They don’t ignore them bc they find them attractive... these men don’t beat you right away... they treat you well at first then start isolating you from everything making you feel like you can’t leave when they do finally beat you... if a man hits you right out the gate obviously you’re gonna leave but when your finances, emotions, and your all your hopes are wrapped in one person it makes it harder to leave especially after they halve you isolated from all your friends and family,
Yea they just need to be careful because some law enforcement tactics during interrogation can cause a mistrial and can send your case down the drain. This is what my professor told me when I was taking criminology courses.
@@MarioMartinez-tt9ly They did a great job! Interrogations can be problematic if there is coercion and none of that occurred. They know their job well :).
She really didn't know she was afraid I have been there for years but broken and now I wish a nigga would he better run rest well baby 🍼😊p hey somebody b****he somebody b****
Men to because ive loss to friends to domestic violence from women one stabbed to death in his sleep the other one stabbed in the back literally walking off from the situation and loss his life people just be careful of the company you choose to keep
@@roberthaynes5790 exactly 💯 and those stories hardly even mentioned or taken into consideration..I live in Baton Rouge and I remembered when that incident happened in 2008...successful, beautiful sista/handsome, successful brotha...these the kind of couples I like to see and admire...I wished he wouldn't have killed her and should've just got a divorce and moved on but he had to ruin his life, take his wife's life and devastate both families...
Once a partner hits you, please leave. There is absolutely no excuse for hitting. It’s a telltale sign of uncontrollability, impulsivity, and violence all mixed in one.
My moms 46 year old friend got engaged after knowing the man for 6 months. I told my mom I will gladly do a background check. The friend got mad and told us "I dont need no background check I love him". 3 years later they are now divorced. Found out he lied about his job, house, money how many kids he had. Story here is ladies stop loving so hard and strategically investigate the person you love so much.
This sound like my husband he lied about his entire life and i found out after i married him lied about how many children he had he told me 2 i found out he had about 7or 9 lied that he owned house and land found out he lied because if i knew the truth i wouldn't have married him
This is why I'm single & celibate. As soon as I notice red flags I'm out! My friends/family say my relationship/marriage didn't work be cause I wasn't tolerating b.s. but this is what can happen when you stay with a dysfunctional person. She was out of his league. He was jealous of her.
Yes I've been celibate since my divorce in 2007 and if i do date a guy and i see one red flag I'm out no second chances period. I guess I'm gonna be by myself for the rest of my life
@@spirit1366 red flags don't qualify as dissatisfaction. We protect ourselves, just like some men who protect themselves against abusive women and leave when they find red flags. Abusive behaviour doesn't discriminate.
I’m so pissed 😡 another beautiful, successful, smart black woman gone. There’s no true love or loyalty with anyone. I’ll remain Successfully Single, rather than marry a man and have to sleep with one eye open!
Ive never had a desire to hit a woman. I’m not saying some of them don’t deserve it, because I’ve see one who was beyond violent, but I still never struck her. If I have to get violent to have a relationship, then forget it!! I love women, it’s the greatest thing God created, but should one get psycho, I’m gone! Won’t hit/hurt her, but I’ll be gone!
@@sheybamenjowirngo1137 No, no they don’t. It clear this woman had a lot of respect for Shakita whilst she was alive. To whisper in her ear that she will avenge her speaks volumes.
@@RadhikaNighoskar2306 Not her “enemy” , good grief. Even defense attorneys and prosecutors often respect each other despite courtroom drama. They’re professionals.
Steadily trying to prove to jim your worth it! Except all HE sees is green and he can't beat you so trumps you by taking your very life! The FIRST time he slaps you have him set up like I did! Although he no longer liked me after I had his ass jumped he did apologize and told me that he learned a valuable lesson and that he would NEVER put his hands on any woman again.
He was jealous of all the attention she got and how determined she was in her great career. Some folks too weak to accept a strong, determined woman who is more than capable of getting hers, without the aid of a man. Y'all can damn sure believe she was the one paying for everything.
I remember she was on Facebook marketing her business. I commented and she replied that I could call her office. This was years ago. I loved the marketing she did. Lady looked so happy and free. May she RIP always 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
That’s a bad ass prosecutor! That woman’s loyalty to the victim was so strong that sis whispered a promise in the ear of a deceased woman and saw it through!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏. She put her foot on his neck and kept it there until she ensured life as he knew it was OVER! Every girl needs a friend like this prosecutor. Thank you for getting justice for this woman and her family ! I am my sisters keeper💕
Ladies drop these dusties and fast!!! You’ll be surprised but marrying down is just going to create a relationship where your spouse is jealous of you. He’s despicable
When a professional adversary has such an extraordinary amount of respect and admiration for you, you’re obviously doing something right! Such a tragedy and I hope that the family will find comfort and healing after this terrible loss. The world needs more people like her, and someone stealing her from the world is indefensible.
Ughhh...she was a terrific litigator, but she was vulnerable still. Ladies, it doesn't matter how much money you have. If you don't deal with the hurts and pains you have from childhood, you are bound to go looking for acceptance from people who just aren't worthy! Here this man killed his wife and her life was ended all because she was willing to take love from anywhere she felt she could get it. RIP poor Chiquita!
She was so sweet...Met her while we were at a Party in New Orleans..She and I were having a friendly debate about our undergrad schools being that our schools were RIVALS..So sadd
Deadpool Melly051 YM Who she represented does not have a dam thing to do with her character when it comes to engaging and socializing with ppl...LEARN THE DIFFERENCE
I love how her sister didn't say she lit up the room everyone says that about their loved one. She actually described her. Saying she was fiesty an smart. She passed the bar exam on the 1st try. The DA who is against her in court spoke highly of her saying that when she walked into the court room she owned it that's something right there. She did not deserve this. No matter who you are a male that is insane will kill you. Females try to pay attention to the red flags an get out early. Start doing background checks on them. This family now has to lay their sister to rest because of some crazy guy. Parents teach your son's to respect the females an let go if they want to move on. Do the same for your daughters as well. Rest easy..
OMG! This is so eerily profound! Chiquita's counterpart prosecuted her killer. This is amazing. Evidently they were both excellent in their area of expertise.
@@beaulieuc8910 I’ll piggyback of your comment...someone so intelligent that they setup everything that would follow. Maybe someone with power and off like herself.
Gordon Payne This is the dumbest comment I’ve ever seen. How does meeting someone a certain way make them thirsty? What does the car she was driving have to do with anything? If you don’t have anything intelligent to say, then just shut up.
@@AHMAD-2324 more guys tend to want to show more dominance over people that aren't other men. That girl was fierce, he probably felt as if he wasn't in control.
I love to see a powerful successful black woman doing her thing. It’s so sad that someone could just rob someone of their life and not feel anything . God that’s a life . Sometimes people forget that their humans too and not just a true crime story. She had a bright future
People keep writing that Chiquita had potential. No, Chiquita WAS potential. She embodied what potential and determination can get you! The senseless ending of her life was tragic; the silver lining though, is that even with him successfully taking her off of the earth, her name/legacy will live on forever.
Yes, she was an amazing woman. Passed the bar on first try? Very difficult. I would have loved to see her on court tv! Rest in peace, sweet lady. Condolences to the family and thank you to her brave sister, these interviews must have been very painful.
@@killplayz1000 ANGRY BECAUSE SHE WOULD HAVE SENT HIM STRAIGHT UP THE RIVER FOR THE CRIME OF KILLING HER... SHE WAS A GREAT LAWYER GOING PLACES... THIS HORRIBLE MAN TOOK IT ALL... THE DEVIL GOT A HOLD OF HIM... STUPIDITY REALLY.. JUST LEAVE IF YOU ARE SO UNHAPPY JEEZE NOW SHE'S GONE AND SO IS HE... THE DEVIL WINS...
Black men if your wife is going places like this woman please support her and she will take you with her. I'm almost 80 years old and know what I am sayings black women are the most amazing people it doesn't matter makes more money than you support her
@@mtspace2575 let's not blame love. That mindset gives people the excuse to stay in abusive relationships. Instead we should teach people abuse doesn't equal love.
@Melinda Santa Cruz same, there’s no way I would put up with that. It always amazes me that these incredibly smart women can make such stupid decisions.
This guy is an example of why people in certain classes don't like to marry down - even though they will kill you just the same! He was insanely jealous and she was a great asset to the community.
She technically didn't marry down. He wasn't a construction worker. He was the owner of a construction company. They make as much money as lawyers; sometimes more, depending on how big their company is. The problem is that she married a man who cut her off in traffic and was attracted to her because she curse him out. That was the first red flag.
@@fbbWaddell His biz was hurting and going downhill, while hers was rising hire. He got jealous and when she was cutting him off, he wanted her out. As a lawyer, she should have been smarter and slicker in cutting him off and putting him in prison for domestic.
Ladies, if you start seeing red flags 🚩🚩 in your relationship, don't stay in a bad relationship. If you see red flags, get out of the bad relationship before it's too late. Thank God for the detectives and Prem burns
I don’t get to say this as often as I’d like, but I am actually so impressed with the police investigation on this case. Well done detectives, may she Rest In Peace
This is so sad for me she beat the odds. Only to be taken out by someone who should have treated her like a princess or Queen. So sad. She had so much going for her 😔
So sad. Another black woman taken down at the hands of a mentally unstable black man. Black people let’s please seek therapy and break these cycles of violence and trauma. This breaks my heart!!
@@lhamilton6041 yes it was immediately if a man hits you or displays anger to people around him or animals leave. It’s an indicator that you will be next
Yes ladies leave mfs like that alone a man i met like that made my life living hell u right anger issues. That a super red flags my freind see they want i had a hunch let the mf hit my shit i pulled over worst mistake i made in my life doing me things that wasnt godly than on top that i had a family the devil came in and destructed my life good thing my kids father stayed with me and married me i ask god step in this hit home i went thru hell i still cry 12 years later people are evil
🙏😪I'm a husband an it really touched me that he would do that to his wife, no matter the feelings you had towards her she didn't deserve that!!! My prayers for her soul to be at rest an the Evil doers will be punished by God alone!!! AMEN😢
Unfortunately after a person gets separated from this realm, there is no prayer that can be prayed on earth that will further effectuate any change for that soul. The soul either was collected by Angels on the side of Father God or was collected by the keepers of hell’s gates 🤷🏽♀️
Don’t ever date or marry a man who raises his hand at you! My gramma always told me, “ it’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.” RIP gramma 🙏🏼🥰😘 I’m still single and very happy 😃 with all my educational goals I have accomplished.
You were taught well. You don’t need a man to validate you. And whoever you end up with needs to be on your level. Dating “potential” isn’t the way to go. When you’re doing better than the man typical their small egos can’t stand it.
I remember going to the university with this girl who I discovered was a teen mom. I happen to have a class with her and what stood out was she super smart. She got her 1st acceptance letter to law school and that was Georgetown University on a full scholarship, then she had other and the last one was University of Michigan on a full ride. She had essentially aced the LSAT and graduated Law school near the top of her class all while being a single mom and when she graduated Law school at 24 yrs she stated off making $262k per yr and within 5 years she was a partner of the firm making almost a 1/2 million dollars a year. She was really smart.
Stones Stones agreed! i heard “friendly” (from the narrator) “ghetto lawyer” & “mouthy” (from her sister) wtf!?!? those aren’t compliments!!!! She was a beautiful brilliant charming funny lady! I’m highly disappointed at the lack of positive characteristics used to describe her! i noticed the same thing you did. Usually you can’t get through one of these videos without hearing how “beautiful” they were or how they “lit up a room”. smdh
@Larry Summers white women in a traditionally mans line of work is complimenting when they say you are aggressive. Cause you can tell the white lawyer is very aggressive.
also, i feel the height and positioning of the stab wounds should have been investigated further and ruled out and compared between the two thugs the attorney was representing and compared to her ex husband height. It would further rule out if the ex husband was setup @ 32.00 or not in which was my thinking from the beginning. If they only found blood on his safety glasses and he spent time down on Gardene Ln.-poss knew the two thugs and they set him up.
Well not necessarily just because they use a knife. Killers use knives on people they don’t know. It’s all about the amount of stab wounds. Doesn’t take 40 stab wounds to kill someone, so you know it’s personal.
So... I'm half way through and Ive been waiting on someone to acknowledge the fact that her husband called three police instead of going back up to her office when he couldn't get a hold of her... That makes NO sense. They didn't need much based off that bullshit alone.
The over explaining he did when he called in, is a sign he's guilty. Almost all murderers that call the cops, always try to explain something to the cops, instead of straight reporting the crime
It's kinda strange watching this, we have the same name. I also went through domestic abuse, and I had to get out. I felt if I didn't, he would eventually kill me,, whether it be Purposely, or accidentally I felt he would eventually kill me.😢 Rip Chiquita, u didn't deserve this.😢🙏
She strikes me as one of those people that was even more beautiful on the inside and they were on the outside. She did not judge people based on their actions and help people who could not get a fair Shake through the legal system. It is heartbreaking that we have one less person like her on the Earth.
These domestic violence cases are destroying families terribly. Please, please, ladies if a man hit you the first time, LEAVE HIM IMMEDIATELY NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HIM! IT WILL ONLY LEAVE YOUR FAMILY TO SUFFER LOSING YOU TO A VIOLENT DEATH😭🙏
And so many children being left as orphans behind these DV and murder suicide cases. I can't wrap my head around how someone can do these horrible things.
Roberta Bellissima You're not the only one! Those two detectives were something else; I laughed a few times watching them with that fool. Such a sad story. 💔R.I.P. CHIQUITA💔
I have never been in an abusive relationship, but I did move a woman in and she was a drug addict trying to steal my money. I moved out and never looked back.
Black , beautiful , educated , fun , loving soul , who's life was taken away because of jealousy. Jesus why the hell did she marry this man , who beat , choked and broke her arm , while they were engaged . That was a sign for her to get out of that relationship , right there and then , ladies be warned get the hell out . You can tell from his police interview , he's a aggressive , abusive man. Hopefully those guys his wife represented meet up with him in jail .
She was simple an outstanding black woman, and that husband wasnt good enough. He was jealous of her. I just wish she never married him because he abused her right before they married.
Ladies when a man puts his hands on you ONCE he will do it again LEAVE! That’s a red flag 🚩
Many women ignore obvious red flags because they find them atractive
They don’t ignore them bc they find them attractive... these men don’t beat you right away... they treat you well at first then start isolating you from everything making you feel like you can’t leave when they do finally beat you... if a man hits you right out the gate obviously you’re gonna leave but when your finances, emotions, and your all your hopes are wrapped in one person it makes it harder to leave especially after they halve you isolated from all your friends and family,
Goes both ways.
To be honest no one should be hitting no one that’s set
Amen to that😇. It would only get worse if you stay in an abusive relationship.
How hard was law school for her?
Sister: it was easy she passed the bar on the first try.... Got em!
that's what hurts too. that shit ain't easy. she was obviously BRILLIANT.
@@latinguy67 not really both my friends passed on the first try
@@soulburst well, there are a few stupid lawyers out there who pass the bar on the first time...
@@latinguy67 how can you pass the bar and be stupid
@Marlene DR I'm so sorry for the loss of an obviously wonderful woman
I love how those 2 detectives never backed down and tricked his ass. They were on him. I applaud them.
It’s a shame all detectives aren’t this good. They actually cared 💯
Yea they just need to be careful because some law enforcement tactics during interrogation can cause a mistrial and can send your case down the drain. This is what my professor told me when I was taking criminology courses.
Never talk to police without your lawyer.
❤️
@@MarioMartinez-tt9ly They did a great job! Interrogations can be problematic if there is coercion and none of that occurred. They know their job well :).
He killed her body and tried to destroy her character, reputation too. A pure demon.
Right!!
She really didn't know she was afraid I have been there for years but broken and now I wish a nigga would he better run rest well baby 🍼😊p hey somebody b****he somebody b****
That white lawyer lady..she was a good friend
Yes she was. I’m so happy she kept her promise to Chiquita when she whispered she’d get justice for her. So heartbreaking.
Egor & Adolf because she’s white................ The description of her doesn’t automatically say racist now stop it
@Egor & Adolf New Flash: We live in America racism will always exist.
Alot white females have black female friends we are all same nothing different ask God
@@AHMAD-2324 that is true wish it would stop
Ladies please stop settling and dating/marrying men who aren't worthy of you.
Preach 💯
True
Thanks
Men to because ive loss to friends to domestic violence from women one stabbed to death in his sleep the other one stabbed in the back literally walking off from the situation and loss his life people just be careful of the company you choose to keep
@@roberthaynes5790 exactly 💯 and those stories hardly even mentioned or taken into consideration..I live in Baton Rouge and I remembered when that incident happened in 2008...successful, beautiful sista/handsome, successful brotha...these the kind of couples I like to see and admire...I wished he wouldn't have killed her and should've just got a divorce and moved on but he had to ruin his life, take his wife's life and devastate both families...
Once a partner hits you, please leave. There is absolutely no excuse for hitting. It’s a telltale sign of uncontrollability, impulsivity, and violence all mixed in one.
The only time I can see it being acceptable is if your partner hits you first.
TRUTH.
No shytCaptain Obvious
💯 1st time! It's all down hill from there. Clown show. Walk away 1st time!
True if he's not putting his hands on you to give you love then throw him out the window honestly
My moms 46 year old friend got engaged after knowing the man for 6 months. I told my mom I will gladly do a background check. The friend got mad and told us "I dont need no background check I love him". 3 years later they are now divorced. Found out he lied about his job, house, money how many kids he had. Story here is ladies stop loving so hard and strategically investigate the person you love so much.
Facts!
This sound like my husband he lied about his entire life and i found out after i married him lied about how many children he had he told me 2 i found out he had about 7or 9 lied that he owned house and land found out he lied because if i knew the truth i wouldn't have married him
How to get a background check done? Who would you contact for this?
@@dimmibrown1996 google background check and pay like $59
he ended her life because he couldn’t handle the fact that she was going places and that he was probably going to end up in the rear view
Hmmm...
I could see that.
Yep
But she was doing everything for them she included him hell she married is broke ass
That means he got that $500,000 that was in her bank account
This is why I'm single & celibate. As soon as I notice red flags I'm out! My friends/family say my relationship/marriage didn't work be cause I wasn't tolerating b.s. but this is what can happen when you stay with a dysfunctional person.
She was out of his league. He was jealous of her.
Yes I've been celibate since my divorce in 2007 and if i do date a guy and i see one red flag I'm out no second chances period. I guess I'm gonna be by myself for the rest of my life
I applaud you. That’s the best way to live 👍🏽. No stress no lies no STDs. I’m just starting my new journey. Pray for me
Facts .Good for you.
@@tashajohnson6754I applaud you on your decision 9/10 an abuser kills their spouse after given a second chance to do so.
@@spirit1366 red flags don't qualify as dissatisfaction. We protect ourselves, just like some men who protect themselves against abusive women and leave when they find red flags. Abusive behaviour doesn't discriminate.
Passing the BAR exam first time? That’s incredible. It often seems like it’s the best of us who are taken away.
Chiquita was so smart; but like so many smart people she stayed with an abuser. The good die young and the insecure kill.
Because when you have the career and money and only thing missing is that “perfect” guy 😢
I’m so pissed 😡 another beautiful, successful, smart black woman gone.
There’s no true love or loyalty with anyone. I’ll remain Successfully Single, rather than marry a man and have to sleep with one eye open!
Its not new. Humans have always been like this. Just have to work extra hard to find the good and punish the bad.
Ms Mel i e gree whith you.
Ana Meyers white men kill their spouses as well. This has nothing to do with race don’t be ignorant. Some men just ain’t shit period
Girl, it's the best life, no crazy people or DRAMA
Ive never had a desire to hit a woman. I’m not saying some of them don’t deserve it, because I’ve see one who was beyond violent, but I still never struck her. If I have to get violent to have a relationship, then forget it!!
I love women, it’s the greatest thing God created, but should one get psycho, I’m gone!
Won’t hit/hurt her, but I’ll be gone!
When your opponent respects you and speaks highly of you. You're doing something well. Rest well baby girl.
Shiquita was obviously a special lady 💯
Rest in peace beautiful sister
Everyone speaks well of the death
You kinda need to do that after someone is dead...
@@sheybamenjowirngo1137 No, no they don’t. It clear this woman had a lot of respect for Shakita whilst she was alive. To whisper in her ear that she will avenge her speaks volumes.
So sad. But also so tragically beautiful how Prem stood up for and honored her fellow colleague and pursued justice for her. RIP Chiquita.
The one who was suppose to be her enemy fought her case against someone who was suppose to love her.
@@RadhikaNighoskar2306 Not her “enemy” , good grief. Even defense attorneys and prosecutors often respect each other despite courtroom drama. They’re professionals.
Its my opinion.. you dont have to butt your nose into it..
Why would you leave your wife at night instead of waiting for her that's ashame that was his whole plan 🤔
For everyone involved in this case to be so passionate about it she had to be a wonderful person. So much evil in this world
That little video of her at the beginning was so cute. She was so happy.
Bethany Gilbert I thought the exact same thing.
I did too!! I smiled when she smiled.....very infectious beautiful smile
She was soo beautiful, smart and good skin.. damn RIP
Damn those detectives were no joke‼️ 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
we need more people like that to nail the truly guilty
They were not playing!!
Ikr
That's bc they deal with this about 2 times a day here in baton rouge. Murders are common around here
I loved how they treated him. Felt good.
Keeping toxic men around that are jealous of you is the downfall of many educated women. The enemy is right there in your house.
Steadily trying to prove to jim your worth it! Except all HE sees is green and he can't beat you so trumps you by taking your very life! The FIRST time he slaps you have him set up like I did! Although he no longer liked me after I had his ass jumped he did apologize and told me that he learned a valuable lesson and that he would NEVER put his hands on any woman again.
Fact
I love how hard Prem Burns worked to get justice for Chiquita.
Prem Burns is tough as hell. She sought justice and received it.
AND WAS HER TRUE FRIEND!!!!!!! ☝🏾❣
1Million HEARTS & 1SHINING STAR to PREM!!!!!
I’ve seen her in a couple of other videos...lady is a beast
Prem is one incredible woman.
She's down the road from me.
I read this before I got to that part.... I was like Perm burns what are they talking about. Now .... I see...... Ahhhhh
He was jealous of all the attention she got and how determined she was in her great career. Some folks too weak to accept a strong, determined woman who is more than capable of getting hers, without the aid of a man. Y'all can damn sure believe she was the one paying for everything.
True
Yes this is why my mum always tells me before falling in love to make sure when dating a man you make sure they have ambitions to your standard
@@zeeo3147 Makes sense to me
Shut up white women
Yes
I remember she was on Facebook marketing her business. I commented and she replied that I could call her office. This was years ago. I loved the marketing she did. Lady looked so happy and free.
May she RIP always 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Every time I think I missed out not having a husband, these stories tell me to count my blessings
How old are u. In 33 and okay
Amen to that!
@@kathaiti me too.
Sure 🙄
Me too! Im 31 amd want to have a fam however, we need to be aware of things like this bf and do not desperate!
he was married to a lawyer... why didn't he ask for a lawyer during that interrogation? ._.
Glad he didn't, all the easier to nail the prick.
He was trying to act like he wasn't guilty
Arrogance!
he thought he was smarter than the police. Glad he was proven wrong.
Because the Dumbass in him was coming out.
That’s a bad ass prosecutor! That woman’s loyalty to the victim was so strong that sis whispered a promise in the ear of a deceased woman and saw it through!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏. She put her foot on his neck and kept it there until she ensured life as he knew it was OVER! Every girl needs a friend like this prosecutor. Thank you for getting justice for this woman and her family ! I am my sisters keeper💕
He was good,Queen.
AMEN❣
Yes 🙌🏼 thank you 🙏🏻
💖💖💖🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
❤️💯
Ladies drop these dusties and fast!!! You’ll be surprised but marrying down is just going to create a relationship where your spouse is jealous of you. He’s despicable
True about marrying down
That's your opinion
When a professional adversary has such an extraordinary amount of respect and admiration for you, you’re obviously doing something right! Such a tragedy and I hope that the family will find comfort and healing after this terrible loss.
The world needs more people like her, and someone stealing her from the world is indefensible.
this is one reason why lawyers should have security cameras in their offices.
Some do.
Some do - but a lot of lawyers don't because it's typically viewed as "unethical" by the Bar.
Exactly! Nowadays, cameras are needed in all businesses.
@@pashminaa didn’t think about that. Well, that needs to change.
I mean it was her husband. He wouldve just did it somewhere else.
If a man is okay with hitting you. DO NOT MARRY THEM!
That was a major Red Flag
If my fiancé beat me before our wedding day I AM NOT marrying him.
chemistry can be powerful and people can blame themselves before seeing their partner for who they really are.
pollock
The sister should have been charged with the attempt to pervert the course of justice.
Ughhh...she was a terrific litigator, but she was vulnerable still. Ladies, it doesn't matter how much money you have. If you don't deal with the hurts and pains you have from childhood, you are bound to go looking for acceptance from people who just aren't worthy! Here this man killed his wife and her life was ended all because she was willing to take love from anywhere she felt she could get it. RIP poor Chiquita!
💯💯💯💯💯💯
THE REAL AND ABSOLUTE TRUTH , You're the first person to touch on this harsh reality. She was a special women , DEMONS ARE DRAWN TO THEM.
This and you have to learn how to spot someone who is a disturbed character. Cutting someone off isn't cute. Why she would date someone like that. ?
@@Makamaes1 Bcuz BW always choose tall, toxic men over peaceful,hardworking short men EVERYTIME!
She was so sweet...Met her while we were at a Party in New Orleans..She and I were having a friendly debate about our undergrad schools being that our schools were RIVALS..So sadd
Deadpool Melly051 YM Who she represented does not have a dam thing to do with her character when it comes to engaging and socializing with ppl...LEARN THE DIFFERENCE
MedicalMan naive of you to think who she chose to represent did not speak to her character. That said, no one ever deserves a brutal death.
@@maxijay2716 It doesn't though.
Maxi Jay2 Who she represented has nothing to do with how she treat you or others....
Deadpool Melly051 YM what are you trying to imply?
Those investigators went all the way in on that man 😂
Those detectives are something else, they're great!
I loved how they hammered him!
Not taking any shit 🚫💩‼️
@@RealDSmithCincy they shouldn't ist just because he was black so he was with no rights in these racist evil hands
Mood what you talking about ? Not every death of black person is to do with racism
I love how her sister didn't say she lit up the room everyone says that about their loved one. She actually described her. Saying she was fiesty an smart. She passed the bar exam on the 1st try. The DA who is against her in court spoke highly of her saying that when she walked into the court room she owned it that's something right there. She did not deserve this. No matter who you are a male that is insane will kill you. Females try to pay attention to the red flags an get out early. Start doing background checks on them. This family now has to lay their sister to rest because of some crazy guy. Parents teach your son's to respect the females an let go if they want to move on. Do the same for your daughters as well. Rest easy..
OMG! This is so eerily profound! Chiquita's counterpart prosecuted her killer. This is amazing. Evidently they were both excellent in their area of expertise.
Who murders someone in a LAW OFFICE. Secondly a Law office with no security cameras. Is that strange, you would think they would get alot of threats.
Someone so arrogant and dangerous, who will take risks
@@beaulieuc8910 I’ll piggyback of your comment...someone so intelligent that they setup everything that would follow. Maybe someone with power and off like herself.
Hmmmm the plot thickens, could it have been her adversary a.k.a the competitionm??
Very strange!!
She defends criminals mostly so CCTV could he an issue lol
“It’s not like she was stabbed 20 times, she was stabbed over 40 times” ummmm...being stabbed 20 times is still *a lot* , personal & horrific.
Right that is still horrible may she rest in peace. There was a girl that survived 19 stabs
Being stabbed 13 times is a lot...it almost killed me... shock is real
@@kimanderson2342 I’m so sorry to here that glad you’re still here my gosh 😔❤️❤️
7:28 She says 3 or 4 times in this bit of the video.
So he got 40 years for each cut he gave her.
**Greg Harris was envious of his wife!**
This lady had it all and her death has robbed her community and family of a truly gifted lady.
🎯🎯
What a waste of such great potential.. RIP.
It’s seriously so sad 😞 she was going to do really great things in life
What a waste of some lip liner 😂💋
Gordon Payne Wat made her thirsty? U sed cuz he had a Benz? She was a lawyer, off GP she made her own coins alredy. How u kno she didn’t drive a Benz
Gordon Payne This is the dumbest comment I’ve ever seen. How does meeting someone a certain way make them thirsty? What does the car she was driving have to do with anything? If you don’t have anything intelligent to say, then just shut up.
@Gordon Payne Say less next time it'll mean more...
Greg is just a coward with a temper that killed his wife.
Michael Lowery Yeah you could see how explosive he was able to get. Just wish we knew why he did it.
I'm still confused as to why he killed her in the first place...This shit seem senseless and just plain STUPID, SMGDH.
AHMAD2423 a controlling asshole is what he was .
@@AHMAD-2324 men are like that
@@AHMAD-2324 more guys tend to want to show more dominance over people that aren't other men. That girl was fierce, he probably felt as if he wasn't in control.
Ladies know your worth and abuse is never ok.
Right!?
I love to see a powerful successful black woman doing her thing. It’s so sad that someone could just rob someone of their life and not feel anything . God that’s a life . Sometimes people forget that their humans too and not just a true crime story. She had a bright future
I REALLY love that her opponent took up the charge to get justice for her. That's respect. ✊
Namaste, Prem Burns. 🙏
Nah more like 1998..seriously
Yessssss I love it and loved watching her talk. That's how you lift up other women 💯😍😎💁🏽♀️
Yes, all in the name of money .
Jmb Arts Your assumption.
@@Leoprincess3038 white women do that
People keep writing that Chiquita had potential. No, Chiquita WAS potential. She embodied what potential and determination can get you! The senseless ending of her life was tragic; the silver lining though, is that even with him successfully taking her off of the earth, her name/legacy will live on forever.
Wow are they ? Chiquita was phenomenal 🙏🏾
Blessed FACTS! Rest Well young lady!🙏🏾👏🏾👍🏾
Yes, she was an amazing woman. Passed the bar on first try? Very difficult. I would have loved to see her on court tv! Rest in peace, sweet lady. Condolences to the family and thank you to her brave sister, these interviews must have been very painful.
Why some people think taking a life is a solution for what ever problem they have?!
Am just thankful my daughter still with me after being in bad situations ❤
"Do! You! Think! BLEACH! Get everythang OUT!!!"
I love that man
He was sounding like Samuel L Jackson. I was hollering
Lmaooooo he made me laugh with that
A
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeah, he don't play lol!
He clearly has anger issues.
If he was irate on talking about he washes clothes, cooks and cleans, i can just imagine the anger during the murder
Lmfaoooo I’ve never heard someone so angrily describe how they wash their clothes.
"😠You damn right I wash my khakis with bleach😠"!! 😂😂
Agreed
Can you imagine what Chiquita was thinking/feeling when her husband was killing her??
@@killplayz1000 ANGRY BECAUSE SHE WOULD HAVE SENT HIM STRAIGHT UP THE RIVER FOR THE CRIME OF KILLING HER... SHE WAS A GREAT LAWYER GOING PLACES... THIS HORRIBLE MAN TOOK IT ALL... THE DEVIL GOT A HOLD OF HIM... STUPIDITY REALLY.. JUST LEAVE IF YOU ARE SO UNHAPPY JEEZE NOW SHE'S GONE AND SO IS HE... THE DEVIL WINS...
Black men if your wife is going places like this woman please support her and she will take you with her. I'm almost 80 years old and know what I am sayings black women are the most amazing people it doesn't matter makes more money than you support her
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
IF A PARTNER PUT THEIR HANDS ON YOU…LEAVE!!!!!!!
The next time she would leave her office would be in a body bag😟😟😟 so sad...
I've noticed this show as a hint of dark comedy. I am far from politically correct, but that was so low of them to say that.
Right
@@crazymike1706 exactly
HOW TRUE THE STATEMENT IS THOUGH!
@@iamhere1315 What are you even replying to? He isn't questioning if it's true, he said it was sad.
Daaaaamn those 2 investigators bring it in the interrogation room.
Her colleague is good too 🙂😎 the other lawyer
Those two detectives are something else, they're great! And Prem Burns doesn't play, either.
They're good
that poor beautiful woman gave so much to the community, yet suffered tremendously. rest her beautiful soul.
I live in baton rouge and she helped my family through a case and when i heard of this i was so sad
It's so sad she didn't leave him the first time he hit her ..
RIP .
Condolences to her loved ones 💔
Angel Mum love is a strong thing. I feel like she told him she didn't want to be with him I am at 09:31
Sad that she still married him anyway
@@mtspace2575 let's not blame love. That mindset gives people the excuse to stay in abusive relationships. Instead we should teach people abuse doesn't equal love.
@Melinda Santa Cruz same, there’s no way I would put up with that. It always amazes me that these incredibly smart women can make such stupid decisions.
Melinda Santa Cruz very stupid of you to say surprisingly
This guy is an example of why people in certain classes don't like to marry down - even though they will kill you just the same! He was insanely jealous and she was a great asset to the community.
Darwinism
HORRIBLE CRIME... I REALLY FEEL THE LOSS AND DON'T EVEN KNOW HER...
No one should marry down. Stay single date party no marriage.
She technically didn't marry down. He wasn't a construction worker. He was the owner of a construction company. They make as much money as lawyers; sometimes more, depending on how big their company is. The problem is that she married a man who cut her off in traffic and was attracted to her because she curse him out. That was the first red flag.
@@fbbWaddell His biz was hurting and going downhill, while hers was rising hire. He got jealous and when she was cutting him off, he wanted her out. As a lawyer, she should have been smarter and slicker in cutting him off and putting him in prison for domestic.
The district attorney really dug her heals in for this case, it’s admirable, especially since they opposed each other so often.
This is so sad. I applaud those detectives and the prosecutor for getting justice.
That prem woman really respected her !!! She spoke so highly of her on a professional and friendly level !
the way her sister talks about her is just so heartwarming. that’s one of the most beautiful aspects of this show. 🥺❤️
She was a complete distraction.
@@koshar44 why ???
@@vanessatorrado2182 exactly like huh smh
Shiquita and her sister are special women 💯
@@lanaconin5704 yea...little yellow bus special.
Ladies, if you start seeing red flags 🚩🚩 in your relationship, don't stay in a bad relationship. If you see red flags, get out of the bad relationship before it's too late. Thank God for the detectives and Prem burns
I don’t get to say this as often as I’d like, but I am actually so impressed with the police investigation on this case. Well done detectives, may she Rest In Peace
This is so sad for me she beat the odds. Only to be taken out by someone who should have treated her like a princess or Queen. So sad. She had so much going for her 😔
She defends killers and her mother steal from Wendy's
That’s why we will never rise as a nation we keep slaughtering our leaders if the future.
NOBODY needs a man like that. Life is much sweeter without them.
She didn't deserve to die like that. She sold her soul for money: if she knew she was getting killers off.
@@woodrowpowell4441 She didn’t sell her soul. She married the wrong person
26:43 "DO YOU THINK BLEACH GET EVERYTHING OUT?" damn they cooked him in there
For real..😹!
They were good at that investigation tbh Kept grilling him and didn’t give him a opportunity to lie or take a break congrats to them
My favorite part
Hahaha I watched that like three times, the best part
LMFAO 😂😂
So sad. Another black woman taken down at the hands of a mentally unstable black man. Black people let’s please seek therapy and break these cycles of violence and trauma. This breaks my heart!!
A woman this amazing deserves detectives this amazing to avenger her 💯 Rest In Peace Shiquita 😢🙏❤️
Ain't no way I'm getting into a relationship with someone that cut me off on the road
Hell no I'm with you on that
That was the first clear indication that he had anger issues.
@@lhamilton6041 yes it was immediately if a man hits you or displays anger to people around him or animals leave. It’s an indicator that you will be next
Yes ladies leave mfs like that alone a man i met like that made my life living hell u right anger issues. That a super red flags my freind see they want i had a hunch let the mf hit my shit i pulled over worst mistake i made in my life doing me things that wasnt godly than on top that i had a family the devil came in and destructed my life good thing my kids father stayed with me and married me i ask god step in this hit home i went thru hell i still cry 12 years later people are evil
🤦🏾♀️💯
I bet Prem Burns made this prosecution personal AF. She was GOING to nail this POS
How horrible. To be killed by your own husband.
🙏😪I'm a husband an it really touched me that he would do that to his wife, no matter the feelings you had towards her she didn't deserve that!!! My prayers for her soul to be at rest an the Evil doers will be punished by God alone!!! AMEN😢
Unfortunately after a person gets separated from this realm, there is no prayer that can be prayed on earth that will further effectuate any change for that soul.
The soul either was collected by Angels on the side of Father God or was collected by the keepers of hell’s gates 🤷🏽♀️
Don’t ever date or marry a man who raises his hand at you!
My gramma always told me, “ it’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.” RIP gramma 🙏🏼🥰😘 I’m still single and very happy 😃 with all my educational goals I have accomplished.
You were taught well. You don’t need a man to validate you. And whoever you end up with needs to be on your level. Dating “potential” isn’t the way to go. When you’re doing better than the man typical their small egos can’t stand it.
Very wise words
Was your grandmother married?
But young ladies nowadays are attracted to such men.
Absolutely. Great advice.
This man said I ALWAYS WASH MY KHAKIS WITH BLEACH!?! 😂😂😂 I cannot.
Yes he was lying then
👏🏽👏🏽😅😩🥴
I actually do
@@timbowalk they don't turn white?
@@raeshelled no they dont unless theyre cheap
I remember going to the university with this girl who I discovered was a teen mom. I happen to have a class with her and what stood out was she super smart. She got her 1st acceptance letter to law school and that was Georgetown University on a full scholarship, then she had other and the last one was University of Michigan on a full ride. She had essentially aced the LSAT and graduated Law school near the top of her class all while being a single mom and when she graduated Law school at 24 yrs she stated off making $262k per yr and within 5 years she was a partner of the firm making almost a 1/2 million dollars a year. She was really smart.
This kind of story is the reason why I’m not in a hurry, even if I end up alone I’ll just enjoy my life and my family.
Y don’t they call her beautiful like they do every white woman on this show?
Stones Stones agreed! i heard “friendly” (from the narrator) “ghetto lawyer” & “mouthy” (from her sister) wtf!?!? those aren’t compliments!!!!
She was a beautiful brilliant charming funny lady! I’m highly disappointed at the lack of positive characteristics used to describe her! i noticed the same thing you did. Usually you can’t get through one of these videos without hearing how “beautiful” they were or how they “lit up a room”. smdh
Alex F it’s just that typically in their videos they repeat it over and over in different ways. I noticed it too is all.🤷🏼♀️
JR 1986 Are you gatekeeping racism?
they did call her beautiful lol
@Larry Summers white women in a traditionally mans line of work is complimenting when they say you are aggressive.
Cause you can tell the white lawyer is very aggressive.
When using a knife usually its someone the victim knows in order to get that close
also, i feel the height and positioning of the stab wounds should have been investigated further and ruled out and compared between the two thugs the attorney was representing and compared to her ex husband height. It would further rule out if the ex husband was setup @ 32.00 or not in which was my thinking from the beginning. If they only found blood on his safety glasses and he spent time down on Gardene Ln.-poss knew the two thugs and they set him up.
Well not necessarily just because they use a knife. Killers use knives on people they don’t know. It’s all about the amount of stab wounds. Doesn’t take 40 stab wounds to kill someone, so you know it’s personal.
@@Bajanprince67 that’s why I used the word Usually...not always. You’re absolutely right.
"Help me! He chocked me! And I think he broke my arm"....and you still go ahead and marry him 6 weeks later!
I love these detectives! They're not playing good cop, bad cop. They're doing their job and getting answers!
So... I'm half way through and Ive been waiting on someone to acknowledge the fact that her husband called three police instead of going back up to her office when he couldn't get a hold of her... That makes NO sense. They didn't need much based off that bullshit alone.
You would make a good lawyer
He called them when he was outside her office building.
The detectives point that out!
Yes didn't think about that
He didn't have key.
The over explaining he did when he called in, is a sign he's guilty. Almost all murderers that call the cops, always try to explain something to the cops, instead of straight reporting the crime
Everytime
Yeah, and they have quick answers for possible scenarios.
It's kinda strange watching this, we have the same name. I also went through domestic abuse, and I had to get out. I felt if I didn't, he would eventually kill me,, whether it be Purposely, or accidentally I felt he would eventually kill me.😢 Rip Chiquita, u didn't deserve this.😢🙏
The way her life was taken, it was just hard breaking to hear. RIP.
Im a dude
So, who asked if you were or not. Im talking about the young lady lost her life to her husband.
@@savory9082 u talking to me young lady?
SOME MEN WANT A POPULAR WOMAN ON HIS ARM, BUT THEN BEHIND CLOSED DOORS HE CAN'T HANDLE IT! CONFUSED MEN, DONT KNOW WHAT THEY REALLY WANT!
This is so true!
💯💯💯
She was such a beautiful lady.
She strikes me as one of those people that was even more beautiful on the inside and they were on the outside. She did not judge people based on their actions and help people who could not get a fair Shake through the legal system. It is heartbreaking that we have one less person like her on the Earth.
jason morgan shut up you don’t even have a profile pic
jason morgan you’re dumb 😂😂🤦♀️
jason morgan my name is SAMANTHA. I’m a female. You’re crazy dude. Trying to turn it into something more
jason morgan dude it’s not even that serious.
1 sister works at Wendy's and the other was a lawyer? Talk about day and night.
Why would she marry a man , who broke her arm, 6 weeks before her wedding??!! Pretty dumb !!
Bless that woman prosecutor.
Always ask for a lawyer when being interviewed by police, you would think the husband of a lawyer would know this.
Well he was quilty and an idiot
.....not when ur a complete and utter dumbass.
No b's. And you'd think an attorney would know better to marry an abusive coward. Guess this is what makes us all imperfect humans.
@@Just_us-2 Abusers don't start out being abusive, they test the waters first then go in.
Imagine how they do those who are innocent.
I think the reason why her wallet was placed on that side of town hoping somebody would've picked it up and start using her cards
And then trash it
These domestic violence cases are destroying families terribly. Please, please, ladies if a man hit you the first time, LEAVE HIM IMMEDIATELY NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HIM! IT WILL ONLY LEAVE YOUR FAMILY TO SUFFER LOSING YOU TO A VIOLENT DEATH😭🙏
And so many children being left as orphans behind these DV and murder suicide cases. I can't wrap my head around how someone can do these horrible things.
This episode was and still is hard to watch. Demonic Jealousy...the most deadly and dangerous emotion ever.
Yep. My mum said jealousy kills relationships …. Friendships and work colleagues. Worse attribute to have. Rest her soul she was so knowledgeable
This is horrible but i laughed when the cop came in and said "Gregg Gregg Gregg Gregg" lol they really played him!
Lls...right....
Roberta Bellissima You're not the only one! Those two detectives were something else; I laughed a few times watching them with that fool. Such a sad story.
💔R.I.P. CHIQUITA💔
They were BRILLIANT! 🤣
he cuts her off, she curse him out 🧐 and they thought that was a match made in heaven
🤔
The lawyer sadly lacked wisdom outside of the courtroom …
I have never been in an abusive relationship, but I did move a woman in and she was a drug addict trying to steal my money. I moved out and never looked back.
Seemed like a fierce, intelligent, kind, just and confident bad ass lady! What an utter waste. 😢
It's meant as a waste of life.
Black , beautiful , educated , fun , loving soul , who's life was taken away because of jealousy. Jesus why the hell did she marry this man , who beat , choked and broke her arm , while they were engaged .
That was a sign for her to get out of that relationship , right there and then , ladies be warned get the hell out . You can tell from his police interview , he's a aggressive , abusive man. Hopefully those guys his wife represented meet up with him in jail .
I hope Bubba and dem got hold of his ass."
Beautiful? 😂😂😂
Beautiful?😂😂😂
Yesss agreed
Why didn't Chiquita realize that she could do better than what she married.
She was simple an outstanding black woman, and that husband wasnt good enough. He was jealous of her. I just wish she never married him because he abused her right before they married.
She might have been smart obviously from becoming a lawyer, but she obviously isnt smart in choosing a personal partner!!!