Girlfriend Said She Needs Space To Think About Things
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- Опубликовано: 1 мар 2023
- What it means and what you should do when your girlfriend says she needs space to think about things.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from an overly emotional, needy and neurotic guy who knows he has consistently acted like a beta male. He discovered my work 15 months ago after a breakup, but only read the book twice. 6 months ago he started dating new woman and has acted like a complete jackass by being controlling and jealous and constantly arguing with her, which is the opposite of what my book teaches. Recently he got upset and jealous of an ex of hers and she said she needed space because he promises to change, but then continually reverts back to being angry, jealous, controlling and argumentative. It’s exhausting to her. Now he is in no contact, even though he didn’t do as she asked and contacted her a few days after she asked for a break.
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Space’s real name is Chad….
Yup!
Or Tyrone 😁
Or Simp
😂
@@eddiealbertson3158 hey what should I do because my girlfriend has not texted me in 2 weeks and my girlfriend is sick and I have a crush on someone
“I need space” aka I wanna break up and belong to thestreets for awhile, so wait here for me when I need you as a rebound.
exactly.
That's cool, take all of the time you need, like forever.
Some of these situations make me cringe because I used to behave like this.
Same here
The space: tyrone
Good rule of thumb: if a woman still has dudes in her life, exs as friends…thirst trap instagram…throwing men in your face…you should still be meeting and sleeping with other women, but her too-but That’s not your gf. Doesn’t matter what she says. Plus if you’re confident bc you got all these other chicks-women love that. The only time you invest this much energy in a woman is when she is alllll about you-totally distances herself from any other men who she was with/wants to be with her for real. You don’t stop being with other women til she is telling you she wants to be exclusive.
Majority of women have exs as friends, baby daddies that hover, or some dude that they go to for attention (usually they give him the punani every noe and then for being nice) even if they dont like them guys she will let em hit it ive seen this shitloads of times in 30 years and every women im friends with ive had sleep with me or try to date me.
Solid advice man. Thanks.
If she needs space, give her space. But just think about this: Women don't dump guys that they're chasing and in love with...so you are chasing, and men's nature is not to chase.
Duh
If she says this, say okay I'll give as much space as you need. When she catches up to you with another girl tell her thanks for asking for space. I got a woman who wants all my time now. 💪🏾💪🏾🤣🤣🤣
She already thought about it months ago. Only thing to do is walk away. Spare yourself the time and energy because trying to convince her to stay will only make things worse.
She asked for space. Said I understand.
Haven’t heard anything from her in 11 month Corey lol
Saying this dude knows 15% of the material is generous
😂😂
@@dorkga1092 knowing any percentage of it is not the same as consistently putting it into practice, that's why Coach recommends reading the book through multiple times until it becomes more reliably ingrained.
@@nobodyknows3180 I know, dude. I was laughing because the original comment was funny AND true.
lolol
The only people who need "space" are astronauts 💯
After watching this video I think partially knowing the material with being over confident and emotionally uncontrolled is just as bad as not knowing the material.
If a woman says she needs space, she has an agenda that does not include you. Never, EVER take back a woman that does this, and doesn't waste your time trying to figure out her "issues." Man up and accept the relationship is over. Under no circumstances should you call, text, or try to see her. Focus on caring for yourself and finding a good woman who wants to be in a relationship with you and doesn't play games.
"Jealousy: Show your lady that you don't have this trait and she'll think you're one in a billion" - Doc Love: The System
"Jealousy helps your competition rip off your girlfriend " - Doc Love: The System
If you show that you are not jealous at all they will think you don't care; If you show you are too jealous they will leave this toxic relationship; you have to find the middle path; not Ying, not Yang; the middle path. You can use humor, that can help.
Simply code for wanting room to pursue another dude.
She hopes she can find a new guy or get over the feelings
Dare her to find somebody else jokingly she'll be back in matter of days
An earlier simp who missed the point deleted his nonsense. Thank you.
Not all the time. Expand your way of thinking
A girl i was banging booked us an Airbnb on the day she was going to ask for space/ a break from her boyfriend. Before she went to see him for “the talk”, we had sex & i came her in. After she was done with “the talk”, she came back to our Airbnb & we had more sex. We both stayed the night. Next morning, had sex again.
Yeah. Dont trust this “i need space/ a break BS”
When your girl does this its time to move on.
Thanks to Coach’s teachings I’ve come to this realization that I really don’t give an F , if she wants to leave , bye , there’s another bus at the stop every 15 minutes. You distance yourself from me , I distance myself further . You go cold on me , I go sub-zero on you .
The thing I love about Coach, he’s not afraid to roast somebody when they deserve it. Someone saying that they think they know the material, despite only read the book twice. Come on man!!
Love you Coach keep up the good work you’re an inspiration to millions 💯🙏
Thanks coach, great content as always.
I had a friend tell me years ago don’t even try to figure them out. And not all women are the same. Somebody might appear not interested in you, but that could be 100 different reasons. They could be tired from working all day, caring for children or aging parents. Could be anything.
This is the most cmon man email I heard in a while. Gotta get the emotional self control together brother.
Every time I think I’ve done something I’m not proud of and cringe to myself about, Coach Corey releases a newsletter about a guy that blows what I’ve done out of the water.
Corey... You look even younger!! Good for you 🎉
Really interesting videos ❤looking forward to more.
Bruh he just uploaded it one minute ago you didn't even watch it
@@howtosnatch the topic tough, been through this a couple weeks ago. First comment tough😂
Monkey branching time
The Jack in the Box oh my 😂😂
Since the beggining of 2020 im waiting for the next great love of my life to come along rsrs. Im really busy with my purpose, but can't take it off my head!
Mistake #1
Taking over her house. You gotta come and go. Not stay
Am going through a similar situation right now. However, I'm also trying to figure out if the girl is the right one for me. Only time and actions will tell.
If she needs space ..YOU need too go no contact..move on 👑 king..listen too coach ..love and learn
Lmaoo coach I love your performance of Jack in the box
Awesome 🎉
Move on...
I had to repeat the part where corey acted like a child. Legend lol.
You really hard on this guy
Get em!
Sounds like a narc..crossing boundaries, entitled, etc
Totally correct, Corey! For any guy doubting this, I happened across a text exchange I had with a friend, regarding a guy I was dating at the time. He was great in many many ways, but definitely had a streak of insecurity too. Like the dude featured in this video, he would text/call constantly. There was zero mystery in the relationship. It ultimately killed the attraction. The text I sent my friend:
Me: "I hate to say this, but I wish (guy) would make me miss him. Rather than being there all day, every day. I've been delaying my replies to him a bit. I just don't like the IM'ing/texting all day thing. I never did that with (previous ex), so when I saw him and got to talk to him it felt more special."
Women need space (at least in the early phase of a relationship) to miss you. Leave them wondering a bit! Corey's advice is spot on and if more men acted according to his book it'd make the dating world a much better place, for both men and women.
Many women for the first 3 to 6 months message me over and over all day and i see them most days and sleep together then they all of a sudden stop doing that after 6months yet ive always just replied to them to catch up. Yet when they stop and 180 thats why some of us guys get confused and are like who the fk you texting them all of a sudden distant.
Hi everyone... my name is 'Space'. Your GF needs me! 🤣🤣
Corey is legit the GOAT
Damn Corey went IN lol
Your New Operating System...
15min in and I’ve seen 7 ads. Cmon RUclips
Get an addblocker u pleeb
If you using a mobile device and the RUclips app you're probably SOOL, but if you use a desktop or laptop browser or your mobile device's browser, you should look into downloading an ad blocker app as a browser extension. I use AdBlock Plus and haven't seen an ad played inside a video for a decade. Also, an ad blocker will zap ads out of the recommended for you feed, and from webpages and email pages etc.
Bro I'm watching it now and I didn't get any ads, don't update the RUclips app
use a smart ad blocker: )
She wants space from OP to get her spaces filled somewhere else.
Im surprised she hasn’t yet dumped his needy a$$! Man, that would be so exhausting!
She's going to dump him. He's going to mess it up again and she'll be done.
I've met a lot of guys like this guy. Extremely jealous if you even look at the girl, much less talk to them, they act all possessive like I'm trying to steal their girl. Actually, I feel sorry for the girl, but some like a guy that's all over them. It's not difficult to get a girl why would I want someone else's girl. 🤔
Me when Corey says the word "robot" - "Please do the robot voice! Please do the robot voice!"
Space ok no problem babe
Next day
"Hey babe hows your space going?"
Never chase buses or women, you'll always get left behind
space = is a man 6.2' with good economy
He needed the tool for the job he was on
Cmon guy get it together.
What's funny to me is that Corey laid it out in the whole video clearly how the guy messed up his relationship through his behavior, but the whiny red pill babies still find a way to make it all about how the girlfriend just wants to sleep around.🙄
But of course! It's never their needy, controlling behavior that's the problem, it's that all women are "sluts" and want to sleep around (I know a lot of amazing women and 99% are either in or seeking a long-term committed relationship). Whatever helps them sleep at night, I suppose.
@@practicaldreamyr haha yep! You nailed it exactly👏
Yeah he messed up but she’s the gf and not contacting him for 3 days because of a stupid fight? That’s an indication she is probably trying to find other options
Eve ... "Hey Adam, I need some space & time by myself" Satan ... "Hello Eve, I have some things for you to think about"
Arguing with her?!? How did that work out for ya?!
I agree with most of the material Corey teaches. But i disagree with the fact pattern that in this example the woman said "i need a break from the relationship" is not the same as a "breakup". I disagree in part. It usually means the woman isn't into the guy anymore . The "break" or "time out" means she is talking to a new guy or in the process of exploring her new options..which inevitably leads to a breakup. Or even worst she sleeps with the new guy ,doesn't work out and then the original guy takes her back after the "time out". Come on ! Lol if she tells you i need a break, your best bet is to leave. Look for someone new because that girl is gone bro.
Wut?
The fear of loss is a ……. Will get you dumped .
Any type of neediness, possessiveness or clingyness on a guy's part is a distinct turnoff. Plus it signals to the woman that she has emotional control over the guy.
I think she might need some space.
My ex gf asked for time & space.....3 days later I dumped her & gave her space Permanently!!! Less than Two months later....she got a new Boy Toy & got Pregnant!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thats because they always have a backup guy for attention, even if hes ugly and cringe but gives her attention she will open the legs lol. In a year they will break up or in a couple years then i bet she will message you asking how you been... we should catch up... just fuck her and leave her when that happens
Love all your videos I have been following you for a while. So so you have anything for females I need help. Any suggestions?
❤
".... and has acted like a complete jackass by being controlling and jealous and constantly arguing with her, which is the opposite of what my book teaches. Recently he got upset and jealous of an ex of hers and she said she needed space because he promises to change, but then continually reverts back to being angry, jealous, controlling and argumentative..."
He sure as HELL didn't get that way by reading your book. That anger, jealousy, argumentativeness and being controlling already had to exist within him, and now he's trying to blame you for his issues.
Be a rock. Emotional instability is lethal.
Cory you just don't understand that's his girl.
She has done you a favour
Haven't watched the video yet but I'm going to go out on a limb and say "cool, when you're done figuring out maybe if I'm still single we can talk then, take care" and then go out and meet someone else and never look back
Yeah hard to believe he’s read the book. They’re like cats. The “I need space” line is one of the clearest codes to crack.
What women want, did you write that book?? 😂😂
Damn, Corey took it personal with this dude 🤣
He sounds like my ex GF
Help Coach, so i have been dating a girl for 4 weeks and saw and hookup 5 times and slept over at her place for 3 times BUT during these 4 weeks she only initiated text 2 times i only initiate text once a week to set a date thats it! Why is she still not pursuing me? Is she structured or am i just doing something wrong?
She probably have other options :)
@@crnivuk7092 so what do i do now?, she has paid for 1 date and another date a few things and her schedule is always wide open for me to plan do whats happening? Trying to understand the situation
Just move on. If she was really into you, she would be pursuing you more. Don't contact her unless she reaches out first...
Don't worry about it. Keep it to once a week. You can also try backing off once and wait a little over a week to see what happens. Meet other girls while you keep this one in the back pocket.
Don't focus too much on her. Be relaxed and natural and don't overthink. Speak with another women too that will make u abundant. Have fun, hang up and hook up, let her think about relationship
Question, how do you handle dating a girl who has more options?i think she had more options
All girls have more "options" dude... literally even if they get desperate for attention and feel sad and alone they will let some dirty cringe dude sleep with them for validation.
Even she’s has options and she’s leaves, block delete and move on, more people out their then being petty with a toxic person.
You just do you - and if you read Coach Corey's book through multiple times to the point where it sinks in really really well, then that you is the best you can be. If the girl you are dating doesn't respond to you, that is HER decision and HER loss.
🤦🏻
A little like a movie script. He wanted to move in another town. She kept a little ring of his or whatever in her apartment in hoping "if he returns he loves me truely". Later after some filling plot pages he returns in the end and they live happily ever after. Thats no reality emailer.
All of this can be summed up with: “be a man”. That’s true for all of life.