Full Girl Chat: Do Smart Women Marry for Money?

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  • Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
  • We’re discussing if marrying for money is taboo or completely understandable, how quarantine shaming is the new normal, and whether it’s acceptable to call the cops on children who miss their Zoom classes.
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  • @amiia7345
    @amiia7345 3 года назад +818

    Why are we acting like both can’t exist? You can fall in love with someone who is a provider.

    • @LiLmSzDiVa
      @LiLmSzDiVa 3 года назад +44

      Thank you 👏🏾 I want both.

    • @irakaye
      @irakaye 3 года назад +57

      Thank you. I was going to say- I’m in my mid-20s and I no longer find myself attracted to someone who isn’t smart with money nor financially stable. I love Garcelle’s input always (is what I’m finding).. especially when she said I want a man who can provide equal what I’m providing or is above me financially. I LOVE YOUR INPUT GARCELLE!

    • @irakaye
      @irakaye 3 года назад +16

      @Michael carter I never mentioned I was against women providing for themselves

    • @irakaye
      @irakaye 3 года назад +9

      @Michael carter Gotcha. I get what you’re saying. Some men like to be on wife support, and I’m certain there are women out there that are more than happy to take on that role of being provider.

    • @REALLYPROFIT
      @REALLYPROFIT 3 года назад

      6:09 BIG WIN 2020 ruclips.net/video/MNNd2DZSdKs/видео.html

  • @jasi7313
    @jasi7313 3 года назад +372

    You know what makes someone emotionally and mentally unstable, Ade? Not being able to pay the damn bills. Girl, bye

    • @melmel7011
      @melmel7011 3 года назад +51

      That's exactly what came to mind as she spoke. You can't be emotionally and mentally stable with an empty tummy

    • @pjo3306
      @pjo3306 3 года назад +3

      You're right!

    • @truth6565
      @truth6565 3 года назад +4

      You know what makes someone emotionally and mentally unstable?
      Both thinking you don’t need men and you’re equal to them, while only dating men who are taller and make more money than you
      Keep using that make up ladies.

    • @ambertorres5358
      @ambertorres5358 3 года назад +5

      I’m confused do the wives hands and feet not work? Why on earth would they be living beyond their means and hungry in America? I 100% agree with ADE. Emotional and mental security far exceeds financial security. When you are emotionally and mentally secure and thriving, you will find a way to cultivate income.

    • @kerririchards2539
      @kerririchards2539 3 года назад

      I think she’s saying that just because you have money it doesn’t mean you’ll have emotional stability.

  • @-.a9942
    @-.a9942 3 года назад +154

    There is a idiom in Spanish that says “ when hunger enters from the front door, love gets out of the window” hopefully that makes sense 🤣

    • @Carolina_Berean
      @Carolina_Berean 3 года назад +6

      I love this.

    • @pmp3486
      @pmp3486 3 года назад +7

      How do you say it in Spanish?

    • @AntonioRios3
      @AntonioRios3 3 года назад +10

      @@pmp3486 Cuando el hambre entra por la puerta, el amor sale por la ventana.

  • @Ceecee123
    @Ceecee123 3 года назад +520

    Garcelle is serioulsy my fav. I love that she isn't afraid to speak her mind even if it's diff from the other women! love the whole group

    • @tealafoster2334
      @tealafoster2334 3 года назад +13

      *Cough cough* like *cough* Amanda... oh but she was lil too woke for most of yall🧘🏾‍♀️

    • @munab3666
      @munab3666 3 года назад +45

      @@tealafoster2334 no. Too aggressive. And I agreed with Amanda most of the time but its the way she portrayed her message.

    • @Ceecee123
      @Ceecee123 3 года назад +11

      @@tealafoster2334 I'm not implying that I did not like Amanda by saying I like Garcelle. She's dope and she no longer wanted to be apart of this show so more power to her. I'm happy to see that they've added a quality voice like Garcelle to the mix!

    • @MC-ys9kk
      @MC-ys9kk 3 года назад +8

      I’ve always been a fan of Garcelle. Happy to see her thriving on the show. I like how she expresses her opinions and adds a lot to the show. Even though I miss Tamara, Garcelle is def a plus for the show.

    • @TONiSSEBLUE
      @TONiSSEBLUE 3 года назад +7

      Yes Garcelle speak the truth! Even if it isn’t politically correct! Every one of those ladies will marry for money!! 😩

  • @arreyah2671
    @arreyah2671 3 года назад +486

    I want to be financially stable AND have a man who is financially stable. Period.
    And I don’t think theres anything wrong with a man or a woman wanting someone financially stable at their side.

    • @samiekallen4442
      @samiekallen4442 3 года назад +4

      That’s different then a bih who wants a millionaire and that’s there number one look for

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 3 года назад +1

      Agreed

    • @fabulousrobert6607
      @fabulousrobert6607 3 года назад +6

      Absolutely! What most couples do is this. You keep your money separate and each pays one half of the bills monthly. What you do with your money, is your personal thing. This way your relationship is not about money and who pays most of the bills.

    • @REALLYPROFIT
      @REALLYPROFIT 3 года назад +1

      5:27 Easy BIG WIN ruclips.net/video/DgK8LO1EyWg/видео.html

    • @samiekallen4442
      @samiekallen4442 3 года назад

      Arreyah it’s not it’s the gold diggers who don’t just want a guy who can support himself but he gotta be a millionaire. And life don’t work that way sweethearts. I know when I’m rich u better be bringing something more then some pussy to the table

  • @Mrsqueen876
    @Mrsqueen876 3 года назад +400

    A wise woman gets married for both.

    • @JoslynJoy
      @JoslynJoy 3 года назад +17

      THIS is an underrated comment!

    • @nyarianaoluoch
      @nyarianaoluoch 3 года назад +6

      Amen!

    • @memeeee1114
      @memeeee1114 3 года назад +16

      If you want money, work for it. A men is not obligated to work his ass off for you.

    • @tydeProductions
      @tydeProductions 3 года назад +6

      But when I say this is how women operate, I’m called a sexist lol

    • @ccc-fd3ls
      @ccc-fd3ls 3 года назад +3

      Amen

  • @glamfairy
    @glamfairy 3 года назад +416

    Love is not enough to get married period

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 3 года назад +37

      No FINANCE. NO Romance.

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 3 года назад +3

      @Black Is Powerful & Forever no prenup?? Well if you're a Millionaire and he's not OK. Halle Berry should have signed one. If you did know...she has to pay alimony to her ex husband. Farge of her child.

    • @sharpaycutie2
      @sharpaycutie2 3 года назад +4

      I mean you always want someone who has good spending habits and a budget

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 3 года назад +2

      No Finance. No Romance. 😉

    • @isabellamomodu1812
      @isabellamomodu1812 3 года назад

      @@CrystalDatingCoach halle berry was never married to the father of her 1st child

  • @lollolol6756
    @lollolol6756 3 года назад +347

    I'm sure this is a popular opinion, but I LOVE Garcelle! She's likeable, she's funny, and she's not doing too much. I'm really liking this panel.
    I can only imagine their chemistry would be even better once they can actually film on set. Good job The Real for finding a good addition to the show!

    • @magpiecake1067
      @magpiecake1067 3 года назад +16

      Same. I thought the show would die without Tamera (i watched the show because of her) but that hasnt been the case

    • @melissalitus8879
      @melissalitus8879 3 года назад +10

      I like Garcelle. Beauty and brains ✨hope Tam is doing well. I miss her and maybe she'll make an appearance one day

    • @Nash0303
      @Nash0303 3 года назад +1

      I'm a big fan

    • @Ndeka
      @Ndeka 3 года назад +1

      On all the topics, her opinions have matched mine and im loving it☺️

    • @jirahlawrence5178
      @jirahlawrence5178 3 года назад

      Yesss

  • @diynerd4095
    @diynerd4095 3 года назад +76

    I'll NEVER marry a broke man EVER AGAIN!
    Trust me ladies, they are the worse and the most ungrateful ones. Sadly I learned the hard way. I did everything to help elevate him and yes even contributed financially towards his university degree, paid all the bills and was emotionally supportive too but guess what, he left as soon as he was good. He left me broke and completely broken hearted. I was lost and felt like a zombie.
    It's only years later he apologized for what he did to me and I still have some of the scars left within me. I'll never advice my younger ones to marry a broke man. NEVER EVER!

    • @noirfit9721
      @noirfit9721 3 года назад +7

      SAME!!!!!! And I did it twice! But I got out of the second marriage quick once I found that not only was he broke he was abusive. I can do bad by myself but I do amazing when left on my own. But first husband was exactly like what’s stated above. And left me for a woman he praised for “being there from the beginning” even though I was in the trenches with him. Nope, not again

    • @realantagonist5324
      @realantagonist5324 3 года назад

      Successful men want young beautiful, thin and aggreable women, do you make the cut?

    • @diynerd4095
      @diynerd4095 3 года назад +7

      @@realantagonist5324 , I am THE CUT !

    • @diynerd4095
      @diynerd4095 3 года назад +6

      @@noirfit9721 Sentiments 🙌🏽✨.
      After him, I was very intentional about whom I introduced in my life. I am a Lawyer by the way and I am currently dating a fellow Lawyer and the dynamics of our relationship is like night and day!
      I no longer feel I am babysitting my partner through life and it allows me to indulge in the glory of my femininity and I absolutely love it.

  • @TiaLoveex3
    @TiaLoveex3 3 года назад +325

    You can have love and a man who is financially stable. The two don’t have to be separate. There’s nothing attractive about struggle love. The majority of relationships end for financial reasons!

    • @DavidLee-vp3nr
      @DavidLee-vp3nr 3 года назад +4

      They are talking about gold diggers..

    • @TiaLoveex3
      @TiaLoveex3 3 года назад +10

      @Yllom Sik Not really that hard. If you're high value then you can attract high value pretty frequently.

    • @xomcrrockstarxo
      @xomcrrockstarxo 3 года назад +4

      I think there is something attractive about struggle love when you GET THROUGH IT together. Otherwise, yeah. We not finna struggle forever. And by get through it I mean we start being successful eventually.

    • @TiaLoveex3
      @TiaLoveex3 3 года назад +8

      @Black Is Powerful & Forever I’ve heard more relationships end because of lack of money. Which then turns into broken homes when one parent is usually left with all the financial responsibility

    • @TiaLoveex3
      @TiaLoveex3 3 года назад +1

      @Yllom Sik Get a dating coach if it’s truly that difficult .

  • @kimallnaturelle
    @kimallnaturelle 3 года назад +242

    Honestly marriage for me needs to be kingdom minded and legacy minded. As a child of immigrants, I will not marry anyone that is not where I am or beyond financially. Sorry not sorry. My children will not have to endure some of the things I had to. Each generation should be financially better than the one that preceeds it. Financial stability should be a trait of both spouses.
    Love is a choice... marriage is a choice to love someone everyday. I'll marry for both and will not choose one over the other.

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 3 года назад +1

      Agreed

    • @kimallnaturelle
      @kimallnaturelle 3 года назад +22

      @Michael carter hey that's your prerogative. Marriage is beautiful. Singleness is beautiful. The goal is to leave a physical/ spiritual legacy behind. If I don't get married, I'll be fine. If I do, it must amplify my and my husband's personal purposes.

    • @siamorego
      @siamorego 3 года назад

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    • @junemoon8675
      @junemoon8675 3 года назад

      I feel u 😌🙏 same same

    •  3 года назад +4

      @Michael carter 😂😂😂 Marriage was created by men to benefit them only. Women were only regarded as property. Blame your predecessors for that.

  • @isaacc7892
    @isaacc7892 3 года назад +191

    Garcelle is incredible! So far, she's made incredible points on every topic. And her chemistry with Loni and Adrienne is so refreshing. The show finally feels like it flows again

    • @REALLYPROFIT
      @REALLYPROFIT 3 года назад

      7:26 Easy BIG WIN ruclips.net/video/DgK8LO1EyWg/видео.html

  • @LoveMica4
    @LoveMica4 3 года назад +58

    Garcelle is PERFECT for this show. She communicates with ease and meshes so well with the rest of the girls.

  • @cakermaster1151
    @cakermaster1151 3 года назад +222

    I Love how Garcelle saw Adrienne was about to continue on and on and on by telling a whole story and not letting anyone talk so she’s like, “my turn my turn!!” AND when Adrienne is about to interrupt, Garcelle just keeps talking Lmfao!!! I’m loving Garcelle she ain’t afraid to keep it really real and call others out!!😂😂👏🏻👏🏻👌🏻👌🏻

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 3 года назад +51

      Lol last week when Adrienne said, people must get over the fact that they won't be with their family this year for Thanksgiving because there's a pandemic, Garcelle told her "that's easy for you to say cause you're quarantined with your whole family"😂
      Ah Garcelle gives me life with how she's always shutting Adrienne up. I wish she'd been here since season 1. Adrienne is annoying🙄

    • @cakermaster1151
      @cakermaster1151 3 года назад +3

      @@omphilemoerane2569 lmfao!!!!! Are you serious?!!😂😂💀💀 Where is this video?! I didn’t see that!!

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 3 года назад +4

      @@cakermaster1151 lmao DEAD serious😂 The video is titled 'Celebrating Thanksgiving During a Pandemic?'

    • @Annaaaaaaaaaaaa
      @Annaaaaaaaaaaaa 3 года назад +4

      Yes👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 i love Adrienne but ahe does that a loooooot. Im glad Garcelle holds her own in a fun & professional way! 💗

    • @Vgenv
      @Vgenv 3 года назад +2

      Hehe, I caught that too! I loved that!

  • @unicornzalltheway8064
    @unicornzalltheway8064 3 года назад +43

    Respect Garcelle ! Your maturity and perspective is so refreshing !

  • @oneinamillion8037
    @oneinamillion8037 3 года назад +109

    Garcielle is right. Love don't pay Bill's. Financial problems ruin relationships. If you have someone who is financial stable doesn't mean you are being shallow. Women need to have better standard and not just settle so the men won't get comfortable where they are.

    • @Curlsl
      @Curlsl 3 года назад +3

      @Black Is Powerful & Forever There are also women who don't want to work and are happy with taking car e of their children and husband too. Some women works hard and wants a break too. Men that are rich enough (not all of them) look for women to marry for many different reasons and don't care if they do have money themselves or not. They can even divorc and give you money not to have you in their shoes. It's a big world. There's no need to judge people, to each their own.

  • @jyn88
    @jyn88 3 года назад +243

    Garcelle is right about that. Coming out of a first marriage or first long term relationship, your mindset changes. My sister was in a 10 year relationship before they broke up and I had other friends with similar amount of years. Second time around they were a lot wiser in prioritizing their wants and needs. I have told my cousin the same line as Garcelle in picking someone who is your equal or above you. I know not everyone will agree to that but that's my belief as well.

    • @REALLYPROFIT
      @REALLYPROFIT 3 года назад

      7:06 Profit SLOTS 2020 ruclips.net/video/MNNd2DZSdKs/видео.html

    • @liberiangirl5308
      @liberiangirl5308 3 года назад +3

      There’s nothing wrong with that belief... for me, I want to have the 2 sides

    • @mandys1038
      @mandys1038 3 года назад +3

      Its a fact and Jeannie is proof of that, things just change.

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 3 года назад +6

      Like she also said. You can do BAD all by yourself.

    • @ItsM1100
      @ItsM1100 3 года назад

      May i ask what you mean with above you? Overall i agree with you

  • @jennifermosqueda6086
    @jennifermosqueda6086 3 года назад +38

    If i’m cooking, cleaning, raising kids then hell yeah imma expect you to provide.

  • @mondophakathi324
    @mondophakathi324 3 года назад +26

    Either equal me or be above me, Well said Garcelle....👏👏👏

    • @KARTIKEYA007
      @KARTIKEYA007 3 года назад

      what if men also hold the same value? they will only marry women who are above them?

  • @lissandrapatin9923
    @lissandrapatin9923 3 года назад +70

    Adrienne really just said she has a lot of single friends that are looking for drake to save them and that’s why they’re still single?! Why would you shade your friends publicly like that?

    • @OumTHMDY
      @OumTHMDY 3 года назад +13

      She has done a lot of growing up but the girl is still judgemental and her privilege is blurring her vision on this.

    • @lissandrapatin9923
      @lissandrapatin9923 3 года назад

      @@OumTHMDY super judgmental. Privilege tho? of being white? or not single?

    • @OumTHMDY
      @OumTHMDY 3 года назад +6

      @@lissandrapatin9923 the privilege of being financially stable. When you have excess of money, you don't worry about making ends meet.
      What folks should consider when having these conversations, is that financial stability doesn't necessarily mean rich. Loni touched on that. But even if, for some women, it dóes mean rich it is the prerogative of a woman to be hypergamous about her dating. Whether she has money herself or especially if she doesn't.
      Also, Ade put at least some value on being with a high value man (whether conscious or subconsciously) for 6 yrs when dating Lenny. Even though he wasn't a high quality man, cause he sure as hail wasn't feeding her emotionally and or mentally. She even said her whole demeanor changed, she had no keys to his house and had to wait for him - outside - til he arrived whenever she visited. So what was she sticking around for, for 6 years? The love? No, the stability. It's good she came to her senses with Lenny when she felt like she didn't need him anymore but don't put your single friends down cause they want a man with means. Knowing you yourself married a man with means. You think she would have given Israel, with his problematic background, the time of day if he was broke or if she had to pull him up financially? Probably not.

    • @luvbuglenise5275
      @luvbuglenise5275 3 года назад +2

      @@OumTHMDY that part

    • @RyanJCreations
      @RyanJCreations 3 года назад +3

      @@OumTHMDY oh this was a read honeyyyyy!

  • @lilithsun2660
    @lilithsun2660 3 года назад +79

    There’s gold diggers but there’s also GOAL DIGGERS

    • @kp-rh2mo
      @kp-rh2mo 3 года назад +9

      Yeah I rather achieve my own than suck the hard work of another

  • @MsClever26
    @MsClever26 3 года назад +48

    The last woman has the right perspective. After 25, a woman should marry for wealth. The bills need to be paid, kids need food & access to resources which a woman shouldn't have to wear herself out doing 5 side jobs to provide.

    • @MelaniaRose
      @MelaniaRose 3 года назад +8

      @John Something You do realise when women have kids or are married it’s a big sacrifice, women are taking care of women or family members and most of its unpaid work ! A man who’s a stable provider makes things much easier. Who wants to struggle ? Really ?

    • @theLordismysheperd98
      @theLordismysheperd98 3 года назад +2

      @John Something of course you’re a man who wants a woman to take care of you. 😂😭👍

    • @Curlsl
      @Curlsl 3 года назад

      @John Something it's cool but most men don't. I was the kind to take care of everything and pay for everything even when I didn't have much. each time I did that, I regretted in the end. So maybe I did a bad choice, maybe it was my fault but I still learned my lesson and won't do it again.

    • @elim8792
      @elim8792 3 года назад +2

      But that’s miserable..you can marry for both, not simply for wealth

    • @elim8792
      @elim8792 3 года назад +3

      @New Alfa marrying for simply wealth can make you miserable, so you should opt to marry for both finance and love

  • @Tam...
    @Tam... 3 года назад +88

    Ladies!! Dont feel shamed for wanting to marrying well...Struggle love ain't easy..Its damn near depressing...I'm just saying...date with intentions. Adrienne and Jeannie are married to men with money☕ Garcelle and Loni right on!

    • @1989menutheiswhat
      @1989menutheiswhat 3 года назад +14

      I know. I feel they're trying to be politically correct, but Jeannie's former husband was way richer than her and her current partner is also well off. The same with Adrienne. They didn't marry their equals or men with less financial resources and I ain't shaming them, but they should be more honest.

    • @jasoncook1457
      @jasoncook1457 3 года назад +4

      You can have love and a man who is financially stable. The two don’t have to be separate. There’s nothing attractive about struggle love. The majority of relationships end for financial reasons!

    • @KARTIKEYA007
      @KARTIKEYA007 3 года назад

      @@1989menutheiswhat Well it's just female nature to marry men who are richer than them. Men are always supposed to be used financially by women, well accepted by society.

  • @sgreenid
    @sgreenid 3 года назад +215

    Why not marry for both? Lol

    • @razanekhay5176
      @razanekhay5176 3 года назад

      @Michael carter lol

    • @DeniseSantos-qe5ee
      @DeniseSantos-qe5ee 3 года назад

      Facts

    • @realantagonist5324
      @realantagonist5324 3 года назад +1

      Why women always think they can have it all. Good luck .

    • @missme9650
      @missme9650 3 года назад +1

      @@realantagonist5324 is it a foreign concept to fall in love and be in a relationship with a successful lawyer, doctor or architect?!? That’s like a man saying that you can’t be with a woman who is beautiful, has a good character and a good personality. We can have both, rich men are not the devil.

    • @alezandradavila2581
      @alezandradavila2581 2 года назад

      I know it’s the work ethic

  • @josephlovely7759
    @josephlovely7759 3 года назад +34

    Loni is always dropping facts and numbers. Also I love the hair♥️♥️

  • @chamab.6800
    @chamab.6800 3 года назад +33

    Financial stability can indeed bring mental and emotional stability. How? That money can get you the help necessary to get your mental and emotional self together. Don’t let rich people try to tell you money can’t “buy happiness”. It can.

    • @alex_n215
      @alex_n215 3 года назад +1

      Therapy doesn’t always work for everyone unless they put in the effort it to work. Some people just don’t care anymore.

    • @mojo4719
      @mojo4719 3 года назад

      I’ll buy a divorce.

  • @onneetsemoleta9758
    @onneetsemoleta9758 3 года назад +14

    They chose well. I'm not crying for Tamera, this is an upgrade. She is a great fit and its a harmonious group.

  • @Carolina_Berean
    @Carolina_Berean 3 года назад +27

    Why do people act like you can't have LOVE and MONEY????

  • @yuvireyes7600
    @yuvireyes7600 3 года назад +61

    Adrienne is always talking about her “friends” and it’s never nice things about them.

    • @olat2597
      @olat2597 3 года назад +6

      You're so right! I never noticed this until your comment.

    • @mayalicious203
      @mayalicious203 3 года назад +7

      I don’t think they’re friends , I think they’re industry associates she’s known a long time but to make the story easy she just says friends .

    • @thrilla72
      @thrilla72 3 года назад +3

      Or she is talking about herself!

    • @donne32701
      @donne32701 3 года назад +3

      Yes not nice

    • @Blissedx
      @Blissedx 3 года назад

      @@thrilla72 most likely!

  • @ExpectoPatronum28
    @ExpectoPatronum28 3 года назад +89

    Jeannie is unbelievably gorgeous. Like WHOA.

  • @Somugaga
    @Somugaga 3 года назад +14

    Loni is looking fantastic. The hair, that side bow, the color...all YES!

  • @Antoinettemayers
    @Antoinettemayers 3 года назад +30

    Thank you Garcelle & Loni!

  • @hellendelightkitoto8570
    @hellendelightkitoto8570 3 года назад +17

    Loni ,your makeup is beautiful these day's... I love it

  • @justbu3797
    @justbu3797 3 года назад +7

    I was taught marry a man who loves you more and can provide. A provider may be abusive and feel like they can do what they want because the woman depends on them for money. Women must have some of their own dollars.

  • @LiLmSzDiVa
    @LiLmSzDiVa 3 года назад +20

    Adrienne is the perfect example of having both. I don’t like the mindset of having one or the other...you can have both. There are good men that have themselves together and want to be providers. You really don’t have to choose. No one (man or woman) should solely rely on someone else to provide their lifestyle.

  • @noirediamonds241
    @noirediamonds241 3 года назад +14

    Loni hit the nail on the head! As long as there’s a pay gap between genders, women should absolutely practice hypergamy!

  • @noelle2654
    @noelle2654 3 года назад +10

    Were they even listening to the article?💀 she did not say she wanted to sit around the house all day with a credit so Idk what Jeannie was talking about there. She was saying she wants to marry someone with financial stability. Not a sugar daddy. Also, we should all be AIMING to be married one time💀 yeah you should marry for love, AND financial stability.

    • @Curlsl
      @Curlsl 3 года назад

      I agree, but I don't even want to get married, I just want a kid now and I'll be happy.

  • @oliviarivera490
    @oliviarivera490 3 года назад +23

    When your first start dating you’re not in love. Many times you don’t give him a second date if he doesn’t have a job or a good paying one, a job, his own place, etc. Most times you find that and THEN that’s when you fall in love. Many women nip it in the bud before it gets that far. Its not just marrying for money it’s falling in love with someone you can have love AND stability with

  • @RyanJCreations
    @RyanJCreations 3 года назад +17

    I love how Jeannie and Adrienne wanna act like their men aren’t multi millionaires. No shade but you can have both honestly. And that’s what I want. You don’t have to marry for money or marry for love. If their men were struggling financially like owed taxes or were getting evicted etc. they wouldn’t have married or gotten engaged to them. And that’s ok. It’s called being smart. love is something but not EVERYthing.

  • @chamab.6800
    @chamab.6800 3 года назад +21

    People talk like broke men can’t treat you like trash. Like they’re shaming women who want men who got something. You ain’t gotta be rich but dang. Why is ok for men to date up but not women?

    • @missme9650
      @missme9650 3 года назад +3

      Exactly, men get their money and will only go after top tier women, he’s doesn’t want the girl from the hood who’s out of shape, has bad skin, doesn’t maintain her hair and has yellow teeth.

    • @cher-marienavarro1345
      @cher-marienavarro1345 3 года назад

      THIS!

    • @KARTIKEYA007
      @KARTIKEYA007 3 года назад

      @@missme9650 eh what? men marry below their financial standards ALL THE TIME, it's women who always want richer partners

  • @FruityUnicorn17
    @FruityUnicorn17 3 года назад +11

    Garcelle is so beautiful. I love how classy she is💜 The Real did a great job in choosing a great co-host (or guest host, I’m not sure if she is staying)

  • @chrissyandjoey28
    @chrissyandjoey28 3 года назад +9

    My gosh! Loni is sooo beautiful!😍😍😍😍 she’s beautiful inside and out! Whoever is friends with or is a part of her life are so blessed! I pray all of Gods blessings upon you and all the beautiful girls on the show in Jesus name amen 🙏🏻

  • @laurenleleux1405
    @laurenleleux1405 3 года назад +1

    Such a good segment! Good job ladies!
    Regarding quarantine, I personally feel confused now that we are several months into quarantine because of how different all the states are handling it.

  • @roseperez8837
    @roseperez8837 3 года назад +22

    It’s smart if you given up on love and you don’t sign a prenup 😂

  • @AmNotAshamedOfDGospelOfChrist
    @AmNotAshamedOfDGospelOfChrist 3 года назад +2

    Thank you Loni for being diligent in stating that we should be looking to marry once.

  • @newona4313
    @newona4313 3 года назад +3

    These rich people telling the rest of us to stay in our place while they get to slide by the rules

  • @BritneyWaldron
    @BritneyWaldron 3 года назад +10

    AMEN LONI!!!Speaking facts

  • @EarthAngel108
    @EarthAngel108 3 года назад +2

    I love your top Loni! 😍 Love all these ladies!

  • @estefaniapena1533
    @estefaniapena1533 3 года назад +1

    Loni hit it on the nail, THANK YOU!
    Women, do what you have to do to survive. Smart women Survive.

  • @lorainecodrington5721
    @lorainecodrington5721 3 года назад +8

    You ladies look extra lovely today.
    Loni keep at that diet it's doing wonders for you. You look radiant.
    Adrienne love your makeup. That collection is just you.
    Jeannie love your ideas on the topic. Your make up is lovely also.
    Garcelle your natural look is something for young darker skins to follow. Love your top.

  • @Gypsasha
    @Gypsasha 3 года назад +1

    These are such good topics!!

  • @hariadawson2437
    @hariadawson2437 3 года назад +5

    Kids go to school hungry in this country all the time. In the county that I live in they hand out breakfast and lunch free for all children especially now that some parents are either not working or have reduced hours. And this is the reason that they kept the program going because there are kids who would not have anything to eat if they weren't at school.

  • @missautumn1280
    @missautumn1280 3 года назад +18

    There’s no way I’m laying with a broke man because he offers love and affection.. can I pay bills with love and affection?? No!! Lol I will respect and love a man who provides for his family more than I would for a broke man who depends on women. 😎

    • @missautumn1280
      @missautumn1280 3 года назад +1

      @New Alfa I don’t have to settle for a broke man’s best. If he wants to struggle that’s fine but I’m not obligated to. No one questions an Asian or white or Latina for saying the same things for centuries so why should I be the exception? No thanks lol

    • @KARTIKEYA007
      @KARTIKEYA007 3 года назад

      @@missautumn1280 if u don't want to be with a man during his worst times then u should not expect to be there for him during his best. What do you bring to the table?

    • @missautumn1280
      @missautumn1280 3 года назад

      @@KARTIKEYA007 🤣🤣 keep living

    • @KARTIKEYA007
      @KARTIKEYA007 3 года назад

      @@missautumn1280 I take that answer as "I bring nothing to the table"

    • @missautumn1280
      @missautumn1280 3 года назад +1

      @@KARTIKEYA007 I AM the table. That’s it that’s all. Now go deal with the struggle life you so proudly defend.

  • @monaealiyah
    @monaealiyah 3 года назад +3

    Loving Garcelle, great add, fresh perspective

  • @Hope4Happiness89
    @Hope4Happiness89 3 года назад +2

    Grateful for Garcelle being on this show!!! She kept it real!!! Adrienne and Jeannie love to be so PC. Women should marry someone that brings stability because like Loni says, we're most likely not going to be paid as him. And when we have children, we are typically the ones that are asked to give up our source of income.

  • @JoslynJoy
    @JoslynJoy 3 года назад +5

    I want it all!
    I want financial security AND love and a good loving respectful relationship.
    I would love to not work but have my own business. Financial stability is very important.
    I dont know why some women try to shame someone for having standards and not willing to settle just for love! NAH.. thats when you young. But when you GROWNN! HOney booboo chiiild. You need someone to definitely take care of you. Be financially richer then you! Period🔥
    Adrienne should let someone TALK and then answer or respons. Its so annoying. Every time. Especially now with the zoomcalls. Please just let the other finish

  • @alextheegreat
    @alextheegreat 3 года назад +4

    I agree with Garcelle that love doesn’t pay the bills meaning that it takes more than just “we love each other” to marry but doesn’t mean being a gold digger. I don’t think she was implying that women should be a gold digger either but just have higher standards when it comes to marriage.

    • @alextheegreat
      @alextheegreat 3 года назад +1

      @New Alfa This is my personal opinion about it and how I analyzed what she was saying, that doesn’t mean that everyone agrees. People make their own decisions. Also you don’t need to tell me what I can and can’t take based off of what I said. You don’t know my reasoning behind saying it. I’ve done the complete opposite of what Garcelle said and I know the headache that comes with it.

  • @abreeanderson
    @abreeanderson 3 года назад +2

    I always look forward to a Adrienne’s one arm snap dance in the beginning of every episode

  • @Joyful-gu5bj
    @Joyful-gu5bj 3 года назад

    Great discussion.

  • @ByRenz
    @ByRenz 3 года назад

    Thank you Loni for sharing that information! Before we speak on situations we should fact check. Please call up a school to find out why the department of education are calling the cops. Many children are being abused and are denied an education. Be grateful that the schools are making sure the students are safe. There aren't no cops with guns visiting them. It's just to ensure these kids are safe. The cops are not called until the child have been absent for over a certain period of time and the school is unable to make contact. Come on people let's fact check before speaking on it.

  • @dianaalbino5048
    @dianaalbino5048 3 года назад +3

    Gacelle ,really nice addition. You are my fav now girl !

  • @carissadobson8068
    @carissadobson8068 3 года назад +7

    Income is different from wisdom with money as well. If he doesn't make much, but is wise with what he has, it's way better than someone who makes a lot but has gotten himself deep in debt.

  • @alexisco.3358
    @alexisco.3358 3 года назад +3

    Love is not affection. Love is responsibility and provision to those you care about.

  • @ghaliaahmed4947
    @ghaliaahmed4947 3 года назад +11

    Smart women marry fo advantage in general both emotionally and financially.

  • @mrssclarkie5474
    @mrssclarkie5474 3 года назад +3

    Garcelle yep on point AGAIN!!! You speak some wise worlds girl 👌👌

  • @naturindabrenda8863
    @naturindabrenda8863 3 года назад +7

    None of these women answered the damn question. Does it make you a good digger or not? Yes it makes you a gold digger and that's also okay if you chose to do it.

  • @Ceecee123
    @Ceecee123 3 года назад +36

    Also, I like Adrienne but homegirl isn't taking the pandemic seriously. Why would she host a party where you had to test the guests. IT's not necessary. Easily could have kept it among her family. A birthday is not that serious right now.

    • @naylani7790
      @naylani7790 3 года назад +5

      That’s what I’m saying...and also isn’t there a shortage of tests for people who actually need them? Throwing or going to any kind of party, wedding, etc. in this current climate is just so irresponsible all together imo....

    • @jasi7313
      @jasi7313 3 года назад +7

      It's her prerogative, and if everyone was tested and negative it's not irresponsible. How is her having all those people tested taking away tests from people? Rich people also need to be tested. plus, their tests were probably paid for, the res no shortage. 🙄 stop hating

    • @naylani7790
      @naylani7790 3 года назад +1

      @@jasi7313 no one is hating tho💀, well not me at least bc I can only speak for myself ... and don’t put words into my mouth bc I never once said rich ppl don’t deserve testing. Whether anyone *in general* has been tested positive or negative or if they haven’t even been tested at all; ask yourself this, “is it truly *necessary* for *anyone* to be throwing a whole party in the middle of a *whole pandemic* ?”😐...like my grandmother always says “think smarter, not harder”😊💞

  • @aAQEeprov
    @aAQEeprov 3 года назад +1

    Loni is BEAUTIFUL!!! And her background is lit! 😍😍😍

  • @mabelsheen4326
    @mabelsheen4326 3 года назад

    Great program

  • @rauhaus
    @rauhaus 3 года назад +16

    Jeanie and Adrienne sound so priveleged. I feel like they never try to see the world view of what other women who might not be as financially stable as them might feel. Honestly let's stop shaming women for wanting what they want, and they make so many assumptions.. Who's to say that someone won't be happy or won't be satisfied if they want financial stability in a partner. I'm really disappointed in both of them, they need to step out of their box.

    • @Curlsl
      @Curlsl 3 года назад +1

      exactly, to each their own.

  • @cecediaz6080
    @cecediaz6080 3 года назад +21

    Adrienne always says the same thing people say just breaks it down 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @zoriahfrancis2270
    @zoriahfrancis2270 3 года назад +6

    I want them all to use the same cameras. Loni and Garcelle's camera qualities are immaculate compared to Adrienne and Jeannie's.

  • @misninjathatil6879
    @misninjathatil6879 3 года назад +2

    Adrienne looks beautiful! I love this make-up on her

  • @tyronejames4187
    @tyronejames4187 3 года назад +6

    I'm not mad if a woman wants to marry for money. My thing is, if a man wants a stay at home wife, that should be ok too.

    • @tyronejames4187
      @tyronejames4187 3 года назад

      @New Alfa The same can be applied in reverse. Assuming you're a a woman, I could say: "Why set your sights on a man with money? You do know people struggle, right? You just don't want to involve yourself with that struggle because you can't take it, and prefer an easier life."
      See how that sounds????

  • @fallon5609
    @fallon5609 3 года назад +6

    I feel like if you love the guy and he treats u good AND he has money . then yes . but if he's not a good person and he has money I wouldn't marry him . I feel like financial stability matters but it doesnt come first.

    • @barefootinthepark5693
      @barefootinthepark5693 3 года назад

      What if you love the guy. He isn't financially stable. Has different goals than you. And does not treat you the way you deserve. But he claims to love you. 🌚

  • @melaniesouthworth3955
    @melaniesouthworth3955 3 года назад

    Some students don’t show up to zoom classes for MONTHS and you can’t get ahold of the parents. It’s not just one class. For us, the school district’s social worker will do a “wellness check” or DFS after that.

  • @kindarliejennipherpaul3584
    @kindarliejennipherpaul3584 3 года назад +1

    Oh Loni, honey! Your looks are giving me life 🥰

  • @tiamarie6997
    @tiamarie6997 3 года назад

    I love the mama Mai stories🤣💜

  • @Annaaaaaaaaaaaa
    @Annaaaaaaaaaaaa 3 года назад +2

    Garcelle and Loni's chemistry is amazing!!

  • @shellpoop2338
    @shellpoop2338 3 года назад

    Love adriennes new hair color! Fall vibes

  • @thinktasha8299
    @thinktasha8299 3 года назад +21

    I just feel like marrying for money could back-fire. You might be financially stable, but you might be sacrificing something far more important.

    • @lilian807
      @lilian807 3 года назад +3

      Oh sis absolutely! Emotions destroy relationships far worse than money.

    • @bookbag6432
      @bookbag6432 3 года назад +12

      However when you get divorced you at least get something out of it as opposed to marrying a broke guy and getting divorced and getting nothing out of it

    • @ayooKondom
      @ayooKondom 3 года назад +1

      What’s far more important?

    • @thinktasha8299
      @thinktasha8299 3 года назад +1

      @@ayooKondom A peace of mind. Freedom. Real happiness. Self love. Just because you are financially stable does not exempt you from struggling in other areas. You can have money and have NO self worth or friends. Elvis Presley's grandson commit suicide. He had everything, but no one knew he was fighting with demons everyday.

    • @TTTTania
      @TTTTania 3 года назад

      Thank you! I 100% agree

  • @saraodus9881
    @saraodus9881 3 года назад +3

    Can someone talk about the fact that not every state has quarantine rules?? Ain’t nothing shut down in GA

  • @carolynwhorms8853
    @carolynwhorms8853 3 года назад

    Good answer Genie

  • @beautybyreg7460
    @beautybyreg7460 3 года назад +1

    “Guys get flown out?” DEAD 😂😭

  • @Sorekneecap
    @Sorekneecap 3 года назад

    I love the brown hair on Adrienne

  • @rocka7339
    @rocka7339 3 года назад

    Garcelle is the reason why I came back to this show, she this show justice!!!! I love her

  • @EFUAGYANOWAA
    @EFUAGYANOWAA 3 года назад

    Love this video..

  • @capitanperez1509
    @capitanperez1509 3 года назад +3

    There are steps before the cops are notified 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @ayanour7
    @ayanour7 3 года назад

    5:05 When they agreed on marrying the first time for love🤔 I wonder what Adrienne was thinking about

  • @ashleyrose5170
    @ashleyrose5170 3 года назад +1

    Tbh- if you choose to let your child stay home even if you are not the academic teacher, you still need to make sure they are doing everything correctly.

  • @Unknownuser89878
    @Unknownuser89878 3 года назад +2

    How they have it set up this season is actually watchable. Last season (after it went virtual) was TERRIBLE. I'm shocked the production let an Emmy winning talk show have do many technical problems and shitty cameras. They literally looked like they were on webcams. This season is light years better.

  • @elijah10244
    @elijah10244 3 года назад +2

    Loni, this has nothing to do with equality or being paid less than men. I think as a woman, no matter how much you make, you would always want to be taken care of. Love and money work together

  • @carolkimeu5556
    @carolkimeu5556 3 года назад

    I like Loni's logic on this one!

  • @yogaqueen1527
    @yogaqueen1527 3 года назад +8

    Well adrianne not following quarantine rules. She just had a big party for her sister's birthday. No masks in site

    • @marielenagastelum2900
      @marielenagastelum2900 3 года назад

      Girl stop everyone gon get corona at this point or had it

    • @yogaqueen1527
      @yogaqueen1527 3 года назад +1

      @@marielenagastelum2900 you my friend sound ridiculous. I wear my mask. Social distance. And wash my hands. I have yet to catch it and i wont

    • @marielenagastelum2900
      @marielenagastelum2900 3 года назад

      @@yogaqueen1527 deadass you might be right. But I legit swear everyone has got it.

  • @claud2go
    @claud2go 3 года назад +2

    Go ahead Loni!

  • @alexandraanderson3988
    @alexandraanderson3988 Год назад

    I like how Jeannie keeps seeming to be entertained by Garcelle laughing and all I like that😊🥴😅☺️

  • @naqibahashraf6575
    @naqibahashraf6575 3 года назад +15

    what eyelashes is jeannie wearing in this episode??????????? jeannie plz tell us omg

  • @karengibson9777
    @karengibson9777 3 года назад +15

    Give me love peace & happiness, money can't buy that

    • @shavonh8421
      @shavonh8421 3 года назад +2

      I agree

    • @shavonh8421
      @shavonh8421 3 года назад +4

      I had a man that was a great provider but a cheater

    • @karengibson9777
      @karengibson9777 3 года назад +3

      Yaasss girl getting cheated out of love respect & loyalty but brought me everything 🙄🤔

    • @karengibson9777
      @karengibson9777 3 года назад +3

      Bring me a praying man GOD OVER EVERYTHING,
      Military man cause i know he's going to be a warrior in those streets,
      A Emperor in the sheets, a KING of his Castle ruling as the head of his family with Spiritual instruction, a family man,
      Who LOVES his Family unconditionally , that the man for me & MONEY ain't got a damn thing to do with it !!!

    • @shavonh8421
      @shavonh8421 3 года назад +2

      @@karengibson9777 Amen, that’s what I pray for everyday

  • @johannahshokane2263
    @johannahshokane2263 3 года назад +1

    Y’all Garcelle😍😍I love her!

  • @ednalavares9127
    @ednalavares9127 3 года назад +1

    I guess,Marrying someone who always bring the best in each other for me is of utmost importance in the start of a relationship...Because when you learn to support each other's endeavor then "Money" won't be an issue....