how to raise your self esteem, confidence & standards 👑 | high value traits
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- Опубликовано: 24 апр 2024
- What are the traits of a high value woman / person? Breaking down the qualities of how to raise your standards, believe you are worthy & deserving, and become your ideal self. Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit betterhelp.com/aileen and enjoy a special discount on your first month.
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After reading & replying to some comments, I'm now aware of the negative connotations behind this term ("high value woman") and I apologize for not being aware prior. This is clearly a video about SELF WORTH - all humans are inherently worthy, but not everyone treats themselves that way. This video is meant to help people see & believe in their inherent value. Regarding this term, I had seen many female creators use this term from this positive self worth "queen energy" angle and I hoped to share my take on it.
The sentiment I get, but the terminology shocks me! Humans are not a comodity, we cannot be "high value" or "low value". We are human, and worthy, every single one. The only trait a person needs to a valuable is to be human.
Love yourself the way you are... Love your life the way it is.. Then everything will turn positive..
Absolutely it’s very important to treat yourself and knowing you deserve the best and do the inner work to heal. It’s also important to have unconditional love and forgiveness for others. That also makes you high value.
As somebody who’s probably not your target demographic, I really gain a good bit from your content and have made a lot of changes to my life because of it. 🤙🏼 Keep doing what you’re doing!
I made enemies because of my demand for boundaries and respect. It’s hard but I have to.
It's been 2 years, I am in my healing journey and I can say I am on number 7 on High vibe Journey ❤
Aileen is saying that everyone is high value and has the ability to cultivate high self esteem!🌟 Lavendaires old title should not bother you if you understand her heart and true intentions. Through all of her videos she has advocated how everyone has the ability to cultivate self-love and self-confidence and does not exclude anyone. Some people use the term “high value” to state that your worth comes from the things you have or how your better than others. But Aileen is switching this perspective and showing that everyone has the ability to have high self worth and it comes from the internal. but i loved this shift that you dont need money or status to have worth. She also said it doesnt mean your beneath anyone or better then anyone.
We know your intentions are ALWAYS full of compassion & meant to uplift every single person watching. Your mission of inclusivity is evident throughout your many years producing content. Your body of work speaks for you in a brilliant way. Thanks for all you do 🌸🌞
I’m not sure if you are aware, but high value women and a similar term high value men are phrases used in communities (incel, tradwife, manosphere etc) that actually use them to leverage subservience out of women…I can’t really explain the nuisance in a short comment, but basically the definition of high value used for women in these contexts are more along the lines of shaming “low value” women who have high body counts or are not skinny or not preforming womanhood correctly. I can see if I can find some resources for learning about this, but I can’t think of anything off the top of my head.
I'm on a 7 or maybe at 8 because I sometimes do cry and feel like I'm not doing enough but when I look back I see that it's okay sometimes you are not always able to do everything and you don't have to be guilty about it!❤
I am still recovering, rediscovering who I was, am and who I can possibly be. So I would say from 1-10, I am at the 7. I have made progress. Some may say why bother you are 68 yrs old, you life is nearly done. But it’s not done and whilst so many friends have passed on, I am still here with work to do. So thank you for your words and sharing ideas of growth and possibilities! Thank you Aileen!
I've got tears while listening to ur words, i knew i do not treat myself like high value person, i hope i became more kind to myself nd respect myself more, thank u Aileen♥️
Be proud and confident in this video Aileen, because it’s an important message and I learned a lot. Often people are so quick to do good things for others, but not for themselves. I like the concept of considering a ‘high value’ and ‘low value’ object and how you treat them. I really needed this video right now. ❤
My journey about being a high-value person started when i realized i could be anything i wanted to ==> I started believing in myself ==> i started seeing myself as worthy of good things ==> i naturally fell into this mindset of "high-value" and behaved accordingly ♥ I believe it all starts with acting as the person you wanna be and everything else falls into place
I can see you thriving in this era of your life 😘🤗 it's inspiring 💜💜💜lavi love here.
On a scale of 1 to 10, I am on 7 and I know that I am in the process of realising my own self-worth and feeling like a high value woman from the core of my heart. Thank you so much for your wonderful videos. They are truly helpful, insightful and inspiring ❤️❤️
My high value vomes from four traits: courtesy to others, co-operation with others, respect for self and others, and responsibility for my own actions. What goes around comes around.
Amazing video as always Aileen! God bless you ❤❤❤
Exactly what needed to hear today, thank you ❤