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  • Опубликовано: 10 мар 2020
  • "It takes a person out of the ordinary. It takes a person out of themselves."
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    ➤➤Transcript (Partial):
    The Greeks had the maxim “know thyself”. How do we come to know ourselves in terms of our personalities, and more importantly, potential? Well, one of the first ways to come to know yourself is to understand that you don’t. You know, you can learn to kind of watch yourself like you’re watching a stranger. But you have to adopt a position-this is a position of radical humility, I would say-humility in two senses. So, one sense would be: humility of recognizing your ignorance. So you have to understand that you don’t know who you are. And that’s not easy to understand, because you think you know, but then you know, you remember you can’t control yourself very well, you’re not very disciplined, you're full of flaws, maybe you don’t know yourself as well as you think. But it’s hard to get low enough to understand how deeply it is the case that you are ignorant about who you are. Now, there’s an upside to that, too, which also is that you’re also ignorant about who you could be. And so, the discovery of that, you know, is some reward for the horror of determining who you actually are. Then I would say, well-then you watch yourself. You watch yourself like you’re watching a stranger. You watch what you say and you listen. You think, well, what sort of person would say that? And how am I reacting emotionally when I’m communicating in that manner? Is that making me feel stronger or weaker? Is it filling me with shame? Is it helping my confidence? Am I laying out a lie? Am I deceiving myself and other people? Am I adopting this personality at parties that is designed to impress and to amuse and it comes across as nothing but self centered narcissism? What are my dark fantasies? What are my aggressive fantasies? What is it that I’m willing to do? What am I interested in so that I’ll spontaneously pursue it? What do I procrastinate about and why? What am I unwilling to do? What do I think is good? What do I congratulate myself for accomplishing? And what do I berate myself for failing to confront and to implement? Those are all incredibly complicated questions and you don’t know the answers to them. So that’s-that’s a start. And then, in terms of potential, well, you’ll discover a little bit more about your potential as you discover who you are, especially the darker parts about yourself, because then you discover your potential for mayhem. There’s some real utility in that. It’s actually something that strengthens you, because the first thing that a realization like that can in fact produce is the ambition to incorporate that dangerousness into a higher order personality, and that can make you implacable. That can make you someone who can say “no” when you need to say “no.” You know? That can make you someone who won’t avoid necessary conflict. And so that’s unbelievably useful. And so that’s one of the potentials that you might discover. The other thing you do to discover your potential is to-well you challenge yourself. You know, it’s like-Rule 4 in my book “12 Rules for Life” is: compare yourself to who you were yesterday and not to who someone else is today, and that’s kind of a good way to start this...
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  • @SelmaHayi
    @SelmaHayi 4 дня назад +881

    It’s quite shocking how few people know about the book Whispers Of Manifestation on borlest

  • @mattemanuel522
    @mattemanuel522 4 года назад +790

    *Says the deepest things imaginable.*
    JP: “So, that’s the answer to that question.”
    Me: Oh

  • @ElMataBiehas
    @ElMataBiehas 3 года назад +1105

    This actually made me cry because it makes you realize how much of a coward i can be sometimes. The worst is you always know what you should do, but you avoid it..and i know i can be better..sometimes all you need is motivation words.. Thanks Jordan..I hope you recover well

    • @kaza8361
      @kaza8361 3 года назад +28

      Sometimes the honest realization of your own faults is exactly what you need, to start building a fulfilling life. Keep pushing 💪 Love from Denmark ❤️

    • @heather-vs9qe
      @heather-vs9qe 2 года назад +4

      Awe it's ok ...it's the way we have been conditioned ...in society...

    • @heather-vs9qe
      @heather-vs9qe 2 года назад +3

      Restling with reality

    • @heather-vs9qe
      @heather-vs9qe 2 года назад +1

      Lost of arrogant ego

    • @heather-vs9qe
      @heather-vs9qe 2 года назад +3

      Humble

  • @eladesorviews6561
    @eladesorviews6561 10 месяцев назад +89

    "What can I do for myself today?" is a very powerful question..

    • @Rebecca-xw2jy
      @Rebecca-xw2jy 9 месяцев назад +2

      You're absolutely right! Thanks for that reminder! I needed that and will use that to start my days from now on. Thank you😊

    • @daytime2189
      @daytime2189 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@Rebecca-xw2jyHow is it going? 🤍

  • @Sai-jw8og
    @Sai-jw8og 4 года назад +3106

    "The most terrifying thing is to accept yourself fully"
    - Carl Jung
    Jordan is the saviour of our times.

    • @TheConqueror009
      @TheConqueror009 4 года назад +26

      Yes, this I can agree with this

    • @mrsaskander
      @mrsaskander 4 года назад +36

      Sai a savior that points us to the ultimate savior -Christ

    • @shakeserfistssmith1364
      @shakeserfistssmith1364 4 года назад +3

      I agree. If he only had time for me...he has my answers...and i now know.. I have some of his...

    • @Sai-jw8og
      @Sai-jw8og 4 года назад +1

      @@mrsaskander correct

    • @briananderson1246
      @briananderson1246 4 года назад +5

      @@mrsaskander unveiled withen the Christ in aka Christian enlightenment . We are able to shine light on the darkness within ourselves and others. One Love

  • @Arroway2357
    @Arroway2357 4 года назад +4373

    He's no guru. He claims no secret knowledge. He's just an incredibly intelligent, compassionate, brave man. Be well, Jordan.

    • @thisbrit
      @thisbrit 4 года назад +48

      And filled with courage. My prayers are for Jordan to heal fully, and return to his former status as a role model

    • @lextalonis839
      @lextalonis839 4 года назад +34

      @@thisbrit He is always a role model To us. He is human, and at least honest.

    • @semperintrepidus16
      @semperintrepidus16 4 года назад +15

      Arroway - thanks. I've never really thought about it: what is a guru anyway? Not sure I have ever met one, but I've met lots of people who claim to have secret knowledge: babeling idiots, every single one. Dr. Jordan Peterson is nothing like that at all.

    • @vesicapiscis9717
      @vesicapiscis9717 3 года назад +15

      A real guru never has secret knowledge. A real guru is trying to let you experience something that cannot be described in words

    • @Makkaru112
      @Makkaru112 3 года назад

      @@vesicapiscis9717 indeed and guru is a word in Tamil. The Guru knows how to garden, real systems approaches to everything, can make individualized medicine from combination of herbs and or prescribing certain yoga poses, which have real effects on you, to the point where some will not be advised to do if you are this or that kind of person. Learn about all sorts of things from dr shiva ayyadurai

  • @n00n1n
    @n00n1n 11 месяцев назад +38

    10 years of heroin addiction, 3 years of physical alcohol dependence and addiction really humbled me. I've been clean and sober for 2 years off heroin. 4 months off alcohol now and I am eating better exercising. Taking care of my physical and mental health has be feeling better than ever. Wish I could have learned the humility and great life lessons that I did from that suffering without all the suffering but it didn't turn out that way. Jordan your teachings philosophies have really been a big part of my rehabilitation and reorientation. Thanks so much for what you do Jordan and I would love to share my story and help others do similar.

    • @nonibbb
      @nonibbb 6 месяцев назад

      Good job, I don’t know you but I am proud of you. Keep going, god bless you. There are so many people who will never achieve what you have.

    • @valeriamartelloni5300
      @valeriamartelloni5300 5 месяцев назад

    • @meltherecafe2394
      @meltherecafe2394 Месяц назад

      cud u share ur dealer's number though?

  • @dianataylor991
    @dianataylor991 9 месяцев назад +146

    Jordan peterson is a blessing to many. I achieved success with the easy steps below.

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      @dianataylor991 9 месяцев назад

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    • @johnwalker1736
      @johnwalker1736 9 месяцев назад

      There’s no limit to what you can achieve in life (including success) if you put your mind to it.
      Opportunity is a scarce commodity. I will partake in this. Luckily I stumble into this.

    • @johnwalker1736
      @johnwalker1736 9 месяцев назад

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  • @matthewdawson9364
    @matthewdawson9364 4 года назад +367

    "you have to look within yourself to save yourself from your other self. Only then will your true self reveal itself"
    -Zuko

    • @taahirbusaidy8305
      @taahirbusaidy8305 4 года назад +15

      what would uncle iroh say

    • @fseratim
      @fseratim 3 года назад

      Jung's good and evil in everyone, including God! What blasphemy!

    • @Rose-cw9xk
      @Rose-cw9xk 3 года назад +17

      "It's time for you to look inward and begin asking yourself the big questions. Who are you and what do you want?" -iroh

    • @ethaniel7551
      @ethaniel7551 2 года назад +4

      It's actually insane that his "dumbbed down" quote makes logical sense in this context haha

    • @certified_geek7536
      @certified_geek7536 2 года назад +2

      "it's time for you to look inwards and ask yourself the big questions. How do blind people know when to stop wiping their ass?" -uncle iroh

  • @phuckducky3988
    @phuckducky3988 4 года назад +807

    “You’re too proud of who you think you are to notice what you’re like so that you can change yourself”

    • @digitaldharma
      @digitaldharma 3 года назад +14

      I wrote this line on my journal to remind me of what real change means. Thank God for Jordan Peterson. He is a beacon of light in this interesting/tryinģ times

    • @maranatha.media.c...
      @maranatha.media.c... 3 года назад +1

      Yeah that's a good start!
      Keep it up!

    • @aseale7410
      @aseale7410 2 года назад +2

      Family reunion ❤

    • @staceycampbell4400
      @staceycampbell4400 2 года назад +1

      🙂

    • @maritzaordaz2882
      @maritzaordaz2882 2 года назад +1

      those words got me too.

  • @princessmaybelynluna520
    @princessmaybelynluna520 2 года назад +83

    "Compare yourself to who you were YESTERDAY and not to who you are TODAY". I immediately think of my past and compare my old self when I was 17 and me as a 22 year old today, I realized there's a big changes. I've learned to control my emotions,to be tough in handling situations and to be independent. and I am proud of it ,❤️

  • @cloudybrains
    @cloudybrains 3 года назад +323

    I've never resonated with anything more :
    "You're too proud of who you think you are to notice what you're like, so that you can change properly. You don't want to sacrifice that part of yourself. It's probably associated with some delusion that helps you maintain a positive, although very fragile self image [...] in the absence of genuine effort."

    • @jessebradford3900
      @jessebradford3900 3 года назад +5

      clickhead IKR, it’s like “ I like that about me” Reality - Not so fast.

    • @ghousiabegum6821
      @ghousiabegum6821 3 года назад +9

      Just one of the moments when Jordan makes me realise how stupid and naive I actually am, IV gotten quite accustomed to it at this point

    • @rrrrrr1669
      @rrrrrr1669 3 года назад +11

      Ive made some serious improvements in my life off of that exact notion from JP. Im glad it resonated with you too, that means you'll be a better person at some point in the future, or maybe even now.

    • @Dany-zf9bk
      @Dany-zf9bk 3 года назад

      But what does this means ? If you could simplify it for me please 😄 I think it is important but I didn’t get it . 🙃

    • @cloudybrains
      @cloudybrains 3 года назад +22

      @@Dany-zf9bk It means we take things about ourselves for granted, like thinking that you're a nice person, that you're honest and caring, without really questioning if we are as great as we think we are.
      A specific example for me would be confidence. As a big fish in a small pond, you would naturally feel very sure of yourself and confident. But as soon as you step out of your comfort zone and your "bubble", you might realize that your level of confidence was dependent on your environment being simple and stale. That's one of the things I realized about myself recently, I've grown too big for my fishbowl.

  • @erwincuellar5806
    @erwincuellar5806 4 года назад +732

    Come back to us Jordan...

    • @thomasrehder9608
      @thomasrehder9608 4 года назад +10

      I don't think he will after what klonopin did to him very brutal medication he is going through hell I no his pain cause it's happened to,me and I'm to afraid to,come off the med cause of death

    • @pinksalt1057
      @pinksalt1057 4 года назад +3

      @@thomasrehder9608 there is a psychiatrist online on youtube who has a clinic to help get off of them with support if thats what you want.

    • @kurtulbricht2659
      @kurtulbricht2659 4 года назад +10

      @@thomasrehder9608 I recommend that in the future you take the initiative to do your own research on any medication you are prescribed before consuming especially a well known narcotic. The POTENTIAL danger of death from Benzodiazepine withdrawl comes from regularly taking a very high dose and quitting cold turkey. Please talk to your doctor about tappering off and you should have little to no symptoms/danger from withdrawl. If it is a problem you want to fix then you are the first person you need to convince. No excuses YOU CAN DO IT. Godspeed!

    • @sarahdeason493
      @sarahdeason493 4 года назад +28

      @@thomasrehder9608 ... Yes, he will come back to us ... He has been placed hear for the betterment ... Maybe even his horrific trials (and yours) will serve a purpose that is not easily understood. Maybe he will come back stronger than ever ❣

    • @javierlandry7246
      @javierlandry7246 4 года назад +6

      @@sarahdeason493 I hope so!

  • @punchtothegut
    @punchtothegut 4 года назад +839

    If I hadn't discovered Dr Peterson's work and videos from good friends, I might have very well taken my own life. I suffered a terrible betrayal and I watch his videos repetitively and daily to motivate myself to push forward, to realize my potential, to improve, and so that i don't have the thoughts to hurt myself again. he is amazing and I want to say he most likely saved me

    • @raewynurwin4256
      @raewynurwin4256 4 года назад +31

      Your a hero, understand you prevented alot of unnecessary suffering to others by refraining from suicide. Arohanui from New Zealand.

    • @mamashanshan2772
      @mamashanshan2772 4 года назад +15

      You can also help so many through what you went through. You’re truly amazing. It’s tough, and to survive something so traumatic. He’s helped me, and others I’ve shared him with!! You made my day, thank you!! Keep on, keep on the Warrior within you.

    • @1970brenz
      @1970brenz 4 года назад +10

      That's wonderful. You must be very strong then, to keep working on things and move through then past the hurts!

    • @omarsheikh7501
      @omarsheikh7501 4 года назад +3

      punchtothegut what happened to you ?? Meaning the betrayal please share as it may help others in the same or worse position

    • @punchtothegut
      @punchtothegut 4 года назад +11

      @@omarsheikh7501 my exwife of almost 3 years ended up falling in love with another man and cheated on me months before the end of the marriage. she'd spend hours on the phone with him, eventually sleeping over at his place, and then just 1 day before i move out and just 2 days after the divorce was finalized, I could hear them having sex in what used to be our bedroom. and she'd tell me that i'm amazing, and she regrets our marriage, but also she wishes she'd want to stay and fix things.
      i truly tried to be a better person and man for her and be more attentive and I never showed another woman the amount of attention i'd give her. I never allowed myself to try to get to know another woman while I was married and devoted. I'd be distracted from video games and shows and ended up neglecting her, but I'd never disrespect her by spending my free time with another woman. I became really resentful of the fact that she promised in our vows that she'd never cheat on me. I guess there should have been a clause in our vows that we'd never stray and fall in love with another person.
      near the end she'd always keep me at arm's distance and just spend more and more time with him. all the while refusing to say she loved me. refusing to show me any affection. just hugging me was a complete arduous chore for her. she'd wince and cringe any time i'd try to hug or show her i still wanted her. she'd show her love in actions. we still slept in the same bed for a while, we'd talk, she admitted she felt bad that the marriage was ending
      part of what tells me she was full of shit sometimes was that she'd say the divorce was a bad choice and possibly a mistake. but the cheating? all the infidelity and amount of time she'd spend with him and refusal to spend time with me? that was never a mistake she'd admit to
      through all of it, her admitting to wanting a divorce, the cheating, the divorce, and so forth; I still loved her and am still in love with her. I forgave her for betraying me and for wanting to leave. I'm still so in love with her. but more and more I find myself wondering if I would take her back if she changed her mind. She broke my trust so many times. and never once seemed sorry for it. so many times I screamed and begged for her to stay and for us to fix things. but she didn't want to. she'd rather just talk to him.
      to this moment, its only been a few weeks since I moved out, i'd still want her back. but i know i'd be second place sometimes. she'd want to talk to him cause he's her best friend. and i wonder if i could take that. being the person she chose to come back to, but still end up feeling like last place or a 4th or 5th priority

  • @randyhoffmann7426
    @randyhoffmann7426 2 года назад +100

    I was actually whining to my wife last week about the fire inside me that is telling me I want nothing more than to become great. All the while completely doubting my own potential to do so. "Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today".
    I really needed this.
    Thank you Jordan. You are changing lives.

  • @tebudlamini3083
    @tebudlamini3083 3 года назад +161

    I am a young woman from Africa and I love this man's teachings for young people. Most adults dont give themselves time to play this role and the world certainly doesnt care. I am grateful to discover another daddy across the globe. God bless you JP💕

  • @therealgabrielcash
    @therealgabrielcash 3 года назад +1189

    The world needs Jordan Peterson, now, more than ever.

    • @SteAndRach
      @SteAndRach 3 года назад +1

      absolutely, we learn the most important skill in the entire life in a bedroom! we actually just posted a new video on our channel about How to Know Yourself. Would love to hear your thoughts since you seem to be very like minded. ruclips.net/video/xqcejKCGY84/видео.html

    • @lezor777
      @lezor777 3 года назад +6

      When the world needed him most he vanished, but then came back to tell us to clean our rooms

    • @poorinspirit1982
      @poorinspirit1982 3 года назад +4

      "the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever." 1John 2:17

    • @matnels277
      @matnels277 3 года назад +1

      Love JP 👍🏻

    • @thesmileyman6817
      @thesmileyman6817 3 года назад

      This aged, hasn’t it.

  • @IamColt13
    @IamColt13 4 года назад +2398

    Watch yourself like you’re watching a stranger, You watch what you say and you listen, and think:
    What sort of person would say that and how am I reacting emotionally when I’m communicating in that manner?
    Is it making me stronger or weaker?
    Is it filling me with shame?
    Is it filling me with confidence?
    Am I laying out a lie am I deceiving myself and other people?
    Am I adopting this personality at parties that is designed to impress and amuse and comes across as nothing but self-centered and narcissism?
    What are my dark fantasies?
    What are my aggressive fantasies?
    What is it that I’m willing to do?
    What am I interested in so that I will spontaneity pursue it?
    What do I procrastinate about and why?
    What am I unwilling to do?
    What do I think is good?
    What do I congratulate myself for accomplishing?
    And what do I berate myself for failing to confront and implement?
    I wrote these down so that I can ask myself and see what the answers are. I hope you do the same!

    • @ChrishBlake
      @ChrishBlake 4 года назад +19

      Thank you

    • @outoficecream2740
      @outoficecream2740 4 года назад +10

      Thanks

    • @daveforson496
      @daveforson496 4 года назад +5

      Coltyn Seifert tnx

    • @deploythesausage
      @deploythesausage 4 года назад +4

      👍

    • @ninjanicka
      @ninjanicka 4 года назад +27

      So powerful..
      Questions are power. Your brain will come up with the answers. Make sure that the questions that you're asking yourself are leading to questions that are both true in nature, and that do not place upon you presupposing ideas of not-worthiness, etc.
      Thanks for the question list!

  • @fredaayres9339
    @fredaayres9339 3 года назад +35

    This man has taught me so much. I’m 77. And only now I’ve realised that I’m a people pleaser, afraid of abandonment. A result of being in an isolation hospital for 6 weeks without explanation. I thought I’d been given away. This has coloured my whole life. So now I know it what do I do. The fear is still there. I was three years old in that hospital. I remember everything.

    • @florencebugembe
      @florencebugembe Год назад

      ❤️❤️

    • @abdullahmohammed6515
      @abdullahmohammed6515 9 месяцев назад

      God bless you and don't die without knowing why are you here in this life...if you have not figured that out at age of 77. I recommend you get a copy of Quran and become a Muslim before too late.

    • @pekdomonkos4818
      @pekdomonkos4818 8 месяцев назад

      god bless you

    • @DavidDosire
      @DavidDosire 8 месяцев назад

      Really?

    • @salomebuari_senteducator
      @salomebuari_senteducator 6 месяцев назад +1

      The fact that you’re still alive to type this means a lot of good can still happen in your life! Whatever has happened in your life can be useful for you if you channel all of you into God. He’s right there with you. He made you. Just turn to Him in your heart and connect with Him. Acknowledge Him and tell Him your fears and cares. Ask for His help and guidance. He’ll help you massively. 🙏

  • @bertputtocks903
    @bertputtocks903 3 года назад +151

    Never have I heard such honesty, such clarity of thought, such raw, painful beauty about the struggle to live truthfully and completely.
    Thank you, Dr Peterson.

  • @rleo3rd1
    @rleo3rd1 4 года назад +710

    My prayers Jordan Peterson and his family, they have gone through a lot in these past three years. What an inspiration to my life in being better that what I was yesterday, last week, last month and last year. He was put here for a purpose and for that purpose is the reason why he stands out amongst his peers.

    • @Acta-nonVerba
      @Acta-nonVerba 4 года назад +6

      PRAYING IS NOTTIN
      without Doing.

    • @OjoRojo40
      @OjoRojo40 4 года назад +12

      You just need to clean your room. Trust me, it changed my life.

    • @ua6523
      @ua6523 4 года назад +3

      what happened??

    • @jupitermoongauge4055
      @jupitermoongauge4055 4 года назад

      Who/what put him here ? And for what purpose ?

    • @soniamunozz
      @soniamunozz 4 года назад +2

      Mike Swinney same. Plus he actually cares and wants everyone to achieve their highest potential

  • @Arthur-nh8lm
    @Arthur-nh8lm 4 года назад +171

    He’s gonna be a damn good grandfather.

    • @oksanaml9279
      @oksanaml9279 4 года назад +4

      Alorc he has a little granddaughter.

    • @kenbellchambers4577
      @kenbellchambers4577 4 года назад +3

      The highest form that human love takes is the love of a grandfather and grandmother for their grandchildren.

    • @rmcd823
      @rmcd823 3 года назад +2

      Rickie j Your comment was the most ruthless comment I’ve seen lately.

  • @Arielelian
    @Arielelian 3 года назад +18

    One of the most important things with growing is first choosing your center / foundation. Because you can try to learn who you are and try to grow, but unless you have a firm foundation upon which to build and a center upon which to lean on during the hard time, you'll likely see many of your efforts toppled.
    Additionally, a foundation / center isn't something someone "discovers" about themselves. It is indeed a conscious choice. And some foundations are stronger than others.

  • @susannnico
    @susannnico Год назад +142

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    • @susannnico
      @susannnico Год назад

      I've been investing with ROCHELLE DUNGCA-SCHREIBER's guidance for a few years and I couldn't be happier. Her company has given me the best ROI while preserving my capital and has the most thorough investment guidance out there. It also never burns my money with speculation or poor philosophies of risk management.

    • @susannnico
      @susannnico Год назад

      *ROCHELLE DUNGCA-SCHREIBER* is my portfolio-coach, I found her on Bloomberg where she was featured, I looked up her name on the internet. Fortunately I came across her site and reached out to her, you can verify her yourself.

    • @lailaalfaddil7389
      @lailaalfaddil7389 Год назад

      Wow! I just looked up this person out of curiosity and I'm super impressed with her qualifications. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Muffin1980
    @Muffin1980 4 года назад +418

    Wait till this man rises fr his ashes like a phoenix, he’ll b back stronger and more driven by new experiences. I can’t wait to hear him again.

    • @Hans-de8du
      @Hans-de8du 4 года назад +14

      Aaron Boudreau I agree. If not, hundreds of thousands of people will rise up from the ashes via his message.

    • @sarahdeason493
      @sarahdeason493 4 года назад +4

      Aaron B. / I believe your words 100% ❣

    • @javierlandry7246
      @javierlandry7246 4 года назад +2

      That would be awesome!!

    • @Muffin1980
      @Muffin1980 4 года назад +2

      javier landry u mean it will be awesome ha😏 hey ur last name is Landry that’s French Acadian, mine is Boudreau (obviously🙄) my cousin’s last name is Landry, there’s lots down home in Cape Breton Nova Scotia Canada. Where do u live?

    • @javierlandry7246
      @javierlandry7246 4 года назад +2

      @@Muffin1980 Hey! Of course it will😆 Glad to know the coincidence... I'm from Spain and yes, my last name is french in this case from african father.

  • @soniavasquez1081
    @soniavasquez1081 4 года назад +2541

    Dr Peterson’s I pray in Jesus Christ name for a full recovery. You’ve been a blessing to so many. God bless you

    • @mohamedaminebourhil4307
      @mohamedaminebourhil4307 4 года назад +26

      Hey, what happened to him please ??

    • @hatusthonhon6839
      @hatusthonhon6839 4 года назад +34

      Mohamed Amine Bourhil He's been suffering since he decided to self medicate in order to decrease his anxiety, and the result is that he almost died. As fas as I know he's in a rehab process in Russia

    • @hatusthonhon6839
      @hatusthonhon6839 4 года назад +78

      Kaushik Kurudi you're right. He didn't self medicate based on what his daughter said, I think I've read this somewhere but probably it was a wrong information. He struggles with the fact that his wife has cancer, it's been a long period together, and only God knows how difficult it is to him. Life is tough...

    • @7James77
      @7James77 4 года назад +14

      He's sick from following that stupid carnivore diet he's been promoting. It was only a matter of time till it caught up with him.

    • @useyournogos6845
      @useyournogos6845 4 года назад +43

      He was sick from abusing prescription medications due to his severe depression. His meat diet made him feel better.

  • @GhostLightPhilosophy
    @GhostLightPhilosophy 3 года назад +5

    Peterson is like the father you need, the one to guide you and tell you a few inconvenient truths but is doing out of wanting the best for you.

  • @bertputtocks903
    @bertputtocks903 3 года назад +22

    This astonishingly brilliant and gifted human being. I feel immensely privileged to be on this planet with you Dr Peterson.

  • @killakode1
    @killakode1 4 года назад +252

    As a social hermit, with friends I rarely speak to, I needed someone like him who won't put me down for trying to be better. Even if it means I have to put my ego aside and take child-like steps. I have lost touch with who I am, and if I'm worth anything. I will be better today than I was yesterday, and not compare to anyone else.

    • @dystopian2153
      @dystopian2153 4 года назад +4

      Keep taking one day at a time and breathe.🤗

    • @ChrisFarrellChannel
      @ChrisFarrellChannel 4 года назад +3

      Ketchup -- you got it. Incremental steps.

    • @gusmontclair2553
      @gusmontclair2553 4 года назад +2

      I found that taking myself on. The good. The bad. And the ugly.(real me) I have grown in wisdom. I do 3 insanity workouts a week. In those moments as I'm lying on the floor in physical pain I choose to inflict upon myself is where my soul is. The new me is fit. Self aware and driven to succeed. Once you know yourself you automatically know every other human in the earth better. It makes you more attractive.

    • @maryfitzgerald4812
      @maryfitzgerald4812 3 года назад +5

      I'm really going to give this advice a go. As hard as it is, it's worse not trying.

    • @blackfyre365
      @blackfyre365 3 года назад +2

      Cookiemonstet66, Blessings love and courage, friend. I absolutely relate❤

  • @rjantrber8567
    @rjantrber8567 4 года назад +189

    After I watched this video, i decided to do paperwork I've been delaying because of fear/stress for the past 3 months.
    I managed to finish it in only 2 hours, and now I feel relieved.
    Thank you :)
    I feel much better.

    • @giannalomeli2216
      @giannalomeli2216 4 года назад +2

      Ørjan Trøber awesome!

    • @rjantrber8567
      @rjantrber8567 4 года назад

      @Josh Mkensie sarcasm ?

    • @KrisatWow
      @KrisatWow 2 года назад +5

      Me too. 4 years of taxes. My husband used to do it. He developed frontotemporal dementia and recently died. I simply didn't have the brain power or the courage to face that mess. I've been overwhelmed.
      I've been listening to these recordings for a several months now. I've listened to at least one lecture a day.. Sometimes many..
      The taxes were my "elevator."
      To face my terror of the damn taxes. I started with simply opening the cardboard boxes of receipts. I'd just look inside and then close the box. Eventually I could take some out and really look at them. Then I could take a few out of the box and sort/categorize them.
      My courage grew exponentially.
      Two weeks ago I met with my accountant and got all 4 years filed. The relief I feel at finally having this frightening responsibility completed cannot be overstated.
      I credit J. Peterson for getting me through this.

    • @sher8078
      @sher8078 2 года назад +1

      So proud of u !!!

    • @jighaba
      @jighaba 2 года назад

      @@KrisatWow Sorry for your loss😢

  • @nickdipietro7797
    @nickdipietro7797 3 года назад +7

    The most brilliant man alive .. we’re all praying for you 😞😞

  • @priteshugrankar6815
    @priteshugrankar6815 3 года назад +22

    If wisdom took human form, it would look a lot like this learned man.

  • @mymuse111
    @mymuse111 4 года назад +313

    He is like a father to me. I have lost my dad a while back and now when I am lost or confused, I turn to Jordan P. Amen!

    • @SteAndRach
      @SteAndRach 3 года назад +3

      We are sorry for your lost, He's such an incredible men! We respect him so so much!, we actually just posted a new video on our channel about How to Know Yourself. Would love to hear your thoughts since you seem to be very like minded. ruclips.net/video/xqcejKCGY84/видео.html

    • @omarreda9187
      @omarreda9187 2 года назад +2

      sorry for your loss 💓 he is really such a sincere person that you can really trust and feel comfortable listening to

    • @mariebotha4478
      @mariebotha4478 Год назад +3

      My father was head of education at a teachers training college. He was the most brilliant and compassionate person I knew. His students called him Dad....Jordan reminds me so much if him and I am grateful for every speech of his that I can listen to .

    • @lee3900
      @lee3900 Год назад +1

      Yes yes

    • @brentbeatty4171
      @brentbeatty4171 Год назад +1

      For me also

  • @yesneo6613
    @yesneo6613 4 года назад +76

    You can see the pain in his eyes.
    I hope he's alright, he helped us so much...

    • @YoungSimba4040
      @YoungSimba4040 3 года назад +2

      I don’t know about you but as I listen to this man sometimes I find myself in tears ... I think he makes me tap into that deep deep place that I don’t go too and it reveals things about me I never knew ... such a strong intelligent & compassionate speaker .

  • @TheSebastian5978
    @TheSebastian5978 3 года назад +12

    Jordan P has gotten me through some dark times. The first thing he told me to do was clean up my house. Small steps turn into large gains in time, usually less than imagined, when the adventure begins.

  • @terencehennegan1439
    @terencehennegan1439 2 года назад +13

    A phenomenal man of wisdom. We can all become a better person by heeding this man’s generous humble expression.

  • @magesense456
    @magesense456 4 года назад +274

    Jordan Peterson reaffirms my hope in thoughtful educated people. He delivers his message with such clarity and compassion.
    What a good example of male role models in current society!
    ✌️ 💗
    Love you JP

    • @DrrTrevis
      @DrrTrevis 4 года назад +10

      Do you mean conventional education? Or do you mean he's just super smart and reads a lot and engages other smart people and actually listens and has a great ability to understand and think. I am always impressed with his ability to understand and describe things. I also respect how sometimes he just flat out pauses to think about how he is going to speak his next sentence. Too many people try to fill the silence with fodder and loose my attention. I don't mind waiting a few seconds for a better statement.

    • @DavidDosire
      @DavidDosire 8 месяцев назад

      Really?

  • @curiositea258
    @curiositea258 3 года назад +285

    Legends never die. Dr. Jordan Peterson will be in the history books as the greatest man of our time.

    • @aohall
      @aohall 3 года назад +7

      elon musk is up there but yes, it is arguable

    • @jonnathanhidalgoacosta8526
      @jonnathanhidalgoacosta8526 3 года назад +4

      JP is humble enough to agree with you..

    • @Dr.Gainzzz
      @Dr.Gainzzz 3 года назад +2

      Settle down bucko

    • @JohnDoe-qq8et
      @JohnDoe-qq8et Год назад +3

      No more history books. Just historical videos.

    • @DavidDosire
      @DavidDosire 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah, legend never die

  • @LindaMarieMagnusson
    @LindaMarieMagnusson 3 года назад +17

    I am so glad to see that you are back. You have been deeply missed, and your speeches and lectures means so much to me, and you have helped more than word can say. All I can say is thank you so much 🙏 💖

  • @tureldragoon3667
    @tureldragoon3667 3 года назад +1

    Dieser Mensch ist so unfassbar wervoll, ich kann es nicht in Worte fassen.

  • @jessewallace12able
    @jessewallace12able 4 года назад +39

    This man’s compassion is unsurpassed.

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 3 года назад +1

      I passed all classes,one of the fassess!

  • @Sam-eh8tf
    @Sam-eh8tf 4 года назад +73

    Gosh I wish I could meet this man... I'd thank him so much from the bottom of my heart for all that he's done for me & my life, as many as countless others...
    We love you Mr Peterson! Get well soon, and may God bless you brother

  • @aliciabauduin1922
    @aliciabauduin1922 3 года назад +7

    I cried, I just felt love and understanding.
    Thank you.♥️

  • @pebzobhoy7949
    @pebzobhoy7949 2 года назад +3

    I love when he pauses at 5.40 and thinks about his answer, he’s so humble and talks so well

  • @raynabozny2338
    @raynabozny2338 4 года назад +17

    Jordan I hope you are doing BETTER. We ALL miss you so much...Get Well Soon Brother.

  • @misschelseawilkinson
    @misschelseawilkinson 4 года назад +54

    Jordan Peterson, the most culturally relevant figure of our day.

    • @SteAndRach
      @SteAndRach 3 года назад

      He's such an incredible men! We respect him so so much! we actually just posted a new video on our channel about How to Know Yourself. Would love to hear your thoughts since you seem to be very like minded. ruclips.net/video/xqcejKCGY84/видео.html

  • @verfassungspatriot
    @verfassungspatriot 2 года назад +5

    He's so humble and true. Like a real father should be

  • @markkillian7321
    @markkillian7321 3 года назад +6

    My life has more clarity than ever, having read Dr Peterson's books and listening to his lectures and interviews. For me, he is the man of the century.

  • @charlesjensen7918
    @charlesjensen7918 4 года назад +30

    WOW! Yes, I would encourage everyone who is so motivated to continue praying for Dr Peterson AND His loved ones for complete recovery of their medical setbacks. I will. CMJ Canada

  • @bigballetlover
    @bigballetlover 4 года назад +43

    The world has needed Jordan Peterson for such a long time. God bless him and his family.

  • @victorianicolehughes4291
    @victorianicolehughes4291 2 года назад +8

    I recently came across Jordan's messages. I appreciate these messages, and I need them especially at this time in my life. Like the old saying goes. When the student is ready, the Teacher will appear.

  • @christywasher7677
    @christywasher7677 3 года назад +9

    Jordan, you are a thread of common sense in an insane world.
    I was surprised to find a brilliant mind when my Mom referred a video to me. I have followed you ever since. I thank you for your honesty about addiction and am so happy to see new videos. Heal well, my friend.

  • @Mr.FranciscoJesusAldana
    @Mr.FranciscoJesusAldana 4 года назад +30

    Prayers for Dr. Peterson! So looking forward to your triumphant return

  • @sarahdeason493
    @sarahdeason493 4 года назад +30

    Dr. Peterson to me is about goodness, wisdom, truth, passion and love ... We all greately need someone like him today , tomorrow, and always ... His words have monumentally changed many and will continue to do so. He has given so many courage to tackle obstacles that has petrified them throughout their lives. Dr. Peterson definately makes us and the world a better being/a better place . He is so needed, his words are liberating ... If we had a number of Jordan Petersons spread all throughout the word it could make much progress towards peace and the improvement of mankind .
    May Dr. Peterson be healed, happy, and healty ❣

  • @janbeck7989
    @janbeck7989 3 года назад +4

    This could change people's lives. I love the way he can express such complex ideas. I'm glad I found him.

  • @crisalidathomassie1811
    @crisalidathomassie1811 3 года назад +6

    Such an excellent way to look at yourself to find out who you truly are and how you can improve one day at a time. So much wisdom in each word you spoke. Thanks so much. Blessings and be safe.

  • @gadphatha
    @gadphatha 4 года назад +66

    Man , this man is tripping , he got me and it's like he's speaking to something that I've been yearning for years .

    • @maryowen5427
      @maryowen5427 4 года назад +2

      That's exactly how I felt when I first heard him on the radio by chance

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 3 года назад +1

      Yearning something is tripping⚡

    • @iamgrateful_like_dat
      @iamgrateful_like_dat 3 года назад +1

      Man.. so glad I found you guys corner, 🤷🏽‍♂️.
      Felt like I was the only one

  • @hellobenzo_
    @hellobenzo_ 4 года назад +49

    Know yourself, know your worth

    • @barryhossin1222
      @barryhossin1222 3 года назад

      I know my worth and what I can bring to a buisness to make money ,I know how hard I can work and what hours I can put in ,but other people just don't see it ,we'll they do but would rather not give me any reward ,I put 200 percent in in what I do ,this kinda makes me a little angry ,but then I realise most people are selfish and mean ,and will take advantage of you ,I could write a book .

  • @lisakempt5098
    @lisakempt5098 3 года назад

    I also pray for you and your family...all such wonderful ppl...tyvm for everything you bring to the world.

  • @gracesebs
    @gracesebs 2 года назад +1

    I love the simplicity in which he unpacks complex ideas to be well understood. Thanks for all the support

  • @Safikkusu
    @Safikkusu 4 года назад +134

    if you cried watching this then you're starting to realize things about yourself that you're avoiding

    • @SteAndRach
      @SteAndRach 3 года назад +1

      Such a strong message, this video is really important for the entire world right now, we actually just posted a new video on our channel about How to Know Yourself. Would love to hear your thoughts since you seem to be very like minded. ruclips.net/video/xqcejKCGY84/видео.html

    • @reprogrammingmind
      @reprogrammingmind 3 года назад

      And if you don't cry, nothing is realized? If/then needs work.

    • @Safikkusu
      @Safikkusu 3 года назад

      @@reprogrammingmind No I realize things without crying but when you go low enough in this point of time that it was shame embarrassment self-hatred a little bit you know

  • @DrOwenAnderson
    @DrOwenAnderson 4 года назад +18

    I like how he connects knowing yourself with humility

  • @gemmaartner2780
    @gemmaartner2780 3 года назад +16

    This was what I needed to hear today and need to start practicing every day. Thank you for this message.

  • @Mozlove
    @Mozlove 3 года назад +6

    Truly grateful for this mans life. His words have touched and transformed me. I cant say how much he means to me. surely.he will make it through and come back with even higher wisdom. Cheering you on Sir

  • @Born2Losenot2win
    @Born2Losenot2win 4 года назад +22

    That thumbnail was beautiful
    You don’t see him smiling that much
    He’s amazing
    I would be more cheerful seeing him smile like that

  • @Aaron-qg7dz
    @Aaron-qg7dz 4 года назад +14

    I thank god for creating this guy.

  • @jeddmohlenkamp6870
    @jeddmohlenkamp6870 3 года назад +5

    My 10 year old loves listening to Dr JP!! All is not lost!!! Lol

  • @stoffi
    @stoffi 3 года назад

    Bless you Dr. Jordan B. Peterson.

  • @iamairsoft
    @iamairsoft 4 года назад +38

    I genuinely deeply love that man for what he has done for me and humanity.

  • @khaled_na6
    @khaled_na6 4 года назад +19

    Even if I already listened to something Jordan Peterson said before, and it’s not new advice, I still for some reason find so much benefit and harmony in listening to him again.

  • @emanueleantonucci9042
    @emanueleantonucci9042 3 года назад +3

    Thank you Dr. Peterson. My relationship with my son has never been better because of your teachings. I pray for your continued health and that your teachings continue to motivate and move men, young and old!

  • @JohnWaweru9111
    @JohnWaweru9111 3 года назад +2

    I constantly watch this video. It’s a constant reminder that it’s your responsibility to not complain and know that it’s you who needs to change not others. It’s me. It’s never them.

  • @irinazimova4978
    @irinazimova4978 4 года назад +11

    May God Bless you & your loved ones Dr. Peterson. Thank you for being a wise father figure for those who grew up without one.

  • @mrknowmyself
    @mrknowmyself 4 года назад +13

    He is the most encouraging person on the earth to me. Everyone can apply his method and become better person day by day.

  • @ikawinner960
    @ikawinner960 3 года назад

    Thank you for your kindness, Mr. Peterson

  • @kamilkollodi2060
    @kamilkollodi2060 3 года назад

    The speach that leaves others speachless.

  • @KRIS-sh8wp
    @KRIS-sh8wp 4 года назад +11

    The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely. ~ Carl G. Jung

  • @sesimbra2
    @sesimbra2 4 года назад +23

    It amazes me the power this man has on me. When he smiles i feel like the sun is shining. I am in love...

  • @fozzydare7987
    @fozzydare7987 3 года назад +5

    I love all of JP's talks, this is my favourite

  • @Amjbmcg
    @Amjbmcg 3 года назад +11

    The most incredible person of the 21st Century. Honesty feels like a prophet.

  • @isaiahsanchevy9252
    @isaiahsanchevy9252 4 года назад +21

    I'll be listening to a lot of his lectures and videos during this uncertain time. I hope he's doing well.

  • @vikasbeniwal2166
    @vikasbeniwal2166 4 года назад +149

    try watching it at least three times.

    • @RameshBaburbabu
      @RameshBaburbabu 4 года назад +1

      I was planning to watch this same video for next 21 days ruclips.net/video/po2imSUE-tc/видео.html , but this one has nice background clips

    • @ulrikev1175
      @ulrikev1175 4 года назад +2

      Vikas Beniwal I could watch it 100s of times 😬😷👍🏻

  • @abdurahmanyussuf3030
    @abdurahmanyussuf3030 2 года назад +4

    He’s the only guy that can make a 10 minute video feel like it’s 2 minutes because of how interesting it is

  • @lucase.a.4005
    @lucase.a.4005 11 месяцев назад

    Jordan B. Peterson, i pray for you alot. Thank you for everything.

  • @kidkratoski3778
    @kidkratoski3778 4 года назад +402

    "Be wise as serpents but harmless as doves"-Jesus.

    • @felixfox5806
      @felixfox5806 4 года назад +1

      Yes I'm always being gentle and nice

    • @dylanzeller9475
      @dylanzeller9475 4 года назад +10

      But dont be afraid to use the snake's bite

    • @kenbellchambers4577
      @kenbellchambers4577 4 года назад +1

      I said that too, just now. I scrolled down, and there you were!

    • @blindsoul7915
      @blindsoul7915 4 года назад +9

      The serpent is arrogant. The dove is silly. Humility keeps it together - so you have to be like a servant or a child under truth. To tame the serpent, do not put yourself first, but be willing to serve others to success. And to tame the dove, do not put even family or love of your life above the truth.

    • @True38
      @True38 3 года назад +2

      No, never be harmless. Even Jordan Peterson warns against that if you have watched his videoes. There is nothing virtues about being harmless. You are just sad, weak, and pathetic.

  • @alessiomarin1218
    @alessiomarin1218 4 года назад +20

    What a lucky questioner to have received such an absolutely brilliant response directed personally at him.
    And how lucky we all are to have this clip uploaded so Dr. Peterson can address us directly, too.
    Thank you Dr. Peterson, and get well soon.

  • @cce7087
    @cce7087 Год назад +5

    I could feel the humbleness in your message. You're a beautiful human being... This really resonated with me. I think we all could benefit from listening to this multiple times ♥️♥️

  • @chrissnider9555
    @chrissnider9555 2 года назад +29

    I think this is really something that comes with age, experience, and wisdom. I've always been an introvert, always been very inwardly focused, very aware of my traits and capabilities and flaws, yet I've only just started to really know who I am and truly understand myself in the past couple of years.
    It is a major turning point in your life once you make those realizations.

    • @silxbeats
      @silxbeats Год назад +1

      Same here I'm an introvert to. I can relate to what your commented..

  • @ethanperkins9795
    @ethanperkins9795 4 года назад +7

    It took me doing mushrooms to realize what this man is talking about. It wasn't fun. It was the most gut wrenching thing I've ever experienced. The reality of who I was up until that point was shameful. When it was over I was left humbled and appreciative of the people who have helped me in life.

  • @mikewood8680
    @mikewood8680 4 года назад +17

    This helped me realize and give thanks for new colleagues in my life who were kind enough to present me with some truth about me. I resented it and ran the other way. But hearing Jordan I now know I have allowed fear to steer me in ways that have not been helpful. So much to learn yet about myself. At 55, I’ve taken the first step to begin honestly looking at who I truly am. It is humbling but wrapped in hope. Time to get real with myself. 🤔

  • @adilformuly4568
    @adilformuly4568 2 года назад +13

    Fantastic! He is a motivation and inspiration for many who feel pressured and gloomy or who desire to be better but have got no idol to look upon. Great Appreciation!

  • @SirboOfficial
    @SirboOfficial 3 года назад +12

    I truly want to meet this man!

  • @miked1237
    @miked1237 4 года назад +6

    Men of this calibur are too few. This is not just a insightful, intelligent man. This is a great man.
    To the father I never had, thank you.

    • @bertputtocks903
      @bertputtocks903 3 года назад

      Wise and touching words, Mike. I wish you much future happiness.

  • @lostwithjack14
    @lostwithjack14 4 года назад +16

    Brilliant beyond belief and it's just so unfortunate that most humans will never reach this level of understanding. Jordan you are not only unbelievably aware, you have an unreachable sense of humility and basic concept of what is basic right and wrong in the human race, I look forward to seeing you speak

  • @serjanburlak2736
    @serjanburlak2736 3 года назад +5

    Everything he says is real, bitter, sharp and so down to earth powerful.

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 3 года назад +1

      Bitter and twisted,maybe?!

  • @cynthiahafner796
    @cynthiahafner796 Год назад +2

    Your teachings are so liberating for many people. God bless you and I’ll continue to watch. So necessary. I really felt this one today…

  • @walidak8229
    @walidak8229 4 года назад +33

    Man you feel like you're capable of listening to him forever.

  • @nathanklinger4856
    @nathanklinger4856 4 года назад +14

    Can't imagine what he will be like after this benzo situation. Pheonix from the ashes.

  • @glandau8059
    @glandau8059 3 года назад +2

    Mr. Peterson thank you for your mentorship. I'm so glad your message resonated with maturity.

  • @richardreichardt0
    @richardreichardt0 Год назад +1

    around 9:30, that statement. man. the way he words it. it
    showed me the true value of my depressions and daily mental battles.
    it’s the greatest adventure you can ever get through and it will come with great sorrow.