Awful Weddings Getting Called Out On Social Media - REACTION
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Hey ya'll! Today on my channel we are reacting to some awful weddings that got called out on social media! Enjoy :)
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I love entitled people. I love entitled brides.
I love the scammers exposed
I don't even think I have a favourite. It's the way you present the material that is my favourite thing.
Entitled Karen's, entitled influencers, bridezilla's, I'm sure there some I'm missing!
atm.... covid shaming. ya never know when it might wake someone up and save a life!
I got married at 21 in a registry office with 5 friends attending. I wore red and everyone picked flowers from their garden for my bouquet. My husband was late as his Mum and Dad were still trying to talk him out of it. We went to kfc afterwards and then saw Terminator at the movies, followed by attending a rugby match (kiwi as hell). Almost 40 years later we are still best buddies. When will people realise that it's not the wedding that counts, it's the relationship. Stay awesome 🌞
I frickin' love this story!!! 💜 I mean, except the talking out of lol
Haha this is so NZ! What a great story
Kiwi as bro😂😂❤️
@@CriticallyMe my husband's parents spent another 20 years angry, evidently they thought he'd make a good priest😂🤟
Yes!!
Guest wearing a wedding dress at a wedding ? There’s nothing that can’t be solved with a good glass of red wine 😈
Exactly because that white dress can be instantly red.🤣
Yes!!!!! I would throw a glass for my friend! Lol
I like you style
This is the kind of attitude that would get you invited to my wedding if I weren't already married.
Perfect! 😂
I feel like it should be an unwritten rule that if a person shows up to a wedding in a white dress, then they have to wear a sign that says “I’m not the bride, I’m just tacky”. Lol
I would personally hand out those signs!
Unless they’re a child
I would say its a cultural thing. On our wedding, most people wore light colours. the groom, groomsmen and some guest wore white/off white tops called barong. My mother and mother in-law wore dresses that were both very light cream/almost white= but different styles. my flower girls wore white fluffy dresses with a cobalt blue sash. and though it's been more that 20 years, im pretty sure some of the women guest wore white. I love it. coz the whole wedding party looked coordinated. and a lot of the wedding ive been to are the same. people can wear what ever colour they want, but most people would opt for light colours and white and cream are common. fast forward to 20 years or so later and i hear this new rule of white being taboo in a wedding😅
I think wearing white to a wedding where only the bride is expected to wear white should become an unwritten call to action - like an Open Season declaration. ANY guest, staff etc will then be completely justified if they ruin their outfit...
@@ronniemolina3254 I don't think the 'white only for the bride' thing applies to all weddings... Like most Indian weddings, you won't see ANYONE wearing white since it is seen as a colour of mourning. In some of our cultures, we wear white to funerals. However, we also have cultures where the entire wedding has people exclusively in white.... I think the point is, if you are attending the kind of wedding where the bride is expected to be the only one to wear white, don't wear white! In my family, you'd get dirty looks if you wore either white or black to a wedding. Both are considered inauspicious colours.
I was engaged after 3 dates. Everyone told us it wouldn’t last. Just celebrated 25 years! Sometimes you just know you’ve found “the one”.
My grandparents married after two weeks and were truly, genuinely happy for 35 years until he died of Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. My Grandmother lived another 21 years and had many men ask her for dates, and she adamantly refused because, “When you had the best, you don’t want the rest.”
I've never understood the mother of the groom wearing white to her son's wedding. Like why? You wanna pretend you're getting married to your son instead? It's weird.
I was thinking the same.
Maybe she wants to re-live her moment.
Still it means that she's leeching on someone else's moment and she ruins the picture.
I know, weird. Def gives off creepy incest vibes
Narcissistic mothers do things like this
That poor guy grew up in a Freudian nightmare
They can expect me to be tipsy and “accidentally” spill red wine on them
My mom and stepdad knew each other 2 weeks when they got married. Were married for 23 years when she passed away. Sometimes it does work. 💜
Broooo. My parents only had one meeting together before they married. They been together for 26 years and still are.
It’s the commitment to make it work. Some people don’t believe relationships are disposable
I met my husband the day i got engaged 😂. Brown parents amiright?! 😂 but i am immensely lucky to have someone so loving, caring and amazing father. Not every marriage turns out that way.
Ditto... My parents met through a letter-writing "Sheila Woods" article in the back of a magazine. Mom had met 2 other guys, had dated one 4 months, was preparing to fly out to N. Carolina to meet his family while my sister and I stayed with our grandparents. She walked out to the mailbox to get the mail, letter from "Hal", my stepdad, (dad) was in there. She read it, wrote him back. Never met the other guy's parents. Dad came down 2 weeks later, 2 weeks after that they were married. 9 months later I had another baby sister...lol They had 25 years of happy marriage before dad was taken by Non-Hodgkin's. One of the best men to ever walk the Earth.
@@shawnsisler3743 omfg 🥺 Thank you for this story.
I love love.
I adored everyone’s story above my comment too!
We had our guests take photos with disposable cameras we provided, and we loved how they turned out (plus it gave the kids in attendance something fun to do).
Our entire wedding cost less than $2500 USD and was a complete blast-we let the guests and caterers take leftover food and cake home, no ridiculous demands on clothing (my MIL and several of our friends wore jeans), and the bouquet and centerpiece flowers were zinnias from my mom’s garden.
Looking back on the photos now, I see happy memories and happy people (which is bittersweet since my MIL passed away several years ago).
Best engagement story I’ve ever heard was how my parents got engaged (it’s also the shortest engagement I’ve ever heard as well).
My dad proposed to my mom after dating for maybe 2 months.
My parents got in a bit of an argument right before my mom went to Indiana to visit family at a lake. My dad was golfing with friends and in the middle of it he throws down the clubs and just leaves (guy at my dad’s funeral said my dad was supposed to be his ride home that day.). He drives to Indiana, (from Illinois) ends up finding the lake they’re stay at (this was way before gps and computers). He asks her to marry him right then and there in front of her family that he has never met. He wanted to be married in a month. She told him if he can get a wedding together in a month, she’ll marry him in a month.
He went back home, and got a church, venue, guest invite, food, EVERYTHING. Had it all ready in 30 days like he said he would. All my mom had to do was get a dress. I’ve seen pictures, it was beautiful wedding. Didn’t look just thrown together and rushed.
He said while he was golfing, all he could think about was my mom. He was golfing horribly, couldn’t get his head in the game. He said he realized right then that he loved my mom.
He passed away about 7 months before their 40th anniversary.
That's honestly beautiful and goals
Lovely, lovely story. My condolences on the loss of your dad. It’s difficult losing loved ones.
He married her to get his game back 🤣🥲💜 beautiful 😂❤️
stop this made me cry 😭 thats so sweet
And she didn't have to wedding plan lol
If my fiancée starts walking down the aisle in an American flag wedding dress, I'll be gone before she arrives at the altar.
Of course, I'm single.
And Canadian.
Hey I'm American & I'm right there with ya mate. It's tacky af & I guarantee you the chick that had it made was a psycho Qanon believing anti-vaxxer karen. The people that make the biggest deal out of being "patriots/patriotic" are generally the idiots that literally have no clue about our history & that their support for orange voldemort was support for a fascist & thereby the complete antithesis of patriotism.
@@bhart3321 LOL 😆 Your description is perfection! I'm American myself, and I 100% approve this message. When I saw that White Trash Tammy "My ❤ belongs to Jesus and Trump Ya'll! (not necessarily in that order)..." Patriotic Wedding "Dress" the eye roll was hard. A flag draped around a bodice is hardly a dress. Exactly, looks like the *uniform* for every Trump Rally/Anti-Mask and/or Anti-Vaxxer March/QAnon Gathering/Insurrection. Of course they are all too stupid to know that wearing the flag is actually both unpatriotic and unlawful. Yes, stay away from these Facists. Don't even make eye contact!!
The ironic thing is that it's against the US flag code to wear the flag. Those hyperpatriots don't even do patriotism right.
I’d put money on the fact that the husband was wearing camo and half the wedding was armed lmao
No kidding. There's wearing patriotic clothing, and I say this as an American, but your wedding dress? That's just...weird
Bought a lovely linen and spring floral gown at Macy's. Got married at the courthouse in a Judge's chamber with two witnesses and had a small family and friends reception at the in-laws afterwards. Saved all of the money that would have been spent on a wedding and put a down payment on our first house instead. We celebrated 49 years in April.
My dream maybe someday ♥️♥️
Congrats! That’s wonderful!
My husband and I basically eloped. We got married at the 24-Hour Church of Elvis in Portland. Entire thing cost less than $200, including the license. We celebrated 23 years last December.
Laura. Congratulations on being so Wise. I have always said that the money WASTED on expensive Engagement Rings and over the top weddings would make a great deposit on a house and YOU AND YOUR MAN PROVED IT. With those smarts, no wonder you have stayed together this long. Brilliant.
Got married in casual clothes that we both wore to death in the years following the wedding. Ceremony was in a park, lunch was a banquet at the local Chinese restaurant then we rocked on back to ours and got very merry.....cost less than $400 and we're still going strong 28 years later.
I love this! I did the same in 2012 and our 5 year old was with us. She’s 14 and our son is 8. We were together since 2005 😊
On the freaky fast military wedding: My sister got engaged to this guy she was dating for a few months before he shipped out for an 8 month deployment. None of us liked him. Not our family, our friends, no one. I sat down with her for coffee and told her flat out: "I don't think you should marry him." I also said that after we left the coffee shop I wouldn't say another word about it. They got married anyway and he was super controlling and kept her away from all of us as much as he could. We are a very close family so he didn't always get his way, but he stayed away as much as he could. They ended up getting divorced 7 years later and she thought we would hate her for it. We were all thrilled! (I don't care for divorce but this guy can pound sand.) She confided in me (We are very close) that she was surprised the family took it so well. I told her that we all hated him and couldn't be happier that he is gone. She asked why we didn't say anything (I didn't mention that I DID say something) and I told her, what did you expect us to say? He was your husband. We hardly saw you as it was and we didn't want to drive you away. Now she has an awesome (Albeit, goober-ish) husband and they just had their first baby. We are stoked.
You don't care for divorce? Who does? That's like saying "I don't care for stomach flu."
@@Tracymmo I guess what I mean is that I think our society has made divorce so commonplace that marriage is practically pointless. Too many give up too easily. I don't care for society's view of marriage/divorce. It's transactional. Either you are committed or you're not. Relationships take hard work and too many people are in it for what they get, not what they give.
@@Tracymmo rude much?
@@tylerroberts5230 or….maybe it’s not the 1950s anymore and people no longer have to stay in toxic or abusive marriages🙄
@@Tracymmo Nobody care about divorce if the person was in a toxic relationship. If anything I'd throw a divorce party for that person to celebrate the fact they got back their freedom this other awful being took away.
Tip for a calmer wedding.
When I got married, we did the get married part first and the photos second. Long before the day when we were in the war room during one of our many planning sessions ( we basically did everything ourselves to keep to a super strict budget), I had brought up having a small table of food around after the wedding. That way people could nibble on stuff while they waited. It would give them something to do and would stave off low blood sugar.
Everyone said it would be too much work and we wouldn't need it.
We so needed it.
Keep you people well fed. Most people no matter how nice can go psycho when their blood sugar drops.
For the lady who was insisting on wearing a white, very detailed dress to her wedding: Just let the person wear the dress. But just have her sit at the table with all the little rambunctious pre-school kids, who, naturally, instead of being served wine, they will be serve Grape Juice in paper cups (the very squishable pleated kind ) 😈
Or sit her on a chair which juice has already been spilt on…
Where she's more likely to get something spilled on that white dress 🤭
Oooh nasty! I love it 😁
Or give a couple of kids water guns with goblies paint in them.
A nice touch, use the wedding's colors
They should hire someone to find a way to spill the wine over her dress so she will have no choice but to change it.
Ok yes I had a covid wedding, however we changed everything. I had a wedding planned with 80+ guests and the full party when the pandemic hit and I had 1 month to change everything. We ended up have just 8 people in my parents backyard, but we live streamed it so everyone else got to see it. No one got sick, and when everything is safe again we will have the wedding of our dream and a vow renewal! No it was nothing like I expected, but it was worth keeping EVERYONE safe!💜💚💙
Smart! ✅
You are awesome, thank you for using your head during this ducked up time
Thank you for being a decent human being with a brain instead of a douche canoe
we had to move ours three times - the first one was April 1st and was delayed by the beginning of the pandemic.
def smart! I hope 2022 is your year then!! :D
The couple that lost their wedding photographer due to breakup: ask one of your responsible teenager relatives. Most young adults are awesome about taking pics & catching amazing videos. I think a lot of people look over that option. Most teens would jump at chance to be involved.
My auntie took my brothers wedding photos, she wasn't a photographer just had a decent camera
The 1st one, the girl had COVID and knew it, AND STILL WENT TO THE WEDDING! That’s why the bride was saying that it was selfish. All so she could attend a wedding
No i think that she said she found out the day after but if she knew i would be pissed to
@@Urmommma467 I meeeeean what are the chances? Idk..
She must have had it already. Incubation is longer than one day.
My parents married after knowing each other for 3 months. They were together for 45yrs until my father passed last December. Sometimes, there really is love at first sight and, you know it's going to be forever.
I'm so sorry for you and your mother's loss🌷 My mom lost her true love two weeks ago to Covid and it's absolutely breaking me how sad she is. I want to take all her sadness away. So I wish you both the best life full of happiness and peace💗
I think what our parents knew that we forget sometimes : Love isn't enough, commitment means work and perseverance.
Ps : Lost my mom too this year, I'm very sorry for your Loss and hope you're feeling ok ❤ I wish you rock your life and enjoy the best of it.
It seems like we all lost a lot this last year. I'm so sorry for both of y'all. And, I think you're right. There is a determination and fight that comes with being someone for the rest of your life. I truly believe it's worth it, though.
@@gwlad1575 Agree, I think that was more likely to successfully happen with the previous generations
We need an update on little Miss $30k postponed-wedding-but-thanks-for-the-cash!
Yes, we do!
Unfortunately there’s no update - it was a hoax / PR scheme
@@meggiekate1787 That's a shame. Lol.
@@meggiekate1787 How do you know it was a hoax/PR scheme? Was there some follow up with that claim?
@@fdm2155
Several people commented it on the old video.
Omg, I’m getting married next year and just discovered your channel. Absolutely love this series 😂
Congrats! Please don’t be a bridezilla 😊
I always thought it would be fun to let all the women wear their wedding dresses to my wedding! You spend all that money on your dress and only get to wear it once, why not ?
* Im not the kind of person who has to be the *absolute center of attention*. A wedding is supposed to be a celebration of love, and pledging your life to another person, in front of all your friends and family, it would make sure everyone has a great time and would definitely remember that day for the rest of their lives! It's not like people would mistake who the actual real bride that day was, just because some other women are wearing their wedding dresses too 🤷
That would be great. Haha if only we could still fit them though.
That's assuming they all got married, had a wedding dress, still have it, still fit it... Gorgeous idea and I love the reasoning behind it, but logistically not feasible.
What a fun idea!
Why did you say you’re not the person who has to be the absolute center of attention?
Kinda makes me think you’re implying brides not wanting others to wear a wedding dress is negatively being the center of attention.
I don't know, I kinda like that idea!
I'm only 20, so a wedding is far out (I don't even have a relationship, 😂 I don't even have friends because graduating in 2020 left me with no phone numbers or contact information) but I already want an atypical wedding.
Like, for one, I'm autistic, and in my particular case (since everyone is a spectrum, of course,) I am extremely texture sensitive. I'm not just the autistic girl who yeets wet socks into space, but I also can't wear anything with lacy details, sequins, beads, etc. And it just so happens that a lot of that goes right on a wedding dress by default.
So I've actually considered a "wear what's comfortable" policy instead of the typical guidelines. Since most of the people I click with in general are autistic or are some form of ND, and whoever I end up with probably will be as well, I don't see why I should be an ass and expect everyone to wear shit that could cause meltdowns when I don't even want to wear the shit down the aisle.
Plus, I get that there is a code of white, red, or whatever, but I don't understand social cues anyway, so it would be a situation of "this sign doesn't affect me because I can't read." And I don't need a person to telegraph with their dress that they're an asshole; in my case, words speak louder than actions, and a conversation will provide way more context of how a person is an asshole than the color of the dress they're wearing.
So if a person wears white to my event, ok. I will figure out their reasoning by talking to them. And anyway, it isn't like I don't have a default color anyway (because I used to get yelled at all the time for walking out the door in conflicting clothes, my most famous incident being a loud polkadot shirt with loud striped pants, almost all of my clothes are tag-less black Gildan T-shirts and black leggings or sweatpants. Black works with everything, so black is what I wear.)
I'd rather have everyone be comfortable and have fun than stick to the rules everyone seems to be handed once they want to get married. In a weird way, my perfect wedding would be one where everyone could unmask and just be who they are instead of stifling themselves, which is the opposite of what a wedding is supposed to be, ironically.
So, I guess what I'm saying is, sure, go ahead! Break the rules! Who gives a shit! And if someone doesn't have a wedding dress, maybe they have a dress from another event (me, I have a dozen dresses from dances or Prom, and I'd love to wear them again, but that's apparently "tacky.") It's your day! Have fun!
My husband met me and my three month old daughter and we got married four months later. He adopted my daughter and we just celebrated our 35th anniversary. It can work.
That’s a lovely story. Sounds like you got the perfect guy! Lucky lady! Wishing you all the best!
@@Momcat_maggiefelinefan Thank you. I was very blessed. I forgot I left this comment and it was a bit of a shock to read. It brought home just how quickly life can change. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and my love was gone in just under three months. Cherish your loved ones. You never know how much time you have with them. ❤️
@@sherrimiller5258 I just lost a long time friend to breast cancer. I understand your pain, although losing your husband must have been a horrible experience. My heart goes out to you.
@@Momcat_maggiefelinefan I’m sorry for your loss as well. I pray they discover a cure in my lifetime. Blessings to you.
@@sherrimiller5258 Both my friend and I were RN’s in a big teaching hospital in Toronto, Sue in cardiac ICU, me in the ER. There has been a significant number of critical care nurses who have died from cancer. Upon investigation the consensus of opinion is our not that great exposure to X-rays. Sue got a lot more exposure than me because all ICU patients have a daily chest X-ray. My exposure was much less. But it is now considered a risk of exposure by consent as we were in critical care! I think it’s nurse abuse … better a nurse than a doctor …
Loss of life is a loss that we didn’t bargain for when we started nursing. The powers that be decide who is disposable, and it’s us! I have three other nurse pals with cancer, all critical care! But it’s “our fault” for choosing the profession. Sorry for the rant, Sherri. Most folks aren’t aware of this travesty. My thought are with you.
I know a couple - some parents of old school friends - who got married 3 DAYS after meeting. They're still married. Gotta be minimum 40 years by now.
My husband asked me to marry him after our first date went to the courthouse the next day! Were still married its only been 2 years but hey we're happy and have a beautiful baby boy
@@cassidysch1806 Congrats!!
a lot of these comments make me feel better about myself as i started dating my boyfriend after 3 weeks of meeting him online- we talked about getting married in 2-3 years. right now we're approaching our 7 months of dating and we go on dates to places around where we live and he's nothing but kind to me always. its refreshing to hear these stories of people rushing into relationships and then both parties just end up being good for each other in the long term... so good for them!
Whether my depression has taken over or my anxiety is through the roof watching your videos helps so much!! Laughter helps better than my medication. Keep doing you love, you are amazing!! ❤️❤️
This reminds me of something that happened on a local bride facebook group I was in. (For context, my April 2020 wedding was obviously postponed, it's now scheduled for 2 months from now, because all our friends/family have been vaccinated) The girls in this group were insanely entitled, constantly asking for "advice" on how to evade the bans on large groups and bragging about their COVID weddings. Naturally, whenever I tried to say things like "hey, maybe wait?", they'd get defensive and accuse me of being bitter and jealous.
In the middle of the lockdowns, in the midst of the BLM protests and all that, some girl had the audacity to post a request for all of us to sign a petition and write letters to the governor, demanding for him to lift bans on the wedding industry. I remember her saying "Let the capitol hear our voices as loud as our wedding bells!
It always seems like weddings have a way of bringing out the worst in people. I just want to have a courthouse ceremony and then go on a badass honeymoon.
Been saying that for years. Glad he's ok with it
Yup. Had the opportunity to get married at the honeymoon destination and took it... A dozen made the trip with 6 weeks notice and had a party for 60 something when we got back. (engaged 2-3 years prior, second time not in a rush) Recommend, hugely less stressful.
100% stay with this plan! I got talked out of it, and still regret it.
That’s what I did, and have never regretted it, and after hearing these, I know I never will, I didn’t want a wedding, I wanted a marriage, and we are still married 16 years later and we have a 15 year old daughter now and he has also been a wonderful father to my older daughter who is now 24 and graduating with a masters in psychology in July, he helped me raise 2 beautiful, wonderful young ladies and has been a wonderful husband, I’ll take the husband over the wedding any day 💜
Back when I got married in 83 we did'nt go crazy like they do today
My dad technically proposed to my mom the day they met. They were married a year later and my mother passed away a month before their 51st wedding anniversary.
That's sad :( I'm sorry for your loss.
They spent over a half century together 💗 He knew a good thing when he it didn't he ☺
Awwww! 🥺
My grandpa did the same thing. My grandma turned him down 3 times until they were together a few months and they celebrated 56 years last weekend.
I'm getting married in 3 days; I've been obsessed with your wedding videos because it prepares me for the worst that could happen haha 😂
I know it's late, but I hope it went well
We’ve just enjoyed our 48 th Wedding anniversary and I was chatting to my 100 year old mother about it. She’s got dementia and doesn’t always get it but she suddenly said, “We all thought it wouldn’t last”. We only went out for three weeks before deciding to get married,
I had a Mini car and he had a great stereo system.
It felt pretty good knowing that we’re still married and enjoying our lives together after all this time.
You can get legally married without a wedding. If you want be married that bad do it at the court house and throw a "party" later
Hire someone who is licensed to perform weddings and go get married wherever you want. Backyard, park, woods, barn, beach, etc. Only invite immediate family, wear your best clothes, and KISS. Keep it simple, stupid.
I think the point is that if people wanted to get MARRIED they would do as you suggest. These are not people in a hurry to be married, they are people in a hurry to have a WEDDING. Totally different focus...
My parent knew each other one week. Had a fantastic marriage lasting 50 years (she passed 10 yrs ago,) and he always said no other woman could compare to her. Not gonna lie, it set my sisters and I up for some pretty big expectations in the marriage department......so it can happen, but I think it's rare.
If only all children had such great roll models 💕
@@aliciashanks5239 Yeah, you said it. I grew up in a home with domestic violence, so these happy stories help counter all that bad experience.
As a Greek Cypriot I can confirm that we do have huge families. Some parents of the couple insist that everyone gets an invite whether they're friends, family, family friends and people from the villages that we are from. We always manage to pack out receptions somehow
There is a movie called My Big Fat Greek Wedding. Very funny.
Charlotte, you are the friend that everyone needs in their life.
I think most of us in America are wondering what the hell is going on in America too.
😂😂
Every. Single. Fking. Day
The story of my wedding was a mess. My grandfather had a heart attack the week before and insisted that I didn't cancel the wedding. It was August and it was an outside wedding so of course it started pouring outside and we had to move 300 people into the church that normally only has about 10 people on a good week but we made everyone fit in. It was hot and humid as hell. I of course started my period that morning and I was a mess and had to get my hair done while I was in the bathtub. We were only an hour late and my stepfather kept saying that I didn't have to get married that he wouldn't be mad if I changed my mind. I had 12 people in my wedding party and only 4 of them were "adults." We finally got down the isle and its time for pictures. My stepmother was a photographer and she insisted that she wanted to take the pictures of the wedding and she was acting crazy about people who were supposed to be in pictures going outside to breathe because it was so humid. I ended up screaming for everyone to get in the pictures and I was swearing at the best man to cut the fn crap( the pastor's wife was laughing about it) because my sugar was low and I was hot and very uncomfortable. We finally got to the reception and my stepmother got drunk instead of taking pictures, my DJ never showed up and I had a teenager filling in and he didn't want to announce us so my step aunt who decided to show up in dirty shorts and a tank top announced us. I didn't get to eat my food. My father left to bring my drunk stepmother home instead of waiting to do the father daughter dance. Thankfully my stepfather filled in and my brother started to take the pictures of the reception. The young preteen usher's stole a car for a joyride in the parking lot. And when it was over the cops escorted us all home and my new husband went out to party with the wedding party and I stayed home to puke my brains out because I was having my period and hadn't eaten anything all day and was in the middle of a low sugar spiral. I filled for divorce papers 3 years after that and was divorced in 5. Did I mention that we have a picture of my Mother in law stripping the clothes off of the 2 best men. Priceless. Now I look back 20 years later and we have lost both of the step parents to diabetes and my Mother in law to old age and I was the only grandchild who had my grandmother make their wedding cake as she has passed also. So has the grandparents who missed it. It was a magical moment with the people who were the most important to me and they were all part of why it was the glorious mess that it was. Lol
Wow that was a rollercoaster 😰
The kind of experience, that's just awful in the moment, but so much fun to retell, once enough time has gone by, eh? Sounded like quite the day 😆
Comedy = tragedy + time. 💜
You need to post this on reddit or something!
Girl ,write a script and send it to some movie producing company. This is gold!!
I am that type of person who defends alcohol-free weddings. I drank sweet tea and toasted with, even. I have a huge problem with people who get drunk at their own weddings - especially before the vows are even taken. I have always had a policy: if you're even tipsy, you can't consent so there's no sex, vows, major decisions being made, driving, being around fire (camping is my thing), no interaction with children, etc.
"The Hunt Is Over" is the best thing ever! LOVE IT lol.
And he obviously went along with it, so has a great sense of humor 😂! I thought it was adorable 😍!
Charlotte : COVID's pretty much over
Me living in the 3rd world : DAMMIT DON'T JINX THIS 😤
I live in the US and don't believe it's even close to over.
@@graceoyanguren7578 what a rude thing to say to someone living in India where the delta version is killing entire families, teens, young adults, many children losing both parents. It doesn't matter where it originated from when you're battling to keep yourself and your loved ones safe.
Best of luck staying safe, Aleesha 🙏
@@graceoyanguren7578 three of my family members died in the last year strictly from Covid and my otherwise healthy young uncle spent 5 months on a breathing machine and is now permanently disabled and can't even bath himself anymore but no worries... GRACE said it's a SCAM so... 😳🙄
It's over for most of us, but the South has always been... a bit slow.
I would spend my ENTIRE budget for charlotte to come to my wedding and make snarky comments into a microphone. No dj no officiant, just charlotte making fun of ALL of us. Epic.
0:39 - Is this you without makeup, Charlotte? You still look better than most of us.
I appreciate how you never say Smash that subscribe button. Truly. Love that.
My husband and I were love at first sight. I waited on him at a little café, he invited me to a party after I got it work. Within 3 days we were living together and that was in 1987!!! ❤️
Wow!! Good for you. What an awesome story. I love that for you. 👏 💝
Getting married during the pandemic would have suited me just fine, hate big weddings
I got married in 2019. I’m really glad I did but yeah not being able to invite people would have made it a lot simpler. 😆
My ex’s mom got remarried at the veryyyy beginning of the lockdown in March 2020 and it was scaled down, held in their barn at the new house with just close family and friends. It was very cute and loving, fast forward her son cheats and moves the new gf in before I was fully moved out lol
@@susansmith493 I got married 20 years ago, and we deliberately chose a small venue, big enough for 30 people, so that we could invite only those we wanted there, not extended family etc, it was perfect and intimate. I really think big weddings are just for show most of the time.
To the guy with tatts saying “its not too late” Maybe bc I’m Australian however Aussies and Brits are extremely sarcastic. If it’s from the US I guess take things seriously.
Yeah, I thought that was probably a joke.
I love how natural and authentic you are. It makes listening to you fun and relatable.
That last one is scary. Don't marry anymore who isn't supporting, emotionally or physically. "He likes to drink" is a red flag. GTFO!!
@@kendallcaminiti-hess2243 Absolutely. It's ok for relationships not to work out. We're humans not swans. The most important relationship in our lives, is with you first!
@@jenniferbates2811 the military guy also needs to run as fast as he can , referring his credit card as her's is a red flag and annoying where is my fiance wuhhh
@@Doc-hp5wf OMFG! YES!! That was creepy shit. They were only dating a month. Like come on. He can do better.
@@kendallcaminiti-hess2243 I'm sorry sweetie. I really hope that you are participating in therapy. I love it. All humans should have access to therapy.
You'll find love again because you're a good human.
Love at first sight is real.
When I first met my late wife, we fell in love instantly.
We had a wonderful 18 years together before she passed away.
People have described our relationship as a fairytale. I know it certainly felt like it.
My wife was the most amazing woman.
Wow... that truly is adorable
Yes! Please do more of these videos. I love these! I'm planning a wedding for way after covid, and I am finding these hilarious.
Only thing I can think of when the mother of the groom wears a white/wedding dress to his wedding is “emotional incest”
I have no idea how you're still single. Even the ad without makeup you are GORGEOUS. If I were a guy, waking up next to that fresh face would be worth all of life. I do have a horrible wedding story. One of my bridesmaids (only had 3) left the wedding reception (held at a "country club" - heavy emphasis on country) to change dresses and return because someone in the bar NOT in the reception offered to pay her $15 to change into a white VERY tight VERY VERY micro dress that she wore at the booby club she waitressed at. Keep in mind I met her through *my* job at an environmental education and legislation organization (CWA) so it wasn't like "what do you expect?" I also found out she had gotten a boob job *right* before the wedding when I passed the table my husband was socializing at and I heard him saying how much he'd like to bury his face in them. It turned out to be a sign, just like the flock of turkeys that invaded our honeymoon, and the marriage was over a year and a half later. Thankfully I met the love of my life a few years later and we just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary.
I'm sorry your ex was a douche canoe and your "friend" couldn't pretend to have some class,just for one night!!! Glad you found your new husband 💙
I can't judge people on their time schedule for getting married. My hubby and I got married three weeks after we started dating.. two kids and twenty years later we're still together and happy. Sometimes you just know. And sometimes you're just drunk... lol!
That's awesome.
Same here! We knew each other less than a month when we moved in together. We have an 8 y/o and will be celebrating our 18th anniversary next month. When you know,you know 🤷
Okay, I am officially obsessed with your videos. So much fun to watch and you’re authentic, not a lot of RUclipsrs like you left. Don’t ever change. I love your little edits you out in the videos. So much fun to watch. Just started watching you a couple days ago, and I cant stop. 😙🔥 You’re hilarious by the way! 🤣💖
In the process of planning our wedding and....this and the bridezilla series have become my new guilty pleasure 😂
That story about the friend that showed up at his friends party with his girlfriend who he dated for a month and is now engaged to that girlfriend is what was euphemistically referred to in the past as a PX Patty she’s marrying him for his benefits and access to military services. It will not end well!
So it didn’t work out with one guy and she’s not allowed to date anyone else? I’m sure you see the stupidity in that idea, now that a complete stranger has pointed it out to you. You sound like a child, a jealous one.
@@beverlytate2669 My reference to the girl had nothing to do with her seeing somebody else first. I was pointing out that meeting a soldier and marrying them in a month in many cases resulted in the woman being called a PX Patty who was only into him for his military benefits. You can go out with as many people as you want, I don’t care. you can date your buddies buddy I don’t care, this is just somebody who’s in it for the benefits and these relationships generally turn out very badly.
@@robertcohen1888 I’ll agree with you there. When I was in the service, I married who I thought was the love of my life. Wrong. He married me to double the bank balance but he wanted to control me and keep me from the money I earned. Once I had enough of it, I left. It definitely didn’t work out for him as I’m now a master electrician outranking him. We could have had an electrical contracting business together but now
It’s all mine, I tell ya, ALL MINE! Muahuahahaha!!
Just kidding. It’s hard all around and tons of work but worth being away from a greedy jealous angry manipulative woman user. I guess they come in BOTH GENDERS SIR!
I ended up taking all the pictures at my cousin’s wedding. I was like 12 and they gave me disposable cameras and as far as I know, they were really happy with the pictures I got
Such beautiful love stories in this thread. 💗 And also terrible losses. Thank you all for sharing. ❤️
I went to a wedding that had disposable cameras on every table for the guests to take pictures throughout the night. The bride had them all printed and put in albums. And they are the best and funniest pictures!!
I think the Maid of Honor probably had Covid BEFORE the wedding and knew about it but didnt want to miss the wedding. I think thats why the Bride said "thats the most selfish thing a person could do"
“ i’m a hopeless romantic even though i sound salty “
CHARLOTTE YOURE SO FUNNY I LOVE YOU
You have sooooo many bridezilla or wedding oriented videos! Every time I think I've seen them all, I find another one. Love it. :D
The patriotic wedding dress looked like something Glenn Close's character would of worn in Stepford Wives.
The best part of covid is that I can wear my wedding dress completely with the huge veil and clean my house. Who said that I would only wear it once. Shut the front door!!!!! I wear it once a week and I get into fancy clothes every day at dinner. Caz I can do whatever I want to. Yes I own 3 tiaras and wear them doing laundry. Who is going to tell me that I can't. No one. My 7 year old son isn't old enough to sign the commitment paperwork so nothing to loose. Lmao
Go girl. I have a rainbow tutu that I wear when I start dreading my 30s 😂
Love it! 👑
I just saw a little girl at IKEA last week that the most beautiful, colorful, adorable tulle skirt. I wanted one so bad in that moment! Not exactly my style but would be fun to wear somewhere! I guess wearing it around the house might be fun, too. I just enjoyed admiring it for the few seconds it took for us to all walk in and go our separate ways. Would be great to wear around the house with your tiara!
If you don't do what you want to do now, the years will pass: more years of hell, & your back gets so ruined you have to use a walker. Always be spontaneous & always say yes when you want to go , visit or climb, go to a mountain & ski around the world's best skiing mtns(as my bf does). Do do, do. Don't say later, later, later, as it comes faster than you know. Oh. And don't get old! Always keep your mind young & remember when little kids are in your way, what it was like to be young...always.
I have a ball gown, and once I was home alone and some guys rang the doorbell. I texted my mom “shit shit SHIT!people are at the door and I’m in a ball gown!”
I have other gowns and a tiara I bought from a bridal shop for a costume. Beautiful tiara, made with pearls and Swarovski crystals
My husband and I met in the military, have only been married to each other and we waited 7 years to do so. That being said, I’m a huge supporter of needing approval from your chain of command to get married especially if you are within your deployment window. I’ve seen both genders disregard all of the red flags because “it’s true love” only to end up focusing more on their relationship problems then their mission after they realize a wedding doesn’t fix problems.
Jiminy Cricket yes!! My husband has been deployed many times and his chief complaint is the relationships and the constant calls back and forth and fighting. They were in war zones, concentrate on your job! Wives/Husbands at home get your stuff together and quit complaining. Let them worry about all that crap when they are safely stateside. And make sure your beneficiary is someone you can trust! If that’s not your spouse or spouse to be then reevaluate your choices. Thanks Jayme and spouse for your service and wisdom. 👋We are retired now, last month and he is some much less stressed and he loved the military.
@@lollylolly8186 thank you for your service and congrats on the retirement. I generally don’t have a whole lot of input in the love lives of others but when there terrible choices jeopardize the safety of my husband especially I can’t help but speak up. I completely understand the loneliness when you return home because time didn’t stop while you were away and even strong bonds change with absence but if you have to give them a ring to ensure they stick around they are not the “sticking around type”.
@@jayklee88 Agree totally! I wish you and your husband a long happy, healthy life. ❤️
HAHAHAHA! 'Well thats good cuz I do love a taco" Girl you have my dying!!!
Watching this now I wonder how many people feel stupid for Excluding family and friends knowing it was all a sham now anyway
TELL HIM!!!!!! If he gets married, he will lose his house, credit cards, 401K and half his paycheck. If she is that dominating and self centered, RUN!!! Run fast, Run far 🏃
They have to plant doubts instead of saying they don't like her. Instead of, "Dude, she's going to rip you off," they could say, "Are you comfortable with anyone claiming your credit card after knowing them for just a month?"
To be fair with the first one, a Covid test doesn’t come back in a day so the bridesmaid would have had to known she was being tested before the wedding and said nothing and still attended putting everyone at risk.
The physical wedding itself was irresponsible but the bridesmaid shouldn’t have gone knowing she suspected something.
Some of those test results do come back in 24 hrs.
Still, it would mean she got tested the morning of the wedding, so she suspected she might have Covid but still went.
@@Fanny-ge6ge The bride and groom chose to host a gathering during a pandemic, inviting people to come, knowing that it was a health risk. Guests shouldn't have gone if they suspected they had COVID, but some people are asymptomatic and can spread infection without even realizing. Also, the bridesmaid may have had a COVID test for reasons other than experiencing symptoms. Some schools and work places require tests on a schedule. Just saying, it's hypocritical for the bride to defy pandemic precautions and then get mad when, surprise, COVID shows up.
Self - tests are a thing though? They only take 15 minutes for a result. And even the ones you to at a covid center taking no longer then half an hour...
Symptoms can come on fast, or not be obvious at first. My mother is a key worker in a care home and they had weekly tests at the time. She got Covid, we don't know exactly when she contracted it but she didn't notice any symptoms for a few days (she was tired, but a 12-hour shift when you're 62 will do that to you). That was in January before the quick tests were available (here in the UK) but now they do them every day, and everyone in the country can also get free tests now too. It's important to remember that not everyone who gets Covid is some irresponsible person. But the point was that the bride "got her day" and then had no sympathy for her friend who might be scared or unable to work, or her other guests who might have gotten sick. She was just bothered by how much work it caused for her - that's the risk you take having a wedding in a pandemic, and you have to factor in "what if we find out someone had covid?"
Girl, you’re keeping me up all night with all your amazing videos ❤️❤️.
I have a cousin whose 4 days older than me. I didn't go to her wedding because she planned it in the beginning of covid. She asked our youngest cousin named Ava if she wanted to be a bridesmaid. Of course she said yes and she was super excited about. When it was day of the wedding, our cousin didnt tell Ava that she was replaced. This broke Ava's heart and I think it's one of the meaniest things you can do to family member or friend. Especially if they were excited to be a bridesmaid for the 1st time.
Honestly...i don't have any patience for weddings...not even for mine...lol
@@midnightrambler8866 Im getting married for the second time and that is exactly what we were doing
I went to a Covid wedding and it was great. The ceremony was outside and the reception was in well decorated barn. The guests list was limited so everything was fine afterwards.
My husband and I got married in January, so in the middle of COVID season, but it was just us two, his two parents for witnesses, and the officials. We're planning on doing the celebration with everyone once things calm down, why can't more people think this way? lol
You've had me smiling all afternoon, I love this topic - please make it a weekly feature!
The only one to wear a wedding dress to a wedding is the bride. Why does that need saying?!
it doesn't. any person who wears one to a wedding and isn't the bride already knows; if you tell them, they'll still wear one or wear white
I know! When I got married in 1995, I never even thought of anyone doing anything like that, or putting it on an invite. I guess times have been changin' .
Wearing white seems to be the in thing to do for the spiteful
It's how to say " I'm sooo spiteful and immature" without saying " I'm spiteful and immature".
And narcissists.
Monster in law's first strike!!! Better resign in the momma's boy or ditch him
It wouldn't have bothered me if my MIL showed up in white, because my wedding dress was blue (which no one knew except my mom and bridesmaids). She didn't wear white, but she would have looked ridiculous if she had.
I had a family member wear a pretty white pant suit to my wedding and it was really pretty. Personally I don't think it's a big deal to wear white
But wearing a white, extravagant dress is definitely malicious
OMG that voice she does! All I can hear is Lizzie Bennet from The Lizzie Bennet Diaries doing her Darcy impersonation!🤣 Flashback to college 2012!
Referring to the first one, the maid of honor knew she was covid positive before the wedding and decided to wait til after to say anything. That's why it's the most selfish thing anyone could do, they just didn't want to miss the wedding.
These people who have been "engaged" for 6 years but just HAVE to have weddings during a global pandemic are next level selfish.
My fiance and I have been together 4 yrs. We just want to go to Vegas. Its his second marriage and mine. We put even that off. People are unreal
@@totesmegoatscrystal9688 exactly! Thank you!
You're not forced to attend
@@totesmegoatscrystal9688 so what is the mortality percentage for people in the US? can you do the math or no?
🤣 someone having a wedding is selfish, you realize YOU get to choose to attend right ? The rsvp yes is not mandatory. People who think they get to dictate what others do with their lives really need to spend more time focusing on their own choices
Charlotte: 500 guests are a lot
Meanwhile me in India: that's an average at our weddings 😂🤐(pre covid)
Indian weddings are NUTS! Pretty cool. ✌🏻 It's like people compete to have the wedding with the BEST food, the most amazing entertainment, and everybody dresses up to the max. 😳
Too much attention on weddings, not enough on indoor plumbing.
@@chudleyflusher748 🤦🏻♀️
My grandmother went to the bathroom right before I walked down the aisle. She's very slow,too. I waited 30 mins for her to get out of the bathroom so we could do the ceremony 😃😃 I love you Grandma❤
Re: dressing up. There's nothing stopping you from dressing up for your next wedding vid 😄. My mum who is retired often dresses up to hang out the washing...hahahhaa.
Since my prom is cancelled, might as well laugh at ridiculous weddings 😂
Congratulations 🎓
Dress up anyway, do your hair and makeup and nails and put on some nice shoes. Feel glam as hell. See if you can get a friend or two to do the same. Then play some feel-good music, have a drink, videocall each other and have an awesome evening.
Have a fabulous time 🥳 🍹 💃🏻 🎶
It's dumb that they're cancelling stuff again lol.
This generation has been robbed of time they'll never get back. Then again, so were the kids at the beach in Normandy. I guess there isn't a real normal. Find your joy where you can folks. Life's hella short.
And this is why I'll be wearing a colorful dress, and only my mom, my groom, and bridesmaids and groomsmen will know. And I will instruct everyone to wear white.
Good thinking 😉
Good for you. What a great idea!
Eh. Someone will insist otherwise.
It's gotten to the point where I anticipate when you're going to quickly yell "Subscribe!" and I join at the top of my lungs! lol But seriously, you're awesome, Charlotte. I can't stop watching your channel and even use it as back drop when doing housework. :-)
my wedding was 25 years ago, and we had about 70 people there, and I was thinking "damn, this kinda got out of hand"
I think we can all just agree that New Zealand is doing it right
And Australia.
@@Just1Nora Hell yeah! 🇦🇺🇳🇿
Covid detention “camps” work great.
@@snowwhite5842 ?
@@snowwhite5842 what the frick are you on about.? Clearly you don't live in New Zealand. I don't know about Australia but seriously doubt it's accurate for there either.
American here, we're definitely doing it all wrong. 😂
Not at all ^_^
Florida here, sorry we're the fuck-ups of all fuck-ups! At least half of us see it that way 😒
@@totesmegoatscrystal9688 Covid protocols were never about the deadliness of the virus. It has always been about not overwhelming healthcare services in your country/state/province/city etc. Once healthcare is overwhelmed deaths from any source will go up because there would literally be no beds and no staff or anything to help anyone else. Triage protocols would have to be activated. Avoiding all that was the aim of most of the world. My province 'almost' had to use the emergency temporary hospitals and that was really scary. If a family member or friend had got in a bad car accident...would there have been room and staff and resources? I remember the heart-breaking news from Italy early on in the pandemic and I hoped we would never get that bad here (and we didn't thankfully). To have patients that need help and literally not being able to help because there are no more ventilators and the extra oxygen is doing very little and they knew their patient would die because of the lack of equipment.
I love the couple with the tractor situation ( no spoil, near 10min )lol !
U r so hilarious. Love watching all your hard work and the facial expressions really make me laugh. Always can count on u to make me smile 😃
Omg it’s so hard to get friends to listen. My friend had a toxic boyfriend who would get black out drunk constantly and was pretty misogynistic, she blamed it on his Chinese culture as though that was a good excuse. I found the best way to tell her to drop him was to say ‘if it was me I would see these as red flags’ it finally worked and she dumped him. Sadly though he’s been stalking her and telling her friends that he wants he back. Other friends have tried to convince her to get back with him after he contacted them. Which is fucked up.
*"Get some of those like, disposable cameras with flashes and just get your guests to take the photos!"*
Me: Immediately thinks of Chandler & Monica's wedding (from Friends), when all the disposable cameras that were on every table at their wedding were lost, thus resulting in Ross and Chandler deciding to recreate the wedding the next day. 😂 Man, that show is still gold! 😁
Do they still make disposable cameras?
"Its pretty much over"...... as were in 2022 and its still going mad. LMAO i laughed so hard
Love the dead deer hubby shot! They look like a fun couple!
First story, she wouldn't have gotten Covid at the wedding. Due to the gestation period of Covid, she'd have already had Covid when she attended the wedding.
Yeah.. but I think the bride was complaining that on her first day as a married woman, she had to spend time sitting and calling all the attendees to let them know that there was a covid positive person at the wedding so that they can go get themselves checked .. which she wouldn't have had to do if she didn't have a huge wedding in the middle of a pandemic!!
@@ThoughtfulPotato it doesnt have to be huge. Remember after a wedding people could still be hang over and still be waking up at 3pm instead of morning. So for a bride to be worried about getting her guests sick because her own maid of honor fucked up is pretty fucked if u ask me.
Thats technically bioweapon attack
Clearly maid of honor knew she had symptoms but decided fuck waiting for her results "lets go to the wedding anyways". Thats pretty selfish.
@@cutiebun_bun1654 I guess you don’t understand the meaning of asymptomatic.
@@cutiebun_bun1654 to be honest, if I had to spend my first day as a married woman checking up on all my guests, I'd be pretty peeved too... but big or small, having a ceremony with guests without having your wedding party tested first isn't the kind of risk I would have taken to begin with... I guess what I'm trying to say is that I get your point... I do wish the maid of honour was a little more careful and had herself tested anyway but the onus here is also on the couple who chose to have the wedding in the first place without insisting on tests at least for the main ppl...
I said the same. She went there positive and didn't tell until after.
That last one reminded of a saying: the worse the wedding goes, the better the marriage. Something like that, I don't know that for sure
I can testify to that.
But he's a 🥴 drunk... never good!
@@AnneWilkynson good point
My mom put disposable cameras on every table at the reception for her wedding. They had labels on them asking them to kindly take candid photos for the wedding couple and leave on the table. Every single camera was taken home by the guests and they ended up with almost no pictures sat all! She would have had none but her brother took Chapel photos with a regular camera. This was back in 1996. No one ever even sent any copies of the pictures they took or fessed up to taking the camera home. Kinda ruined her faith in her family and friends.
Watching your videos is always a good time. A mood picker-upper.
Thanks girl 😊❤️
My parents were married 6 months after they met with only my mom’s parents & my dad’s mom. They celebrated 44yrs in January. Me? I waited 6yrs & still my marriage failed. 😂 It all depends on the people.
No makeup Charlotte? You look so cute with or without makeup! NO FAIR!
I know, right? My first reaction was, "Yikes, no makeup!", then, "Not bad. Not bad at all."
@@bellafrangipani8342 FACT!
I'm going to be in a wedding this weekend and I'm loving these wedding videos 🤣 It's wedding season! this will be the second one I've attended this year