I guess im asking randomly but does someone know a tool to get back into an instagram account..? I was stupid forgot the password. I love any tips you can give me.
I'm with Loni on the fact that, you can't use nature as an excuse to violate your vows. You have a choice to decide not to act on or entertain those impulses.
I don't understand why people feel the need to walk around half naked all the time. Nudity does not =sexy. I get it you are confident & comfortable in your skin but that doesn't mean we all and our kids need to see it.
But why does it bother you though? Are you bothered by men who walk around with no shirts during the summer? I think we need to let go of the discomfort that exists with showing “too much” skin. This isnt even a professional environment where a dress code shows respect or formality.
I think people need to get comfortable with the idea that women don't wake up and think about you or your kids when getting dressed. And nudity may not be sexy to you and that's okay, but you need to stop expecting people to accommodate you and your discomfort, especially regarding their bodies and in a public space nogal.
@@vex1921 oh so no one criticized Jada Smith and called her a sl** even though she’s in an open marriage witj Will Smith? 🙄 Cheating is wrong for both genders.
Let's make it clear. No, it's not 'natural' to be monogamist, it's not 'natural' either to be polygamist. What is natural is respect. I know plenty of people in open-relationships who still respect each other, and that's fine
When Jeannie was with Freddy she said each to their own. There are different marriages and now she’s traditional.. bottom line don’t judge other people’s marriage
Monogamy "is natural for a man" that has a husband's mindset. So, if the guy you're interested in "is not monogamous," then you shouldn't marry him. Because if you do, "you're excepting his terms for marriage" and ignoring your own terms. I say, pick someone that "generally" thinks like you, based on your basic non-negotiable partner traits. Furthermore, if you have "stinking thinking'" then you should change your mind before you get married. That said Monogamy and Marriage go together like M&Ms. But Promiscuity usually pairs up with Heartbreak.
Thank you! Last time I checked it was between 2 people not 3 or 4 smh. Things like this make me scared for real. Imagine your man kissing on a female costar and you had to find out though the internet smh. Loyalty is just a word these days
I think that Adrienne and Jennie forgot to think about the average American. The average American non celebrity doesn’t just go out showing cleavage in public maybe to night club but not the airport work church school the airport it’s just not normal to do that
Jeannie and Adrian are trippin. Both their men have a history of being with multiple women. And they wanna act like it okay for that woman to sit next to their man, get out of here
But why is it on the woman to 'not tempt' the man? Men are grown, if they're uncomfortable/ feel some type of way, then look away. Avert your gaze. Switch seats, you're the one who's uncomfortable, are you not?
Is Monogamy a Myth ------------- We’ve had this conversation before about works best for people...now the situation at hand I can’t speak on cuz I’m not apart of their union... but I would say it depends on the couple... if you know your partner as well as yourself are capable of having wandering eyes and act out on their emotions and sexual tensions toward other people outside of your marriage and you have NO ISSUE with it and y’all have a mutual agreement to do whatever as long as you respect the home and do what you have to do to keep going them do so! But for me... I’m not staying in a marriage where someone has the capability of being with someone else and then being out and about with no care of being seen with the other person... that doesn’t sit well with me or my spirit! But that’s ME... others feel differently! If you choose to have a monogamous , polygamous or whatever relationship...t hat is up to you and your partner! Airplane Attire ----------- appreciate the captains approach... he decided to simply be kind and joke a bit to make the situation light hearted and not have things get heated...and I actually thought the gesture he did with the sweatshirt was very sweet! I just think in any kind of situation just to avoid situations like this... just dress a little more appropriately... this is an airplane , germs are on the plane , it is very cold on the plane and sometimes being comfortable is better than being cute... I’m all about dressing to impress and feeling yourself but this case was a bit much... do I think they should have examples of what lewd, obscene, and etc looks like instead of just rolling up to a person before they go to their seat!
Natural in some animals, but not in humans. Those animals that are life long monogamous never "cheat". It's effortless. Humans cheat, relationships end, and even those who stay faithful have to work at it.
@@CM-uq8ro That’s why I said a lot of animals. Just like people marry one person and they’re together until they die, crocodiles/alligators have one mate for life.
@@rachelg6289 except we don't have one mate for life. The average amount of partners in the US is 6 for men and 4 for women. The divorce rate if high. Cheating is common
I disagree. Very few animals ‘mate’/have sex recreationally. They mate during mating season and that’s it till the next year or w/e. Humans be getting it on all year round, maybe if you ‘mated’ with your man/woman for two weeks a year things would stay ‘exciting’. This isn’t necessarily what I believe but it’s a valid consideration
The young lady was definitely dressed inappropriately to be boarding a plane. Have some self respect. That plunge was way too deep for that setting. Instead of just accepting the suggestion to cover up she had to make a big scene.
She *has* self respect by dressing the way she *wants* to. And she wasnt even looking trashy. How would you feel if someone else was telling you to change your outfit just to board a plane with a bunch of strangers to go to god knows where?
Girls I just want you to know that you are smart, intelligent, funny etc. no matter what people say you are beautiful in your own way. Don't listen to the people who want to tear you down because they are just mad at your success. You are loved even when you think your not because you were perfectly crafted by god and don't let anyone tell you different.
Not everything is a flipping injustice.. the people have their dress code, it's not unreasonable that they would want her to wear something more..her top looks like slightly more than a bra..come on
Adrienne should watch her words especially being that she's married to someone who professes to be a Christian...then again they all live in Hollyweird
First Jeanie talks about why get married if you can’t be a moral ethical monogamous partner then she’s talking about getting a peep show. Sounds hypocritical to me.
@@Rokia2003 Yeah I noticed that too like yo say one thing then do another thing lmaoo she is kind of a people pleaser like she said on the show and she tends to speak for the genual public like Adrienne on topics like this. But come on Jeannie be real with yourself there's no way you'd be ok with your then now husband Jay sittin next to a woman like that all in the sake of a peep show😐😒 like I like her but c'mon. I think both her and Adrienne arent being real with themseles here!
These ladies definitely speak what's in my mind! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Monogamy can definitely be natural depending on anybody's relationship preferences. What bothers me is that those that prefer to be non monogamous tells us not to judge them for wanting to be that way while at the same time, they still judge us for preferring to be monogamous. Not all of us want that kind of lifestyle! Some of us would just rather to be a little old-fashioned. This story has got me heated!
You make vows to "forsake all others" -- why are we acting like fidelity is not a cornerstone of marriage? If you're unwilling to forsake all others, then just be life partners. Fidelity and monogamy are two separate things.
Wow! Well he is just living out his role in “The Affair” his Showtime drama. Check it out! That is exactly what he did in the series! He was very trifling in the series. Sad to see he’s living that out in “real” life.
My mother's family is the same, but Trinidadian, everyone used to dress up for the plane, and some still do. Africans and Asians also love to dress up too.
I don’t understand why the girl has to put a shirt on. PEOPLE wear worse all the time. What if that’s how she wants to be represented. Why is it her responsibility to make sure others are okay with what she’s wearing? How about u focus on yourself and the reason why you have an issue with what she’s wearing cuz she obviously it.
Wow... it's so sad that we don't seem to feel the need to look out for each other anymore... It's the reason there's so much suicide and mental illnesses because now it's no longer about the wellness of a community and the people together. It's about me, myself and I.. and if this continues, this world is headed for the South. Just painful and sad!😔
@@stepheessel6667 It really is. And no one can be corrected or counseled these days either. Instead of conforming to set rules, they want the rules to conform to their preferences. She wasn't singled out, those rules applied to everyone. She violated them. Compliance is the issue.
He was trying to keep her from going off by being friendly and trying to keep it light. I don't think he was trying to flirt or cheat like one of the girls mentioned. I think it was Adrienne who mentioned the ring.
Adrienne remember LOOKS AREN'T EVERYTHING! You seem to worry more about how you look in these segments rather than showing others respect while they're presenting. You've got a nice personality but stop being so superficial. JS!
What two people decide to do in their marriage is none of anyone’s business and just because a couple marriage is different doesn’t mean it’s a lesser marriage.
I feel like the comments on "why get married then?" were a little narrow-minded. And honestly, it seemed like it came from a very conservative/traditional, even religious definition of marriage. The truth is, all that marriage does is provide a legal definition and rights in a relationship between 2 partners. But the agreement behind that legal contract is up to the people entering into it - that could mean polyamory, or maybe just polygamy, or it could literally just be a financial or child-rearing based agreement. We don't know what these two people decided on, so we can't necessarily judge them.
Event he religious argument is weak. I'm genuinely curious where the push toward monogamy started. It certainly wasn't in the Bible. Most of the people in the Bible were polygamous. No where in the Bible does it condone monogamy or condemn polygamy. It only says don't take on more wives than you can afford.
@@CM-uq8ro that part I’ve been watching the real for a while so I know that they adhere to Christian faith but like do they know that polygamy is in the Bible, have they ever heard of sister wives
@@CM-uq8ro the Bible does not condone polygamy. No where in the Bible is it “acceptable”. People in the Bible did it, the same way they killed, cheated and stole- and the Bible acknowledges that they exist, but the Bible insists on multiple occasions “one man and one wife”. From the very first couple in the Bible, God did not give Adam multiple wives. Every man who married more than 1 wife, messed things up in the Bible.
@@Joy-xu9wk Also the Bible has been translated a few times before it was in English, a lot of thing are lost in translation. It be very possible that when it translated they made it to fit the ideas and society norms.
Jennie has a point, if that shirt was worn on a women with smaller breast there probably wouldn't have been a problem, and it comes back to the question of how we normalize different body shapes in different clothes. Same way Adrienne was allowed to wear her small dress, put that on a bigger girl (chest, bottom, anything tbh) and watch her get stopped. Ive seen this so much and its honestly subjective which gives power to bias. Just one way of looking at it...
The two that said they wouldn't have a problem with someone dressed like that sitting next to their husband or son are LYYIIINNNGGGG!! 😅🙄🙄 Garcelle was saying like it is. I would absolutely have a problem. There is nothing wrong with what she wore....to a beach/pool party/some clubs or whatever. But on a plane where there are grown folk and kids for that matter...nah sis, do better. Every where you go, there is an appropriate attire. Like Garcelle said, be presentable, represent yourself well with appropriate attire for where you are going. At the end of the day this has taught us to read what's acceptable and not acceptable on planes 😅.
Marriages these days are not taking seriously. If I am married I will respect and honor my vows 💯 some people have the title of marriage but don't show the actions of being in one. But hey if they are ok with it then that's them, couldn't be me though
So true! I don’t understand why half these people even get married with the way they are wanting to live their lives tbh. Like why get married at all?!
Hello Ladies. What some people seem to have forgotten or in past, overlooked.. It is a matter of being respectful within a marriage always. And common sense to dress appropriately whatever the scenario. It's called being respective of everyone.
I know plenty of morally corrupt monogamous people. Also, people who think monogamy is the key ingredient to marriage will stay in physically, emotionally, financially, and verbally abusive marriages just as long as he/she is not cheating.
Always look presentable wherever you go..... frankly if the young lady was to attend a meeting with Michelle Obama when she arrives at her destination she WONT dress like that,..... just saying
@@jasminek.7207 exactly, all the reason why she should not have dressed the way she did, its best for the club not a plane trip. every scenario has its unspoken dress code.
As humans we work off logic, not instincts. "Is monogomy natural" is a weird question. Women definitely have the capability of cheating especially if she is emotionally neglected and feel unloved but it takes a strong minded person to say "No, I won't do this!" For me... I won't cheat because not only is it a sin, it's disgusting. You will have a blemished reputation and no Future person will trust you in a marriage. My husband and I have had many bad days and temptation is always there but my image before God and my reputation means much more to me. Anybody can do wrong, it's actually natural for us to do wrong but you have to choose to do right and that takes a strong minded person.
I think the ladies perspective on marriage was very traditional & slightly narrow minded but valid. I just wish they acknowledged the validity in other commitment types. like open, free, & other non-monogamous relationships. I feel like the idea of marriage is commitment, to another person in whatever relationship style you both agree to adhere to. For some thats monogamy for others it’s not and that doesn’t make a relationship or marriage any less valid.
They don’t have to acknowledge something they don’t believe in. If I don’t believe in polygamy- then I will not condone or acknowledge those marriages as “valid”. even the law doesn’t recognize polygamy In the US, so why should they?
@@teresamarie7460 I’m in one. I could care less if anyone acknowledges it. It’s validity is not based on others acknowledgment. Same way, I’m a woman, whether others acknowledge it or not, it doesn’t bother me. But if your relationship rests on people “acknowledging it” then maybe it wasn’t valid in the first place.
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I love how Garcelle has her own opinion and doesn't always have to agree to the ladies I think she makes a perfect match
She's the most honest... Although I adore them all!
I agree with this!!! I think she says what we're all thinking 😝but I do love all the ladies!
Yup! Like Adrienne always changing her opinion
Yes
We should always have our own opinions...even with our Partners.
Garcelle is a mature woman, she's not about being politically correct, but just being truthful, realistic and speaking her mind, you go girl
YES I LOVE IT!
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I love it!
I guess im asking randomly but does someone know a tool to get back into an instagram account..?
I was stupid forgot the password. I love any tips you can give me.
@Eli Gianni Instablaster ;)
I love that Garcelle still speaks her mind. Her opinion isn't easily swayed just because the other ladies don't agree with her.
I JUST WAS THINKING THIS!!
ME TOO
just like tamar
She is a seasoned woman. Married, divorced, mother of three males, and sooo much more😁
yesss! I think sometimes the other ladies say things because they don't want to be attacked haha.
I'm with Loni on the fact that, you can't use nature as an excuse to violate your vows. You have a choice to decide not to act on or entertain those impulses.
Lol, since when is it another woman's responsibility to protect the eyes of a married man?
That's so dumb.
He is a grown ass man.
hoes gonna hoe
Tell that to schools😂
I agree with Garcelle. Look presentable when you are out and about.
All of the ladies look beautiful & stylish! 👌🏾
Right so pretty 😍
Yes, they all look amazing! 😍🔥❤😍🔥
Just realized each of them have the same bouquet of flowers. So cute
I don't understand why people feel the need to walk around half naked all the time. Nudity does not =sexy. I get it you are confident & comfortable in your skin but that doesn't mean we all and our kids need to see it.
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But why does it bother you though? Are you bothered by men who walk around with no shirts during the summer? I think we need to let go of the discomfort that exists with showing “too much” skin. This isnt even a professional environment where a dress code shows respect or formality.
I completely agree with you, nudity is not sexy at all!!
Its sexy to them. Nobody is thinking about yall and your kids
I think people need to get comfortable with the idea that women don't wake up and think about you or your kids when getting dressed. And nudity may not be sexy to you and that's okay, but you need to stop expecting people to accommodate you and your discomfort, especially regarding their bodies and in a public space nogal.
Monogamy is definitely natural, but that man just wanted some younger kitty which is typical but still not acceptable.
@@vex1921 oh so no one criticized Jada Smith and called her a sl** even though she’s in an open marriage witj Will Smith? 🙄
Cheating is wrong for both genders.
Men and women are not the same and we will never be and you can't shame me for what comes naturally to me.
@@tonymontana7950 so it’s not natural for women to want monogamy and good sex even in older age?
@@Amorantasia1 I'm not a woman!
Let's make it clear. No, it's not 'natural' to be monogamist, it's not 'natural' either to be polygamist. What is natural is respect. I know plenty of people in open-relationships who still respect each other, and that's fine
Garcelle thank you for speaking your mind!!! You’re a breath of fresh air!!
I’m glad Garcelle doesn’t need to conform to the other ladies opinions and speaks her truth.
Right!...be presentable! That outfit was not presentable to me
Im always unconcerned about others appearance on a plane, im too busy praying we make it and trying to relax to be a fashion editor.
It's not about being tacky or not it's about being appropriately clothed or not. You don't have to be a fashion editor.
Everyone is not like you ma'am
When Jeannie was with Freddy she said each to their own. There are different marriages and now she’s traditional.. bottom line don’t judge other people’s marriage
Tbh she implied in an older episode that she was that way because of other issues within her marriage (she probably didnt like him that much lmfao)
Tisa Til True True!
@@hitthefries i agree, she aint like him that much cuz if she did then she wouldn't want to share him lol
Exactly!!
Yup. Jeannie says a lot if things🙄
Adrienne you crazy! Garcelle finally some sense on this show!
Honestly luv garcelle bob it’s so cute and I agree with the ladies marriage is suppose to be sacred I don’t play that open marriage business smh!!!
Monogamy "is natural for a man" that has a husband's mindset. So, if the guy you're interested in "is not monogamous," then you shouldn't marry him. Because if you do, "you're excepting his terms for marriage" and ignoring your own terms. I say, pick someone that "generally" thinks like you, based on your basic non-negotiable partner traits. Furthermore, if you have "stinking thinking'" then you should change your mind before you get married. That said Monogamy and Marriage go together like M&Ms. But Promiscuity usually pairs up with Heartbreak.
Exactly
Well said 😊
@@vibe2248 Thanks. Have a good one.
This was a great explanation and well said
If there is a policy the passenger needs to adhere to, then that's that! No refund! I mean I'm paying for a flight, not a strip club.
They refunded her because there was no policy, lol.The flight staff made it up.
Period
Marriage is between two people in OUR CULTURE. It's natural for some, it's unnatural for some
Thank you! Last time I checked it was between 2 people not 3 or 4 smh. Things like this make me scared for real. Imagine your man kissing on a female costar and you had to find out though the internet smh. Loyalty is just a word these days
Which culture? Because some cultures have men with heaps of wives boppin’ around
@@graceh4670 that's my point. Our dominant western culture intertwined with Christianity does. Others have men/ women/ both with multiple partners
I think that Adrienne and Jennie forgot to think about the average American. The average American non celebrity doesn’t just go out showing cleavage in public maybe to night club but not the airport work church school the airport it’s just not normal to do that
I think they are the only ones speaking for the average person if you ask me.
Jeannie and Adrian are trippin. Both their men have a history of being with multiple women. And they wanna act like it okay for that woman to sit next to their man, get out of here
But why is it on the woman to 'not tempt' the man? Men are grown, if they're uncomfortable/ feel some type of way, then look away. Avert your gaze. Switch seats, you're the one who's uncomfortable, are you not?
@@siyasangakohli6382 it’s not abt that
Right lmaoo like gtfoh respectfully tho😊😊🤭🤭
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Is Monogamy a Myth
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We’ve had this conversation before about works best for people...now the situation at hand I can’t speak on cuz I’m not apart of their union... but I would say it depends on the couple... if you know your partner as well as yourself are capable of having wandering eyes and act out on their emotions and sexual tensions toward other people outside of your marriage and you have NO ISSUE with it and y’all have a mutual agreement to do whatever as long as you respect the home and do what you have to do to keep going them do so! But for me... I’m not staying in a marriage where someone has the capability of being with someone else and then being out and about with no care of being seen with the other person... that doesn’t sit well with me or my spirit! But that’s ME... others feel differently! If you choose to have a monogamous , polygamous or whatever relationship...t hat is up to you and your partner!
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appreciate the captains approach... he decided to simply be kind and joke a bit to make the situation light hearted and not have things get heated...and I actually thought the gesture he did with the sweatshirt was very sweet! I just think in any kind of situation just to avoid situations like this... just dress a little more appropriately... this is an airplane , germs are on the plane , it is very cold on the plane and sometimes being comfortable is better than being cute... I’m all about dressing to impress and feeling yourself but this case was a bit much... do I think they should have examples of what lewd, obscene, and etc looks like instead of just rolling up to a person before they go to their seat!
@Yllom Sik Lol, am I missing something. Do you know him personally to know what his ‘’type’’ is?
Yeahhhhhh she was tripping people have kids on the plane & everything. People should check themselves really. It just looked bad.
Monogamy is pretty natural. A lot of animals have one mate for life.
Natural in some animals, but not in humans. Those animals that are life long monogamous never "cheat". It's effortless. Humans cheat, relationships end, and even those who stay faithful have to work at it.
@@CM-uq8ro That’s why I said a lot of animals. Just like people marry one person and they’re together until they die, crocodiles/alligators have one mate for life.
@@rachelg6289 except we don't have one mate for life. The average amount of partners in the US is 6 for men and 4 for women. The divorce rate if high. Cheating is common
@Paul Da Don penguins
I disagree. Very few animals ‘mate’/have sex recreationally. They mate during mating season and that’s it till the next year or w/e. Humans be getting it on all year round, maybe if you ‘mated’ with your man/woman for two weeks a year things would stay ‘exciting’. This isn’t necessarily what I believe but it’s a valid consideration
Yes, Jeannie 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Marriage means commitment to 1 person.
THANKGOD GARCELLE KEEPS IT REAL
Miss the rest of the ladies Tamara n Amanda 💜
NOT AMANDA PLEASE.🙄
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PREACH JEANNIE!!! Marriage is beyond dating. You don't get to keep all your options in a LIFELONG COMMITMENT!
The young lady was definitely dressed inappropriately to be boarding a plane. Have some self respect. That plunge was way too deep for that setting. Instead of just accepting the suggestion to cover up she had to make a big scene.
She *has* self respect by dressing the way she *wants* to. And she wasnt even looking trashy. How would you feel if someone else was telling you to change your outfit just to board a plane with a bunch of strangers to go to god knows where?
@@Jadeukida if I was wearing a bra, I would listen and be quiet.
@@Jadeukida opinioins differ, to many others it may be "trashy" or offensive. The basic dress code is to just cover up. Its called public decency.
@@ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063 certainly
@London exactly🙄
Jeanie total summed it up: marriage is a vow to be monogamous. It takes discipline. love it!
Girls I just want you to know that you are smart, intelligent, funny etc. no matter what people say you are beautiful in your own way. Don't listen to the people who want to tear you down because they are just mad at your success. You are loved even when you think your not because you were perfectly crafted by god and don't let anyone tell you different.
shanya allen so are you! So are you!
Her outfit was inappropriate and her attitude was unnecessary.
@C C In an airport, yes that is inappropriate as well. Not a double standard. Just standards. Simple.
Not everything is a flipping injustice.. the people have their dress code, it's not unreasonable that they would want her to wear something more..her top looks like slightly more than a bra..come on
GIRL I was about to say that! Like come onnnnn!
Exactly so! It's my airline, and I choose how you dress on boarding it... So, why should that be a problem?🤷♀️
Exactly
I didn't kno planes had a dress code either
Shows how far society has fallen. Most places have dress codes.
I believe many wives would be “supportive” in PUBLIC 👀 but in private I’m sure he got checked !
Def😂😂😂😂💯✍🏾
It doesn’t make a difference when the wife isn’t going to leave. He doesn’t have to change
Marriage is honorable unto the Lord. Marriage is supposed to be monogamous.
I agree.. I’d be uncomfortable with my son sitting next to someone dressed like that
is it me or does the real seem more real now that Garcelle is a part of it. i just love her
I think Israel needs to work with Adrienne on the Biblical definition of marriage. I was actually shocked she said that.
Her true colors coming out. I'm sure Isreal isn't a saint either. I mean he cheated on his wife of 20 years and had 2 babies on her🤷🏾♀️
@@rajanne2116 wait it was 2 😳 chileeee
@@tasiabromell7311 Yes 2 girl. That he neither supports, claims or even talks about. Neither does Ade but those kids look like him
@@angelinemutsengi2148 why do yall keep believing rumors with no actual proof
Not everyone is a Christian. Also, most people in the Bible were polygamous, and not once does the Bible say anything negative about non-monogamy
Adrienne should watch her words especially being that she's married to someone who professes to be a Christian...then again they all live in Hollyweird
I don't think Adrienne is aware of the power of a women's sexuality and its impact on other men.
First Jeanie talks about why get married if you can’t be a moral ethical monogamous partner then she’s talking about getting a peep show. Sounds hypocritical to me.
That's because it is. I'm so sick of lukewarm christians. 🙄
@@selfrespectingfemale6811 for real like if we’re going to be God fearing you gotta go all the way not just for whatever we pick and choose
Because she doesn’t want to offend people and she ain’t being real
@@Rokia2003 Yeah I noticed that too like yo say one thing then do another thing lmaoo she is kind of a people pleaser like she said on the show and she tends to speak for the genual public like Adrienne on topics like this. But come on Jeannie be real with yourself there's no way you'd be ok with your then now husband Jay sittin next to a woman like that all in the sake of a peep show😐😒 like I like her but c'mon. I think both her and Adrienne arent being real with themseles here!
These ladies definitely speak what's in my mind! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Monogamy can definitely be natural depending on anybody's relationship preferences. What bothers me is that those that prefer to be non monogamous tells us not to judge them for wanting to be that way while at the same time, they still judge us for preferring to be monogamous. Not all of us want that kind of lifestyle! Some of us would just rather to be a little old-fashioned. This story has got me heated!
LOVE the longer clips
You make vows to "forsake all others" -- why are we acting like fidelity is not a cornerstone of marriage? If you're unwilling to forsake all others, then just be life partners. Fidelity and monogamy are two separate things.
Wow! Well he is just living out his role in “The Affair” his Showtime drama. Check it out! That is exactly what he did in the series! He was very trifling in the series. Sad to see he’s living that out in “real” life.
Garcelle is killin it today!! 👍👍
Jeannie looks so beautiful here! Also I love how they all have the same pink roses!
when Garcelle said her mom would go all out to go to the airport 😂 I love us Haitian folk!
My mother's family is the same, but Trinidadian, everyone used to dress up for the plane, and some still do. Africans and Asians also love to dress up too.
I don’t understand why the girl has to put a shirt on. PEOPLE wear worse all the time. What if that’s how she wants to be represented. Why is it her responsibility to make sure others are okay with what she’s wearing? How about u focus on yourself and the reason why you have an issue with what she’s wearing cuz she obviously it.
Wow... it's so sad that we don't seem to feel the need to look out for each other anymore... It's the reason there's so much suicide and mental illnesses because now it's no longer about the wellness of a community and the people together. It's about me, myself and I.. and if this continues, this world is headed for the South. Just painful and sad!😔
@@stepheessel6667 It really is. And no one can be corrected or counseled these days either. Instead of conforming to set rules, they want the rules to conform to their preferences. She wasn't singled out, those rules applied to everyone. She violated them. Compliance is the issue.
People marry for different reasons. It's not always about deep love and monogamy.
😎 SWEETIE REAL TALK THEIR'S MANY BUSINESS MARRIAGES 💑 ETC. ETC.
Exactly.And over 50% of love marriages end in divorce.
Yikes well that’s not good lmao
Speak on it Jeannie!!!!
Lol I know the pilot was just trying to lighten the mood but I caught his wedding ring 👀😂 thought the ladies were gonna mention that 🤣
He was trying to keep her from going off by being friendly and trying to keep it light. I don't think he was trying to flirt or cheat like one of the girls mentioned. I think it was Adrienne who mentioned the ring.
That was inappropriate dress....
I'm here for the pilot lmao
The one who created marriage should determine the rules 👀
Yup, the Originator of marriage is TMH
Oh...Yes Jeannie, u better come through with that wisdom of yours hunnnay...
Nobody. But respect, integrity, character, honesty and unconditional love.
Adrienne remember LOOKS AREN'T EVERYTHING! You seem to worry more about how you look in these segments rather than showing others respect while they're presenting. You've got a nice personality but stop being so superficial. JS!
Just realising that they all have the same pink flowers in their background
You can’t say that it’s “their marriage and not our place to speak on it” but then continue to speak on it 😂😂😂
I love your outfit Adrienne. Beautiful.
The bible should be your guide when it comes to marriage
@nakesha Skerritt-philip exactly
Absolutely
What two people decide to do in their marriage is none of anyone’s business and just because a couple marriage is different doesn’t mean it’s a lesser marriage.
I feel like the comments on "why get married then?" were a little narrow-minded. And honestly, it seemed like it came from a very conservative/traditional, even religious definition of marriage. The truth is, all that marriage does is provide a legal definition and rights in a relationship between 2 partners. But the agreement behind that legal contract is up to the people entering into it - that could mean polyamory, or maybe just polygamy, or it could literally just be a financial or child-rearing based agreement. We don't know what these two people decided on, so we can't necessarily judge them.
Event he religious argument is weak. I'm genuinely curious where the push toward monogamy started. It certainly wasn't in the Bible. Most of the people in the Bible were polygamous. No where in the Bible does it condone monogamy or condemn polygamy. It only says don't take on more wives than you can afford.
@@CM-uq8ro that part I’ve been watching the real for a while so I know that they adhere to Christian faith but like do they know that polygamy is in the Bible, have they ever heard of sister wives
@@CM-uq8ro the Bible does not condone polygamy. No where in the Bible is it “acceptable”. People in the Bible did it, the same way they killed, cheated and stole- and the Bible acknowledges that they exist, but the Bible insists on multiple occasions “one man and one wife”. From the very first couple in the Bible, God did not give Adam multiple wives. Every man who married more than 1 wife, messed things up in the Bible.
@@Joy-xu9wk Also the Bible has been translated a few times before it was in English, a lot of thing are lost in translation. It be very possible that when it translated they made it to fit the ideas and society norms.
@@TheSaray08 That is 100%. True.
Been waitingggg🥰🥰🥰💕💕
I love this episode ❤️
it's sad that companies have to ask to cover up....it's sad that Jeannie and Adrienne don't see nothing wrong with that.
Jennie has a point, if that shirt was worn on a women with smaller breast there probably wouldn't have been a problem, and it comes back to the question of how we normalize different body shapes in different clothes. Same way Adrienne was allowed to wear her small dress, put that on a bigger girl (chest, bottom, anything tbh) and watch her get stopped. Ive seen this so much and its honestly subjective which gives power to bias. Just one way of looking at it...
Yes jeannie agreed! Great point
Nope , it’s classless and disrespectful! 💯beach / club style outfit isn’t for the airport , bank or school . What part of that is controversial? 🤷🏻♀️
LMAOOOOOO Loni googling words and stuff and Garcelle reacting has me weaaaak
Thank you Loni
I love Adrienne’s Vibe 🤣🤣🤣
Th pilot was trying to help her lol
Even when you have a fun job you can tell ALL Mondays are usually dead.
The two that said they wouldn't have a problem with someone dressed like that sitting next to their husband or son are LYYIIINNNGGGG!! 😅🙄🙄 Garcelle was saying like it is. I would absolutely have a problem. There is nothing wrong with what she wore....to a beach/pool party/some clubs or whatever. But on a plane where there are grown folk and kids for that matter...nah sis, do better. Every where you go, there is an appropriate attire. Like Garcelle said, be presentable, represent yourself well with appropriate attire for where you are going. At the end of the day this has taught us to read what's acceptable and not acceptable on planes 😅.
Marriages these days are not taking seriously. If I am married I will respect and honor my vows 💯 some people have the title of marriage but don't show the actions of being in one. But hey if they are ok with it then that's them, couldn't be me though
So true! I don’t understand why half these people even get married with the way they are wanting to live their lives tbh. Like why get married at all?!
@@mt3388 yea wasting money and time smh just be single if you want to mess around it's not hard at all
@@melissalitus8879 exactly!!! Like isn’t it more of a hassle for these people to get married rather than not?! I just don’t understand it
@@mt3388 yep truly a mess. I can't deal with celebs and their "relationships"
i love this group of ladies chemistry is amazing
Me too, even though I miss Tamera and Amanda, great chemistry here.
Hello Ladies. What some people seem to have forgotten or in past, overlooked.. It is a matter of being respectful within a marriage always. And common sense to dress appropriately whatever the scenario. It's called being respective of everyone.
I love how the team added Garcelle! 😍
If a man can't board an airplane wearing that, neither can a woman.
the captain actually made me crack up!! he was funny.
Omg Adrienne looks preeeetttyyyyy in pink 💕💕💕
Jeannie spoke facts!
I'm still praying for Adrian to have a 👶!
I know plenty of morally corrupt monogamous people. Also, people who think monogamy is the key ingredient to marriage will stay in physically, emotionally, financially, and verbally abusive marriages just as long as he/she is not cheating.
The ladies are interesting now, I was scared after tamera left not knowing which direction it will go. Beautiful ladies love you all
I am a big fan of the Real that I like watching I love All of y'all ,y'all look petty awesome and funny and CUTE on the Real ☺☺☺
Always look presentable wherever you go..... frankly if the young lady was to attend a meeting with Michelle Obama when she arrives at her destination she WONT dress like that,..... just saying
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meeting Michelle Obama and going on a plane trip is two completely different scenarios
@@jasminek.7207 exactly, all the reason why she should not have dressed the way she did, its best for the club not a plane trip. every scenario has its unspoken dress code.
@@takamdijaule747 Exactly you never know who may or may not be on board and yoou out here dressing like that lmaoo
As humans we work off logic, not instincts. "Is monogomy natural" is a weird question. Women definitely have the capability of cheating especially if she is emotionally neglected and feel unloved but it takes a strong minded person to say "No, I won't do this!" For me... I won't cheat because not only is it a sin, it's disgusting. You will have a blemished reputation and no Future person will trust you in a marriage. My husband and I have had many bad days and temptation is always there but my image before God and my reputation means much more to me. Anybody can do wrong, it's actually natural for us to do wrong but you have to choose to do right and that takes a strong minded person.
Jeannie is so fly to me.
I just think she is so attractive.
Personality and looks
I was taking a shower listening to this and then when I got out to see the picture of the girl, I was like what’s wrong with that
Jeanne is so smart I love her
Sarcasm or are you serious?
@Lady Scorpio 😎
SHE LOVES THE SPOTLIGHT 😹MEOW😹
When is cleavage banned? I see it on almost every flight.
These are thw type of girl chats U enjoy! Different opinions and i interesting/fun topics
I think the ladies perspective on marriage was very traditional & slightly narrow minded but valid. I just wish they acknowledged the validity in other commitment types. like open, free, & other non-monogamous relationships. I feel like the idea of marriage is commitment, to another person in whatever relationship style you both agree to adhere to. For some thats monogamy for others it’s not and that doesn’t make a relationship or marriage any less valid.
They don’t have to acknowledge something they don’t believe in. If I don’t believe in polygamy- then I will not condone or acknowledge those marriages as “valid”. even the law doesn’t recognize polygamy In the US, so why should they?
@@Joy-xu9wk I know a lot of people who don't acknowledge interracial marriage 😉.
@@teresamarie7460 I’m in one. I could care less if anyone acknowledges it. It’s validity is not based on others acknowledgment. Same way, I’m a woman, whether others acknowledge it or not, it doesn’t bother me. But if your relationship rests on people “acknowledging it” then maybe it wasn’t valid in the first place.
Jeannie looks pretty today face, outfit and hair
Airlines always had dress codes. She looked like she was about to go on stage with a pole. Follow the guidelines or don’t fly