Do Arrogant Guys Really Get More Women?
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- Опубликовано: 28 июн 2015
- Why does it always seem like the most cocky men get a girlfriend? What’s their secret?
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it really boils down to one basic rule of nature:
the uglier you are, the harder it gets.
Mohd Iqbal Salemi Years of evolution.
Mohd Iqbal Salemi Right!? The unspoken truth that no one will directly admit to unattractive people. Oh, but apparently girls look at guys' personality more so than their looks. Psh whatever.
Mohd Iqbal Salemi Nah, as long as you got money, you're set.
Sam Krahn that's the hard part. lol
If you have money you can get plastic surgery. If you have money you can afford gym and a trainer.
Everything comes down to money!
I always make chemistry jokes but I never get a reaction
Hahaha if I was on the laptop I'd like this
I get it!
There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance and I just snorted it
💀💀💀💀
I feel most women want you to risk rejection,they want you to approach them without them telling you to, they want you to want them without them wanting you to. Personally i abhor the complex social dance and the "chase", i prefer straight forward interactions with a sprinkle of mystery. #4everalone
We are both on the same boat. I Totally agree.
Aww don't say that u won't be forever alone. I am in fact a female human and I agree with your points so your doing something right
***** "Women, they are a complete mystery." -- Stephen Hawking
***** They mention social cues given by women to indicate attraction. Don't forget, we're animals and a lot of our communication is achieved through body language. If you don't understand it there is lots of material out there to help you. Don't get me wrong, you can bemoan nature if want to, but it's not going to help you any.
Potato Girl so, are you saying, that although we developed language, build citys and went the moon by sharing knowledge and information, its still a mens "job" to pick up hints, so that he makes the first step instead of the also capable women to be active, because this worked good for nature? i..dont know why the whole western world wants to get rid of gender roles, euqal rights and pre-civilisation behaviors then, if you cant fight nature
I act cocky to hide my shyness.
skykid that's called insecureness
And it doesn't work
And you fail.
Women don't like cocky
@@burgermister7580 yes they love guys that dont care everything you were thuaght about females is wrong lol swallow the redpill
Being arrogant seems to work for me... Usually I walk up to girls and say
"Ever seen a guy do this?"
I then turn around and JUMP kicking my butt cheeks with the back of my feet.
Then I turn back around and smile while slowing nodding up and down.
Works every time.
what pisses me off is what society wants vs what nature wants. for women (as is my understanding) society tells you to get a guy who is financially secure, trustworthy, honest, loyal, loving, romantic, etc. but women naturally (even though they won't admit it) want a guy who cheats on them, drinks alcohol often, doesn't have a job, lives at home with his parents and has STD's because that guy is confident. he loves to party, he's spontaneous, he's popular, ruggedly handsome, and a complete piece of shit.
i wish humans emitted some kind of pheromones that let the opposite sex know that they have never cheated on a partner, and make a decent amount of money.
Cool story bro. We should start a club for men like us. Honorable men
Vasectomy Fail Honestly, where i work i see many woman(Wife's of other males) check out many guys who they find attractive, and i can guarantee you if those attractive males were to hit on these Wife's, they would probably hesitate at first a couple of times, but will definitely give in and cheat after a couple of attempts from the guy. But males on the other hand are viewed as pigs when in reality if we find someone who we love we would not even think twice about another female.
Vasectomy Fail Well nature wants the female to find a mate that will provide for her. And in modern society, having money, being loyal is what will provide for them?? Now i'm not saying women are gold diggers but in general being financially secure is a good sign that you can provide for her and support a family. Which is what nature wants as well.
***** This fuckin troll posts about divorce is too much. You pathetic middle age alcoholics need to go whine somewhere else about your alimony problems. And most guys want a good looking girl NOT a nice girl. A woman who doesn't cheat is not synonymous with being nice.
Vasectomy Fail Yeah, because women want a MASCULINE guy who are not cheaters and womanizers. You got the second part right but you didn't qualify for the first. It's not your fault, masculine men are just born with better genes and hormones so blame nature not women.
Sadly confident and arrogant men tend to be more popular. I find both disgusting and obnoxious creeps. I'll take a humble genuinely compassionate forgiving man over those two jokers.
Whithout watching, the answer: Yes!
EDKsurly This is a sad truth that faces modern society.
***** if you take out "modern" I think the statement is more or less just as accurate, if not more.
There is always room to change, so I think modern is appropriate. While this applies to a lot of human life, there are non western cultures in which men aren't even dominant, so this wouldn't even apply.
When I was single, many years ago, I was super shy. I never got the girl, mainly because I was scared to talk to them.
EDKsurly Dude I eat that shit up. I love shy guys. I asked every one of my boyfriends out, because none of them were brave enough.
Those two bike riders look like they've never ridden a bike...
+Prince Machiavelli *tsk tsk tsk* it's a shame your sentence doesn't make any grammatical sense. I might have actually taken offense if it did.
Same thing for you.
Confidence is super key. i personally go with the "flirt with everyone" strategy. I think it's fun and if I find someone who enjoys flirting with me then cool. That's how I got my wife, super happily married to a wonderful woman and mother of our children.
My passion is for science and how the world works. 99% of the time I have to bring up sports or celebrities instead of a current event or new scientific study just so people don't get that distant look in their eye...
Jack Latella I know that feeling. I once was delirious at school and a girl demanded my number so that her record of having the numbers of our little lunch group would stay complete. Apparently, I spouted out a single phrase, that solidified my spot in the epic list at school. "There's no room for love in science." We laughed at that for weeks.
If he is handsome he is confident. If he is unattractive he is arrogant.
If a woman has to choose between an arrogant guy and a weak guy, who do you think that she will choose?
But, that's the point you're totally misunderstanding....
You think arrogance is some kind of supreme confidence...it ISN'T...
99.9% Of guys that fall into the arrogant category: it's a total facade, to cover up their own insecurity...
Almost all arrogant guys I've encountered, are seriously insecure, and therefore, actually weak...
@@velouris76 guy who show arrogant are totally shy and have many insecurity
Of course every woman will say they dont want cocky guys but we all know actions speak louder than words. As for nice guys walking away that doesn't happen either. Most nice guys stay because they actually believe being polite gets them somewhere but it doesn't. In my younger days my older brother explained this to me and I thought he was lying but for the most part he's right and I can see it now.
It's wrong to say "Every woman", not ALL, there are women that are attracted to guys who are nice and sincere, though it's definitely a minority of women...
All the double entendre in this episode was hilarious!
It would really suck to be that "shy girl" in the study and find out all the guys were being nice and asking her out for basically school work.. I mean talk about a confidence breaker. 😳
I'm selling Myself Everyday all Day !
Everyone wants a confident person to be with but there's a fine line between confidence and arrogance.
Jessi Curtis hye :)
Jessi Curtis yes. the line is if he does what he wants instead of what you want.
+DalaiLamaNYF but don't act cocky
***** indeed, if the Girls starting automatically going to you, that means it work
And I just snorted it
Yesterday I was at a night club it was already late like 3am and I caught this girls attention from across the bar I couldn't approach her for like 30 minutes cuz I was busy but as soon as I got the chance to speak with her I saw 2 guys going up to her and her friends...(in my mind I was like we've been exchanging glances for 30 minutes she should be mine there's no way he'll have her) so as soon as he made his approach I just stood between the girl and him and I started conversing with her even though he asked if I knew them I said "yeah they're my friends from college" then he asked her If she knew me at that point I was hoping she'd say yes...she just said no and I was like :O :O :O you don't know me? omg how could you say this? I can't believe you don't know me (jokingly ofcourse...) she liked it...guy got pisssed n left I got her number and that's it....just don't let life stop you
Cool story, bro
You study pick up don't you ;)
You guys I was there, I can vouch for his story. He left one crucial detail, he forgot when he to,d me "dude....hold my beer". And walked over to Jessica like a boss
Pigeon_X I'm giving advice to people like you...take it or leave it
***** but I consider this one as a really cool story
I blame the patriarchy.
Qwertie asdf lol!
Qwertie asdf Patriarchal shitlords unite!
Qwertie asdf The whole video reeks of misogyny and then they go show a picture of rachel dolezal just to pick on wrongskin individuals for good measure. Typical white cis shitlords doing what they do best
Neeboopsh lol!
Welcome, troll!
There is no secret....the reason guys are confident is due to past success. If a guy is good looking, he will attract a lot of female attention. Example 1, I have a friend who is an artist who used to be very confident around women but pretty ugly looking and has a lot of friends including women. He is no longer that confident with women any more after lack of success. Example 2, I also have a friend who is a labourer who is as dumb as a brick but attracts many women and they approach him. He is not particularly confident and a sexist bastard but he is tall, good looking and fit. Looks account for a lot, don't discount looks, they account for more than we'ed like.
Be provocative, be organized
Got no time for the dating game. Got (un)important shit to tend to, and stay forever alone!
Can you guys put the featured videos of the episode into the description?
Interestingly, those guys who are cocky, are usually the ones who mistreat women or can't commit. So the very overconfident persona that attracts a woman to one guy over another, might be the very thing that lures them into a relationship that they will regret.
generally cocky person are not good person
yep and then they pay later for rejecting the aka nerd. or nice guy...
Arrogant guys always seem like too much work to me, or like they will end up being an asshole and treating me like shit so I steer clear. I much prefer guys who are still confident but a little shy and seem more kind and genuine, and I'm more than willing to approach him myself, my boyfriend is exhibit!
Maybe not even a bad boy
so now I only need to learn how to be confident, and how to smile on command, great
I actually don't find confidence attractive.
***** It feels like you have 0 experience with relationships. Submissive people may have a dominance thing in the bedroom and vice versa. No one HAS to conform wholly to a role. You seem to have very old gender stereotypes embedded in you that you need to work on, dude.
Anemonemarie Actually, he's not that wrong.
In general, if you want to be dominant, be ready to be dominant the whole way, this includes being the provider, working out, paying for the bills, taking sexual initiative, etc... This also mean that you will have to face rejection and all other nasty things that may come with it, including violence.
There are some guys who are jerks in the world outside, but passive in bed, or vice versa. But they are very, very few and scarce.
***** gosh, you sound very experienced.
***** I get you.
Dude you have some really weird friends. I've never had a friend that wanted their boyfriend in drag. Fine if that's your cup of tea, but that certainly isn't common. What you're doing is just putting everyone into roles. Basically, if the women are dominate, clearly they want their men to be the women in the relationship... that's not how it usually works. I've asked all my boyfriends out, and I'm a fan of being on top, but when it comes to home life, I cook and clean. I've never had someone buy me dinner and I don't expect him to make more than me. I don't have a job right now so I'm playing a role of a typical waifu- but when I go back to work in the fall, I'll be making more money than my boyfriend. Everyone is a mixed bag.
I get that these are from personal experiences of people you know, but let me add to that by saying, those are not lifestyles you should consider common. Let my personal experience be added to yours so you have a more open minded approach to relationships and gender roles.
Please PLEASE don't just assume that women and men 'typically' work this way. Just take each person as they come. It's better to not stereotype such things.
I'm wondering why bullies always seems to get more friends and are protected and the victim blamed. Can science explain this?
Sweet science facts of course!
"Hi, name is...." usually works for me but then again some people think I'm too radical.
Since Macon baby! I'ma be a confident non-arrogant man!
Nice shirt.... Shame it doesn't actually appear in the background!
Yes they do. I see it all the time.
What happens if the internet connection shuts down in the whole world?
Is it weird that I like my men cocky or is it the norm?
Dude hit the gym and get out of my recommendations
lmao
Every woman in comment section: no we don't
Me: yes dear you do......
It isn't all about signalling availability, I've had fat women flirt with me, I've just ignored them.
lol started saying no then basically had to admit yes.
I really want a rich woman though
Yeah we do. It's confidence. You just have to figure out each girls acceptable level of thinking you're self assured and thinking your a big headed jerk. Once you gage that, you can get just about any girl you want under the right circumstances.
so you're saying complimenting my girlfriend will make guys hit on her? Welp, time to destroy her self-esteem.
A question for dnews: Is it possible to eat absolutely perfectly? If so, what would be the effects on health? What I mean by this is eating (or rather somehow obtaining) exactly your recommended daily intakes every single day. Would this actually be healthy?
an interesting take on the debacle, altho it fails to explain the noted increase of infidelity among women who are exposed to men displaying high dominance.
my strategy: no strategy
Free candy never fails.
Dnews, I am the most confident... erm.. person ever! I walk in to a bar and say something like "hi. I have lots.. well, many.." I dunno but I just have.. *runs in to a corner and cries!*
A huge thing I figured is in 3.2 sec of meeting you a girl knows if they like you so when flirting that's the deciding factor of rather your a creep or a dream
What they're missing is you've gotta know the right words to say too... I for instance have no clue what to say to a woman to please her if I don't even know her yet. But yet she wants you to approach her in a way that she wants you to and rejects you if you don't... not taking into consideration you know nothing about her! Some guys are better at reading women than other guys and it's not fair because those guys miss out or get rejected.
At bars I'm usually the one getting kicked out because I'm too violent
because alcohol makes you see what is really happening you are not violent because your crazy, you are violent because you are not with your real people, you are a stranger in a strange land of people who should be beaten senseless
than start violaiting the boodyguard
Balance in all things
E SC Woah brah, gettin all kwisatz haderach over here
I'm sure girls love those scroney arms of yours Jullian lmao
***** the brain isn't a muscle..
boom bob He's reading a script, and he probably does have a girlfriend.
Regina Cava Actually, he's married to Julia; the cute red-head on this channel. I must say he's done alright for himself.
***** Why does a woman liking buff guys automatically mean she's superficial? Everyone has their preferences as to what they find sexually appealing about the opposite sex and I'm sure you do as well. If looks are the only thing some women care about when it comes to men, then you have a point.
***** If it's the most important thing to her, then yes, that is superficial, like I said. In your previous comment, I thought you were implying that women preferring buff guys in any capacity was superficial.
No, I'm too arrogant to "beg" someone to go out on a date with me (yes, that's how I see it, "begging") or send messages. It sucks but I don't want to change anyway :)
The comments are better than the video
A girl asked me how much sugar do you want in your tea
I said im special i drink my tea with zero sugar
She laughed and Now she likes me
confidence is key but being cocky is fucking irritating.
That's impressive and all but can you tell me how to get out of the friend zone?
Jose Graham Ram the competition with your tusks or horns until they die or back off.
Jose Graham (Assuming you're hetero) If you've got someone specific in mind and she doesn't already see you as something other than a friend, any efforts to change her perception will (with extraordinarily high probability) be wasted energy. Sorry if that's not what you want to hear, but the best thing you can do for yourself is find someone who actually wants to date you rather than have a friendship.
Options:
1.) Quit being a Beta
2.) Learn to take a hit and find something better, elsewhere.
3.) Get in better physical shape & smell nice.
Jose Graham If you are acting like a friend she's gonna think of you nothing more than a friend. Make things clear from the beginning. If not verbally, physically.
If you wanna get out of the "Friendzone", tell her how you feel. If she doesn't feel the same, move on, don't waste your time!
Jose Graham if you've been friend zoned it's a lost race (assuming you've asked her out already) their opinion of you won't change unless something drastic happens: either you get a shit tonne more attractive or she gets a shit tonne less self esteem. If you haven't asked them out you're not really in the friend zone because she may like like you too and are just too clueless to notice.
It's all about different types of look's and character or personality to me confidence is (BS) say try to get into disney world for free
If you divide by the amount of effort invested in getting girls, I'd say the answer is yes.
Your t-shirt is nice
I don't like too much attention. I just be myself and I am very shy.
I’m just very very confident maybe cocky
Most cocky people are insecure
This camera is so HD that I can see lense flares from your skin.
I have found that roofies always level the playing field.
There seems to be a lot of white noise in the background. Not to be silly, but it really does bother me, is this only on my end?
no its not you
What is freezer-burn?
Shy and I haven't had more than a first date in ten years
Why do we hate spoilers so much?
My strategy is a roofiie
Here's a question for dnews. If that ringing in ur ear is in your mind and not just a high frequency we pick up because of technology, does that mean people have been hearing that ringing since the beginning of time? If so , is there any proff of it in some where?
Yes we do.
I'm just being myself. It's a horrible technique that bears very little results but when it works you know you've gotten your hands on someone worth keeping.
Quality over quantity is fine by me.
Chix dig guys that don't give a crap. Makes them think "ooo what a bad boy! Why doesn't he want me? I can fix him!"
Yup. .....no question
I charm them with science facts... and my very attractive face
Arrogance is such a huge turn off!
Yes they do
Real men don’t approach women you wait for them to approach you or give u a look , never approach a women who didn’t even notice you in the room only approach the women you catch looking at you or side eyeing you it’s plenty of women for every Man U just got to find your women
It depends whether the arrogant guy is confident with women
my technic to get girl is do not but do what you are i like poletics as only one of the class and im still in a relation but not someone from my class
"Be more confident" is a shitty tip, because your confidence arises from your skillset. If you don't know how to small talk, your confidence doesn't mean shit when you start blabbing about QM in conversation. Then again, you cannot acquire social skills without practising, so if you don't have proper conditions and good company to practise socialization, you're fucked for life when it comes to it.
I love this guy
I’m naturally cocky women seem to enjoy it
Arrogance usually doesn't last long!
Is there any similar study for attracting the same sex?
1:03 we all know how she pulled that one off ;-D
I find it odd that women wouldent want someone that are themselves, namely: not trying to be macho like many asshats try to be due to themselves not being sure of who they are and therefore throws up the macho attitude (so annoying).
No it depends on the guys look when I'm aragont girls just hate me lol then again I've always been hated by women weather I treat
Them good nor bad so I started to treat them like everyone else which usually ends with me getting blocked
i don't have a strategy and it isn't working for me
No need to watch this...the answer is YES.
Well I was being ignored by women in a bar full of beared hipsters until I got into a fight and manhandled 5 of them' all of a sudden the women were trying to give be there phone number...!
Love always works for me. :) because love is most powerfull thing in the world. ^_^
Listen to the sage XD
She just asked me if i had a life and left
how you doing?
"The female species... Such an enigma!" is how I feel. No clue what I'm doing.
are there ever any social experiments like this but with the same sex