Why Men Never Get Over A Breakup
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- Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
- It's commonly thought that women hurt more after a breakup. Is there any truth to this?
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Drinking and talking to friends helps but right when you're alone it hits you like a rock
Yup
True 😓
me right now
Got that right.
True +1
Yeap, bros, this shit gonna last.
Sharif S At least there is some comfort in knowing youre not going through the same incredibly confusing and hard situation alone. Hope things work out in the end my friend
Yo dude sick name!
sharif mutasim
full name: adam berkeley-frenette. A bit over the top...
Adam Berk sorry I was actually talking to Sharif since we have the same first name.
Dammit. I saw Sharif and figured it was Sharif. My bad
for a lot of men, their girlfriend or wife is the only person they can talk to about their feelings or other intimate/personal things that would be weird to discuss with other males. This might be a reason why men feel numb and take a lot longer to recover due to the lack of social or emotional support.
2vain4u exactly!!! Some one with fommon sense! Its called repressing! Woman talk, men are taught not to talk.
As a man I am starting to realize, it is not that men aren't talking or should talk more, we cope with emotion in a completely different way than does a woman. we process our emotions with movement and activity based coping, I think our neuro-anatomy and physiology lends itself to making a man a slightly less efficient talker of emotions, and naturally a better doer of emotions via actions...
amen . for real tho
yes ! my ex bf told me he felt numb and angry and totally dull after broken up with me even he still go meet friends or travel, but the emotions keeps in his heart so sometimes it shows up sometimes like a normal person.
I know a friend her ex still wants to b friend with her despite he was the one who wanted breakup and friendzoned my friend and she still loves him but does not want hurt him so she still talks to him
No matter how much alcohol we consume or how many other women we take to our bed, nothing on earth could rid us of the memories that plague our mind.
Never did it crossed my mind that i would be in this situation, crying over someone that doesnt want me and trying to drown my feelings with liquor. Weed only helps so much but i find myself smoking more. I know whats best for me but i dont want it, i want to just punish myself for my greatest mistake ever.
No wonder why men use women disgusting
Ryan Harrison What’s your story Ryan?
@@tsebosei1285 woman do it more then men check U. N. DATA
Nice God of War quote.
#TeamVirgin4ever
Chibis On The Loose you mean the the wizards if you survive to 30 and wraith at 80 i forgot what 50 was
tazzerdevil98 Oh, yeah, those are my plans for the future
That's really lame you have to have sex at some point
the lucky ones
Chibis On The Loose ENJOY IT WHILE YOU CAN..........
The best connection on why men would have a harder time with a break up is because there is no emotional support. If you show off your emotional/sensitive side to your family most likely they'll tell you to stop whining and man up. If you show your self to a female friend they will tell you how unattractive you're acting (and that's if they're frank with you). And guy friends don't even know what to do in a situation is right in front of them. Hopefully, there are a few friends that are willing to talk about the situation of a break up with full support with no awkwardness or uncomfortably.
Compare that to a women who are given full support with almost everyone and not be looked down upon by showing their sensitive side.
Lui s pretty accurate
Lui s spot on sir
Lui s This is the second biggest problem facing men especially on the western hemisphere. People don't give a shit about your feelings if you've got a penis. It's always "Man up," "Don't act like a little girl," or "Stop being a pussy." Because after all, Men are feeling-less assholes and if you have feelings, you must be a woman.
Lui s i never thought about it this way , thank you sir
+Caracal Just putting my two cents out there.
i just had a break up and i feel like dying... thanks for the tips.
same
never bin in a relationship (basicly afraid too) but godlbess hookers and coke
me too 💔 after a year and eight months
im sorry that happend to you. i was engaged and got dumped.
I'm really sorry that happened to you, I feel you, it came out of nowhere from one day to another and caught me by surprise I was devastated for the past week but I realized today that although it hurts us now, it'll hurt them when we move on and stop trying to stay in their life. Those people will realize they Messed up when it's too late, we'll be okay :')
It's been 24 years, and the thought of her still stings my heart. I still feel like a golden opportunity for lifelong happiness slipped through my fingers. There aren't enough words to describe how much I miss her.
Wow 24 years, you must have really loved her. What happened?
It’s been 20 years for me so I totally understand how you feel. The pain literally never goes away, you’re numb all of the time and barely have energy to get out of bed. The one reply of “Call her”; no, he can’t do that because it opens him up to possibly more pain because she could be happily married and if she wanted to be with him, she would contact him.
seriously dude 24 years???
Bruh get over it
Well that’s just a fantasy you have built in your head obviously when the person for you if you were if you’d be together and I’m sure you found somebody else instead thank your lucky stars you got away from her.
Darn. Relationships are dangerous.
tell me about it steven
Steven H Wang not if you got a long wang
That's the entire point behind them actually
No shit....
For men yes
When i broke up with my ex. I lost around 180 lbs. Thats how much she weighed.
Shane Sanders wow sounds like you are in your best shape ever. Congrats.
Shane Sanders lmfao
Shane Sanders aaahah i said the same thing when my husband left
Shane Sanders Damn she was a big girl.
Thomas Jackson i wear a size 8 and 180 lbs. sorry but size 8 is not big
Almost 4 years and I still miss her. She was the first girl to ever like me back, when I had lost hope .
hope my friend is the worst thing right now
James Dean Youngs hey im here for u
James Dean Youngs I get you man....even if they do you so wrong we still miss them :(
4 years dude? come on now
Get over it!!
“A wise man never loses anything as long as he has himself.”
Dammn, that is so true and so false at the same time
True
@@moisesdiaz9852 why false
I'm not wise then.
Its just a dialogue
Men never get over break ups because we/males have to work harder to get into relationships in the first place
MrPokemon907 faaax
This makes total sense.
and maybe because we really love sincerely and unconditionally. We there for the long haul but they dont see it!!
Incel alert❗⚠️
Just date another guy lol
It's a sad day men, we just found out that women don't love us.
Hey, some women probably feel the same as men do in this situation but those women probably have the same mentality of guys while bring trapped in a ladies body.
Yeah that was kinda retarded.
Is joke bro.
...I got a chuckle out of it. I dont know how it was missed.
it's not that women don't love men, it's that they involve themselves so much into the relationship that it's terrible at the beginning, and then when finding someone else, women involve themselves again in a relationship and so on. It seems that it's not fair, but actually it's for biological reasons
It's because we are caught off guard with the breakup. While women have been planning to break up with you for months before she does. So she is damn near already over you when she gives you the bad news.
Some women plan this for years....while cheating behind or even in front of their man....then when he gets "weak"...they get rid of him...talk about evil here.....
Do not give your soul to anyone....protect yourself
77thekey not all the time. Some guys are dicks and just ghost you and ignore you and you find out 2 weeks later they got a new girl
War brides...
77thekey exactly!
While Watching the video u are still thinking abt your ex
sham s that’s me right now!!!
sham s thats obvious. if youre thinking ab a breakup, you are thinking of ur ex
Wrong
I think women fall in love faster, but they also fall OUT of love faster. Their attraction to a man is very much based on feelings and emotions, and these emotions can fluctuate wildly. Men take longer to develop feelings, but they can stay on for a long time after the relationship is over.
Agreed
Yep I'm a heartbroken dude
Achilles you could be right about that. I agree with you. Maybe it is our job as men prevent women from falling out of love by showing them that we love them back.
I agree
He stopped feeling for me after 2 weeks the first time and 1 week the last time.. 2 months later i still love him
This has always been true, all men know that we can never forget our first ex, our belief in "love" also dies after the first breakup.
+GuyWithAnAmazingHat I've never been in love and I already lost my belief in it =P
+GuyWithAnAmazingHat i don't believe in it either, my first ex i want her sooo bad but i hate her to the point of no return.
GuyWithAnAmazingHat That is ironically also the same moment when we become players and very successful in dating. Because we have learned how the game should be played.
Tespri yeah, but you always KNOW you wish it wasn't just some game and maintain a dream of finding that "true love", even if denying to yourself.
GuyWithAnAmazingHat My belief in love didn't die, my trust in women did. However that is recoverable, and currently I'm happy with the girl I'm with. We both treat each other very well and go out of our way for one another yet still respect each other as individuals.
Wrong, men definitely invest more into a relationship. That's why getting over it takes longer. And women can find a replacement much easier then men can. In most cases they already have a replacement before the relationship ends
Bull's Eye!!!
kuunami
Ding ding ding, we have a winner
That is so True
invest in love, time AND MONEY if all out, guys would be investing more
kuunami for real. A girl probably has a few dudes in her phone she can hit up and just say "come over" and dudes will step over each other to see her. I know I don't have that luxury. *sigh*
What sucks is she set the bar really high. I'd say we were definitely 85-90% compatible, she's into Asian dudes, and I'm into white girls. Shared a lot of common things. And the kicker? She lives less than 8 miles away... One hell of a tough act to follow.
I found a girl who was definitely a “one” for me. The feeling was unlike anything else I’ve experienced. Being with her made me feel at peace with myself and with everything. She was the most beautiful person I’ve met. I screwed up and lost her. I didn’t know I could feel so miserable. The magnitude of the regret is unbelievable. I went over those events in my mind a thousand times. Since then, I’ve been on a mission to find another girl who makes me feel the way she made me feel. I’ll find her, or else die tired and alone. But, when I find her, I’ll make her my wife, and she’ll be the luckiest girl on Earth. I wish I could have given that to the first girl, instead of causing her pain. All I can do is move forward and create as much love and happiness in this world as I can in my lifetime.
Women don't want a worthless lazy loser like yourself. so keep dreaming the impossible.
Same dude
Don't search for her in other women, you won't find it trust me.
@@pmthert523 There is always red pill/MGTOW cultists lurking on videos like this. You shit heads need to stop trying to lure vulnerable men into your toxic cult.
@DarkBirgon Blue pill, Red pill, Purple pill. Step right up and pick your cult of choice in this Luciferian construct known as Civilization. Just be careful with the derogatory personal attacks, or no one will want to join your cult.
Who else watched this just after getting broken up with:(
Me
me as well man
me to. but fuck that bitch!!!
for real dudes. shits whack
Daniel Chapman Me to but fuck that bitch😂
3 months to get over a breakup? If only. Its been nearly 1,5 years damnit I'm done with feeling torn up, angry and sad about it.
+NiekGAE Mine normally take half the time of the total relationship. So if a relationship lasted 2 years - 1 year to get over it. Never fully over it, but enough to move on.
Scorch428 Yup thats what I've heard often. By that logic I got 1 more year left to go. Woohoo.
+Scorch428 I was with a girl for six months and it took me two plus years before I was even ok being alone. I just got out of a one year relationship with worse of a withdrawal effect. I'm not sure how long it will take to get over her. at least this one gave me more reasons to move on.
+Marshall Ells Keep your head up, man. Realize that your emotions are a result of evolution, nothing more. They aren't real, in the true sense of the word. It's tough to get past them - no doubt. 4 different woman have ripped me apart in my early 20's, seemingly without a care in the world. You'll get through it, tho. Just KNOW that. :) It just takes time.
Marshall Ells If its of any reassurance, my first love took me 2 years to get over. We were together for only 3 months. 3 fucking months.
The one I was talking about, a 5 year relationship, well it doesn't look like it'll take me 20 years to get over her even though I still love her and miss her right now. It'll pass.
It will get better. There will be other girls for us bruv. Girls that actually appreciate us.
Really drunk right now so sorry if I'm not making snese.
When you don't date so you aren't hurt by breakups.
Touche!
*cant
WINDEX touche
THIS^
Clayton Griffith
Never been through a break but this comment section breaks my heart. I hope y'all get better soon.
Thankyou
Women can get over it because of all the emotional support they have. If men get emotional they are judged as being whiney and weak so they internalise it which is why men don't ever really get the chance to get over it. They keep it in and don't say anything to anyone. The reason why women are more likely to initiate a breakup is they have much more to gain. Divorce and custody battles almost always favor women. There is a reason for this it's not strictly biological response.
*THIS*
Numberless Oats This is the truth.
Uh, no. Stop pretending you know anything about this topic. My ex boyfriends had way more emotional support than I did. Life is not a romantic comedy. Not even touching the other dumb shit you said.
ok no Care to *explain* in depth why it's wrong?
Please share your knowledge.
But thankfully men tend to be more logical so breakups aren't emotionally taxing for them (minus the sensitive ones).
I'm a guy. Break ups feel like death for me
Are u for real? I've never thought guys feel this way. It has always seemed to me like guys don't care about brake ups at all
Јана Марковић It's true, went through a break up 4 days ago.. I can't work, I can't sleep, or I can't eat, my family is just looking at me wondering what's wrong but I've never showed them these emotions before, I've only been truly vulnerable with her, I love her.. I gave her my heart and it hurts everytime I think about her and look at her pictures... nights are long and lonely and sad, full of love songs and sorrow
Solo PAC sorry to hear that buddy.
If you still want her back, it might be worth trying to win her over again. Search on RUclips for Brad Browning - he is a relationship coach who does videos specifically to help people get their ex back.
Good luck!
Cameron Lorna Don't think I can go back to her, just gotta let her see what she lost.. I'm a good guy, I'm loyal, I don't cheat, I listen, I care, but sometimes it's just not enough for em.. Can't waste my time trying to love, and get back someone who doesn't appreciate me
Shit sometimes they just want a guy that treats em like shit, that treats em like a used rag.. I guess I'm the fool for wanting to treat them like Queens
Thanks though bro, Respect✊
Solo PAC so basically you are boring and that's why she left?
when ur ex Says she is too busy for a relationship but then goes with another guy after a week
I feel you its bullshit man
ja kub yo I feel that
Just thinking about her with other men who I know don't deserve her, really hits me like a meteor
How r u now?
women can find a new relationship faster than men and have no problems moving on. it's played out like women are so emotional.. yet men are actually more attached when they really love someone
Right On :D
Lol no! It’s just that in today’s world it’s difficult for men to find a new woman. They dread having to flirt and impress other women. They hate moving out of their comfort zone and finding someone new. If a guy found a hotter girl, he wouldn’t even for a second think about his ex. It’s just that men have lesser opportunities than women. And you usually feel heartbreak until you find another person.
There is no point to find women who are deviants
Exactly because we value anyone who we are with in a relationship and it is hard to just "get over it" and "move on".
Manasa Reddy I have slept with hotter women than my ex after breakup but I still miss her, because the relationship meant something to me. There is a thing called love. What bullshit logic are you talking about ?
Can you do a video on why in a relationship why there's always one person who likes the other person more? Like why can't it be more balance? This always happens..
Zeeke Easily explained - entropy. There are many more states in which something can be asymmetrical than symmetrical, so by definition relationships will tend to be asymmetrical rather than symmetrical.
Zeeke Because it's far more likely to have two different levels than both having the same. Think of it this way. You have a barrel of skittles. You shove two hands in and grab as many skittles as you can with each hand. One hand will always have more skittles than the other.
Jonas Hamill Good example of the underlying scientific principle I was trying to convey.
Zeeke Easy, same reason why on of youyr arms is bigger than the other, since there is not real equality just estimates. One is always gonna love more than the other.
Zeeke When going over selecting a mate for the general purpose of reproductive strategy, I liken it to used car shopping with a trade in car. Both individuals at the precipice of a relationship start evaluating the market position of the other to determine if they are affordable and desirable. This often involves a little prior introspection to ascertain your own value to shop out in the market; and usually inspires to detailing work to make sure you get top dollar. This works well when selling anything in general. If two people decide with or without help that they can make fair market value for each other, a relationship happens. Value changes after the transaction and some may feel a need to step up and away from a current deal at some point, should one side's value go up or the other's value goes down. This is mostly a one sided decision to benefit one to leave the other formerly content with the deal at the curbside.
I took liberty to expand upon this.
courses.washington.edu/ssci200/Econ_of_Dating_and_Mating.pdf
You become ok and move on but suddenly one fine day you hear a song which was famous during your past relationship and used to listen to it together a lot. It just brings back everything and crystal clear memories just play back on your mind. Like a Truck hit you again. At that point I suggest just smile and be happy that you have some good days and felt loved once.
seriously bro... fuckin a!
yes
Dreamer - Ozzy Osbourne.
@@DMNCKM baby i love your way for me
Your best bet
My high school sweet heart reached out to me after 11 years and told me he still hasn’t gotten over me . I got over him in 4 months because boy did he mistreat me and make me cry all the time . I feel bad for him but I’m happy I was able to get over someone who mistreated me .
Yea don't go back
Been with someone for 4 years who is a narcissist and has abused me mentally, emotionally and physically. We have broken up 7 times in 4 years and k have made 13 moves (500miles each) because he said he changed and wants to marry me and be happy.... I've been back now for 2 weeks and he has already told me to move back home with my parents.... I'm 26.... He's 38... Despite everything I actually loved him and still do... But this will be my 14th trip of 500miles back. And me packing up my life 14 times and trying to establish roots again. When I entered the relationship I was such a bubbly silly happy girl... Now I have no clue who I am and my parents can't stand the sight of me and claim "youre not our daughter anymore... she's been gone for 4 years." I hate my ex so bad for doing what he has done to me and how I allowed it so many times... He says he'll never get over me.... I honestly hope he struggles for the rest of his life. Because God sure knows I have and I have almost lost myself completely.... (I've tried to commit suicide 3 times because of the abuse and feeling trapped and unwanted/unrecoverable.) I hope I have your strength and can move on and be protected to never meet a man like this again...
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Lol
I know someone like that, he was horrible to her but he really did love her still does, sometimes we have to lose that person to make us realize how we went wrong, and as the saying goes you dont realize how much you truly loved that person till there gone.
Its simple when a man gets his heart broken he loses his confidence and mojo which makes him unattractive. When a women gets her heart broken there are many men who would gladly be her rebound. Simple
that seems crazy true when you put it that way
Yeah that's true. My Ex had guys lined up as rebounds and a lot of them knew they were rebounds too.
Women are evolutionarily privileged
It’s even simpler than that. Women don’t love men. They love what men can do for them. So, when they lost a man, there’s still plenty of men who will immediately fill that void. Men don’t need to love women but need a purpose, only that biology of men make relationship, which is potential future family, to be the center of their lives, which can be brutal if that purpose is taken away. Men with purpose in life other than relationship, are immune to emotional toll of breakups.
I think women are better at dealing with emotions. Like the emotions during a break-up.
I look at my good qualities and say to myself she missed this!
i look at my good qualities and, well shit i dont have good qualities
+jacob pattee, wow then you need to build some bro
F' LOL jacob!! you're awesome bro. and guess what -- this is the kind of easy humor that not only gets people over pain, it attracts new love. and nothing soothes like new love, even if it's love for ourselves (usually the best kind) ❌
+niko michael m, if you feel that you got good qualities that attractive women appreciate yourself and feel that she lost those qualities. thats one part of loving yourself.
symon mandawala me too!
Being single again isn't the hard part.. it's being alone that sucks
Justin no being fooled yet again is the hardest
Anjana Devi yea but there are so many good honest people out there.. we can't let the ones who hurt us make us believe it will always happen again.. ya know
Justin yeap you're right... but I guess we mostly gravitate towards 'bad' people cos they're the ones who seemed willing to give us attention, show kindness and concern. 'Good' people seem nice and that's it. They don't seem to want anything more than that. You feel awkward..as though you're not good enough for them. OK...I'm kinda ranting...lol
Justin when you feel,lonely just workout and buy some nice clothes and go clubbbing it always works : )
Benny Gonzalez Shit is so true, just broke up with my girl 4 days ago.. Every night hurts now, just up lonely and wanting her to come back
My ex broke up with me because she said i act like a kid 😭, then i stood up, wipe my tears and move over it.
On the next morning i went to her house 🏡 and rang the bell 🔔 three times and ran away 🤷🏾♂️
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R u kidding me?? 😂😂😂
Oh God😄😄😄😄😄😄
Its sad, but funny😁
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You really act like a kid. Don't worry though, we all have that little kid version in our minds going 'Hey don't forget about your stupid self!'
Everything's easier if you're a psychopath.
+Dr. Doom What do you mean?
Kiyo
The central defining theme in Buddhism is compassion. Psychopaths have either no capacity for it or a disdain for it. It would be exceedingly hard for a psychopath to even see reason to practice Buddhism let alone understand it.
Dr. Doom I see, interesting. Buddhism is very interesting. Thanks!
Ok
+Dr. Doom Though there were some buddhist monks who burned alive some minorities in their country lately.
I guess we cannot count them as mentally healthy right?
Can't suffer a break-up if you never get into a relationship.
Titan Slayer *taps forehead*
Pump and dump
Exactly NEVER AGAIN!!!
Modern problems need modern solutions.
#Mgtow
Everyone is talking about how they miss their exes yet here I am, happier than I ever was with my ex. We were together for almost a year and a half until she cheated on me and left me for the dude she cheated with. I was devastated for about a month or two, after which I've been happier than ever. Then half a year later she came running back to me, apologizing and begging me to take her back. I just laughed at it and kindly told her no.
I guess it's just my mentality, that if people leave your life, it's for a good reason. They served their purpose, and something way better is underway. And that way of thinking worked perfectly because now, almost 2 years after the breakup, I met an amazing girl that I've always dreamed of.
So the moral of this story is your future is determined by the way you react to present.
You did the best job by dumping that stupid girl.
Thank you... I feel alot better
Thank you you are great
not everyone their gfs cheated on them like yours , me and my ex just couldnt keep up the long distance thing m after a year we broke up
My ex also cheated on me and hang out with dudes and even engaged behind my back , thank God it wasn’t me otherwise I would live with regret and pain for the rest of my life. We had some arguments before but no matter what reason she shouldn’t have treated me this way. Later she said she regrets but it was too late.
It hurts us guys more cuz we're more invested in to the woman. We love them a lot more. And when they leave, it damages us permanently
Simple solution, don’t get into relationships
Sounds very mature...
relationships are shite, its a one way system and not for the mans benifit.
Thanks mate
Being a bachelor is cheaper & less drama. Go Mgtow!
That's the cowards solution. It robs u of lives most wonderful thing. U r poor if u think so. U let them beat u down. Get up again u fool.
Its hard to get over a breakup because of all the good times u had together all the memories
The Predator I bet female yautja’s break your heart all the time huh
just get a motorcycle. helps you out run any bad vibes :D
Jesse Burnes literally what ive done as well but once youre off the bike...the whole being on a bike as a distraction thing stops. If anything it might draw thw shitty awful fuck you world process out even more. 12 year relationship for me. Also just turned 30. Yay
Jesse Burnes I sold my few years before breakup. Btw had a litteral crush and figurative one. One with broken bones was less painful.
just did last weekend..a 1000 cc as first bike..still alive :)
Sharif S Im not sure i would still be alive if i kept my fazer. That mood with 100HP+ you know.
Jesse Burnes then, a bad woman driver kill you on the road.
I've been married 35 years and have six grandchildren. I'm still hurting from a breakup 36 years ago.
My goodness.
Here 13 years married with kids
Everyday I am crying.
I am my own enemy
Thats like cheating emotionally on your current wife of many years if you’re crying over a past one that has been long gone. That sucks.
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@@gamalsankara1388 Usually relationships end when people get tired of pretending to be the person their partner really likes.
Men can never get over when he had a true strong bond with a girl I even tried to take my life once it took years to get over that pain
thats crazyy.. ive been depressed to that extent myself.. but not because of a girl.. thats.. man life's crazyy sometimes.. all we can do for eachother is try to be there but not judge
How do men get over that pain? By dating a new woman?
@@moimaris3369 Actually they won't still now I am seeing her in everywhere even though if we get into relationship with other women it won't be that strong as that one girl it's like fire under the ashes there are lot of guys keeping their one true loves name to their kids. That pain won't leave still we go to our grave we can't able to bare the pain of your loving one is moving on with some one else it's been 7 years even now I am having that pain looking back her pictures
@@vettriventhan7446 😭😭bruh
@@vettriventhan7446 sorry bro
Never fall in love, love will have u doing shit u never thought u would do
Yup true
fucking true
HAH true that. Love is blind.
Faxxx
cuz love is irrationale.
God forbid guys actually value relationships huh
Send them in my direction
insta please?
It's a feminine trait.
Go mgtow
No they dont
men are actually super fragile in case of relationships........ we might have six packs bt we r really too emotional from inside
@Bob Salazar Nope.
wrong, you are emotional do not put all men in the emotional category brother
What does having a six pack have to do with your feelings and emotions😂. What if you a guy who don't have a six pack? In that case your get over ex faster?😂
@@monas Building six packs takes a lot of effort and makes you strong mentally.....thats what I mentioned......but they still breaks down mentally after a relationship issues....hope you got it
wtf is going on in united states?? Please brothers stop watching "the notebook", stop eating junk, filter your water, read more books on manliness. I dont know what else you can do but please find the way of becoming more masculine and stop the drama.
Love is such a potent drug
As a man, nothing feels the same after. You just try and not talk about it to anyone, you wallow in isolation and every little thing seems to annoy and irritate you. The company you usually keep NEVER helps, you can’t even look at her pictures or social media accounts, trying desperately to forget about her and the pain you feel and the only thing that PARTIALLY heals the emotional scarring is time. That’s it. A new relationship definitely helps but you’re always feeling afraid of a break up during such times, leaving you potentially in an even WORSE state than before! From what I’ve seen, it can take women a mere few months to get over a break up and find someone else. For a guy? It can literally take YEARS to recover.
scowl face Hang in there buddy. Been through the same thing and the initial 2 year spell is ALWAYS the worst. Once you get over that, things only start looking up from there. The one thing that irritates women after breakup/divorce is seeing their ex moving on with someone else and seem even HAPPIER than when they were when they were married to them. Chin up buddy, good and even better times are ahead of you!
Emperor and Scowl Face - I wish you both to meet a loyal person in the future. As I wish it to myself. They must exist out there. Our head knows it but our heart can't have faith (for now). And how can we ever assess loyalty in someone at the start? Impossible. We've had signs she was a good person, but it's terrible when finally she turns out to be a child who wants a new toy. I have to admit I am now scared about women's dictator behaviour.
i just get high
Really? My experience told the other way around. Hurt so bad i cried like 2 months every single day. After a year i get better. After 2 years i decided to move on 🙂
Lol story of my life
I learned more from the comments than the video.
Lol me to. I guess men have hearts....
And feelings...
Ya me also
Hey Huda Me 2 😌
Not so easy forget when your gf is the one who got you arrested and you gotta fight for your life in court
Somethings wrong with meh! It seems like during the day I’m not that sad. But the night....it’s like I can’t stop crying
C00lkid Number #1 I thought only women are like that
Same :(
I concur. Click like if you're a heartbroken dude!
no
Nice try
Nice try
Nice try
Dillon M he only tried once...
It kills...to have those amazing memories flood your mind. The emotion and feeling of those moments, and knowing that you won’t have them again. You want to let go, and forget. But everything reminds you of them, and you feel nothing but regret, loneliness and emptiness. And you find yourself stuck in a worse situation than before. And you wonder, “What all went wrong?”
Fucking Accurate.
Gotta think about the fucked up memories
I wish guys feelings were taken more seriously. Reminders throw us down after it all, it’s even worse when they tell you they still love you but then switch up the next time you see them. Plays with your heart and head, and they think it’s alright...
Can't watch the same movies, tv shows etc that you seen with them or certain smells like food or go to places that we held hands at. The little things might not seem like a big deal but sure was powerful enough to make me move to a different province.
@@FreshBiscuit-n6z Same men. I stopped drinking coffee because it reminds me things.
I know i'll get hate here, but i don't really fucking care. It's quite simple in my eyes, woman have more options because they are idolized more therefore don't worry as much to find there mate and get over the previous far easier in the long run. Gals, you know it's true too, though i'm sure you will deny it. Guy's have to try harder regardless of how you look at it, but i digress, this video was quite funny to me.
I won't be replying to comment's because everyone has an opinion, and that's fine :)
Drumerpunk1 Reply to me please Mr. Drumerpunk *Puppy Eyes*
Very true.
+Drumerpunk1 No one's hating on you everyone except the extremely ignorant and naive believe otherwise. But their to busy listening to 1 direction and the weeknd.
5 years relationship. He left me 10 months ago. Still feels like yesterday.
Hmmmm sorry for you. I hate this love stuff. Just pains
Same
How ? Women Can t love inconditionaly...
Sorry for my english 🤘🏾🇨🇵
I feel you, girl.
3 months
Still feels so fresh ! 🙃
one needs the time to withdraw and eventually giving yourself the permission to let go.
sucks I know.
It is all in your hands when to hold and when to let go. If you cherish the memories, you tend to hold longer. If you are determined to get over it, you will start looking for greener pasture.
@@louielouie22 Yes, you are perfectly right. Moreover, relationships end when people get tired of pretending to be the person their partner really likes.
This at least gives me the comfort that there's a chance that he still actually cares. When he broke up with me because of something he thought I did, he told me he didn't love me anymore and that he doesn't care even if I hurt. Hopefully this science applies to him too. I know he's very smart and will probably not let the breakup get to him but he's human, too. He's just really mad at me right now. He shouldn't even be. But', I hope one day he'd realize that he shouldn't have done this to me.
move on, eat some food, live your life. You're FREE
I lost a friend to a situation like this. I can't imagine losing my boyfriend the same. However, it was a nice excuse to eat donuts.
if he breaks up with u that means he doesn't want to date men can't get over breakups when it happens to them
If you believe that he loved you very much, he's still probably not over your breakup even if he's the on who initiated it. I did the same with my Gf last year and as this video said, I felt the numbness and the kinda unreal? Feeling but I told myself I don't love her anymore. Turns out I still did and I regretted it a lot after months have passed. Same thing happened with a friend of mine.
Of course we'll deny it, even with close friends and even ourselves, but it stays and it sucks.
why did he break up with you ?
2011 it was, now its 2018
Still not over that. Been single from 7 years by choice. And will probably never marry.
The heartbreak eats you alive inside that is the most painful feeling i have ever felt
I get that same feeling of dying inside, as the days pass since she ended our relationship.
Motown Stickman i would suggest to find something that you’re passionate about. Do that.
Even my worst enemy should never feel this pain
same here dude
Just broke up yesterday after 4 months. I understand that to married people 4 months are nothing, but it's killing me inside, i can't even sleep at night..
i am 28 btw and she's 25
My breakup initially hit me hard; I could feel the constant strain on my heart for at least 3-4 months. 2 years later and I still sometimes feel the lingering pain and emptiness. I’m sure it’s one of the contributing factors to my ongoing depression.
How are you now?
I am not broken, I'm just learning how it feels
P john Good for you, John.
Do you want to talk about it?
Problem is we get soo attached with that one person its almost like we hypnotize ourselves into thinking they're a part of us. That's not the case, never was. It was just a season in your life, now its time to let go and come back to you, the main prize. Shift the focus back on yourself and your life goals i.e education, career, self growth, etc. We were once individual people breathing and living fine before that person showed up.
Mourn. Let go. Move on.
Cody 💪
Lol
You are right I agree 100 percent.
Thanks
....I'm Still licking my wounds 13 years later :( Totally damaged inside....
I feel ya, 20 for me.
i miss my ex. i wish we had had an explosive breakup so I could hate her, but that was not the case. It was the most civil breakup, ending with a hug and a kiss.
My food doesnt taste as good, my temper is set off by the littlest things, i dont eat, i can't sleep, i cant focus, i drink way too much, i flip between being completely numb to the world, or feeling every waking part of it. I miss her, and theres not a damn thing I can do.
Time can't go by fast enough :(
Really wishing I could turn off my feelings
Robert Fine imagine ... feeling nothing ,absolutely nothing .becoming 100% emotialy numb, beautiful!!! no more pain ,no more suffering ,no more. i wish i could achieve that...
Shock You will. It's called death.
Cheikhouna Gueye well right now with the available technology its true that the only way to achieve happiness is death...
You call that happiness? Not to be rude but have you contemplated suicide and/or do you have contempt for your life.
similar for me
I got over it. No big deal... no... no big deal... Wait her name is Amy too? OH GOD!
WHY DID SHE LEAVE ME?
:D
CODE-STATION lol
"post-breakup, most people engage in self destructive behavior"
I guess I'm not like most people then because you know what happened when my first girlfriend broke up with me earlier this year?
I got my first job a month later
I graduated high school
at the time of me writing this comment, I am a college freshman
I'm currently learning how to play the guitar
I grew a beard, started trying a new look
and I got a new girlfriend in the previous month, who I feel much more comfortable around having known what kind of girl I wanted this time around
I'm doing well for myself and proving a point that relationships are not the most important thing in your life and anyone who tries to tell you otherwise is the type of person who you don't want to even start dating to begin with.
anyone who is going through a break up right now and is reading this, I just want you to remember that you have more value than your current situation may lead you to believe.
Erik Stewart I really hope you really didn't feel the sadness rather than blocking it
because if you blocked the sadness it will return and it will be very ugly
Noah Martinez I felt sad for like a day then I was bitter for a few months and now I'm over it in full and loving every second I spend with my girlfriend
Erik Stewart I think how much you liked your ex also is an important factor
good for you and I really hope it doesn't come back to bite you ever
Noah Martinez thank you
I clicked at this video because that title made me angry.
I'm just like you.
I got the best grade possible for my Bachelor thesis, put on 15 pounds of muscle, continued with my engineering studies at the university to get my master degree, changed my look and got my first job as well and I found so many new friends. That doesn't mean I was immediately over her at that point. It still took me some months to get over it, but that's completely normal. Sure I cried about it. I even cried in front of my friends, but that doesn't mean you have to be self destructive. Not EVER getting over it, that's not normal and it's also not healthy.
For all those people going through a breakup: As long as you have feelings about your ex (angriness counts as well), check her social media or think about her, you're not over the breakup. You have to realize that you're not depending on the love of a partner to be happy. Many people forget that. You have to overcome certain things to get over a breakup and some people just aren't strong enough, that's my opinion. If you keep checking her facebook or instagram every once in a while, you're not gonna get over it, it's not gonna work.
Okay no lie, RUclips is actually listening; Like five minutes after I got into a "break up" this is what is recommended to me.
BlueApple that’s a feelsbad and a feelsgood at the same time
me too!
RUclips recommends all sorts of topics to you. You only pay attention to the ones that are relevant in your life and you ignore the hundreds that are irrelevant. You're cherry picking.
RUclips or google. It didnt happen here, but i found content and advertisements that popped out of nothing whithout any recent search on the topic. Just talking on the phone
@@marcobistagnino8713 your phone records everything
What I hate about breakups: Guys are immediatly seen as the bad guy if they end it.
Wtf is that for? Why does guys get taken so poorly, just because they ended the relationship? "Oh that guy is a fucking douch bag. He never deserved you." They say to the girl. Why? Because the guy probably was cheated on, or what if he wasn't in love anymore, or what if he didn't feel comfortable in the relationship.
If the girl breaks up, it still always seem like the guy is the bad guy in the picture. Its despicable.
+Filip Borgersen personally i hate it when people bash my ex, seeing as he was a fundamentally good guy.
+Filip Borgersen
Cuz unfair/unequal gender equality
+Determined Soul and the girl of course perpetuates it and needs to have everyone on their side
I dont even know what i did. her friend texted me and told me how much of a judgemental jerk i was. I feel awful and i apologised and said goodbye. I want to cry 😟
Sometimes , the guys are like my ex.. liars , cheaters , fake , and mean :)
It's hard for me to get over sometimes. I think the reason why women get over it faster is because before the break up they have someone else
Women will just go wherever their feelings take them.
+Agreewithmyfact very true even if their feelings are miss leading
Yeah. My girlfriend just broke up with me because she didn't feel a connection and although she liked me she couldn't see herself ever loving me. It's fine but she was also very dishonest throughout the relationship and you can't possibly build a connection when you don't allow yourself to be open with your partner. Our relationship was basically a lie. It doesnt make sense to me but I didnt bother arguing. Oh well she has maturing to do. I'm thankful for the experience.
+Agreewithmyfact that's the right mindset to have bro! Keep focusing on building your life and love will come
my ex already had someone else...he was flirting with lots of girls before and after we split up..I suffered a lot after a breakup but he never did...now he has a new gf... he seems so happy...crazy how he couldn't imagine living without me...now doesn't even care if I exist.
I'm not positive, but what I've observed about guys is that they don't give a shit about emotions until they start having them----and then they're like: "FUCK. WHAT DO I DO NOW??"
We do give a shit about emotions, we just don't know how to deal with them.
***** That sounds like me, but in life in general. I'm so afraid of "friends" simply leaving and stopping being my friend that I never go out and try to make any. Every single "friend" I have ever had just walked out on me, without a discernible reason. So I avoid people.
+pourlaterreverte I only have 6 true friends...because they have been there for me when I had my bad times and I did the same for them.
Yeah I didn't care she broke up with me until I seen a picture me and her tock together and I don't have the balls to delete the picture because maybe just maybe she will want me back
***** Sounds to me like you're in the "what the hell do I do now?" stage, projecting your frustration with women onto me by claiming that I am belittling men.
In case you need clarification, women are just as dysfunctional in the emotion department, just in different ways. We women think wayyyyy too much---so much that we become indecisive messes and our brains are unable to pull out anything coherent.
Men, on the other hand, think simple thoughts. It sounds bad, but it's true. They are very straightforward. Communication problems between men and women are quite simple most of the time---men pick up on verbal cues, but women often don't use verbal cues (much to the frustration of their partner), and instead use visual/physical cues.
Men need things to be spelled out and explained. They need to try to understand cues other than just the verbal, try to put themselves in their partners' shoes (i.e. empathize), be willing to show emotion and vulnerability, and listen (sometimes for a long time) without trying to give advice (unless invited---sometimes women just want a listening ear). Women need to calm the hell down, figure out what they want and what is important, think about the rationality of their decisions before acting on them, be more patient with men, and listen to their concerns---without butting in and criticizing.
Now. You were saying?
I don't want to get over her. I don't want to fall out of love with her. Nothing ever felt more right than with her. Everyone says "you'll get over it" but I don't want to lose that. Even if it's more pain than I ever imagined I could experience. It just hurts so bad that she's over me, and there's not a thing I can do.
😆😂
@@chasity3878 You seem like you’d be a great person to actively search for people in pain online and reply to them laughing.
It’s scary that people like you raise kids.
@@pats3071 Yeah Pat, let Sarah remind you that it is, in fact, okay to move on. Trust me, I'm having to do the same after wife dumped me after a 20 yr. relationship, the last 15 yrs. in marriage.
@@pats3071 how are you now?
@@khushbusingh1014 A lot better
i eat a lot of chocolate, binge watched, then entered depression, 2 years on getting close to a new girl, wish me luck!
Good luck mate. I hope that everything works out for you :)
I drank a lot of tequila and listened to mariachi music. I guess each culture copes differently.
That's why you join up at the gym instead, and better yourself, all aspects of your life get better when you're exercising...
Yeah, just don't get caught up in the Gym Thots, 99% of them are toxic AF. Eye candy yes, relationship material no.
Not so easy forget when your gf is the one who got you arrested and you gotta fight for your life in court
Over 10 years and it still hurts.
Get over it fast before it destroys your soul !
Prashanth Budihal I have no soul.
Wade Wilson
All the best for your future.
oh my god
thats because women realize most men aren't worth investing in a marriage especially when we're not happy in that marriage...we (women) would rather go thru some days...weeks...months unhappy breaking up...than spend the rest of our lives unhappy in a relationship....
Owner of a lonely heart much better than an owner of a broken heart
Stay single dawg not worth losing your mental health over
3 months to recover from a break up? Are you sure? Don't you mean 3 years? :o
Hodreego more like 30 years
Did they say that women take only 3 months to recover? I'm a women
Kaepora Gaebora.... it really depends on the person. I am a woman and my ex randomly called me without saying anything last night out of nowhere (a call where you get when you can only hear silence and you say hello a few times and they hang up) and...I haven't talked to him in over two years, and I was literally still crying over him the night before I received this random call. I am still not over him. We haven't spoken so long that it would feel awkward to just call him back, and I don't know if I should. It was a long relationship and I really loved him, so ........depends. Best wishes.
Puppet Master The fact that he called you is weird. I'd say, there must be a reason why you guys broke up, but if you think that reason is small and you can both get over it then try to call him back maybe? I'm not an expert but I know if you don't do anything you'll never know. I'm just stating the obvious but sometimes it's hard so see the obvious when you're in the situation.
Also what I meant by my last comment is that 3 months is WAY TOO SHORT
Also recovering doesn't mean not love anymore.
Its already 3 yrs.. I still miss him badly... An can't accept other ... Love him
This is only true if a guy thinks she was his "one", if he does he'll never get over her. If or when he doesn't think so he'll get over her.
It's all about how the individual thinks about the relationship after it ends that helps them get over it.
If you focus on how they weren't good for you the faster you get over it. No one ever does that, everyone is too busy thinking about what they've lost and not what they've gained.
Mark Orwa but even though I know my ex was a complete bad person for me he’s still on my mind or I get reminded of him even though I want nothing more to do with him at all. And I don’t know why that is .. maybe Bc I haven’t replaced him yet 🤔
Thank you. You’re right, Mark.
Wise
👍👍
The thing that really sucks is when you try your hardest, and still can't think of a single thing about her that was bad for you
I never recover. I must be a man
Natashahoneypot Read the bible
Same
K here's what you do if you think you might be a man. Reach in your pants and feel around for something hairy with elasticity.. Then take a peak and watch for something that looks like a purple mushroom.
Same
Natashahoneypot Could be you were raised by your father. Mothers tend to raise to narcacists.
I can understand why some men experience emotional pain only way after, where as women suffer a lot only right after the breakup.
Men deal initially well with the breakup and ignore their now-ex's feelings. But after awhile they "wake up" and regret the breakup but only way way after, meanwhile the woman had enough time for her to recover and convince herself he just don't love her and was such a douchebag to her or even find an amazing man. It's probably why some suffer for much longer after because they realize they should have shown more consideration towards her and blame themselves because they were not brave enough to just say "I love you I am truly sorry" when the woman needed them to say it(remember women are devastated at the beginning so are more willing to accept apologies at the beginning). But now it's too late and the woman actually moved on and forgot about him, while the man is left with a feeling of insatisfaction and regret.
It is just my opinion based on experience.
Accurate
This happened to me.
JIJI soooooooooooo true !!!!!!!
My ex have reach out to me and keeping asking me to forgive him, I went through hell with him, why ?!? I wasted my time, my energy for what 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ took him 5 years to realize that ???? R u kidding me lmao I’m his dream girl now 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ he is definitely not my dream boy anymore, he used to be!!!! I moved on thank god!
Yeah right, men are neglectful and douchebags, whereas women are always honest and never blind-side their partners as it seems. Laughable! Men suffer more and never get over a break-up because the blind-siding women do is of epic proportions. Men believe that are in a true and open relationship and then the news hit them like a bag full of bricks! Not all cases are the same of course, but women tend to be more manipulative and dishonest. It's a fact...
Alexandros you know, I came from a different background where women are straight forward and if we like a men we show affection and love, I believe we give our hearts to broken heart people who didn’t have time to heal, as much u leave past behind it does follow us, I meet good people too, when I said 1 guy I didn’t mean all guys, I didn’t date all the men in the world.
Anyway most of the time our problems come from our childhood.
3 months to move on? No way. Not after investing years into someone, it takes months or even a year. Self work and self love takes a lonnnng time.
I agree... It took me a loooong time to love myself again... And moving on? Still on the way
Going on two years and I am still broken....
@@patrickwalsh8913 i get you.. 2 years
Men never forget their first love. I try my best to avoid it.
Took me 5 years to move on
Men are generally not as open as women emotionally so the affection they get from a relationship is probably more addictive than the other way around. Women have deeper emotional connection with their friends than men and it works like a safety net after a breakup.
Gary Nailed it.
Pinpoint accuracy with that comment.
Yes
hmm.... interesting...
It's been 17 years since I foolishly broke up with my ex gf because of my own insecurities. I've regretted it every day since. I tried moving on, even was married, but woke up every morning since the break up thinking about her, go to sleep every night thinking about her, think of her through the day and never stopped loving her. I just turned 40 and its just getting worse.
How is it now?
I know that feeling too..its so hurting!!
Well u deserve it
glittern Glossed no wonder you’re so bitter, it’s because you are ugly and nobody wants to date you and you’re stupid make up videos!
Surrender to God, btw God put you out that relationship for a reason. Things that God don’t allow is for your own good, look at it as a blessed btw marriage is just a game of tossing around emotions, marriage is a game of hot potato someone is gonna drop it.
If she genuinely loves you mate, don't breakup I repeat don't breakup! You gonna end with someone anyway so why not her? So stay together no matter what. Just delete the word breakup from your relationship.
Karan sin I wish my ex would see this comment I genuinely loved him :(
what if the guy cheated on her but she still loves him?
Wtf are u saying?people breakup for different reasons they dont breakup for nothing
He did that. I won't say I am the best person to love, but I know one thing. I truly loved him. Despite all of our issues. I was thankful for the I love I had. He didn't. He bailed out when things got tough. And that's when I know it's gonna eat him up alive. I tried it all. Begged him. Wrote him messages that I would do my part. But he didn't even take one accountability. Men and their escapist mentality cause so much of trauma, both for themselves, and their SOs. Just get therapy and work it out guys. In this world if you have come across someone who likes you for who you're. You're lucky. Work for it. It's all worth it. I am moving on from him, and his inability to love us. Bye, boo. Take care.
fire up a joint and keep that shit moving..too many women out here
Rod Cooper yeah the video actually says this, bury your problems with drugs
Amen 🙌🏻
My gf of 5 years left me just this February. Still getting over it. I feel so close to it leaving me but I still have bad dreams and nightmares. almost every night.
you'll get there ^^ good luck
Haha thank you.
Same
Phuong Trang It'll get better man, I'm doing great. I started working out, focusing more on expanding my hobbies and interests, and just over all making my self a better person for me. And I gotta say, each day get more and more bearable. When I have bad dreams now, It doesn't affect me as much as it used to. There are some days were it gets really bad, but I find those days more and more rare.
Nice to hear that! Continue the great work. Have you started dating yet? Not girlfriend searching but having fun?
The person who loved the other one as their first choice and sacrificed the most of themselves will be the one who takes the break-up the hardest. Sometimes that is the man. Sometimes that is the woman.
My mother never recovered from being divorced and spiraled down into mental illness. My father was her first ever love. She was very young, fell in love with him at 16 and smitten and he was EVERYTHING to her. Took her out of her mother's house. Showed her the world and her life revolved around him. After the divorce, he left her with nothing, re-married and she was permanently broken.
I had a landlady who was the perfect doting Catholic wife. Her husband was a philandering asshole. He was sleeping with girls in her daughter's class. She would be at work and women bearing his baby would come to her demanding money. Totally broke her up. Worse yet, the church made her feel guilty over divorcing him. She is like a nun now. It's almost like she blames herself for it still and is trying to compensate by devoting all her time to the church. Worse yet, now that her ex-husband is old and no other woman wants him, he has moved back in with her and expects her to care for him.
From what I have seen of women who totally make themselves vulnerable and fall head over heels and allow themselves to be at the full mercy of a man, it is a DANGEROUS risk. Not to mention the horror stories about HIV I have encountered of doting wives infected by philandering and down-low husbands.
I am not surprised the daughters of these women do not want to end up like their mothers and are making more calculated decisions when it comes to protecting themselves from men who are just like their fathers. They have zero tolerance for any signs of the same kind of behavior and are quick to walk away if they see any indications of it.
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It's all about them and thier feelings.. And when they are done with you they have no problem throwing you out like a piece of trash..
Damn. Nailed it
Well said
bro nobody can throw you out like a piece of trash when you know your value. Dont blame women, work on yourself, learn to love yourself and you wont need noone to validate you.
@@RandyReacciones Just because you recognize that someone has treated you badly doesn't mean that you don't value yourself.
@@kuunami brother there is nothing wrong with recognizing that, the problem is when you allow the situation to turn you into a victim. We as men need to learn that life is more than just women. We can travel, work on our health and bodies, we can learn new skills etc. The purpose of my comment is not to bring men down , it is just to tell them to stop thinking that a women can complete them, so then they can start working on themselves. Thanks
I never got over my first two big breakups until I met my wife. Had small relationships before but did nothing emotional for me. After falling in love with my wife I was over my past loves and problems and 11 years later I am so very happy!
Jarod Reddig thank you for saying this
At least there's some hope
Wife is always been a support system in every situation. But if she is a gf of someone she may not continues her relationship further after getting a better one than u
So wife is always trustworthy
It is still hitting me hard... I am not a very social person and when I met my ex it was the best thing that had ever happened to me... I messed things up and we broke up early 2016... It hurts everyday because of the fact I met such a special person who cant be with all because of my insecurities & fears... now I feel like nothing... ah well lets see how the rest of the year goes.
This is kinda similar of what my ex did to me. He destroyed me and I did the best I could. He has looked for me after I left several times (I couldn't spent anymore time with someone who never valued me). Now I can proudly say I got over him and that I never want him back. 😊 Peace and respect to all ✌️
So?
Is it sad that I'm watching this hoping that my ex still loves me because I can't get over him?
Gigi no
Gigi move on lady. Don’t waste your time on nothing.
i never broke up with anyone, because nobody has ever wanted me.
HAHAHAHA MY LIFE STORY LMAO
Kuri the wolf same here... 😞
Kuri the wolf Be brave. Initiate conversation
Oh come on. Someone will like you, want you, and break up with you
Have you waited all your life? If not, who knows the future? The right one will show up at the right time so that you will not waste time searching. 😊
I stop eating and sleeping when I get broken up with
Same...
+Haleigh Watson When I get broken up with, I stop being on my grind from where that certain person lived, if you know what I mean! For instance, if she lived in CA, I'd stop being on my CA shit for a while. Then bounce back with time, but.....
Same but I slept a lot I lost 9 lbs in like 2 weeks..... But I would also work and do jobs to stop thinking bout it.. I ate a little
I lost like 6 lbs, and look amazing.. but I feel like shit.
Ruben Soto Aww I hear that bro!
It's been almost 2 years since she broke up with me ,I've had prettier girls approaching but I can't even begin to picture myself with someone else.I'm still so much in love with her
That was 3 yrs ago. Aren't you glad you moved on?
Uh you did move on..didn't you?
Over ten years and she still shows up in my dreams. It’s funny how society frames everything backwards.
yikes.
why do you all keep saying "win the breakup"?? that's the damn problem...too many people playing too many damn games!! 😡😡😡
This is fucking true. Why is this seen as a competition? I am a pretty competitive person my self, but... hell, If I haven't gone insane after my break up is because my ex was a decent being and we talked about it and discussed it together.
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True. Such childishness
In my experience I never fully recover till I meet a new person.
Yeah same here bro after the brake up I feel like crap than I still think of my ex but when I end up dating someone else I tend to forget about her.
Nah it's not that we don't recover over breakups but it changes us
Case Closed it changes everyone... the key is to not repress your emotions.. thats where men and women differ
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girls get over it because they take his house with them lol..jokes
Jason M nah stereotypes exist for a reason man
lol..surprised this comment hasn't got any hate yet..
Jason M If they got kids, it usually happens so.If they don't, they just say goodbye and leave. Doesn't take a genius to understand that
I don't know how it works in the US but here in Holland the house is always split evenly. So let's suppose you live in a $150K house, if she stays in the house she still owes you 75K. And vice versa if the opposite is the case. So no smiles here... except if she was a housewife. Then its a free 75K...
G_Reg17 stereotypes exist because the media gets the worse of a group of people and disguise it as normal. Lmao