@@petrosaguilar8916 The fact that you see no gray area is the entire goddamn problem. You can responsibly parent without being a dictator. Hell, my dad was a strict parent, and even he didn't prevent me from leaving home after I turned 18 (jumping down my throat when I suggested taking a semester off to work more and save money, though...that's another story).
PhoenixRising87 I don’t understand how people are so dense and can’t comprehend what you just said. It’s like you are either a dictator or you’re careless. People don’t think and it makes me furious.
This was excellently written and composed. I had seen the suspect interview before and knew the whole story, but there is such quality to this delivery that I was still at the edge of my seat. The team that made this is stellar.
shrapnel77 Lol because they’re cheap. You’d think if you were gonna invest in a security camera you’d get a good one, god forbid you’d ever need to review the footage..... makes no sense. Cos when they DO need it, it’s hardly even viewable. Shrugs.
well i mean it was from a house across the street, the home owners didnt buy the cameras to record their neighbors house. And its meant to record the driveway and front of the house, which it does a good job doing. Its not 4k but you can see whats happening in the front yard. And cameras can be expensive as hell, also its fucking night time so the visibility is bad. And to the person saying they might as well not even have a camera if its low quality, at least if something happened, like a break in, the police would have video evidence and could analyze that shit. Im sorry that regular people cant afford thousands of dollars worth of high tech security footage (and the means to store said footage) so they can rewatch their home being broken into in 4k. I bet all the people talking shit on the cameras aint even got cameras of their own.
She was of course guilty, but I hate when cops say people don’t act a certain way after a tragedy. No one can say how someone will act in that sort of traumatic experience. There’s no set way.
Yeah the brain does some pretty weird things when it’s under a lot of stress. There’s a letter written by a Titanic survivor while she was on the Carpathia and she describes feeling really happy.
They are the pro's here. They do piss me off thinking they know when someone lies. They're not your friends either and some will get you in prison by pretending to be one.
Why do they think it’s suspicious that she can distinguish her parents’ footsteps? I can literally name everyone in my household based on their footsteps alone
If my parents use the soft slippers at home, and the killers wear the boots, I think I would easily distinguish their footsteps. And also at night, the parents go to the kitchen or toilet, they don't want to disturb their children.
When you have strict parents, it’s not unusual to know their footsteps. Growing up in a very traditional asian family, I can identify who went out of their bedrooms, which car is about to park, which keys are for the house or the cars, and even their snores. It’s just something you learn when you are scared.
Saaame...I know who’s using the bathroom without seeing them go in. Like it not a matter of fear tho, it’s more like who do I have to mentally prepare to talk to.
I feel you, I used to live with my brother-in-law, he’s a dad,also a HS teacher and he’s pretty much a strict person, not in a forceful way like other, he understand how things goes, he used to be an ex-gangster that’s why he didn’t want everyone else to step on that mistake especially me and his son,but still... I could definitely identify his movements, his habits, and other things, so overall I think My situation change since I move out.. well what a story, but hopefully your parents would go easy on you... much respect.
These type of parents put so much pressure on their kids that I am not surprised there aren't more cases and I can see why there are kids who runways. If you are of legal age, leave and live your own life, but please don't do anything illegal.
Jennifer's parents weren't tiger parents though. I'm sure they were strict but the crux of the conflict was that they didn't want her dating her bf because he was a drug dealer and she skipped so much school to be with him that she failed high school. If her parents were okay with all of that I'd call them neglectful. Then they told her when she was 24 that either she study and break up with her bf in order to stay at home, or be kicked out of the house and disowned. I don't think this was unethical or wrong of her parents to do. Their daughter was objectively making a lot of bad decisions and they gave her one last chance to get on the right track.
"Somehow she identified the footsteps as not being her parents" "Good ears!" Are you kidding me. What kid DOESNT know what their parents footsteps sound like, its kinda engrained in your brain your entire life.
I caught that and smirked. I laughed that the boyfriend was labeled as a part time drug dealer. I turned to my wife and said “not even full time? What a loser.”
As an Asian myself I can understand the type of frustration and built up anger she had . The standard Asian parents have is almost unbearable at times . I have to say my anger was really bad until I got into college , going to church helped me a lot to learn to let go of all of the pressure I had . What she did was absolutely horrendous . I do not condone her actions at all . However that could be the reasoning behind it all .
True, but thats not the only reason. We are usually a product of our surroundings. For example, women with daddy issues most likely did not have a strong father figure (strong emotionally i mean) present. Idk how strict her parents were but as a kid to strict asian parents I understand the pent up anger and frustration that could lead to misleading actions. Only difference with people like me and probably 99% of other people who grew up in an environment with strict restricting parents is that we would never act on those frustrations to harm our parents physically, unlike jennifer pan
@lokindabbiru9944, so you would never act upon those Frustrations like jennifer Pan here did, but you would think of them? Or imagine? Or would you be pleased if your parents passed away naturally without you having to act upon it? My friend, nothing justifies murder, let alone parent's murder, that too when she can hear them screaming in pain. Coming from dysfunctional family is kind of common, not preferred but common, but if everyone started thinking this way, the world would see much more such tragedies. Thankfully, there are people like us who absolutely can not relate with Jennifer's thinking regardless of our strict upbringing.
Agreed. Not to mention that in crime stories the kids always say they knew it wasn't their parents footsteps. You hear these people walk around for years and learn how they walk.
Patricia Jankey when ur living in hatred/fear of ur parents that’s probably the most common thing a kid will say about their parents, “I know their footsteps” or something like that as an example if u have extensibly abusive parents who beat u everyday or something related u learn when it’s coming real quick just by listening to the footsteps
I have a similar background to Jennifer. My parents weren’t too strict as her’s but they also never showed me the direction I could go after graduating school. They just thought I will find my way like a fish in the ocean, while restricting certain things that costs money, regarding my education. After years of not being taught how to face the real world, I was lost. I’m just recovering now, I still have a long way to go.
I'm going through a similar situation. Still to this day they control me so much that I never learned how to make my own decisions and live life by myself. I hope God helps all of us. PS: by no means what she did is justified. No matter what happens one should never even think of commiting this kind of terrible crime.
When my best friend's mom died, she just became numb to the world for a couple months. She didn't cry at the funeral, she cried behind doors, so that people couldn't see. I'm just saying...someone not crying at a funeral isn't horrible or suspicious. People grieve in different ways.
Dude you have no idea how fking long have i tried to avoid watching this video but its been appearing in my recommendation constantly as if youtube wants to shove this video down my throat and force me to watch it... so yeah i finally watched it. You’re welcome youtube.
You absolutely can tell the difference in a stranger’s steps from your family’s steps! You can identify your own family’s footsteps when you live with them long enough.
Right?! I had to pause when he said "somehow she could tell they weren't her parents" I've always been able to tell who's walking in the hallway in my house 😂😂 it's not hard at all lmao
a shit ton of people have crap parents that doesn't justify murder though. she was an adult at the time she could've moved out and got a job if she was fed up with it. But no let's kill mom and dad
Yes she was old enough to leave home, and there is no excuse for killing them - BUT you do wonder what years and years of that kind of pressure and control from her parents did to her emotions and her mind when she was growing up. Sometimes 'tiger parenting' can slip into psychological abuse, and that her whole life may have twisted her emotions to the point that she genuinely believed her parents were better off dead than alive and disappointed in her. They didn't just want her to be happy and successful for HER, they wanted their kids to shine as accessories for THEM, showing what good parents they were. I wonder if she genuinely believed that if she couldn't give them what they wanted -her to be the perfect daughter- then at least she could give them not having to live with 'their' failure.
18 years old move out then you can date any thug or drug dealer you want. This generation is so weak and emotionally gone. Y’all making excuses for this lady killing her parents. She is a compulsive liar.
just because theyre asian they look emotionless? lol. they look like they acted normally on that one pic. you cant just assume how they act during whole funeral. +i think the information that she doesnt show any emotion wasnt according to that one pic.
Raymond Terutama It was “according” to her emotions, as they had filmed the funeral ~ I agree, everyone handles their emotions differently 🙏 Everyone ~
Honestly. Knowing how horrendous these kinds of parents can be, I cannot imagine what kind of state her psyche was in. And people saying she’s a psychopath because she kept asking what was gonna happen to /her/, well… Maybe no one other than herself has ever cared about her. I’m not saying I’m excusing what she did, but I’m also not too quick to condemn her for it either.
Some people have really bad demons. Can’t put it on “not having been shown love,” she IS a psychopath. Many people have tiger parents not everyone plots to kill their parents.
@@JESUSLOVESYOU219 Just because not everyone reacts this way to abuse doesn’t mean it’s not abuse or that she’s a psychopath. Everyone’s w us to cope with shit is different.
@@mandarina4157 the point is you don’t murder, that’s crazy. This is what happens when people are spiritually ignorant. You’ll put everything on anything.
There's probably a lot more to this story and how this girl was raised that none of us will ever know about. It doesn't justify what she did at all, but it might have painted a different picture.
"Tiger parents" is just a euphemism for psychologically abusive parents, who offer no love and all restriction. To these people, children are trophies, not humans, yet when they finally bite back, the parents are the only ones considered victims. This case should've been a way to focus on this abuse, not laymen claiming to know what it's like and downplaying it because it's not physical or sexual.
This is a sad & tragic case of murdering parents by their child who resorted to such horrible way possible to kill them because she could not sustain her lies. She probably felt ashamed & could not face her parents' disappointments. Southeast Asian refugee parents came to Western countries after the communists took over the previous regime 1975-1990s. This generation of parents worked very hard to establish themselves, and they wanted their children to have a better life than they did through higher education & better-paid professional careers. These parents value education highly and many have high expectations of their children to get all As in classes and often direct the children's college and career choices. They often expressed love through sacrifice by working 2 to 3 jobs so the children could devote their time to school & excel academically. As long as the children do well in school, graduate from college, and have a good profession then things go smoothly. If not, some tension will emerge regarding restricted dating, less free time after school, and frequent lecturing from parents. These restrictive measures may be considered too repressive by children who are born & raised in these adoptive countries, however, considered reasonable by traditional Asian values. If this style of raising children is called "tiger parenting," then it is fine. I don't think this style of parenting is a form of psychological abuse. These parents love their children and want them to have a better life than they did. I see it as a cultural clash where parents have traditional Asian values in education, filial duties, and parental control locus vs. Western values in self-expression, individualism, independence, free of parental control at the age of 18, and self-directed educational goals. Fortunately, I have seen better communication, understanding, more compromising, and less cultural conflicts in families of 1st & 2nd generations.
Don't they have more than 2 pictures of this girl?? I feel sorry for the editor having to keep reusing those two pictures and trying to make it look different each time, doing different zooms and pans and other sfx lolol
Yeah, anybody who grew up with tiger parents understands Jennifer. Tiger parenting is emotionally and psychologically destructive. What we see here are severe consequences of child abuse. I can’t say I feel much for her parents because I don’t, I know what tiger parenting does to a child and it’s a form of child abuse. Her parents were her abusers. It’s unfortunate it went this far and she wasn’t able simply separate herself from her family. She had choices, including running away and never be heard from again, or contacting the authorities after being locked at home at 19. She chose to unalive her parents instead and though I think that’s a direct result of the child abuse she endured, she crossed a line she can’t return from and deserves her punishment. That’s not the way to solve our problems.
Pressuring one to excel academically and not complimenting their achievements is definitely abusive. Hann Pan (despite a victim) should've been charged for abusing Jennifer tbf.
@@emmyo6678 Dude...do you know what website you're on? This stupid site will shadowblock any comments that contain "forbidden" words. The female who runs YT treats language like an 11 year old would.
Workaholics, raised poor, trying to save for retirement and to provide luxury for their children that they were not given. This girl was evasive and made excuses to trick the parents into believing what she wanted them to. This piece is not very detailed... there is a more in-depth documentary on this which explains the situation much better.
Looks like it’s an old highschool/middle school photo, people change. The investigator did say he sold drugs so yea that’s definitely not how he looks 😂
She told them that she could only get one ticket for the graduation so she’d rather give it to her friend so that it would be fair since one parent wouldn’t have been able to come
this ^^ I tried telling my family that I was suicidal for over a decade because of how they treat me and a) my dad had no reaction, kept his face blank and didn't say anything b) my mom tried to keep a blank face and failed because she rolled her eyes and was annoyed and c) my NPD sister started screaming at me that I'm a liar because it seemed like we had fun together when we would occasionally hang out. Most of the time it seemed easier to remove myself than endure the abuse.
I admit I am ignorant of your suffering, but I believe your family is as well. However, there may be reasoning behind it. Maybe it is because they are tired of hearing you complain. People who are depressed tend to think way too much about themselves and whatever pain they think they have. This is why its called a disorder. Someone that doesn't have it doesn't understand. A normal person would think that 1+1= 2, while a depressed person thinks that 1+1 = 0. It doesn't make sense, and that is why its a disorder. I hope you are taking meds for it.
Some people on here do not understand how psychological abusive these types of parents are. These abusive parents hide behind the guise of being “loving” when it is actually the opposite.
I agree. I had terrible home and I understand Jennifer. She didn't see other choice. I was lucky not to kill my parents in self defense and run when I could.
Doesn’t give one a license to kill. She could have run away but she wanted money. Everyone in the world has some sort of trauma if we all killed the people who traumatized us most of us would be killed by now.
@@AT-eu4zu Its not that easy to run away. often these parents scare their children from being out in the world on their own. They're scared of being harmed by their parents (physical abuse is often part of the equation to assert dominance), or they maybe scared of being harmed by others if theyre on their own without any support. Sure, it doesn't mean all children should murder their abusive parents but theres elements that one can at least understand and should account for. what we should be asking is why abusive parents and sexualpredators are allowed to get away with it so much. Pedophiles barely get a slap in the hand. often the perpetrators are close family members of the child. Society fails to protect these children thats the ugly truth. not all snap, but that doesnt make it ok.
Preventing dating a drug dealer and living together with him and trying to give the daughter a good future is psychologial abuse? Nowadays everyone comes up with psychological and mental topics to justify anything brutal. NOTHING IN THE WORLD WILL JUSTIFY KILLING YOUR PARENTS. IF YOU CANT LIVE WITH THEM MOVE OUT AND DONT CONTACT THEM.
Okay, listen. My father died when I was 12 and I didn't cry. He died of cancer. Just because someone doesn't show emotions it doesn't mean they are sociopathic criminals. These of course _are_ professionals and try to be as _least_ biased as possible, but if you're an ordinary citizen you shouldn't judge people so critically. We all deal with situations differently, like in my case I'm used to death in my family and I've been through a lot so I keep my emotions at bay. Someone in shock can be emotionally detached for a long time.
My most beloved father died and I didn't cry either. Everyone around me condemned me of "cold-hearted". They didn't know that inside my heart I was shocked. I was in denial that my hero died the tragic death.
I was literally thinking that. Im so happy im not the only one it rubbed the wrong way. When i was 7 my brother passed away and I didn’t cry at the funeral.
I’m sorry but I can tell my family apart by their footsteps too? And definitely would know if someone strange was in my house based on their foot falls.
You live with someone your whole life or even after an extended amount of time of course you would know these things. In her case it does not matter one bit, though. She knew they were coming
My father was strict when I was growing up. Cared about us getting good grades but not about mental health, no friends, being bullied, just take care of your parents and the business. 😢 I been in one rehab...kicked out I was told.went to another. They couldn't renew, bc they needed the space for new patients. Understood. Hopefully they're getting better.
True, same here with my parents, i dont give a shit about making friends, they’re going to betray you in the end. As long as i have good grades thats good enough for me and have a high allowance job.
@Leshy_ easy to say that now. But when you're in 3rd, 4, 5 , grade and you're not invited a a kids birthday party, pool party, barbecue, movie at the house, it hurts.....you feel unwanted unloved,, kids think ur a loser, etc
I feel bad for Felix Pan. Trying to get a degree, coming back to a dad in coma fighting for his life , a mother that just brutally murdered and a sister who was mastermind in the murder.
I lived through horrific physical and verbal child abuse at the hands of my mother, and ignored by my passive father. I ran away from home and things went really bad from there, but I ended up joining the army, becoming a cop and getting my EMT certification and help others who have been abused. If it wasn’t for Jesus Christ saving me, I would be dead. He has also repaired my relationship with my parents. I don’t know what I would do without the Lord Jesus Christ.
all things being equal I wish they'd stop associating lack of emotion at funerals as 100% psychopath. People deal with stress and grief differently. Granted thats not the case here.
Yes I agree as me being possibly one of those people. I am the type of person to cry on the inside but rather hide my emotion as I don't want to be seen as weak in front of the people that matters to me and expect me to take care of them. Like my brothers
Yeah I agree, I didn’t show emotion on funerals I’ve been to but that dosent make me a psycho I just don’t show emotion to most sad things, it’s just a way to deal with stress and grief.
Damn, she was smart enough to forge her grades, a high school diploma *and* a college acceptance letter but *not* graduate high school? Edit: I was legit just making a joke about how much this girl could accomplish while I can’t even work anything more complex than Microsoft Paint and everyone in the comments is arguing over levels of intelligence, whether they can be rated by grades, how psychopathy effects them, etc. And tbh-it’s all better than I could have hoped God bless you all.
hahah i tell mines the same too. they had four healthy kids. we did not do drugs steal or had a drinking problem. We didnt study all the time but we are all pretty responsible.
Pathological liars are created typically when the child is too scared of getting punished by the strict parents so they canny stop Its sad and hard to get out of in later years
Asian woman here and i see this type of parenting all the time. Its awful and abusive. The way they belittle their kids for not being amazing is hurtful. I totally understand for completely snapping. She probably felt they owed her for all the abuse
It is awful, but by no means limited to Asian parents. Many parents demand that their kids do at least as well, if not better, than they did. My own mother would throw abusive, insult laden tantrums if I got an A-minus on an assignment in school, rather than another A-plus, and literally nothing was ever quite “good enough.” It has its own consequences, as I am not close to my parents and cut them off completely for a couple years in my 20s, before saying that any further relationship was going to follow MY guidelines on decent, respectful behavior. But that said, murder is “outrageous overshadow” where what one person does is wrong, but the other persons’ reaction is so extreme, it makes them the “bad guy.” And she was 24, in Canada. No matter how sheltered or brow beaten, she could have just left and made her own way. It’s not easy, but those with truly abusive parents prefer to be homeless on the streets, or join the military, or couchsurf, or anything just to get away from the abuse. I think she was more a “failure to launch” case like Chandler Haldersen or the other cases of adult moochers who kill parents for money.
the amount of plot twists you got me hating the girl then feeling bad for her then feeling bad for her boyfriend then feeling bad back at her parents like what the hell
The source was from the strictness of her parents. If her parents went easy on her, none of this would've happened. Didn't you see the scene from Family Guy where Peter learns violin and how vicious and brutal the Asian guy made him work to be good?
gamegeekx why couldn’t she just leave them? They gave her a choice to didn’t they? The person to blame here is the daughter being a complete idiot 🤦🏼♀️
Yeaaaaah the “she didn’t cry at the funeral,” bit is a tad stupid. Some people just don’t cry at them, they can’t. Whether they’re in shock or they’ve cried so much they can’t let anything out anymore.
True. Everyone has different coping mechnism. Although no tears could be just a small red flag that motivated police to dig deeper to find more evidence, can't blame them.
Agree. My grandmother died almost 4 months ago and I never cried in her wake and burial. I love her so much but I needed to be strong for the people she left, so I didn't cry in front of many people, at least.
I had to pause just to say that I am so sick of emotional reactions being taken as evidence that someone is guilty. Everyone reacts to trauma way differently and I probably would have been "emotionless" too.
It's been proven beyond a doubt she organized the killing, there's even text message evidence direct to the killers she thought she destroyed... You think she's sad at her victims funeral? How stupid are you... Of course she's sad at the cop-shop, that inheritance is gone as well as her worthless life.
What The I’m pretty sure they are just saying that no matter what happened, an emotional reaction shouldn’t be used as an argument for or against someone’s guilt. I don’t think they’re saying she didn’t do it but that even if she did, her emotional reaction alone isn’t proof enough.
But they had a point. A home invasion homocide is a very distinct situation. People usually feel some sort of injustice or get traumatized, you don't have time to get mentally prepared. Plus they never said it was used as an evidence it was just part of other sketchy reasons why they kept investigating her.
I'm reading her story and the more I read it, the more I see her as the victim. The dad was an asshole who micromanaged everything and put an enormous amount of academic pressure on her and also banned her from dating or hanging out with friends. And he was so harsh on her regarding her grades that she went to extreme length to forge them. I can't really blame her for snapping given how horrible he was.
tiger parents should face jail time, why on earth would they think its a good method when its simply emotional and psychologial abuse towards there child? look vid is a prime example
I aint no psycopath, but I can actually tell who is walking around the house. My dad has a heavy stomping sound whenever he walks, my sister has it too, but hers are a lot quicker as if she scurrying around the house for food, and my mom has soft foot steps.
The floor is rather creaky where I live but I memorized the areas that are less noisy or not noisy, so I jump around really gently but quickly to avoid making noise, making my footsteps extremely unique and identifiable, but also I think very difficult to detect in the first place though.
I lived under the rule of a clinically narcissistic parent. Abused a lot. Tiger parenting can have lot of narcissism and projection intertwined in it. Depending on the degree it is absolutely child abuse and treating the child as a status symbol instead of a human being who has psychologic limits. While I don't condone murder or torture of the parents at all, the daughter was still the victim of decades of psychologic, perhaps physiologic abuse no doubt.
Narcissistic parents are completely different to tiger parenting Narcissistic parents play the most insane illogical mind games to manipulate Tiger parents while extremely strict only do logical things and enforce rules they think will help their children succeed
❤ exactly 💯 I was raised by sick family. My parents were both alcoholics, aggressively beating eachother, then my mom left with me and moved close to my grandparents. She continued drinking and abusing me emotionally. My grandparents made me take care of her and make sure that people don t see her drunk. They locked me with her and pretended there was no problem. I hated my family, I wished myself dead, my mother dead, everyone. Eventually I graduated and went to work. Moved out from the city, then from the country. I am done.
Me too. My dad wears flip flops in the house and they drag on the floor. My mom doesnt drag her feet at all. My grandmother wears house slippers and her footsteps are very quiet. I can always tell who's walking around.
StofStuiver I agree. I’m actually raising my kids out in an isolated, off the grid cabin surrounded in high electric fences. I honestly don’t know why people even introduce these over complicated doohickeys into their children’s lives acting like those devices won’t give their kids cancer. I only feel sorry for those stupid enough to invite cancer into their family.
LMAO! Yeah, this girl is definitely an idiot! I bet she probably thought that lie sounded good and convincing until she realized that's she a fucking moron! smh
Well ya.. if your upstairs... and your parents have not worn shoes in the house since the first move in day... and they are alot lighter then the men in the house. Heavier step with boots on. I can see how she would know it's not her parents.
Yeah I don’t get what’s weird about her saying that. When I lived at home I could always identify my mum, dad and brother by their footsteps. Some people walk more heavily or lightly than others, or have a different gait, or tend to walk at a different pace etc - I really don’t find that claim unusual at all :/
If you don't know which family member is coming up the stairs based on the sound of their footsteps, can you even call yourself a family??? Hey 1k likes thanks guys
@@billylilly1251 we have carpet in the house and we don't wear shoes inside (slippers you know) and I can still tell my family members footsteps apart.
Why would you call her the Daughter of hell? More like parents from hell. Monsters are not born but created. She just wanted to enjoy her life, wanted to live as a normal kid but nobody talked about it. People who grew up with nice and lovable families and parents would never understand the struggle.
You know one of the biggest things that shocked me when I came back to Japan? It was the fact that even here ‘tiger parenting’ is considered one of the most extreme forms of parenting. While I did not grow up in such a household myself, most of my other asian friends did and it was pretty much considered the norm. It was only when I came back here that I learned that not all households were like this and that even by their standards this was considered far too extreme. The city middle class and upper class tend to put a lot of pressure on their kids but for those born in a pretty standard family we’re raised pretty normally. For those who have grown under tiger parenting I hope with this you will understand that tiger parenting is abnormal and a form of abuse. It is in no way normal and shouldn’t ever be normalized.
@@lawrencebruan-vy2px Do you have any idea what it's like to live with someone who needs to be in a retirement home? My grandpa came home the other day from being released from the retirement home he was at............. in the hours I was away at work, he broke off door of the sink cabinet in our bathroom, threw powder Comet all over the walls, the floor, and the door, and anything that wasn't affixed to the wall, he threw and made a mess. So please, unless you're in this situation, don't speak for the people actually going through it. And my mom came over and had to call the police because my grandpa was being very aggressive and combative. He's back in the hospital now because honestly he can no longer live at home.
Goes to show how powerful the need to please parents is in some Asian families, to the point of lying about graduation which just sounds like sick 'conditional loving' to others.
Strict parenting is a polite term for abuse, let’s not fool ourselves here. Lifelong resentments are harboured and no relief until both parents close their eyes for the final time. I hope this sad tale is a wake up call for strict parents.
Strict parents and abusive parents are VERY DIFFERENT. Strict parents: No, you must finish your homework before you get your phone. Abusive parents: your phone made you the idiot you are today and we're never giving it back, or we're smashing it. Strict parents: You cannot have McDonalds today because you had it yesterday, it's unhealthy. Abusive parents: Eat this oatmeal three meals a day because you broke our no-Mcdonalds rule. Big difference. I had the former. Wonderful parents. Strict, disciplined, turned me into a polite and disciplined human.
Sort of….but “strict parent” is a pretty vague term. Does that mean any parent who won’t let teens do whatever they want, or a parent who picks your career? Or how about advising a daughter not to date a small-time drug dealer? Some would call that good advice, others would call it interference. And had she been 18, maybe….but she was 24. People with truly abusive parents would rather be homeless on the streets, or immediately join the military, or move in with an older bf/gf, or couch surf,…..anything just to get away from the abuse. But she did little and stayed home, and then told ridiculous lie after ridiculous lie (it was all a wacky misunderstanding) and blamed everything she did on everyone but herself.
Strict parenting is not abusive though. It is a style of parenting. I do feel strict is better than spoiling at least. Regardless, her parents did seem to abuse her because it's wrong to lock your 18 year old in the house and control their love life.
@@JenniferHales what I have observed in my life experience. The wild child are the ones who come from overly strict parents. I also observed that child are often scared of their parents and chose not to confide in them. I have witnessed this some many times when the parents are hurt when they own children are unable or unwilling to come to them if they need advice. To address the point about a spoiled child, what is a spoiled child to you? Remember, children are not property they should be treated fairly and with a degree of firmness. Please let me explain firmness, this doesn’t mean threatening way, but a proper explanation why things have to be done in a certain manner along with the consequences when it is not followed.
every kid with strict parents knows what their parents foot steps sound like
adora enthusiast lmaoooooo
And keys, lol
Yup...!! I would hear my mom's and avoided her around the house as much as possible....
adora enthusiast exactly!
Facts
"Good ears"
No. it's scared ears.
Having strict parents gives you bionic ears
oh yeahyeah
So true I can identify everyone by footsteps
Samantha Harris same
@@samanthaharris2094 Same omd
Samantha Harris Same! It’s crazy! I grew up in a house of 8 people and asshole parents..I still could identify everyone’s footsteps in the hallway.
So true
You know what they say, “strict parents make great liars”
So what is your solution? Let your kids do anything they want and ruin their lives?
@@petrosaguilar8916 The fact that you see no gray area is the entire goddamn problem. You can responsibly parent without being a dictator. Hell, my dad was a strict parent, and even he didn't prevent me from leaving home after I turned 18 (jumping down my throat when I suggested taking a semester off to work more and save money, though...that's another story).
@@petrosaguilar8916 The best solution is befriend your kids make them like Your best friends.
Lmao
PhoenixRising87 I don’t understand how people are so dense and can’t comprehend what you just said. It’s like you are either a dictator or you’re careless. People don’t think and it makes me furious.
This was excellently written and composed. I had seen the suspect interview before and knew the whole story, but there is such quality to this delivery that I was still at the edge of my seat. The team that made this is stellar.
Her father probably is disappointed that she failed at murder attempt too.
Pleaseee I’m dead😭😭😭😭😭🤚🏽
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“What are you good for huh?”
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LMAFO YOU DIDNT HAVE TO DO THAT ✋🏽
Why is every single, security camera footage seem like it was shot during the Civil War era?
shrapnel77 irk right then the mars rover is all good
on god
shrapnel77 Lol because they’re cheap. You’d think if you were gonna invest in a security camera you’d get a good one, god forbid you’d ever need to review the footage..... makes no sense. Cos when they DO need it, it’s hardly even viewable. Shrugs.
@@princessmorganoke 😂😂😂 honestly. How ppl gonna use trash footage in court with literal pixels
well i mean it was from a house across the street, the home owners didnt buy the cameras to record their neighbors house. And its meant to record the driveway and front of the house, which it does a good job doing. Its not 4k but you can see whats happening in the front yard. And cameras can be expensive as hell, also its fucking night time so the visibility is bad.
And to the person saying they might as well not even have a camera if its low quality, at least if something happened, like a break in, the police would have video evidence and could analyze that shit. Im sorry that regular people cant afford thousands of dollars worth of high tech security footage (and the means to store said footage) so they can rewatch their home being broken into in 4k. I bet all the people talking shit on the cameras aint even got cameras of their own.
The daughter plotted to kill her own parents, and yet her mother’s last words were for the gunmen to spare her daughter. That’s just tragic.
I will always love my kids even if one of them decided too take me out
If she cared enough to be emotionally aware she wouldn't have been crying out on the first place. The daughter is the real tragic victim here lol
@@churroscuro8624 victim how? she was given the choice to leave her family and live off on her own and do whatever she wanted yet SHE chose to stay.
@@raeo7963 so it’s true what they say and about marriage and parenting: it’s really does turn ur brain to mush and kill you slowly
Yup I would be one of those moms who’s brain was mush and let my kid kill me before I ever had a thought of reacting
She was of course guilty, but I hate when cops say people don’t act a certain way after a tragedy. No one can say how someone will act in that sort of traumatic experience. There’s no set way.
PTSD
Yeah the brain does some pretty weird things when it’s under a lot of stress. There’s a letter written by a Titanic survivor while she was on the Carpathia and she describes feeling really happy.
But police do know more than most given they deal with people in such circumstances every day
They are the pro's here. They do piss me off thinking they know when someone lies. They're not your friends either and some will get you in prison by pretending to be one.
Same, I hate that some cops will say, “we can tell someone is guilty of something at a routine stop when they’re nervous or shaky”
Why do they think it’s suspicious that she can distinguish her parents’ footsteps? I can literally name everyone in my household based on their footsteps alone
K B I heard her dad sold the story to Hollywood producer for millions in a comment in the video by JCS. Her parents are disgusting.
me too .
If my parents use the soft slippers at home, and the killers wear the boots, I think I would easily distinguish their footsteps. And also at night, the parents go to the kitchen or toilet, they don't want to disturb their children.
@@xMaFiaKinGz her dad was almost murdered by his child. Give him a break.
katie No wont give him a break. He is sneak.
When you have strict parents, it’s not unusual to know their footsteps. Growing up in a very traditional asian family, I can identify who went out of their bedrooms, which car is about to park, which keys are for the house or the cars, and even their snores. It’s just something you learn when you are scared.
True. I memorize my family members foot steps.
Saaame...I know who’s using the bathroom without seeing them go in. Like it not a matter of fear tho, it’s more like who do I have to mentally prepare to talk to.
I feel you, I used to live with my brother-in-law, he’s a dad,also a HS teacher and he’s pretty much a strict person, not in a forceful way like other, he understand how things goes, he used to be an ex-gangster that’s why he didn’t want everyone else to step on that mistake especially me and his son,but still... I could definitely identify his movements, his habits, and other things, so overall I think My situation change since I move out.. well what a story, but hopefully your parents would go easy on you... much respect.
Trueeeeeeee me also know how they close the door 😂😂
So true. Even on who is on the kitchen, living room based on the noise or clacking sound they create lol
Her father after waking from coma: “Even your hitmen were below average. What a disappointment.”
Facts
I hope they highlight this comment it's under rated😂😂😂
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This comment is pure gold!
Holy shit that’s funny
These type of parents put so much pressure on their kids that I am not surprised there aren't more cases and I can see why there are kids who runways. If you are of legal age, leave and live your own life, but please don't do anything illegal.
For wanting your kid to be their best friends 😅
Exactly
Brilliant comment from Miss Glenda McD! 👍🏆🌹
Jennifer's parents weren't tiger parents though. I'm sure they were strict but the crux of the conflict was that they didn't want her dating her bf because he was a drug dealer and she skipped so much school to be with him that she failed high school. If her parents were okay with all of that I'd call them neglectful. Then they told her when she was 24 that either she study and break up with her bf in order to stay at home, or be kicked out of the house and disowned. I don't think this was unethical or wrong of her parents to do. Their daughter was objectively making a lot of bad decisions and they gave her one last chance to get on the right track.
"Somehow she identified the footsteps as not being her parents"
"Good ears!"
Are you kidding me.
What kid DOESNT know what their parents footsteps sound like, its kinda engrained in your brain your entire life.
Yee yee 😂😂😂
True
at specially when you try to hide something from them
it become kinda like a basic skill xD
@@jordantampubolon8694 no,, lol. almost every kid does??
@@TheOzziemozzie true
so no one mentioned the fact that the investigator’s name was bill gates?
was just about to write that
isn’t it Bill Goetz or something...?
I caught that and smirked. I laughed that the boyfriend was labeled as a part time drug dealer. I turned to my wife and said “not even full time? What a loser.”
It’s Bill Curtez
+SweetenerLuvs NOPE
She was 25 years old. This story makes you think she's maybe 18.
opentrunks or 14, psycho!
omeot she should have just moved out
@@mahamwaheed9192 yup agree.
Wait what !!?😂😂
You can’t escape Asian parents.
As an Asian myself I can understand the type of frustration and built up anger she had . The standard Asian parents have is almost unbearable at times . I have to say my anger was really bad until I got into college , going to church helped me a lot to learn to let go of all of the pressure I had .
What she did was absolutely horrendous . I do not condone her actions at all . However that could be the reasoning behind it all .
The reasoning why she murdered her mother tried to murder her father is greed, psychopathy, selfishness, her lies and deceptions.
If you're not Asian, maybe its best to be quiet and listen and learn about the experiences of others.@@colouroflife1
True, but thats not the only reason. We are usually a product of our surroundings. For example, women with daddy issues most likely did not have a strong father figure (strong emotionally i mean) present. Idk how strict her parents were but as a kid to strict asian parents I understand the pent up anger and frustration that could lead to misleading actions. Only difference with people like me and probably 99% of other people who grew up in an environment with strict restricting parents is that we would never act on those frustrations to harm our parents physically, unlike jennifer pan
@lokindabbiru9944, so you would never act upon those Frustrations like jennifer Pan here did, but you would think of them? Or imagine? Or would you be pleased if your parents passed away naturally without you having to act upon it? My friend, nothing justifies murder, let alone parent's murder, that too when she can hear them screaming in pain. Coming from dysfunctional family is kind of common, not preferred but common, but if everyone started thinking this way, the world would see much more such tragedies. Thankfully, there are people like us who absolutely can not relate with Jennifer's thinking regardless of our strict upbringing.
Hate for her parents was enormous
Parents: “Give me a degree”
Jenifer: *gives 1st degree murder*
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I shouldn’t have laughed but I did
Dude watch out your comment!
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so basically, the mother gave birth to her killer
Well done!
So sad :(
Slim Essid woah.... I-
That's still fucked up. Tiger parenting should be illegal
She didn't gave birth to a killer, she accidently raised her as a killer
“She somehow identified the footsteps as not being those of her parents.”
Dude I knew when my parents were breathing outside my room
Oh god yes I have legit memorized the way each of my parents walk down stairs and open doors.
Agreed. Not to mention that in crime stories the kids always say they knew it wasn't their parents footsteps. You hear these people walk around for years and learn how they walk.
Ikr, my parents aren't even strict and I know their foorsteps.
Patricia Jankey when ur living in hatred/fear of ur parents that’s probably the most common thing a kid will say about their parents, “I know their footsteps” or something like that as an example if u have extensibly abusive parents who beat u everyday or something related u learn when it’s coming real quick just by listening to the footsteps
Cavern iOS I honestly knew my families footsteps. I lived with grandmother and grandfather. They walk differently.
I have a similar background to Jennifer. My parents weren’t too strict as her’s but they also never showed me the direction I could go after graduating school. They just thought I will find my way like a fish in the ocean, while restricting certain things that costs money, regarding my education. After years of not being taught how to face the real world, I was lost. I’m just recovering now, I still have a long way to go.
I totally get that same here picking up the pieces
I'm going through a similar situation. Still to this day they control me so much that I never learned how to make my own decisions and live life by myself.
I hope God helps all of us.
PS: by no means what she did is justified. No matter what happens one should never even think of commiting this kind of terrible crime.
@shahnazparvin5055 I'm sorry to hear that sweetheart,how old are you?
@@shahnazparvin5055 He/she or it does :-) Never give up, love is the answer!
No-one is taught that. Everybody learns that. Some do it and some losers just moan in RUclips comments.
When my best friend's mom died, she just became numb to the world for a couple months. She didn't cry at the funeral, she cried behind doors, so that people couldn't see.
I'm just saying...someone not crying at a funeral isn't horrible or suspicious. People grieve in different ways.
Sionnanful - In this case, her lack of emotion led to the truth! Amen!
Sionnanful my best friends adopted mom (her mom adopted her) and she passed from heart surgery.
agreed
Sionnanful
My dad didn't cry at his moms funeral, because he had before that emptied out all the tears possible.
Sionnanful exactly my dad died when I was 10. I didn’t cry at his funeral
Dude you have no idea how fking long have i tried to avoid watching this video but its been appearing in my recommendation constantly as if youtube wants to shove this video down my throat and force me to watch it... so yeah i finally watched it. You’re welcome youtube.
Kristaps H. Thank you for your service Sir!
Just click not interested after clicking the three dots
No one forced you to do anything. Your will is weak.
Lol it's done that to me too
@@lookingcooljokr9528 I did, like three separate times, only took a week for it to reappear
You absolutely can tell the difference in a stranger’s steps from your family’s steps! You can identify your own family’s footsteps when you live with them long enough.
Thats so true even i know who is knocking door by the sound. I thought its common sense to know...
Yea even i know the sound that my family would make in the house like how my mom open the door how loud my dad just bash my f'n door
Who the hell are u fucking daredevil
Right?! I had to pause when he said "somehow she could tell they weren't her parents" I've always been able to tell who's walking in the hallway in my house 😂😂 it's not hard at all lmao
Yeah i can tell from my family whos walking up and down the stairs.
This is a true Asian dad... Coming back from the dead and coma to make your life miserable
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OMG, right? Ghost dad.
I bet the editor is really sick of having to use the same two photos over and over again😂
Agreed
Lmao they kept changing the animations too keep things exciting 😂
Free The plug 😂😂😂😂
lol i see this comment while watching the pic at the same time
@@tripbee4745 haha yup they made effort
"A child not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth"
Who is the original creator of this please? Thank you.
@@missolesoul African Proverb
@@sylvieshuu Thank you so much.
a shit ton of people have crap parents that doesn't justify murder though.
she was an adult at the time she could've moved out and got a job if she was fed up with it.
But no let's kill mom and dad
@only destiel So you're saying murdering someone is normal.
“She had highlighters” holy shit guys I think we have our suspect
y-YO I GOTTA GO HIDE MINE I-
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I read this just as they said it in the video
Yes she was old enough to leave home, and there is no excuse for killing them - BUT you do wonder what years and years of that kind of pressure and control from her parents did to her emotions and her mind when she was growing up. Sometimes 'tiger parenting' can slip into psychological abuse, and that her whole life may have twisted her emotions to the point that she genuinely believed her parents were better off dead than alive and disappointed in her. They didn't just want her to be happy and successful for HER, they wanted their kids to shine as accessories for THEM, showing what good parents they were. I wonder if she genuinely believed that if she couldn't give them what they wanted -her to be the perfect daughter- then at least she could give them not having to live with 'their' failure.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
Kinda makes sense yes they pushed her emotions to wrath
18 years old move out then you can date any thug or drug dealer you want. This generation is so weak and emotionally gone. Y’all making excuses for this lady killing her parents. She is a compulsive liar.
@@Supastackman You don't understand asians, don't speak for us.
@@Supastackmannot in americas economy. Have you seen rent control these days?
Editor: What kind of visual effects do you want for this video?
Director: Yes.
700thlike
Lmao
Watch a fucking indian tv soap dude you'll know what that actually means
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How she “acted” at her Mother’s funeral doesn’t always show guilt...Her brother didn’t show emotions either ..
That right there shows that something was up with the household.
Investigators find a problem regardless. If she had cried they would have said she faked it or cried bc investigators were on to her...
Yeah, sometimes people are just in shock.
just because theyre asian they look emotionless? lol. they look like they acted normally on that one pic. you cant just assume how they act during whole funeral. +i think the information that she doesnt show any emotion wasnt according to that one pic.
Raymond Terutama It was “according” to her emotions, as they had filmed the funeral ~ I agree, everyone handles their emotions differently 🙏 Everyone ~
Dad: You want a boyfriend, you’ll have to wait till I’m dead!
Jennifer: and I took that personally
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All fun and games until you are one of the parents
you're wrong for this joke and im wrong for laughing lmfao
That made me cringe because I wish he hadn’t said that
Honestly. Knowing how horrendous these kinds of parents can be, I cannot imagine what kind of state her psyche was in. And people saying she’s a psychopath because she kept asking what was gonna happen to /her/, well… Maybe no one other than herself has ever cared about her. I’m not saying I’m excusing what she did, but I’m also not too quick to condemn her for it either.
Some people have really bad demons. Can’t put it on “not having been shown love,” she IS a psychopath. Many people have tiger parents not everyone plots to kill their parents.
@@JESUSLOVESYOU219 Just because not everyone reacts this way to abuse doesn’t mean it’s not abuse or that she’s a psychopath. Everyone’s w us to cope with shit is different.
@@mandarina4157 the point is you don’t murder, that’s crazy. This is what happens when people are spiritually ignorant. You’ll put everything on anything.
They cared for her, but set high expectations. She was 24...no need to try to kill her parents.
@@mandarina4157The Doctors on the show 'Signs of a Psychopath' have diagnosed her as a sociopath/psychopath.
“She had highlighters”
That’s when you know it’s legit
Lmaoooo
XDDD
Heh
LMFAOO 😭😭😭
😭😂😂😂 ikr but then u can't sell ur books after our done with them
The editor on this is amazing. I almost did not realize iv been looking at the same 3 pictures the entire video.
Lol, just noticed this!
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WordsToTheWise wait what?
YES HAHAHA
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I do have to say when your parents say you “aren’t good enough” that can mess up a child
You're completely right!
There's probably a lot more to this story and how this girl was raised that none of us will ever know about. It doesn't justify what she did at all, but it might have painted a different picture.
definitely.
Very true
I spent 2 weeks in a psych hospital cause of these sentences
"Tiger parents" is just a euphemism for psychologically abusive parents, who offer no love and all restriction. To these people, children are trophies, not humans, yet when they finally bite back, the parents are the only ones considered victims. This case should've been a way to focus on this abuse, not laymen claiming to know what it's like and downplaying it because it's not physical or sexual.
YUUUUP
Amen.
This is a sad & tragic case of murdering parents by their child who resorted to such horrible way possible to kill them because she could not sustain her lies. She probably felt ashamed & could not face her parents' disappointments.
Southeast Asian refugee parents came to Western countries after the communists took over the previous regime 1975-1990s. This generation of parents worked very hard to establish themselves, and they wanted their children to have a better life than they did through higher education & better-paid professional careers. These parents value education highly and many have high expectations of their children to get all As in classes and often direct the children's college and career choices. They often expressed love through sacrifice by working 2 to 3 jobs so the children could devote their time to school & excel academically. As long as the children do well in school, graduate from college, and have a good profession then things go smoothly. If not, some tension will emerge regarding restricted dating, less free time after school, and frequent lecturing from parents. These restrictive measures may be considered too repressive by children who are born & raised in these adoptive countries, however, considered reasonable by traditional Asian values. If this style of raising children is called "tiger parenting," then it is fine. I don't think this style of parenting is a form of psychological abuse. These parents love their children and want them to have a better life than they did. I see it as a cultural clash where parents have traditional Asian values in education, filial duties, and parental control locus vs. Western values in self-expression, individualism, independence, free of parental control at the age of 18, and self-directed educational goals. Fortunately, I have seen better communication, understanding, more compromising, and less cultural conflicts in families of 1st & 2nd generations.
@KitKat_2007 Uh no, that's not how it works buddy
@@KitKat_2007 if her parents didn't abuse her, then she didn't kill them, she just gave them a nap 🤣
emelia nathan
She looks like one of my friends but she has more of a small face lol even the same glasses
dont do school do drugs cool
but the boyfriend is the one I was talking about and I can’t even with him
maya lol
😂😂😂 true
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Don't they have more than 2 pictures of this girl?? I feel sorry for the editor having to keep reusing those two pictures and trying to make it look different each time, doing different zooms and pans and other sfx lolol
So true
Rite
different pans of pan
i apologize
bat ka nandito hhahahah pota
Lolllll
“She apparently identified the footsteps as not her parents “ boi literally every kid with strict parents can tell the footsteps
Actually I can recognize the footsteps of people close to me without seeing them its not that difficult
@@NMA635 i can even recognize footsteps of my crush. I thought it is normal for every1 to recognize people's footsteps
Tbh recognizing footsteps is easy
Strict parents or not, if they are around alot you know their footsteps.
@@hoangnamdav the crush thing is a little weird. You follow her around or what?
Yeah, anybody who grew up with tiger parents understands Jennifer. Tiger parenting is emotionally and psychologically destructive. What we see here are severe consequences of child abuse. I can’t say I feel much for her parents because I don’t, I know what tiger parenting does to a child and it’s a form of child abuse. Her parents were her abusers. It’s unfortunate it went this far and she wasn’t able simply separate herself from her family. She had choices, including running away and never be heard from again, or contacting the authorities after being locked at home at 19. She chose to unalive her parents instead and though I think that’s a direct result of the child abuse she endured, she crossed a line she can’t return from and deserves her punishment. That’s not the way to solve our problems.
I cannot imagine being put under that much pressure by my own folks.
Unalive is NOT A WORD!! Stop watching marvel movies and grow up!
@@emmyo6678 I’m aware. It’s just how I censor my words in case the algorithm blocks comments. Now go direct your menopausal hot flashes elsewhere.
Pressuring one to excel academically and not complimenting their achievements is definitely abusive. Hann Pan (despite a victim) should've been charged for abusing Jennifer tbf.
@@emmyo6678 Dude...do you know what website you're on? This stupid site will shadowblock any comments that contain "forbidden" words. The female who runs YT treats language like an 11 year old would.
Such a sad story, but you know what they say "The strictest parents raise the best liars."
Cal, it’s true
True
So true
I never knew they said that. True statement.
Very true. Or raise the best manipulator.
"her dad wanted her to be a doctor"
that's typical asian parents.
yahh for asian parents doesnt need to pay for the hospital because they would have a doctor in their life (i guess)
Ice skating was the killer never met a figure skater that was white I have but there dad was my hokey coach lol
Ya my moms Japanese and she’s obsessed with me becoming a dermatologist.
I know. I have a choice of becoming a doctor, lawyer, or engineer. I told my parents I don’t want to become any of those and my ass got whooped lol.
@@TaeTae-df3wy what did you choose in the end?
But what kind of parents don't even go to their child's high school or college graduation??
Mine
@Pinkaugust 😂😂really??!!! 🙄
@Pinkaugust Parents who value all the wrong things, maybe?
asians
Workaholics, raised poor, trying to save for retirement and to provide luxury for their children that they were not given. This girl was evasive and made excuses to trick the parents into believing what she wanted them to. This piece is not very detailed... there is a more in-depth documentary on this which explains the situation much better.
How do they call her 'daughter from hell' yet her parents abused her psychologically all her life?she deserved better
To be fair
She is from hell
And the parents were the demons
So in poetic justice, she's hell spawn
True. But also did she really deserve better if she chose to do this
@@tirramasu7948 she's not If you've never had abusive parents you wouldn't understand her
@@ElysianClips77 did she have a choice?
@@Jungkook_jimin310 So exactly I do understand her
Apparently her father was wrong. she did have the stomach
You mean he was "Wong"...
This is a REALLY underrated comment
@@dorjjodvo1992 🤣🤣🤣
@@dorjjodvo1992 I feel bad for laughing.
This burn
"..And her bad boy boyfriend.." **shows least intimidating person ever**
Looks like it’s an old highschool/middle school photo, people change. The investigator did say he sold drugs so yea that’s definitely not how he looks 😂
Nvm I finished the rest of the video that is how he stayed looking 😂
@@christianh5826 bruh 😂
Haha
@@christianh5826 he probably just sold weed .. lol
Her parents never asked why they weren’t going to a graduation ceremony?
@Carl yes they fucking were? you're a dumbass?
Carl listen to the story, they’re immigrants who came by boat.
@Carl they only had 1 child
@Carl oh.
She told them that she could only get one ticket for the graduation so she’d rather give it to her friend so that it would be fair since one parent wouldn’t have been able to come
"Don't force your children into your ways, for they were created for a time different from your own" - Plato
Be careful how you raise your kids. This has put me off having kids. Some kids can be so ungrateful.
Lol
True.
Usually true, but I've met 2 kids who were raised by loving, hard working parents but were evil personified.
Lynn Lynn that is true I am a Asian and I’m evil but I am looking to change
@@yourlocalwalmart8760 😮
“jennifer’s story is not something you hear every day” yeah cuz the jennifer’s usually commit suicide before they get to the murdering part
true
this ^^ I tried telling my family that I was suicidal for over a decade because of how they treat me and a) my dad had no reaction, kept his face blank and didn't say anything b) my mom tried to keep a blank face and failed because she rolled her eyes and was annoyed and c) my NPD sister started screaming at me that I'm a liar because it seemed like we had fun together when we would occasionally hang out. Most of the time it seemed easier to remove myself than endure the abuse.
Suicidal for over 10 years? I can understand why they thought that, given to the fact that you are still alive.
@@rmisionero My scars definitively prove how ignorant and cruel your response is.
I admit I am ignorant of your suffering, but I believe your family is as well. However, there may be reasoning behind it. Maybe it is because they are tired of hearing you complain. People who are depressed tend to think way too much about themselves and whatever pain they think they have. This is why its called a disorder. Someone that doesn't have it doesn't understand. A normal person would think that 1+1= 2, while a depressed person thinks that 1+1 = 0. It doesn't make sense, and that is why its a disorder. I hope you are taking meds for it.
No one talking bout Bill Gates being a detective.
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I was exactly on that part! 😂 imagine telling people my dad is bill gates
I burst in laughter when i heard that name.. Lol
vSpecky i was thinking that 😂
5/7/20......AFTER solving THIS case Bill Gates got involved with COVID-19 & his MIRACLE CURE VACCINE THAT THE WHOLE WORLD MUST TAKE!
Some people on here do not understand how psychological abusive these types of parents are. These abusive parents hide behind the guise of being “loving” when it is actually the opposite.
I agree. I had terrible home and I understand Jennifer. She didn't see other choice. I was lucky not to kill my parents in self defense and run when I could.
18 min of a horrible terror. What about over 20 years of psychological abuse to child?
Doesn’t give one a license to kill. She could have run away but she wanted money. Everyone in the world has some sort of trauma if we all killed the people who traumatized us most of us would be killed by now.
@@AT-eu4zu Its not that easy to run away. often these parents scare their children from being out in the world on their own. They're scared of being harmed by their parents (physical abuse is often part of the equation to assert dominance), or they maybe scared of being harmed by others if theyre on their own without any support.
Sure, it doesn't mean all children should murder their abusive parents but theres elements that one can at least understand and should account for.
what we should be asking is why abusive parents and sexualpredators are allowed to get away with it so much. Pedophiles barely get a slap in the hand. often the perpetrators are close family members of the child. Society fails to protect these children thats the ugly truth. not all snap, but that doesnt make it ok.
Preventing dating a drug dealer and living together with him and trying to give the daughter a good future is psychologial abuse? Nowadays everyone comes up with psychological and mental topics to justify anything brutal. NOTHING IN THE WORLD WILL JUSTIFY KILLING YOUR PARENTS. IF YOU CANT LIVE WITH THEM MOVE OUT AND DONT CONTACT THEM.
when they showed daniel's picture and said 'badboy' i just about died laughing
💀 I thought exactly the same
jade what a bad lad am I right?
hahaha Ikr. no offense he looks like a typical geek asian, totally different from a bad looking boy XD
lol right! he looks like the farthest away from that like he'd cry if i slapped the cheetos out of his hand
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Okay, listen. My father died when I was 12 and I didn't cry. He died of cancer. Just because someone doesn't show emotions it doesn't mean they are sociopathic criminals.
These of course _are_ professionals and try to be as _least_ biased as possible, but if you're an ordinary citizen you shouldn't judge people so critically. We all deal with situations differently, like in my case I'm used to death in my family and I've been through a lot so I keep my emotions at bay.
Someone in shock can be emotionally detached for a long time.
I’m sorry for your loss, but you are very correct!
who else didn’t read this comment and just liked it?
My most beloved father died and I didn't cry either. Everyone around me condemned me of "cold-hearted". They didn't know that inside my heart I was shocked. I was in denial that my hero died the tragic death.
I was literally thinking that. Im so happy im not the only one it rubbed the wrong way. When i was 7 my brother passed away and I didn’t cry at the funeral.
Agreed. When my grandmother died of a heart attack, I only cried later when I was alone.
I’m sorry but I can tell my family apart by their footsteps too? And definitely would know if someone strange was in my house based on their foot falls.
Yea three men in the house.
They may have known the parents but not the kids
You live with someone your whole life or even after an extended amount of time of course you would know these things. In her case it does not matter one bit, though. She knew they were coming
Augusto oh agreed I just really found the way they worded that uncomfortable
and they would be wearing outdoors shoes
My father was strict when I was growing up. Cared about us getting good grades but not about mental health, no friends, being bullied, just take care of your parents and the business. 😢
I been in one rehab...kicked out I was told.went to another. They couldn't renew, bc they needed the space for new patients. Understood. Hopefully they're getting better.
Hey same here dude😂
True, same here with my parents, i dont give a shit about making friends, they’re going to betray you in the end. As long as i have good grades thats good enough for me and have a high allowance job.
@Leshy_ easy to say that now. But when you're in 3rd, 4, 5 , grade and you're not invited a a kids birthday party, pool party, barbecue, movie at the house, it hurts.....you feel unwanted unloved,, kids think ur a loser, etc
@Leshy_ easy to say that but when friends, are talking about movies, sport, birthday parties, weekend pool parties and nobody invited me.......
Dang that’s sad for her and them. Sad she did alll that but in the same regard you can’t contain someone’s life.
I feel bad for Felix Pan. Trying to get a degree, coming back to a dad in coma fighting for his life , a mother that just brutally murdered and a sister who was mastermind in the murder.
Maximus Erextus he was just trying to have a successful life only to come back without a mom
facts dude. shit is so fucking sad
He was the one responsible for all that that happens to him
Elaborate please
She defs has the stomach to be a doctor
You need to quit!! lmfao
We're not that bad
Not really tho. She got someone else to do the dirty work.
Hahahahaahaha
Lmao
She should have been an actress instead of pharmacist
No, she clearly failed at acting, that's why she got caught...
Nusret Bextiyar She only got caught because she was followed😂
Nusret Bextiyar HEHWHHWW
Nice one nursret XD
@@NoveskeYT lol
I lived through horrific physical and verbal child abuse at the hands of my mother, and ignored by my passive father. I ran away from home and things went really bad from there, but I ended up joining the army, becoming a cop and getting my EMT certification and help others who have been abused. If it wasn’t for Jesus Christ saving me, I would be dead. He has also repaired my relationship with my parents. I don’t know what I would do without the Lord Jesus Christ.
Very beautiful thing for you. Amen!!!
Very inspiring
I’m glad he saved you
Do you still sin?
🙏🏻❤️
all things being equal I wish they'd stop associating lack of emotion at funerals as 100% psychopath. People deal with stress and grief differently. Granted thats not the case here.
I agree, some people go numb during the grief process and it's a completely normal phase.
Yes I agree as me being possibly one of those people. I am the type of person to cry on the inside but rather hide my emotion as I don't want to be seen as weak in front of the people that matters to me and expect me to take care of them. Like my brothers
Yeah I agree, I didn’t show emotion on funerals I’ve been to but that dosent make me a psycho I just don’t show emotion to most sad things, it’s just a way to deal with stress and grief.
La4ht3r same as fuck
@2#p90sd&
Im glad we all didn’t skip the recommended video
Michael Scott mine isn’t a recommended video
yeah mine kept popping up and I was like fine I will watch it.
@@caleb11122 same
Bro i swear i diddnt even wanna watch this shit
Caleb Sims same
Damn, she was smart enough to forge her grades, a high school diploma *and* a college acceptance letter but *not* graduate high school?
Edit: I was legit just making a joke about how much this girl could accomplish while I can’t even work anything more complex than Microsoft Paint and everyone in the comments is arguing over levels of intelligence, whether they can be rated by grades, how psychopathy effects them, etc. And tbh-it’s all better than I could have hoped God bless you all.
She propably didnt want to graduate
Most likely laziness. I know people who are crazy smart but can't be bothered to do the work.
It takes a lot of time and work to keep from working
She didn't want to go to school anyway.
Really smart people don't care about school cause they feel it holds them back.
So so sad. Parenting is not for the faint- hearted. Been through lots myself. I can't believe the father survived and could think or talk.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
i always told my parents theres worse kids out there, now they believe me lol
😂😂
rickiex n
hahah i tell mines the same too. they had four healthy kids. we did not do drugs steal or had a drinking problem. We didnt study all the time but we are all pretty responsible.
Have they really never heard of kids murdering parents before?
If you are a bad kid, then that reason does not justify the situation.
Jennifer’s logic: You can’t disappoint your parents if you don’t have any.
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Also Jennifer's Logic: If your parents are dead, you are free and no more pain.
Lmao 😂
That's a fact lmao
Well don't forget, she never graduated high school😵
Pathological liars are created typically when the child is too scared of getting punished by the strict parents so they canny stop
Its sad and hard to get out of in later years
Well it has its uses too
She was abused by her parents you twat
@@jamesgentry13 Go fuck yourself
@@Hetsu.. tf???
James Gentry I mean she still didn’t have to kill them
Asian woman here and i see this type of parenting all the time. Its awful and abusive. The way they belittle their kids for not being amazing is hurtful. I totally understand for completely snapping. She probably felt they owed her for all the abuse
Mexican parents are like that too
It is awful, but by no means limited to Asian parents. Many parents demand that their kids do at least as well, if not better, than they did. My own mother would throw abusive, insult laden tantrums if I got an A-minus on an assignment in school, rather than another A-plus, and literally nothing was ever quite “good enough.”
It has its own consequences, as I am not close to my parents and cut them off completely for a couple years in my 20s, before saying that any further relationship was going to follow MY guidelines on decent, respectful behavior. But that said, murder is “outrageous overshadow” where what one person does is wrong, but the other persons’ reaction is so extreme, it makes them the “bad guy.”
And she was 24, in Canada. No matter how sheltered or brow beaten, she could have just left and made her own way. It’s not easy, but those with truly abusive parents prefer to be homeless on the streets, or join the military, or couchsurf, or anything just to get away from the abuse.
I think she was more a “failure to launch” case like Chandler Haldersen or the other cases of adult moochers who kill parents for money.
This could've been 10 minutes if they didnt say the same things
IKR?!?!?!
fitzshawn this is a show for TV, so it’s split into several parts for commercial breaks
Igor no shit
Ikr!?!
the amount of plot twists
you got me hating the girl
then feeling bad for her
then feeling bad for her boyfriend
then feeling bad back at her parents
like what the hell
The source was from the strictness of her parents. If her parents went easy on her, none of this would've happened. Didn't you see the scene from Family Guy where Peter learns violin and how vicious and brutal the Asian guy made him work to be good?
my man just made a life lesson out of a Family Guy episode.
@@calvoclan4686 lmao frss
@@gamegeekx It's so true man. That's how asian parents are.
gamegeekx why couldn’t she just leave them? They gave her a choice to didn’t they? The person to blame here is the daughter being a complete idiot 🤦🏼♀️
She did it but I can also identify who’s footsteps are who in the family. That’s easy and not far fetched.
@wheels turn LOLOLOL
@wheels turn brah what
@wheels turn wtf XD
wheels turn that’s like cute but gross
@wheels turn lmao
This one is much better then the one on Netflix, they didn’t go into details as much!
Yeaaaaah the “she didn’t cry at the funeral,” bit is a tad stupid. Some people just don’t cry at them, they can’t. Whether they’re in shock or they’ve cried so much they can’t let anything out anymore.
Yeah true like I don’t cry at all tbh unless it’s an animal
True. Everyone has different coping mechnism. Although no tears could be just a small red flag that motivated police to dig deeper to find more evidence, can't blame them.
@Illyria86 Not everyone can control their tears though. Do agree she could have been in shock.
Agree. My grandmother died almost 4 months ago and I never cried in her wake and burial. I love her so much but I needed to be strong for the people she left, so I didn't cry in front of many people, at least.
Rocky Rider unless it’s an animal what the fuck? 😂 so how do we describe being sensitive nowadays if there’s mfs crying over animals but not humans 😂
3 Pixels on security camera: move.
Police: yep that's the killer.
Zachtacular 😂
Zachtacular ong!!!!
@AppleGameID ew calm down
@AppleGameID make me.
Bruh 😂
I had to pause just to say that I am so sick of emotional reactions being taken as evidence that someone is guilty. Everyone reacts to trauma way differently and I probably would have been "emotionless" too.
It's been proven beyond a doubt she organized the killing, there's even text message evidence direct to the killers she thought she destroyed... You think she's sad at her victims funeral? How stupid are you...
Of course she's sad at the cop-shop, that inheritance is gone as well as her worthless life.
What The I’m pretty sure they are just saying that no matter what happened, an emotional reaction shouldn’t be used as an argument for or against someone’s guilt. I don’t think they’re saying she didn’t do it but that even if she did, her emotional reaction alone isn’t proof enough.
Fuck off Marxist.
But they had a point. A home invasion homocide is a very distinct situation. People usually feel some sort of injustice or get traumatized, you don't have time to get mentally prepared. Plus they never said it was used as an evidence it was just part of other sketchy reasons why they kept investigating her.
Same.
I'm reading her story and the more I read it, the more I see her as the victim. The dad was an asshole who micromanaged everything and put an enormous amount of academic pressure on her and also banned her from dating or hanging out with friends. And he was so harsh on her regarding her grades that she went to extreme length to forge them. I can't really blame her for snapping given how horrible he was.
tiger parents should face jail time, why on earth would they think its a good method when its simply emotional and psychologial abuse towards there child? look vid is a prime example
This is every lndian child’s life.
@@EXEcosmoman20 I agree. This is why I say Amy Chua is the worst celebrity in existence and should face the worst punishment
@@Rayis4444 that just makes India look bad
Did you really think you'd outsmart the founder of Microsoft?..
I was looking for this comment. Thank-you.
Its probably on tv with commercials so had to recap every now and then
U make me comfort after hearing this case!
Thanks you
I dont get it sum1 answer
You mean apple???
I aint no psycopath, but I can actually tell who is walking around the house. My dad has a heavy stomping sound whenever he walks, my sister has it too, but hers are a lot quicker as if she scurrying around the house for food, and my mom has soft foot steps.
I think everyone can do that I can tell who’s knocking at my door
Dont be ridiculous. Nobody can tell who someone is by how hard their foot stomps the ground when they walk. Like what dude? Give me a break
The floor is rather creaky where I live but I memorized the areas that are less noisy or not noisy, so I jump around really gently but quickly to avoid making noise, making my footsteps extremely unique and identifiable, but also I think very difficult to detect in the first place though.
Nick Z I can.. I know will everyone is without seeing them. Try having the only bathroom right across from your room. It’s not hard.
Juan SulK you didn’t grow up with a family obviously 🤷🏾♂️ I can without hesitation tell you who’s walking around the house
"...met a bad boy named Daniel..."
Proceeds to show the nerdiest kid I've ever seen in my life.
🤣😜
💀💀💀💀I was in a shocked state until I read this comment. 😹
nightwishnemo Why are you a racist bitch?
@@jamesd6873
Prejudice possibly , a little rude maybe but not racist 🤦♀️ stop dealing that word around like it's a cookie smh.
someguy604 AHAHAHAHHA 😂😂😂
I lived under the rule of a clinically narcissistic parent. Abused a lot.
Tiger parenting can have lot of narcissism and projection intertwined in it. Depending on the degree it is absolutely child abuse and treating the child as a status symbol instead of a human being who has psychologic limits.
While I don't condone murder or torture of the parents at all, the daughter was still the victim of decades of psychologic, perhaps physiologic abuse no doubt.
Narcissistic parents are completely different to tiger parenting
Narcissistic parents play the most insane illogical mind games to manipulate
Tiger parents while extremely strict only do logical things and enforce rules they think will help their children succeed
❤ exactly 💯 I was raised by sick family. My parents were both alcoholics, aggressively beating eachother, then my mom left with me and moved close to my grandparents. She continued drinking and abusing me emotionally. My grandparents made me take care of her and make sure that people don t see her drunk. They locked me with her and pretended there was no problem. I hated my family, I wished myself dead, my mother dead, everyone. Eventually I graduated and went to work. Moved out from the city, then from the country. I am done.
@monikabazyl387 good decision
Can't imagine the psychological damage they inflicted on you
My parents aren’t strict, but I can still identify who’s coming towards me based on the footsteps in my house.
Me too. My dad wears flip flops in the house and they drag on the floor. My mom doesnt drag her feet at all. My grandmother wears house slippers and her footsteps are very quiet. I can always tell who's walking around.
@@ari1758 bruh you wear shoes in the house 😭
@@fcknkaleo I dont, I like to go barefoot, but the rest of my family has house shoes they dont wear outside.
@@ari1758 us Asians can’t where shoes in the house😞
Because it happens every single day like my dad useally has heavier footsteps a lot louder then my moms
“Part-time drug dealer” seems odd to me.
“Hey man can I get a couple grams off you?”
“Nah sorry, I don’t work on Thursdays”
Lauren Cheerio he probably sold drugs to support his own habit so he wasn’t really a dealer probably. More like a user who would sell
lol
Aww man.. Thursday is payday.
Lmao
Lmao...
Meanwhile the son is away at college going WTF bruh???
Nope, boy chose to stay away from the parents apparently. It was a good choice man
Steak guy [DHMIS] you don’t know it where’s your evidence sir?
Steak guy [DHMIS] this thread made me laugh to hard.
@Steak guy [DHMIS] 😂 you're not right
Nah, I bet the brother was thinking "I should've known this was gonna happen, I lived in that household."
Apple didn’t fall away from the tree. They killed her emotionally she killed them physically
💯 don t understand why nobody analysing it fully
@@monikabazyl387still…murder is not okay. y’all are crazy
Facts
Facts
@@nicoleclavel3876 they never said it was okay, ur crazy for thinking anyone said it was okay.
We all know what are parent footsteps sound like that’s how we are so good at being on our phone at night
LOL yessss
Nah
yessss!
Kids (and adolescents, since they are kids too) shouldnt have a smart phone.
It makes them pretty stupid.
StofStuiver I agree. I’m actually raising my kids out in an isolated, off the grid cabin surrounded in high electric fences. I honestly don’t know why people even introduce these over complicated doohickeys into their children’s lives acting like those devices won’t give their kids cancer. I only feel sorry for those stupid enough to invite cancer into their family.
Bro everyone knows what their parents' footsteps sound like
LMAO! Yeah, this girl is definitely an idiot! I bet she probably thought that lie sounded good and convincing until she realized that's she a fucking moron! smh
True... I know the sound of my parents and siblings footsteps
Well ya.. if your upstairs... and your parents have not worn shoes in the house since the first move in day... and they are alot lighter then the men in the house. Heavier step with boots on. I can see how she would know it's not her parents.
Yeah I don’t get what’s weird about her saying that. When I lived at home I could always identify my mum, dad and brother by their footsteps. Some people walk more heavily or lightly than others, or have a different gait, or tend to walk at a different pace etc - I really don’t find that claim unusual at all :/
I haven’t lived with my mother for a decade and I still know when it’s her coming up the stairs in her home.
If you don't know which family member is coming up the stairs based on the sound of their footsteps, can you even call yourself a family???
Hey 1k likes thanks guys
You can if they don't wear shoes and or have carpet in the house.
@@billylilly1251 we have carpet in the house and we don't wear shoes inside (slippers you know) and I can still tell my family members footsteps apart.
@@sal9801 nope, I'm actually not. :D
@@sal9801 why would you wear shoes inside??? that's fucking disgusting man, you'll make house dirty and gross
I even know how my father's car sounds like when he comes/drives home
Why would you call her the Daughter of hell? More like parents from hell. Monsters are not born but created. She just wanted to enjoy her life, wanted to live as a normal kid but nobody talked about it. People who grew up with nice and lovable families and parents would never understand the struggle.
@@Totododofodo not for Asians, it’s different out there
Girl: help I'm tied up
Police: if your tied up then how are you calling rn
Girl: 👁👄👁
Ondre' 3000 LMAO
Lel
LOL 😂 I'm Weak!
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They explain that part in the video.
Some people skip the recommended videos
But not us
Not us
Ikr i saw it in it plus i seen it on news already but it popped up so i watched it again
Yep
Moment GF N BF LOOKS SAME
Well I like watching crime documentaries.
Some people move on...
I like what you did there
I’m finally watching it ok! Are you freaking happy now youtube!? Damn
Milan T same here! Geez !!
I watched this video before and RUclips STILL recommends it
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂🤣😂🤣😂 same here...n lol why does she look like my ex Philippine gf 🤣
@@Alikhan-qn7js Sleep with one eye open.
You know one of the biggest things that shocked me when I came back to Japan?
It was the fact that even here ‘tiger parenting’ is considered one of the most extreme forms of parenting.
While I did not grow up in such a household myself, most of my other asian friends did and it was pretty much considered the norm. It was only when I came back here that I learned that not all households were like this and that even by their standards this was considered far too extreme.
The city middle class and upper class tend to put a lot of pressure on their kids but for those born in a pretty standard family we’re raised pretty normally.
For those who have grown under tiger parenting I hope with this you will understand that tiger parenting is abnormal and a form of abuse. It is in no way normal and shouldn’t ever be normalized.
The true question is: Why couldn't this youtube channel find more than 5 photos for this video?
*drove 2 luxury cars* shows an ugly Lexus and a broken Mercedes
Riot Kai 😂😂
Says the guy with no car. 😙
I would rather have a crappy 2019 Ford Focus instead
Mscello22 you feel personally attacked because you own a shitty old Mercedes or what? 🤨
@@aryanshawla117 so true. A countach is a piece of shit just because it old
i feel sorry for the editor who had to put in 2 photos 10000x times
I love my mom she might be strict sometimes but i know that she loves me more than anyone in this world i love you mom ❤ and dad ❤️
'Be nice to your children. They pick your retirement home.' - Bumper sticker.
If your children put you in a retirement home they are shit children, though I agree
And the murder weapon.
More like they're the ones you live with in your retirement while you care for the grandchildren
@@lawrencebruan-vy2px Do you have any idea what it's like to live with someone who needs to be in a retirement home? My grandpa came home the other day from being released from the retirement home he was at............. in the hours I was away at work, he broke off door of the sink cabinet in our bathroom, threw powder Comet all over the walls, the floor, and the door, and anything that wasn't affixed to the wall, he threw and made a mess. So please, unless you're in this situation, don't speak for the people actually going through it. And my mom came over and had to call the police because my grandpa was being very aggressive and combative. He's back in the hospital now because honestly he can no longer live at home.
You're a idiot!
Never graduated from high school!😂😂😂 you gotta be some type of smart to trick yo parents you graduated
in that case please clap for me cus i did the same thing :D
4 real but wtf lol i am and was a total fuk up and i graduated easily. She musta just been over it and quit at 16.
I'm 33 and consider myself still to be a total fuck up but my life is great. Odd...
😂😂😂
Goes to show how powerful the need to please parents is in some Asian families, to the point of lying about graduation which just sounds like sick 'conditional loving' to others.
"She had highlighters"
Must be serious about her studies
Wait until they hear about her IPad.
Highlighters? No further questions.
meawhile me highlighting everything...
yeah that's an indicator all right lol
😂😂😂
Strict parenting is a polite term for abuse, let’s not fool ourselves here. Lifelong resentments are harboured and no relief until both parents close their eyes for the final time. I hope this sad tale is a wake up call for strict parents.
Strict parents and abusive parents are VERY DIFFERENT.
Strict parents: No, you must finish your homework before you get your phone.
Abusive parents: your phone made you the idiot you are today and we're never giving it back, or we're smashing it.
Strict parents: You cannot have McDonalds today because you had it yesterday, it's unhealthy.
Abusive parents: Eat this oatmeal three meals a day because you broke our no-Mcdonalds rule.
Big difference. I had the former. Wonderful parents. Strict, disciplined, turned me into a polite and disciplined human.
you don't understand what abuse is if you think trying to provide a good future and stable path for your child is abuse.
Sort of….but “strict parent” is a pretty vague term. Does that mean any parent who won’t let teens do whatever they want, or a parent who picks your career? Or how about advising a daughter not to date a small-time drug dealer? Some would call that good advice, others would call it interference.
And had she been 18, maybe….but she was 24. People with truly abusive parents would rather be homeless on the streets, or immediately join the military, or move in with an older bf/gf, or couch surf,…..anything just to get away from the abuse.
But she did little and stayed home, and then told ridiculous lie after ridiculous lie (it was all a wacky misunderstanding) and blamed everything she did on everyone but herself.
Strict parenting is not abusive though. It is a style of parenting. I do feel strict is better than spoiling at least. Regardless, her parents did seem to abuse her because it's wrong to lock your 18 year old in the house and control their love life.
@@JenniferHales what I have observed in my life experience. The wild child are the ones who come from overly strict parents. I also observed that child are often scared of their parents and chose not to confide in them. I have witnessed this some many times when the parents are hurt when they own children are unable or unwilling to come to them if they need advice. To address the point about a spoiled child, what is a spoiled child to you? Remember, children are not property they should be treated fairly and with a degree of firmness. Please let me explain firmness, this doesn’t mean threatening way, but a proper explanation why things have to be done in a certain manner along with the consequences when it is not followed.