Does She Want A Relationship or Not?
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- Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
- How to determine if the woman you are dating wants a relationship or not and how to get her to want one if she doesn’t.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is thirty-nine. He was married to his wife for seventeen years with two kids before she passed away. He started dating his now ex-girlfriend about four months ago. After several weeks of dating and hooking up, she asked him to be exclusive. At the beginning of the year, she asked for space. She recently reached out to him after a few weeks of not talking to say that she missed him and invited him over. They hooked up, but he is confused and trying to figure out if she wants a relationship or not.
“Relationship and dating labels, commitments, bonding, connecting and being exclusive are feminine energy. Men may pick who they want to date, but it is women who do the actual choosing. Therefore, men should focus on creating the next opportunity for sex to happen and simply focus on hanging out, having fun while hanging out and hooking up when they are hanging out having fun. When a woman feels ready and provided the guy doesn’t display too many unattractive behaviors that ruin her attraction towards him, she will bring up being exclusive. Men who try to lock women down before they are emotionally ready, will actually repel and turn women off, which leads to friend zoning, rejection or ghosting.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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He ignores the 7 principles of getting an EX back. She needed to come to HIM.
Does she want a relationship or not or does she like you or not?
Answers from her
Yes: She wants you
Maybe: She does not want you.
I don't know: She does not want you.
I need time: She does not want you.
I see you as a friend: She does not want you.
I see you as my brother: She does not want you.
And the most epic ones are below😂😂😂
You are too good for me: She does not want you.
I don't deserve you: She does not want you.
I don't want you now, but I want you in future: She does not want you.
Respect your time, energy and emotional investment and don't waste it fellas..give it only to someone whose a fuck yes about you !!!!
Wisdom. Thanks!
this seems so true
If she’s into you enough, she’ll be ready for a relationship. It’s that simple.
“Not ready for a relationship” means she doesn’t want to be with you. Just move on until you find someone who wants you more than anyone else. It’s worth the wait.
I suspect there could be some slight combability problems of some ladies to certain guys interactions. That could have been some point where the girls simply got turn off from the men.
Nasdaq QQQ.. I dated a girl 2 months all was great then she said( I'm not ready for a relationship), oh yeah she was, went back to her ex, and continued on with the old relationship..
I read the title of the video and let out an involuntary "Come on, man."
Ditto
I was in a long distance relationship for almost two years. About 6 months ago my ex said things like "I think I just need some space. We can still spend time on Skype, just...not so often." (Anytime we Skyped it was she who initiated.) I told her I'll step back, but I don't do "just friends" which is where I knew it was going. I also said "I can send your stuff back if you'd like", to which she responded "Sure." I sent everything back to her, haven't heard from her since and don't expect to.
She'll probably contact you again. It could be for one of two reasons. She'll reach out because she genuinely misses you or she'll just want to see if she could have you again. And if she never contacts you again, you'll find someone better.
LDR are hard to keep. I had few once. Basicly with the same scenario
Did she ever reply back?
Wtf happened?
If she's hot and cold there's another guy behind the scenes. If you over pursue you'll lose her. It has to be the woman who brings up being exclusive never try to lock them down. Say no to friendship always be clear on what it is you want. If they cannot do what you want walk away and find someone else. Hang out, have fun and hook up rinse recycle and repeat.
Spoken/written with absolute perfection
@@bluesmoke8826 it helps when you read the book 10 to 15 times as Corey would say!
If she genuinely wants a relationship she would do literally the most to ensure she gets a relationship. She won't play no games. She will however throw hints and if the hints don't work she will create another way to make it seem obvious...true or definitely true?
I would say this depends on the personality of the girls involved. Corey meant that the listed attributes of the ladies involved might be some queen bees, alpha females etc. will be a tough challenge for introverted shy guys. He is in fact selling the idea rather than just be the most alpha male that you should be, you could be somebody that is the better versions of yourselves.
The ladies will throw hints and many different hints as per usual. My believe is that there are factors to how this work. The ladies feel that the guys being (needy/insecure/not direct and brave) etc. don't match up to them because they want somebody who has self conviction. That's the reason some women attracted to guys lacking financial stability or some weird eccentric lifestyles rather than plain high-class guys.
The other factors of ladies giving hints and questions even at dates & non-dates might be a sign of testing your combability to them. I have seen women being close to respective guys, giving hints and questions that show interaction combability of some guys to them. The girls besides wanting some unpredictability and courage from the guys, they want them to know their intimate interaction levels to them. This is the hallmark of a long-term proper dating to relationship phase where guys should have strong actions to show their interest levels to ladies.
In conclusion, I suspect that ladies want their men to have some form of courage, self-respect and autonomy. The men should have kind of combability mindset to turn the ladies on.
They’ll literally ask you
@@clementtroaming5435 that's what I want from my partner that I'm soon breaking up with...
@@baralike6258 Hope things are working out for you this Valentine’s Day even if it all goes wrong
@@clementtroaming5435 oh well, it's not working unfortunately
Clear signs she wants you to commit is when she is doing all the reaching out and pursuing. She will now begin to fix her schedule around yours. She will demand to see you more reguarly. Now she has become attached. Its up to you to accept or reject her. Irish Dating Coach.
That’s happened to me she was doing all the reaching and pursuing and now out of a sudden she’s ask me what are we? I told her that I’m open to anything and then she told me that she just want to be friends w benefit
@@gabrielvicini1633 that was a horrible response bud. You’re supposed to ask her why she’s asking and figure out where she’s coming from. You basically told her that you don’t care where your relationship goes with that answer.
glad u back to videos..new generation needs u...starting watching u when it was 50 to talk to u
Does she want a relationship or not?
"That's none of your Fu..ing business dude..."
Golden
Been missing so many of your videos coach but looking good sir. Need to start to read your books again.... But just having so much success... Thanks they're a life changer.
I bought your book saving up for the personal call
Don't wast your money, just read the book and live the principals 👍🏽
Read it 10-15 times
Smart move, welcome to the 3% Club
Invest in GameStop instead. Coach will forgive you.
I highly recommend the audiobook for the ipod something I listen to every week.
Thank you coach. I been following your stuff. It works for the skeptical ones. I drifted away but im back on track.
Who cares what she wants. Work on the best you. She can come along or not.
The Hang out have fun hook up mug looks brilliant
I like the 'C'mon Man' and 'she belongs to the streets' mugs I'm tempted to purchase both.
Another factor...January is a huge break-up month. The excitement from Christmas wearing off and new game plan for the new year of self improvement kicking in. Usually begging back by late January.
@Royal Blue You're exactly right! The more guys that don't put up with this shit, the quicker the power swings back from the femme imperative to something resembling rationality.
@Royal Blue Yes you do! All men do!
No, she doesn't I was getting the shipping labels ready! Just send it back.
You do an awesome job Corey Wayne!
Thanks for the video!
Corey loves the Jimmy Stewart reference. It is a perfect case in point, after all.
Hi coach. Keep grinding 👏🏻😌
Coach, I know it's a long shot but it would be awesome if you did a video on all your favorite movies that have examples of strong male characters and or healthy relationships between men and women.
Those will all have to be pre 1980's or James Bond movies and "The Ugly Truth"
Nice work 🎆🎇✨
Time for wisdom 😎
Ive often wondered this but never cared to say anything or look needy. Specially with all the women who chase me, get mad when i dont chase, always want to see me.
After a while i get tire of it if it doesnt move forward on its own and i just move on and they really shit the bed when i tell them im looking for something more.
Corey man you gotta get on the app Clubhouse if you have time, the amount of more people’s lives you’d impact would be 👌🏾
I’m in a relationship with a great girl that knock my socks off for a year and a month so far because of Corey Wayne’s work and were in love but is anyone else constantly a little anxious about them doing things right?
How is it going bro?
Good stuff rare information ℹ️
The ending 😂
So she want a relationship but also wants to type with her multiple exes, :S what the hell does that mean?
Loving your book coach I have the digital and audiobook if I listen to the audio book 15 times would I still get the same results as if I actually read it ?
💯 💯 true…they make it SO obvious when they like you. If they don’t get your attention the first time, they’ll do something MORE obvious the next time until they get your attention.
If you’re trying to get some girl’s attention, reach out & make the first move. If you’re confused if she likes you…she don’t like you. Stop all pursuit until she starts reaching out & pursuing you.
You only go for those who make it so obvious that they want you. Until then, keep improving your appearance, your career/business, and health…eventually the quality of women that want YOU will go up…and they will make it so obvious that they like you.
Corey’s methodology & philosophy is so effective & simple to employ in your life. Once you get it, it’s so easy to understand what to do & what to look for.
She's not your girl, it's just your turn.
Over used line that is thrown around and has lost its meaning.
@@ptrsrfns Frequently used because its true. Since the advent of internet dating and social media the majority of women have dick fly'n at them from all directions. Endless options for more money and more status make integrity and loyalty a rare occurance.
I've studied female behavior from many angles (coach corey was one of my first stops) and these days I really don't care much for hunting unicorns. Just not worth the effort...
@@Gtrtech so an ugly girl has a higher chance of being loyal due to her having less options? If thats the case isnt a loyal hot girl impossible since girls act on emotions and there will always be a guy that turns her on more that will come along at some point in time from her 1000+ options
Great video just in time!
Hey Coach, when a woman is in her masculine after a break up, is giving her space & distance the best thing to do?
Like first and then watch the video... :-)
"next best thing since the sliced bread" LOL
I always look to see how the man is portrayed in movies where there is male/female romantic relationship. It’s pretty interesting
Corey, are you still planning on bringing your book of quotes out?
I like quality interactions. I like a guy who does pursue because I’m shy. But I do need some space. Don’t text all the time, call me instead, plan dates, and be exciting sometimes.
That's all I'm asking for
If you care about your success you will just buy the damn book and follow what Coach says.
Hahaha the spider man director 3% man comment🤣😂
Ditto
Always listen to Uncle Corey he rocks I love his work I recommend getting both his paperback and audio books they are a God send for us men. His stuff works.
The dude never should have agreed to exclusivity so soon. Should have spun plates for longer. "I like hanging with you babe but I want to get to know you more before we're exclusive."
If after you say "come over here, let's see what happens", she says that she'll only come over if you are serious about commitment... then what do you do in that case?
"Come over and ask me about commitment when I'm deep inside you."
@@CoachCoreyWayne 🤣✌
Okay I perfectly got the fact that a girl has to bring the relationship topic.. but what about if it's been 8 months? Even though I'm doing more things right than wrong... that girl that I was seeing she tends to be emotionally unavailable.. couldn't be meant that the girl literally doesn't want and looking for a serious relationship at all but just casual one? She told me before she hasn't been in a relationship for 9 years!!
It you have to ask...
....you.ll never know
Women want to feel your Strength and Dominance.. Not Weakness
Coach Corey. Can you do a video for how to handle Valentine’s Day without coming off as a beta simp?
Ignore it.
You're welcome. 🤝
Simple. Don't be a beta simp.
❤️
How about Tom Brady's continued success! True epitome of an alpha male, lives for himself and answers the critics by making it to the Super Bowl for the 10th time, so damn inspiring!!
Legend. The problem is with female nature his wife will leave him even though he is the epitome of what a man can be. Always remember that
Just bought the movie charade
Jesus she was on the CC. It was just his turn. But like you smile at it :-)
👍🏻
Coach is watching a lot of black and white moves!
It is always talked about the male pursuing too much and chasing after her, but what about the other way around? The male pursuing too less and the woman losing interest?
Screw relationships, just enjoy being single and keep it casual with women. Commitments, especially for younger guys, drain all of your time and energy and will prevent you from being a successful man. Focus on your goals and enjoy being free. If you guys need any help, just ask.
Words of wisdom
Have fun giving pieces of your soul away to people that will never care about you.
Everything changes when you stop giving a fuck... FACTS 💯👀
How should we handle the rule of low online communication ans schedule dates when she reaches out - now during covid lockdowns?
I found the same principle applies. Got my third with the same woman. I'm at the date a week phase and she is reaching out to me.
@@DavidCartmellDJCartmell dude, my point is if legally you're not allowed to leave the house and the police checks every main road.
Should in this extreme case be ok with doing video calls and such, till a physical date is a possibility?
@@DavidJNogueira I'd keep the video calls to a bare minimum- probably only if she initiates the call. Other than that- too much online interaction whether that be video calls or texting kills your sense of mystery when you finally meet in person
hey coach and fellow students, i want to ask regarding my girlfriend. she says she had a problem in the office but didnt want to tell me the detail of the problem?? is it okay that she didnt want me to know about it? or is it a sign that she doesnt really trust me? her attraction level, I suppose to be at 9-10
1. Do y'all live 2gether?
2. How de convo btween y'all went for her to say dat she had a prob at de office?
Red flag. Give her the ultimatum of the does not tell you you're out and then walk away don't look back
Ask her
Corey should do more monetization in his videos. I want to see ads every 15 seconds.
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I qsked to go for a run with my ex because she started to workout and she ghosted me then i said ok a no igues idk why but keep it healty the she said sorry idk either
Wtf does that mean xd
@Royal Blue wel we texted a couple times b4 and thought why not meet her after 7m
U gotta know we didnt break up because it was bad relation
Her paretns are turkish and her dad brainwashed her
It's really frustrating that due to the lock down and curfew that dating is nigh impossible... There's nowhere to go (it's dark in the park really soon, and rainy anyway) and now one needs to be gone before 9 or risk a fine... One positive side: it gives plenty of time to read your book.
I agree on using the opportunity to brush up on the material however, it's not stopped me getting Skype dates and have my third one with the same woman on Saturday courtesy of Corey's book. It works miracles.
I'm happy for you! For me that doesn't work. I want to date women irl or not at all. 😜
@@DavidCartmellDJCartmell Skype calls aren't dates.
He's saying his wife died 18 months ago and then met this other woman in October
So.. what exactly is "exclusive" i became "exclusive" with a gal about 6 weeks ago but she doesnt think that includes the boy friend/ girl friend title..but she says words like in a relationship.. and "us" and all that.. confusing
Seems like you are getting friend zones or she sees it like a friends with benifits “relationship” thats why she isnt agreeing with you being her “boyfriend”. Bro keep acting single because she is acting single and is probably sleeping with other guys by what youve said.
@@neuvation6607 ohhh no.. we do things like being a couple.. sex..dates.. going out . met her siblings and such..we are still fairly new.. but im just new to the world of dating how it is now.
@@bryanr5756 ask yourself, why doesn't she like to use the word boyfriend? you are also speaking as if she is planning all the dates. Its not usually the guy who says, "hey when am i meeting your siblings" so i assume she is treating you like a bf but is not cool with the term. Thus, you should take things slow and not care about labels either . You saying things like "WE are STILL new" when she isn't calling you her man shows me you care more about her than she care about you.. hangout have fun and hook up, and take control of the dates , don't just let her invite you to stuff with her siblings or friends unless you are already dating and she tells you she want commitment, when you are still figuring out its best to stay skeptical being a single guy and meeting her on your terms
@@bryanr5756 get the book n build ur knowledge
Corey, 7 ads within 23 min.? You're overdoing it. Usually I watch 1 or 2 to support the video creator, but when I see so many I block them all.
Yup. Some really questionable add content...
With Valentine's day coming up, how do you handle having multiple girls that would be disappointed if you didn't spend that day with them?
Choose whoever wants u de most
Do YOU want a relationship
Let’s spoon and maybe something will pop up. *ding* - “oh honey think the bread is ready, can you get me the sandwich please” 🍞
I don't want to focus on fun and sex, f that sh. I want something stable, I have enough sh to think about as is.
hoestly id say fuck it and be single and just enjoy dating around. the second she dipped I would be done period. no time for emotional rollercoasters and games. either you want someone or you dont. if shes in out in out screw that. the second they have you the second they dont want you anymore lmao
My girlfriend always asks me do i love her what does that mean
We have been dating for 10 weeks and have not said i love you yet .
Do you love her?
Means you’re doing something right
Second
What if she has had a boyfriend for five years? I’ve been messing with this girl for eight months and I can tell she’s really into me but I’m not sure if I’m into her. Sometimes I can see us together but sometimes I can’t. I give her that good 🐓 from Time to time, again she has a boyfriend.
Follow de 3H rule. Read de book 10-15 times
You will lose her the same say you found her brother.
She is low quality. Do you actually want to date a cheater? Look at yourself in the mirror
Maybe I should look for a love coach who's on the autism spectrum and is LGBTQIA+ cuz your advice doesn't work for these groups. I need routine, directness and a give and take from my potential partner and I figure if I find someone like me it'll be a lot easier
4th
Hey Corey, what’s your stance on Biden?
First
Wrong, older movies are guys pursuing women ALWAYS. Stop promoting your feminist agenda.