and it will always be there, at the back of your mind. The audacity to look stupid anyway will thrust you forward. Only when you trip like an an idiot will you genuinely hone in on how to not trip like an idiot. Failure is the greatest teacher, and IMO, failure itself isn't even failure.
Dude thank you so much, this encouraged me to ask a girl to go see a movie with me and she said yes, now the only problem is I asked a girl to go see a movie with me and she said yes. I’m not prepared Edit: we haven’t seen the movie yet but we talked and she’s unofficially my girlfriend now 2nd edit: she’s my girlfriend now
“No one is chosen. If we all waited around for a prophecy to make us special, we’d die waiting. That’s why you need to choose yourself.” ~ Edalyn Clawthorne
Reminds me of The Frieren anime, Himmel, the Hero, didn't pull the great holy sword.. He wasn't the "prophecy" hero, but he slayed the demon king.. He didn't wait, didn't give up.. He just did what he needed to do.
The way your words pierced right through my heart and gave me a reality check. I've been holding back a lot, my goals, my aspirations, my dreams, thinking... I'm not enough or worthy even. I want this to change and I'm glad your video was recommended to me. Thank you ❤
Speaking as a natural introvert and neurodivergent, the best thing I ever did in my approach to life was to ask myself "what would my old self do in this situation, what is my gut instinct?" and... do the opposite. Oh, cute girl is going on a hike with friends and suggested I join. My normal reaction would be "absolutely not," I'm a bigger dude, I sweat too much and it's embarrassing, it's ten miles and I'm not sure I've ever walked/hiked/ran that far at once, terrifying. And I said yes anyway. And did better than I ever would have thought I could, and I look up the next week and I'm having coffee with five gorgeous girls every day after our afternoon classes because I built friendships, one of which became more. You have to overcome your own avoidance instinct to have something good!
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Thanks for your comment! you know, what is more difficult to us is the courage. you suggested to go and hike with the girls but said "Absolutely not" but despite that you did what u wanted, most of us struggle to actually DO the thing and will probably go back home and regret. any tips on having the courage to do things? to overcome the avoidance instinct
@@joetheguy115 Your mileage may vary, and I was lucky enough to be in a "going to college in a new city and state" circumstance which help made it a bit easier, a "fresh start," but my advice would be this. There's two forms of that avoidance, "in the moment when you're asked" and "at the last minute." For the first, it's not about overcoming that fear, you just have to do it even though you're afraid and your instincts say to avoid it. Remember: if a friendly acquaintance specifically invites you to something, it means they think they would enjoy it more if you were there. Just say yes. We all know the worst things about ourselves, but that gal who invited me on the hike, she didn't know me as the video game nerd who'd never done well socially and had terrible self esteem, she knew me as that tall guy from Texas with some interesting stories and a good sense of humor. You just have to ignore your self doubt and fear and just say... yes. Because as the video said, why not me? As for fighting that last-minute avoidance, my trick was this: right after you say yes, make a plan, and make a plan where one or more others depend on you. Offer to be the ride for someone, bring something important to the gathering, handle booking the reservation for the mutual friend's birthday dinner, whatever it may be. Make the fact that you show up matter to the others, beyond just "they want you there." So that when the day comes and you face that "oh no I don't want to do the thing I committed to" anxiety, it can be outweighed by the "I don't want to let down the people who are depending on me" anxiety. "I don't want to do this" becomes "if I don't do this, two other people suddenly don't have a ride, and I don't want to do that to them, I need to get in the shower." And suddenly you'll look up and people will know you as that sociable, dependable, likable person, and you'll see that, and it gives you that sweet, sweet release of dopamine reward, and over time you come to associate "doing the thing" with positive feelings instead of negative ones, and it gets easier and easier.
I really needed this. I am extremely afraid of judgement. I have never played a single sport because Its uncomfortable and I don't want people to judge me. Man. Things like these are helping me lots. I am an artist, and I wouldnt call myself an introvert by any means, but I have a hard time getting out of my comfort zone. The part where you went over judgement is a really really good thing to think about. I'm still working to overcome this. Thank you.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Dont worry young blood Even if they do dont take it personally Go ahead with someone else who knows maybe next person is your soulmate? Im on same page and know how it is but lets change it together Peace
@whitecheez0367 i feel love is separate from any affection or sensual desire but for the true well being of someone's mental as well as physicallystate I love you man keep treading your own path and god bless you
@5GentleGiants I have this exact insecurity as well. I had a medical condition that affects my performance in bed, but after some deep conversations with the bros, its not me physically that was the problem. The problem is people who think in such manner often places their partner or crushes on a higher pedestal and unknowingly project an ideal form of a partner onto them. It festers this dark idea that you are unworthy of her because she's viewed as something more than another human. I find a lot of guys in my position also say things such as, "I live like a dog, she'll never love someone like that," but the reality is that she also has experienced the human condition of suffering and adapting to her environment as well. Taking away that humanity will make anyone seem untouchable or too good.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
crazy, just summarizes my whole life mindset. i think just like this, and it holds me back. i have moments were i overcome this fear and things happen, but i always go back o square one. but i suppose that’s life. i try, i either succeed and eventually fail or fail to begin with. it’s better to shoot a shot and miss then never fire mindset. and i still hold myself back. i fear failure, i fear negative outcomes. and i don’t do anything in the end. and i do limit myself so many times in life. and i want to change. but it’s hard, and i can’t blame it on circumstances, i can’t blame on others, only on me. why not me? well i suppose it’s because of my mind, i am guided by fear. but i need to change that. and i just needed someone to tell me. thank you
The first step is to realise that you keep yourself trapped in that mindset, but it is not impossible to escape. Take a step back, evaluate and see that everyone struggles with this. You are not the only one who is in this place and not the first to escape it. It takes time, the first steps are the hardest, but when you find that motion it is going to accelerate. I’ve been an underperformer my whole life and I have been, since a few months, taking action and steps in improving my life. I still hear that negative self-loathing voice all the time, but it is now accompanied by a positive one that tells me I can do it. Don’t shut the voice out, find trust and comfort in it. It is possible, trust the process and in time it will get easier
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
This would probably be real motivational if I ever had anything I was the slightest bit passionate about. There are very few people whose opinion I respect enough for me to be afraid of their judgement, and there's nothing for me to succeed at to be afraid of failing at it.
Same. It's a rather disconnected and honestly strange experience when people often tell you to be daring, to try, to go and do all thise things you like, to fight for what you want. But what happens when that "goal" just doesn't exist? Why is it even important to have those in the first place? I am happy already just by coming back from work, getting home, putting on some comfortable clothes and just enjoy my evening at home doing my own thing. That being said, I do agree that perhaps these kind of talks are needed for the smaller things in life. People often give these kind of speeches when talking about big ambitions and career choices, but usually forget to highlight how important the smaller goals are, something as silly as calling a parent to say hello, take your time to actually cook something, doing some kind of regular hobby two or three times a week. Perhaps this is why I personally fail to connect to these kind of speeches, because I feel they try to push for some grandiose self fulfilling endgame that it's not there, but forget that taking a single step forward is already an achivement on its own.
You're right, man. And this is such a beautiful message. Life is so confusing and I often get overwhelmed trying to figure it all out and uncover the ultimate truths. I feel that I HAVE to know the right answers for everything or else I'll be (or really just think I am) stupid. I was born a Type A personality, and being the late-diagnosed neurodivergent, people pleasing, former gifted kid, didn't help counteract those tendencies! 😅 I care A LOT about fairness, and justice, and truth. Sometimes too much, because it happens in a bad way that feeds my (recovering) perfectionistic instincts. I put too much pressure on myself to not make mistakes and to think of mistakes as a bad thing, and think I am a bad person if I make them. It is really more of an emotional thing, often subconscious. Because I know logically that the real stupid thing is to expect to be perfect and never try new things and to never take risks or make mistakes. But it's like I can't get the emotional side and the logical side of my brain to work together or agree with each other. I realized that discovering a life lesson intellectually is a completely different process from getting it to stick in your head and take it to heart, to cement it deep inside you. The emotions are more stubborn and complicated and inconsistent, but that's what they are there for. For the things logic can't do. We need both. I keep forgetting that I don't need to already know everything about life or the world right now, and I feel bad about myself when I don't. I never know whether to continue to search for answers and think deeply and in detail, or to just relax and go with the flow. To try my best, and know that that's enough, and to love myself WITH the flaws. Everyone has them. It's probably a balance between the two. Maybe it's not as big of a deal as I think it is, then again... Maybe it's not overthinking, and culture's resistance to in-depth reasoning and conversations is wrong. Sighhh, as you can see, I just continue to go around and around with these things. I don't know what to think, but I can't stop myself from wondering. I'll never stop. Is it open-mindedness, or futility? Philosophy or anxiety? Are these questions even answerable? Does it even matter whether they are answerable or not? Who knows?! I do think of my rationalizations to procrastinate on my goals as reasons, rather than excuses, as I'm sure most people do. But what I forget is, you are also right, about there never being a perfect time. I keep thinking, "oh, I'll just wait until (blank) is over, then I'll start on this." But things don't always work out how we expect or hope them to. We've got to take advantage of the time we do have, in the present. We don't know how much future we have left as individuals at any given time. I don't want to regret the things I didn't do. I need to ask myself "why not" more often. (Bonus thought, is it best to regret the things you did do, or the things you didn't do? How do you know when it's either one? Mostly it seems like it's better to take risks, interpersonally. Like, would you rather regret getting a tattoo, or regret never even giving it a chance? It is worth the possibility you won't like it? Hmmmmm.) But the one reason I still hesitate, is my neurodiversity. I struggle to balance myself between patience and urgency. My life has forced me to be patient for many things, and when I jump into something really quickly and try to get it done right away, it never lasts. It's a burst of passion for like 2 weeks, then I'm drained, and disappointed, that it ended. I have learned I need to pace myself to have a chance of doing things long-term. But I also don't want to unnecessarily limit myself and make things take longer than they need to. I don't want to ASSUME I can't do things, or do them a certain way. I do tend to prefer quieter more solitary things most of the time, though I enjoy hanging out with my family for some hours. Is that me respecting my boundaries, or me making excuses to never leave my comfort zone and try new things and meet new people and learn new lessons, because it's scary? I don't know! I wish I did! Right now it really does seem futile, but I just HAVE to try to understand things, especially important things like this. Wrap it up in a neat little bow and smile, admiring my work. But in reality it's always incomplete and messy and over-complicated. Maybe I just need to accept these things about myself, and do them anyway. It's who I am. Others may not understand my unorthodox ways, but that's ok, and it doesn't mean they are wrong. Flawed? They could be, I can't tell yet. But not wrong. Because flaws are part of life. Not that we should never try to improve ourselves, but we also need to accept the imperfection of reality. Flaws and bad things will always be there, but that doesn't mean we don't deserve love. Anyway, I am still trying to accomplish certain goals that have been teasing me for years. Finally getting good at a certain work-from-home job I like. Developing hobbies and healthy habits. Getting fit. Saving up money for a tiny house. Making friends. Getting better at drawing and start making small comics to post on Instagram, or just for fun. Reading more, collecting books for my future bookshelf. Etc. And I will keep working towards them, however I can, at a sustainable pace. And care less what people think of me. Do I challenge myself and see what I'm capable of (I hesitate because I got super bad burnout for a while and it SUCKED), or do I trust my confidence that I know myself? Ugh, maybe I shouldn't think about this stuff so much. I'm not getting anywhere, at least not this time. I'll just do what feels right to me. Simplify things. I think that's my best strategy for now. Awesome video. Great job. 👌🫶
this is one of the few videos that spoke directly to my heart. Thank you. I'll use this as a reminder to start now. I'm 23 as well as you, dealing with my problems and I have been waiting for that perfect opportunity for so long. Thank you for making me see it. Your words are truly helpful for me.
This video was more than i was ever expecting in the best way possible. Helping me calm down a bit about anxiety i have over an upcoming plan. But to top it all off, what i wasn't expecting the most was the final clip you used. The man running out onto the roof and the meteors falling from the sky. That clip is from a music video by the kpop boy group Tomorrow X Together. And since discovering them two years ago, their music has saved me more times than i can count. I'm not even into kpop that much, but them in particular really resonated with me. Their songs about growing up being overwhelming, that life isn't a fairytale, but as long as you have tomorrow, things can work out. So while you might have not known the clip, and maybe i'm one of the few who do and feel this way towards it, it was a really nice reminder at the end of the video. That i can do it. Because i still have tomorrow.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Been hearing this kind of stuff for almost my whole life. I don't know what clicked in my brain, but the video now actually hit me (like in the good way). Why shouldn't it be me? Never thought that a video can open up my perspective by this much, but.. thank you.
You're right. Everything I have ever done has been in service of others. Doing what my family or friends have wanted or expected. Its time for me to step up. Do the things I want to. Start on the things I've always told myself I was never good enough to do.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
5:36 Even though I'm now at the start of my route to the best version of me, I broke down after hearing this. I'm still just 20. But I've lost so many opportunities in my life already. Some I can never get back again. I've been failing myself for so long. And I don't want to disappoint myself ever again.
No joke out of all the videos ive seen, ive struggled for ages and this video, this video is the one i needed! Thank you so much and i wish you the best.
Go in with whatever knowledge you have. Watch the whole thing blow up in your face. Or cherish a new success. Keep moving forward. Experience is the greatest teacher. That, no one can take from you.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Literally watched this video a week ago and the impact it's making on my life is OUTSTANDING. This and a few others are changing my life for the best, TYSMM. My friends notice how much more confident and happy I am too! Your AMAIZNG!!
I'm very thankful for this video, I always go back to this video when I doubt myself, I hope I will become the best version of me and reduce doubting myself.
This is great to see someone else say in this level of detail, and to see as I prepare to come out to my family. I use this alongside "what if I was the kind of person who... (fill in the blank)", which I'm also glad you mention, and both have helped slowly nudge me back to presence and progress.
I think I agree with totally, like hell that's me. The question "why not me?" is not first here. Most of us here are stopped because are standards. We have put up a standard for every thing. And when not meant, the only thing that is in our mind is "You will fail". Also the fear to lose, terrifies us.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Thank you for encuriging me to believe more into myself,i have taken more risks and i see that i can do anything i think is impossible by just taking the first step forward,and so should you❤
I am so grateful that the algorithm suggested one of your videos to me. I just watched your videos and I really like your channel. Thank you so much for taking the time to make these kinds of videos because it helps me a lot, especially this video, I struggle a lot with this subject and just seeing this video helped me so much. Keep it up because I can assure you that you help more than one. Thank you so much.
These words are like the bitter medicine that I've been avoiding for long time, but is inevitable if I'm genuinely want to move to the next stage of my life. Thank you so much!
this was some next level pep-talk, thankyou! i actually managed to quit my job where i had a horrible boss who bullied me. now i just need to manage my anxiety and stress of not having an income for a while though, but it felt good being able to flip my boss off. no more taking shit!
As an introvert who now puts himself out there more than most people do, do yourself and everyone else a favor. Let it be you. You need it for you, and a lot of other people will be inspired by you
"The world needs what you bring to the table" Thank you. I found this video just randomly pop up on my front page the moment i opened RUclips. It's true i've been doubting myself because I am afraid of other people's judgement, what they think of me or what I do. I see a lot of my friends get a job after graduation, most of them are 22. I'm 27, and I'm still afraid to take that leap into "real life". I just started making RUclips after graduation (around 5 months i think), and the way people (or maybe myself) see it, It is just a waste of time. Makes me think i'm wasting my talents, the time that i could've used to get a job and a real life. But I'm afraid, I still am. But that last line in the video spoke to me. I feel like I have something to offer. Thank you again.
I've been spending five years of my life hoping for a change, while I did nothing to change... I saw my life crumble slowly, knowing I can be the best at what I like... but never tried and got stuck after all this time I just started to do something for once.
Ive spent my whole student life thinking abt what otgers would judge abt me. And your words"Create confidence" was beautiful. I never joined any sprts or mixed much with others so i felt i didnt beling in a group
Man. This is a good video. I literaly just got called out. All the points you made really hit home. It sumes up my life. basically to afried to take the risk. Thank you for making and sharing! also I really like the look and Feel of this video. I always loved the aesthetic in these types videos.
I really needed this thank you. your awesome, I'm awesome, were all awesome in our own ways, we just need to show it to each other and the world. :) ;)
You made me tears, man. I have no idea what I wanna be or what to do with my life, i have 26 years old, working as customer service for 3 years after my military service and no idea what to do with my own life beside going to work and back to play few hours on my PC and then sleep, i wish i can do a lot of things but feels like standing in limbo forever and can't do anything with my own life. I always wish to learn and do new things but my fire has faded long ago and can't ignite it anymore, it might spark a little but once i start do a new thing, it just fade away again.
I want to be an artist, and I won’t have to say how risky that industry is to have a stable job, this is definitely needed. It’s still terrifying but there’s nothing else I want to do with my life
Thank you my friend, I'm was at the same place feeling stuck and stressed but I took a leap of faith and dropout from my college, I always wanted to do something big and that's not the right place, its scary and painful but I'm feeling happy that I have listened to myself and going all in to make my passion into career.
Ive been starting to figure things out for the past couple of months now. But there was always that one thing missing. This video really helped me understand that I just got to stop caring as much about others opinions and just don't look back.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Everything you said to me applies for but instead of right time I convinced myself that I don’t like what I’m doing right now this made me feel like I don’t like anything, now I’m just sitting not doing anything thinking what I did that brought me joy or some form of confidence so can make that my career, only thing I can think of is cooking and cleaning since I helped my mom with it from childhood but only thing stopping me is I did masters in cybersecurity I don’t have enough courage to convince my parents that How can I do that?
If ppl stop giving awkward stares and mocking everyone... And actually try to be nice for once... Many ppl will start being extroverted@@pizzapizzza4607
Then, you still need to learn how to open up better without it feeling intrusive to yourself. People already sense that, and it's not an attractive feeling. You can want things without dumping the unknown into someone else. @lognomodeimeme
but if not trying is a worse kind of failure and failure is THE fundamental part of the process, then you already are going on the right direction. everything sums, even waiting, bc there ain't growth without patience. trust yourself
Great video! Felt really authentic too.. I'm taking some risks during my last 2 years of highschool (currently in 12th grade) and have so many uncertainties about my future (planning to study abroad for college) so this video was really needed. I rarely ever comment on RUclips videos but I felt like I must do my duty after I saw the low number in this one. I've spent so much effort down this path - despite the amount of doubt, fear, uncertainty. I'm not going to be stopped by some stupid what ifs. Thank you.
I love these lines the most from your video: "1:54 They started anyway, they moved forward with all the doubts, because they didn't wait for confidence they created it." "4:52 This is the right time, right now in the middle of whatever chaos you are dealing with, this is when you take the leap."
Nice video but I feel it's more about being insecure than being introverted. They're completely different things, you can be introverted without being insecure.
Hi, don't know why but I feel comfortable enough to dump it all here for some reason lmaoo I'm a teenager, recently moved to a new city due to my dad's work. Everything is cool, new school, new people, and at least I thought, new friends. Almost everybody at school knows each other from the last year or even a longer time, so many middle school and even primary school friends that are really close to each other. No one is particularly mean to me or exclude me but I feel like an outcast. I've tried many times to talk to them, to get closer to new people, I believe I am liked, but no one was really interested in getting to know me or be close to me. The ones did was not really the friends I was looking for and I am not going to waste time with people I don't want to be close with, choosing great friends were always a major importance for me. I don't go ignoring those people or anything, I talk to them of course but only when they want to. People I wanted to get close with, like I've said wasn't really interested. I thought people would like to get to know about me since I am from the other side of the country developed part, or that I recently moved so they would like to tell me about the place, school, friends, anything. Anything at all. Everyone has their own friend group already and joining later on made me feel not so great since everyone's attention is on their own friends, their own circle of people. It's the fact that no one comes and strikes up a conversation with me, asks me if I want to join them, ask me to do anything at all. I joined a few groups but they were focused on their own, talking to each other while I'm just standing there, or following them. I'm just there. There. I often go back and think about my friends I left back in the city I was born and raised in, they all have their new circle of friends, new people, new life, boyfriends, girlfriends, whatever. I am not interested in any romantic relationship, but seeing them already moved on and happy with themselves when I don't have any friend to go out and explore the city I don't know much about, the malls, the cafes my age group likes to go to. It doesn't make me feel any better, I feel jealous of my friends who I've grown to know as a family even though I don't want to. I just want friends. I'm confident in the fact that I'm not weird, unlikable, unfriendly or anything. It could be related to me being and introvert which I am still not very sure of (I could be ambivert or more like an extroverted introvert), and don't have much social battery. I'm cool with being social all day, but when my efforts don't get a reply, I lost the motivation to get closer to people. I've been drowning in hws and exams, and feel exhausted already since I struggle with studying a lot. I didn't think I would feel this way. To be honest, once in my life I never thought I wouldn't have friends around me who constantly checked on me. I was thinking maybe all this is for me to toughen up, to get to know myself better. But the more I think of not making friends and going through my once will be lived youth alone, it just makes me feel in a way I don't know the name of lol These type of videos has been on my feed for a few weeks, for my self growth, for my motivation, I came to realize lots of things, but it doesn't help people wanting to spend time with me. Maybe I should leave it to time, but as time passes I feel like I lose my joy in being new and allat, I talked to my mom, my dad, for a vacation back to the city I came from so I can reunite with my friends I've missed so much. Don't think they'll let me go by myself far away and stay over at a friend but I think it will help me feel better a lot. I've made plans in my head and with my friends what we'll do if I go, and if I don't go I think it'll just make everything worse. I don't know maybe it's my stupid adolescent brain making everything seem worse. This was mostly for myself, to talk to myself because I know writing is making me feel better, to vent to myself in other words. Thank you for reading this little brat's little troubles, if you did. Have a nice time for the rest of your day, you're loved.🩷 (ignore if there is any grammatical errors please bilingual probs😭)
Hey, I’m really glad you felt comfortable enough to share what you’re going through here. I know moving to a new place can be tough especially when it feels hard to fit in and make friends. I totally get how frustrating that can be. But I just want to remind you that it’s completely okay to be alone if that’s what feels right for you. There’s no need to rush or feel pressured to make friends. It's normal that sometimes, we find that being on our own can be just as fulfilling (coming from an introvert). It’s a feeling that often comes as we get closer to adulthood. And hey, don’t feel bad about venting here. Sometimes just letting it out helps a lot. Take your time and focus on what makes you feel good, whether that's spending time alone or connecting with people slowly, on your terms. I’m sure you’ll find a way to get through this. The right friendships will come naturally and until then, it's perfectly fine to enjoy your own company and embrace this time for your own.
Hey just wanted to chime in and say, I sorry you are not getting the deep relationships you are craving. It can be hard to have it and then not have it because of a move. What I will say is that most people that you meet are self-absorbed. It is getting harder and harder to find good people, who want new friends. They are out there. I don't want to push you toward any ideology, but I have made too many friends by being active in a church. By active I mean volunteering for outreach and helping in the youth ministry as a group leader. I didn't intend to make friends it just happened. School is a forced encounter. I used to speak at high schools for a non-profit and I would always try to tell students "This time right now in High School feels like the entire world. Eventually though you will leave this place and you most likely will never talk to the people that you know now. If you are struggling just know that eventually you get to decide who you are around. You get to dump anyone that is toxic and surround yourself with the people you truly enjoy." Find different places and activities that you are interested in ( concerts, libraries, comic and card stores, video game expos) and you can bet that all the people attending are also into it. You have to break the ice, you have to make the effort to show who you are. Magnetism is something that some people possess and believe me I wish I was 1/10 as naturally charismatic as my brothers. it just ain't my bag, instead what I have is a learned (in my 30s) disregard for people who don't get me. I will never force myself on anyone. I don't click with most people in a "hey they would be a good friend" way. 99% of people are just acquaintances. anyways I hope your circumstances change. One good friend is better than 1000 acquaintances. just keep on keepin on and dont dispair. Volunteer, focus on others, help people, show them your heart and they will fight to be your friend.
@@ChaseHartgraves Oh wow you're kind of making me think about me xD. I'm kind of like in the same situation as the main comment, and seeing that you've actually done the things that I'm currently doing (and also that I agree with what you wrote) is kind of, not necessarily reassuring me, but just letting me know that I'm going the right way (idk if it's understandable but anyways). Because I've also had this problem some weeks ago where I was overthinking myself about the friendships that I have and the fact that I wanted a deeper connection with somebody (and just somebody to talk to everyday). In the end I ended up realising that it didn't really matter, that the relations that I currently have are fine and that it would come with time (and also that I have God with me every moment of my life). So thanks for writing this, even thought it wasn't specifically for me, but thanks.
This is some really good advice, and i'd love to take it and put it in to action, but there's always that one part of me that knows I couldn't handle it anyway. And that's because failure always has a really strong emotional impact on me which takes a really long time to recover from. That feeling of self doubt feels completely unshakeable to me and i feel utterly stuck, unable to do anything other than repeat these thoughts inside my head and complain about my life to others, all while the guilt from being stuck builds up and makes everyday things like school or cleaning feel impossible and i constantly feel like i'm going to cry but i'm usually left with just a headache. It sounds sad, but it's how it's been going for most of my life and that's how it's probably going to end for me too. Life, for me, just feels like waiting in a lobby while watching others enjoy it, achieve it, LIVE it, all while knowing that i'll never get to have any of it for myself. I'm just slowly withering away, letting myself get consumed by addictions, bad habits and an unhealthy diet. The idea of ending it all is not yet something i'm considering but is sounding more and more enticing by the day. I'm supposed to be graduating from high school this year, but with every missed assigment, every undone task, every failed test, it's becoming less and less likely. All because of that unyelding fear of my own feelings, other's perception of me and my future failures. That combined with the guilt that comes from the failures and not being able to initiate ANYTHING new for myself is all really pathetic. I'm pathetic. It's really shameful, and nothing to be proud of. I'm nothing to be proud of. Sorry for the rant, i really felt like i had to get this out somewhere or my head would explode. If there's anyone who feels this stuck with iife right now, let me know. It would be comforting to know that i'm not the only one.
"They dont wait for confidence, they create it."
That made me smile somehow
i remember a quote, "the fear of looking stupid is holding you back." thank you. i needed this.
And then you look stupid
and it will always be there, at the back of your mind. The audacity to look stupid anyway will thrust you forward. Only when you trip like an an idiot will you genuinely hone in on how to not trip like an idiot.
Failure is the greatest teacher, and IMO, failure itself isn't even failure.
truth is, i have no idea what i *want* to be or do
Painful
I feel you man.
i am entering my 30s and i still dont know what i want to be
I'd say just keep trying new things and find something that you might enjoy and see how you go
same here. But I guess it's still time to do something. It's time to figure it out.
Dude thank you so much, this encouraged me to ask a girl to go see a movie with me and she said yes, now the only problem is I asked a girl to go see a movie with me and she said yes. I’m not prepared
Edit: we haven’t seen the movie yet but we talked and she’s unofficially my girlfriend now
2nd edit: she’s my girlfriend now
just go who gives a f if it doesnt go well ask another girl
Proud of you :)
Yes!
Better to ask her out now and it turns out that it is not "that girl" than later, someday you sit and wonder: "what if i asked HER out"
Dont worry bro failure is just part of the process 2:57
“No one is chosen. If we all waited around for a prophecy to make us special, we’d die waiting. That’s why you need to choose yourself.” ~ Edalyn Clawthorne
Omg owl house reference‼
One episode really pushed that lesson out of a cliff.
@@Petara2010_YT yes yes 🤝
Reminds me of The Frieren anime, Himmel, the Hero, didn't pull the great holy sword.. He wasn't the "prophecy" hero, but he slayed the demon king.. He didn't wait, didn't give up.. He just did what he needed to do.
The way your words pierced right through my heart and gave me a reality check. I've been holding back a lot, my goals, my aspirations, my dreams, thinking... I'm not enough or worthy even. I want this to change and I'm glad your video was recommended to me. Thank you ❤
Speaking as a natural introvert and neurodivergent, the best thing I ever did in my approach to life was to ask myself "what would my old self do in this situation, what is my gut instinct?" and... do the opposite. Oh, cute girl is going on a hike with friends and suggested I join. My normal reaction would be "absolutely not," I'm a bigger dude, I sweat too much and it's embarrassing, it's ten miles and I'm not sure I've ever walked/hiked/ran that far at once, terrifying. And I said yes anyway. And did better than I ever would have thought I could, and I look up the next week and I'm having coffee with five gorgeous girls every day after our afternoon classes because I built friendships, one of which became more. You have to overcome your own avoidance instinct to have something good!
Thank you for your comment man...
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Inspiring
Thanks for your comment! you know, what is more difficult to us is the courage. you suggested to go and hike with the girls but said "Absolutely not" but despite that you did what u wanted, most of us struggle to actually DO the thing and will probably go back home and regret. any tips on having the courage to do things? to overcome the avoidance instinct
@@joetheguy115 Your mileage may vary, and I was lucky enough to be in a "going to college in a new city and state" circumstance which help made it a bit easier, a "fresh start," but my advice would be this.
There's two forms of that avoidance, "in the moment when you're asked" and "at the last minute." For the first, it's not about overcoming that fear, you just have to do it even though you're afraid and your instincts say to avoid it. Remember: if a friendly acquaintance specifically invites you to something, it means they think they would enjoy it more if you were there. Just say yes.
We all know the worst things about ourselves, but that gal who invited me on the hike, she didn't know me as the video game nerd who'd never done well socially and had terrible self esteem, she knew me as that tall guy from Texas with some interesting stories and a good sense of humor. You just have to ignore your self doubt and fear and just say... yes. Because as the video said, why not me?
As for fighting that last-minute avoidance, my trick was this: right after you say yes, make a plan, and make a plan where one or more others depend on you. Offer to be the ride for someone, bring something important to the gathering, handle booking the reservation for the mutual friend's birthday dinner, whatever it may be. Make the fact that you show up matter to the others, beyond just "they want you there."
So that when the day comes and you face that "oh no I don't want to do the thing I committed to" anxiety, it can be outweighed by the "I don't want to let down the people who are depending on me" anxiety. "I don't want to do this" becomes "if I don't do this, two other people suddenly don't have a ride, and I don't want to do that to them, I need to get in the shower."
And suddenly you'll look up and people will know you as that sociable, dependable, likable person, and you'll see that, and it gives you that sweet, sweet release of dopamine reward, and over time you come to associate "doing the thing" with positive feelings instead of negative ones, and it gets easier and easier.
I really needed this.
I am extremely afraid of judgement. I have never played a single sport because Its uncomfortable and I don't want people to judge me. Man. Things like these are helping me lots. I am an artist, and I wouldnt call myself an introvert by any means, but I have a hard time getting out of my comfort zone. The part where you went over judgement is a really really good thing to think about. I'm still working to overcome this.
Thank you.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
I feel you man, and I hope you'll figure it out and I hope I will too
Bro I gotta be honest you are the actual GOAT man you changed some ways I think and I'm so thankful. Thank you man :]
I appreciate that!
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Fr bro, idk why but this channel is so underrated
I want someone to actually love me, but i always feel they'll leave for someone else
Dont worry young blood
Even if they do dont take it personally
Go ahead with someone else who knows maybe next person is your soulmate?
Im on same page and know how it is but lets change it together
Peace
ayy bro. no worries...i love you, yup,i love u...i know it sounds fake but i know what im saying
@whitecheez0367 i feel love is separate from any affection or sensual desire but for the true well being of someone's mental as well as physicallystate
I love you man keep treading your own path and god bless you
Why not you !!!!!!
@5GentleGiants I have this exact insecurity as well. I had a medical condition that affects my performance in bed, but after some deep conversations with the bros, its not me physically that was the problem. The problem is people who think in such manner often places their partner or crushes on a higher pedestal and unknowingly project an ideal form of a partner onto them. It festers this dark idea that you are unworthy of her because she's viewed as something more than another human.
I find a lot of guys in my position also say things such as, "I live like a dog, she'll never love someone like that," but the reality is that she also has experienced the human condition of suffering and adapting to her environment as well. Taking away that humanity will make anyone seem untouchable or too good.
Oh boy, i cried watching this, this felt so familiar. Thank you
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
crazy, just summarizes my whole life mindset. i think just like this, and it holds me back. i have moments were i overcome this fear and things happen, but i always go back o square one. but i suppose that’s life. i try, i either succeed and eventually fail or fail to begin with. it’s better to shoot a shot and miss then never fire mindset. and i still hold myself back. i fear failure, i fear negative outcomes. and i don’t do anything in the end. and i do limit myself so many times in life. and i want to change. but it’s hard, and i can’t blame it on circumstances, i can’t blame on others, only on me. why not me? well i suppose it’s because of my mind, i am guided by fear. but i need to change that. and i just needed someone to tell me. thank you
I feel you. Always keep moving forward. You can do it
The first step is to realise that you keep yourself trapped in that mindset, but it is not impossible to escape. Take a step back, evaluate and see that everyone struggles with this. You are not the only one who is in this place and not the first to escape it. It takes time, the first steps are the hardest, but when you find that motion it is going to accelerate. I’ve been an underperformer my whole life and I have been, since a few months, taking action and steps in improving my life. I still hear that negative self-loathing voice all the time, but it is now accompanied by a positive one that tells me I can do it. Don’t shut the voice out, find trust and comfort in it. It is possible, trust the process and in time it will get easier
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
This would probably be real motivational if I ever had anything I was the slightest bit passionate about. There are very few people whose opinion I respect enough for me to be afraid of their judgement, and there's nothing for me to succeed at to be afraid of failing at it.
Same. It's a rather disconnected and honestly strange experience when people often tell you to be daring, to try, to go and do all thise things you like, to fight for what you want. But what happens when that "goal" just doesn't exist? Why is it even important to have those in the first place? I am happy already just by coming back from work, getting home, putting on some comfortable clothes and just enjoy my evening at home doing my own thing.
That being said, I do agree that perhaps these kind of talks are needed for the smaller things in life. People often give these kind of speeches when talking about big ambitions and career choices, but usually forget to highlight how important the smaller goals are, something as silly as calling a parent to say hello, take your time to actually cook something, doing some kind of regular hobby two or three times a week.
Perhaps this is why I personally fail to connect to these kind of speeches, because I feel they try to push for some grandiose self fulfilling endgame that it's not there, but forget that taking a single step forward is already an achivement on its own.
You're right, man. And this is such a beautiful message. Life is so confusing and I often get overwhelmed trying to figure it all out and uncover the ultimate truths. I feel that I HAVE to know the right answers for everything or else I'll be (or really just think I am) stupid.
I was born a Type A personality, and being the late-diagnosed neurodivergent, people pleasing, former gifted kid, didn't help counteract those tendencies! 😅 I care A LOT about fairness, and justice, and truth. Sometimes too much, because it happens in a bad way that feeds my (recovering) perfectionistic instincts.
I put too much pressure on myself to not make mistakes and to think of mistakes as a bad thing, and think I am a bad person if I make them. It is really more of an emotional thing, often subconscious. Because I know logically that the real stupid thing is to expect to be perfect and never try new things and to never take risks or make mistakes. But it's like I can't get the emotional side and the logical side of my brain to work together or agree with each other.
I realized that discovering a life lesson intellectually is a completely different process from getting it to stick in your head and take it to heart, to cement it deep inside you. The emotions are more stubborn and complicated and inconsistent, but that's what they are there for. For the things logic can't do. We need both.
I keep forgetting that I don't need to already know everything about life or the world right now, and I feel bad about myself when I don't. I never know whether to continue to search for answers and think deeply and in detail, or to just relax and go with the flow. To try my best, and know that that's enough, and to love myself WITH the flaws. Everyone has them. It's probably a balance between the two. Maybe it's not as big of a deal as I think it is, then again...
Maybe it's not overthinking, and culture's resistance to in-depth reasoning and conversations is wrong. Sighhh, as you can see, I just continue to go around and around with these things. I don't know what to think, but I can't stop myself from wondering. I'll never stop. Is it open-mindedness, or futility? Philosophy or anxiety? Are these questions even answerable? Does it even matter whether they are answerable or not? Who knows?!
I do think of my rationalizations to procrastinate on my goals as reasons, rather than excuses, as I'm sure most people do. But what I forget is, you are also right, about there never being a perfect time. I keep thinking, "oh, I'll just wait until (blank) is over, then I'll start on this." But things don't always work out how we expect or hope them to. We've got to take advantage of the time we do have, in the present. We don't know how much future we have left as individuals at any given time. I don't want to regret the things I didn't do. I need to ask myself "why not" more often.
(Bonus thought, is it best to regret the things you did do, or the things you didn't do? How do you know when it's either one? Mostly it seems like it's better to take risks, interpersonally. Like, would you rather regret getting a tattoo, or regret never even giving it a chance? It is worth the possibility you won't like it? Hmmmmm.)
But the one reason I still hesitate, is my neurodiversity. I struggle to balance myself between patience and urgency. My life has forced me to be patient for many things, and when I jump into something really quickly and try to get it done right away, it never lasts. It's a burst of passion for like 2 weeks, then I'm drained, and disappointed, that it ended.
I have learned I need to pace myself to have a chance of doing things long-term. But I also don't want to unnecessarily limit myself and make things take longer than they need to. I don't want to ASSUME I can't do things, or do them a certain way. I do tend to prefer quieter more solitary things most of the time, though I enjoy hanging out with my family for some hours. Is that me respecting my boundaries, or me making excuses to never leave my comfort zone and try new things and meet new people and learn new lessons, because it's scary? I don't know! I wish I did!
Right now it really does seem futile, but I just HAVE to try to understand things, especially important things like this. Wrap it up in a neat little bow and smile, admiring my work. But in reality it's always incomplete and messy and over-complicated. Maybe I just need to accept these things about myself, and do them anyway. It's who I am.
Others may not understand my unorthodox ways, but that's ok, and it doesn't mean they are wrong. Flawed? They could be, I can't tell yet. But not wrong. Because flaws are part of life. Not that we should never try to improve ourselves, but we also need to accept the imperfection of reality. Flaws and bad things will always be there, but that doesn't mean we don't deserve love.
Anyway, I am still trying to accomplish certain goals that have been teasing me for years. Finally getting good at a certain work-from-home job I like. Developing hobbies and healthy habits. Getting fit. Saving up money for a tiny house. Making friends. Getting better at drawing and start making small comics to post on Instagram, or just for fun. Reading more, collecting books for my future bookshelf. Etc.
And I will keep working towards them, however I can, at a sustainable pace. And care less what people think of me. Do I challenge myself and see what I'm capable of (I hesitate because I got super bad burnout for a while and it SUCKED), or do I trust my confidence that I know myself? Ugh, maybe I shouldn't think about this stuff so much. I'm not getting anywhere, at least not this time. I'll just do what feels right to me. Simplify things. I think that's my best strategy for now.
Awesome video. Great job. 👌🫶
this is one of the few videos that spoke directly to my heart. Thank you. I'll use this as a reminder to start now. I'm 23 as well as you, dealing with my problems and I have been waiting for that perfect opportunity for so long. Thank you for making me see it. Your words are truly helpful for me.
This video was more than i was ever expecting in the best way possible. Helping me calm down a bit about anxiety i have over an upcoming plan.
But to top it all off, what i wasn't expecting the most was the final clip you used. The man running out onto the roof and the meteors falling from the sky. That clip is from a music video by the kpop boy group Tomorrow X Together. And since discovering them two years ago, their music has saved me more times than i can count. I'm not even into kpop that much, but them in particular really resonated with me. Their songs about growing up being overwhelming, that life isn't a fairytale, but as long as you have tomorrow, things can work out.
So while you might have not known the clip, and maybe i'm one of the few who do and feel this way towards it, it was a really nice reminder at the end of the video. That i can do it. Because i still have tomorrow.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Been hearing this kind of stuff for almost my whole life. I don't know what clicked in my brain, but the video now actually hit me (like in the good way). Why shouldn't it be me? Never thought that a video can open up my perspective by this much, but.. thank you.
You're right. Everything I have ever done has been in service of others. Doing what my family or friends have wanted or expected. Its time for me to step up. Do the things I want to. Start on the things I've always told myself I was never good enough to do.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
5:36 Even though I'm now at the start of my route to the best version of me, I broke down after hearing this. I'm still just 20. But I've lost so many opportunities in my life already. Some I can never get back again. I've been failing myself for so long. And I don't want to disappoint myself ever again.
No joke out of all the videos ive seen, ive struggled for ages and this video, this video is the one i needed! Thank you so much and i wish you the best.
Go in with whatever knowledge you have. Watch the whole thing blow up in your face. Or cherish a new success. Keep moving forward. Experience is the greatest teacher. That, no one can take from you.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Literally watched this video a week ago and the impact it's making on my life is OUTSTANDING. This and a few others are changing my life for the best, TYSMM. My friends notice how much more confident and happy I am too! Your AMAIZNG!!
I pray that you thrive in your life in Jesus' name 🙏
This was necessary.
Thanks man
Thanks a LOT.
I'm very thankful for this video, I always go back to this video when I doubt myself, I hope I will become the best version of me and reduce doubting myself.
This is great to see someone else say in this level of detail, and to see as I prepare to come out to my family. I use this alongside "what if I was the kind of person who... (fill in the blank)", which I'm also glad you mention, and both have helped slowly nudge me back to presence and progress.
Sweet and simple. Love this bro
I think I agree with totally, like hell that's me. The question "why not me?" is not first here. Most of us here are stopped because are standards. We have put up a standard for every thing. And when not meant, the only thing that is in our mind is "You will fail".
Also the fear to lose, terrifies us.
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Confidence doesn't lead to action, action leads to confidence.
That is a profound thought!
Thanks bro for encouragement.
Thank you for encuriging me to believe more into myself,i have taken more risks and i see that i can do anything i think is impossible by just taking the first step forward,and so should you❤
How do you have zero views bro. Very underrated.
Thank you!
Same thought.. best of luck bro.. very insightful.. amazing content.. you have earned a subscriber...
Hi, bro has 11k views when I watched :)
24k when i saw it! I hope it keeps going up
0 views but he did it anyway. Thats the point of the video 😂 and now he has 54k 🙌
I am so grateful that the algorithm suggested one of your videos to me. I just watched your videos and I really like your channel. Thank you so much for taking the time to make these kinds of videos because it helps me a lot, especially this video, I struggle a lot with this subject and just seeing this video helped me so much. Keep it up because I can assure you that you help more than one. Thank you so much.
These words are like the bitter medicine that I've been avoiding for long time, but is inevitable if I'm genuinely want to move to the next stage of my life. Thank you so much!
Thank you for such positive and thought provoking content.
You deserve and will gather many more followers.
I just watched 3 videos of yours, I learned a lot and somehow you changed the way I think of certain things, seems it's my new fav channel
this was some next level pep-talk, thankyou! i actually managed to quit my job where i had a horrible boss who bullied me.
now i just need to manage my anxiety and stress of not having an income for a while though, but it felt good being able to flip my boss off. no more taking shit!
As an introvert who now puts himself out there more than most people do, do yourself and everyone else a favor. Let it be you. You need it for you, and a lot of other people will be inspired by you
"This is the right time. Right now, in the middle of whatever chaos you're dealing with, this is when you take the leap." Well said. I felt that.
Thanks you so much for this video ilysm ❤
Thank you, this is very relatable to me! This may change my life and how life feels like...
"The world needs what you bring to the table"
Thank you. I found this video just randomly pop up on my front page the moment i opened RUclips.
It's true i've been doubting myself because I am afraid of other people's judgement, what they think of me or what I do. I see a lot of my friends get a job after graduation, most of them are 22. I'm 27, and I'm still afraid to take that leap into "real life". I just started making RUclips after graduation (around 5 months i think), and the way people (or maybe myself) see it, It is just a waste of time. Makes me think i'm wasting my talents, the time that i could've used to get a job and a real life. But I'm afraid, I still am. But that last line in the video spoke to me. I feel like I have something to offer.
Thank you again.
Bro, I really needed this....
I've been spending five years of my life hoping for a change, while I did nothing to change... I saw my life crumble slowly, knowing I can be the best at what I like... but never tried and got stuck
after all this time I just started to do something for once.
I'm feeling the same way as you. Just for once, start doing things with all your ability. I wish you all the best!
@zolohihihaha4047 Thanks a lot man. Good luck to you as well!
This video just changed my life in the best way possible. Thank you, I’m so grateful ❤
Totally familiar😢
Thank you for encouragement bro
I’m literally crying after watching this TwT
Bro I love the vibe of your videos. 🫶🏻
ur a legend thank you for pushing my sense of self-esteem
Ive spent my whole student life thinking abt what otgers would judge abt me. And your words"Create confidence" was beautiful. I never joined any sprts or mixed much with others so i felt i didnt beling in a group
Man. This is a good video. I literaly just got called out. All the points you made really hit home. It sumes up my life. basically to afried to take the risk. Thank you for making and sharing! also I really like the look and Feel of this video. I always loved the aesthetic in these types videos.
I really needed this thank you. your awesome, I'm awesome, were all awesome in our own ways, we just need to show it to each other and the world. :) ;)
I hope ya all see the sunrise im watching atm, thanks for the courage words you gave us ❤
needed this today. tysm
You made me tears, man.
I have no idea what I wanna be or what to do with my life, i have 26 years old, working as customer service for 3 years after my military service and no idea what to do with my own life beside going to work and back to play few hours on my PC and then sleep, i wish i can do a lot of things but feels like standing in limbo forever and can't do anything with my own life.
I always wish to learn and do new things but my fire has faded long ago and can't ignite it anymore, it might spark a little but once i start do a new thing, it just fade away again.
I watch all of your videos,keep going! I really like it,it's like a savior in my life. :D
Thank you so much! Your words are really so beautiful and a motivation for myself to just start instead of saying "one day " ! ❤❤
Why did this bring tears to my eyes ... Anyway , thank u for this realisation, joined the fam 💗
I want to be an artist, and I won’t have to say how risky that industry is to have a stable job, this is definitely needed. It’s still terrifying but there’s nothing else I want to do with my life
thank you man i really needed this
I have already asked the question myself in a way, and this video feels reassuring that I am not alone.
Thanks bro. I really needed this🤟🏻
Thank you my friend, I'm was at the same place feeling stuck and stressed but I took a leap of faith and dropout from my college, I always wanted to do something big and that's not the right place, its scary and painful but I'm feeling happy that I have listened to myself and going all in to make my passion into career.
Big decision man, wish you the best
Thank you, man!
thank you for these videos makes me think...
"confidence don't come automatically, you create it"
as someone who has started my journey 8 months ago, i agree
what journey did you start?
This was very eye opening. Thanks mate!
Thank you so much, I really needee that 💙
Thank you for the message
Just failed a big test this weekend, even though I studied a lot for it. Needed that video to keep going, thank you
Dang, the questions you asked, exactly matched with mine, specially with the waiting for the right time....
Wow... Breathless.. Just WOW
Ive been starting to figure things out for the past couple of months now. But there was always that one thing missing. This video really helped me understand that I just got to stop caring as much about others opinions and just don't look back.
Great video man, you explain things simply and just say things the way they are. 👍
what a great video! thanks for this one
Holy fucking shit dude! This is what I needed to hear. Thanks man!
I am gonna download it and watch whenever i feel bad or whenever i am demotivated thank you a lot
Thanks bro. I really need to hear this !
Only an introvert can truly understand an introvert 😭😭😭
This hit hard 🤧
Repent of your sins. Praise Father God, The Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit! He loves you more than you can comprehend! Accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and Repent of your sins! The Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the cross so you can have a chance to be saved if you Truly Repent of your sins to him, Accept him as your Lord and Savior, be a true follower of him, do the will of Father God, Believe in Father God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit, have Genuine Faith in him, live for him, pray to him, spread his word, read his word, and give your life to him. Jesus Christ was beaten, spat on, had a crown of thorns on his head that hurt his scalp! He had to alternate between arching his back and using his legs to be able to breath! He died so we can have a chance to be saved! God Bless you, your families, friends, and enemies, and have a Blessed day!!🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾 🙏🏾✝️
Everything you said to me applies for but instead of right time I convinced myself that I don’t like what I’m doing right now this made me feel like I don’t like anything, now I’m just sitting not doing anything thinking what I did that brought me joy or some form of confidence so can make that my career, only thing I can think of is cooking and cleaning since I helped my mom with it from childhood but only thing stopping me is I did masters in cybersecurity I don’t have enough courage to convince my parents that
How can I do that?
"lacking even basic social skills isnt a flex, its 'skill issue '"
so true bro
introvertedness =/= social awkwardness
If ppl stop giving awkward stares and mocking everyone... And actually try to be nice for once... Many ppl will start being extroverted@@pizzapizzza4607
it isn't. I hate small talk to my guts and it's ruining my life, it's not a lack of skill, I just hate it and want deep connections straight up
Then, you still need to learn how to open up better without it feeling intrusive to yourself. People already sense that, and it's not an attractive feeling. You can want things without dumping the unknown into someone else.
@lognomodeimeme
THIS is what I needed. IM READY FOR CHANGE
Thank you, man. You got another subscriber.🤝
Why Not ?
Because it Will! I Am!
And i will not give up until it is!
And you can too!
but if not trying is a worse kind of failure and failure is THE fundamental part of the process, then you already are going on the right direction. everything sums, even waiting, bc there ain't growth without patience.
trust yourself
I remember my drum instructor once said
“Confidence is an action, not a feeling”
real
Great video! Felt really authentic too..
I'm taking some risks during my last 2 years of highschool (currently in 12th grade) and have so many uncertainties about my future (planning to study abroad for college) so this video was really needed. I rarely ever comment on RUclips videos but I felt like I must do my duty after I saw the low number in this one.
I've spent so much effort down this path - despite the amount of doubt, fear, uncertainty. I'm not going to be stopped by some stupid what ifs.
Thank you.
You can do it. Don't ever doubt yourself.
@@someunfilteredguy Thank you.. I'll make sure to update you in the future, with great news hopefully!!
@@ATeima-kk5psHoping for the best!
Simple advice is best. Great video 👌
….i’m saving this video.
I'm keeping it and replaying it every time I feel like I need it. I'm so glad this showed up on my recommendations. 🙏🙏🙏🙇🙇🙇
thanks for motivation . ❤
Thank God that we can do all things through Him;He strengthens us ❤ God bless you
probably one of the best motivational video focusing more on harsh reality rather than those fake dopamine spikes
Good content and really helps keep it up, great work!
Idk why, but the thought "Probably no one is thinking about me right now" is so freeing.
I love these lines the most from your video: "1:54 They started anyway, they moved forward with all the doubts, because they didn't wait for confidence they created it." "4:52 This is the right time, right now in the middle of whatever chaos you are dealing with, this is when you take the leap."
Nice video but I feel it's more about being insecure than being introverted. They're completely different things, you can be introverted without being insecure.
Hi, don't know why but I feel comfortable enough to dump it all here for some reason lmaoo I'm a teenager, recently moved to a new city due to my dad's work. Everything is cool, new school, new people, and at least I thought, new friends. Almost everybody at school knows each other from the last year or even a longer time, so many middle school and even primary school friends that are really close to each other. No one is particularly mean to me or exclude me but I feel like an outcast. I've tried many times to talk to them, to get closer to new people, I believe I am liked, but no one was really interested in getting to know me or be close to me. The ones did was not really the friends I was looking for and I am not going to waste time with people I don't want to be close with, choosing great friends were always a major importance for me. I don't go ignoring those people or anything, I talk to them of course but only when they want to.
People I wanted to get close with, like I've said wasn't really interested. I thought people would like to get to know about me since I am from the other side of the country developed part, or that I recently moved so they would like to tell me about the place, school, friends, anything. Anything at all. Everyone has their own friend group already and joining later on made me feel not so great since everyone's attention is on their own friends, their own circle of people. It's the fact that no one comes and strikes up a conversation with me, asks me if I want to join them, ask me to do anything at all. I joined a few groups but they were focused on their own, talking to each other while I'm just standing there, or following them. I'm just there. There.
I often go back and think about my friends I left back in the city I was born and raised in, they all have their new circle of friends, new people, new life, boyfriends, girlfriends, whatever. I am not interested in any romantic relationship, but seeing them already moved on and happy with themselves when I don't have any friend to go out and explore the city I don't know much about, the malls, the cafes my age group likes to go to. It doesn't make me feel any better, I feel jealous of my friends who I've grown to know as a family even though I don't want to. I just want friends.
I'm confident in the fact that I'm not weird, unlikable, unfriendly or anything. It could be related to me being and introvert which I am still not very sure of (I could be ambivert or more like an extroverted introvert), and don't have much social battery. I'm cool with being social all day, but when my efforts don't get a reply, I lost the motivation to get closer to people. I've been drowning in hws and exams, and feel exhausted already since I struggle with studying a lot. I didn't think I would feel this way. To be honest, once in my life I never thought I wouldn't have friends around me who constantly checked on me. I was thinking maybe all this is for me to toughen up, to get to know myself better. But the more I think of not making friends and going through my once will be lived youth alone, it just makes me feel in a way I don't know the name of lol
These type of videos has been on my feed for a few weeks, for my self growth, for my motivation, I came to realize lots of things, but it doesn't help people wanting to spend time with me. Maybe I should leave it to time, but as time passes I feel like I lose my joy in being new and allat, I talked to my mom, my dad, for a vacation back to the city I came from so I can reunite with my friends I've missed so much. Don't think they'll let me go by myself far away and stay over at a friend but I think it will help me feel better a lot. I've made plans in my head and with my friends what we'll do if I go, and if I don't go I think it'll just make everything worse. I don't know maybe it's my stupid adolescent brain making everything seem worse.
This was mostly for myself, to talk to myself because I know writing is making me feel better, to vent to myself in other words. Thank you for reading this little brat's little troubles, if you did. Have a nice time for the rest of your day, you're loved.🩷
(ignore if there is any grammatical errors please bilingual probs😭)
Hey, I’m really glad you felt comfortable enough to share what you’re going through here. I know moving to a new place can be tough especially when it feels hard to fit in and make friends. I totally get how frustrating that can be. But I just want to remind you that it’s completely okay to be alone if that’s what feels right for you. There’s no need to rush or feel pressured to make friends. It's normal that sometimes, we find that being on our own can be just as fulfilling (coming from an introvert). It’s a feeling that often comes as we get closer to adulthood. And hey, don’t feel bad about venting here. Sometimes just letting it out helps a lot. Take your time and focus on what makes you feel good, whether that's spending time alone or connecting with people slowly, on your terms. I’m sure you’ll find a way to get through this. The right friendships will come naturally and until then, it's perfectly fine to enjoy your own company and embrace this time for your own.
Hey just wanted to chime in and say, I sorry you are not getting the deep relationships you are craving. It can be hard to have it and then not have it because of a move. What I will say is that most people that you meet are self-absorbed. It is getting harder and harder to find good people, who want new friends. They are out there. I don't want to push you toward any ideology, but I have made too many friends by being active in a church. By active I mean volunteering for outreach and helping in the youth ministry as a group leader. I didn't intend to make friends it just happened. School is a forced encounter. I used to speak at high schools for a non-profit and I would always try to tell students "This time right now in High School feels like the entire world. Eventually though you will leave this place and you most likely will never talk to the people that you know now. If you are struggling just know that eventually you get to decide who you are around. You get to dump anyone that is toxic and surround yourself with the people you truly enjoy." Find different places and activities that you are interested in ( concerts, libraries, comic and card stores, video game expos) and you can bet that all the people attending are also into it. You have to break the ice, you have to make the effort to show who you are. Magnetism is something that some people possess and believe me I wish I was 1/10 as naturally charismatic as my brothers. it just ain't my bag, instead what I have is a learned (in my 30s) disregard for people who don't get me. I will never force myself on anyone. I don't click with most people in a "hey they would be a good friend" way. 99% of people are just acquaintances. anyways I hope your circumstances change. One good friend is better than 1000 acquaintances. just keep on keepin on and dont dispair. Volunteer, focus on others, help people, show them your heart and they will fight to be your friend.
Sending you hugs and love
It’s crazy that you just described my situation and thoughts, we have no unique experience us humans😂.
@@ChaseHartgraves Oh wow you're kind of making me think about me xD. I'm kind of like in the same situation as the main comment, and seeing that you've actually done the things that I'm currently doing (and also that I agree with what you wrote) is kind of, not necessarily reassuring me, but just letting me know that I'm going the right way (idk if it's understandable but anyways). Because I've also had this problem some weeks ago where I was overthinking myself about the friendships that I have and the fact that I wanted a deeper connection with somebody (and just somebody to talk to everyday). In the end I ended up realising that it didn't really matter, that the relations that I currently have are fine and that it would come with time (and also that I have God with me every moment of my life). So thanks for writing this, even thought it wasn't specifically for me, but thanks.
Thank you for being real
I love being an introvert
This is some really good advice, and i'd love to take it and put it in to action, but there's always that one part of me that knows I couldn't handle it anyway. And that's because failure always has a really strong emotional impact on me which takes a really long time to recover from. That feeling of self doubt feels completely unshakeable to me and i feel utterly stuck, unable to do anything other than repeat these thoughts inside my head and complain about my life to others, all while the guilt from being stuck builds up and makes everyday things like school or cleaning feel impossible and i constantly feel like i'm going to cry but i'm usually left with just a headache. It sounds sad, but it's how it's been going for most of my life and that's how it's probably going to end for me too. Life, for me, just feels like waiting in a lobby while watching others enjoy it, achieve it, LIVE it, all while knowing that i'll never get to have any of it for myself. I'm just slowly withering away, letting myself get consumed by addictions, bad habits and an unhealthy diet. The idea of ending it all is not yet something i'm considering but is sounding more and more enticing by the day. I'm supposed to be graduating from high school this year, but with every missed assigment, every undone task, every failed test, it's becoming less and less likely. All because of that unyelding fear of my own feelings, other's perception of me and my future failures. That combined with the guilt that comes from the failures and not being able to initiate ANYTHING new for myself is all really pathetic. I'm pathetic. It's really shameful, and nothing to be proud of. I'm nothing to be proud of.
Sorry for the rant, i really felt like i had to get this out somewhere or my head would explode. If there's anyone who feels this stuck with iife right now, let me know. It would be comforting to know that i'm not the only one.
Ur actually the goat don’t let nobody tell u otherwise