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After 5 Months Of Dating She Still Doesn’t Want To Be Exclusive
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- What it means and what you should do if she still doesn’t want to be exclusive after 5 months of dating.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 31 year old guy from Australia who is dating a 24 year old woman. He has been dating her for about 5 months. He says he’s been through my audiobook multiple times, but she is still not in love and wanting to be exclusive. She also pushed him away recently by reminding him that he is still single and free to mingle with other women. He is perplexed because she was not in love after 7-8 weeks of dating and still is not there or asking to be exclusive. It’s obvious from the tone of his email that his mindset is the opposite of what the book teaches and he doesn’t really know the material. He like most people, is lazy and looking for shortcuts to success, which simply do not exist.
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“Attainable success - not sustainable success.” - This is why the book must be read repeatedly.
You gotta learn the fundamentals.
“Everything we do is either an attempt to avoid pain, or to gain pleasure”.
Aristotle
I'm not a fan of his mindset towards the material. The "7-week" guideline is an approximation, not a rule. And even then, that's IF you're doing everything right.
Furthermore, the book doesn't replace critical thinking and discernment. And Coach says that himself - everyone's situation has context and circumstances. Most women will show and tell you what they're looking for. So if a woman is making it clear that "she's for the streets!" don't assume you can hijack her into wanting to be exclusive because you know the material.
Modern women are OK with keeping you around until they find who they want to be with. And they have the option to do so. That's why having abundance for yourself is crucial. If the reader had options with other women, he wouldn't try to make a girlfriend out of a girl who wants to pawn him off to other women - he'd be with those other women.
If she's not pushing to be exclusive she thinks you're not her best option. You're a place holder until someone better arrives. If a girl isn't asking you for commitment after 2-3 months something is wrong.
Most of the time theres no one better. Grass aint greener.
sometimes like you said its cause you're the only one available but she doesn't want to settle for you so just some fun until she finds someone she wants
@@Jaguaist So move on to another girl and I hope you got to have sex with her a least a few times. Don't text her or call her. I hope you didn't hound her with texts and calls and look needy. Also, if you weren't good in bed don't expect her to ever call you again.
@@Jaguaist Do you really want a woman like that, one that barely even pays attention to you? Create space for better women. They are out there.
Exactly this man - 2-3 months is time enough to know if you wanna be exclusive. I waited 4 months and had to kill this off. I did make mistakes towards the end, but i have to move forward now
If she's not ready to be exclusive by then, she's not ready for a real relationship with you. So either decide if you're down for a casual hookup situation or move on entirely and find someone who is.
Yeh, it will sting if the man is more into her than she is into him. This dude should move on from her, start dating and prospecting for new women.
Is she not ready because the guy fucked up or because she simply never will be even if the guy does everything right..
I never once brought up the r word. We have been dating for 3 months she did in passing about a family member asking if she was going to visit her boyfriend me this past weekend. I smirked and then asked am I your boyfriend then? She got a a big grin and her eyes widened and asked Do you want to be?” Playfully I said “Let me think about it” and then I kissed her said ok. If you read and take to heart these concepts and not get lazy they work. Still doing things one surprise date at a time. Thanks coach.
Gents, we have a cherry-picker.
I was dating a woman for 10 months, and she didn't want to be exclusive I did everything right... but I was blinded by love, she did everything right..in the moment, and I did everything correctly the courting, and dates once or twice a week and then we eventually spent damn near 5 days a week with each other every week but she never wanted to be exclusive and said I should go ot and meet new ppl one day. I was blown back by that statement and it started to spiral down from there
@mariokolev3629 that's exactly what happened I caught her talking to her ex on 2 separate occasions and told her she has to cut that shit out or I'm done, and she said get over it or be done with it, and I haven't heard from her in the past 3weeks... it definitely hurts though spending almost a year with someone, and doing everything with her going on trips doing activities spending all the time in the world with her basically a live in girlfriend and then she just disappears
@@gopaulsalick507that’s almost the same situation that I’m in. Let time and space take care of your situation. Meanwhile, you level up in gym, hobbies, education, and other women. She’ll come back or you’ll find someone better!
Clearly you weren't doing everything right
Coach dedicated even on vacation💪🏻
Where is he?
@@datingmotivation I think he went for a trip to Nonya
A new bus every 15 minutes
You are saving lives Coach.
He getting ready to get his heart broken. Good luck buddy
Just back off long enough for her to start reaching out to you 😊
My man! Shes saying date other women, DO IT. See how she reacts when you cant make plans with her cause of your hot new date.
Either she will start vying for your attention more, or she will disappear. Either way, youll have a chick occuping you.
This is the way
@@ronnywouters7037 lol thats a funny story... As Corey says rejection creates obsession.
Many years ago (like 5 or 6) when I first started following Corey and had read the book a few times.
I had 2 friends a girl and a guy who liked each other and she actually asked me to help her win him. It worked. But guy started acting weak and needy and the girl switched, suggested they keep their relationship open.
He then said that she could see other people but he wouldn't. I tried to talk sense into him, but he wasn't hearing it. Shocker: it didn't even last a few more weeks. She started ghosting him, and then ended it with a flaky message. You can bring a horse to water but can't help it drink.
Just lie to her even that you're seeing other women and see what the reaction is.
Oneitis is a hell of a drug.
Thats a FWB situation. Nothing wrong with that. Have fun, hang out, and hook up. keep dating other women too. Im in the same boat but in reverse…. Im hanging out with 4 different women LOL.
ONCE AGAIN, HIS IS JUST ONE OF THE JOHNSON’S SHE IS CLUTCHING. TIME TO MOVE INTERESTS ELSEWHERE. WHAT THE GUY IS LOOKING FOR IS “NOT” WITH HER.
Swear to god what is it with DUDES just wanting relationships and giving their lives away like that
My dudes, you have the gift of time, and trust me, you don’t need women. Your freedom and purpose is everything, and in time, women will beg you to be with them
Any guy under 28 shouldn’t ever be in a relationship
your life will be so good you won’t even want the sacrifice
Because being with women will feel like a sacrifice, like a trap, like a cage; literal prison
She belongs to the streets
I knew exactly what your response to him was going to be buddy from the title. 😂😂
Similar interests in music is neither here nor there. There are over 80,000 bands with records in circulation...
Just move on, she is playing you.
This guy needs to read "the book" 20-30 times.
Right on coach.
Either you arent playing the game, or shes playing you.
You must be having a pretty good time! Where do you put your girl when you’re making the videos?😉
Awesome wisdom, Coach. 👍🏾
Personally, if it were me. I only give girls a month to make up their minds on if they want to be exclusive or not. I'm 33 years old. I don't have time to wait on you to figure your shit out. You either want to date me or you don't. If a girl is not asking me to be exclusive within a month of dating then I know she doesn't have strong feelings for me and by then I just think of her as a casual hookup. At that point, I stopped considering her as relationship material. If I'm not having sex after the second date then I move on completely.
Maybe she's into girls too and she wants him to bring one home for some fun. Yeah that's it that's what he should do😂
Should I respond to my ex if they ask a condescending question? Example: “ [my name], why did you think it was a good idea to [action I did]?”
I have been in no contact after begging and pleading. She broke off with her situationship before messaging me this. It was 23 days of nc after I begged and pleaded when she messaged this I have left her on seen ever since.
But aren’t you always pushing that relationship labels, exclusivity, are the woman’s purview? Why is he even worried about it?🤷♀️
What I do is not to get into "dating days" untill I read the book at least 10 times.
You’re prob new but Corey clearly states we should be practicing and implementing his book while reading and learning.
Wouldn't recommend that. Its not possible to read the book 10 times and just walk up to a woman and expect that everything will go 100% as you've planned.
Getting experience is also important, so you get used to talk to women/the fear of rejection etc. That way you build up tons of confidence.
I like the idea of getting a good understanding of the book and principeals first, but like most things you've to take action aswell.
Ludwig vaquiro, what you said is just fine. That way you'll have the knowledge you need dedicated to memory and when you make mistakes(we all do) you'll be able to self diagnose what went wrong and fix it.
@@braden8390 oh... Right, I forget that. "and practicing..."
@@GamerproNL same to you. I forget that part. "practicing".
Question fir the chat. There was this woman that i was dating on she wasn't to consistent in terms of meeting up. Last time i spoke to her. She texts me what i was doing for the day. I told her nothing much.i asked her if she wanted to chill for the day. Then i don't hear anything from her for several months amd got ghosted Found out she was dating some other guy. Was there anything that i did wrong.
You figure it out yet?
My guess is that you used the phone to be her male girlfriend text buddy instead of using the phone to set dates. Hang out, have fun, HOOK UP.
I gave her an alabaster box
I walked away after 4 months was tough.. We didn't have sex but we kissed sensually a good few times.. But she needed time she said.. I said I can't be friends and two weeks after no contact she hooks up with a guy she organised through a triangulation she caused on one date we had.. She's having fun I wish her well.. But it hurts that she gave me hope.. I have another option but she's not available till mid June as she's away on a long extended safari.. But my attraction is a lot more for the first woman.. But the second woman is more grounded with no red flags.
Dude, read the book... You cant let triangle dates happen and you need to communicate what you want. Not sit on the sideline and hope something magic happens. Grow some balls and stand up for yourself. Good luck brother
@@Neoshan I did tell her how I felt and did a few times.. She kept saying she needs time.. My balls are tight but I guess that's a good thing as she not getting any of it.. Anyways, you saying things about me as you don't know me one bit.. But it's cool thanks for your oppinion.. I have a severe learning disability that's unfortunate and reading Corey's Wayne's book won't work as I'll be tired by page 4 or five.. And I'll have forgotten what I've read.. So retaining information is tough and causes huge amounts of stress.. I have minimal cerable palsy.. Take care
@@Jaguaist thanks man I was excited as I really thought I was getting my first girlfriend.. She definitely made it difficult for me testing me all over the place.. I handed a few situations better then others.. Realising afterwards should of done that and this.. I have downloaded the audio book.. Will give it a listen it's 9 hours wow.. So will take awhile to get through... This experience has hurt but I'm pleased I've walked away.. As years ago I was in a horrible situation as well where a woman i liked also friend zoned me but back then I didn't know better so that went on for years.. But did eventually walk away after a horrible incedent that hurt me no end..
Been watching RUclips since November when I met this latest woman.. I won't give up it might take a lot longer then most but I'll find me a sweetheart that'll appreciate me for who I am..
@@Jaguaist when I think back there was a situation where I could of gotten her into bed.. But I wasn't assertive enough she's a flirt no doubt about it.. Talks about dildos lol.. It was fun being around her.. But I missed a few chances and that's where the attraction tapered off unfortunately.. But all lessons.. Who knows she may reach out again in future.. But I can't wait have to try move on..