Confidence isn't loud, here's how to find your voice / w Nimi Mehta

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  • Опубликовано: 7 июн 2024
  • Today I am joined by a new friend, and amazing woman - Nimi Mehta!
    Today we chat about the misconceptions about confidence, can it be soft? PLUS how to find your voice to embrace that confidence. She shares her “Layer Voice Theory”, how she took a leap, how she has struggled always being “nice” and utilised that to become assertive + a really beautiful self care practice you can try. There’s so much in this one, I know you’ll love it!
    (00:00) Introduction
    (05:40) From unemployment to forging own path
    (10:46) Career v Entrepreneurial mindset
    (13:21) How do you take a leap in career?
    (16:21) LISTEN TO YOUR BODY!
    (20:45) How to find your voice
    (23:04) Voice Layer Theory
    (30:05) Alcohol on my voice
    (34:00) Being nice v being assertive
    (45:00) Habits for creating space for self
    About our guest:
    Nimi is one of the most exciting media personalities in the UAE. She is the host of #DXBToday a daily live show on Dubai One TV, an entrepreneur by blood, a Mentor & Coach, & has launched a Public Speaking & Communication OnIine Masterclass.
    Connect with Nimi here: / thenimimehta
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Комментарии • 263

  • @Anish-Neupane
    @Anish-Neupane 25 дней назад +740

    I'm here to improve my English skills.

  • @AnjaliSharma-rg9hz
    @AnjaliSharma-rg9hz 10 дней назад +130

    I am sure most of the people come here for learn English ❤❤❤

  • @sreymouysam6079
    @sreymouysam6079 18 дней назад +38

    BEST channel for a new English learner! Particulary, listening skill and midset-changing

  • @EnglishBros
    @EnglishBros 16 дней назад +31

    I've learned a lot from the interview. Thank you very much!
    0:23: 🎙 Discussion with Nimi Mehta, CEO of Speaker by Nimi Mehta, covering her diverse expertise and excitement for a synergistic conversation.
    4:56: 💡 Importance of continuous growth and reframing goals as markers of progress in life.
    9:26: ⚙ Embrace every experience as a stepping stone towards your destined path, even if it seems insignificant at the time.
    14:11: 💪 Choosing between fear of staying stagnant and fear of taking a leap can lead to growth and fulfillment.
    18:57: 🔍 Understanding body language cues in response to stress or new encounters is crucial for self-awareness and control.
    23:38: 🗣 The impact of external influences on diluting one's voice and identity.
    28:25: 🗣 Understanding the evolving nature of one's voice, the impact of external influences, and the importance of critically analyzing one's surroundings.
    32:58: 🔑 Understanding family dynamics impact personal growth and self-awareness.
    37:51: 💬 Importance of balancing kindness and assertiveness in communication for women in professional settings.
    42:25: 💬 Importance of pausing and reflecting before responding in conversations.
    46:54: 💬 Confidence is not about being the loudest in the room; it's about finding your voice and being authentic.

  • @SylviaiTrev
    @SylviaiTrev Месяц назад +25

    Great video. Really needed to hear this today. Keep up the great work Erika! ❤

  • @maria.j.barajasrizo94
    @maria.j.barajasrizo94 3 дня назад

    This was much needed! I really appreciate this interview ❤

  • @ViktoriiaMudragel-jf8ic
    @ViktoriiaMudragel-jf8ic Месяц назад +16

    really love this podcast, absolutely inspiring, thank you for this amazing content, much needed to hear today

    • @thebalancetheorypodcast
      @thebalancetheorypodcast  Месяц назад

      Thank you for listening and I'm glad you found this video helpful, I really enjoyed hosting it 🤍

  • @sommediaco
    @sommediaco 26 дней назад +4

    Thank you so much for putting this out! My favourite from the episode has to be "you can be kind and still be clear and concise with what is it you want"

    • @thebalancetheorypodcast
      @thebalancetheorypodcast  25 дней назад

      You're so welcome! Yes I love that advice to - the scale isn't "mean" or "nice" ! 🥰

  • @stayboredomfree6841
    @stayboredomfree6841 28 дней назад +5

    Deep diving discourse on self awareness. No one talks about inner voice , considering my voice as an external being was really an eye opening bump. If I talk about myself I always struggle to set right attitude between assertive, being nice and people pleasure. It was really different level of talk.

    • @thebalancetheorypodcast
      @thebalancetheorypodcast  27 дней назад

      thank you for sharing your thoughts 💕 it's such an important thing to reflect on :)

  • @ayazmubaraka2316
    @ayazmubaraka2316 Месяц назад +12

    Whatever she said it was so powerful to empower yourself and get most out of your time and capabilities.

  • @Patrizia.Isabella
    @Patrizia.Isabella Месяц назад +13

    Wow, this is so powerful! Every sentence hits close to home, needed this!

    • @Patrizia.Isabella
      @Patrizia.Isabella Месяц назад

      I am in the midst of a leap in leaving my job because every fiber of my strength has been longing for my craft and artistry and to pursue that dream inside. This validated so many thoughts and feelings that I’ve been having and this shed truth to my fears. Thank you 🙏🏼

    • @thebalancetheorypodcast
      @thebalancetheorypodcast  Месяц назад +1

      Right, I loved chatting to Nimi! Glad you enjoyed it too

    • @thebalancetheorypodcast
      @thebalancetheorypodcast  Месяц назад +1

      @@Patrizia.Isabella This makes me so happy - I have to say I am also in a similar spot ... here's to us taking the leap and backing ourselves 🤝

  • @VladimirJeanLouis
    @VladimirJeanLouis Месяц назад +11

    I've learned a lot things about the interview,and it helps me to improving my English too.thank you so much !

  • @pearlsderio
    @pearlsderio 29 дней назад +2

    I cannot express how much spot on this whole video was to my heart! Literally can repeat this everyday👏🏻👏🏻

  • @hasibsarwari2916
    @hasibsarwari2916 Месяц назад +3

    one of the most incredible negotiations as i watched today thank you for sharing this.😊

  • @ezfemi4899
    @ezfemi4899 Месяц назад +7

    Your channel is God sent , please don't ever stop

  • @shrutiagokhale258
    @shrutiagokhale258 8 дней назад +5

    I liked it! they said that "don't try to be nice with everyone". Sometime you have to be straight forward and let other know that what you are expecting for them. Though i have experienced disappointed bcause, of my more then needed kind behaviour towards other.😢 Sometime we have to be mean to be happy.

    • @thebalancetheorypodcast
      @thebalancetheorypodcast  8 дней назад +1

      I loved learning that you can be "assertive" but not mean :)

    • @fardowsaomar1928
      @fardowsaomar1928 5 дней назад +1

      It's not necessary to be mean. It's better to be straight forward as you mention.

  • @beesway
    @beesway Месяц назад +5

    Absolutely loved this beautiful and inspiring podcast 🩷🩷🩷

  • @keithrincon
    @keithrincon Месяц назад +10

    Great topics, excellent discussions thank you so much for sharing. God bless

  • @madurapremathilake986
    @madurapremathilake986 Месяц назад +5

    Super exited to hear this valuable conversation 💯

  • @lyaalia7338
    @lyaalia7338 18 дней назад +19

    "The worst that can happen is they said no. You can't miss something that you never had. But if you keep going something might come out of it"

  • @lilian12972
    @lilian12972 23 дня назад +3

    Thanks for sharing. One of my favourite podcasts. ❤

  • @shijieli4336
    @shijieli4336 Месяц назад +9

    Assertive confidence

  • @brendalomeli2559
    @brendalomeli2559 Месяц назад +10

    That was beautiful. Thank you!

  • @jans5109
    @jans5109 9 дней назад +1

    13:21 is exactly what I needed, thank you for this.

  • @Claudiaaa10
    @Claudiaaa10 Месяц назад +6

    Such a good and interesting podcast. Thank you 🙏❤

  • @KenaMarta
    @KenaMarta 18 дней назад +3

    What a Amazing conversation 👌 ❤thank you

  • @eliashouwayek7811
    @eliashouwayek7811 15 дней назад +2

    I am new to this channel and it was very valuable for me to hear this interview and the host is very knowledgeable,stunning and you just enjoy listening to her voice. ❤

    • @thebalancetheorypodcast
      @thebalancetheorypodcast  15 дней назад

      I’m so glad you enjoyed the chat 🥰 thanks for the kind words 🙏🙏🙏

  • @user-il8ue5xd6k
    @user-il8ue5xd6k Месяц назад +5

    that was beautiful, thank you 💖💖💖

  • @Aasif637
    @Aasif637 Месяц назад +4

    The way both you did conversation it was very fantastic

  • @zhouzhou1003
    @zhouzhou1003 24 дня назад +1

    Thank you for your sharing and inspiring insights ❤

  • @UmarExpert-xh8xo
    @UmarExpert-xh8xo Месяц назад +6

    i am new english learner your accent is very good make video more , from pakistan , thank you so much , very nice,

  • @ankitaparyani4777
    @ankitaparyani4777 Месяц назад +4

    Loved every minute of this video!
    I’ve acquired so much wisdom!!
    An album and excel sheet of my wins is now part of my routine
    “The more raw you can get with yourself, the bigger the bounce back”
    So real and authentic, thank you!
    🫶🏻

    • @thebalancetheorypodcast
      @thebalancetheorypodcast  Месяц назад

      Love it!!! The excel wins list has been amazing for me to stop and appreciate the process, hope you find the same in your practice! 💘 Thanks for sharing your thoughts xx

  • @0xAngelo
    @0xAngelo Месяц назад +7

    Another great episode

  • @kadijhastrong8787
    @kadijhastrong8787 Месяц назад +48

    Appreciate this so much i was vey much like nemmy i was mute as a child i didnt speek really and even when i did speak people voices wil always over power my own voice , when she said you constantly have to find your voice she wasnt lying, this have the most humblest and insightful video i have ever watched thank you ,

    • @thebalancetheorypodcast
      @thebalancetheorypodcast  Месяц назад +4

      You're so welcome! I'm glad it resonated. I too really loved how she shared how our voice gets diluted, and so as adults, empowers us how to find it again xx

    • @user-ls1bf7en2h
      @user-ls1bf7en2h Месяц назад

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  • @Soodhawow
    @Soodhawow 7 дней назад

    Wow unbelievable keep it up ketiba

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    @MariaSolomatinaProtanzi-dj3ss Месяц назад +3

    Thank you very much for each word 🙏

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    @hassnalbaghe7826 28 дней назад +1

    Thank you that was beautiful

  • @wedmussa6693
    @wedmussa6693 Месяц назад +4

    Beautiful episode

  • @alenapavlova254
    @alenapavlova254 Месяц назад +6

    Wow, Super powerful, thank you for making it happen, incredibly deep and inspiring💔

  • @aoe3ggs903
    @aoe3ggs903 Месяц назад +3

    I really enjoyed and benefited
    Thanks

  • @manishyadav8124
    @manishyadav8124 20 часов назад

    Nice conversation 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

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    @ekibamargret4886 10 дней назад +1

    This was so good

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    @user-bk2nu7wl1v 11 дней назад

    All journey from a tap feet. As long as don't keep up and keep going away! ❤

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    @mkanil65 Месяц назад +2

    Awesome loved it

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    @frezewdbirassa8635 Месяц назад +5

    I joined your podcast recently. Its rich and empowering. Thank you.

  • @Kevin-ze1zc
    @Kevin-ze1zc 20 дней назад +2

    Thanks for sharing 🎉

  • @Wayne-qz1jv
    @Wayne-qz1jv 19 дней назад +4

    How I wish I could hear and understood all the conversations! The only problem for me is how to listen and understand all English speakers

    • @thebalancetheorypodcast
      @thebalancetheorypodcast  19 дней назад +3

      You could try to slow down the video (0.5 speed) and also add the captions in your language :)

  • @quratulain1054
    @quratulain1054 8 дней назад +1

    Very informative podcast

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    @bhiharibabukarma7323 Месяц назад +4

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    @EsraaMohamed-hv6oj 11 дней назад +1

    more then perfect , i like their feminine Energy

  • @erikaaguilar5231
    @erikaaguilar5231 Месяц назад +2

    This was really nice! Thank you ❤

  • @khaliqyarelevatorcompany2006
    @khaliqyarelevatorcompany2006 3 дня назад

    Very nice program for improve English skills

  • @luztorreshernandez6712
    @luztorreshernandez6712 2 дня назад

    I'm here to improve my english and my confidence too haha

  • @Jessica-ge7ef
    @Jessica-ge7ef 19 дней назад

    Operating from fear is struggling with many people

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    @h.1977 8 дней назад +1

    Yhh I'm here to get formal words

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    @IrfanShaikhVlogs-cy5wp 22 дня назад +1

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    @talishyamoomo8747 18 дней назад +1

    🥰 Inspiring

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    @sabirsalwha6866 Месяц назад +1

    synergize

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    @Chalo_Taste_Karen Месяц назад +2

    Amazing

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    @zahrazahro4821 28 дней назад

    Synergize❤

  • @marwasalam3889
    @marwasalam3889 День назад

    Iam here for the first time for improving my language

  • @jinurajan1105
    @jinurajan1105 Месяц назад +2

    How can I will overcome under pressure

  • @bhiharibabukarma7323
    @bhiharibabukarma7323 Месяц назад +3

    Very nice

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    @Tin-Trump 13 дней назад +1

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  • @Murat-pt3sc
    @Murat-pt3sc Месяц назад +1

    I like this video because I get start to understend English)

  • @MaxMax-yi4lk
    @MaxMax-yi4lk Месяц назад +2

    Wow so cool 😎

  • @sabirsalwha6866
    @sabirsalwha6866 Месяц назад

    Nice speaker

  • @victorrozer9960
    @victorrozer9960 Месяц назад +1

    very good

  • @shahrukhdaud7989
    @shahrukhdaud7989 21 день назад +1

    Great

  • @FarkhodovParviz
    @FarkhodovParviz Месяц назад +1

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  • @annamed1697
    @annamed1697 Месяц назад +1

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  • @Herlinamkt
    @Herlinamkt 9 дней назад +1

    I love her british accent

  • @CalvinDamass
    @CalvinDamass 7 дней назад

    good

  • @mokol613
    @mokol613 6 дней назад

    48:26 What word did she say before "it's not"? Was it Russian "to est" ?

  • @MohammadSahabUddinSahab
    @MohammadSahabUddinSahab 8 дней назад +1

    I'm new here for learn english.

  • @studytime8583
    @studytime8583 Месяц назад +1

    Nice

  • @christmnguyen8465
    @christmnguyen8465 11 дней назад +1

    Honestly, if i turn on Sub i can understand the conversation, but if i turn it off, i just have 50 percent, someone pls let me know some measures to improve my listening skill, i am very weak with it really. Please

  • @mecikarfaten2816
    @mecikarfaten2816 11 дней назад

    I'am here to improve my English skills.

  • @mostafael-ahwel190
    @mostafael-ahwel190 Месяц назад +1

    Cool

  • @bapisarkar5385
    @bapisarkar5385 21 день назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @ruang_belajar_86
    @ruang_belajar_86 13 дней назад

    Okay, great, we come from Indonesia to learn here

  • @KooKhan-dt4bn
    @KooKhan-dt4bn 26 дней назад

  • @kkkwang4309
    @kkkwang4309 Месяц назад +1

    🥰

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    @user-gm6pe4yd3i 13 дней назад +1

    ❤❤❤😊😊😊

  • @MuxlisaShodmonova-tg2ql
    @MuxlisaShodmonova-tg2ql 11 дней назад +1

    I would like improve my English skills

  • @sabirsalwha6866
    @sabirsalwha6866 Месяц назад

    What doesn't mean. synergize

  • @sumrayasmin5501
    @sumrayasmin5501 22 дня назад +1

    I usually ignore my gut feeling and regret later😢

    • @thebalancetheorypodcast
      @thebalancetheorypodcast  21 день назад +1

      When I do, I feel the same 🙏 learning to trust it has been amazing for me!

  • @CH_name258
    @CH_name258 5 дней назад

    16:30

  • @BishalBhandari-so7jf
    @BishalBhandari-so7jf 24 дня назад

    Can i learn to english plz

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  • @RhillEnglish
    @RhillEnglish 5 дней назад

    🎯 Key points for quick navigation:-
    00:00 *🌟 Introduction and guest background*
    - Introduction of guest Nimi Mehta, discussing her multifaceted career in media and public speaking.
    - Background discussion on Nimi's career trajectory, highlighting her roles as a TV and radio presenter, MC, and public speaking mentor.
    - Description of initial impressions and expectations from the conversation, hinting at a synergistic and easy discussion.
    -
    01:48 *🚀 Nimi’s breakthrough and challenges*
    - Nimi discusses her breakthrough as an MTV presenter and the unconventional way she secured the job.
    - Early career challenges, including the temporary nature of her dream job at MTV and subsequent unemployment.
    - Reflections on the impermanence of career highs and the importance of evolving dreams and goals.
    -
    03:12 *📉 The impact of career setbacks*
    - Nimi recounts the non-renewal of her contract and the lessons learned from the temporary success at MTV.
    - The realization that career goals are not final destinations but checkpoints in a longer journey.
    - Emphasis on the importance of resilience and adaptation in the face of professional setbacks.
    -
    04:33 *🌱 Growth and career reflection*
    - Detailed discussion on the emotional and professional growth stemming from early career experiences.
    - Encouragement to enjoy the process and learn from various career phases, regardless of their outcome.
    - Strategies for handling career transitions and setbacks, stressing the importance of persistence and self-reflection.
    -
    06:08 *🎯 Strategies for career re-entry and persistence*
    - Nimi shares her strategic approach to re-entering the media industry by staying connected to influential networks.
    - Insight into the monotonous yet strategic job roles taken to stay relevant in the industry.
    - The importance of persistence and never losing hope despite facing numerous rejections and challenges.
    -
    08:11 *💡 Persistence and seizing opportunities*
    - Anecdote about persistence leading to opportunities, with a focus on the significance of not giving up on career aspirations.
    - Discussion on the benefits of exploring different roles within the media industry to truly identify one’s passion.
    - Highlighting the importance of determination in pursuing career goals and the positive outcomes of relentless pursuit.
    -
    09:50 *🌟 Transition to a broader career and lessons learned*
    - Nimi describes her transition from specific media roles to a more entrepreneurial and varied media career.
    - Reflections on the lessons learned during the career transition, including dealing with uncertainty and the fear of change.
    - Advice on choosing discomfort and fear that leads to growth rather than complacency.
    19:38 *🌟 Trusting your gut instinct*
    - The importance of listening to your body's signals in social situations to assess compatibility with new people.
    - The challenge of doubting oneself when the body signals a mismatch in vibes, leading to potentially detrimental relationships.
    20:47 *🎤 Finding and defining your voice*
    - Exploring the concept of "finding your voice" in personal and professional contexts.
    - Understanding your voice not just as a physical attribute but as a representation of your identity and influence on others.
    22:38 *🛠️ Legacy and self-reflection*
    - Transitioning from career-focused goals to considering one's legacy and broader impact.
    - Reflecting on personal growth from a shy individual to a prominent public speaker and how to teach others to find their voice.
    25:14 *🔍 Evaluating and refining your voice*
    - Techniques for isolating and evaluating the influences on one's voice, including social media and personal relationships.
    - The ongoing process of identifying authentic self-expression and the influences that shape our perceptions and decisions.
    39:17 *🗣️ Balancing kindness with assertiveness*
    - Discussion on balancing being kind and being assertive without compromising one's self-respect.
    - The importance of being clear about one's desires to achieve desired outcomes while still maintaining kindness.
    40:13 *🚧 Importance of setting boundaries*
    - Exploration of the necessity of setting personal boundaries and saying no as a form of self-care.
    - Reflection on the effects of people-pleasing, which often means prioritizing others' needs over one's own.
    42:20 *🎭 Response vs. Reaction*
    - The distinction between responding and reacting in personal and professional settings.
    - Emphasizes the value of pausing to respond thoughtfully rather than reacting hastily to maintain self-control and dignity.
    44:13 *🌐 Relationship Management and Authentic Interaction*
    - Focus on the significance of leaving a positive impression in every interaction.
    - Highlights the importance of treating everyone with respect and kindness, regardless of their role or status.
    47:58 *📝 Building and Reflecting on Personal Achievements*
    - The practice of documenting personal achievements as a tool for building confidence and self-awareness.
    - Encourages regular self-reflection and acknowledgment of personal growth through visual or written records.

  • @nanzhili6196
    @nanzhili6196 12 дней назад +1

    💀_focus

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    @soumareousmane5990 13 дней назад +1

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    @CantPickTheNameIwant 5 дней назад

    I love these artificial dolls shows

  • @h498149
    @h498149 Месяц назад +1

    なんでこんなデカいマイク使ってるのでしょうか?

  • @giangTran-do1lj
    @giangTran-do1lj Месяц назад +2

    Love and sub yr channel

  • @FATIHHASSANHASSAN-ul7rd
    @FATIHHASSANHASSAN-ul7rd Месяц назад +1

    🤣🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️👌🫡

  • @davidteache9897
    @davidteache9897 День назад

    just strike the balance. no need to be an angel

  • @ChristopherHarrison-uc6xv
    @ChristopherHarrison-uc6xv Месяц назад

    ⚰️CONFIDENCE ARBY'S HAS THA MEAT'S!!

  • @user-ho9gb8xb3i
    @user-ho9gb8xb3i 27 дней назад

    Pooo...d .....poooo....❤❤❤❤❤