Fixed. Thats the word. She's not doing it because she wants to, she's doing it because she feels like she HAS to in order to be "better." Could be body dysmorphia. I will always suggest therapy before any plastic surgery for anybody.
@@LittleBiscuit correct . Lil girls dont educate themselves before getting a surgery like this. Feelings and emotions can get you killed...Especially under the knife. Never hear guys complaining about being too big or small... We all gotta work with what we have ... Even at the pleasure/displeasure of others😏
It doesn't really matter what anyone else says or thinks of you, if you don't feel that way, then it's irrelevant. A good plastic surgeon will do a psych eval and take health history into consideration to make sure that you don't have some misguided idea about yourself or the outcome of the surgery. They won't just do it for the money. They do it or don't do it for the sake of the patient's overall well-being. This doctor in the clip seems like all he cares about is getting paid. This girl is young. She's not even an adult yet. Her body is still growing.
@@NaomiAlicia4242564 it's wonderful that the procedure made you feel better about yourself. The person in the video however is literally a child and objectively too young to be getting breast implants. As you could see, it flatlined her heart. Maybe instead of gatekeeping the comment section, be glad that the comment is actually a pretty baseline opinion and not someone making jokes about how that's the way women "should" think. at the end of the day getting cosmetic surgery ( NOT reconstructive surgery) at a young age, before the body is finished developing is the worst choice any child could make and a bad choice to let a child do if your a parent
Doctors, what the lady said is right. Shoes and clothes are completely different. Going through a surgery and intensive process of surgery is different.
Did any of you actually see the episode? Because her decision makes much more sense since she have a pathology... And has already lived 5 years feeling distress because of it... I think she is not as naive as rapresented in this short and you should inform yourself before making assumptions. If you still think that after you know the whole situation now that is a different story and I respect that, but please don't assume things on the internet without knowing the whole story.
I actually felt the complete opposite when I hit puberty. I was an early bloomer and it was difficult because no girl thinks they will have their period in fifth grade and neither did my parents. Needless to say, I was very self conscious and I saw myself as imperfect. I was experiencing such rapid change and my low self esteem did not make it any easier. I distinctly remember wishing I didn’t have breasts at all. That I needed to be “fixed.” Looking back on it all, I always wish I treated myself with more kindness and loved my appearance. Even if there were things I wish I could change then, I wouldn’t change myself now. I found God in my life and He helped me out of a very dark place. I’m only grateful I can look towards the future, content with who I am today.
People just don't prepare kids to face puberty, they simply don't talk/teach children about it. That's why they're not comfortable about themselves because they don't know what's going on and what will happen next. In females it starts earlier than male and they should have known that their breast will grow, then period. Some parents don't even notice that their daughter's breasts are growing.
Actually 5th grade is pretty average. 5th and 6th grade. This is why education is soooo important! In order to love yourself one needs to know we are not weird for normal things. And even if we are different in certain areas like you with hitting puberty earlier that your peers, it's not bad and not unworthy! ❤😊
That's me too, I wished i could have surgery to cut off my breast, thighs, butt. I needed them gone cz people mistakenly always assumed I was older. And the attention I got from males really disturbed me. I really hated my growth
THIS COMMENT!!! ARE YOU MY TWIN??😭 Same here man. I use to stretch out my shirts/jumpers so that it could be baggy enough to show no hints of breasts. And I had my period at 9 and all the kids in my class and another class found out somehow - probably from someone close to me at the time(found out during sex ed). But now? I wish I was kinder to myself. The mindset then and now - 2 completely different people.
Y'all this episode follows a young lady with "tubular breasts" not just itty bitties. She 100% was in her right mind to "fix" them since she is getting reconstructive surgery to repair a congenital disability.
You have to understand that we all develop differently. By 13, my cup size was already an F because of breast hypertrophy. All of our growing pains are different. This young lady may have been surrounded by peers that made fun of her development leading to constant internal comparison too. It usually starts by an outside comment making us think we’re not normal
I'm 20. Everyone tells me this, everyone says me if I don't have bigger breasts, my husband will not love me, my body and end up cheating. I look beautiful, I am not sick, I love the way I am, but everyone keeps telling me about my breast size. They are normal, I am young, my body is growing normally. Why should I still feel embarrassed or depressed about my body? When they are gonna stop their stupid standards? Never. I feel her.
I assure u they are lying. Men don’t all want the same things. And the man who wants u will love u for who u are and what u are not how huge ur breasts are or how big ur ass is. Seen big ass women cheated on. Seen big breasted women cheated on. Seen all manner of women get cheated on and the reasons aren’t the same. A partner will cheat if they want to cheat. Don’t blame urself. Don’t worry and keep been proud of yourself. Don’t do anything u don’t want. You are beautiful just the way you are.
If people in your life are offering unsolicited evaluations of your breasts, then you should ditch them and find better people. It's wildly inappropriate, and it sounds like they're being purposefully cruel. It's not about your appearance. They're just trying to hurt you. You can't satisfy or help those people. You can only leave them behind.
Yeah it's not about expirience and tbh small boobs are hot too, and the most men I dated said that they love all kind of boobs and if you look on views in porn you see that it doesn't matter which breast size. And if your friends love you the way you are your partner will do it too. It doesn't matter how you look when someone loves you. Attractiveness and sexyness is more then looks, it's smelling, it's moving it's the way you dress the way you treat others. People who judge you for one part of you're body have never understood the real beauty of nature and they will never understand. (sry for my bad English, I am not native speaking)
100% has to be done after 18. When i got my reduction i started yhe application process at 17, with the understanding it wouldnt happen until i was an adult. I was 19 when it happened, i dont regret it and im happy but at nearly 27 now i wonder how id have felt about doing it if i waited even a couple more years.
Puberty is a 10 year process, usually concluding within the mid 20s. During that time the female anatomy goes through ups and downs in changes due to hormones. In 3rd grade I was a size B, by 14 a D, and almost double D in college. Then after having my daughter I went from that large size to probably a B and then back to a D when hormone stablized. Ladies, don’t get breast related surgery so early. Mid to late puberty is fundamental to healthy anatomy. Be patient and wait before getting any surgery. Just my 2 cents, most ladies still look closer to little girls at age 17 than they do a mature woman. Let nature get you situated and then take over. Also, breast implants (any implant, really) can make sure sick and more often have to be removed than not. It’s not worth it to look “fixed” to get male attention only to end up with a sick body.
It also depends on family. My family a girl is fully developed by age 14. Been 5'7 since then as well. My girls are 17 (almost 18) and 22. They stopped growing as well at 14.
Thank you soo much for sharing that cause i realised recently that my breasts got bigger and i was wondering if it was the meds but now i'm in peace thanks to you
This is very common especially in the south for girls like 16th birthdays. Its more common for girls to get breast implants under the age of 18 than for people to take puberty blockers
“Unnecessary”? It’s her body, her choice. 🤷♀️ She’s 17 and knows what she wants and to her it’s necessary. You say “child”but in one year she would legally be an adult. You can’t control anyone or their decision.
How much of it is actually her own rational choice when it's stemming from insecurities forced on her from society and probably bullying growing up?@@wolf-kissedrosie69
I'm 27 and I got a bit of breast growth last year out of nowhere. I was scared shitless and had a bunch of tests just in case, everything came back normal and my doctor had to explain to me that sometimes we can develop a teeny tiny bit more even at my age. And yes, most of my life I was bullied for being kinda flat, but honestly, once I understood it's weirder to look compulsively at women's breasts, it went away.
The "every girl your age feels like this." Hits home. As someone with BDD and Gender Dysphoria, I've been told that all my life. Not everybody feels it the way we do.
People are so ungrateful for what they have. The word ‘surgery’ gives me shudders and I can’t believe there are people out there who would have it in perfectly ok bodies just to look a certain way. Big money off of this crap
There is no "one single thing" that makes you beautifull or ugly. Elvira, queen of the darkness, had 70% of her body burned before she became famous. We are slowly becomning Korea, with only 1 standard of beauty, most influencers already look like sisters, all with the same lips, same fillers, same size. I went from a size 2 to a zise 10, back to a size 2 with a six pack, to pregnant twice, to a size 10 again, I felt fat and ugly in all sizes... more often then not its in our heads...
Im concerned for her mental stability. To say you need to be fixed when your already physically healthy. Surgery is too extreme. The brain finishes developing and maturing in the mid-to-late 20s. She deserves to have a full understanding of how life works before being given the burden of making such a life changing destination.
I need one cuz they hurt so bad got them done not even changing my breast size just the way they would hold. Now they don’t hurt and I can be able to enlist
Looks like she’ll have a sue case now that they almost killed her. I’ve seen doctors complain about insurance being too high and quit the profession over it but I also know of all the mistake doctors have made from leaving things in people to cutting off or removing the wrong part or worse killing someone. As thing get more complicated there is more room for error on humans part.
It was her choice to have the surgery and everyone with common sense knows that there are risks involved. She can’t sue. She knew the risks when she wanted it done. 🤷♀️
I would rather have my teen body forever. I hate bras! Much rather be flat! Teen girls are obsessed with looks. Women are obsessed with looks. Rarely do they worry about their fitness. I hold tv advertisements to blame
When I went through puberty in middle school, I still had small boobs. All through high school, too. I changed my diet when I was 19 and I’m a 36 D now. Lol. I’m vegetarian.
It's so sad that our worth is determined by how we look. The hardest part about motherhood for me was how differently people looked at me and how hard I was on myself for what sags and stretch marks and parts you can't control. I've had women tell me I should have aborted because kids ruins your body. We brought a human being into the world and yet all we can think about is what your body "lost". It's so sad and messed up. My daughter the other day said she wants make up so she can be pretty. I always tell her how beautiful she is but at school she sees other girls and doesn't feel like it. I am trying to reassure her that she is beautiful no matter what but I understand those feelings and still struggle with them myself.
I think about breastreduction since age 12 with D cups. I'm 38 now, have 2 kids, i have HH Cups now. I was shopping with my superflat friend. Now she loves her small breasts, because she can wear whatever she want to.
I think the woman in green is right, but for the wrong reasons. When arguing her case to the doctor, she _should_ have pointed out how the patient's words and motivation might point to body dysmorphia or some other mental illness. Instead, she's basing her argument on her opinion that the patient looks perfectly fine. It's like telling someone who has acne that they're overeacting and no one cares that much. It's perfectly fine for someone who has acne to want to treat it rather than live with it. Not to mention her sexist comment at the end. It's very degrading to say that the doctor only wants her to get the surgery because he's a man and inherently toxic. And that, she used that as a bullet point to elevate her argument. Why do they always have to write black women off like this? Woke and always needing to belittle someone in order to get the moral high ground.
I personally think teens should not be allowed get unnecessary surgeries like this. A lot of girls feel this way at her age but surgery is unpredictable and risky. It's not worth it for the sake of beauty . They might regret the surgery later
The doctor because it is their choice to get the surgery done and I assume the parents signed off on it since the show wouldn’t show something like that.
If she wants them to feel better in her own life, it's her choice to do so. So simple. Everyone in the comments acting like other people's choices and happiness and well-being will personally effect their lives for some reason. She wants to feel beautiful in her own skin. It's affecting her mental health. Women have breasts. She wants breasts. Who Cares?!?! You shouldn't. I got a breast reduction, or should I have kept the quadruple D's I was born with because "I'm beautiful the way I am" yall ohmygod
I use to think the saaaame way. I thought my appearance needed to be “fixed” so I could resemble or even look like a white woman. I wanted to look like barbie and Angelina Jolie. Thank God for my parents and for me growing up and realizing I am fine just the way I am.
It’s very different when it comes to good clothing vs a surgery that will change ur body for eternity Brand clothing is an adherence to a social hierarchy where u want to show ur value and worth through items u can easily afford A surgery to add breast implant, however, is never a way to show ur worth and value, at the very least, it shouldn’t be, people can gain confidence from gaining attractive features, but can never solely rely on such features for confidence, or self esteem It’s a dangerous slippery slope if u rely on outside appearance for confidence, because eventually people will want it all, lip fillers, Botox, even removal of false ribs to appear cinched, u name it
Ehhh .. when i was 19yrs old, i had small breast 😂😂 after being pregnate at the age of 24 . My breast grew huge 😂😂😂 and yeah my doctor told me it was because i was pregnant.
Honestly and im not saying this to be weird or anything but in my opinion all breasts are beautiful regardless of size and I think more people should be accepting like for example no one should need implants to be viewed as beautiful just like no man should say there woman needs implants to look more beautiful because the woman is already beautiful the way she is
At 13 I was scared, my breast was growing and i run and jump almost all the time I didn’t want my breast to come in between my activities 🤣🤣🤣. Lucky they are stiff even now that I am 30.
This doctor deserves to be fired. She misbehaved, insulted and endangered many patients. I am against cosmetic surgeries as well but she has no right pushing her belief onto others. Moreover, patients come to doctors with trust and hope and from what I've seen of her in the show she isn't a good fit to be a doctor.
The amount of physical changes a womans body goes through should be considered more carefully. Breasts from your teens, 20s, 30s, 40s and beyond are all different. Hormones and biology are real.
I think the people in the comment section didn't understand the patient because you were never in her shoes, I am flat as a wall and it is the biggest of my insecurity, if I had the money to make me the way I wanted me, i would. It hurts my feelings when the people around me who I truly care about and believe in comments about my very very flat chest🙂. So i understand where she is coming from 😢
A doctors job is to also be honest with their patients and if need be try different methods to try and help. If a patient really doesn’t need something done for an actual medical emergency or reason maybe try other steps before jumping to surgery. Especially with a person so young. People are blaming the doctor because instead of offering her counseling to deal with the way she feels about herself first they are ready to jump into surgery. It’s a money thing and money thing only. They play into the persons insecurities to get them to for sure commit. Could be honest tell her she looks just fine the way she is but if she really wants the surgery she should talk to someone for a few months and to see if she can learn love herself the way she is first before surgery because giving her big boobs won’t fix the insecurity she has in her head. No surgery is an instant fix all. Self hate is something that needs to be talked through. You don’t just slap a disguise on and all a sudden feel fixed. She’ll find other things to be insecure about. Which is why so many people start getting plastic surgery and don’t stop. You aren’t fixing the problem only putting a bandaid on the problem that forces you find other problems you think also needs a bandaid.
Doctor in this show also clearly overlooked some things just to be able to do the surgery to get the money which is why her heart started to fail in the middle of surgery. He did not do his job correctly and it happens like that in real life all the time. 😢
Clothes and surgery is totally different. Anyone argue about it, simply dumb. I dont care who u are, what noble prise u get, how much smarter u r than Einstein. This is dumb
The black woman was wearing expensive clothes that made her look better yet had the nerve to be a hypocrite and tell the girl she was fine the way she was. 🤦♀️ I guarantee the black woman would not be able to go a year without wearing any of her fancy clothes or doing her makeup or doing her hair and nails. Keep dreaming. She was in the wrong. She had no right! The 17-year-old knows what she wants and it’s her body, her choice! Neither you or anyone else has that right to dictate to someone else what they can do with their own body.
@@wolf-kissedrosie69‘there’s a difference between nice clothes and a major surgery’ she literally said it cause shes right. She’s also at a hospital and people normally look nice under their coats. She’s not a hypocrite. She’s a concerned woman who knows the pressures of being a woman. It’s dumb to say she’s being hypocritical when her clothes won’t result in her potential loss of life, but a surgery will.
what is stopping the girl from wearing nice clothes and makeup, Asian women are smaller in shape and size than black women , but when you watch their movies, you admire them. which means nice clothes and makeup can do the job, not surgery that is permanent but with clothes you can change your style without consequences.
Tbh i dont like this particular doctor.. I think she always pushed her believes on other.. Sometimes it too much u think if i decided to chnge something on my own will i think tgey shouldn’t comment on tht.. Its makes me feel beautiful.. As a doc she shouldnt say those things
Ah, yes the hypocrites are coming out. The people against plastic surgery, but have no problem with Botox and lip fillers, or ozempic to lose weight.... Where are all the "my body, my choice" people, oh wait that's only for unaliving fetuses, sorry. But if a woman wants plastic surgery all of the body positivity fascists jump out to tell women your perfect just the way you are... Yep, nothing like having women who have the attributes I always wanted telling me that being flat chest is beautiful, so you'd switch with me right?
I support the young lady. She’s 17 and it’s her body, her choice which means she could do whatever the hell she wants. I am sick of people trying to tell others what they can do with their body. Especially people trying to control a woman’s body! 🤷♀️ I’ve had situations where people try to tell me that my body is fine the way it is or being overweight is not bad. I don’t need to fix the loose skin or the not so firm breast. 🤦♀️ My guy friend doesn’t want me to have surgery to fix my weight loss related issues. My mother and my sister are constantly trying to convince me to wear jeans despite the fact that I have repeatedly told them that’s not my style. People in my family want me to grow my hair long despite the fact that I don’t like having long hair. I’ve had situations where I’ve gone to get my haircut and I’ve been set on a specific haircut and then all the women will try to talk me out of it. Repeat after me! My body, my choice! 🤷♀️ It’s not hard to understand! And it’s sad that there are young women like in the video who are actually struggling to take control of their own lives and their own bodies because everyone else wants to control them. 🤷♀️
There are situations that need surgery .especially deformation of ID your over weight is life threatening . She saw the risk she's small no extra skin .soon they come running for implants to be removed. Parents need to teach their children self confidence and its importance to a avoid what I can call plastic surgery deformation 😅
Sorry people are trying to make you conform to their own personal beauty standards, but this is major surgery. They need to send her to a counsellor before they go ahead.
Except the puberty is not a process in1 or 2 years . After 2 ou 3 years in college , she would put some weight , her hormones would changed . A brain is "adult" in science only at 25 y old .some are matured before by trauma , not biochemichals
There’s a difference between clothes, or weight loss surgery (which can help with health) breast implants are just for confidence or an insecurity. She’s 17. Her body will not be the same in 10 years. You saw her getting the surgery right? Meaning she did what she wanted and there was a risk. It goes beyond ‘she’s a child’ it’s because of silly societal beauty standards and her trying to be confident in herself after realizing she doesn’t look like all the models and people they shove in our faces. My body my choice obviously, but counseling for cosmetic surgery should be a thing.
SHE SAID FIXED- that’s already a red fucking flag
Yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo dude stop the cussing words not needed not necessary and very unnecessary and very rude
Did the girl live how did the episode end please update
Ummm you clearly have inferior thinking
Add a nickel to the swear jar
Fixed. Thats the word. She's not doing it because she wants to, she's doing it because she feels like she HAS to in order to be "better." Could be body dysmorphia. I will always suggest therapy before any plastic surgery for anybody.
@LittleBiscuit I looked like a really tall child with hips. After my implants I finally look like an adult. Shut up about women's bodies 😒
@@LittleBiscuit correct . Lil girls dont educate themselves before getting a surgery like this. Feelings and emotions can get you killed...Especially under the knife. Never hear guys complaining about being too big or small... We all gotta work with what we have ... Even at the pleasure/displeasure of others😏
@@NaomiAlicia4242564 Depends on your opinion on what an "Adult" should look like
It doesn't really matter what anyone else says or thinks of you, if you don't feel that way, then it's irrelevant. A good plastic surgeon will do a psych eval and take health history into consideration to make sure that you don't have some misguided idea about yourself or the outcome of the surgery. They won't just do it for the money. They do it or don't do it for the sake of the patient's overall well-being. This doctor in the clip seems like all he cares about is getting paid. This girl is young. She's not even an adult yet. Her body is still growing.
@@NaomiAlicia4242564 it's wonderful that the procedure made you feel better about yourself. The person in the video however is literally a child and objectively too young to be getting breast implants. As you could see, it flatlined her heart. Maybe instead of gatekeeping the comment section, be glad that the comment is actually a pretty baseline opinion and not someone making jokes about how that's the way women "should" think. at the end of the day getting cosmetic surgery ( NOT reconstructive surgery) at a young age, before the body is finished developing is the worst choice any child could make and a bad choice to let a child do if your a parent
Doctors, what the lady said is right. Shoes and clothes are completely different. Going through a surgery and intensive process of surgery is different.
Not to mention, Implants can cause issues for you and you may end up getting rid of them anyway
And it appears the show depicts death on the operating table. Quite a risk, that surgery.
Exactly.
Couldn't even fathom how he would think that was something to compare with...
Did any of you actually see the episode? Because her decision makes much more sense since she have a pathology... And has already lived 5 years feeling distress because of it...
I think she is not as naive as rapresented in this short and you should inform yourself before making assumptions.
If you still think that after you know the whole situation now that is a different story and I respect that, but please don't assume things on the internet without knowing the whole story.
I actually felt the complete opposite when I hit puberty. I was an early bloomer and it was difficult because no girl thinks they will have their period in fifth grade and neither did my parents. Needless to say, I was very self conscious and I saw myself as imperfect. I was experiencing such rapid change and my low self esteem did not make it any easier. I distinctly remember wishing I didn’t have breasts at all. That I needed to be “fixed.” Looking back on it all, I always wish I treated myself with more kindness and loved my appearance. Even if there were things I wish I could change then, I wouldn’t change myself now. I found God in my life and He helped me out of a very dark place. I’m only grateful I can look towards the future, content with who I am today.
Same
People just don't prepare kids to face puberty, they simply don't talk/teach children about it. That's why they're not comfortable about themselves because they don't know what's going on and what will happen next.
In females it starts earlier than male and they should have known that their breast will grow, then period. Some parents don't even notice that their daughter's breasts are growing.
Actually 5th grade is pretty average. 5th and 6th grade. This is why education is soooo important! In order to love yourself one needs to know we are not weird for normal things. And even if we are different in certain areas like you with hitting puberty earlier that your peers, it's not bad and not unworthy! ❤😊
That's me too, I wished i could have surgery to cut off my breast, thighs, butt. I needed them gone cz people mistakenly always assumed I was older. And the attention I got from males really disturbed me. I really hated my growth
THIS COMMENT!!! ARE YOU MY TWIN??😭 Same here man. I use to stretch out my shirts/jumpers so that it could be baggy enough to show no hints of breasts. And I had my period at 9 and all the kids in my class and another class found out somehow - probably from someone close to me at the time(found out during sex ed). But now? I wish I was kinder to myself. The mindset then and now - 2 completely different people.
Y'all this episode follows a young lady with "tubular breasts" not just itty bitties. She 100% was in her right mind to "fix" them since she is getting reconstructive surgery to repair a congenital disability.
At 13 i was watching Barbie and singing along to her songs and u were thinking about breast already wow 😂😂
You have to understand that we all develop differently. By 13, my cup size was already an F because of breast hypertrophy. All of our growing pains are different. This young lady may have been surrounded by peers that made fun of her development leading to constant internal comparison too. It usually starts by an outside comment making us think we’re not normal
One of the comments said the girls breasts were tubular, so they may have looked different enough to make most people feel a bit self-conscious.
We all think about it at 13. I didn't have an adult body until I was 23. Wait it out kid.
Absolutely ,even at 25 my breasts are still growing.
😂 Am 23 and i cant relate to what you mean by adult body
Same here
@@tutie510like dyggggg😂
Or get therapy. Body dysmorphia isn't just gonna go away on its own.
I'm 20. Everyone tells me this, everyone says me if I don't have bigger breasts, my husband will not love me, my body and end up cheating. I look beautiful, I am not sick, I love the way I am, but everyone keeps telling me about my breast size. They are normal, I am young, my body is growing normally. Why should I still feel embarrassed or depressed about my body? When they are gonna stop their stupid standards? Never. I feel her.
You are beautiful how you are. Stay that way
@@ReneePoka. I hear different men like different things. Some prefer smaller breasts. Some men prefer curvy women, some prefer slim.
I assure u they are lying. Men don’t all want the same things. And the man who wants u will love u for who u are and what u are not how huge ur breasts are or how big ur ass is. Seen big ass women cheated on. Seen big breasted women cheated on. Seen all manner of women get cheated on and the reasons aren’t the same. A partner will cheat if they want to cheat. Don’t blame urself. Don’t worry and keep been proud of yourself.
Don’t do anything u don’t want. You are beautiful just the way you are.
If people in your life are offering unsolicited evaluations of your breasts, then you should ditch them and find better people. It's wildly inappropriate, and it sounds like they're being purposefully cruel. It's not about your appearance. They're just trying to hurt you. You can't satisfy or help those people. You can only leave them behind.
Yeah it's not about expirience and tbh small boobs are hot too, and the most men I dated said that they love all kind of boobs and if you look on views in porn you see that it doesn't matter which breast size. And if your friends love you the way you are your partner will do it too. It doesn't matter how you look when someone loves you. Attractiveness and sexyness is more then looks, it's smelling, it's moving it's the way you dress the way you treat others. People who judge you for one part of you're body have never understood the real beauty of nature and they will never understand. (sry for my bad English, I am not native speaking)
100% has to be done after 18. When i got my reduction i started yhe application process at 17, with the understanding it wouldnt happen until i was an adult. I was 19 when it happened, i dont regret it and im happy but at nearly 27 now i wonder how id have felt about doing it if i waited even a couple more years.
Puberty is a 10 year process, usually concluding within the mid 20s. During that time the female anatomy goes through ups and downs in changes due to hormones. In 3rd grade I was a size B, by 14 a D, and almost double D in college. Then after having my daughter I went from that large size to probably a B and then back to a D when hormone stablized.
Ladies, don’t get breast related surgery so early. Mid to late puberty is fundamental to healthy anatomy. Be patient and wait before getting any surgery. Just my 2 cents, most ladies still look closer to little girls at age 17 than they do a mature woman. Let nature get you situated and then take over.
Also, breast implants (any implant, really) can make sure sick and more often have to be removed than not. It’s not worth it to look “fixed” to get male attention only to end up with a sick body.
Thank you
I feel so good with my booband I love them so much that I'm tempted to squeeze them sometimes))) I was smaller that an A but I'm a B now
It also depends on family. My family a girl is fully developed by age 14. Been 5'7 since then as well. My girls are 17 (almost 18) and 22. They stopped growing as well at 14.
I got implants at 25... I was FIXED when I got them because I looked like a child
@@NaomiAlicia4242564 you did it as an adult well past late stage puberty. Which is much more ideal than doing it as teenager.
Thank you soo much for sharing that cause i realised recently that my breasts got bigger and i was wondering if it was the meds but now i'm in peace thanks to you
Who authorized a child’s unnecessary surgery???
Would have to be her parent unless she was legally emancipated.
This is very common especially in the south for girls like 16th birthdays. Its more common for girls to get breast implants under the age of 18 than for people to take puberty blockers
“Unnecessary”? It’s her body, her choice. 🤷♀️ She’s 17 and knows what she wants and to her it’s necessary. You say “child”but in one year she would legally be an adult.
You can’t control anyone or their decision.
How much of it is actually her own rational choice when it's stemming from insecurities forced on her from society and probably bullying growing up?@@wolf-kissedrosie69
@wolf-kissedrosie69 this is sounding a bit - and a 50 year old is her husband, and that's ok... ijs
I'm 27 and I got a bit of breast growth last year out of nowhere. I was scared shitless and had a bunch of tests just in case, everything came back normal and my doctor had to explain to me that sometimes we can develop a teeny tiny bit more even at my age.
And yes, most of my life I was bullied for being kinda flat, but honestly, once I understood it's weirder to look compulsively at women's breasts, it went away.
LMAO THE SUBTITLES "Why do you want Breast and Plants?" 😭😭😭💀 i guess no one can have both
This young lady said fixed like she is broken she’s going to regret this decision..
The "every girl your age feels like this." Hits home. As someone with BDD and Gender Dysphoria, I've been told that all my life. Not everybody feels it the way we do.
People are so ungrateful for what they have. The word ‘surgery’ gives me shudders and I can’t believe there are people out there who would have it in perfectly ok bodies just to look a certain way. Big money off of this crap
There is no "one single thing" that makes you beautifull or ugly. Elvira, queen of the darkness, had 70% of her body burned before she became famous. We are slowly becomning Korea, with only 1 standard of beauty, most influencers already look like sisters, all with the same lips, same fillers, same size.
I went from a size 2 to a zise 10, back to a size 2 with a six pack, to pregnant twice, to a size 10 again, I felt fat and ugly in all sizes... more often then not its in our heads...
I support the lady in green
Im concerned for her mental stability. To say you need to be fixed when your already physically healthy. Surgery is too extreme. The brain finishes developing and maturing in the mid-to-late 20s. She deserves to have a full understanding of how life works before being given the burden of making such a life changing destination.
As a teen I've always hated that my boobs are growing. I even wanted them to cut off. For that girl looks are everything, for me it was comfort 💁🏼♀️
I need one cuz they hurt so bad got them done not even changing my breast size just the way they would hold. Now they don’t hurt and I can be able to enlist
I had one breast growing and the other not before I met my husband. Now they're both the same big size.
and here I am, trying to find ways to make mine smaller💀
17 and about to start college... dang
Looks like she’ll have a sue case now that they almost killed her. I’ve seen doctors complain about insurance being too high and quit the profession over it but I also know of all the mistake doctors have made from leaving things in people to cutting off or removing the wrong part or worse killing someone. As thing get more complicated there is more room for error on humans part.
It was her choice to have the surgery and everyone with common sense knows that there are risks involved. She can’t sue. She knew the risks when she wanted it done. 🤷♀️
This male guy reminds me of Dele in Abishola's movie
Give a breast surgery for a teenager suppose to be a crime.. her body is still growing for two or three years. That doctor should know body anatomy
A 17 year old shouldn’t be permitted to do that in the first place.
I would rather have my teen body forever. I hate bras! Much rather be flat! Teen girls are obsessed with looks. Women are obsessed with looks. Rarely do they worry about their fitness. I hold tv advertisements to blame
When I went through puberty in middle school, I still had small boobs. All through high school, too. I changed my diet when I was 19 and I’m a 36 D now. Lol. I’m vegetarian.
It's so sad that our worth is determined by how we look. The hardest part about motherhood for me was how differently people looked at me and how hard I was on myself for what sags and stretch marks and parts you can't control. I've had women tell me I should have aborted because kids ruins your body. We brought a human being into the world and yet all we can think about is what your body "lost". It's so sad and messed up. My daughter the other day said she wants make up so she can be pretty. I always tell her how beautiful she is but at school she sees other girls and doesn't feel like it. I am trying to reassure her that she is beautiful no matter what but I understand those feelings and still struggle with them myself.
I think about breastreduction since age 12 with D cups. I'm 38 now, have 2 kids, i have HH Cups now.
I was shopping with my superflat friend. Now she loves her small breasts, because she can wear whatever she want to.
My body didnt fully develop until my late teen years 😮 why do we give into social pressure?
I think the woman in green is right, but for the wrong reasons. When arguing her case to the doctor, she _should_ have pointed out how the patient's words and motivation might point to body dysmorphia or some other mental illness.
Instead, she's basing her argument on her opinion that the patient looks perfectly fine. It's like telling someone who has acne that they're overeacting and no one cares that much. It's perfectly fine for someone who has acne to want to treat it rather than live with it. Not to mention her sexist comment at the end. It's very degrading to say that the doctor only wants her to get the surgery because he's a man and inherently toxic. And that, she used that as a bullet point to elevate her argument.
Why do they always have to write black women off like this? Woke and always needing to belittle someone in order to get the moral high ground.
I personally think teens should not be allowed get unnecessary surgeries like this. A lot of girls feel this way at her age but surgery is unpredictable and risky. It's not worth it for the sake of beauty . They might regret the surgery later
The doctor because it is their choice to get the surgery done and I assume the parents signed off on it since the show wouldn’t show something like that.
Failing to make sure the patient is a good candidate could cause complications during or after surgery.
@@FieryJuniperand it did in the episode
Now she’s never going to that college!
What episode of good doctor is this
I'm like this with my hairline
If she wants them to feel better in her own life, it's her choice to do so. So simple. Everyone in the comments acting like other people's choices and happiness and well-being will personally effect their lives for some reason.
She wants to feel beautiful in her own skin. It's affecting her mental health. Women have breasts. She wants breasts.
Who Cares?!?! You shouldn't.
I got a breast reduction, or should I have kept the quadruple D's I was born with because "I'm beautiful the way I am" yall ohmygod
Movie name pls ❤
what Episode # is it
What episode please
Who flatlines getting breast implants?
observe something bad happen yes
I use to think the saaaame way. I thought my appearance needed to be “fixed” so I could resemble or even look like a white woman. I wanted to look like barbie and Angelina Jolie. Thank God for my parents and for me growing up and realizing I am fine just the way I am.
It’s very different when it comes to good clothing vs a surgery that will change ur body for eternity
Brand clothing is an adherence to a social hierarchy where u want to show ur value and worth through items u can easily afford
A surgery to add breast implant, however, is never a way to show ur worth and value, at the very least, it shouldn’t be, people can gain confidence from gaining attractive features, but can never solely rely on such features for confidence, or self esteem
It’s a dangerous slippery slope if u rely on outside appearance for confidence, because eventually people will want it all, lip fillers, Botox, even removal of false ribs to appear cinched, u name it
Why do they shock when a patient is asystolic ?
Who writes these scripts?
Didn't the brain stop developing at 25 and then you suddenly realise you don't want major cosmetic surgeries anymore?
Everyone looked funny at 13, I looked stupid but I didn't even notice anything for gods sakes, why are kids now different
Paragraph guy, i summon thee
Ehhh .. when i was 19yrs old, i had small breast 😂😂 after being pregnate at the age of 24 . My breast grew huge 😂😂😂 and yeah my doctor told me it was because i was pregnant.
Honestly and im not saying this to be weird or anything but in my opinion all breasts are beautiful regardless of size and I think more people should be accepting like for example no one should need implants to be viewed as beautiful just like no man should say there woman needs implants to look more beautiful because the woman is already beautiful the way she is
What happened to my body my choice??
More listening than lecturing? Really doctor huh
Movie name 😢😢😢😢
The good doctor
@ mmhhhh really!?????
That man just said nothing but bullshit clothes and body parties are two different things clothes can always be replaced body parts cannot..
Absoluty not! Not until you're 25!
What happened then??
Did the girl die?
I was wondering that too…
Me too
At 13 I was scared, my breast was growing and i run and jump almost all the time I didn’t want my breast to come in between my activities 🤣🤣🤣. Lucky they are stiff even now that I am 30.
This doctor deserves to be fired. She misbehaved, insulted and endangered many patients.
I am against cosmetic surgeries as well but she has no right pushing her belief onto others. Moreover, patients come to doctors with trust and hope and from what I've seen of her in the show she isn't a good fit to be a doctor.
17? She looks 27
But in reality there isn’t a difference be between nice clothes and a major surgery bc both r ridiculous and both r very unnecessary
The amount of physical changes a womans body goes through should be considered more carefully. Breasts from your teens, 20s, 30s, 40s and beyond are all different. Hormones and biology are real.
So people can easily answer what show is It but not the fucking episode number COME ON LMFAOO
I think the people in the comment section didn't understand the patient because you were never in her shoes, I am flat as a wall and it is the biggest of my insecurity, if I had the money to make me the way I wanted me, i would. It hurts my feelings when the people around me who I truly care about and believe in comments about my very very flat chest🙂. So i understand where she is coming from 😢
Why thinknof people around u .... be confident ..be happy with what you have nad no one will bully u forever ..it will reach a time it will be boring
@@keerthisunil9166 love yourself… there is only one you
Stop blaming the doctors
The patient came with a request and the doctors Just doing their job
A doctors job is to also be honest with their patients and if need be try different methods to try and help. If a patient really doesn’t need something done for an actual medical emergency or reason maybe try other steps before jumping to surgery. Especially with a person so young. People are blaming the doctor because instead of offering her counseling to deal with the way she feels about herself first they are ready to jump into surgery. It’s a money thing and money thing only. They play into the persons insecurities to get them to for sure commit. Could be honest tell her she looks just fine the way she is but if she really wants the surgery she should talk to someone for a few months and to see if she can learn love herself the way she is first before surgery because giving her big boobs won’t fix the insecurity she has in her head. No surgery is an instant fix all. Self hate is something that needs to be talked through. You don’t just slap a disguise on and all a sudden feel fixed. She’ll find other things to be insecure about. Which is why so many people start getting plastic surgery and don’t stop. You aren’t fixing the problem only putting a bandaid on the problem that forces you find other problems you think also needs a bandaid.
Doctor in this show also clearly overlooked some things just to be able to do the surgery to get the money which is why her heart started to fail in the middle of surgery. He did not do his job correctly and it happens like that in real life all the time. 😢
So no spolier yet ,thats oky Ill wait .😊just tag me when u come
Is this even legal if she’s a minor?
Clothes and surgery is totally different. Anyone argue about it, simply dumb. I dont care who u are, what noble prise u get, how much smarter u r than Einstein. This is dumb
Welp since they listen to the little girl and not the lady who clearly knows whats she talking about and trying to change her mind smh
The black woman was wearing expensive clothes that made her look better yet had the nerve to be a hypocrite and tell the girl she was fine the way she was. 🤦♀️
I guarantee the black woman would not be able to go a year without wearing any of her fancy clothes or doing her makeup or doing her hair and nails. Keep dreaming. She was in the wrong. She had no right!
The 17-year-old knows what she wants and it’s her body, her choice! Neither you or anyone else has that right to dictate to someone else what they can do with their own body.
@@wolf-kissedrosie69‘there’s a difference between nice clothes and a major surgery’ she literally said it cause shes right. She’s also at a hospital and people normally look nice under their coats. She’s not a hypocrite. She’s a concerned woman who knows the pressures of being a woman. It’s dumb to say she’s being hypocritical when her clothes won’t result in her potential loss of life, but a surgery will.
what is stopping the girl from wearing nice clothes and makeup,
Asian women are smaller in shape and size than black women , but when you watch their movies, you admire them. which means nice clothes and makeup can do the job, not surgery that is permanent but with clothes you can change your style without consequences.
Tbh i dont like this particular doctor.. I think she always pushed her believes on other.. Sometimes it too much u think if i decided to chnge something on my own will i think tgey shouldn’t comment on tht.. Its makes me feel beautiful.. As a doc she shouldnt say those things
If she wants a surgery whats wrong with that?
Bc her body is not fully developed and only 17
@@045sumati7 watch the whole episode and find out!!!😂😂😂
So many male sexist in the plastic surgery industry 😂😂
Ah, yes the hypocrites are coming out. The people against plastic surgery, but have no problem with Botox and lip fillers, or ozempic to lose weight....
Where are all the "my body, my choice" people, oh wait that's only for unaliving fetuses, sorry. But if a woman wants plastic surgery all of the body positivity fascists jump out to tell women your perfect just the way you are...
Yep, nothing like having women who have the attributes I always wanted telling me that being flat chest is beautiful, so you'd switch with me right?
@CensorshipVictim someone is angry😂😂😂
@@azariyahisrael7245 Not angry just tired of all the feminist hypocrites who can't seem to make up their minds on what is ok and what isn't.
She is to young at least be an adult first sk body can mature.
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I support the young lady. She’s 17 and it’s her body, her choice which means she could do whatever the hell she wants.
I am sick of people trying to tell others what they can do with their body. Especially people trying to control a woman’s body! 🤷♀️
I’ve had situations where people try to tell me that my body is fine the way it is or being overweight is not bad. I don’t need to fix the loose skin or the not so firm breast. 🤦♀️ My guy friend doesn’t want me to have surgery to fix my weight loss related issues.
My mother and my sister are constantly trying to convince me to wear jeans despite the fact that I have repeatedly told them that’s not my style. People in my family want me to grow my hair long despite the fact that I don’t like having long hair. I’ve had situations where I’ve gone to get my haircut and I’ve been set on a specific haircut and then all the women will try to talk me out of it.
Repeat after me! My body, my choice! 🤷♀️ It’s not hard to understand!
And it’s sad that there are young women like in the video who are actually struggling to take control of their own lives and their own bodies because everyone else wants to control them. 🤷♀️
There are situations that need surgery .especially deformation of ID your over weight is life threatening . She saw the risk she's small no extra skin .soon they come running for implants to be removed. Parents need to teach their children self confidence and its importance to a avoid what I can call plastic surgery deformation 😅
Sorry people are trying to make you conform to their own personal beauty standards, but this is major surgery. They need to send her to a counsellor before they go ahead.
Except the puberty is not a process in1 or 2 years . After 2 ou 3 years in college , she would put some weight , her hormones would changed . A brain is "adult" in science only at 25 y old .some are matured before by trauma , not biochemichals
There’s a difference between clothes, or weight loss surgery (which can help with health) breast implants are just for confidence or an insecurity. She’s 17. Her body will not be the same in 10 years. You saw her getting the surgery right? Meaning she did what she wanted and there was a risk. It goes beyond ‘she’s a child’ it’s because of silly societal beauty standards and her trying to be confident in herself after realizing she doesn’t look like all the models and people they shove in our faces. My body my choice obviously, but counseling for cosmetic surgery should be a thing.
But, when it came to the covid shot it was either take it or lose your job. So, it's not always your choice.
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