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  • Опубликовано: 10 окт 2024
  • How to get out of the friends-zone, turn your girl friend into your girlfriend, or get a second chance to progress things romantically with a woman after you have been friend-zoned.
    In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a twenty-two year old self-professed nice guy who is in love with his best friend. The problem? She has a boyfriend who is a jerk. He wants to win her away from him and asks me how he can do it. The second email is from a guy who got friend-zoned by a woman two years ago he really wanted to date romantically. I have done several email coaching emails over the past year to help him progress things from being strictly platonic and her saying there is no chance for him romantically, to his latest email update which is a success story of how he got her to pursue him, ask him out and even to cause her to invite him into her bedroom once things got hot and heavy on her couch. It’s a great small victory from a guy who has mostly lost his shit and emotional self-control over the past year and continued to make unnecessary beta male mistakes that kept him firmly in friends-zone. Things are finally starting to click for him.
    “Everyone wants to win and be successful at creating the life and lifestyle of their dreams. However, most people are unwilling to focus, prepare and develop their skills so they can increase their value in both their personal and professional lives. Mediocre people make excuses and listen to those who justify why being “realistic” and settling for less than what they are capable of, simply because misery tends to love company. In other words mediocre people sabotage other people’s success and dreams simply because it justifies continued mediocrity in their own lives. If the people in your personal and professional life are not high achievers who lift you up and encourage and support your grandest dreams, the reality is they are going to hold you back and inhibit your progress. You can’t reach your full potential when you are surrounded by and influenced by mediocre minds.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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Комментарии • 179

  • @AllEyezOnRod
    @AllEyezOnRod 8 лет назад +170

    “You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.”
    ― Tupac Shakur

    • @nickrocca6921
      @nickrocca6921 8 лет назад +5

      Nice quote

    • @luckyman09
      @luckyman09 7 лет назад +4

      Rodney Noel 100% bro

    • @shinakuma9
      @shinakuma9 7 лет назад +2

      Rodney Noel very good

    • @user-dv2hc8zt3o
      @user-dv2hc8zt3o 3 года назад +1

      Tupac was wise beyond his years.

    • @MrSilverfish12
      @MrSilverfish12 3 года назад +1

      @@scubasteve2189 you definitely did. He is not perfect but still a great human, watch his documentary for sure!

  • @Ston247
    @Ston247 5 лет назад +53

    The friendzone is like quicksand. The longer you stay in, the more likely you'll drown. Get out fast !! After the *"getting to know you"* phase, make your intentions clear. If the answwer is no, start pulling back.

  • @don43015
    @don43015 8 лет назад +119

    The thing I had to overcome was, yes, I'm good enough. And, if she isn't smart enough to see that. I'll just turn away and look for the next one. Also, it's ok if she's not attracted to me, cause I'm not attracted to every woman. I'll be just fine without her if we both don't feel that spark together. Be your own best friend first fellas.

  • @Eternal996
    @Eternal996 6 лет назад +53

    How to get out of the friendzone: Have options. Done.

  • @TheArthrighteous
    @TheArthrighteous 8 лет назад +48

    By far the worst area to hangout in. You hang there waiting for your opportunity and all the while her attraction goes nowhere but down. You constantly seek approval, until you are tired of being her crutch. Here's a great metaphor, "what do people do with crutches once they are healed?". They ditch them. Don't be that guy who hangs out hoping that she responds to your text or call. Give her the, "I'm not interested in being your friend or gal pal... But if you change your mind give me a call." You guys may not win her heart, but you will gain so much empowerment and power to move on with your life to be happy and healthy. Get the power back gentlemen.

  • @oman0115
    @oman0115 8 лет назад +33

    I spent 5 months in the friend zone whilst she was with another guy and moaning about him to me, but never agreeing to meet up. I look back on it now with utter embarrassment. I follow Coach's videos and it's totally changed my approach. I told her I've had enough and really care about her but won't be friends anymore and call me if she wants to go back to where we were. I've heard nothing from her for 2 months. At first it was hard and I wanted her to call, now I don't care and have met someone young and more attractive, as well as more balanced and a lot more exciting in bed. Couldn't be happier and I hope my ex finds happiness ( she's always been troubled ) but I'm so glad she's not my problem anymore. This approach works!

  • @setup3967
    @setup3967 8 лет назад +49

    Its awesome how that works "The strongest negotiating position is to walk away and mean it"
    This is a story from yesterday. on sunday a girl from work gave me her snapchat and she was asking me all kinds of questions about me and i answered in funny ways without giving any info out and I took that as interest on me so i added her to make a date yesterday then she said she was busy the whole week and had a boyfriend then I just replied really that sucks and thank you for telling me well if it doesnt workout shoot me a message Id love to take you out. after that she replied It is nothing bad you can still talk to me(Backup or male girlfriend) then I said well thanks but not thanks I can wait. see you at work. and that was it but anyway Id like to say thanks corey for all you have done for all of us and for helping us overcome our fears with woman.

  • @jirenuniverse116
    @jirenuniverse116 6 лет назад +25

    It works man!, you're the MAN!, I was acting weak 3 years ago and got into a friendzone with a girl, it was so bad that I basically became her man servant, when I stumbled upon your work, I realized how fucked up I was. I started pursuing my goals, going to the gym four times a week, improving my academic scores. then two years later, she contacted me, we went on some dates, and she was begging me to be her boyfriend, but I rejected her cause she's not my type anymore LOL, but we stayed friends

    • @carloscastillo8647
      @carloscastillo8647 6 лет назад +1

      Akioblast 95 I woul like to know what's your take on this. I was friends with benefits with this girl but after two months she ended it and told me she wanted to be just friends, I told her I don't think I could be just friends with her, she said ok, but I saw she was bothered by it, we are co-workersr, yesterday we were talking about something that happened at work, some guy is pissed at me because he wants to bang her and he knows I was banging her, she doesn't want anything to do with him so he hates me, yesterday she said to me " the kind of things you get for being my friend" trying to move me to the friend zone again, I told her it wasn't because I was her friend, and that I am not her friend. It's very dificult to keep the no contact rule because I work with her, in the same office, and we are alone all day long, and I have to sit right next to her sometimes because she is an intern and I am teaching her stuff, it's my job, how do I deal with the no contact rule and with being indifferent and not treating her like a friend if I am with her all the fucking time??

    • @jirenuniverse116
      @jirenuniverse116 6 лет назад +3

      Carlos castillo, IMO you shouldn't think about her at all, just pursue your passions, treat her as if nothing happened, date other girls, I was once just like you, after I shift my mind into my passions, girls start chasing me. I don't bother with small problems because I'm too busy pursuing my dream. For example, I'm an asian guy who wanted to go to Europe to get my master degree, therefore I should work harder to save more money and keep my body fit and in shape. Read Corey's book, you'll understand, good luck mate, remember it took 2 years for the girl to come back to me

    • @carloscastillo8647
      @carloscastillo8647 6 лет назад +1

      Akioblast 95 have read the book five times, but I had never been in this kind of situation. It looks like now she is seeing another guy from work, different department. It's difficult to be working next to her teaching her stuff and seeing how he messaged her on WhatsApp web, girls aren't supposed to be attracted tonight's who text them everyday, even when they are at work.

    • @jirenuniverse116
      @jirenuniverse116 6 лет назад

      Date other girls dude, don't focus on relationship. In this world there are billions of women, some of them are single. I was needy and insecure before, that's why most girls rejected me, just focus on dating other girls, you're missing out the fun, I've dated a white, Chinese, and a half girl since I met the girl I told you about, at first it's hard, but then you'll forget about the pain. Let God decide, if she's meant to be with u then she'll come, if she's not then you'll find somebody better, my mom used to say

    • @carloscastillo8647
      @carloscastillo8647 6 лет назад

      Akioblast 95 I'm seeing another girl tbh, but there's something about this one, what you say makes sense, you're right. Thanks man

  • @jerryk3280
    @jerryk3280 8 лет назад +21

    Corey, you tell it how it is, even when guys don't want to hear it. I have been 'friend zoned' more than once and yes it sucks but it's also not the end of the world. It's also not cool to try and break up other relationships like you mentioned. Sometimes the best thing to do is walk away. Your e-book is awesome. Please keep up the great work!

  • @nl6049
    @nl6049 8 лет назад +12

    it's funny how we look at those things now and how we did before we learned the stuff from book. Thanks coach.

  • @kareembrown1673
    @kareembrown1673 8 лет назад +10

    This video is so legendary, i'm sharing it with all my buddies. They follow this man's work like the gospel now. Thanks for everything coach

  • @genericname34
    @genericname34 8 лет назад +11

    "If she's not available he's like 'next', I'm gonna get killed tomorrow by the bad guys" wins the Internet today haha

  • @David-ib8ek
    @David-ib8ek 8 лет назад +5

    Keep bringing that Brutal Honesty!! Whether we like it or not we need to hear it in order to grow!! at least we know your intentions are good.

  • @chesterdave8019
    @chesterdave8019 8 лет назад +21

    1,00,000 subscribers.!! Awesome coach. You are undeniably the Best !! Looking forward to your next newsletter already

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  8 лет назад +15

      +Chester Dave Friday

    • @quickfootmedia1210
      @quickfootmedia1210 8 лет назад

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    • @dukethompson2587
      @dukethompson2587 7 лет назад

      Coach Corey Wayne
      Merry Christmas to all! would anyone be able to give some advice regarding this friend situation but with a fiance that has been living with the man for 5 1/2 years. due to lying and substance abuse and many other issues throughout the last couple years she has worked on herself and decided to move out and for them to temporarily separate. she wants to getvan apartment close to the house and start fresh and rekindle a strong friendship from the beginning. prior to this happening they both wanted to and were under the impression of getting married to each other. the only thing that hindered the marriage was the man not staying off the substance he was abusing, the lying and such. now that he is in recovery she just wants to see that he can have goals and more ambition and organize his life while she focuses on her career. they own pets together which is also part of the reason for her to stay somewhere close by and they want to be back together provided the man can do what he has know and promised to do many times but never put it into action. he must assume the Alpha role of the household. he has to also provide a safe and comfortable future for her. so get circumstance with that still be the same concept of friends that you should avoid or would you consider the possibility of doing that? any insight that any person cannot phrase much obliged. thank you.

  • @Mace2213
    @Mace2213 4 года назад +10

    what if you accept "friendship" you stop giving her the attention and go for other girls? this is also a powerful position to be in. friendzone her instead of being friendzoned

  • @Hilirion
    @Hilirion 8 лет назад +10

    This are those clowns who run around saying that the girl of his dreams is hard to read. She's not hard to read she's just not into you fullstop.

  • @tracyratelle1357
    @tracyratelle1357 7 лет назад +2

    Yep, real life is not a Hollywood film, the good guys don't always win, you rock Cory

  • @ELdASenSei
    @ELdASenSei 5 лет назад +3

    First guy. I am somewhat in your situation. What I realised is, this happened because of not having enough experience. Best thing to do is: distance yourself, if possible, cut contact and focus on yourself and build your skills with women in general. Move on from her eventhough you are hung up on her. Time away and the distance will bring back to your senses. Offcourse how much time I don't know, this is different for each person.

  • @paulit081
    @paulit081 8 лет назад +11

    thank goodness I found you coach Corey. I won't let myself in that zone again. lol!

  • @maitrekano
    @maitrekano 3 года назад +2

    youre the best coach there is , so simple and yet so right

  • @meolegare6794
    @meolegare6794 8 лет назад +4

    Congratulation on your 100,000 subscribers Coach !!! Having coffee with you everyday on RUclips for the past two years has made all the difference for me, I'm a new Man.

  • @yancasemiro9798
    @yancasemiro9798 5 лет назад +3

    Absorbing that wisdom. Thanks Corey

  • @Adrique303
    @Adrique303 8 лет назад +3

    Nice one Coach. The right way to smack the guy😀😀😁😁😁😂😂😂😃

  • @svtben
    @svtben 8 лет назад +4

    One of the best stories I have ever heard! Congrats on your milestone, Corey!

  • @farzadkavari
    @farzadkavari 8 лет назад +43

    The first guy is a weak man, I could never be attracted to any girl that has a bf! Move on man.

    • @farzadkavari
      @farzadkavari 8 лет назад +10

      +occupynewparadigm bro i,ve date plenty og 9s and 10s. No point of getting hung over any girl. There is a new bus every 10-15 min. Keep reading the book..

    • @sherpajones
      @sherpajones 8 лет назад +5

      +F OZ I've been attracted to married women. I just don't do nothin' 'bout it. Attraction isn't something I find able to turn off and on like a switch. It's the measure of attention I give that attraction that matters.

    • @fargeeks
      @fargeeks 4 года назад

      I had a taken lady attracted to me, it sucks!!! Because she is beautiful

    • @user-dv2hc8zt3o
      @user-dv2hc8zt3o 3 года назад

      Facts

  • @rikrichards9555
    @rikrichards9555 3 года назад +1

    Thx again for your videos! Lots of lying dating coaches out there, like Dumbovan!

  • @c-za.c7085
    @c-za.c7085 8 лет назад +7

    Can't wait to Reprogram my brain to the max with your audio book!!!

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  8 лет назад +5

      +Cesar Camara soon

    • @flash12319
      @flash12319 8 лет назад

      +Coach Corey Wayne when😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩I want it so bad

    • @HawaiiSong
      @HawaiiSong 8 лет назад

      +Coach Corey Wayne I'm buying it the second it comes out

    • @HawaiiSong
      @HawaiiSong 8 лет назад

      skhumbuzo cele Yea I bought it a few weeks ago and I'm on my 3rd listen. Thanks!

  • @jerkycat
    @jerkycat 8 лет назад +1

    back and forth... from the book to the videos back to the book.. Thanks Corey

  • @masoodb2464
    @masoodb2464 4 года назад +3

    "Call me if you change your mind" = "These arent the droids your looking for".

  • @RestInPiss505
    @RestInPiss505 8 лет назад +2

    im a new Subscriber and new to your channel. Was watching ur videos for hours last night and your advice seems like its spot on from my life experiences with women. I've been terrible with women all my life(22) & I'm tired of losing out on the women I want. I just bought the book & I'm confident this shit will work!!

  • @ss15497
    @ss15497 8 лет назад +2

    Yeah Coach, isn't the follow/unfollow button pretty new on Facebook? That thing is awesome, i hate that one person posting something every minute.

  • @bruhthem
    @bruhthem 8 лет назад +3

    Doc I love your sarcasm! Its so hilarious but real. lol

  • @markm7929
    @markm7929 8 лет назад +8

    Just finished read number 3!

    • @TacticalBe
      @TacticalBe 8 лет назад

      Yeah? Do you find it very repetitive? I'm almost finished the first read but it seems very repetitive to me. Also are youre watching all the videos along with it?

    • @markm7929
      @markm7929 8 лет назад +3

      +Evilwave Heddy I think thats the point to hammer home certain key components.

    • @shy8502
      @shy8502 6 лет назад

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      Ll.plslz

  • @sal2417
    @sal2417 8 лет назад +4

    tell him that tactic to tell her you know what I want you& I desire you but I can't be your friend no lie Corey that has got me laid at least twice sure I didnt get her back but I sure was surprised as soon as I said it & by quote she had jumped on me like a tiger on a wilderbeast😂 love your work bro I do tell people about you too your character truly is genuine and it's comedy how for a living you help heal mens clearly feminine it can all be traced to that, I blame being with a girl for too long & not with the boys enough but maybe that's just me.

    • @sal2417
      @sal2417 8 лет назад

      feminine energy

    • @Masterteacherofattraction
      @Masterteacherofattraction 8 лет назад

      That's real good man. I can't wait for the summertime in Chicago to apply Corey's teachings. Where do you live?

    • @sal2417
      @sal2417 8 лет назад

      +Cameron McCullough socal and yes watch a lot of his videos and definitely download his book this can truly change up the game for you consider it like having jedi like powers because most of today's generation is highly misinformed the true law of attraction is pretty much the opposite of whatever they teach us in movies you have to be likes James Bond you can't be predictable or dependent always be indifferent & always remember the person who cares less about the relationship controls it & that's no lie lol I think Corey should give me a job😂 because I always had a high precieved value of myself & the day i tried to be mr noble was the day I realized that it's clearly undoubtedly not working &we're all clearly being taught how to get rejected rather then spark their interest another great mentor that I've used is Derek rake the guys also a genius you won't find him on RUclips tho but he's worth looking up & learning from

  • @cameronbrewer5089
    @cameronbrewer5089 6 лет назад +1

    Excellent advice Corey. You might be hearin from me.

  • @Reviewscentral2
    @Reviewscentral2 8 лет назад +11

    I was friendzoned for 3 feckin years man. Gave her the speech and walked away. She had hooked up with a dude few weeks before as I gave her the speech. she reached out few times but its 3 months now and shes still with the guy. But I feel better for saying it. Maybe she will contact again. Who knows but thanks for you're help Coach.

    • @broad08530
      @broad08530 7 лет назад +8

      John Mcevoy Fuck that...move on and it's her loss.

  • @ss15497
    @ss15497 8 лет назад +3

    good vid Coach

  • @MrMikey409
    @MrMikey409 8 лет назад +8

    I sent Corey an email a week ago and my story is exactly the same as the first story. I just thought "fuck it, I'm getting out of the friend zone, whether she wants to be my girlfriend or not. She's in it all the way, or completely out." Either way you're still going to get out of the friend zone. I'm surprised how women react when you behave this way 👌

  • @SultanGmane
    @SultanGmane 8 лет назад +2

    I subscribed because of this video thanks man

  • @Hypocricy_rules_supreme
    @Hypocricy_rules_supreme 5 лет назад +4

    He chased me, then friendzoned me, I moved on and now he's chasing me, back to square 1. I haven't got time for this games.

  • @chanderpaul591
    @chanderpaul591 8 лет назад +2

    you are awesome coach!

  • @Champ1988
    @Champ1988 8 лет назад

    Coach, I've done 3 commercials; two of which required studio recordings. Point being, I know the work it's gonna take to get that audiobook squared away! Good luck! Still loving the good ol free version, personally!

  • @TheGoodTheBadTheTarot
    @TheGoodTheBadTheTarot 8 лет назад +1

    Give it to him Corey!! OMG. I love you.

  • @trissuper1
    @trissuper1 8 лет назад

    haha coach , your face when u give the look :D pure gold :D , the telling it as it is face

  • @carloctave
    @carloctave 8 лет назад +5

    LMAO!! Did this guy really accuse Coach Wayne of dancing around a subject?

    • @sportsbetter87
      @sportsbetter87 5 лет назад

      He got quite defensive about that really quickly. What's that about?

  • @matthewyodmanee1418
    @matthewyodmanee1418 8 лет назад +1

    Thanks to watching your videos I know escaped the friend zone

  • @apintonut
    @apintonut 8 лет назад +3

    There was no mention of upcoming audio version of your book and no mention of when pre sales will be available

  • @boajoa86
    @boajoa86 8 лет назад +2

    over 100,000 subscribers! congrats mate!

  • @stefanfeist9893
    @stefanfeist9893 9 месяцев назад +1

    The guy writing the first email is the guy she tells his boyfriend not to worry about.

  • @incarnate9914
    @incarnate9914 8 лет назад

    Hey dude I love your videos. Very informative and entertaining.

  • @Spaced_Invader
    @Spaced_Invader 7 лет назад +5

    damn... got friend zoned... and now she wants to talk to me about her new BF... fuck that!... sorry but im busy doing shit...

    • @broad08530
      @broad08530 7 лет назад

      chuuska1972 good for you!

  • @johnbingaman3645
    @johnbingaman3645 2 года назад +3

    Almost every woman that ends A relationship says we can be friends!!! I say no we can't, friendzone is the endzone, now they put you up on the shelf and they explore all their other options, or go back to their exes, when they want you to fix something or take them out you'll get a text or a call, don't do it, don't expect anything more !!! but to be used!!!! , always say, ,,, no platonic ,,, no friends,, , friends with benefits !!!! want a friend I'll get a dog !!!! they aren't really your friend anyway.. but that free meal and that filled belly feels good, or fixing their car, don't be weak no friends 😕

    • @johnbingaman3645
      @johnbingaman3645 Год назад +1

      @@fml5910 wow that's your typical friendzone happened to me I got the T-shirt to buddy, yeah I was seeing her for about 6 months but I was kissing her and everything no sex though, hold her hand all that good stuff she was sit on my lap, then she gave me the dreaded friend zone the end zone speech oh, we went out the next week, she got out of the car I went to hold her hand she pulled it out of my hand and said we're just friends now and that was the beginning of the real end, never accept the friend zone from any Chick you like or look what happened to you and me, no kiss just a hug she said I was done walkaway tell her no friends no platonic see you later wish you the best

  • @ElNINETEENTH
    @ElNINETEENTH 8 лет назад +6

    "Like a white Knight" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @wesleyekwueme
    @wesleyekwueme 8 лет назад +4

    Great video once again

    • @sal2417
      @sal2417 8 лет назад

      you can never go wrong shit's the truth

    • @wesleyekwueme
      @wesleyekwueme 8 лет назад

      Yes it is

  • @autogreenliteyt1141
    @autogreenliteyt1141 4 года назад +1

    I liked this girl since the 5th grade I’m in 9th grade now . I have been in the zone since 5th grade ! PLEASE HELP

  • @ArtsyAries23
    @ArtsyAries23 7 лет назад +2

    I had a friend who could've used your help. He acted all goofy and silly and I felt like he was like my little brother.I friendzoned him, and our friendship ended. I hate it that our friendship ended but I had no other option, he wasn't taking no for an answer. It was really frustrating.

    • @carloscastillo8647
      @carloscastillo8647 6 лет назад

      Artsy_Aries323 i was friends with benefits with this girl but after two months she ended it and told me she wanted to be just friends, I told her I don't think I could be just friends with her, she said ok, but I saw she was bothered by it, we are co-workersr, yesterday we were talking about something that happened at work, some guy is pissed at me because he wants to bang her and he knows I was banging her, she doesn't want anything to do with him so he hates me, yesterday she said to me " the kind of things you get for being my friend" trying to move me to the friend zone again, I told her it wasn't because I was her friend, and that I am not her friend. It's very dificult to keep the no contact rule because I work with her, in the same office, and we are alone all day long, and I have to sit right next to her sometimes because she is an intern and I am teaching her stuff, it's my job, how do I deal with the no contact rule and with being indifferent and not treating her like a friend if I am with her all the fucking time??

    • @kabirsardana1282
      @kabirsardana1282 Год назад +4

      you wanted his attention and validation without having to put anything back into the dynamic. yeah, its good that you friend zoned him. you saved him a lot of heartache from watching you be with other men while he pined for you.

  • @andyl7547
    @andyl7547 7 лет назад

    This guy is a genuis.

  • @karimnanji4163
    @karimnanji4163 8 лет назад +2

    Excellent!! Thank you:-)

  • @sal2417
    @sal2417 8 лет назад +2

    it's not going to happen just tell him lmao you can't accept to be their friend 💯

  • @patrickr355
    @patrickr355 7 лет назад

    i finally got the courage and did this

  • @valko970
    @valko970 7 лет назад

    deymn that guy from the second email is soooo like deeymn!

  • @satamoto6488
    @satamoto6488 8 лет назад +3

    In love with female friend ??What happens if you never even had a friend girl???(me)

  • @m.ahallock2910
    @m.ahallock2910 8 лет назад +1

    @corey wayne when is the audiobook coming out..?? I am a fighter. I fought so many times and I've only lost 3 times from arrogance. I didn't train for them. so my ego and confidence is so unshakeable that I boarder on arrogance and being an asshole. how do I fix this to create balanced attraction ????

  • @komphatak3395
    @komphatak3395 4 года назад

    love your book 📙 😍

  • @LeiDontPlay
    @LeiDontPlay 6 лет назад

    Here because of Cody and Noel

  • @annschrock3973
    @annschrock3973 4 года назад +4

    I was friendzoned by a girl for a year and we haven't talked for two years

  • @glenn8696
    @glenn8696 Год назад

    Wish i had read your book earlier. This woman i was seeing, was starting to pursue me, yet i became needy and in the end told her about my feelings for her. I feel like i completely blew all my chances with this woman now she friendzoned me. Told her i'm not interested in being friends, and to contact me if she ever changed her mind, but i feel like she already forgot me and is moving on. It hurts. Worst part is that i'm waiting around for her to call me. I'm deluding myself and hoping she will reach out to me.

    • @kabirsardana1282
      @kabirsardana1282 Год назад +1

      go out and live your life. and forget about her. she will eventually contact you. just dont keep thinking she will reach out again.

  • @Caesar-nx9uv
    @Caesar-nx9uv 3 года назад +1

    Thank you

  • @shaneporter1857
    @shaneporter1857 5 лет назад +2

    A girl friend zoned me, she just said she felt we had better affinity as friends! Anyway I told her I couldn’t hang out that way because I’d just want to be close and I couldn’t think of her like a friend because we already had been close. We haven’t talked in 2 months but her birthday is coming up soon and I was gonna text her just to say happy birthday, would this be a bad idea????

    • @alcovers7764
      @alcovers7764 5 лет назад +6

      Same situation bro. Fuck that , dont't reach out .

    • @masoodbukhari5157
      @masoodbukhari5157 5 лет назад +3

      Very bad idea. Review 7 principles to get an ex back. Your pursuit of her is over forever. It must be her idea. When she reaches out, make a date, hang out, have fun and hook up. If she refuses to meet up, then tell her to get in touch if she ever changes her mind. Start dating other women and focus on your mission and purpose. Dont waste time on women who dont see your value. Saying this to myself as much as Im saying it to you. Just had a girl reach out and attempt to friend zone me a second time after walking away and never looking back from her a year ago. My response was all Corey: "Give me a call if you ever change your mind".

  • @mikeroch1786
    @mikeroch1786 4 года назад +1

    So much pain

  • @madsportme
    @madsportme 8 лет назад

    Anything you dream you can have .

  • @davymike761
    @davymike761 7 лет назад

    I love Corey!

  • @johnlee-sp3fo
    @johnlee-sp3fo 8 лет назад

    awesome video

  • @kissarococo2459
    @kissarococo2459 3 года назад

    Isn't it more like Acquaintance zone? I might be bit conservative but how often it actually happens when a guy is considered an actual friend to a woman? What is there to discuss? Many guys I have not had any interest in had basically pushed the idea of staying friends but to me it sounds masochistic on their part. I suspect women say that out of kindness but really mean "let's stay in friendly terms".

  • @SerbyWafflesTech
    @SerbyWafflesTech 5 лет назад

    Awesome video. On point. This girl has been giving me mixed signals for years. Finally 2 years ago I layed out the laundry and told her I can't do this friend crap anymore. She got mad and deleted me from all her social media. She did me a favor. 2 months go by and she tries do contact me. I don't respond. 8 months later here she comes again sending messages. I don't respond. A year and a half goes by and she is at it again. I don't respond. Finally before Christmas she sent me a fcbk request. I waited 3 days before accepting. So far she's sent 3 messages in my inbox. Only one I responded to was when she said "hope ur doing well" ... I responded "I'm good, thanks "... She likes all my posts on fcbk. I don't like any of hers. I've had 2 girl friends since that time. But I'm open to getting together for some smash session. I can't go back to the old way. Im not sure if I should even bother ever responding.

    • @rod1861
      @rod1861 4 года назад

      Serby Waffles what ever happen to her ? U still talking? I ask cuz I’m going thru the exact thing right now..this ex girl goes and comes ..just this pass thanksgiving she cane back after 3 months saying it will be different actually it was the best month ever with her she will come every 2 days and have sex..but then I started feeling her back away ..New Years comes around and she says she’s just going to be at her sisters house I said k but find out the ex boyfriend was there,then she cane with the “I need to be alone” lol ..after that I stopped contact but every 2-3 she contacts me to see how I’m doing ..2 weeks ago I just laid it on her and told her contact me if u want hang out and have fun cuz I’m not ur friend..haven’t heard from her in 2 weeks but I know she’ll contact me as soon as it goes bad with her boyfriend..this woman are savages..

  • @moochieshakur5931
    @moochieshakur5931 8 лет назад +1

    i want the original copy. not an e-book

  • @kittenheels1958
    @kittenheels1958 8 лет назад +1

    "floppycocks".... Great term... Sooo many out there...😟

  • @lvl5charmander
    @lvl5charmander 8 лет назад

    thanks for another video coach.

  • @dtd1986
    @dtd1986 6 лет назад +3

    Ugh those romantic comedies and dramas are like poison. Total brainwashing that ruins men's lives. You've got to remember that movies and TV series are fiction and make-believe, not reality. The screenwriters of these programmes probably have no idea how the dynamics between men and women really work in real life.

  • @FtwBohl
    @FtwBohl 3 года назад

    Was hooking up with my ex again after her and her new bf after me broke up... after a couple rounds she told me she just wanted to be friends. I told her I wont be your male girlfriend and if you change your mind let me know. She got angry and said oh because I wont have sex with you anymore you wont be my friend? And I said no. I told you I didn't want to be your male girlfriend. I want a romantic relationship, not a platonic one. Thanks Corey for not letting me be a little bitch.

  • @anthonycastielle1600
    @anthonycastielle1600 8 лет назад +2

    hey coach! what book by Wayne Dyer do you recommend?

  • @mr.official115
    @mr.official115 3 года назад

    "NOPE" 🤣

  • @kellyjoebrentner3507
    @kellyjoebrentner3507 5 лет назад

    Would the advice on distancing work with a text message?

  • @randysosa9914
    @randysosa9914 8 лет назад +2

    so I got my ex gf of 4 years back, we have been dating exclusively now for two months, my question is ,is it bad that she hasn't told her parents we been dating again or is it normal?what does it mean? and what should I do?

    • @TheArthrighteous
      @TheArthrighteous 8 лет назад

      I would relax and not make it a big deal. If you focus on that you are worrying about things that girls worry about. Just worry and focus on being fun, and laid back with her. If you bring it up or worry about it you will present things that women make big deals.

    • @randysosa9914
      @randysosa9914 8 лет назад

      TheArthrighteous yea but makes it difficult to set dates and I'm not abel to pick her up and be a gentleman

    • @randysosa9914
      @randysosa9914 8 лет назад

      +TheArthrighteous don't get me wrong we are cool with each other but, it just bugs me how she has to lie to her parents about where she's going or who she's with, and we broke up for lots of arguments,it was mostly because I was being needy and kept her trap and not let her do anything

    • @randysosa9914
      @randysosa9914 8 лет назад

      +TheArthrighteous haha funny thing is that I did argue with her , but worked all out and got back on track, and good advice man, oh also I am reading the book I'm on my second read, hey one question should I get bothered that she goes out and parties with her friends and go out dancing and dances with other guys? and us being exclusive.

    • @TheArthrighteous
      @TheArthrighteous 8 лет назад +2

      +Randy Sosa A girl is going to do what she is going to do. This should be a stage where you trust her enough to do that. If you are that stable guy that doesn't let it bother you she will love it, and always want to be with you. A girl is driven on emotions, they can't help it. If they want to dance they are going to dance. Don't let it bother you, if you let it bother you or follow her around she will not understand why you don't understand her emotions. Be there to have fun with her and hook up. Don't worry about being a gentleman etc. she will not respect a gentleman and she will always be looking for a man. If you are that man like Corey talks about than things will work out. If she decides to do something else, then its her loss.

  • @StoriaTimes
    @StoriaTimes 8 лет назад +4

    hahaha 10:48 laughed out loud

  • @emmanuelroswell9464
    @emmanuelroswell9464 8 лет назад +9

    the media,feminists and single mothers made the nice guy

  • @zvierne
    @zvierne 8 лет назад +1

    First... in Asia.

  • @FinancialEfficiency
    @FinancialEfficiency 8 лет назад

    This one girl i went on a date with contacts me here and there. we used to talk a lot before on the phone etc .. all rule breakers im here after the fact.
    now after the trip she is always busy (this is proven fact) but shes admitted to making and canceling other plans elsewhere before. she wont set dates with me. so i don't contact her but she does contact me. if i dont respond ... using Coreys method of like texting the next day cause im busy, im a catch she might message twice in that time like she REALLY wants to get hold of me. So i ask a date she just says she really does not know.
    Feels like a game. what does she want if she keeeps contacting me noticing im gone and wont set dates

    • @sherpajones
      @sherpajones 8 лет назад +2

      +The General She is not worth your time if you have other options. So get some other options.

    • @FinancialEfficiency
      @FinancialEfficiency 8 лет назад

      i feel that bro thats where im at. she still randomly contacts after several days of not. im on that phase where she contacts i chat a moment then tell her i gotta run .. she said "okie Dokie " lmfao ...
      Im about out of my feelings about it now... and settling in finally. still just dont get what she wants if she hits me up randomly . I confronted
      her about it about 2 weeks ago.
      She said it was not that she was not interested jst that she is busy with work school etc etc (she is ) but there is a limit you know.

    • @sherpajones
      @sherpajones 8 лет назад +1

      The General You may never know what she really wants. If she isn't willing or able to meet with your demanding schedule, what else can you do?

    • @FinancialEfficiency
      @FinancialEfficiency 8 лет назад

      My thoughts exactly . ive moved on to dating other people and stuff. its better than sitting around wondering what a persons gonna do when they are being vauge . lol

  • @sal2417
    @sal2417 8 лет назад +4

    I wish you could be my wingman for a day wed pull some bad ones hmu if you're ever in cali

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  8 лет назад +17

      +Sal Bob I'm not a pick up artist. I'm a serial monogamist. I've aways been a love at first sight kind of guy. I'm 46 now. Partying, hitting on random girls, that was fun in my 20's. I have zero interest in going back. Live it up while you are young and enjoy yourself.

    • @sal2417
      @sal2417 8 лет назад

      +Coach Corey Wayne thanks bro you have sincerely benefited my life during rough times of despair & I myself have always too been a hopeless romantic & i now firmly believe dating is like a martial arts now, it's either you're prepared and trained or watch all these other guys whip that ass lmao I give you made props and respectful if I ever have any tough situation I'll definitely seek you out sorry if I may have insulted you I know you're no pick up artist you're a women's psychologist if you ask me & a very good one😂

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  8 лет назад +2

      +Sal Bob I teach self-reliance

    • @sal2417
      @sal2417 8 лет назад +1

      +Coach Corey Wayne +Coach Corey Wayne I agree & also highly believe that people learn how to treat you based on what you accept from them if you're weak you'll be walked on all your life it's either you walk over people or you'll forever be walked upon thanks again though bro you're definitely the best mentor I have yet to see on the RUclips basis talk about a great idea & great cause to those who feel like there's no hope it truly must be a rewarding perfession God bless you Corey Wayne for your words of wisdom

    • @matthewyodmanee1418
      @matthewyodmanee1418 8 лет назад

      +Coach Corey Wayne are you married ?

  • @BigShaud101
    @BigShaud101 8 лет назад

    First

  • @incarnate9914
    @incarnate9914 8 лет назад

    Hey dude I love your videos. Very informative and entertaining.