Holy sh*t I wasn't expecting this to blowup at all, but here we are! Thank you all so much for your support! I really do appreciate it. I'll get even more motivated to keep improving my content for you guys that's for sure. Caught me off guard honestly 😂❤ PS: For those who are wondering, yes, I use some help from AI especially when I want to add keypoints or I wanna correct my grammar. The voice is also AI but I made sure to pick the most human sounding one to at least avoid distracting you while watching, plus I'm an introvert that's why I'm better at expressing myself through my writing instead of verbally. But overall, the videos in this channel are made by my human hands and wisdom with a little help from AI. My focus is to bring value. Anyways, your support do mean a lot! ❤
Resonating with that shit so hard rn. Sucks when overly judgemental bs would digress and label that mindset "careless/complacent" or "selfish", you can give a fuvk about some things but it should be to an extent that wouldn't hurt both parties-- like a level that doesn’t compromise your own values while being mindful of not intentionally hurting others. It’s okay to set boundaries and be selective about what or who deserves your energy.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
@@Lauriestrode1978 yeah i get what you mean now, i know what you're tryna get across and i cba replying after this, i know what you mean. this is just generally supposed to help people pleasers
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Like my friend who saw me as his trauma dump. Literally all day was listening to his work problems or money problems or how everyone else was the problem but him. On good days it was all about his interests.
Steps to not give a fuck ★ Identify ur priorities ★ stop seeking validation ★ learn to say no ★ set boundaries ★ embrace discomfort ★ detach from outcomes
Give up caffeine if you're sensitive. It's not easy to avoid giving an f if you're 72 hours on meth without sleeping yet, just to provide an extreme example. If you build a sound physical foundation for not giving an f, it will be easier.
I'm a constant worrier and care too much about the little things. This video is straight to the point and honest. It's not gonna be easy but I think this is a step in the right direction for me. So thank you random stranger 💕
I once knew a man who I have never ever seen angry or frustrated, not even once. I couldn't stop myself from asking him how he does that. What he said to me still resonates with me till date. "Well, yes, I used to be always angry, frustrated, always trying to find something or the other out of everything. I felt lost no matter what I achieved. But then it all changed, I found peace." "And How did you find that?" "It's simple" he said with a smile. "I simply stopped searching."
@huf_fitness26 It means, if you are always in the search of what true happiness is, you will never ever be happy and if you are always in search of the ultimate way to live you life, you will never ever live.
For me, I know that others can perceive me as this resilient dude who seems all carefree with no problems. No, I do have problems. The one difference is that I don't think about them all too much. I actively have to want to think about the negative to think of it. As long as I just enjoy what happens and don't think about it more, there's not much depression to be found
I know a sir like that in my college. He is always positive if anyone comes late , write homework at his period. He never shouts , never becomes angry and doesn't bothers him. But he is the excellent lecture in our clg. Probably I should ask him too. About his positivity.
"Idk what I am living for" Why make it so big?! You will not get your answer from others actually. Everyone is running around just doing something. I suggest letting go of that question, because you are already here. You are here already. You probably know what makes you feel shit or consumes energy, try to skip those or don't spend (too much) time on these. A hobby which do not have any useful thing for this world is perfectly enough. That can be a priority. If you allow yourself to let it be that way. Good luck mate and these video's and also Lao Tzu lessons are great. Enough internet for today, time to take a nice walk outside :)
@HaroldtenKlooster thanks for the support anyway. I spent all my life learning programming and software development. And my metrics for the app is how useful it is for the others. Hopefully I've got a job and my code is somewhat useful. But I still rely 100% on external feedback
@@Gameplayer55055 It sounds that in your job it is indeed very useful what other think, and that can be a good thing. For things outside of your job you can try to make life a little less heavy and prioritize things what you like spending time on and gets you in that 'flow' state. Or what people you like to spend time with, just because you like it. Period. I think this video is also helpful for work things in the way of saying 'no' in the weekend for example, in that case a priority can even be as simple as no work/online time in the evenings. If you know what you would like (or would like to not have anymore) you can more easily act towards that and feel less shitty. Atleast that's what I am getting from all this. Just a random guy on the internet
as I renounced to most social media youtube kinda became my cup of tea, and the stalking algorithm absolutely understood it. Honestly, my only two problems are the constant need of validation and rather focusing on the outcome than the process and i really have to change this. This video was so refreshing but also reminding me on what I have to focus on. So thank you, really needed this I wish success with your not-giving-a-fuck journey to all of you guys, y’all are amazing.
2:58 Okay, I actually love this drawing. It's strokes are connected in some way and continue off of each other and at the same time the curve of the stroke imitates the shape of the 3D plain and it looks like the figure is tilted even though it looks so simple. Love this piece of art.
Last night I had this school activity thing with a few friends and some people I don't know so well (but I do rlly like all of them) and I felt like I kinda fucked up socially and was going over what i said and thinking people found me boring and unfunny but you know what? You're right. I know none of them hate me. I don't give a fuck because I did genuinely for the most part have an absolutely hilarious and really fun time. I think it's important to accept that you don't have to be the centre of attention to be socially confident, and also even if you were quieter/calmer one time doesn't mean you don't have the capacity to be more outgoing too! Thank you so much :)
Remember chat, dont be too sensitive, or too desensitized. Be in the middle Personally i love being kind to others even if they are unkind to me. Dw tho, i still value myself too, but i value everyone i know equally as me too, i wanna bring everyone with me to the top
im an introvert and i love my zelf voor ho i am and i dont hate my zelf voor ho im not i think most people should do more things that make them happy and not others
@sharkio93so your saying you should only make yourself not happy and not others? I can understand if that means people are toxic in the world but if that also means you don’t care about people good or bad, then you shouldn’t just be about yourself for no reason.
I lived for a year and a half without social media and it was the greatest time in my life I was away from other's opinions, trends, endless scrolling, the excessive amount of memes that makes me empty and stupid (in my opinion) and life back then was quite, simple, meaningful because real confidence shows up when you simply give up trying to get validation from people and starting your own journey knowing yourself. Anyways, after that year and half of paradise I liked a boy and yes I went back to social media to get all his attention because I wasn't confident enough to let things happen for good, here I am been using social media for 9 or 10 months and I hit the point where I'm feeling depressed over giving a f about others and letting my time full of stupid posts, mood swings, neglecting the study of my dreams. Thank you for this video it made me remember who I was and I will go back to my precious self, this is a proof that downfalls can happen anytime in your life these 9/10 didn't feel as good as my life without medias but I learned so much and now I know the big blessing of peace and quite life, I am grateful for all this journey 🙏🙏
This video reminds me a lot of a book by Mark Manson called "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck". Lot of similar points here too! The best one I always think of from the book is how we have a limited amount of fucks to give, so we should use them wisely
Love the book, I am considering to show it to my 15 yo son, although some parts seem a bit too much for a teen. But I really wish I had read the book earlier. Will definitely show this video to him, great summary of main points.
This video is so good that an author named Mark Manson wrote a book called "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck". And it is a NY Best Seller. I love how you made this so creative! It's brilliant! This is my MOTTO 100%.
just epically summarised Mark Manson's book, the subtle art of not giving an eff, with a nice little touch of humor. Thanks, needed to be reminded of this
I clicked because of the "not giving a f*ck" text You should do similar stuff where you talk about issues of our life and how to overcome them in a way that is easy to follow along.
As someone who always tries to find a way to work it out for people that it benefits both parties, I find this video very useful. It actually makes you a stronger and more respectful person. You have to put YOU FIRST. Thanks for sharing!!
Hey man you changed my life, after drowning to my own problems about thinking im so left out called stupid fuck in school i realized how much help you've given i thanknyou alot man thanks.
Brother, this is the sort of thing I have to threat a lot in my practice every single day. Pacients get neurotic about other people this, other people that etc. Then they get insomnia, chronic anxiety, depression, eating disorders and so on. I'm a clinical psycologist, for 7 years now, just finished my masters, I speak from experience. Your video is free mental health advice. Golden advice. Congratulations, just subscribed.
wow I just realized I have implemented this for the past week without even noticing no wonder I feel much lighter and able to focus more on my daily tasks ... watching this vid made me realize how much energy I was putting on things/ppl that don't rlly matter or deserve it
Thanks a lot dude. Really. I saw this video a week ago when I was at my lowest. Today, while watching a movie, I just realised that I am finally starting to enjoy things!! These past traumas are just a past now. So, thanks a lot. I haven't felt happiness for a while now and now I'm enjoying even little things because I just don't have to overthink about how I mean nothing to anyone.
I don't know why you came in my for you page but I think this is something I need to hear. And you're right I have to stop caring about what others think about me And set boundaries
I don't know how I was able to figure this out on my own but a few years ago at this point I started living my life with this mindset and I recommend. It's very freeing to just be putting your time and energy into things that you yourself actually want to care about rather than what others think you should care about
"their opinions have ntg to do with you, and everything to do w them" best line. tysm for this video, i'll definitely working on this one, i need to. i love how this video is straight to the point, isn't beating around the bush.
@brayanxd4547 "How to not give a fuck? Just don't give a fuck." I would say his "advice" is too shallow, if he doesn't compress his video into 5 minutes.
@playingbandits3033 No. He made 6 points on how to not care about what doesn't matter to you. Such as make a list of your priorities (to firstly learn what you should and shouldn't give importance in your life), learn to say no (to increase your self control and know your bounderies), acknowledge that people WILL judge you (and thay you'll have to deal with that), etc.
i like the style of this video, the green outlines good, black background, grain mixed with crisp illustrations, crisp voice, thats wh i saved it future me
W video, this gave me the change in perspective that I needed!!!!! THANK YOUUUU I've been struggling lately and wanted to prepare myself for my OJT in the next few months, not to mention that even if I know answers to the questions teachers ask, I don't speak up because I'm afraid my answers would be incorrect. this is such a game changer, thank you. I subscribed as soon as I realized that this one was more helpful than the other videos I've watched.
I can't stress enough how important this video is. Be careful not to fall into reductionism or pessimism - but yes, our generation cares too much. We were the first to grow up with social media, it's tough. Hang in there my Gen Z friends❤
Ill be honest this is how ive lived my life for a very long time, because I really do not care. Im glad somebody made a video on this. Your a real one, hope you have a good day.
I'm proud for not caring about new trends Politics or whatever Romance Fashion Social media Or popular habits I'm a simple creature by nature And i intend to stay this way
True that. I used to do the things in my mind before actually doing it. I thought it was mental prep. Nah, it was just draining me inside out. It had no tangible change since I stopped doing that.
This is pure gold right there, gotta save it somewhere cause it's literally about me. At some point in life I've come to understanding that random people's opinions just don't matter. I've been living like that for like 10+ years by now, and it's WAY better then caring about this and that all the time. Some say I'm weird but I don't give a fuck, just keep living my life. It's like wearing headphones with noise cancelling - there are always some random sounds at the background, but I just cut them off
Honestly I just opened RUclips and this popped up, this was much needed 🥲 I was too worried n overthinking abt that one person who suddenly stopped liking me back for no reason after months and months of him showering me w attention and his time. But ya this vid is a sign for sure, this has to end. Just wish the vid was a bit longer than 5 min lol 🙏🏻
I've been focused too much on how much time i have , and the things i have to do, that i end up not doing anything, and losing time I've got many ideas and goals which further nag me down, this is a good video, it helped Set priorities, goals Thanks a lot!
Holy sh*t I wasn't expecting this to blowup at all, but here we are!
Thank you all so much for your support! I really do appreciate it. I'll get even more motivated to keep improving my content for you guys that's for sure. Caught me off guard honestly 😂❤
PS: For those who are wondering, yes, I use some help from AI especially when I want to add keypoints or I wanna correct my grammar. The voice is also AI but I made sure to pick the most human sounding one to at least avoid distracting you while watching, plus I'm an introvert that's why I'm better at expressing myself through my writing instead of verbally.
But overall, the videos in this channel are made by my human hands and wisdom with a little help from AI. My focus is to bring value. Anyways, your support do mean a lot! ❤
Thank you for clearing this out!
Your videos are so fucking good please keep going
@@mathiaspoo4789 Will do!
Being uncomfortable is really important
Zero fux given for AI [Artificial Ignorance], but a huge fuk'n 👍, for the fuk'n video! Fuk Yea ! 😃
"If it doesn't align with your priorities, it doesn't matter a single fuck"
True. Most things in the end don't matter and won't always be around
Resonating with that shit so hard rn. Sucks when overly judgemental bs would digress and label that mindset "careless/complacent" or "selfish", you can give a fuvk about some things but it should be to an extent that wouldn't hurt both parties-- like a level that doesn’t compromise your own values while being mindful of not intentionally hurting others. It’s okay to set boundaries and be selective about what or who deserves your energy.
@@reducedfaticecreamisjustde1447yeah I’ve had those thoughts too but that still shouldn’t mean giving up.
My priority is internet
I don't have my priorities fixed so I give fucks to pointless stuff, technically I follow what OC says
"That one person who doesn't like you, WHO CARESS!!?" Ahh i needed this!!
So real
Fr, like that guy can just go away from your mind. There's probably 10 more people that may like you and will benefit you more.
Fuck that person there are plenty other people you can be friends with
This is a fucking underrated video that values my fucking time. Here take my fucking like
Nobody gives a fuck.
You owe him a subscription
i like this fucking comment
You owe me a kiss
Eey language here
My 80 year old grandma goes on here
"i wanna be touched too..."
real shit bro. real shit.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
BAHAHAHA, sociopath wonders why he can't get touched, LOL
If it's not a "hell yeah" it's a no... Such a powerful line
it really is, more people need to understand that
There’s more than just a no.
@@RoadToAestheticsit’s not the way it is.
@@Lauriestrode1978 what are you on about
@@Lauriestrode1978 yeah i get what you mean now, i know what you're tryna get across and i cba replying after this, i know what you mean. this is just generally supposed to help people pleasers
"you're not tired because you're doing too much, you're tired because you're THINKING too much" so true and so many people dont realize it
honestly, ever since I decided to actively try not to care, my life has been easier.
Nice cringe anime profile pic.
@@cryser18Bro.... Focus!! U don't have to give a fuck(attention)...!🙂
@@cryser18He passed the DGAG test 💪🔥😂
@@cryser18 You just proved their point, it's been 3 days and they haven't responded
@@Thesauceman-dh9qd or maybe they didn't give a fuck to the point where they stopped breathing
"you dont owe anyone unlimited access to your time and energy"- needed to hear that. truly, thank you.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
unfortunately, when they owe you money it is hard.
Like my friend who saw me as his trauma dump. Literally all day was listening to his work problems or money problems or how everyone else was the problem but him. On good days it was all about his interests.
Steps to not give a fuck
★ Identify ur priorities
★ stop seeking validation
★ learn to say no
★ set boundaries
★ embrace discomfort
★ detach from outcomes
put that on a shirt
Detaching from outcomes I have to say is the hardest personally. 😂
@@BreakingBraincellsnot a bad idea actually
@@BreakingBraincells3 for the front and 3 for the back 😂
we all know WHAT to do , we want to know HOW to do it.
“Stop obsessing over the results and focus on the process” hit deep ngl
being a chill guy is easy, actually
No no no ig sh!t here plz
@@EscanorEgoshut up
just a chill guy
Give up caffeine if you're sensitive.
It's not easy to avoid giving an f if you're 72 hours on meth without sleeping yet, just to provide an extreme example.
If you build a sound physical foundation for not giving an f, it will be easier.
@@EscanorEgo its twitter shit tbh not ig
"their opinions have nothing to do with you and everything to do with them" is the best advice i've heard.
No intro , no asking for subs or likes straight to the point , cold hard facts . Thank you kind sir
“you’re not responsible for their feelings” i rlly needed to hear that rn thank you
+ focus on internal approval and some self love
Incredible comprehensive message btw!
Always!❤
I'm a constant worrier and care too much about the little things. This video is straight to the point and honest. It's not gonna be easy but I think this is a step in the right direction for me. So thank you random stranger 💕
I once knew a man who I have never ever seen angry or frustrated, not even once. I couldn't stop myself from asking him how he does that. What he said to me still resonates with me till date.
"Well, yes, I used to be always angry, frustrated, always trying to find something or the other out of everything. I felt lost no matter what I achieved. But then it all changed, I found peace."
"And How did you find that?"
"It's simple" he said with a smile. "I simply stopped searching."
Does this mean he found it within?
@huf_fitness26 It means, if you are always in the search of what true happiness is, you will never ever be happy and if you are always in search of the ultimate way to live you life, you will never ever live.
@@Nonoonono-t5l probably. guess he meant something along the lines of he stopped caring about pointless trivial shit.
For me, I know that others can perceive me as this resilient dude who seems all carefree with no problems. No, I do have problems. The one difference is that I don't think about them all too much. I actively have to want to think about the negative to think of it. As long as I just enjoy what happens and don't think about it more, there's not much depression to be found
I know a sir like that in my college. He is always positive if anyone comes late , write homework at his period. He never shouts , never becomes angry and doesn't bothers him. But he is the excellent lecture in our clg. Probably I should ask him too. About his positivity.
This video is really good and direct, no bullsh*t
“Please goth baddie for Christmas” 2:10 LOLLLLL
Reallll 😂😂😂
Noice 😂
Same
i was bouta comment same thing lol
something we all want
Bro just popped out randomly on my feed and knew that i needed this right now.
3:30 a lot of people need to hear this
100%
- identify your priorities
What if i have none? Idk what I am living for, so I repeatedly seek others validation
"Idk what I am living for"
Why make it so big?! You will not get your answer from others actually. Everyone is running around just doing something.
I suggest letting go of that question, because you are already here. You are here already.
You probably know what makes you feel shit or consumes energy, try to skip those or don't spend (too much) time on these.
A hobby which do not have any useful thing for this world is perfectly enough. That can be a priority. If you allow yourself to let it be that way.
Good luck mate and these video's and also Lao Tzu lessons are great.
Enough internet for today, time to take a nice walk outside :)
@HaroldtenKlooster thanks for the support anyway.
I spent all my life learning programming and software development. And my metrics for the app is how useful it is for the others. Hopefully I've got a job and my code is somewhat useful. But I still rely 100% on external feedback
@@Gameplayer55055
It sounds that in your job it is indeed very useful what other think, and that can be a good thing. For things outside of your job you can try to make life a little less heavy and prioritize things what you like spending time on and gets you in that 'flow' state. Or what people you like to spend time with, just because you like it. Period.
I think this video is also helpful for work things in the way of saying 'no' in the weekend for example, in that case a priority can even be as simple as no work/online time in the evenings. If you know what you would like (or would like to not have anymore) you can more easily act towards that and feel less shitty. Atleast that's what I am getting from all this. Just a random guy on the internet
relearning this after regressing into a people pleaser. i thought i’d had it nailed but this is something you need to actively practice.
"Ima touch you bro"
"wtf?!"
In a middle of a motivational video made me laugh so hard 1:07
"When you find yourself stressing over something stupid remind yourself this doesnt deserve my fuck" Lol 4:10
"i wanna be touched too"
Frr lmfaoo
1:12 I wanna be touched too is even crazier 😂
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
as I renounced to most social media youtube kinda became my cup of tea, and the stalking algorithm absolutely understood it.
Honestly, my only two problems are the constant need of validation and rather focusing on the outcome than the process and i really have to change this.
This video was so refreshing but also reminding me on what I have to focus on. So thank you, really needed this
I wish success with your not-giving-a-fuck journey to all of you guys, y’all are amazing.
Thank you, all the best
Randomly recommended, good stuff. This video style and thumbnail are attractive, nice work
Very much so. Can only agree!
Those who care don't matter and those that matter don't care. A simple philosophy I live by.
pls explain this more.. this seems interesting and i wanna adopt this philosophy too haha..
2:58 Okay, I actually love this drawing. It's strokes are connected in some way and continue off of each other and at the same time the curve of the stroke imitates the shape of the 3D plain and it looks like the figure is tilted even though it looks so simple. Love this piece of art.
yeah great art but im pretty sure it was a jujutsu kaisen (anime) reference 😂
@@darius2172 It's the honoured one
its a reference to an anime named Jujutsu Kaisen, the drawn character is actually levitating
@@BreadEater492 I wouldn't know, I don't watch that one.
0:19 the text sending sound 😭thought my phone was sending this video to my boss
I know that feeling 😭
Do it, it'll be fun.
Last night I had this school activity thing with a few friends and some people I don't know so well (but I do rlly like all of them) and I felt like I kinda fucked up socially and was going over what i said and thinking people found me boring and unfunny but you know what? You're right. I know none of them hate me. I don't give a fuck because I did genuinely for the most part have an absolutely hilarious and really fun time. I think it's important to accept that you don't have to be the centre of attention to be socially confident, and also even if you were quieter/calmer one time doesn't mean you don't have the capacity to be more outgoing too!
Thank you so much :)
“you don’t owe anyone unlimited access to your time and attention” is so realistic
Remember chat, dont be too sensitive, or too desensitized.
Be in the middle
Personally i love being kind to others even if they are unkind to me.
Dw tho, i still value myself too, but i value everyone i know equally as me too, i wanna bring everyone with me to the top
I feel the exact same way! Mad respect🙏
I don't care about your comment btw
im an introvert and i love my zelf voor ho i am and i dont hate my zelf voor ho im not i think most people should do more things that make them happy and not others
How dare you call us sensitive. Im pressing charges fr fr
@sharkio93so your saying you should only make yourself not happy and not others? I can understand if that means people are toxic in the world but if that also means you don’t care about people good or bad, then you shouldn’t just be about yourself for no reason.
More people should give a fuck about this channel, This is great dude. Keep going
The whole idea comes from a different channel, even the titles, actually
But this channel won't impact me in 2 weeks from now, so why should I give a f***?
@@HonestlyHolistic sauce? oh wait... idgaf. your claim changes literally nothing in my life
@mcrain1283 LOL
@mcrain1283 stop just saying idgaf just to sound edgy, just because nothing matters, it doesn’t mean people have to be abunch of d bags because of it.
I lived for a year and a half without social media and it was the greatest time in my life I was away from other's opinions, trends, endless scrolling, the excessive amount of memes that makes me empty and stupid (in my opinion) and life back then was quite, simple, meaningful because real confidence shows up when you simply give up trying to get validation from people and starting your own journey knowing yourself.
Anyways, after that year and half of paradise I liked a boy and yes I went back to social media to get all his attention because I wasn't confident enough to let things happen for good, here I am been using social media for 9 or 10 months and I hit the point where I'm feeling depressed over giving a f about others and letting my time full of stupid posts, mood swings, neglecting the study of my dreams.
Thank you for this video it made me remember who I was and I will go back to my precious self, this is a proof that downfalls can happen anytime in your life these 9/10 didn't feel as good as my life without medias but I learned so much and now I know the big blessing of peace and quite life, I am grateful for all this journey 🙏🙏
the timing of this video is insane!
Didn't think I'd ever find a video that resonates so much with me on every single level.
This video reminds me a lot of a book by Mark Manson called "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck". Lot of similar points here too! The best one I always think of from the book is how we have a limited amount of fucks to give, so we should use them wisely
Fr, I've been reading that book recently (now don't give a FK abt me reading it😂)
Love the book, I am considering to show it to my 15 yo son, although some parts seem a bit too much for a teen. But I really wish I had read the book earlier. Will definitely show this video to him, great summary of main points.
This video is so good that an author named Mark Manson wrote a book called "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck". And it is a NY Best Seller. I love how you made this so creative! It's brilliant! This is my MOTTO 100%.
Seriously one of the most helpful video, every line, every tip so good. And the dialogues written in frames had me laughing 😂.
Thank you so much 😀
just epically summarised Mark Manson's book, the subtle art of not giving an eff, with a nice little touch of humor. Thanks, needed to be reminded of this
I clicked because of the "not giving a f*ck" text
You should do similar stuff where you talk about issues of our life and how to overcome them in a way that is easy to follow along.
AI or no AI. You are the mastermind behind these powerful messages and sharing it with the world. Beyond kudos my man 👍
As someone who always tries to find a way to work it out for people that it benefits both parties, I find this video very useful. It actually makes you a stronger and more respectful person. You have to put YOU FIRST. Thanks for sharing!!
Hey man you changed my life, after drowning to my own problems about thinking im so left out called stupid fuck in school i realized how much help you've given i thanknyou alot man thanks.
You're getting to 100k in the next 3 months 100%
I love the editing, the narration and how concise and straight to the point your videos are.
Ouff, BS(
Brother, this is the sort of thing I have to threat a lot in my practice every single day. Pacients get neurotic about other people this, other people that etc. Then they get insomnia, chronic anxiety, depression, eating disorders and so on. I'm a clinical psycologist, for 7 years now, just finished my masters, I speak from experience. Your video is free mental health advice. Golden advice. Congratulations, just subscribed.
Im going to rewatch this every week
The closet example is SO GOOD.
Thanks sir for making this video and hopefully you will make more videos like this one.(😊 I need them fr )
Will do! Thank you so much ❤😊
I’m convinced you have a team of creative geniuses working behind the scenes!
“detach from outcomes” man i needed that
Bro I actually needed this right now, not kidding, right now, thank you
“Imma touch you bro”
So real😔
wow I just realized I have implemented this for the past week without even noticing no wonder I feel much lighter and able to focus more on my daily tasks ... watching this vid made me realize how much energy I was putting on things/ppl that don't rlly matter or deserve it
why do you have half my subs? you should have at least 10k bro this vid is amazing
Hey I predicted it!
2:24 saying no, is such a good feeling and feels like freedom.
Love how you adressed the problem , and then give solutions , appreciate the effort ❤ and thanks that helped a lot
youtube algorithm blessed me with this masterpiece at the perfect time, thank you bro
Life changing channel for who really do so much care about small things and overthink about anything
Learned Alot.
Remembered Alot.
Using Alot.
Thanking Alot.
Not Giving A F*ck Alot.
Thanks a lot dude. Really.
I saw this video a week ago when I was at my lowest. Today, while watching a movie, I just realised that I am finally starting to enjoy things!! These past traumas are just a past now.
So, thanks a lot. I haven't felt happiness for a while now and now I'm enjoying even little things because I just don't have to overthink about how I mean nothing to anyone.
You cured my depression. I'll never ever go again in that state EVER again. This video is burnt in my memory, so thanks a lot...THANK YOU!
You cured my depression. I'll never ever go again in that state EVER again. This video is burnt in my memory, so thanks a lot...THANK YOU!
2:29 "If it's not a Hell Yeah, then it's a no" this gonna be my life principle lol
I don't know why you came in my for you page but I think this is something I need to hear.
And you're right I have to stop caring about what others think about me
And set boundaries
“People will always judge you no matter what. Their opinion of you has nothing to do with ans everything to do with them.”
I don't know how I was able to figure this out on my own but a few years ago at this point I started living my life with this mindset and I recommend. It's very freeing to just be putting your time and energy into things that you yourself actually want to care about rather than what others think you should care about
Honestly dude, thank you for this video. I needed this more than i thought i did.
I hope you have a wonderful life, thank you!
@@HEADASSLOOKINGAHHH You too! Glad I'm able to help you in some ways ❤️
"their opinions have ntg to do with you, and everything to do w them" best line. tysm for this video, i'll definitely working on this one, i need to. i love how this video is straight to the point, isn't beating around the bush.
"If you're depressed don't be sad."
"if you have asthma just breathe"
The only difference is that this video actually explained how. Just gotta learn some basic interpretation
@brayanxd4547 "How to not give a fuck? Just don't give a fuck."
I would say his "advice" is too shallow, if he doesn't compress his video into 5 minutes.
@brayanxd4547 "How to not give a f*ck, just don't give a f*ck."
I would say his "advice" is too shallow, he didn't even explaint anything.
@playingbandits3033 No. He made 6 points on how to not care about what doesn't matter to you. Such as make a list of your priorities (to firstly learn what you should and shouldn't give importance in your life), learn to say no (to increase your self control and know your bounderies), acknowledge that people WILL judge you (and thay you'll have to deal with that), etc.
Popped up in my feed. But I really think I needed to see this. Like actually 🥲Thank you
Sameee
"Unfortunately, I'm busy with your mom" best comeback I've ever seen
most useful video ive ever watched on this website
whoa this account actually deserves recognition, great contentt
love the bluntness and swearing in this. keep it up 😊
I might need to start trying to not care so much
i like the style of this video, the green outlines good, black background, grain mixed with crisp illustrations, crisp voice, thats wh i saved it future me
I do not give a fuck about that thing I wont even remember 5 years down the line. I am proud of myself and I do not give a fuck.
That's pretty good... But you don't give a fuck.
Broo this is similar to that saying if it won’t matter in 5 years don’t spend more than 5 minutes on it 💯
W video, this gave me the change in perspective that I needed!!!!! THANK YOUUUU
I've been struggling lately and wanted to prepare myself for my OJT in the next few months, not to mention that even if I know answers to the questions teachers ask, I don't speak up because I'm afraid my answers would be incorrect.
this is such a game changer, thank you. I subscribed as soon as I realized that this one was more helpful than the other videos I've watched.
absolute cinema here before 100 subs
Thank you😭, it really helps. I think a lot of people need these words. Hope you have a great day
so simple and straighforward. Thank you!
I can't stress enough how important this video is. Be careful not to fall into reductionism or pessimism - but yes, our generation cares too much. We were the first to grow up with social media, it's tough. Hang in there my Gen Z friends❤
1:26 lol “yo why tf are you wearing a tie naked?”
"It doesn't matter "
he dont give a fuck
Ill be honest this is how ive lived my life for a very long time, because I really do not care. Im glad somebody made a video on this. Your a real one, hope you have a good day.
"you care too much about the things that don't matter"
Thanks i clicked off the video right away cz it doesn't matter💀
💀💀💀 what’s wrong with it?
I've never seen this channel before but man... I needed this video. Thank you brother.
"You're not tired because of doing so much, You're tired because of thinking so much."
So true. Life is much better when you don't give a fuck❤
Basically it's being a chill guy who lowkey doesn't gaf
no its about being a chill guy who doesnt gaf about certain things(not all)
@@moreMemeTech exactly.
its about being a chill guy who doesnt gaf about things that dont matter in the long run and that hold you back
@@hitalick5999 more elaborated ✅
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Social media opinions have drained me so much mayne
I'm proud for not caring about new trends
Politics or whatever
Romance
Fashion
Social media
Or popular habits
I'm a simple creature by nature
And i intend to stay this way
True that.
I used to do the things in my mind before actually doing it. I thought it was mental prep. Nah, it was just draining me inside out. It had no tangible change since I stopped doing that.
Your channel is about to blow up.
Amazing quality btw!
This is pure gold right there, gotta save it somewhere cause it's literally about me.
At some point in life I've come to understanding that random people's opinions just don't matter. I've been living like that for like 10+ years by now, and it's WAY better then caring about this and that all the time.
Some say I'm weird but I don't give a fuck, just keep living my life. It's like wearing headphones with noise cancelling - there are always some random sounds at the background, but I just cut them off
Can we see a “conquering lust is pretty easy, actually “ video😭😭
@@the_random_noob9860 That's actually a good idea
Honestly I just opened RUclips and this popped up, this was much needed 🥲 I was too worried n overthinking abt that one person who suddenly stopped liking me back for no reason after months and months of him showering me w attention and his time. But ya this vid is a sign for sure, this has to end.
Just wish the vid was a bit longer than 5 min lol 🙏🏻
I've been focused too much on how much time i have , and the things i have to do, that i end up not doing anything, and losing time
I've got many ideas and goals which further nag me down, this is a good video, it helped
Set priorities, goals
Thanks a lot!
This video is the single most valuable video ive seen in a LOOOONGGG time. Great work keep it up
This is a great channel!
Bro this video just changed my whole point of view to other
Thanks