How to Talk to Yourself to Improve Your Life 😎 Change Your Conversations, Change Your Life

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  • Опубликовано: 7 июн 2024
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    The past is just a story we keep telling ourselves. Your thoughts are the building blocks of your future. In today’s video, learn how to put your faith in your current self and your future self rather than your past self by changing your energetic possibilities and the way to talk to yourself.
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    (04:20) Energetic Possibilities
    (07:50) Becoming Aware Of Your Conversations
    (12:30) Change Your Story & The Way You Talk To Yourself
    IN THIS VIDEO WE DISCUSS:
    Changing the way you look at yourself
    Energetic possibilities
    Subconsciously absorbing others opinions of yourself
    Self-fulfilling prophecy
    Becoming aware of your conversations with yourself and others
    Isolating your negative thoughts
    Rewiring your neural pathways
    Changing the stories you tell yourself
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Комментарии • 378

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels 2 года назад +290

    When we don't live in the present, we live the majority of our lives in something that only exists in our own heads 😱

  • @gavinspeaks
    @gavinspeaks 2 года назад +329

    if you’re reading this, it’s coming. be patient. the universe has your back. don’t worry about it.
    ~ Much love from a Law Of Attraction RUclipsr💜

    • @LeeorAlexandra
      @LeeorAlexandra  2 года назад +43

      Gavin do you have a program that posts these comments for you or is it really you lolol

    • @Emily28110
      @Emily28110 2 года назад +8

      @@LeeorAlexandra this killed me

    • @bibariemech4288
      @bibariemech4288 2 года назад +4

      @@LeeorAlexandra Good one 🤣

    • @LeeorAlexandra
      @LeeorAlexandra  2 года назад +26

      No guys I’m really wondering bc I KNOW Gavin and he never responds to me when I answer these inspirational messages hahahaha

    • @Emily28110
      @Emily28110 2 года назад +2

      @@LeeorAlexandra but it’s still FUNNY

  • @ichorpotion
    @ichorpotion 2 года назад +197

    My favorite affirmation from you is: what I seek is seeking me 🥰

    • @raeannetaliwah
      @raeannetaliwah 2 года назад +1

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @gulrozsingh8967
      @gulrozsingh8967 2 года назад +2

      Words by great sufi philosopher- Rumi ❤️

  • @1queenruler
    @1queenruler 2 года назад +40

    I think it’s more attractive to see people speak positively about themselves, fully loving yourself is the most complimenting feature of an individual in my opinion.

  • @toshoyamcewan
    @toshoyamcewan 2 года назад +104

    Never thought of “I need to..” and “ I should” as another form of “I can’t”
    Definitely an eye opener for me . Thank you 💜

    • @ParisLavet
      @ParisLavet 2 года назад +1

      No seriously!!!!

    • @heatherdoolan9249
      @heatherdoolan9249 2 года назад +9

      Whenever I think "I need to" or "I should," they are usually about activities that I feel obligated to do. But now, I rewrite these thoughts with "I want to" and I found that it really helped motivate me to do them! I can't wait to further rewrite these thoughts as Leeor described :)

    • @ParisLavet
      @ParisLavet 2 года назад +1

      @@heatherdoolan9249 I'm gonna try thissss!!!

    • @sweetpeahunnybee
      @sweetpeahunnybee 2 года назад +2

      This!! I used to say that all the time. Also “I’m trying” is something I loved to use as an excuse. But now I am going to do what I’ve been “trying” to do. No more excuses 😊

    • @toshoyamcewan
      @toshoyamcewan 2 года назад +2

      @@sweetpeahunnybee exactly! No more excuses ! We can definitely do what we choose to do

  • @jessywanders8829
    @jessywanders8829 2 года назад +59

    I have been complimenting myself so much lately. That I'm starting to see it and believe it. it feels so good to be positive.

    • @notavailable708
      @notavailable708 2 года назад +1

      What would you do if you are surrounded by people who are negative

    • @queenbronx3153
      @queenbronx3153 2 года назад

      Love that for you, I need to do that

  • @LeeorAlexandra
    @LeeorAlexandra  2 года назад +68

    Happy Monday beloved 🥰❤️

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 2 года назад +1

      Happy Monday! 🌸🤗💖

    • @EricNewman888
      @EricNewman888 2 года назад +1

      Happy, happy Monday, Leeor!! 🙂

    • @paige7891
      @paige7891 2 года назад +1

      Happy Monday Leeor! I hope you have a great day 🥰

    • @trishaanne9890
      @trishaanne9890 2 года назад

      Happy Monday 🥰🥰

    • @andreeailie9053
      @andreeailie9053 2 года назад

      Happy Monday to you too, love !!!

  • @sukanya3411
    @sukanya3411 2 года назад +64

    To all my open-minded friends over here, I want to say that one time , last year, I was speaking to the setting sun and genuinely, a thought came to me that I hadn't thought myself! The sun freakin replied to my question! Aaaa🤯🙆🏽‍♀💖

    • @LeeorAlexandra
      @LeeorAlexandra  2 года назад +22

      That definitely happens!

    • @Annatavfon
      @Annatavfon 2 года назад +9

      @@LeeorAlexandra i feel the universe channeling me messages when i speak to my grandma and this boy that died a month ago who i am deeply in love with. i’ve been so hurt about him recently but it’s really opened my eyes and made me realise so much stuff. it’s absolutely nuts. we are all healing our own wounds, nobody is perfect and we can’t always be our happiest and best self. forgiveness really is the key to happiness

    • @pricutie1747
      @pricutie1747 2 года назад

      😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😜😜

  • @nicolegoose567
    @nicolegoose567 2 года назад +5

    In the beginning I was like “she’s so pretty” and then you say you call yourself cute and pretty in the mirror 🥰✨

  • @gabrielavictoria9068
    @gabrielavictoria9068 2 года назад +44

    Queen we need an updated video on heartbreak, healing, being single and how to glow up! You always have a different approach to these topics and I only trust you!!!

  • @nightclub4cats
    @nightclub4cats 2 года назад +16

    I feel so lucky to live in a body that reflects my beautiful heart and soul from the inside out. I care so deeply for others and live a successful life because I know i make a positive impact in the lives of those around me 💕 and that’s all I’ve ever wanted to do.

    • @nio731
      @nio731 2 года назад +2

      That’s awesome, good for you and the people who meet you! 🌹

  • @jessicatapia9049
    @jessicatapia9049 2 года назад +12

    My sister made me realize that our family is so used to self hate, so since we were kids we talk to ourselves in a very mean way, now that I’m almost 30, I no longer talk to myself in that way, but is still a work in progress because I say to myself that I’m average, but I am more than that, I am a beautiful hardworking woman with a lot of drive and love ✨

  • @aasthakhanna4258
    @aasthakhanna4258 2 года назад +1

    We all are safe, healthy and protected... We are beautiful people ❤️

  • @laylabug39
    @laylabug39 2 года назад +25

    Sometimes it feels like a job, an exhausting cycle of constantly "trying to feel good" when you're already in a spiral...it's easy to fall into a depressive mood and willow in my own negative energy. That is my experience right now and I tend to forget to take a breather. So thanks for reminding me again, Leeor :)

  • @chelseawelch3229
    @chelseawelch3229 2 года назад +5

    Remember to tell yourself, everything is working out best case scenario. I am strong. I am wise. I am patient. I am kind. I anchor in the most optimal timeline here and now. I spread light and love. And so it is✨

  • @Hinakiyama10
    @Hinakiyama10 2 года назад +9

    This is so accurate, I used to manifest negative situations all the time by just thinking about them and then I'd say
    "I knew it". Now it's different, I know the power of my mind and I'm only manifesting good things. Thank you for this video! (:

  • @nevaeh9420
    @nevaeh9420 Год назад +1

    I AM a home for myself within myself ☺️

  • @rachnarathore342
    @rachnarathore342 2 года назад +1

    I am peace and happiness..l am beautiful and loved by all.l love myself

  • @kyleselby5333
    @kyleselby5333 2 года назад +5

    The Universe is always providing for me what I need when I need it! Much Love!!!

  • @LevelUpYourLife
    @LevelUpYourLife 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing this. It is true, when you write down your ideal future and life, and keep repeating it and thinking about it and manifesting it, you WILL see changes in your life. You just have to let go of the blocks
    Blessings to everyone, you are exactly where you need to be 💠🙏💖

  • @MichelleViews1294
    @MichelleViews1294 2 года назад +2

    Yes I'm starting to realize this more and more that words have powers😌

  • @srishtihanda47
    @srishtihanda47 2 года назад +21

    Hey Leeor...this is like the one main thing i learned from you in the past year to be kind to myself even when alone.....this has changed me a lot thank you so much for instilling this idea in my head.... Have a magical day❤

  • @alexalaborete
    @alexalaborete 2 года назад +13

    Thank you so much Leeor! Since coming across your content about a month ago, my whole vibration has completely changed and I feel I’ve regained my soul sovereignty by recognizing all the power within me! Thank you for all your light that you share 🥰

    • @LeeorAlexandra
      @LeeorAlexandra  2 года назад +3

      I am so happy to have you here love!!!

  • @lennymwale411
    @lennymwale411 6 месяцев назад

    Iam worthy ,I can do anything
    Iam a magnet for prosperity and abundance
    Iam enough and deserving of all the good this universe has to offer ❤
    And so it is

  • @amandan4149
    @amandan4149 2 года назад +7

    I can do this, I can do anything, and I thank the Universe for bringing me to this video and your warm, encouraging energy. 💕 Let’s be our highest selves today and everyday!

  • @melaniecoleman4069
    @melaniecoleman4069 2 года назад +2

    In relation to your story about not being able to remember names, I used to tell myself that I was shy and can’t hold a conversation. But now I try and stick to telling myself “I’m outgoing and I can hold conversations easily, it is easy for me to click and connect with people” and it has been working it’s charm!

  • @ariella75
    @ariella75 2 года назад +19

    I was just talking to my friend how I'm so scarred from my past
    Everytime you post the topic and timing is always soo in alignment of what I need at the moment
    Love you so much 💖
    Thank you for everything 💖😊

  • @Aquaaries444
    @Aquaaries444 2 года назад

    Not only are you stunning, the self love you emit is so beautiful. Thank you

  • @maryannsobocan8635
    @maryannsobocan8635 2 года назад

    Love this!! So on point! 🙏🏻❤️

  • @frankiesalazar3515
    @frankiesalazar3515 2 года назад

    You’re always there for us Leeor, thank you!

  • @bouchradjeghader2014
    @bouchradjeghader2014 2 года назад

    Thank you for this 🌹

  • @bibariemech4288
    @bibariemech4288 2 года назад

    Thank You so much Sis Leeor ♥

  • @user-cv1gd1jh5q
    @user-cv1gd1jh5q 2 года назад

    Needed to hear this today. Thank you so much Leeor! 💜

  • @nooranrahman9210
    @nooranrahman9210 2 года назад +1

    Blessings to you Leeor! Thank you for this video! 💕❤💕❤💕🙏✨

  • @selmamulunga335
    @selmamulunga335 2 года назад

    Thank you Leeor🥰

  • @paige7891
    @paige7891 2 года назад

    Thank you Leeor for your videos 🤍🤍 sending so much love to you!!!!

  • @hastiishere
    @hastiishere 2 года назад

    Yay! You uploaded another video I couldn't be more blessed 😍 love yooou

  • @Yourrrr
    @Yourrrr 2 года назад +1

    Need this yesss thank you love 💕 💗

  • @malj.4301
    @malj.4301 2 года назад

    This makes so much sense. Sister, preach! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @krystalandrews2461
    @krystalandrews2461 2 года назад

    Wow, I needed to hear this! Thank you 💖😊

  • @alyshareinosa41
    @alyshareinosa41 2 года назад

    woww thank you so much, this video was needed 💕✨

  • @Divyasree419
    @Divyasree419 2 года назад

    Perfect Timing 💖☺️😇

  • @selenagonzalez3625
    @selenagonzalez3625 2 года назад

    BEAUTIFUL!!! Thank you so much❤️❤️❤️

  • @Carry27
    @Carry27 2 года назад

    You always make me feel better, thank you!

  • @kathleenaurora4176
    @kathleenaurora4176 2 года назад +19

    “The world needs your unique gifts, don’t leave with them still inside you” - Yogi tea wisdom
    THANK YOU for recording this even though you were on your moon, I was wondering if you were okay. 🥺 The efforts you put into getting these messages to us are very much noticed and so very appreciated! 💜
    INCREDIBLE points as always! Watching this over and over again- in combination with reading the book SUPREME Influence: Change Your Life with the Power of the Language You Use by Niurka (highly recommend), and Marisa Peer’s emphasis on the transformative and liberating powers of the “I Am Enough” statement- has allowed for the coalescence of a beautifully empowering picture, this illuminating understanding that we have always been whole, that we have always had the power within us, that the hero is within, and that we are here to create, to change, to transform, and to just BE.
    To hear of all the wonderful ways your life improved when you started to change your narrative is so moving and so touching. Just hearing about your self image with bell’s palsy just makes me want to give that Leeor a hug, it moves me to tears because your beauty and light has ALWAYS shined regardless of that. Looking at yourself from a place of unconditional self-love is such a POWERFUL message and one that I’m grateful to be reminded of constantly by your example. You’re right, focusing on the past keeps us from moving forward, like setting sail with your anchor lowered the whole way through, like a stasis to divine flow. But the past is merely something we learn from, the future, fuel and motivation to keep us going, and the present, our experience and experiment with creation. Thank you for constantly reminding us that there truly is unlimited possibility and creative power in the present moment. And that we should consciously think about what we’re about to create, because with our words we can speak flowers into existence or weeds. That example with the student is so powerful and relevant. We shouldn’t fault someone for not being great at everything. We should allow them the room and opportunity to discover their UNIQUE gifts, as each of us is a unique spark and creative expression of the divine. We are more than our grades, or looks, or anything else that can be measured externally. We are enough and whole as is. We are creators. And these truths and lessons are worth learning time and time again.
    THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DO ✨💜

  • @isarodriguez4627
    @isarodriguez4627 2 года назад

    Omg!!!Phenomenal video 💓 Thank you for this!

  • @Red_Dead43
    @Red_Dead43 2 года назад +1

    I’m thankful for the fact you’re in my life 🙌 thank you! ❤️

  • @garimadabral3127
    @garimadabral3127 2 года назад +2

    I really needed this video❤️. Thnks leeor

  • @plantnation2033
    @plantnation2033 2 года назад +1

    You’re so amazing ❤️🥺!!!!

  • @maitrychheda7528
    @maitrychheda7528 2 года назад

    It’s so good to come across such topics when I really wanted to know about it. Exactly what I needed at this moment!
    Thank you Leeor!!

  • @anisagarcia7687
    @anisagarcia7687 2 года назад +2

    Yes yes yes new upload thank youuuuuuuuuuuuu ahhhh. I'm CALM🥺

  • @l4ne40
    @l4ne40 2 года назад

    girl u are an angel thank u

  • @EricNewman888
    @EricNewman888 2 года назад +2

    Going to watch this very soon. Looks amazing. Great topic. Thank you, Leeor!

  • @Maylinngf
    @Maylinngf 2 года назад

    This video is exactly what I needed to hear, thank you so much Leeor!! ❤️❤️

  • @user-kn6bb4rw7l
    @user-kn6bb4rw7l 2 года назад

    Thank you so much leeor.

  • @michaelavaltosova4252
    @michaelavaltosova4252 2 года назад

    Thank you so so much, dear Leeor!

  • @kimayagupta9066
    @kimayagupta9066 2 года назад

    Thank youu soo much Leeor 💓💓💓

  • @mandydeawellness
    @mandydeawellness 2 года назад

    I absolutely love you and your channel! Thank you Leoor for everything!

  • @sheilarose9278
    @sheilarose9278 2 года назад +1

    Love Leeors videos! So immediately effective and packed with so much value and power. Blessings from one queen to another❤️⭐️👸🏼

  • @ritamaria2197
    @ritamaria2197 2 года назад

    Thankyou Leeor 💐💜

  • @elanakotze4948
    @elanakotze4948 2 года назад

    Love you ! Please don't stop making videos

  • @haileykillgore544
    @haileykillgore544 2 года назад

    Thank you for blessing my Monday with this perfect video🤍 love you so much!

  • @remiel6147
    @remiel6147 2 года назад

    Thank you ♥️♥️

  • @mandyrose1729
    @mandyrose1729 2 года назад

    Thank you so much Leeor, awesome video!! 😁✨🌸🙌🏽

  • @jenna587
    @jenna587 2 года назад

    Leeor! Your videos always lift my spirits! Thank you for existing and spreading your light ☺️

  • @lilyespinal5694
    @lilyespinal5694 Год назад

    Absolutely loved this video !! 💗

  • @helya6042
    @helya6042 2 года назад

    you are such a beautiful being, omg I just want to hug you and say a deep thank you!

  • @shaynalee
    @shaynalee 2 года назад

    Really needed this today 💞💞💞

  • @priyankad8220
    @priyankad8220 2 года назад

    Thanks for existing :) Love you

  • @miliquinteros4119
    @miliquinteros4119 2 года назад

    Thank you Leeor! so much love from Argentina ❤️

  • @liisatiivel5475
    @liisatiivel5475 2 года назад

    Thank you Leeor, you always post on the right time 🙏 bless you gorgeous

  • @moniqueroders323
    @moniqueroders323 2 года назад

    I love you leeor, such an inspiration! 😃❤️

  • @secureambience505
    @secureambience505 2 года назад

    Love these videos, they always put me in a better mindset.💙

  • @shannon150
    @shannon150 2 года назад

    I love your videos. I agree so much that teachers can impact your energy and make you feel less than. ❤️

  • @createthelifeyoudream1636
    @createthelifeyoudream1636 2 года назад

    thank you for this it was awesome definitely needed that

  • @sophilosophie
    @sophilosophie 2 года назад

    Thank you 🥰

  • @martinashipp449
    @martinashipp449 2 года назад

    Game changer!!!! Thank you. Heartbeat

  • @lesleynegrete9419
    @lesleynegrete9419 2 года назад

    Thank you

  • @longlasts
    @longlasts 2 года назад

    Thanks Queen!! LOVE YOU SO MUCH

  • @LeslieBTv
    @LeslieBTv 2 года назад

    I needed hear this. Thank you so much! I love you beautiful!!!!!

  • @livingproof8959
    @livingproof8959 2 года назад

    What a blessing your videos are ❤️

  • @raechelgurung
    @raechelgurung 2 года назад

    you're glowing, my love! you look so radiant. i love you

  • @kyledevane8782
    @kyledevane8782 2 года назад

    Thank you Leeor, I felt this video, and it's exactly what I needed to hear. Now I just need to implement it everyday! Peace to you!

  • @danib9264
    @danib9264 2 года назад

    The video I really needed. Thank you Leeor ! 🌟🙏💛💕 I’m going to change my life with this ..😉🌞💕🌻

  • @anad5238
    @anad5238 2 года назад

    Great video. Thanks 😀

  • @jonathanmcmichael4659
    @jonathanmcmichael4659 2 года назад +1

    been trying this a lot in the last few months and am so grateful to hear your experiences with this! YOU are amazing Leeor thank you for being you!🙌🏼💜

  • @shriya7662
    @shriya7662 Год назад

    Thankyou for this!! Really needed to hear this. Lots and lots of love to you ❤️

  • @ozgebicer5246
    @ozgebicer5246 2 года назад +1

    I love your style 😍

  • @positiveandhealthy2728
    @positiveandhealthy2728 2 года назад

    This was so awesome and uplifting! 💪

  • @Maria-oe8rc
    @Maria-oe8rc 2 года назад

    This is truly empowering. I love this

  • @anastasiacorbine1494
    @anastasiacorbine1494 2 года назад

    Happy Monday lovely, I adore this message. In a group or individual experience it does feel way better to be kind and positively speaking.

  • @cheneyli6165
    @cheneyli6165 2 года назад

    you are right, you are wisdom lady, love your channel!

  • @perlag1998
    @perlag1998 2 года назад +3

    I lovee that you talked about this! I’m always telling myself how i’m terrible with directions & because of that i’d be a terrible driver, i’m now 23 years old & I still don’t have my license but that’s going to change soon 💗 I doubt myself way too much so this message was needed - thank you for bringing this realization🦋

  • @alezzz282
    @alezzz282 2 года назад

    Thank you for this video!! I really needed it 💚💚💚💚

  • @grettam1695
    @grettam1695 2 года назад

    leeor you ARE kind, beautiful, successful, talented and so worthy!!

  • @randomplanet79
    @randomplanet79 2 года назад +1

    Thank u so much ☺️ I'm so grateful for your channel ✨You're helping me change my life for the better! Love you Leeor ❤️

  • @sirinaxiong
    @sirinaxiong 2 года назад

    Thank you for this video. I love all your videos. It has helped me get through life and view life in a different perspective.

  • @alexisrojas8846
    @alexisrojas8846 2 года назад

    Leeor I love you! You are a literal angel and I’m grateful for you everyday 😍

  • @adrianahuitron6809
    @adrianahuitron6809 2 года назад

    This is a beautiful message it truly resonates with me 💕 very empowering message ♥️

  • @Ladybug1440
    @Ladybug1440 2 года назад

    Thanx beauty for your light 🥰♥️