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Real Men Real Style plz tell im confused in buying phone in rose gold color is it totally girly color or if this choice will make her and boys laugh at me.i will make decision on ur view totally.
I get my wife flowers every Friday on my way home from work. Ive been doing it for years, and I will never get tired of seeing the look on her face every Friday
This is the reason why I don't buy/gift flowers. I hate the thought that they will wither in a few days and will have to be thrown out. Gifting a pot of flowers is different though, but then you have to consider that maybe the person receiving them has no room for them or doesn't want to take care of them...
I buy flowers and a card for my wife every payday. Its a great way to show appreciation for a loved one and paydays are a frequently occurring day so its an easy reminder. But one thing that irritates me is the lack of cards to buy. Every card you see in the store is based on a holiday or a particular event like an anniversary or even getting sick. There are no romance cards just to say "I love you". I often get cards and just cross out the saying printed in the card, draw a cute picture , and write my own thing. Thanks for the video!
MrTrenttness maybe you can get a box of pretty note cards of different designs and each week write in why you love her. I love hand written note from my husband.
I have a best friend who gets the Valentine's Day blues when he doesn't have that special lady in his life. I could tell this year was going to be a rough one for him, so I ordered him some flowers without ever saying it was from me, or a man for that matter haha. I felt super guilty about, for lack of better words, deceiving him, but when I saw the smile on his face and the tears well up in his eyes from him telling me how excited he was to have had a secret admirer, well, white lies are never good, but I think that one was for the best. Thank you for your killer videos!
I remember in 8th the father of my social studies teacher died that year. His classroom was FILLED and I mean FILLED with flowers. It really did help him lift his mood, and it reminded him that both students and teachers care about him and are there to support him. He loved the flowers and just the positivity they brought to him. (Good thing he isn't allergic)
I've wanted to give my boyfriend flowers for three years now, but thought he might take it badly. He is a smart, compassionate, stoic man, but he feels like he has to prove the final part. Even after I gave him a crystal to hang on the rearview mirror--my grandpa used to do that--he had to explain that to his buddies or they would give him a hard time. However, he also loves history, science & goodwill, & maybe having all of those will be enough for his comfort. Thank you for the information!
I bought my grandmother flowers the last time I visited her. She had them on her kitchen table for weeks, she was so over the moon. She wouldn't have a great deal of mass of frivolous items, but she can really appreciate sentiment.
Couldn't agree more!! Right on! I always buy flowers for the ladies in my life and when I walk through the mall all the girls just stare @ me walking handsome with them
This video comes just at the right time for me! I'm overhauling lanscaping my backyard and have been spending close attention to my rosebushes. For the first time I trimmed and pruned them correctly after watching RUclips vids and landscaped around them soil and fertilizer. Now they are growing and I can't wait for them to bud! So satisfying!
I once received flowers from a couple about 25-30 years ago for my birthday. I thought it was a very nice gesture. and kind of kool. I had never received flowers before, nor have I since.
I do not regret subbing and watching your videos Antonio i wish i knew about your channel sooner xD you dont focus only on suits and what ever it is. i feel like you did your home work and you are kind enough to share it with us.. tnx
I wish I would of saw this 10 minutes ago, I just sent my wife some flowers, since I'm gone for the whole week for work. But a good reason to buy her some more. :)
I buy flowers for the sick. When my friend is sick I use to buy them flowers (part of my religion is to visit the sick), and they think of it as unusual. I think it is a very nice move and a way to show appreciation.
Wow the timing of this video could not have been better for me. I'm about to go on my first date, and I wasn't sure if I was going to get her a flower or not. But after this I have decided that it would be a good idea. Thank you for making this video.
Best to get something like a single flower for first date. A single sunflower with a ribbon or a couple carnations- not a full on dozen roses bouquet. If you are meeting for the first time/ Very new relationship.
Antonio I dated a Young lady who had never received flowers so I took my last bit of money and bought her some flowers and it was great she had a great time so I do agree Real men get and receive flowers thank you for doing this video
We also see that flowers are used to raise awareness. For example, here in Ireland we have daffodil day to raise awareness for cancer. almost everyone will wear a daffodil pin no matter their age, gender or profession.
Hay RMRS, I love your input on flowers. I remember my old girl friend gave me flowers one day; it lighten my day, that is for sure. I didn't know men like flowers after I received them. Keep up the good work, we need these types of pointers from your channel.
Great video, I've been looking for another way to give flowers to my wife and daughter, besides the flower shop or the supermarket. Now I can have them delivered without them knowing! Thanks 😎
I don't usually buy flowers, but when I do, I prefer them to be practical or be used as a medicinal herb. For me, a single kind of flower might be the only exception, like lavender. Roses are too generic and can be boring. There is a test about that which of the aroma therapy products smell fits to your style, but I think that currently it is only available at my language.
It's nice and all but I really can't help but remember a phrase from some famous person saying something like, don't pluck a flower because it's pretty or beautiful, look at it, smell it, appreciate it and leave it be to for it's beauty to continue, not to mention its function. If you really can't help it then try this unconventional way of giving flowers, give it in a pot.
That suit looks awesome on you Antonio, one great topic you should add to queue is how to really wear Vibrant/Bright colors with real style, keep up the great work!
Does ur girlfriend buy u stuff? Does ur girlfriend buy u flowers? Does ur girlfriend have to lay 10k on a ring? Does ur girlfriend open doors for u? Does ur girlfriend say "men's first"? Do u ever tell women to "woman up?. Stfu
hello my name is Alex love your video, they help me to reinvent myself in a better way, hope one day we could meet in a conference, I'm in Southern California, thanks again for awesome videos.
Well, I am pretty far from being a "manly" man.However I do think receiving flowers is a nice sign of appreciation.They basically have no use and can only be used as decorating for a short time.They are especially great if the person gifting you the flowers remembers what flowers you like/your favorite colors.
Hey Antonio, I learned so much from watching your videos, but I feel like a lot of things you say are not meant for my age group. I am 19 years old and most of your videos are for more grown up men. I was wandering if you could make a video for the younger crowd so we could dress nice but still look casual in social events. Thanks
hey Antonio. im leaving on a trip to italy next week Friday for a month. can you make a video about what a mam should wear/take to italy? thanks in advance!
This is interesting. The last time I brought a date flowers she proclaimed that I am officially old fashioned and nerdy. No body brings a date flowers, she said. I have not done it since. I also don't date her anymore.
I think a man giving another man flowers is a bit unorthodox and can make all parties uncomfortable, especially if there is no deeper thought or concept behind the act which would downplay the flowers and highlight the relationship itself. The only way to give another man flowers in my mind is to go a bit unothrodox with the choice of flowers and/or meaning conveyed. For example giving flowers as a pop-culture reference (roses with a godfather reference is a good example). As another example: I personally would feel uncomfortable accepting a bouquet from another man, but if it is a bouquet of beautiful but highly poisonous flowers and the person giving the flowers mentions it, then all discomfort in receiving the flowers disappears in an instant. Or if the bouquet is crafted from different plants that are used in making alcoholic beverages etc.. the thought is all that counts, frame the act in the wrong way and the misunderstanding may harm the relationship irrepairably.
I would contest the notion of offering flowers to another man unless it's in a romantic setting, or if you're giving them to him to pass along to someone for you, or for him to give to someone. A gift has a nature to it, whether it's utilitarian or emotionally driven. To thank or express affection for a woman, flowers are appropriate gift because they convey a meaning that women are more attuned to. They are an expression of beauty and grace that complement the receiver and adorn her. The same message does not translate to men. For a man to receive a plant, if he cannot put it into the earth and nurture it to grow into something grand or fruit bearing, it is often overlooked or misunderstood. Men, express and receive emotion from other men differently. A good book may cost as much, but will offer more service. A box of cigars after tax season to your accountant or a bottle of scotch to thank them and help them unwind. Even a fine wine to bring home to his family are all gifts that recognize that hard work has been done a reward or expression of gratitude is provided. Even a good meal and great conversation is a gift that man can appreciate because the value is intrinsically evident. To express condolences or support, a man should find the time to call and express himself directly. It's the opportunity to voice his emotions which stands out from the silent gift that often is the statement itself. It may not be as tangible as flowers, but it certainly is more permanent as a memory to have had a conversation with someone. Moreover, it is a deeper gift than flowers because it requires a personal component. It isn't that flowers are an acceptable gift to give another man, and if the recipient has any class, they'll receive them with dignity and gratitude. It's just that there better options that can resonate better with men than flowers. Flowers work well to resonate with women more because of the emotional value that is associated with them, a value that has often been lost on men. It's true, men are more visual creatures, but we are also more active and big picture oriented so to stop and look at flowers rather than a panorama of nature or the garden as a whole contrasts with women's ability to put them in a vase and focus in on them when they walk by.
I have no problem with sponsored content. That is capitalism, and everyone has bills to pay. I just think that flowers are for men whose mother actually wanted a girl, and did her best to get her wish.
Oh yes. Buy yourself flowers and he's right about how much people respond and how they respond, to a floral gift. So go make someone happy, for no reason at all.
You should read some of the other comments - I received flowers when my sister died from other men and it made me feel like people cared in a time of mourning.
Real Men Real Style yes but in that situation i would accept it as wel.. but not from my boss or from a friend xD unless its a girl then i dont mind. and yes i buy flowers for my gf.. besides a good msg should be sent with flowers cuz some people can miss understand the gift of a flower and then you got some one inlove for no reason xD..... but good vid and explained well.. thanks antonio
If someone is emasculated by flowers that person is basing their masculinity on the wrong things. I'm lucky enough to have a small flower garden in my yard and I am always picking blooms and putting them on my wife's desk, on my desk, and all over the house.
Good, thoughtful info here, but I was distracted the entire time. Antonio, convince Tiege Hanley to make a matte or powder. You were so shiny in this video that Tomatoa would collect you.
I honestly don't think it's ever appropriate to buy another man flowers. Men are very practical. I would rather have that money with something I'd actually want. Like maybe a 4 box of Starbucks Coffee with a bow or whatever that's just an example. If a woman gave me flowers that's different. Usually it means something even if it doesn't other men or women will notice
Real men DEFINITELY buy flowers for others. Especially your significant other no matter how many years you have been together. Oh and Antonio, don't forget to get some flowers for Jamie. She's and awesome assistant 😁👍🏻
i really don't care about flowers, i wouldn't buy nor for my mom, nor for my grilfriend/wife. But it's a personal point of view, i'm against killing toros in a rodeo and i'm also against killing flowers just to see their beauty for a few days until they die. I agree with a lot of what antonio says, though. There are studies about the effects of flowers on humans in a positive way (also negative) , but, as i said , it's just a personal point of view.
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Real Men Real Style Ruidoso,NM WOOHOO!!! Well I'm in El Paso,TX but love going up to Ruidoso.Have a great weekend Antonio.
Real Men Real Style plz tell im confused in buying phone in rose gold color is it totally girly color or if this choice will make her and boys laugh at me.i will make decision on ur view totally.
Salman Abid you do you man. Anyone who judges you is just a bit pathetic for caring
Eddie - Cool! Have a great weekend.
Salman - There are no rules against wearing pink or using pink.
I get my wife flowers every Friday on my way home from work. Ive been doing it for years, and I will never get tired of seeing the look on her face every Friday
Super! That's a wonderful gesture.
Bro shut up i aint flowers for my wife or girlfriend. Does she give u flowers?
@@nomejest5919 Maaan shut yo bitch ass up
Your wife is the luckiest woman on earth.
Stop wasting your money, buy her fake flowers that will last forever.
What I love about your videos is it's not just about suits. You teach people how to be stylish in all aspects of their life. Well done, sir.
Love it! I appreciate how you view my channel!
*When you like a flower, you just pluck it. But when you love a flower, you water it daily.*
-Gautama Buddha
Good quote!
This is the reason why I don't buy/gift flowers. I hate the thought that they will wither in a few days and will have to be thrown out. Gifting a pot of flowers is different though, but then you have to consider that maybe the person receiving them has no room for them or doesn't want to take care of them...
Real Men Real Style Well that quote should be followed
LOVE this!!!
switch it. up
like a guy who liked sleeping with girls but when you really like a girl you get to love her daily.
see what i did there😂
Im a gardener and beeing around flowers is pretty normal for me of course
Master Draco "bee-ing" 🐝
I hope that was a gardening pun :D
Women should get flowers for men
I buy flowers and a card for my wife every payday. Its a great way to show appreciation for a loved one and paydays are a frequently occurring day so its an easy reminder.
But one thing that irritates me is the lack of cards to buy. Every card you see in the store is based on a holiday or a particular event like an anniversary or even getting sick. There are no romance cards just to say "I love you". I often get cards and just cross out the saying printed in the card, draw a cute picture , and write my own thing.
Thanks for the video!
Most places have some blank cards. That's what I usually get
Good suggestion Danny and an awesome job your doing MrTrenttness!
MrTrenttness maybe you can get a box of pretty note cards of different designs and each week write in why you love her. I love hand written note from my husband.
MrTrenttness your wife is lucky,,,,wishing you eternity of happiness👍
Hot Coffee Aaawww thanks :D! wishing you well also...
I have a best friend who gets the Valentine's Day blues when he doesn't have that special lady in his life. I could tell this year was going to be a rough one for him, so I ordered him some flowers without ever saying it was from me, or a man for that matter haha. I felt super guilty about, for lack of better words, deceiving him, but when I saw the smile on his face and the tears well up in his eyes from him telling me how excited he was to have had a secret admirer, well, white lies are never good, but I think that one was for the best. Thank you for your killer videos!
That is so special 😭❤️
I remember in 8th the father of my social studies teacher died that year. His classroom was FILLED and I mean FILLED with flowers. It really did help him lift his mood, and it reminded him that both students and teachers care about him and are there to support him. He loved the flowers and just the positivity they brought to him. (Good thing he isn't allergic)
I have sent flowers to some of my friends once in a while. But I never knew they had such an impact. Will send them more often now 😁👍🏾
I've wanted to give my boyfriend flowers for three years now, but thought he might take it badly. He is a smart, compassionate, stoic man, but he feels like he has to prove the final part. Even after I gave him a crystal to hang on the rearview mirror--my grandpa used to do that--he had to explain that to his buddies or they would give him a hard time. However, he also loves history, science & goodwill, & maybe having all of those will be enough for his comfort. Thank you for the information!
I bought my grandmother flowers the last time I visited her. She had them on her kitchen table for weeks, she was so over the moon. She wouldn't have a great deal of mass of frivolous items, but she can really appreciate sentiment.
Very nice indeed.
You are the Einstein of style sir!
Thanks for the kind words! :)
I gave a lady flowers on her 30th birthday at the end of May 2020 and she appreciated them. We have known each other for about 9 years by now.
God blessed us with flowers. Respect it
Couldn't agree more!! Right on! I always buy flowers for the ladies in my life and when I walk through the mall all the girls just stare @ me walking handsome with them
Gusher - It's definitely shows you have a romantic side and it attracts girls.
Why only ladies? Why not men? Stfu u sexist piece of moron
Men dont have to buy flowers for women. Its their choice
My mother bought me flowers for my birthday and I her for Mother's Day and we both loved it!
This video comes just at the right time for me! I'm overhauling lanscaping my backyard and have been spending close attention to my rosebushes. For the first time I trimmed and pruned them correctly after watching RUclips vids and landscaped around them soil and fertilizer. Now they are growing and I can't wait for them to bud! So satisfying!
Super!
I agree bro. flowers always brighten up the room even if they're not for you. seeing flowers brings a smile
Indeed!
I once received flowers from a couple about 25-30 years ago for my birthday. I thought it was a very nice gesture. and kind of kool. I had never received flowers before, nor have I since.
Gardenias, jasmins, and rajnigandhas are my favourite. they are so aromatic and look so pure.
Gardenias looked awesome! Thanks for sharing!
I do not regret subbing and watching your videos Antonio i wish i knew about your channel sooner xD you dont focus only on suits and what ever it is. i feel like you did your home work and you are kind enough to share it with us.. tnx
Thanks for the continued support Moises!
buy it locally. I did that and my girlfriend loved it. I sent it to her house by mail and it was a cool surprise
I wish I would of saw this 10 minutes ago, I just sent my wife some flowers, since I'm gone for the whole week for work. But a good reason to buy her some more. :)
Agreed!
I buy flowers for the sick. When my friend is sick I use to buy them flowers (part of my religion is to visit the sick), and they think of it as unusual. I think it is a very nice move and a way to show appreciation.
I couldn't agree more.
I buy my wife flowers once a month & she loves it. She likes to use as a centerpiece for the dinning room table.
Wow the timing of this video could not have been better for me. I'm about to go on my first date, and I wasn't sure if I was going to get her a flower or not. But after this I have decided that it would be a good idea. Thank you for making this video.
Go for it - good luck on your date.
Best to get something like a single flower for first date. A single sunflower with a ribbon or a couple carnations- not a full on dozen roses bouquet. If you are meeting for the first time/ Very new relationship.
Antonio I dated a Young lady who had never received flowers so I took my last bit of money and bought her some flowers and it was great she had a great time so I do agree Real men get and receive flowers thank you for doing this video
I Feel like giving random people some flowers right now
Go for it!
Real Men Real Style idk lol if I should I want to and don't
That put a tear in my eye. God bless you !
@@birdeyes200 thank you
I love flowers! And I love your videos!!
We also see that flowers are used to raise awareness. For example, here in Ireland we have daffodil day to raise awareness for cancer. almost everyone will wear a daffodil pin no matter their age, gender or profession.
Perfect addition! Thanks for the insight Rory!
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How was today's video? :)
It was amazing nice job, and thanks for the tips!
Thanks Antonio, I just sent a manly bouquet to my frend who gets out of a surgery tomorrow, honestly a perfectly timed video
Super!
without any doubt...only GENTLEMEN understand that😉
Good point! :)
Stfu there aint no such thing as gentlemen u sexist piece of crap.
"Open doors for women" stfu no. "Ladies first" stfu no one's first. They are both equal stupid.
And men can cry
Also women should give men flowers and rings
Hay RMRS, I love your input on flowers. I remember my old girl friend gave me flowers one day; it lighten my day, that is for sure. I didn't know men like flowers after I received them. Keep up the good work, we need these types of pointers from your channel.
Great video, I've been looking for another way to give flowers to my wife and daughter, besides the flower shop or the supermarket. Now I can have them delivered without them knowing! Thanks 😎
Sounds great - glad you find this useful!
I don't usually buy flowers,
but when I do,
I prefer them to be practical or be used as a medicinal herb.
For me, a single kind of flower might be the only exception, like lavender.
Roses are too generic and can be boring.
There is a test about that which of the aroma therapy products smell fits to your style, but I think that currently it is only available at my language.
Giving flowers to someone you are meeting after a very long time. is it a good idea?
Harshit Sandhir yes it's nice and welcoming
Yes it is!
I like growing flowering plants.
Cool!
I would say it's ok. I've noticed as I've gotten older. That men do give other men plants/flowers. especially in a hospital.
It's nice and all but I really can't help but remember a phrase from some famous person saying something like, don't pluck a flower because it's pretty or beautiful, look at it, smell it, appreciate it and leave it be to for it's beauty to continue, not to mention its function.
If you really can't help it then try this unconventional way of giving flowers, give it in a pot.
I have never been given flowers from a guy , but my two sons always picks me flowers, nice video Antonio
zola phillip 💐💐💐💐🌸
There ya go, hun.
Dead Disney thank you darling 😙
You definitely have fine kids! :)
So, while I'm sure 1-800-Flowers is a great service, I find there's something really nice about going to a local florist when possible.
A couple years back my Dad told my siblings and I that he kept every flower he ever gave my Mom. He has them stored away somewhere.
This is the best video I came across on RUclips.
That suit looks awesome on you Antonio, one great topic you should add to queue is how to really wear Vibrant/Bright colors with real style, keep up the great work!
Good suggestion! I did talk about introducing color in men's wardrobe here www.realmenrealstyle.com/introduction-color-guide/
Obviously there's a certain amount of subjectivity to it, but I buy my girlfriend flowers randomly just because I want her to feel appreciated
Stfu flowers doesnt change anything
Does ur girlfriend buy u stuff? Does ur girlfriend buy u flowers? Does ur girlfriend have to lay 10k on a ring? Does ur girlfriend open doors for u? Does ur girlfriend say "men's first"? Do u ever tell women to "woman up?. Stfu
Question, where do you shoot your videos? I can hear movement in the background.
Corals are for me they also do the same but better! they helped me when Im in deep depression and gives me somthing to look for in life!
That's a wonderful idea!
hello my name is Alex love your video, they help me to reinvent myself in a better way, hope one day we could meet in a conference, I'm in Southern California, thanks again for awesome videos.
I always buy flowers for people whom I care about
Super! I think every man should :)
Good stuff. Thanks Antonio! I'm actually going to be ahead of the game this Mother's Day.
James - Good idea! Mother's Day is around the corner :)
Great video! I enjoy the role-bending ideas. Have a wonderful day!
Thanks Alex!
Well, I am pretty far from being a "manly" man.However I do think receiving flowers is a nice sign of appreciation.They basically have no use and can only be used as decorating for a short time.They are especially great if the person gifting you the flowers remembers what flowers you like/your favorite colors.
That works too!
I picked a huge bouquet of wild Buttercups for my wife every spring for 32 yrs. Yea she still divorced me. LOL
chrysanthemum was very popular with Samurai. Poppies are big in the UK.
Nice!
Support Local Vendors, buy flowers from an independent florist or a flower vendor & keep small businesses & small businessmen alive & working!
really i cant believe this...thnx Antonio
Wow! I never knew that! Awesome
Thanks for watching!
Love thanks for the discount.
Really cool video! Love the history!
Thanks for your great tip Antonio . . helped a lot . . 🙏
Thanks for watching! :)
Your always "HIDDEN" advertisement is nothing but awesome *looool*
not more manly than buying BOWTIES!
Truth!!!!
Going for the Bill Nye look. Never trust a man who wears a bow tie.
Icebreaaker Lol Bill Nye look? You wear Jordans, don't you?
Hey Antonio, do you create episodes structured around sponsorships sometimes? Be honest, I don't judge. ;)
I bring them in because I believe in their products and I think it would help men in general. :)
Hey Antonio,
I learned so much from watching your videos, but I feel like a lot of things you say are not meant for my age group. I am 19 years old and most of your videos are for more grown up men. I was wandering if you could make a video for the younger crowd so we could dress nice but still look casual in social events.
Thanks
I like to give house plants that are going to last a long time, when they are watered the person thinks of me.
hey Antonio. im leaving on a trip to italy next week Friday for a month. can you make a video about what a mam should wear/take to italy? thanks in advance!
TheColonelAngel He already has a video on traveling. That might help you!
You just reminded me about Mother's Day! Lol!
I get that you have to have sponsors but do you think you could cut back on the time you spend in he commercial part, it's literally half he video.
I appreciate the feedback Jeremiah. Will definitely give it a thought
The ancient art of romance
This is interesting. The last time I brought a date flowers she proclaimed that I am officially old fashioned and nerdy. No body brings a date flowers, she said. I have not done it since. I also don't date her anymore.
I think a man giving another man flowers is a bit unorthodox and can make all parties uncomfortable, especially if there is no deeper thought or concept behind the act which would downplay the flowers and highlight the relationship itself. The only way to give another man flowers in my mind is to go a bit unothrodox with the choice of flowers and/or meaning conveyed. For example giving flowers as a pop-culture reference (roses with a godfather reference is a good example). As another example: I personally would feel uncomfortable accepting a bouquet from another man, but if it is a bouquet of beautiful but highly poisonous flowers and the person giving the flowers mentions it, then all discomfort in receiving the flowers disappears in an instant. Or if the bouquet is crafted from different plants that are used in making alcoholic beverages etc.. the thought is all that counts, frame the act in the wrong way and the misunderstanding may harm the relationship irrepairably.
thanks alot for the info Sir. A big thank you from India.
You're welcome!
I would contest the notion of offering flowers to another man unless it's in a romantic setting, or if you're giving them to him to pass along to someone for you, or for him to give to someone.
A gift has a nature to it, whether it's utilitarian or emotionally driven. To thank or express affection for a woman, flowers are appropriate gift because they convey a meaning that women are more attuned to. They are an expression of beauty and grace that complement the receiver and adorn her. The same message does not translate to men. For a man to receive a plant, if he cannot put it into the earth and nurture it to grow into something grand or fruit bearing, it is often overlooked or misunderstood.
Men, express and receive emotion from other men differently. A good book may cost as much, but will offer more service. A box of cigars after tax season to your accountant or a bottle of scotch to thank them and help them unwind. Even a fine wine to bring home to his family are all gifts that recognize that hard work has been done a reward or expression of gratitude is provided. Even a good meal and great conversation is a gift that man can appreciate because the value is intrinsically evident.
To express condolences or support, a man should find the time to call and express himself directly. It's the opportunity to voice his emotions which stands out from the silent gift that often is the statement itself. It may not be as tangible as flowers, but it certainly is more permanent as a memory to have had a conversation with someone. Moreover, it is a deeper gift than flowers because it requires a personal component.
It isn't that flowers are an acceptable gift to give another man, and if the recipient has any class, they'll receive them with dignity and gratitude. It's just that there better options that can resonate better with men than flowers. Flowers work well to resonate with women more because of the emotional value that is associated with them, a value that has often been lost on men.
It's true, men are more visual creatures, but we are also more active and big picture oriented so to stop and look at flowers rather than a panorama of nature or the garden as a whole contrasts with women's ability to put them in a vase and focus in on them when they walk by.
Solid comment!
Buy flowers for the beloved woman, but don't forget your own!
I like your content Antonio, but do you make video purely based on the sponsorships you're offered?
Quick answer is no. Have you watched my necktie series :)
I have no problem with sponsored content. That is capitalism, and everyone has bills to pay. I just think that flowers are for men whose mother actually wanted a girl, and did her best to get her wish.
how much is shipping and handeling.?
Real men pick up flower at a public park for a women.
Personally, I do not enjoy flowers in the slightest, but I will buy my wife flowers every now and then. Usually on a whim, so that it's a surprise.
Oh yes. Buy yourself flowers and he's right about how much people respond and how they respond, to a floral gift. So go make someone happy, for no reason at all.
i once gave flowers bouquet to my crush on valentine and leave it to her table in school. After that she cried and don't like that flowers. :')
Where did you get that suit?
Excuse me sir could you inform me that do you have any watch to give me I'm a lot in need of me.p
im sorry but the only way i will accept flowers from another man is in my grave... ill be buying them for my mother tho.
smiley45tp I feel you bro
You should read some of the other comments - I received flowers when my sister died from other men and it made me feel like people cared in a time of mourning.
Real Men Real Style yes but in that situation i would accept it as wel.. but not from my boss or from a friend xD unless its a girl then i dont mind. and yes i buy flowers for my gf.. besides a good msg should be sent with flowers cuz some people can miss understand the gift of a flower and then you got some one inlove for no reason xD..... but good vid and explained well.. thanks antonio
lol
Did not know you had a sister, I have a sister aswell and couldnt imagine something happening to her.I can almost understand what it must have felt.
Hey guys! Anyone know the artist name of the tune in the intro of this video? Thank you in advance!
It's called the Man Without Fear from Premium Beats.
Real Men Real Style Thank you, sir!
And thanks for all your great work. I wish you a great weekend!
Clearly he just applied Tiege Hanley
If someone is emasculated by flowers that person is basing their masculinity on the wrong things. I'm lucky enough to have a small flower garden in my yard and I am always picking blooms and putting them on my wife's desk, on my desk, and all over the house.
Tus videos son excelentes, y por esa razón te veo. Continua así :)
You should keep the flower setup for future videos! :-)
Good idea!
Good, thoughtful info here, but I was distracted the entire time. Antonio, convince Tiege Hanley to make a matte or powder. You were so shiny in this video that Tomatoa would collect you.
I honestly don't think it's ever appropriate to buy another man flowers. Men are very practical. I would rather have that money with something I'd actually want. Like maybe a 4 box of Starbucks Coffee with a bow or whatever that's just an example. If a woman gave me flowers that's different. Usually it means something even if it doesn't other men or women will notice
Hey Antonio what are your thoughts on a pair of dark brown whole cut oxfords? I was thinking of getting one but am not sure if it's a good idea.
Go for it! I talk about wholecuts here - www.realmenrealstyle.com/wholecut-leather-shoes/
Real men DEFINITELY buy flowers for others. Especially your significant other no matter how many years you have been together. Oh and Antonio, don't forget to get some flowers for Jamie. She's and awesome assistant 😁👍🏻
She is! Thanks Escobar.
If you give flowers to anybody, make sure they are real, do not just post-edit them in.
Downside : when they wear out, it feels really bad throwing them out. This is the sole reason I stay away from them
Thanks for sharing your insight! I guess the best way to solve that is put them in a vase to extend its life so you won't feel that bad
i really don't care about flowers, i wouldn't buy nor for my mom, nor for my grilfriend/wife. But it's a personal point of view, i'm against killing toros in a rodeo and i'm also against killing flowers just to see their beauty for a few days until they die. I agree with a lot of what antonio says, though. There are studies about the effects of flowers on humans in a positive way (also negative) , but, as i said , it's just a personal point of view.
good
Thanks!
A real man buys flowers and keeps them for himself.
What's the intro tune please?
Never ever bought flowers to anyone.That must be strange.
Give it a try then! Mother's Day is just around the corner :)