What to Do When You Feel Guilty Relaxing

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  • Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
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    Do you ever find yourself struggling to relax without a sense of guilt that you should be doing more? In today's episode, we're diving into what you can do when you feel guilty relaxing. We'll unpack the reasons behind why this happens (especially in high-achievers) and I’ll share practical strategies to overcome it. Get ready to learn how to free yourself from the burden of guilt and embrace relaxation. You deserve it!
    In this episode, you will learn:
    - Why you struggle with feeling guilty when you relax
    - My simple 5-step process to help you STOP feeling guilty for relaxing
    - Actionable tips to help you prioritize rest guilt-free
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Комментарии • 25

  • @CalmlyCoping
    @CalmlyCoping  Год назад +1

    What helps you relax?

    • @andrelucke1436
      @andrelucke1436 Год назад +3

      Knowing i did all the things that needs to be done. If i dont do my Training, Work or other things i think i dont deserve relaxing. I need 2 earn it.

    • @katerinalyras8879
      @katerinalyras8879 Год назад

      @@andrelucke1436 speaking to my soullllllll

    • @lesliewills9799
      @lesliewills9799 5 месяцев назад

      Yoga and practicing mindfully relaxing my muscles…deep breaths…speaking to myself, saying it’s ok to relax…

    • @dale116dot7
      @dale116dot7 3 месяца назад

      Listening to records. I don’t do it often enough. I find that getting up every 15 or 20 minutes to flip the record over and then listening is kind of a meditative process.

    • @CalmlyCoping
      @CalmlyCoping  2 месяца назад +1

      @@dale116dot7 I love listening to records!

  • @samsmusichub
    @samsmusichub 4 месяца назад +3

    I feel guilty sleeping 5 hours a night, I need to hear this.

    • @CalmlyCoping
      @CalmlyCoping  4 месяца назад

      You deserve to rest and recharge!

    • @momashtilas
      @momashtilas 4 месяца назад

      Same here mate. Sleeping teleports me to the next day, which is work. I know I need it (sleep), but want to overcompensate the hours at work so I don't act like a robot, working eating sleeping. I end up sleeping 7hrs tops, usually something like 6. It's a freaking loop.

  • @bwnco
    @bwnco 2 месяца назад +1

    Holy s***I work for sixty years finery retired and I feel guilty as hell. This really hit home

  • @essence____beauty_92
    @essence____beauty_92 2 месяца назад +1

    This is what I needed to hear my goodness sometimes it’s hard for me to sit still even on my day off & I do try my best to go & not do too much responsibilities thank you so much

  • @lorreinekennedy7674
    @lorreinekennedy7674 Месяц назад +1

    I only know how to be productive, so sitting down or seeing friends causes me massive guilt. I’m not giving my husband enough attention (he says it’s fine, as he can see how hard I’m working). I end up working late into the evening to make up any time I have off. I have no boundaries, no matter how many times I tell myself that I’m only going to work x hours, i just have to clear the work in front of me, so i keep going. It doesn’t make me happy (completing the work) I just feel relieved and wait for the next tsunami of work to hit me. I feel on edge when I sit down, and usually end up tidying up. I feel I must do something all the time so I don’t waste time. I’m considering retiring, and could probably afford to do so, but I worry about who I will be without work.

    • @CalmlyCoping
      @CalmlyCoping  Месяц назад +1

      You're not alone, Lorreine! I think you'll find this video I made on how to find your identity outside of work helpful: ruclips.net/video/picpB-UhJQU/видео.html

  • @leonardoandresvetencourtp3869
    @leonardoandresvetencourtp3869 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank for putting this out here, now I can finally chill for real without beating myself up!

    • @CalmlyCoping
      @CalmlyCoping  8 месяцев назад +1

      You're welcome, Leonardo! I'm glad this was helpful for you.

  • @illhauntyou8000
    @illhauntyou8000 7 месяцев назад

    Im very happy that I found this, thank you for this video^^❤

    • @CalmlyCoping
      @CalmlyCoping  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you, I'm so glad you found it helpful!

  • @AveMaria1917
    @AveMaria1917 11 месяцев назад

    This is so enlightening. Thank you for sharing

    • @CalmlyCoping
      @CalmlyCoping  11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for your comment, I'm so glad you found it helpful!

  • @lexief899
    @lexief899 10 месяцев назад

    wow this is too spot on for me, so happy I jut found you.

    • @CalmlyCoping
      @CalmlyCoping  10 месяцев назад

      I'm glad this resonated with you!

  • @JohnShreve-hw8zm
    @JohnShreve-hw8zm 2 месяца назад

    Only every time I sit down…

  • @c7bluerose
    @c7bluerose 9 месяцев назад

    I feel anxiety just signing up for your training and scheduling a time to watch it on my calendar. Soooo weird

    • @CalmlyCoping
      @CalmlyCoping  9 месяцев назад +2

      Not weird! It can bring up discomfort to take steps to start working on yourself and making changes because oftentimes we tend to avoid these things- that anxiety in this situation can be a good sign!

  • @bwnco
    @bwnco 2 месяца назад

    Good large girl, 3 minutes in and you still haven't said how to do it.This is killing your viewership.I'll never watch it again