist and the souls of the person we knew still remains here❤❤
Astrology is demonic before my relationship with God I would always do zodiac signs literally just a bunch of sins put into each one I bet if everyone was sinless zodiac signs wouldn't make sense and literally a cover up for demons❤
Hearts are deceitful above all things, listen to God❤
Depression can be a demon you may need deliverance❤
God said unless you're born again spiritually u will not enter the kingdom of heaven also God doesn't judge us by our good works he's judging us by our sins Gods standards are so high he's that HOLY saying oh my God is using Gods name in vain it's called blasphemy ❤
To get to heaven you must believe with all your heart that Jesus died and rose again paid full price for your sins repent and receive his Holy spirit.
RUclipsrs I recommend
Impact videos ministries
David diga Hernandez
IsaiahSaldivar
Mapalo
DLM christian lifestyle
Billy garham
Danial adams
Living waters
Mike Signorelli
Okay now pray this to be saved and to get to heaven pray out loud
Jesus I confess that you are my lord and savior
I believe in my heart that God raised you from the dead I ask to receive your holy spirit and I repent of my sins with your help❤ by faith in your word I receive salvation now
Thank you for saving me! I am now reborn a christian a child of almighty God I am saved thank you Jesus! *Be genuine when praying this*
Watch videos on how to receive Gods holy spirit on YT
God creates Jesus redeems The holy spirit changes
Now our good deeds and works we think are good are like filthy rags in the eyes of God
Things to get rid of in your home
1sage
2dream catchers
3crystals
4crystal ball
5ouija board
6 tarot and angel cards
7religious statues
8demonic movies music or video games
9soul times items
10pornography
Now like a theif robbing a store, demons won't make it obvious they are there unless they have to.
Now know you can't save yourself Jesus said I am the way the truth and the life
You have insurance on your house if it ever caught on fire which rarely happens but when it comes to your soul, you play with it like you have forever to make your choice which you don't
150k+ people Die everyday and you never know when it may be you
God spent 9 months shaping and forming you before you were born but only 7 days on earth you're fearfully and wonderfully made beautiful in the eyes of God❤
Don't waste time Hearts are deceitful above all things ask God for wisdom and understanding we are just tiny humans with a 3 pound brain and our imaginations cannot go beyond what we already know❤
Your souls is so valuable both Satan and God want it but it's your choice who you will serve
You serve the devil when you
Lie
Hate
Blasphemy
Disobey
Lazy
Gossip
Gluttony
Wanting what others have cause what God has for you is for you he will never deliver your male to someone else's house
Hate
And unforgivness
And cussing murder and more
And once you die, you're locked with your choice of where you're spending eternity God doesn't care about you doing more good then bad cause he's not judging that God never said that's the way to heaven
So who's lying you or God? Be serious about this❤
God is holy and righteous God is love
So either you would play around because you don't believe hell exist or you don't believe you're going there but the bible makes it very clear
The path to destruction is wide and easy many are on it the path to eternal life is hard and nerrow very few find it and to get into heaven u can only enter through the nerrow gate❤
You dont have to wait until you die to know if youre going to heaven you can know right now 100% where youre going❤
Satan doesnt rule hell this is a myth when lucifer known as satan now became prideful and rebelled against God he took many angels with him Demons are fallen angels we live in a spirital and physical world so hell was made for punishment for satan and his angels and the reason why people go there is because they Align themsleves with the devil in SIN!
Sin separates us from God and the wages of sin is death if youre found guilty with one sin on judgment day you will not enter the kingdom of heaven so the thing is We us humans broken Gods law and jesus paid the fine! So the good news is you dont have to go to hell if you accept him as your lord and savior!
God offered us eternal life as a free gift and you receive it by faith! You dont have to work for it you dont have to pay all you have to do is receive it by faith❤
Don't expect Gods best when you always give him your least don't reject him anymore let him come in and change your life❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
The biggest misconception is that love is a feeling. It isn't. In fact, love is an act of will. Love is when you will still cook your man dinner and bring him a plate even when you're mad at him. Love is when you'll change the oil in your girl's car even after she said something mean or stupid that made you mad. I would argue that if you base love on a feeling, given how fickle and fluctuating feelings are, then you will always be doomed. Because, if your love i based on a feeling, then every time a moment comes where you don't feel a certain way, then in that moment you don't love that person. That isn't real love. Love is the willful commitment to someone regardless of how you feel.
True, love is more than just a feeling as actions are involved.Feelings though will grow with giving
I think you are both right and wrong. Love is DEFINITELY a "Feeling". That "feeling" grows and matures into the "love" you describe. But love is definitely a feeling in the beginning. It is such a STRONG feeling that only those who have FELT it knows what it does to you. It is kind of like a drug because under the influence it takes over a lot of you and controls you... kind of like how alcohol takes over a huge chunk of you, your ability to think, your motor skills, your speech.... Love does this also but different than alcohol. So yes it is absolutely a FEELING and it is such a STRONG feeling you cannot simply dismiss it or deny it. It is amplified when it blindsides you when you were not even looking for it... it REALLY hits you then. To say it is NOT a feeling is just... wrong.
Once you get past that part, then it develops into the "unconditional love" that you describe.
Therefore God is love
100%. My wife "loves me but isn’t in love with me anyone", her words, and my reaction was yours.
@@rustykoenig3566Love is more then a feeling. People confuse infatuation with love.
Today's relationships are not what they were. Few actually know what a long term relationship is.
Fax
This generation and the previous one are fucked cuz of social media.
@@saintcastle yeah because they want to be popular on social media
@@mhm8775 they might as well play the lotto cuz there never gonna win
10000% true
A man can buy a woman flowers, candy, sexy lingerie, take her out to dinner and movie, and she still be like "I don't know if he likes me" even though we aren't being subtle but she expects us to outright tell her. Well check this ladies, despite you telling us your deepest darkest secrets and turning into a complete giddy ditz around us, we still gonna be like "I don't know if she like me" until you outright say it.
That’s not true for me
So true.women can be so hard to read.
Catering to her like that guarantees she will friend zone you unless she's already made 2X the effort.
Basically, she'll confuse the crap out of you!!! 🤪🤪 🤣🤣🤣
facts
Eh
Yep
Only if u let her. 😮
😂😂😂
There's another type of love that far surpasses mere feelings. It's an unconditional love and most people crave it. That kind of love transcends all others and results in a true trust that frees one up to be completely honest at any time and never fear of losing that love.
Men can love unconditionally, while womens love is always conditional.
I am lucky to have been in a relationship where we loved each other unconditionally. I knew it was because the feelings never went away years after we spilt. Fast forward 30 years we are both in our early 50’s and reconnected, the love we had has come straight back. I can only put it down to true love never dies.
Another sign, from severely broken women is they clam up and rebel against their own heart
FACTS.
I have seen this & know the Pain this inflicted has broken me.😞👩🤠
Woah. That's deep.
On point
💯
*When she hesitates to make long-term plans or seems hot and cold, it’s often because her feelings are deeper than she’s ready to admit. Patience and reassurance go a long way in showing her you’re worth the risk.*
This is my current crush/future gf exactly. We will be together by Christmas or New Years🤔🙌
Bro exact same thing going on over here. Good luck, have fun!
Update???
Cap
Did you get her? I said the same and I got her!
@@southernguru1455 no lolll. Dodged a bullet I guess. I'm seeing someone else n she is amazing, n Waaay more attractive🤣🙌💯
A friend and I became really close after 2 years of knowing each other to the point we shared secrets with each other. One night I opened up and told her about my feelings and she told me she had too much baggage to get into a relationship and felt she didn't deserve anyone. She said nothing would change and we'd still be friends and I took that hard but accepted it. She closed up for a day or two after but then things seemed to be back to normal. However in a month things did change, she wasn't as open with me anymore, we texted less and didn't hang out as much. We started to grow apart and then the texts just stopped. That was 3 years ago and we haven't talked since...
sorry man but she wasn't into you. When a girl says "she has too much baggage to get into a relationship and felt she didn't deserve anyone" just know that she feels bad but your a little too ugly or nice for her and if she wasn't such a whore she would of chose you in a different life but right now she has too many options of ice cream flavors to taste and she feels a little guilty for wanting to try them all. Girls are selfish when they see a guy they really want they will go after them especially if he tells her he wants her. But girls are also nice enough to find ways to turn a guy down but not hurt his feelings if shes really not into them and ghosting always a part of that if they really don't care for you.
Rule #1 never share your sad secrets with a girl. Keep that shit to yourself if your not super hot she honestly wont care. And if you are super hot and you decide to share your feelings/sad secrets/past with her she will use it to manipulate you so she can keep you to herself. Don't think about her man just find the points where you went wrong into being the "nice guy" and focus on making your self healthier and your bank account fatter. If your not super hot just focus on being fit and wealthy while learning how to be a more "fun/spontaneous/funny/tough" type of guy. You will have women left and right and you will become a cold mfer because reality is really stupid just like the movies lol. But hey at least your not chasing while wasting your valuable time anymore. keep on staying strong brother never suicide over a girl that don't give no F about you.
@@theunholy1812 Some of that I kinda figured out but it does help hearing someone else say what I was thinking. Yea I'm never sharing secrets again too. I've been over her for a while, this was something I thought to share. Thanks for sharing your wisdom though, and don't worry bro she's not worth giving my life up over.
@@Old__Odin same shit happened to me bro, that was 3 years ago now, nowadays I rarely even remember her
same bruh. 1 to 1 same. we accepted their friendzone. ahha
@@Old__Odin choose a red pill
Message to men and woman... if you like someone just tell them...
If they don't like you then no big deal.
What have we become it's insanity.
Exactly! Reading through the comments is terrifying, has confused me more than anything, and is having a toxic effect on my new found optimism and courage. I guess I'll ignore everything and just do it my way, although that approach seems to be ultra wrong according to most people here.
I also wonder what the average age in the comment section is.
When she starts saying “we” when making future plans, she’s already thinking as a couple, not as a single.
Oh?! 🤔🤔
Oh shit...
@@ragubalan 😂
Genius
My gf was afraid of commitment.But we have been in love with each other for 5 years.She is more confident and assertive and does not want to lose me.Her honesty is what still holds me.She knows she has a good man and thankfully doesn't play games.I love her more than ever.
Its really nice when you have a female that cares about you it means she wants too be there for you matter what happens in your life its so cut and powerful too have someone around
That magical L word gave me H word.
H- Heartbreak 💔
If a girl is very nervous, it may be how he speaks or interact with people and she doesn't want to get hurt by him. In this way she is giving him space as she pull off and see if the guy like her too then he has to help her open up the conversation so the fear will reduce andshe will feel confident. But if the guy is reacting somrhow that means he has one kind of intention over her. It's not that she doesn't like him but she doesn't want to regret speaking to him.
If she is scared, no matter why, how or when, she does NOT love.
Why scared? You give love u will recieve love
Love and fear cannot abide together. Either you ARE love or you operate from fear. This is why it’s so difficult for me to date a women because the woman gets scared of the feelings and is afraid of losing me. This is not love coming from her. Love is not a feeling but who you truly are
@Thunder Life Studios where do you think manipulation comes from? It comes from fear not love. For example, my mother is bipolar and is the master manipulator. She has lost touch with reality and with being real and honest with herself. Everything is everyone e else’s fault and not hers. She does not even realize what she is doing most of the time. This comes from fear and not love. Love forgives and is open and honest. Fear and hate are the opposite
@@jeremyledbetter8022 no... it does not come from fear... it sounds exactly like narcissism. The description you gave are the hallmarks OF narcissism. Everything revolvs around THEM, NEVER their fault... always someone else to blame, she has not lost touch with reality because that IS her reality and yes she does not even realize what she is doing because it is NORMAL behavior for her. The only thing you really didn't mention that is the OTHER big trait in narcissism is the lack of "empathy". They do not feel empathy for others but in fact they do have a TON of empathy.... only it is reserved for THEMSELVES.
I worked with a narcissist that was my boss for years... For a few years I had a single word to describe him... CLUELESS... he is either clueless and has no clue what he is doing to others... or he is just an asshole. Then I found out what narcissism is and yep... he is just CLUELESS.... their brains are wired differently than others. They cannot "fix" it or "change" it... it is just the way they are. They do not have empathy so hurting someone in their manipulation to self service themselves so they are "clueless" as to the hurt they cause. BUT... they can TRAIN themselves to UNDERSTAND that when they do THIS it makes other people PISSED OFF and it HURTS them. So they CAN know and understand that if... then... type of ideology so they cannot understand the "feeling" of the other person but they can absolutely KNOW that IF they do this THEN that is what happens. Pick your battles to fight... find a way to not engage with her about it... because that just results in her being the innocent one, EVERYONE ELSE is at fault and she is the victim... You know... the BRICK WALL you beat your head against.... Don't ENGAGE about it... blow it off and soon after do the exact same thing to HER... and yes... she will become unhinged... it will be the END OF THE WORLD as she rants and raves about what YOU did to her.... and when she calms down a little you simply say it SUCKS HUH? Remember this morning or yesterday morning... you did that to ME or WHOEVER ... it don't FEEL good does it? But it has to be short enough time for them to remember actually doing it... it will implant a CONNECTION between their ACTION and the EFFECT of their action and they will FEEL the hurt caused the one it was directed to... she won't feel YOUR pain... but HER pain when you did it to HER and she still can't feel YOUR pain but she now has a connection between what she DOES and how it affects YOU when she does it... because you made HER feel it for HERSELF.
It works... and it DOES allow them to not KNOW the pain they cause but to at least UNDERSTAND that when they do THIS then THAT happens and also FEEL the pain of THAT happens to other becuase it SUCKED for them.
It's not that they WON'T change, or CAN'T change... its the fact that they are CLUELESS that they are even DOING the bad thing.
I am not a psychologist but this method comes from experience, real world experience dealing with a narcissist that even had position and title above mine and the "power" to rule the underlings under him. Psychologist will tell you they are not capable of "fixing" their condition, they are just wired that way and cannot change the way they are... but this method does allow them to LEARN and KNOW that what they do will do that to you when they do it... It is the best you can hope for and at least it is proven to work... at least on THIS narcissist I dealt with... and even then I had to pick and choose the battles I fought with him.
Hope this helps some.... not exactly "on topic" for the thread but eh.... :)
Sometimes it is simply a crush 😍, you should leave it at that.
Sometimes you gotta break her heart to trigger that scandal she's hiding
Can you explain a little. more? 😊
I'm with Felix on this one, can you elaborate?
Elaborate sir
Yeah, I had that and she was still just a friend. She saw me just as a friend.
Feelings and emotions are not love, they lead us towards a person but if this does not follow then it is just feelings and sometimes mean as hell, which I found out as many have. Here is a Bible definition of love..."4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs. 6 Love takes no pleasure in evil, but rejoices in the truth. 7 It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Shes like yoda on the love boat! Search your feelings, feel the POWERRRRRR of the luuuuuuuve force! 😍
Your hair looks fantastic in this video....thanks for the vid
Anna - you're very wise for a person your age. I enjoy your videos immensely. Take care and good luck!
but a word of caution "change is the only constant"
Faith over fear
I understand it. It's hard to show feelings for another person
She flirts in front of others. My friend told me that she is crazy in love or something for me!
What? She flirts with others in front of you but likes you?
Lot of those points are hitting my current relationship thing I'm in...
The relationship paradigm has shifted from a traditional model to finding relationships that support your soul growth. People are evolving at a significant rate and it’s beginning to make more sense to opt out of relationships until you are aware of and connected to the authentic self within, not the self that is composed of mental constructs that give you an identity.
Agree 100%
People are devolving, not evolving. People go to work, come home, consume cheap entertainment, sleep, and repeat. People don't have friends anymore, they don't have strong families anymore. They don't have a culture. They don't have a purpose. There's nothing noble about the way people live. Intentionally isolating themselves even further is just about the worst thing anyone can do.
@@christopherenders4280 Only yourself can solve your own problems. Going in a relationship can fill the void created by those problems, just like drugs or alcohol. Pain is there for a reason and when we erase it, it allow us to keep going instead of stopping to look into ourselves. Once we go pass that, a relationship can take a different meaning... It's not the peoples who are devolving, it's society which influence human thoughts toward the fragmentary thinking of division and fragmentation in the name of control (which is money, but control existed before money).
Smart man.
And how is that achieved? (I have my own personal answers. Just curious what yours are?)
How about a video explaining the subtle (or not so subtle) differences between terms like “dating”, “in a relationship”, “seeing each other”, etc. For example, does one term imply a sexual relationship while another term implies no sexual engagement?
Someone who play games are either imature, toxic af (because this makes them feel empowered by toying with you) or they like your attention but not you. Someone who is serios don't play games. They like you and make this very clear.
I have a friend (probably my best friend) that I've known for 4 years, and recently, she's been giving off most of, if not all of these signs.
well then.... you still here ?
Men and women cant just be "firneds". One of them will develop feelings.
Friendship is a powerful asset to have in life. And, it can grow deep.
Tread carefully and be considerate of the complexity of the other person.
And that way you will figure out which path it is.
@@silencescreams4680 Or... turn into your "sister" more or less. And yes.. they can be just "friends" and still "love" each other just as you would love your sister.
Hi Anna, you know I think we're all a bit scared, love is so much fun, I refuse to give up! I hope you dance!! The dance of love is a furious force! Also the most calming affect!
I see love, I run 🏃🏾♂️
Trust me Joyanima, no girl ever loved me. I was a creepy bad guy with lustful intentions. No not on a conscious level, but I learned later in life that I am addicted to lust! I never dated or loved/ was loved by anyone ever.
What gets me is all the mix messages I seem to get. Example is I will respect a situation so will inquire in a certain way so as not to make a scene at her work. She says no on one thing so I just think to myself ok I got a answer so all good. Then two minutes later I get told that I was kind in how I asked my question then proceeded to ask me what I was doing rest of day. I just shook my head and was like what the heck lol
Sign # 1 " I can change Him " # 2 Bailed Him out AGAIN !
Lol
We had a hilarious first day! She signed off the dm with "Sleep with the angels." Then we were supposed to meet up and she ghosted me. I asked to meet her again, she was busy. Then I figured she wanted me to go away but I wanted a direct answer. She wrote..."Our meeting was a fluke." I wrote back...I will accept a "fluke' and I will not bother you again . Take care! Mark All gone!
She was just craving attention once she got it she was off you did the right thing
I’m experiencing the self sabotaging stage now 🤦🏿♂️ thanks for your video
Well almost all the signs you talk about are in my girlfriend but I never understand her girls are so complicated sometimes and deceiving. However my girlfriend always nervous and shy around me and she apologies quite a lot. she text me a lot everyday.
Wow everything you said I'm going through it at the moment. Thank you, this video was very helpful.😊
This was a good video and I get where you’re coming from but there is one issue worth mentioning.
At the beginning you give a definition for the word Love: “The meaning of the word Love is an intense feeling of affection for someone”
I feel that many people have problems in relationships because they are misled and thus don’t really have the proper definition of love. When one’s understanding of love is that love is a “feeling” it’s also easy to believe that love is gone once it no longer feels the same, and then to act on that by giving up on the relationship assuming love has gone. If people believe that they will be inclined to bail rather than do the necessary things to rekindle those feelings through actually living out what true love is, if that makes sense.
There is a huge difference between “falling in love” and real love. When people speak of “falling in love” they knowingly or not speak of a self-centered thing. A feeling of pleasure, the desire for gratification and feeling the gamut of chemical-induced reactions and emotions that accompany becoming addicted to someone new is not really love, those are things mistakenly called love. We all know inwardly, or should know anyway, what this really is- desire- but to make it sound respectable people come up with terms like “falling in love.” Such feelings can begin to happen immediately upon meeting someone and there is no guarantee that these feelings are going to last or that they represent any greater truth. “Falling in love” (feeling desire) has nothing to do with what love actually is. The term is greatly misleading. People don’t want to seem thirsty so instead they choose “love” as a cute substitute word for desire. It sounds higher and better to tell someone you love them than it does to say that you desire them. But desire and loving the time one spends with someone is not the same thing as actually loving someone. That definition is all wrong.
On the other hand actual love when shown has true substance beyond any emotions or feelings. Over time the accumulation of benefits given and the weight of true acts of love give proof of the existence of love.
Love is a verb, it is an action word. One cannot without lying claim to love someone or to have loved someone unless or until that has been proven over a period of time and consistently. Love (not the feelings that people call love, just love by its correct definition) can only be confirmed following action and can only be revealed and proven with hindsight.
Love is the opposite of self-centered feelings. It involves placing the well-being of another over one’s own feelings. Love is something sacrificial (not in a religious sense, rather it involves the actual sacrifice of self-will in the caring and providing for another) and results in tangible, materialized and infinitely valuable benefits to the other person.
Sure one can promise to another to truly love them- but whether that promised love is true can only be determined through the unfolding of time as love is given and tangible benefits are produced.
Someone just meeting another person or only just entering into a relationship with not yet having had any opportunity to live out a life displaying actual love on a day-to-day basis can not truthfully say to that other person, yet, that they love them without it being untruthful.
And yet people say, “I love you” all the time to someone they’ve just met. Well no, sorry, you don’t and haven’t loved them yet.
What such people are really saying is, “I desire you and gosh I really like how I feel when I’m around you!”
If two people feel desire, tell each other they love each other but then only proceed to gratify their feelings and never give true, sacrificial love to one another that relationship will run out of steam fast because all they’ve done was cater to self-gratification. When the initial romantic feelings lessen as they inevitably will there’s no solid foundation underneath for that relationship to stand upon. People end up “disappointed in love” or feeling that “there’s no such thing.”
And that’s the issue I have with the vast majority of dating advice videos. They perpetuate the teaching and leading people to believe that their own feelings are love and that the techniques to connect with someone for self-gratification are proper ways to show love.
It really does matter what definitions we use. If we wish for and pursue real things and if we want those real things to last it’s important that we not confuse how to obtain something real with how to obtain fleeting gratification. It’s important that we not confuse our first steps toward something real with the thing which is real itself.
Everyone wants true, real love. It’s not easy to come by. But it’s easy for a content creator to promise a path to Love and instead give people easy, workable tips on how to achieve mere self-gratification (sex) and pass such methods off as the way to actually get Love. That’s disingenuous. Sure, it’s theoretically possible that a tinder hookup might result in love, one never knows! But if I put out a video on ‘how to find love’ and the content was basically ‘how to swipe left and hook up’ that wouldn’t be honest. My vid should be called ‘How to hook up’ so as not to mislead and waste the time of a person looking for info on love rather than info on easy hook-ups.
There’s a difference between meeting a person and keeping them. The majority of dating advice videos focus only on meeting someone. There are endless videos on that but very few on how to love and keep someone long term avoiding break-ups and divorce.
Videos which claim to be about love should actually be about love, not about how to satisfy one’s own desires for sex, imho. Finding and keeping true love is a lot harder to do and much more important than simply knowing how to strike up a conversation, establish a connection and determine whether the other person wants to get laid.
Not that that’s not good info to know but labeling feelings and desires ‘Love’ is to confuse the definition of something lasting and real with that of something temporary. That encourages people to unwittingly lie to one another and to mistake the result they get as a shot at the ‘real deal’ when in fact it’s anything but, and when these temporary ‘relationships’ quickly dissolve it reinforces the idea that true Love doesn’t exist, only passing pleasures. In turn people get disillusioned; just read the comments section under any of these vids and you’ll find disappointed people who have come to believe there is no such thing as true love because heck even the “experts” don’t know!
To some extent this book is ridiculous, the the difference between love and lust is very clear. Do you think about and care for that person, do you feel real chemistry, even when apart! or do you think about what you want to do with that person sexually! A bit of both is ok, but one much more than the other tells you whether it is love or lust.
Good book, Leashmechanic!
Love doesn’t = affection. Love = sacrifice
Elijah i would say sacrifice first will lead to affection for a growing love
15 signs I Don't care if she is scared it's not my problem
"You bump into her". I don't know if I like the idea of being stalked!
Thanks for the amazing lesson have a magical day ❤
Honestly, I'm just here for your voice. I know she's not into me much (she's an ex who texted me and got me hooked again instantly), but maybe... I dunno. I'd love to see her at least. See someone after so long.
I quite liked a woman at work, probably about 10 years older than me. We seemed to have chemistry, staring into each others eyes long after we finished talking and couldn’t help but simile.
It seemed like there was tension there too at times if we didn’t talk, almost as if we weren’t purposefully talking to each other because we wanted to other one to say something first. I also got the feeling that she didn’t like me talking to this other woman that she didn’t get along with, as if I didn’t want to talk to her, when in fact the opportunity was true.
I would catch her staring at me from across the room, I would just look back. If one of us was walking past we would stare in each others eyes for a while and smile.
Just recently she seemed to up the ante, one day she just stared at me like she was in love, she seemed a bit more nervous around the whole staring and smiling thing. That’s when I think I fell in love.
Who knows? Maybe she just liked staring at people, how do I know she wasn’t just trying to manipulate me? She’s an immigrant and maybe that sort of intensity is normal where she is from.
Sometimes I think she may have liked my friend more though, he would make her laugh more whereas I would be a bit more serious. Although it didn’t seem like he had the same connection with her as I did, she would bring him books and find excuses to talk to him. Maybe she just found me attractive and wasn’t into my personality as much.
I’d never been in a situation where I was doing this intense flirting thing with a woman I really liked. I don’t think anyone else saw what was going on though, so it’s pretty much ignored if I bring it up. My friend would say she would outrageously flirt with him.
Here’s the main thing though, she’s married. So, is she just playing games and wants the attention? When I didn’t speak to her for a whole day she started to cry. Was this because she wasn’t getting that daily validation or that she actually liked me? I really liked her, I couldn’t wait to see her everyday. I would imagine being in a relationship with her and generally just being loving. She, on the other hand, may not have really cared at all. Now it’s all I can think about and I’m not sure if I’ll ever see her again.
I have a similar situation. Shes older than me and it feels like she seemed to not like the fact i had interaction with another girl. It feels like she also likes another guy at work more, although she never spoke to him. What happened to her and you?
Nah, men are taught to have confidence and go after what they want.
Now it’s the woman’s turn to show the man that she has confidence and go after me.
For me, it’s “me” until the girl proves to me it should be “we”
That part.
Hehe I got all the signs to a girl. This means that I am scared that I starting to love her and afraid? It totally may be.
A female friend who I haven't seen in a long time came to visit & commented on my eyes saying I have beautiful eyes of course had I known then what I know now I wouldn't of quoted my favorite show & commented something nice back to her she also enjoyed that I wore a shirt she got me for my birthday last year made her happy
Was in a situation with a female best friend. We had chemistry and of course I fell in love with her. She was absolutely beautiful and amazing in every sense. Of course I told her more than once how I felt about her and never got the same back in return. She’s all I think about even until now and it’s been quite hard to move on knowing I don’t have a choice. It’s crazy cause even now kno matter who I’m with or what I’m doing I’m dropping everything to b with her. I knew something was there and I think she did too and it was so powerful never felt anything like it. Don’t think I will ever love anyone as much as her. I still love u McGrath and always will!!
That feeling is powerful. Carry that with you throughout your life and I wonder how it’ll turn out!
I know what you are talking about and can feel your pain. Couldn't be worse. I won't say that I hope you will get over it. You can't. But I hope someday you will find someone who appreciates that you are capable of such deep feelings. You deserve it.
same shit happened with me at work, for 6 months me and this woman ate breakfast and lunch together everyday, I knew she was attracted to me, she's about 7 yrs older and at first I had no interest sexually I just wasn't bothered, she asked me to go walking with her along the beach front one day walking back from the canteen over to the main hospital building and I said no then when she asked me to do some work in her apartment I said no, when she asked to watch a movie I said no, I went to the pub on her birthday and opened up a bit and kissed her but after I text and said I didn't want anything serious, she stopped talking with me which hurt bad, we did start talking again ( mistake ) after 2/3 months we're texting and I ask her to spend an evening together, she doesn't respond, I stop speaking with her, she ends up in A+E by the end of the week feeling sick, she thought I'd be working there, I go to see her and we have a very long talk, she either couldn't remember or said I misinterpreted everything she said and said we are friends, when she rejected me I felt intense emotional pain and when I did it to her she felt the same so much so she felt physically sick, I no longer talk to her we act like we are invisible to each other( it's easier ), I've never felt anything like it in my life and don't want to again, I still have to see her but avoid her as much as possible, this connection wasn't like ooh I wanna fuck this woman it was something way way beyond that like we could feel each others emotions, so anyway I feel your pain man and know exactly what you're talking about, all the best from Ireland
Such is life…It can be strange…Quite honestly you are still better off going your own way. Time stands still for no man.
@@brianbadonde8700 im sorry but it seems like you both wasted signifigant amounts of each others time, why go on breakfast and lunch dates everyday, in this intimate sounding situation, reject all advances, then go get drunk and makeout, if you did not like her at least a bit. she probably did the same in retaliation later on. seems like you werent that connected if you didnt wanna see her outside of the pub or snack time. maybe you guys shouldnt have known each other :P
A girl saying that she likes the way you're dressed isn't really flirting, that's just her being nice
I seen on Jerry spinger although some say it's fake.. they will cry their eyes out saying they love you after you find out they cheat on you. Some may not care..some would say love isn't enough.
Dear Joy, my first love 42 years ago is back again, but she is in no contact. I do not know if this is the problem, or if she is too married. She left me hanging.
This is so sweet. Love the video
I've watched a number of different clips by various uploaders from both the woman's and men's point of view for the fun of it and to get an insight into how young people view this subject and how they are interacting with today's world
I've studied people, psychology and psychotherapy all of my 70 years on the planet and your clip has the hallmarks of good information done from quite a logical aspect without any hype
To me the most important sign a person who really cares about you will show you is respect
That doesn't mean being weak and as a matter of fact it requires strength to show respect but it does seem to be something that people in general are missing these days
A well produced and presented clip
Because the parents are not teaching "respect" to the children for the most part.. and the "red ass" syndrome has become "child abuse" for the most part... now when they do stupid shit or things that they shouldn't do... its a "time out" to go "think" about what you did.
I can tell you I got a case of "red ass" a time or 2 growing up... got my OWN switch, and thought I outsmart them by picking the one I wanted vs the one they wanted lol. The WORST was the "sit and think about it" while the "red ass" comes later on after I thought about it.... not knowing when you gona get it, you think a little HARDER about what you did lol. Child abuse... um... no... I was never abused as a kid. I don't hold it against them. Mom/Dad both were not religious, didn't go church.... cussed like sailors.... and to this very day it feels "wrong" to cuss in front of them.... even though they have "sailor mouth" themselves lol. When a word does slip out, I still feel the "guilt" of doing it. They were not even overly "strict" either. The talk about alcohol was that they rather me not do it but if I do it then do it at home instead of trying to hide it and then trying to get home after... rather me do it AT home than out there trying to hide it. Same with tobacco. Had a friend over one day and he had a cigarette and mom came in and he threw it trying to hide it and guess what? She gave HIM the same speech I got... If you gonna do it, don't try and HIDE it and burn the house down in the process. So... ya I got "red ass" a time or 2 or 3... or lol. But I was NOT abused.
When you see an article in the paper that says "6 or 7 year old shoots mom/dad because they took away their XBox as punishment"... I think it is a CLUE that "time outs" are not exactly WORKING very well and maybe "RED ASS" syndrome needs to make a comeback.
If you have a dog that chews up your shoe and you tell the dog NO! BAD DOG! but do it in the "Good Boy" voice.... what is the dog going to think when you say NO! BAD DOG!? He will continue chewing up your shoes because there is no consequences FROM chewing up your shoe.... unless you have an ASSHOLE dog that KNOWS he not supposed to... runs in and grabs your shoe and sits down and looks u in the eye with the shoe in his mouth and sits just far enough away that you can't reach him and soon as u go to get up, takes off with your shoe.... anyway!!!! lol
I give up, this is more complicated than quantum physics.
I have a friend who acts like this, but her work is complicated. She works for the State Department. I didn't realize how I felt about her until almost was too late. Now she's overseas for a year.
She tells you she has no boyfriend
Too much work, I prefer to have goldfish around
with my luck I always meet or know or even work with women interested in me but they never express their feelings about me to me, nor communicate openly, nor read my mind, always sending the wrong signals, not going all the way, not finishing what they started, always being shy with me and very flirtatious with other guys, always quiet with me and very talkative with many other guys, always being an introvert only with me, but always showing openly to me that she is not shy with other guys and being an extrovert with them. I take it like a put down that she/them is'/are not interested in me at all, and all she is./they are only teasing me, playing hard to get, mind games, making me jealous etc, etc So I always pull away I dont like to play games. Either you are into me are you are not. Go play games with the other guys. For me when women do that, talk to other guys and have many male friends means that I am a third wheel, she/they treat me as an option and not a priority and that they are promiscuous
It’s 2022 and we know. Women are not scared of commitment it’s being with one wrong guy with so many options available.
i just hope my crush see's this n understand i like him more than anything in world
Well I love a girl but scared to ask her,
@@senaro5018 just whip it out
Apparently, we live in an equal world. Woman up and use your words like a grownup.
@@fillyaboots3484 sorry i did'nt got u
@@only_love770 Really? Just tell your crush that they are your crush. Simple.
In my 25 years of living as NGSB, I never notice any of these to my woman friends. Lol
No wonder why I gave up hope 2 years ago.
I noticed that with almost all of mine... And still im single so ... What gives 😅
I don’t feel like women are capable of love. They just look for someone to carry everything for them
Screw my crush, I'm in love with Anna herself 💕💕💕
I still make mixtapes in the form of RUclips playlists haha
I don't know anyone let alone talk to anyone that being said if so she is scared I'm scared as well. Talking to eachother works everything out
I haven't watched your videos I love it
You look so beautiful always
I envy people who can feel love for another.
I’ve been working on one for eleven months. I just found out she’s shy and just got her talking. What’s next?
I'm just watching this to see if any girl likes me so far none of these things are happening to me😂😂
Such a Pretty Accent 😊💙. Great Content 👏🏻
There's a girl I like we're not friends just acquaintances so we don't text or talk that much. We see each other and say hello. I asked her out a few years ago and I think it might have been too much too fast or she wasn't ready for a relationship. But we're sort of forced to see each other so I keep it friendly and realized I still have feelings for her. I've been trying to flirt and be funny around her. I might be getting her interest. I'm not asking her out again. Will she come to me and let me know she's interested? I really don't want to ask her out again. I did that. Now it's her turn. Will she take the initiative?
I Got One Sign!! "Her Friends Know About" Me
You definitely missed that, some girls are fully confident and assert it even when they really like you. Ive felt this with a girl and we really clicked still 🤷 life is funny so.e times 😅
She's scared to lose you is about right that's my problem I new it I thought so
4:40 this one is the the most tricky for me cuz I never talk to any of her friends.
Confusing from day 1 and insisting we have no relationship, yet 3 months intimacy and chatting in the morning, talking at lunch or a zoom call at lunch, calls me in the evening, and then plays chess with me at night. Soon to 6 months I caught her dating a new guy. She was arrogant, so I asked him and he was pissed
Hello! I'm in couple but the the interaction between woman and men still fascinating me. Thank you so much for helping me learning more. And yes you're very cute!
How can we talk about LOVE when something has not even started yet ?
There is great advice. I'm rewatching again as I am in this situation with a dear friend. Hot dear friend. Alas, hitting 60%...
What's it mean she can only flirt with me in front of certain of her friends, including her best friend and certain of her relatives?
Wow, some bitter comments...
@@beowulf_of_wall_st Agreed, but still a great friend. Cest la vie.
@@beowulf_of_wall_st I agree and I am moving on. She will remain a trusted friend and has been honest the whole time. Since I've had ex-girlfriends set me up, I'm just not going to burn a bridge.
I got one she loves you but is worried about committing because she might miss out on someone better
It's harder to gauge when all of your contact is via texting.
There's nothing to be afraid of I am harmless and I will treat you good 👍.
Thats what they are afraid of.
@@MyrslokstokShow it with actions not words. Ive known this lady for awhile, at first she even admitted for awhile she thought I had some bad intention towards her but she realized I didn’t. When we hung out I never touched her, came onto her or anything. Just hung out treating her like a human being. Now she hugs me, walks closer to me and wants to be more closer in my personal space. We’re just friends at the moment, but that connection can go deep and turn into more or just have a great lifelong friendship. Last time on the phone she said “ You’re crazy but a good kind of crazy “ she knows I’d never lay a hand on her in a hurtful way. I showed up in her life on accident, stayed at her worst, had her back when she needed help and I’m still here. I show with my actions what kind of man I am. I’m genuinely kind but confident. I don’t want to get into a woman’s pants, unless I’ve got a strong emotional connection with them. Haven’t dated much but I’m not going to change how I am just to get laid..
Your hair is looking stunning in this video!
People in general are vulnerable around me, so that sign doesnt really mean much. I'm not trying to sound cocky or anything, its just a weird thing that very often happens with me :0
Who else is watching this knowing full well that non of these involve you
Side note
I'm not looking for pitty me points but all of the women I knew have long since gone from my life which sucks in of its self but hey that's unfortunately the cards I have been given
I watched this on a whim and nearly all of these traits are present with the girl I’m interested in. My advice would just be to work on yourself. Don’t overly pursue. Keep it cool. Keep it fun. Love should be easy. If it’s too much effort, next.
mine is quiet and expect me to read her mind, I'm a logical person i need information in a form of words to process things...
Elite
To avoid courtship bans tell strangers and the police nothing; you have the right to remain silent and legal aid.
This hairstyle suits you much better.
OVE YOUR WISDOM AND YOU HAIR, YOU LOOK MARVELOUS, HAVE A GREAT DAY
Fascinating concepts ! Thank you
I was wondering if this could be a sign that a woman is interested in me. She used to work at the bakery I go to a lot, and we chatted and connected so many times. On her last day, she said my coffee was on her. One day, I ran into her at the bar. We chatted, and I said something about her bravely coming out of her shell better than me (however I worded it) because of her singing karaoke during her first time here. Not long after, when she and her friends were singing again, she gestured me toward them and pointed to the lyrics on the screen. What's funny is I had told her I didn't like being in the spotlight during the "out-of-shell" conversation. Not to criticize her action and encouragement! Just saying it's interesting and I'm wondering about her motive, perspective, and if it could've meant something. Did it? Should I ask her for her number, next time I see her?
How many of these must I detect (or fail to) before I arrive at a diagnosis?