Many people think a divorce is embarrassing, but once you see a friend in that boat, it’s that much easier to get on the boat, rather than being the first on it.
C A exactly this! You may have been thinking it for years but wondering if you’re exaggerating, and if everyone else is making it work in theirs you should too. When someone else goes through it it almost gives you permission and validation to do what you needed to all along.
@@dayjahomara They don’t need validation to know their relationship isn’t working. They need a force other than themselves to take the massive step of divorce.
Whoever is reading this and you have been falsely accused, always misunderstood, rejected and used by people. Don't lose hope. A time is coming when people will look up to you. You will win
Divorce is not contagious HOWEVER ( shocking right ) negativity is... so when a person is going through something they have the power to either look at something they’ve went through and look at it as a learning lesson and something that was meant for them to grow and not a mistake that needed to be changed because they regret and resent that person.... which is why people need a friend like Jeannie who is a person who loves love not only for herself but for those around her... she ( Stated on the show ) she told Loni wayyy first as well as Tamera that she was getting a divorce.... and Adrienne was getting married and Jeannie being the friend and person she is was not a Debbie downer and bringing down the morale so it was best she didn’t tell Ade when she did
I’m with Tamera on the dishes! I grew up with strict parents that always wanted the house clean and stuff and she seems happy and content now so hopefully I’m like her one day 😂
I mean tbh anybody and everybody hates doing the dishes... it’s such a lowkey annoying task especially when other people don’t rinse the stuff they use and they just expect u to clean it or if there is grease and grime you can’t get through ! But I feel like a simple compromise would be to oscillate and say “ u do dishes on Monday , Wednesday , Friday ! You do them Tuesday , Thursday Saturday & whoever cooks on Sunday the other can do the dishes”
Yes at times is contagious.When you hear someone is getting a breakup most times you start reflecting on yours and also think that you can be alone without a man.
Men don't need to be "paid" to pull their weight at home. If I work and you work, doing the dishes is as much your responsibility as mine. This emotional labor (and real labor) is just bs.
If only African parents could see this and stop trying to raise females to be caretakers Like please ...... we are both breadwinners we can be both take care of the house Equality!
It can be very HELPFUL to listen to the advice of others, but, at the end of the day, YOU have to be the one to make the final decision, especially when it comes to big stuff like divorce.
unfortunately when i hang out with couples that have been married for 10+ years all they do is complain and they keep telling me that thats what happens after a long period of time , now iam married for 4 years and my marriage is only growing stronger.stay away from those people !
i'm just like A i find washing dishes is calming and my gf loves the laundry . and she knows i hate to vacuum so she does that in the morning before i get up . so its just about finding the right person
That is true my two friends and I got divorces. My other two friends I have to talk to them out of it and remind them the good things in their marriage. But some of my married friends I cut them out or I talk to them less because I have no good things to say about marriage so I keep my nativity to myself and my freedom 😁😁😁😁😁☺️ I had my excitement too.
I feel women don’t like spending money when it comes to anything extravagant because what ? They have to pay for MORE... from the dress to the accessories , to the shoes to the hairstylists and then possibly depending on where the wedding is... the travel costs ! And it’s more like a task at this point when all u want to do is celebrate the love of two people coming together under God 😂 Bless y’all cuz idk how y’all hold it together
You are not obligated to go to anyone’s wedding especially if it’s a destination wedding. If it’s local I’d be hurt if you didn’t come and had no excuse, but if you have a destination wedding you need to expect that a lot of people can’t come.
Battle Rifle how do u know girls are doing that? It’s not like they do it in front of men. Let’s not act like men don’t bash women, Many time, *literally*
Battle Rifle men bash women, heck, they created the B word TO bash women and these silly females are using the sexist slur to bash women for venting about their cheating ex husbands
The ladies were not being REAL suggested to re wear the same dress. Nobody is doing that...Loni is right in saying to buy some dresses from Ross or Marshall’s!! They’re affordable anddd good quality
Amanda is the worst, these shows where sooo much better! Loni also changed since Amanda joined and I feel like Amanda hates Jeanie now Loni supports her on it too! Idk, I just want the old show!
Agnesa Selimi I agree with you! The Real has lost what made them a great show and better than the other talk shows. They are going the way of The View and it is sad.
im so annoyed with dishes my man doesn't do them at all bc "his stepdad would make him" when he was growing up SO ANNOYING but I'm not gonna leave him lol
mkgcbeauty woow everybody’s father or mother makes them do dishes, how is that a good reason not to do dishes as an adult 🤔 I doubt women are allowed these silly excuses
Yeahhh my partner really dislikes washing dishes and he usually cooks cos he likes that more, so I mostly wash up cos I don't mind and I know he doesn't like it.. And yeah it is kinda therapeutic, same with cleaning.. Or we just do both together, we both cook and both wash up.. It works out anyhow :)
This is a dumb argument. My wife hates doing dishes and I hate SEEING dirty dishes so I'll usually do them. If I cook, I clean as I go so there's no mess when we eat. The ulterior motive beyond my need for a clean kitchen is to make sure there are as few barriers to a healthy sex life as possible. If she gets home and has nothing to clean or cook then anxiety and stress is lowered and sex is probably going down. I work from home so I do tend to take a few more cleaning breaks than the normal dude.
Gm edagdwg you have to know what your husband is like facing the truth what is happening in your home pay attention to what you say and do to each other love is real share your things make sure you tell each other I feel your love soooooo blessed to have a real true love Linda j. Peace
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6:55-7:40 Tam went from 0 to 100 real quick🤦🏽♂️😂😭
Many people think a divorce is embarrassing, but once you see a friend in that boat, it’s that much easier to get on the boat, rather than being the first on it.
C A exactly this! You may have been thinking it for years but wondering if you’re exaggerating, and if everyone else is making it work in theirs you should too. When someone else goes through it it almost gives you permission and validation to do what you needed to all along.
Good point
Right. That’s what happened to me.
this is childlike behavior and thinking to me. why do you need validation from another couple to know your relationship isn’t working out? weird…
@@dayjahomara They don’t need validation to know their relationship isn’t working. They need a force other than themselves to take the massive step of divorce.
I literally don’t mind the old videos - in fact I love them because I’m a newer viewer of the show.
I just wish they included original air dates...
AJ • Same!!! I need context.
Gail A. Exactly! Like I’m trying to piece the whole timeline together in my mind! 😂
AJ • Hahaha, I’m glad someone else was thinking the same thing.
I agree 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
I love how Tamera finds mundane stuff like sweeping attractive 😂😂.
That's the kind of love I hope for😂
They did Loni wrong with that thumbnail 🤣🤣😭😭 making her look like Madea from Madea’s family reunion. Tyler Perry come get yo girl 🤣🤣🤣
I wash dishes right after I’m done using it and when I’m cooking I wash as I go. That way there’s no buildup of dishes
What's your number? You single? 😂
You looking for a live in gf? Lol
jeanies reactions are so cute her laugh and everything 🥰
Whoever is reading this and you have been falsely accused, always misunderstood, rejected and used by people. Don't lose hope. A time is coming when people will look up to you. You will win
thank you so much
Grace Morgan speaks RUclips Channel thanks for that
Grace Morgan speaks RUclips Channel amen I needed this
Aw 🥰
Thanks, I feel like this sometimes.
Divorce is not contagious HOWEVER ( shocking right ) negativity is... so when a person is going through something they have the power to either look at something they’ve went through and look at it as a learning lesson and something that was meant for them to grow and not a mistake that needed to be changed because they regret and resent that person.... which is why people need a friend like Jeannie who is a person who loves love not only for herself but for those around her... she ( Stated on the show ) she told Loni wayyy first as well as Tamera that she was getting a divorce.... and Adrienne was getting married and Jeannie being the friend and person she is was not a Debbie downer and bringing down the morale so it was best she didn’t tell Ade when she did
I miss the old show vibes.
I’m with Tamera on the dishes! I grew up with strict parents that always wanted the house clean and stuff and she seems happy and content now so hopefully I’m like her one day 😂
13:58 omg jeanie's laugh 🤣🤣
tamara: orgasm
loni: WUT
lmao
😂😂😂😂
I mean tbh anybody and everybody hates doing the dishes... it’s such a lowkey annoying task especially when other people don’t rinse the stuff they use and they just expect u to clean it or if there is grease and grime you can’t get through ! But I feel like a simple compromise would be to oscillate and say “ u do dishes on Monday , Wednesday , Friday ! You do them Tuesday , Thursday Saturday & whoever cooks on Sunday the other can do the dishes”
Exactly
Myronn Coleman yeeeeeessss a great deal
Some people are so delusional and want to stay in toxic relationships tho. I don't think anyone should be too positive or negative
Tamera’s hair 😍😍
Yes at times is contagious.When you hear someone is getting a breakup most times you start reflecting on yours and also think that you can be alone without a man.
Who fought Loni with a bag of flour?
I love Adrienne's lip colour 😍😍I want it
Lmaooooo I love Tamara, girl my husband cleans all the time and I love it too! Haha
Men don't need to be "paid" to pull their weight at home. If I work and you work, doing the dishes is as much your responsibility as mine. This emotional labor (and real labor) is just bs.
If only African parents could see this and stop trying to raise females to be caretakers
Like please ...... we are both breadwinners we can be both take care of the house
Equality!
Exactly 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
Thank you tell my husband that he needs to hear it.
I swear my husband would load the dishwasher crazy because he knew I’d do it lol
Omg Loni’s makeup artist did her so wrong!
7:30 Tam I feel you lbvs a man who can clean chiiiiiiiiiiillllllleeeee 🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Well Sherri needs to make Loni sign an NDA 😂
It can be very HELPFUL to listen to the advice of others, but, at the end of the day, YOU have to be the one to make the final decision, especially when it comes to big stuff like divorce.
Everytime i watch this segment i just crack up 😂😂
Tamara got me dying!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
Hey are you doing? Can I practice English with you please?
Soooooo Funny! LMBO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@porsheagreagor556 hello excuse me I can practice English with you please?
When Loni said “this is coming from a single person “ I was like 😧🤯
So men help with the dishes and women help with the trash and yard work.
Loni the savage of the group lol someone needs to make some memes
Tamera's make up artist has always been True!!! She has looked good over the years
unfortunately when i hang out with couples that have been married for 10+ years all they do is complain and they keep telling me that thats what happens after a long period of time , now iam married for 4 years and my marriage is only growing stronger.stay away from those people !
Agreed with Adrienne 💯
I agree wholeheartedly with Tam!!!! 💯💯💯
HAHAHAH Lino blasting her friend at the end
i'm just like A i find washing dishes is calming and my gf loves the laundry . and she knows i hate to vacuum so she does that in the morning before i get up . so its just about finding the right person
Adrienne pick me bailon houghton
That is true my two friends and I got divorces. My other two friends I have to talk to them out of it and remind them the good things in their marriage. But some of my married friends I cut them out or I talk to them less because I have no good things to say about marriage so I keep my nativity to myself and my freedom 😁😁😁😁😁☺️ I had my excitement too.
Jeannie spitting truth as per usual.
6:54 oh Tamera 7:19 😂😂😂Adrienne’s face
Adrienne is so true
I feel women don’t like spending money when it comes to anything extravagant because what ? They have to pay for MORE... from the dress to the accessories , to the shoes to the hairstylists and then possibly depending on where the wedding is... the travel costs ! And it’s more like a task at this point when all u want to do is celebrate the love of two people coming together under God 😂 Bless y’all cuz idk how y’all hold it together
Myronn Coleman WELL SAID
Watching this again today after Sherry got her own show. LOL LONIII
Washing the Dishes ,Pots ,cut the yard cleaning the house ,Baking ,washing, Cooking an giving my Spouse a bath that's me
Love videos and topics like this! THANK YOU THE REAL!
You are not obligated to go to anyone’s wedding especially if it’s a destination wedding. If it’s local I’d be hurt if you didn’t come and had no excuse, but if you have a destination wedding you need to expect that a lot of people can’t come.
2:37 Facts Adrienne. Too many girls be doing that.
Battle Rifle how do u know girls are doing that? It’s not like they do it in front of men. Let’s not act like men don’t bash women, Many time, *literally*
Battle Rifle men bash women, heck, they created the B word TO bash women and these silly females are using the sexist slur to bash women for venting about their cheating ex husbands
@@user-nq6um4bs5y men have made whole podcast solely dedicated to bashing women, yet they aren’t labeled “bitter bitches”
Ironically, the only household chore I dislike aside from any other household chore duties are the DISHES. They stare at me everyday after dinner.
I just love Tamera🤣🤣🤣❤
I'm not washing the dishes to cook dinner, then have to do dishes again..
Jeannie’s cackle at 13:57 💀
The ladies were not being REAL suggested to re wear the same dress. Nobody is doing that...Loni is right in saying to buy some dresses from Ross or Marshall’s!! They’re affordable anddd good quality
They need start a clothing line , especially Jeannie
Loni!!!!!! Loni!!!!!!!! Loni!!!!!!!!!!!
Pay for my flight!!!!!!! I'm coming, I promise I will do a better job.
For my aunt it was! 😂
Amanda is the worst, these shows where sooo much better! Loni also changed since Amanda joined and I feel like Amanda hates Jeanie now Loni supports her on it too! Idk, I just want the old show!
Agnesa Selimi I agree with you! The Real has lost what made them a great show and better than the other talk shows. They are going the way of The View and it is sad.
im so annoyed with dishes my man doesn't do them at all bc "his stepdad would make him" when he was growing up SO ANNOYING but I'm not gonna leave him lol
mkgcbeauty woow everybody’s father or mother makes them do dishes, how is that a good reason not to do dishes as an adult 🤔 I doubt women are allowed these silly excuses
@@user-nq6um4bs5y exactly im like are you serious my mom made me do them too!
Most men do dishes if their wives cook. Unless she doesn't work, or pay bills
Thanks the good Lord I have a good man I love when he's helping in the house ❤❤🙏
Me too. I couldn't stay with a man who wasn't clean and didn't help me. In a partnership, we should carry each other. Not one carry the other.
Yeahhh my partner really dislikes washing dishes and he usually cooks cos he likes that more, so I mostly wash up cos I don't mind and I know he doesn't like it.. And yeah it is kinda therapeutic, same with cleaning..
Or we just do both together, we both cook and both wash up.. It works out anyhow :)
Agreed 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
But If a man treats me bad, Im gonna say it to my friends and vice versa.
I think tamera is drunk lmfaoooo
Loni is always a mood lol 🤣
Is Loni’s makeup ok?It looks grey!
Loni go back braids this summer I miss them so much so pretty
Plastic plates? Hell no
It should be a partnership...but my husband is very bad in cleaning the kitchen that's why I do it.
Wilma Swanepoel Curious question: has he been showed the standard of clean and still refuses to clean the right way? Or there's just no hope? 🤔
Nope. I do way more dishes and I'm completely in love after 30yrs. If that is the biggest issue then there is something else going on. 😂
I love loni 😂😂😂
When was this actually aired because she got divorced
I miss just them!!!!! I want it the way it was 😔
Im not a fan of amanda. Why did they add her?
Seriously 😩
This is a dumb argument. My wife hates doing dishes and I hate SEEING dirty dishes so I'll usually do them. If I cook, I clean as I go so there's no mess when we eat. The ulterior motive beyond my need for a clean kitchen is to make sure there are as few barriers to a healthy sex life as possible. If she gets home and has nothing to clean or cook then anxiety and stress is lowered and sex is probably going down. I work from home so I do tend to take a few more cleaning breaks than the normal dude.
💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 You are a good man and husband. Your wife is a lucky lady
I love this!
Loni’s makeup been looking a mess lately 😩
Purest Love These vault videos are old . . .
I miss this vibe. 😅 give Amanda her own show 👀😂
Yes I do
Loni looks so good :)
Well... 13000/20 is apx. 650 per wedding so...
I mow the lawn. Should the women always mow and trim the lawn? I’m starting to think he does a bad job on purpose.
7:17 😂😂😂😂
@11:47 Tamera asked Adrienne, not the audience
The same can be said for both sexes. Ive run into miserable men and women.
No Amanda YEAHHH!
Loni that was a fake ass laugh lmao
Adrien needs to stop interrupting😎
I’m with tamera! I’d love for my man to do that!! And I’m for plastic plates!
You don’t want the devil to get a pinky toe ? Horrible analogy....
I know it was really contagious in 2020
Gm edagdwg you have to know what your husband is like facing the truth what is happening in your home pay attention to what you say and do to each other love is real share your things make sure you tell each other I feel your love soooooo blessed to have a real true love Linda j. Peace
Plastic dishes? In this day and age.. some people are dumb!
I don’t believe this because my father and mother was married until my father died.
Jolaine Greaux so your mom divorced him because he died? Or your dad divorced her because he’s dead?
About Divorce, we our divorces.
Loni makeup artist did her wrongggg
yes loni in eleven60
For it to be that early them drinks fake
And I’m sure a man would get turned on to a woman who can mow the yard!
T looks hawt!
Hello beautiful people 🤗
#DaAfricanPrincess
#Rhanni
#LatashaBrown
#LatashaMaxwellBenz👄
Why are they dressing Loni like an old lady?
Mary Saxon giving me Madea vibes lol
Some women love to fallow the other one ,an that's not good ,a woman can't live in the next one shadows ,that how some women stay ,that's not good
Loni single now 🤔🤣
No
Is this old?
Same question too??