Sir i have question my sideburn on the part of my neck between ear my right side is got more hair and when i try to do manbun the left side of my back hair i can tie it all while the right side still not long enough to tie it all what should i do? Should i cut it? Im so confused what to do.please help me.
It's just the same tribal BS that we see everywhere else. People don't like people who aren't like them. Guys with long hair get hate. Women with short hair get hate. etc. It's all a huge waste of time and energy. Live and let live...
You have no idea, I have had long hair for 35 years, lots of hate and negative comments, losing jobs, not getting jobs because of hair. Yeah, its pretty sad how people act.
I can believe people hate on it it’s normal it’s my everyday life hate is who I am I live off of people hate comments it makes me motivated to prove them wrong
That's funny because there is nothing more masculine and epic than long hair. It owns dude. All the the badass warriors and coolest people throughout history had long hair. Short hair is the usual boring mundane hairstyle. Long hair owns
Short hair is symbolic with control, being under control, such as in the army, a square business job, while long hair is wild, free, the wild free warriors...
Long hair also works as a spiritual antenna, it can transmit and receive energy - that's why the vrill society had their hair to their feet, the longer the better, since it helped in communication with higher dimensional beings. It also boosts intuition. Long hair owns indeed
Love this idea. Great content. If you're looking to for other diverse textured YT's would love to recommend @willonawhim! Great videos for 3c/4a hair type!
@@andyseefrd23 I am looking for that. Thanks for the reference! I'm looking at several 3/4 hair type RUclipsrs to collab with right now. There are some great ones. Juwan Gaines, Kxdsheldy, King Bril, etc.
At the time I'm reading this comment and replying, you should be at about a year if I'm doing my math right. I hope you stuck with it. I'm sure you look epic now.
@Prashant M hey man im indian too, dont know the language but i feel you my guy, keep going on the journey and everyones gonna have their jaw dropped when you reached the final destination of ur hair 👍
I woulda upgraded the man-bun into something more viking looking. Sometimes man-buns just look bad. Then again, I think buns in general look bad (even on women), I feel like its maybe a more practical way to get your hair out of the way, but in my opinion when you want to care about how others see you there are a lot better ways to style long hair. Its usually how the long hair is displayed that impacts peoples opinions.
My girlfriend has a little sister that constantly calls me a girl cause of my long hair. I know it's a child so I always correct her. But this really tells something about the gender stereotypes that we pass on onto our children.
I saw something similar with a girl who always shaved her head. Some people would always think she's a guy just for her shaved head even though she wore feminine type clothes and makeup. She said how she would correct people but they'd still insist on calling her with masculine pronouns. Some people are pretty weird like that, I can't tell if they're being petty or if like you said they associate these stereotypes with gender.
Once a little girl in the street started making fun of my hair and calling me "señora" and "maricón" (which translate to "ma'am" and "fag", respectively), and the other girls who where with her (who where around my age) didn't care to stop her but instead laughed at it.
sad to see someone this young already become indoctrinated into society's gender conformity, she never really had the chance to explore her own identity and she's already shaming a grown man for being "a girl," ignorance and stereotypical behavior is taught at an early age it seems
my boyfriend is treated the same way by his family and strangers. men always approach him thinking hes gay just because of his hair and it's so sad. i respect your patience lmao
that's funny, cause I've never seen a gay with long hair they usually try to look hypermasculine for some reason (lots of muscle, visible chest hair etc)
I have long hair and it has happened multible times that men have approached me thinking I was gay and tried hitting on me. I just take that as a huge compliment
@@FishingForLife28 You absolutely should take that as a compliment, because gay men have very high standards for, and are harsh critics of, the male appearance.
I'm a girl with short hair and I've received some cruel comments about it so I kind of understand the "go outside of any gender norm and you're seen as doing it wrong". People have called my hair an "ugly rat's nest" and some have told me that no guy wants to date a girl with short hair, even though I wear dresses and heels and am generally girly/feminine. Although there is one thing on your side that you can use against them, history. One thing to tell them in response to their comments is that men used to have long hair until the Industrial revolution when bosses made workers cut their hair so it didn't get caught in the machinery. But many men up through even the early 19th century had long hair. If these trolls would have called the founding fathers "women with beards" or told them that they look like girls, that would have been the last thing they said as those were effectively a challenge to a duel back then.
For what it's worth . I find women with short hair extremely sexy and have always been very attracted to them . Just do you , sod the jealous conformists out there .
Girls: guys will never understand how uncomfortable is walking on the street and being cat-called by a creepy man behind you. Long haired guy: hold my brush
I was hanging out with two of my buddies, traditional kinda dudes, in walks this other guy with beautiful long hair, they start commenting to each other what a hottie he is without even looking at his face, it takes them a moment to realize it was a dude and not some hot chick. The thing with a lot of men, especially cat callers, they don't even need to be attracted to a girl to behave this way, it is merely the presence of so-called "feminine features" that triggers that sort of behavior out of them, made me realize all those other times they sexualized a girl on instinct, it was less because they were attracted and more because they wanted to show the other guys how manly they are by sexualizing women from a 0.1 second glance.
Even when I've shaved my head, people started to shit talk me for looking too agressive or psychotic. Or made jokes for being a buddhist monk ( which was more a positive feedback ) there are positive and negative feedback so it does not really matter if you like your long hair. now people tend to say rocker and stuff or metalist lul
Yeah dude. I was growing my hair out from all sides and I was receiveing too many comments on it and just shaved it to a 0. Everybody called me a psychopath, when i went into stores people thought I was going to rob them or something. Then I got people that told me to grow out my hair, etc. Point of the story: Wear whatever the fuck you want. You are going to get comments regardless, life is too short to be bothered.
I'm 70 years old. I've grown my hair long several times throughout my life. I started growing it long again at the start of the COVID quarantine. I've had my share of grief when I've had long hair. In the early 70's it was from employers. Over the years the attitude towards men with long hair has changed. In the old days, women readily accepted guys with long hair. In fact they often really preferred it. This was especially true for young women. It was the guys that would give me grief. Insults like accusing me of looking like a girl, etc. But now, it seems to have reversed. Women are the ones who are the most critical and most women will flat out refuse to date a man my age with long hair. On the very rare occasion that a man is openly critical, I assume it's out of jealousy. I suspect most hater guys that are my age are dreaming of a time when they actually had hair to grow.
Bro this video is so wholesome.... I also have long hair and I experience the same hate/insults..... but my love for having long hair gets me through. Having long hair is NOT for the faint of heart.
I’m 19 and trying to grow long hair for the first time and I am pretty lucky thanks to my gf and mom supporting me a lot and giving me advices (my gf is studying to become an hairdresser). I’m not giving up and keep growing💪🏻
The one that I will never understand is "long hair is gay". I've never met a gay person with long hair... I can't even think of a gay person with long hair. Most gay people have well groomed short hair (in my experience). Most long haired guys are either hippies, rockers or some kind of warrior in fantasy media.
Ever see Jesus pics with a bald head? I heard although G. Washington was an original member of the Wig Party if I remember his hair was real. Not like his teeth. Soooo J.C. was gay?
People will judge you in anyway brother...Just smile, keep moving and be yourself.... I m growing my hair since last 6 months and my frens and family tells me to cut it down but I aint gonna cut it until I reach my hair goal..... Keep motivating....Love from Nepal
First experience going to work with braided hair this morning :) Who cares about people staring... be confident and they'll see you being confident no matter how long or how your hair is styled.
So when someone asks me " why's your hair so long like a girl, are you gay?" I just reply "yeah" and they shut up... Probably because they don't want to turn out as a homophobic person?🤔
The Longhairs were so hilarious hahahah. Thanks for this dude. It really helps me to continue growing my hair out despite the haters. I'm on my 8th month now btw. Keep doing the good work
OMG I always had this collab in my head . I always was like I wish Thomas and Travis make a video together. and it finally happened . Do more of these please
Rule 1: Do not live in the eye of others ! Who cares what anybody thinks ? life is too short . Are you hurting anyone ? Embrace who you are and always walk around with a smile . F+ck the haters.
When I started growing my hair I thought it was gonna look like Thomas’ hair, it ended up looking like Greg’s. 😁 I love it and my hairstylists ALWAYS compliment it.
Long hair rocks! I started growing my hair out in 2012 after my mother passed away. My hair was always short and my mother always thought I should grow it longer a bit. I kept it at shoulder length. I had to be daring & told myself to grow it little longer & longer. At first, it was hard to go with it because my clients were surprised by my different hairstyle. I often would make up an excuse & carry on. I did lose one client over that which I thought was silly. Now, I'm letting it grow little longer. I still have a lot to learn how to take care of it, but I love the look of long hair, like medieval warriors. I was inspired from one of those paintings where a woman was falling in love with a knight who had a long hair. Now, with pandemic, it's becoming a popular choice. I'm glad to see people opening their mind to longer hair. I really like Greg Berzinsky's hair at shoulder length. It really looks good. I should get back into weight lifting & buff up again & be a model. Ha Thanks for creating this video. Ignore those haters. If everyone had the same hairstyle, the world would be a boring place. Ha Two Thumbs Up!
As a guy with waist-length hair, I would have to value someone's opinion before it would affect me eitherway... And I don't. The only power anyone has over you is that which you give them. People can only treat you as bad, or good as you allow them to. You can't change the way people think, you can only change how you let it affect you. Peace out
@alonsoquirosgranados7568 it depends on what you mean by mistreating me. It's generally just the looks of disgust by the old, cotton tops. I ignore those. But if it escalates to where I'm verbally insulted, then that takes it to another level. I don't tolerate insults, and I won't be laid a hand on.
@@georgesmith9515 i understand you perfectly man I am sorry you have to deal with this stupidness. I also obtain the two bad looks and insults. I ignore them all. What do you do when some jerk insults you? Do you reply back? What do they do after your confrontation and what kind of insults do they say? They are closed minded
@alonsoquirosgranados7568 I've never had anyone verbally insult me, it's just the looks of disgust. Mostly from the old cotton tops. I just ignore them. If I were verbally insulted, I would put them in check with an appropriate response. And I'd never allow anyone to put hands on me. But fortunately it's never come to that.
@@georgesmith9515 well I am so happy no one has has ever tell you anything bad to you for your hair cause it's ilogical. I guess your culture is way far better and mind open than mine but I am glad your mind is not perturbated by bullies. Keep rocking your meane buddy.
Great video! I imagine men with long hair suffered far more backlash in the 1950's than now. These days there are many well-known male actors and other famous personalities sporting long hair, which has the effect of making long hair more acceptable in society.
Bruh off topic but I was thinking about this channel while I was in the shower and I was like "damn. Trav does nothing but uplift and compliment people. His whole channel is devoted to bringing out the best in people and making them feel better about themselves. And he does it with only the topic of hair. Who does that?? What a boss." #showerthoughts
1) love The Longhairs and what they stand for 2) didn’t know you were a fellow Austinite 💪 3) My hairstyle compliments and suits me better when it’s long vs short. Sucks that ppl can’t be on board with it always but like you said, gotta just move on.
The Conversation with your girlfriend (?) killed mw lmao 😂 but yeah seriously idgaf anymore what anyone says about my hair. I even found out, that the guys who hated on me, started growing their hair themselves... I guess that pretty much explains haters. Keep going guys its worth it 😁
Great video. I'm from North Africa, we have a pretty conservative culture. When I decided to grow out my hair, my family waged a holy war against me. Every time they see me they roll their eyes and say negative comments about my hair. When I walk in the street, sometimes I feel like an extraterrestrial. I've cut my hair many times just to please my family, but I don't give a shit anymore. I've growing my hair for two years now and it reached my shoulders. I'll keep growing it until it reaches my chest.
Im on the awkward stage after an undercut and my sister and coworkers always tell me to cut my hair short again. I told them that for each time the tell me to cut it im gonna grow it for 1 month more... by now ive lost count xD
Take it from an older man. There's always haters. I've had everything from shaved head to hair to my waist and everything in between. The only opinion that matters about my current grooming is my own. As soon as someone voices an opinion about my hair or beard I automatically go deaf.
I was bulled something rotten, for when i grew my hair at school, like the band Oasis, this was back in 1999. Changed schools, due to it. They didn't care at all, each and everyone of them said, Its your hair, do what you like, We just going to call you mullet from now on. So i was known for that till i finished school. The lads said to me just before we finish school. We are going to shave your hair off! I said come and get me haha. Nearly 20 years later i am still waiting haha! But after i left school, i did grow a pony tail just to prove a point. Some of the lads who did see me afterwards said i looked like a hardcore rocker! A couple of the lads even followed suit with long hair. A few lasses at work said they would love to straighten my hair, but never happened. So to me if you want grow your hair lads, then fuckin do it, fuck what other people say! I never looked back, and i am toying with the idea of growing the pony tail again. Even though a lot of people say i looked a lot better with short hair. But now i am more healthy looking, so i could just rock it, but i may grow the side burns though, as people used to think i was a lass from the back, ( i am a short arse)
Man, I have always wished to see all you guys in the same video and now it happened. I have subed to all of these guys and they are freakin awesome. Thank you so much for this video
True ! I mean my hair can be considered short, but some people still have a problem with it 🤨 I mean if what you are doing makes you happy and doesn't do you harm, enjoy it ! Why do you have to put down others ? If you don't have to say something nice to someone, just go away !
Good tips and insight. I am 60 years old, have had long hair for the last 20 years, and I understand what you are talking about. I have come to the conclusion that people who are rude about my hair are telling me about themselves. They DO project themselves onto us. I also find that sometimes what people see in us that they think of as effeminate or feminine like are just things that people with long hair do. "You flip your hair around like a girl." I respond: no, I flip my hair around like someone with long hair, and you have only seen female people do that, but if you had long hair you would do that, too. Good video.
Excellent video, really needed to watch this video, as since I've unfortunately cut all my hair and beard off! Everyone in my home town has been saying, hair looks so much better short, didn't like your long hair! Thing is tho i am going to grow my hair back, with my natural salt and pepper colour! As I'm 43 i even questioned my own mind! If you know what I mean, but I'm going for it again, especially after your video 👍
I LOVE men with long hair, and if I was able to grow my hair out like any of you lovely gentlemen, I'd ROCK it!!! :D Thank you, as always, for your delightful videos/content- your hair is GORGEOUS!!! :D Thank you also for being a friend and ally this Pride season and all the time!!! :D
Long hair rocks and it takes people with courage character and patience to grow and maintain long hair we're strong like Sansom I'll strengthen out character
Tbh as a lightskin african american have reived some hate for my dreads. But I like them it's spiritual for me. October will be 3 years but have of course beenn critized for not being bLack enough. I love the way I look and enjoy being a long hair guy.
Trav my hair also long hair I experience the same hate/ insults but I am ignore that people. your videos are awesome you are inspiration for who growing long hair
having long hair has actually helped me with this so much. I used to be so conscious about what people think but having long hair taught me how not to give a fuck and I actually get compliments often :D
I think Greg's advice is spot on. I don't think most people care about the length of someone's hair but rather the way its displayed is maybe against their preference. Which can still be valuable to listen to because maybe you'll self reflect on the way you style your hair and could potentially find more ways to style that look better even to yourself. In some cases it could be everything else about your style(clothing, facial hair, etc..) that just doesnt fit and upon reflection afterrreceiving a comment might steer you into a better direction that even the people that were being negative end up having a 180 degree opinion change. While I do think style and what looks good is mostly subjective, I do think there are ways to reach a more or mostly accepted style based on what patterns humans tend to like. Artists will do the same things, studying shapes and composition, keeping in mind that humans brains are wired in such a way that certain rules tend to be objectively more pleasing to most (if not all) people. And I am sure you could translate that shape language and composition principles to anything regarding visual style. Even clothes for example.
You know in your previous video with greg i heard you said you grew your hair out for like 2 years?? Why dont you make a video on phases you had to go through while growing out you hair? It'd be very helpful.
Hate is such a waste of energy especially when its something really superficial like hair or appearance. Not everybody looks good with short hair and not everyone looks good with long hair. If you can pull it off go for it short or long.
Love this video Trav, all the main people I've been following throughout the growing out process. Literally, ye guys have been my best friends throughout lockdown. 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
Love the message behind this video.. unfortunately in my area people won’t watch this because of the language spoken, but at least I got a boost of confidence out of this to keep me growing my hair no matter what they say .. cheers
Most people who critique and made fun of my long hair do have a trend of having physically less-masculine traits than me (physique, height, shoulder broadness). We got this my fellow Manes
I’m gonna be honest, when I first started seeing your videos I wondered if you were playing for the other team. This is not a hater comment at all - I love what you’re saying about stop trying to please everyone around you. That is so true in just about everything in life.
I don't know you Trav but from what I can tell, you appear to be humble and wise. Yes, I am growing my hair long. The most difficult part of long hair in my personal opinion is if you live an active lifestyle like myself and its hot because I sweat a lot and my hair will be soaked. This is fine if you dont like feeling fresh and clean but I do. Regardless, I love long hair because its comfortable and the versatility of styles are refreshing. I had long hair as a young teenager so its reminiscent of some fond times as well. Hair is soft so its like a cloud caressing your face, when its nice and tidy that is lol. Its as well reflective of my black sheep identity to be against the grain. Its also a rewarding experience because you get out what you put in when it comes to care, so as you nurture your hair with organic products and proper maintenance it is much healthier and people who know nice hair will immediately notice this and admire it regardless of their ideal image of a "Man". You only live once folks, if you are afraid to grow your hair because of what other people think then maybe thats the perfect way to approach your unhealthy mentality of caring too much about what people think about you. Like a spiritual journey of "Growth" :p. GROW ON!
I love your channel so so much. I love all your video's, i am 18 and have been watching your channel for some time now. Screw the haters. Men with long hair look so awesome. You motivate me to grow mine out. You do so much incredible work!
Y’all had me rolling at 10:00 love the longhairs. Can’t wait to see fellow long haired metalheads when I’m uhh… not fully shaved bald and 2 years go by…
I used to have long hair about 6 inches my whole family started calling me gay and I even recieved life threatening messages which were anti LGBT even though I'm straight I finally cut my hair because of my school
Well, his hair is cool and he is not a gay. But for your second statement about “what’s wrong of being gay ?”. Well, that’s wrong, cause humans are started with adam and eve. Not adam and john. Case closed
The military controlled the length of my hair for 22.5 years. My parents and grand parents controlled it for 18 years. Now at 54 I am flipping society the bird and going all in on growing my hair long. I started growing my hair out in August of this year and while it’s not crazy long it’s definitely longer than what people have seen me with and since I am going through a horrible growth phase I sport ball caps and beanies. Lately my boss and coworkers have been hating on others with long hair. Comments like “maybe he needs a barrette” or the man bun comments. This coming from someone whom is bald. Little do they know a hippie is emerging under their noses. 😂
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Still waiting on my tofu...
HOW DID IT TAKE YOU TO GROW YOUR HAIR LIKE THAT
Thank you, but I still must to cut my hair becuse in my country men must have short hair
Sir i have question my sideburn on the part of my neck between ear my right side is got more hair and when i try to do manbun the left side of my back hair i can tie it all while the right side still not long enough to tie it all what should i do? Should i cut it? Im so confused what to do.please help me.
Bro, you deserve 1 million subs.
Personally,I'll take pork. But I'm growing my hair because I want to and I don't care who likes it or not. Keep it growing bud
So, that means they hate Thor and Loki, Aquaman, Geralt and Winter Soldier? probably because they are freaking awesome!
Thor looks awesome, not like guys today that look like douchebag hipsters
They also hate Jesus 😔🤟
Yeah because these guys are so handsome they can deflect the ugliness of long hair
Not to forget Jon Snow
@@noctus362 lit🔥😂
It's literally just hair, I can't believe there are people hating on a guy just because he has long hair...
It's just the same tribal BS that we see everywhere else. People don't like people who aren't like them.
Guys with long hair get hate. Women with short hair get hate. etc.
It's all a huge waste of time and energy. Live and let live...
it's like a quote from easy rider : people are getting dangerous towards people who are free and showing them they are not
You have no idea, I have had long hair for 35 years, lots of hate and negative comments, losing jobs, not getting jobs because of hair. Yeah, its pretty sad how people act.
@@ChrisGarby They're just jealous.
I can believe people hate on it it’s normal it’s my everyday life hate is who I am I live off of people hate comments it makes me motivated to prove them wrong
That's funny because there is nothing more masculine and epic than long hair. It owns dude. All the the badass warriors and coolest people throughout history had long hair. Short hair is the usual boring mundane hairstyle. Long hair owns
Personally I also am a big fan of metal music and as you know all these guy have long hair. Grow your hair bud . it's awesome
Short hair is symbolic with control, being under control, such as in the army, a square business job, while long hair is wild, free, the wild free warriors...
Long hair also works as a spiritual antenna, it can transmit and receive energy - that's why the vrill society had their hair to their feet, the longer the better, since it helped in communication with higher dimensional beings. It also boosts intuition. Long hair owns indeed
@@snowywhite2160 what crack are you smoking
@@kissen1x638 There is so much more to life than you can possibly imagine :)
4:29 - Thomas In Action
5:59 - Greg Berzinsky
7:24 - Tim Dessaint
8:45 - The Longhairs
Love this
Love this idea. Great content. If you're looking to for other diverse textured YT's would love to recommend @willonawhim! Great videos for 3c/4a hair type!
@@andyseefrd23 I am looking for that. Thanks for the reference! I'm looking at several 3/4 hair type RUclipsrs to collab with right now. There are some great ones. Juwan Gaines, Kxdsheldy, King Bril, etc.
@@TravWhiteStyle Actually all that I've heard of or follow! Really enjoy Kxdsheldy as well!
Thx for the timestamps and the amazing video
I cut my man bun because of hate speech but now I'm growing my hair again and not listening to any of the haters. Going into my 5th month 💪
At the time I'm reading this comment and replying, you should be at about a year if I'm doing my math right. I hope you stuck with it. I'm sure you look epic now.
@Prashant M hey man im indian too, dont know the language but i feel you my guy, keep going on the journey and everyones gonna have their jaw dropped when you reached the final destination of ur hair 👍
I woulda upgraded the man-bun into something more viking looking. Sometimes man-buns just look bad. Then again, I think buns in general look bad (even on women), I feel like its maybe a more practical way to get your hair out of the way, but in my opinion when you want to care about how others see you there are a lot better ways to style long hair. Its usually how the long hair is displayed that impacts peoples opinions.
भाई हिन्दुस्तान से हो विकास
छोटे शहरो में ऐसा होता है, हमारे इधर भी कभी कभार नोक झोक होती है मेरी
My girlfriend has a little sister that constantly calls me a girl cause of my long hair. I know it's a child so I always correct her. But this really tells something about the gender stereotypes that we pass on onto our children.
I saw something similar with a girl who always shaved her head. Some people would always think she's a guy just for her shaved head even though she wore feminine type clothes and makeup. She said how she would correct people but they'd still insist on calling her with masculine pronouns. Some people are pretty weird like that, I can't tell if they're being petty or if like you said they associate these stereotypes with gender.
Once a little girl in the street started making fun of my hair and calling me "señora" and "maricón" (which translate to "ma'am" and "fag", respectively), and the other girls who where with her (who where around my age) didn't care to stop her but instead laughed at it.
@@seamusforever7081 sad...
sad to see someone this young already become indoctrinated into society's gender conformity, she never really had the chance to explore her own identity and she's already shaming a grown man for being "a girl," ignorance and stereotypical behavior is taught at an early age it seems
@@seamusforever7081ohh 😢
my boyfriend is treated the same way by his family and strangers. men always approach him thinking hes gay just because of his hair and it's so sad. i respect your patience lmao
that's funny, cause I've never seen a gay with long hair
they usually try to look hypermasculine for some reason (lots of muscle, visible chest hair etc)
I have long hair and it has happened multible times that men have approached me thinking I was gay and tried hitting on me. I just take that as a huge compliment
@@FishingForLife28 lol gj
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@@FishingForLife28 You absolutely should take that as a compliment, because gay men have very high standards for, and are harsh critics of, the male appearance.
I'm a girl with short hair and I've received some cruel comments about it so I kind of understand the "go outside of any gender norm and you're seen as doing it wrong". People have called my hair an "ugly rat's nest" and some have told me that no guy wants to date a girl with short hair, even though I wear dresses and heels and am generally girly/feminine. Although there is one thing on your side that you can use against them, history. One thing to tell them in response to their comments is that men used to have long hair until the Industrial revolution when bosses made workers cut their hair so it didn't get caught in the machinery. But many men up through even the early 19th century had long hair. If these trolls would have called the founding fathers "women with beards" or told them that they look like girls, that would have been the last thing they said as those were effectively a challenge to a duel back then.
Imagine hating on people for having their hairstyle choice. Probably just peeps who don't have a great personality.
@@faseslap3806 or great hair, they just jealous
Honestly I think short hair looks really good on most girls I see with that style personally
For what it's worth . I find women with short hair extremely sexy and have always been very attracted to them . Just do you , sod the jealous conformists out there .
Thank you all so much for the sweet comments!
Some dude road raged on me in traffic the other day and yelled "Cut you damn hair!"
I died of laughter
Girls: guys will never understand how uncomfortable is walking on the street and being cat-called by a creepy man behind you.
Long haired guy: hold my brush
I was hanging out with two of my buddies, traditional kinda dudes, in walks this other guy with beautiful long hair, they start commenting to each other what a hottie he is without even looking at his face, it takes them a moment to realize it was a dude and not some hot chick. The thing with a lot of men, especially cat callers, they don't even need to be attracted to a girl to behave this way, it is merely the presence of so-called "feminine features" that triggers that sort of behavior out of them, made me realize all those other times they sexualized a girl on instinct, it was less because they were attracted and more because they wanted to show the other guys how manly they are by sexualizing women from a 0.1 second glance.
Yeah 😂😂
That's a patriarchy and misogyny right there.
Exactly!
Even when I've shaved my head, people started to shit talk me for looking too agressive or psychotic. Or made jokes for being a buddhist monk ( which was more a positive feedback )
there are positive and negative feedback so it does not really matter if you like your long hair. now people tend to say rocker and stuff or metalist lul
Yeah dude. I was growing my hair out from all sides and I was receiveing too many comments on it and just shaved it to a 0. Everybody called me a psychopath, when i went into stores people thought I was going to rob them or something. Then I got people that told me to grow out my hair, etc.
Point of the story: Wear whatever the fuck you want. You are going to get comments regardless, life is too short to be bothered.
You just DON'T pull off the shaved head look.
@@achilloste6265yea true
I'm 70 years old. I've grown my hair long several times throughout my life. I started growing it long again at the start of the COVID quarantine. I've had my share of grief when I've had long hair. In the early 70's it was from employers. Over the years the attitude towards men with long hair has changed. In the old days, women readily accepted guys with long hair. In fact they often really preferred it. This was especially true for young women. It was the guys that would give me grief. Insults like accusing me of looking like a girl, etc. But now, it seems to have reversed. Women are the ones who are the most critical and most women will flat out refuse to date a man my age with long hair. On the very rare occasion that a man is openly critical, I assume it's out of jealousy. I suspect most hater guys that are my age are dreaming of a time when they actually had hair to grow.
You're so pretty 💪🏼
Bro this video is so wholesome.... I also have long hair and I experience the same hate/insults..... but my love for having long hair gets me through.
Having long hair is NOT for the faint of heart.
I’m 19 and trying to grow long hair for the first time and I am pretty lucky thanks to my gf and mom supporting me a lot and giving me advices (my gf is studying to become an hairdresser). I’m not giving up and keep growing💪🏻
Bro good luck man are you gonna style it like Giorno's hair when it gets long enough? or are you going for more Abbachio style?
Super gay bro
plseee give an update man
Really strange that people would go out of their way to be stupid
They do it all the time...
Most men had long hair back in the days. Usually when someone insults my hair its a guy who's clearly jealous.
The one that I will never understand is "long hair is gay".
I've never met a gay person with long hair... I can't even think of a gay person with long hair. Most gay people have well groomed short hair (in my experience). Most long haired guys are either hippies, rockers or some kind of warrior in fantasy media.
Ever see Jesus pics with a bald head? I heard although G. Washington was an original member of the Wig Party if I remember his hair was real. Not like his teeth. Soooo J.C. was gay?
Freddie Mercury
@@aydennotaiden7639 He was bisexual.
I didn't write that. This I did NOT post
@@aydennotaiden7639 If you Google image search "freddie mercury", >90% of the images will be his iconic short cut.
Someone insulted my hair once. I strangled them. With my hair.
>.>
lol
i stab them
tangled ❌ ̶s̶t̶r̶a̶n̶g̶l̶e̶d ✅
People will judge you in anyway brother...Just smile, keep moving and be yourself.... I m growing my hair since last 6 months and my frens and family tells me to cut it down but I aint gonna cut it until I reach my hair goal..... Keep motivating....Love from Nepal
First experience going to work with braided hair this morning :) Who cares about people staring... be confident and they'll see you being confident no matter how long or how your hair is styled.
Marvel: Avengers Endgame is the biggest crossover event in history...
Trav White: Hold my hair😏
Trav White: Hold my hair tie..
Most underrated comment so far😂😂🔥
So when someone asks me " why's your hair so long like a girl, are you gay?" I just reply "yeah" and they shut up... Probably because they don't want to turn out as a homophobic person?🤔
kiss them
@@williamkelly5689 classic move
I think you should grow your hair out as long as possible.
@@animalkingdom2871 "Rapunzel let down your hair!"
@@ASmartNameForMe 🤣 YES!
That intro HAHA! Great message Trav. Thanks for having us!
Thx for bringing the humor to the video!
The Longhairs were so hilarious hahahah. Thanks for this dude. It really helps me to continue growing my hair out despite the haters. I'm on my 8th month now btw. Keep doing the good work
People always say my hair is beautiful. But they never say that I’m beautiful. 😢
We love your work.
Trav....
Loads of love from india 🇮🇳❤️
OMG I always had this collab in my head . I always was like I wish Thomas and Travis make a video together. and it finally happened . Do more of these please
It's like the Avengers assembled for long hairs! Long Hairs....... Assemble!!!!!!! Dun...dun dun dun dun DUN DUN DUN!!!!!!!!!
More like bun bun bun bun bun bun
HAHA!
Omg lol😂😂😂
I call cap. I got dibs on cap
This man wrote his own theme music
Rule 1: Do not live in the eye of others ! Who cares what anybody thinks ? life is too short . Are you hurting anyone ? Embrace who you are and always walk around with a smile .
F+ck the haters.
When I started growing my hair I thought it was gonna look like Thomas’ hair, it ended up looking like Greg’s. 😁
I love it and my hairstylists ALWAYS compliment it.
Long hair rocks! I started growing my hair out in 2012 after my mother passed away. My hair was always short and my mother always thought I should grow it longer a bit. I kept it at shoulder length. I had to be daring & told myself to grow it little longer & longer. At first, it was hard to go with it because my clients were surprised by my different hairstyle. I often would make up an excuse & carry on. I did lose one client over that which I thought was silly.
Now, I'm letting it grow little longer. I still have a lot to learn how to take care of it, but I love the look of long hair, like medieval warriors. I was inspired from one of those paintings where a woman was falling in love with a knight who had a long hair.
Now, with pandemic, it's becoming a popular choice. I'm glad to see people opening their mind to longer hair.
I really like Greg Berzinsky's hair at shoulder length. It really looks good. I should get back into weight lifting & buff up again & be a model. Ha
Thanks for creating this video. Ignore those haters. If everyone had the same hairstyle, the world would be a boring place. Ha Two Thumbs Up!
As a guy with waist-length hair, I would have to value someone's opinion before it would affect me eitherway... And I don't. The only power anyone has over you is that which you give them. People can only treat you as bad, or good as you allow them to. You can't change the way people think, you can only change how you let it affect you. Peace out
So what do you do when a crippy stranger mistreat you for no logic reasson at all but not cut your hair? I ignore them all
@alonsoquirosgranados7568 it depends on what you mean by mistreating me. It's generally just the looks of disgust by the old, cotton tops. I ignore those. But if it escalates to where I'm verbally insulted, then that takes it to another level. I don't tolerate insults, and I won't be laid a hand on.
@@georgesmith9515 i understand you perfectly man I am sorry you have to deal with this stupidness. I also obtain the two bad looks and insults. I ignore them all. What do you do when some jerk insults you? Do you reply back? What do they do after your confrontation and what kind of insults do they say? They are closed minded
@alonsoquirosgranados7568 I've never had anyone verbally insult me, it's just the looks of disgust. Mostly from the old cotton tops. I just ignore them. If I were verbally insulted, I would put them in check with an appropriate response. And I'd never allow anyone to put hands on me. But fortunately it's never come to that.
@@georgesmith9515 well I am so happy no one has has ever tell you anything bad to you for your hair cause it's ilogical. I guess your culture is way far better and mind open than mine but I am glad your mind is not perturbated by bullies. Keep rocking your meane buddy.
Great video! I imagine men with long hair suffered far more backlash in the 1950's than now. These days there are many well-known male actors and other famous personalities sporting long hair, which has the effect of making long hair more acceptable in society.
The longhairs segment was hilarious 🤣 loved this whole video and the message you shared!
Bruh off topic but I was thinking about this channel while I was in the shower and I was like "damn. Trav does nothing but uplift and compliment people. His whole channel is devoted to bringing out the best in people and making them feel better about themselves. And he does it with only the topic of hair. Who does that?? What a boss." #showerthoughts
That one guy looks like Santa! I don't know why but this makes me happy!
Wow. The heavy artillery of YT on male hair styles. Great video, very helpful, many thanks.
1) love The Longhairs and what they stand for 2) didn’t know you were a fellow Austinite 💪 3) My hairstyle compliments and suits me better when it’s long vs short. Sucks that ppl can’t be on board with it always but like you said, gotta just move on.
I am married and not paying attention to girls at gym and i have man bun I notice many people thinks I am gay. I feel u bro
The Conversation with your girlfriend (?) killed mw lmao 😂 but yeah seriously idgaf anymore what anyone says about my hair. I even found out, that the guys who hated on me, started growing their hair themselves... I guess that pretty much explains haters. Keep going guys its worth it 😁
Wife*
@@adi-ee8zj 😅
Great video. I'm from North Africa, we have a pretty conservative culture. When I decided to grow out my hair, my family waged a holy war against me. Every time they see me they roll their eyes and say negative comments about my hair. When I walk in the street, sometimes I feel like an extraterrestrial. I've cut my hair many times just to please my family, but I don't give a shit anymore. I've growing my hair for two years now and it reached my shoulders. I'll keep growing it until it reaches my chest.
yo hows it going so far
@@gogyro It's going great.
Prophets have been rocking long hair. Long hair was a sign of virility, strength and beauty. I got long curly hair and I love it.
Im on the awkward stage after an undercut and my sister and coworkers always tell me to cut my hair short again. I told them that for each time the tell me to cut it im gonna grow it for 1 month more... by now ive lost count xD
Take it from an older man. There's always haters. I've had everything from shaved head to hair to my waist and everything in between. The only opinion that matters about my current grooming is my own. As soon as someone voices an opinion about my hair or beard I automatically go deaf.
This video is a pure adrenaline boost for mens who are in a journey of achieving long hairs but having lower confidence.
Old people: staring at people is rude
Also old people: stare at guys with long hair, girls with short hair, people with colored hair
Man your video motivated me I have one year long hairs 🙂
And I don't care about people's opinion now 🙂
Thanks you 🤗
I was bulled something rotten, for when i grew my hair at school, like the band Oasis, this was back in 1999. Changed schools, due to it. They didn't care at all, each and everyone of them said, Its your hair, do what you like, We just going to call you mullet from now on. So i was known for that till i finished school. The lads said to me just before we finish school. We are going to shave your hair off! I said come and get me haha. Nearly 20 years later i am still waiting haha! But after i left school, i did grow a pony tail just to prove a point. Some of the lads who did see me afterwards said i looked like a hardcore rocker! A couple of the lads even followed suit with long hair. A few lasses at work said they would love to straighten my hair, but never happened. So to me if you want grow your hair lads, then fuckin do it, fuck what other people say! I never looked back, and i am toying with the idea of growing the pony tail again. Even though a lot of people say i looked a lot better with short hair. But now i am more healthy looking, so i could just rock it, but i may grow the side burns though, as people used to think i was a lass from the back, ( i am a short arse)
Man, I have always wished to see all you guys in the same video and now it happened. I have subed to all of these guys and they are freakin awesome. Thank you so much for this video
That tear drop on the thumbnail...
💪🏻😆🥲😆🥲😆🥲😆🥲😆🥲👍🏻
True ! I mean my hair can be considered short, but some people still have a problem with it 🤨 I mean if what you are doing makes you happy and doesn't do you harm, enjoy it ! Why do you have to put down others ? If you don't have to say something nice to someone, just go away !
They run their mouths because their gf’s love our hair. Stay strong fellas!!
Good tips and insight. I am 60 years old, have had long hair for the last 20 years, and I understand what you are talking about. I have come to the conclusion that people who are rude about my hair are telling me about themselves. They DO project themselves onto us. I also find that sometimes what people see in us that they think of as effeminate or feminine like are just things that people with long hair do. "You flip your hair around like a girl." I respond: no, I flip my hair around like someone with long hair, and you have only seen female people do that, but if you had long hair you would do that, too. Good video.
I don’t care what others think I’m too old
You should never care what people think, no matter your age
@@lawrence0299 weeeeellll sometimes it's important to, but for trivial things like hair style? Nah
This is the sole reason I'm tryna grow mine out
Trav! Do you realize how valuable are the content and the topics on your channel? They are great!
The chill way u respond I love it man 😂
Best thing is that i'm following each one of 'em
Thanks trav its the best collab of all my fav youtubers🔥
Excellent video, really needed to watch this video, as since I've unfortunately cut all my hair and beard off! Everyone in my home town has been saying, hair looks so much better short, didn't like your long hair! Thing is tho i am going to grow my hair back, with my natural salt and pepper colour! As I'm 43 i even questioned my own mind! If you know what I mean, but I'm going for it again, especially after your video 👍
I LOVE men with long hair, and if I was able to grow my hair out like any of you lovely gentlemen, I'd ROCK it!!! :D Thank you, as always, for your delightful videos/content- your hair is GORGEOUS!!! :D Thank you also for being a friend and ally this Pride season and all the time!!! :D
bro im in 7 months now... youre my inspiration.. keep strong and positive
Your YT Profile Picture is one of the the most Manly i have ever seen Sir. .The hair and the Beard Sync Very GOOD.
Long hair rocks and it takes people with courage character and patience to grow and maintain long hair we're strong like Sansom I'll strengthen out character
Greg low key looking like a Greek god
Trav also looks like a god
I'm preparing for when my hair gets longer
I dont really like the blonde dude's *straight* hair from the longhairs. But I LOVE how he owns that mane!!! AND ITS ONE OF A KIND. GO WILDDDD
The longhairs brought me here and the video quality made me subscribe.
Tbh as a lightskin african american have reived some hate for my dreads. But I like them it's spiritual for me. October will be 3 years but have of course beenn critized for not being bLack enough. I love the way I look and enjoy being a long hair guy.
Wow I actually watch all of these guys videos. Thanks for making this!
All the Gods have long hair.💪
especially the norse gods
9:00 i love that they put along hair man for long hair hater
Trav my hair also long hair I experience the same hate/ insults but I am ignore that people. your videos are awesome you are inspiration for who growing long hair
having long hair has actually helped me with this so much. I used to be so conscious about what people think but having long hair taught me how not to give a fuck and I actually get compliments often :D
I think Greg's advice is spot on. I don't think most people care about the length of someone's hair but rather the way its displayed is maybe against their preference. Which can still be valuable to listen to because maybe you'll self reflect on the way you style your hair and could potentially find more ways to style that look better even to yourself. In some cases it could be everything else about your style(clothing, facial hair, etc..) that just doesnt fit and upon reflection afterrreceiving a comment might steer you into a better direction that even the people that were being negative end up having a 180 degree opinion change.
While I do think style and what looks good is mostly subjective, I do think there are ways to reach a more or mostly accepted style based on what patterns humans tend to like. Artists will do the same things, studying shapes and composition, keeping in mind that humans brains are wired in such a way that certain rules tend to be objectively more pleasing to most (if not all) people. And I am sure you could translate that shape language and composition principles to anything regarding visual style. Even clothes for example.
You know in your previous video with greg i heard you said you grew your hair out for like 2 years??
Why dont you make a video on phases you had to go through while growing out you hair? It'd be very helpful.
Hate is such a waste of energy especially when its something really superficial like hair or appearance. Not everybody looks good with short hair and not everyone looks good with long hair. If you can pull it off go for it short or long.
7:10 he looks like Poseidon! So cool!
Someone already beat me to it... but you really just assembled the Avengers of the long hair community! Love all these guys
I love The Longhairs!! Not familiar with the other guys. Now I have to check them out!!
I love this community and big names joining in ,people are so grounded and so humble here🙏♥️
Love this video Trav, all the main people I've been following throughout the growing out process. Literally, ye guys have been my best friends throughout lockdown. 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
Awesome video guys. Been wearing my hair long for 6 years now. Keep pushing and keep growing
That's some awesome hair for 6 years brother! I'm growing mine out. At 3 inches growth! Not much. Keep on growing bro. 👍🏻
Love the message behind this video.. unfortunately in my area people won’t watch this because of the language spoken, but at least I got a boost of confidence out of this to keep me growing my hair no matter what they say .. cheers
Man you look so good in frames
Most people who critique and made fun of my long hair do have a trend of having physically less-masculine traits than me (physique, height, shoulder broadness).
We got this my fellow Manes
My favorite video yet. Love the message.
I’m gonna be honest, when I first started seeing your videos I wondered if you were playing for the other team. This is not a hater comment at all - I love what you’re saying about stop trying to please everyone around you. That is so true in just about everything in life.
being a Leo in zodiac, i love manes and long hair, and i really intend to grow mine! thanx for this video. you inspire me! more power.
Thanks for this video . Now I have a confidence to make my hair long. To be honest it's my first time and I think having long hair is more cool .
I don't know you Trav but from what I can tell, you appear to be humble and wise. Yes, I am growing my hair long. The most difficult part of long hair in my personal opinion is if you live an active lifestyle like myself and its hot because I sweat a lot and my hair will be soaked. This is fine if you dont like feeling fresh and clean but I do. Regardless, I love long hair because its comfortable and the versatility of styles are refreshing. I had long hair as a young teenager so its reminiscent of some fond times as well. Hair is soft so its like a cloud caressing your face, when its nice and tidy that is lol. Its as well reflective of my black sheep identity to be against the grain. Its also a rewarding experience because you get out what you put in when it comes to care, so as you nurture your hair with organic products and proper maintenance it is much healthier and people who know nice hair will immediately notice this and admire it regardless of their ideal image of a "Man". You only live once folks, if you are afraid to grow your hair because of what other people think then maybe thats the perfect way to approach your unhealthy mentality of caring too much about what people think about you. Like a spiritual journey of "Growth" :p. GROW ON!
I'm growin my hair out again,long hair for life!🤙🏻
I love your channel so so much. I love all your video's, i am 18 and have been watching your channel for some time now. Screw the haters. Men with long hair look so awesome. You motivate me to grow mine out. You do so much incredible work!
Those who can not grow their hair long always hate who have good long hair ✅
It's not how to handle the long hair haters. It's how do you love the long hair lovers!
Y’all had me rolling at 10:00 love the longhairs. Can’t wait to see fellow long haired metalheads when I’m uhh… not fully shaved bald and 2 years go by…
I used to have long hair about 6 inches my whole family started calling me gay and I even recieved life threatening messages which were anti LGBT even though I'm straight I finally cut my hair because of my school
That's sad😢😢
Dang I have 6 inch hair and I think it's short 🥲 my goal is 12 inches
Ok but your hair is literally so beautiful what's there to hate 😭
And what's wrong with being gay why do people have to use that as an insult
Well, his hair is cool and he is not a gay. But for your second statement about “what’s wrong of being gay ?”. Well, that’s wrong, cause humans are started with adam and eve. Not adam and john. Case closed
@@coolestgangsta7164 wow 🤦♂️
The military controlled the length of my hair for 22.5 years. My parents and grand parents controlled it for 18 years. Now at 54 I am flipping society the bird and going all in on growing my hair long. I started growing my hair out in August of this year and while it’s not crazy long it’s definitely longer than what people have seen me with and since I am going through a horrible growth phase I sport ball caps and beanies. Lately my boss and coworkers have been hating on others with long hair. Comments like “maybe he needs a barrette” or the man bun comments. This coming from someone whom is bald. Little do they know a hippie is emerging under their noses. 😂