Her loss, you shouldn’t question it unless you were in a longterm serious relationship. If you aren’t getting good communication, let it go and move on.
It's amazing how the male mind works and how quickly we pedestalize a woman with high mutual interest. Even with what i know from the book and from past experience, I still went ahead and started fantasising where i was going to marry this woman😂 Now im dealing with a declined interest, wondering wtf happened. Well, another learning experience.
Coach and I's mentor, Doc Love urges men to take things slow with women who actively entertain male friends, exes, etc. That's considered a red flag, and even if the girl has a high-interest level in you, it's an uphill battle because of her hypergamy. And most guys don't know the material well enough to have a chance against those unfavorable odds. *EDIT* I also want to add that structured, low-interest, or otherwise, another red flag is when a woman you're dating doesn't press for more of your time. A woman's nature is to bond. And if she's OK with barely seeing you, that should send off alarm bells in your head. Finally, it is also in a woman's nature to talk and communicate. Women say more than four times the number of words than men. I've dated "introverts" who have stellar conversational skills due to being so observant. They also don't like silence (because it brings more attention to them in their mind) and will go out of their way to keep the conversation going, especially when they like you. On the contrary, I have found that women who don't have things to talk about are not interested enough in you to care about you as a person -everyone knows how to ask questions. So don't accept that answer from a woman. Another worse explanation is that she's secretive. These are the types of women that put the accountability on you to vet their past. They never voluntarily give personal information about themselves and will gaslight you for not asking them about something you later discover.
I actually love when a girl flakes or shows low interest before the first date. The way I see it I saved myself 2 hours plus $100+ for dinner. Once you start meeting girls with high interest where everything is effortless who wants a girl you have to “convince”…it’s bullshit…
Group dates… a girl I was seeing in the past wanted me to join her at a Christmas party for her work, we weren’t exactly dating and I was still feeling out the relationship. We hadn’t even sleep with each other either. In addition, I had to work the next day. I told her “I’d love to meet her friends but don’t do group dates unless we’re serious” she didn’t like that response and proceeded to be sassy and unresponsive to me which I didn’t like. Personally, I think she just wanted someone on her arm that night but I knew I’d be sitting there having to impress others and I thought to myself “if this doesn’t work out, she’s gonna look like an idiot”… long story short her response to me saying no helped me weed her out.
now imagine you went and it worked out great. yeah, you will never know now will you. but you're so special, weeding them out 🤣 maybe in reality it's her who weeded out another loser. you never know until you do it and no book in the world will substitute for that
@@palkisakumi8595 calling someone a loser in the comments is pretty low status… thanks for showing everyone that’s what you are. I don’t regret my decision one bit in the long run. Attitude is everything ✌🏼
@@cryptopharmacist7983 exactly, when you get cocky you do become a loser. it was written on purpose to remind him he's no special because he read few books. and no, I didn't show everyone who I am because one sentence doesn't mean shit. what else you got there, smart guy ?
I use to have this chick that would text on the weekends and it was hit or miss. Sometimes she'd make plans then flake and not even bother to text me back. One night I was out with her and I saw that she had a ton of texts coming in. I figured out that she would send out a dozen texts on the Friday night and go with her best option. That night I just happened to be the best option. After talking to her a bit I realized she didn't care at all. She thought nothing of making plans and ghosting if something better came along. I asked her about it and she said, "oh that, it's no big deal." It was an eye opener for me. Don't make up a story about what is going on, it could be anything. She could just be a twat. We tend to think it was something we did, and it may be, but often times she is just going with her best option that night. Could you imagine if you had a dozen chicks fighting to get up on you. You might act the same way.
@@Jaguaist Do your best to move on and forget her. Women can be ruthless when their feelings change, it's hard to hear but she probably just wants you to leave her alone at this point. She's moved on and doesn't want to deal with it anymore. Your only chance of getting her interest back is to ignore her and act like it's no big deal. You banged a hot girl, be happy about it and move on. Now you know you can, it's not like she's the only hot chick you'll ever be with.
A lot of these guys get needy towards one woman because the flaking/ghosting has gotten so horrendous, even with women who were judging showing 9/10 interest or higher
@@erikjohansson6579 I completely agree. I mainly do daygame and have done thousands of approaches yet the ghosting/flaking is still horrendous from that. Not as bad as online game but still rough. I get dates, pulls, and lays from daygame and OLD but that's only because I do a ton of approaches, whereas most guys these days are spineless chodes and don't approach at all.
@@erikjohansson6579 What do you mean exactly by "in what vicinity"? I think it's the latter. I have strong confidence and execute the best practices of game (tonality, body language, eye contact, teasing, getting her to qualify, etc). Don't get me wrong. There's still a huge amount of ghosting (whether that's before a 1st date takes place OR after the 1st date OR after the 2nd date). It's just more effective than OLD. Cold approach shows a ton of confidence and also women rarely get approached these days. Anyone could swipe right from behind a screen.
This is exactly what I do with women. In my case it's more like I am bored and decide to date a woman that I am not that attracted to. After a few months I get bored again and leave her.
dude.. then start raising the bar and date up.. what's the point of dating a girl you aren't attracted to? It simply doesn't make any sense unless you are a Narcissist and in need of filling your sad shit of a life with the lowest hanging fruit and in constant need of validation. Grow up!
But bear in mind, the “structured woman” could be religious or come from a background where premarital sex is forbidden. Yes it’s 2023 but there can still be people like that out there. Those could be the “rules” Corey talks about here. But like he said, you need to evaluate. Ask yourself: do I really want to wait till marriage? Does her religion support mine or my beliefs too? And that’s assuming she is honest with you. If she’s stringing you around and making you wait, that’s immature like he said
Women will disagree with Coach when he says no group dates and call the guy insecure because he says her friends are cockblockers. Stay strong men because Corey is right they WILL cock block you!!!
It’s hard to tell if they ghosted you for reals or it’s some kinda test . I had an experience where a chick once ghosted me to see if I care about her ever since that experience idk if a chick has ghosted me or playing mental games with me .
Question, yesterday i was talking with my girl like you teach us (what else,...) Eventually she said stop im always the one talking about this an d that now its your turn and she asked if there was bothering me something and there was BUT i didnt want to talk about it because I DONT want to make her my mommy or therapist like coach tells us but she told me i need to stop stuffing everthing so i talked for a bit but with a mentality of it is that it is whatever at the end of the night she said "i am happy thank you" and we had amazing seggs... BUT is it okey to talk about my problems with her IF SHE wants me talk about it? I DON'T want to make her my mommy but what if she encourages me to talk? Thanks
I talk about something bothering me (relationship wise) in a “I need this in this relationship or I won’t be in it) still gives you the power and doesn’t sound needy. The woman can’t give you what you want if she doesn’t know what it is
@@Leoo117 i would never complain or ask her to solve my problems to my girlfriend she is not my mommy/therapist but she started copying the way i communicate with her like coach teaches us... She started using "what else" "tell memore" and everything coach tough us ... which is kinda cute and funny tbh
@@littleanimalchannel1 the book says to when that happen to give a humorous response. Dont refuse to talk but neither give her a serious answer. Joke about it.
@@Jaguaist yeh you're a solid 7 bro👍 Don't forget women for the most part never date down. Unless as was stated she has self esteem issues, then she may date down. Most modern women know their SMV worth. I hope you have taken on board what coach Corey said and learn from your recent experiences with this girl.
Don't waste any time with chicks with very low interest if you do happen to get with a chick with low interest and get to have sex with her like the guy in the second email did hit it real good so she won't forget you once you hit it real good you will always be on the back of her mind no matter who she gets with which means eventually she will contact you chicks with very low interest tend to play with us guys without realizing it you are the cat chasing the ball with the string woman will string guys along for their own ego It's an ego boost for them turn the tables like coach said if you meet a girl who is easy going and wants to spend time with you go for that instead of time wasters you can never get that time you wasted back here is a quick story. I met my cousin's baby sitter she was 32 at the time I was 23 we had some chemistry I was confident I was going to get that once I did I patted myself with both hands behind my back 😂 until this day we are still very cool with each other she still calls me.
Her loss, you shouldn’t question it unless you were in a longterm serious relationship. If you aren’t getting good communication, let it go and move on.
It's amazing how the male mind works and how quickly we pedestalize a woman with high mutual interest. Even with what i know from the book and from past experience, I still went ahead and started fantasising where i was going to marry this woman😂
Now im dealing with a declined interest, wondering wtf happened. Well, another learning experience.
How to avoid wasting time and money. 💰 🕐
Especially time, which you can never get back
Coach and I's mentor, Doc Love urges men to take things slow with women who actively entertain male friends, exes, etc. That's considered a red flag, and even if the girl has a high-interest level in you, it's an uphill battle because of her hypergamy. And most guys don't know the material well enough to have a chance against those unfavorable odds.
*EDIT*
I also want to add that structured, low-interest, or otherwise, another red flag is when a woman you're dating doesn't press for more of your time. A woman's nature is to bond. And if she's OK with barely seeing you, that should send off alarm bells in your head.
Finally, it is also in a woman's nature to talk and communicate. Women say more than four times the number of words than men. I've dated "introverts" who have stellar conversational skills due to being so observant. They also don't like silence (because it brings more attention to them in their mind) and will go out of their way to keep the conversation going, especially when they like you.
On the contrary, I have found that women who don't have things to talk about are not interested enough in you to care about you as a person -everyone knows how to ask questions. So don't accept that answer from a woman. Another worse explanation is that she's secretive. These are the types of women that put the accountability on you to vet their past.
They never voluntarily give personal information about themselves and will gaslight you for not asking them about something you later discover.
This man doesn't age. Im convinced he's found the fountain of youth.
I actually love when a girl flakes or shows low interest before the first date. The way I see it I saved myself 2 hours plus $100+ for dinner. Once you start meeting girls with high interest where everything is effortless who wants a girl you have to “convince”…it’s bullshit…
You're only kidding yourself bro.
Welcome back coach!
This happens all the time to guys who are not top 10-15 %.
Dont bother dating as tilted and gynocentric as it is today..
Group dates… a girl I was seeing in the past wanted me to join her at a Christmas party for her work, we weren’t exactly dating and I was still feeling out the relationship. We hadn’t even sleep with each other either. In addition, I had to work the next day. I told her “I’d love to meet her friends but don’t do group dates unless we’re serious” she didn’t like that response and proceeded to be sassy and unresponsive to me which I didn’t like. Personally, I think she just wanted someone on her arm that night but I knew I’d be sitting there having to impress others and I thought to myself “if this doesn’t work out, she’s gonna look like an idiot”… long story short her response to me saying no helped me weed her out.
now imagine you went and it worked out great. yeah, you will never know now will you. but you're so special, weeding them out 🤣 maybe in reality it's her who weeded out another loser. you never know until you do it and no book in the world will substitute for that
@@palkisakumi8595 calling someone a loser in the comments is pretty low status… thanks for showing everyone that’s what you are. I don’t regret my decision one bit in the long run. Attitude is everything ✌🏼
@@cryptopharmacist7983 exactly, when you get cocky you do become a loser. it was written on purpose to remind him he's no special because he read few books. and no, I didn't show everyone who I am because one sentence doesn't mean shit. what else you got there, smart guy ?
I use to have this chick that would text on the weekends and it was hit or miss. Sometimes she'd make plans then flake and not even bother to text me back. One night I was out with her and I saw that she had a ton of texts coming in. I figured out that she would send out a dozen texts on the Friday night and go with her best option. That night I just happened to be the best option. After talking to her a bit I realized she didn't care at all. She thought nothing of making plans and ghosting if something better came along. I asked her about it and she said, "oh that, it's no big deal." It was an eye opener for me.
Don't make up a story about what is going on, it could be anything. She could just be a twat.
We tend to think it was something we did, and it may be, but often times she is just going with her best option that night.
Could you imagine if you had a dozen chicks fighting to get up on you. You might act the same way.
@@Jaguaist Do your best to move on and forget her. Women can be ruthless when their feelings change, it's hard to hear but she probably just wants you to leave her alone at this point. She's moved on and doesn't want to deal with it anymore. Your only chance of getting her interest back is to ignore her and act like it's no big deal. You banged a hot girl, be happy about it and move on. Now you know you can, it's not like she's the only hot chick you'll ever be with.
Lots of thanks for sharing this eye opening piece bro
A lot of these guys get needy towards one woman because the flaking/ghosting has gotten so horrendous, even with women who were judging showing 9/10 interest or higher
*just
Very much so.
There is really no point in pursuing women online if you dont see choosing signals regularly IRL.
@@erikjohansson6579 I completely agree. I mainly do daygame and have done thousands of approaches yet the ghosting/flaking is still horrendous from that. Not as bad as online game but still rough. I get dates, pulls, and lays from daygame and OLD but that's only because I do a ton of approaches, whereas most guys these days are spineless chodes and don't approach at all.
In what vecinity do you find girls that follow through more? Or is it rather a matter of good form and confidence on your end you think.
@@erikjohansson6579 What do you mean exactly by "in what vicinity"? I think it's the latter. I have strong confidence and execute the best practices of game (tonality, body language, eye contact, teasing, getting her to qualify, etc). Don't get me wrong. There's still a huge amount of ghosting (whether that's before a 1st date takes place OR after the 1st date OR after the 2nd date). It's just more effective than OLD. Cold approach shows a ton of confidence and also women rarely get approached these days. Anyone could swipe right from behind a screen.
This is exactly what I do with women. In my case it's more like I am bored and decide to date a woman that I am not that attracted to. After a few months I get bored again and leave her.
dude.. then start raising the bar and date up.. what's the point of dating a girl you aren't attracted to? It simply doesn't make any sense unless you are a Narcissist and in need of filling your sad shit of a life with the lowest hanging fruit and in constant need of validation. Grow up!
@@kiddytube3915agreed
If a woman doesn't belong to the streets I'm gonna take her there. I got the key to the streets.
But bear in mind, the “structured woman” could be religious or come from a background where premarital sex is forbidden. Yes it’s 2023 but there can still be people like that out there. Those could be the “rules” Corey talks about here. But like he said, you need to evaluate. Ask yourself: do I really want to wait till marriage? Does her religion support mine or my beliefs too? And that’s assuming she is honest with you. If she’s stringing you around and making you wait, that’s immature like he said
Women will disagree with Coach when he says no group dates and call the guy insecure because he says her friends are cockblockers. Stay strong men because Corey is right they WILL cock block you!!!
"what do you want???!" "--well , a cocktail and a sandwich!!!! ". Brilliant! hahaha
That remember me of a game of thrones scene. Cersei asks king robert what he wants and he just shows her a glass of wine😂
If she exhibited low effort , should have this been surprising ?
It’s hard to tell if they ghosted you for reals or it’s some kinda test . I had an experience where a chick once ghosted me to see if I care about her ever since that experience idk if a chick has ghosted me or playing mental games with me .
Yeah...we ain't doing a group date! She's going to EARN the "once-a-week" date with me!
You work on your self maybe change gyms for a year come back she will want you then but buy then you won’t even want her it happens all the time
Corey’s a G
One of the few
Sheesh sounds like me at first
Shave your head and your ass and meditate all day... 😮
😂😂😂
Question, yesterday i was talking with my girl like you teach us (what else,...) Eventually she said stop im always the one talking about this an d that now its your turn and she asked if there was bothering me something and there was BUT i didnt want to talk about it because I DONT want to make her my mommy or therapist like coach tells us but she told me i need to stop stuffing everthing so i talked for a bit but with a mentality of it is that it is whatever at the end of the night she said "i am happy thank you" and we had amazing seggs... BUT is it okey to talk about my problems with her IF SHE wants me talk about it? I DON'T want to make her my mommy but what if she encourages me to talk? Thanks
You could give a hint but change the subject after, so she at least gets an idea
I talk about something bothering me (relationship wise) in a “I need this in this relationship or I won’t be in it) still gives you the power and doesn’t sound needy. The woman can’t give you what you want if she doesn’t know what it is
@@Leoo117 i would never complain or ask her to solve my problems to my girlfriend she is not my mommy/therapist but she started copying the way i communicate with her like coach teaches us... She started using "what else" "tell memore" and everything coach tough us ... which is kinda cute and funny tbh
@@littleanimalchannel1 the book says to when that happen to give a humorous response. Dont refuse to talk but neither give her a serious answer. Joke about it.
@@littleanimalchannel1 anyway coach corey has a video on this specifc subject. Search for corey wayne my girlfriend wants me to open emotionally
Surely the explanation in the 2nd case is that he's 6 to 7 and she's a 9. He should count himself fortunate he got the box😂
You can own any relationship as a 6 or 7. Once you’re in the door it’s all personality.
@@kellyjford1 that's blue pill mentality
@@Jaguaist yeh you're a solid 7 bro👍
Don't forget women for the most part never date down. Unless as was stated she has self esteem issues, then she may date down. Most modern women know their SMV worth. I hope you have taken on board what coach Corey said and learn from your recent experiences with this girl.
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Don't waste any time with chicks with very low interest if you do happen to get with a chick with low interest and get to have sex with her like the guy in the second email did hit it real good so she won't forget you once you hit it real good you will always be on the back of her mind no matter who she gets with which means eventually she will contact you chicks with very low interest tend to play with us guys without realizing it you are the cat chasing the ball with the string woman will string guys along for their own ego It's an ego boost for them turn the tables like coach said if you meet a girl who is easy going and wants to spend time with you go for that instead of time wasters you can never get that time you wasted back here is a quick story. I met my cousin's baby sitter she was 32 at the time I was 23 we had some chemistry I was confident I was going to get that once I did I patted myself with both hands behind my back 😂 until this day we are still very cool with each other she still calls me.
@@Jaguaist just my opinion bro you're welcome