I tried a cup and just could not get it in at all! Had a lot more success with a disc (specifically hello disc) it folds easier and inserts more like a tampon for me. Definitely recommend!
i can feel ur pain, i think if it doesn't work out maybe try other options? It's never okay to do something you're not comfortable w especially when its painful for u bestie
you can also try a softer cup if your current one is too firm. i personally have no issue with the regular firmness saalt cup, but i also got the soft saalt cup for the days when i'll be more sensitive to cramps.
Just wanted to say to anyone out there not already using one that this is an absolute GAME CHANGER when it comes to periods. I forget I'm even on mine now because it's so comfortable in comparison to pads and tampons. A bit fiddly to use at first and I will confess to having a couple of accidents with leaking and spilling at first but once you've had a bit of practice it will liberate you.
@@TiVi_br87 December 2022, my first time using menstrual cups after doing research and watching a lot of videos about it. I tried it without my period since when I ordered mine, I was waiting for the month of Dec. I struggle to insert it, took me a lot of time, and when I figure how to insert it the right way, I am so happy. Videos here in RUclips really help me a lot. Every problem has a solution. I only got leak once on my second day trying Menstrual cup. I feel the leak after 6 hours of using the cup ( I am about to change it tho that time ) I found out, I didn't check it if it was fully open inside since I am confident on my first day (even sleep without a leak) I wear a panty liner for only two days, I didn't worry about leak since I make sure to feel the cups was open inside. You know that it was open when you insert your finger around the cup. I make sure to check how much blood I got in hours, so I will know next time when I should take it out.
@@Katherine_inthehouse hm, that was helpful, thank you for responding😁, Im still on the fence about trying it, but I want to. I have found ones with a loop instead of the stick part, and have had a certain one saved in my amazon cart lol. Just another random question but, can you feel it while you are sitting down or anything like that? Like if you sit a certain way do you notice its there?
@@TiVi_br87 At first, I thought I would feel it but I am surprised, even on the first time I inserted it. I feel nothing, so don't worry about it. I can still reach the end of the cup and it is not bothering me. But some women says that they feel the (stem? I don't know what they called it haha) So some of them cut it, but for me, it help me to fix and remove the cup, although, you'll remove it on the cup itself and pinch it, not on the stem (it will make a suction if it was open so it is better to pinch using two finger when you reach the cup.) It sounds hard but I get it on my first try, I just remember the advice of other women here on RUclips. I am glad I didn't give up trying it haha it is really a life changer.
(In case anyone is struggling getting the whole cup in) ⬇️ For me the stem doesn’t go all the way in when inserting it, but it does when I stand up (goes back to low when sitting,) and is only barely past the inner lips, and for me it still works perfectly!😄 I probably just have a low cervix but thankfully doesn’t affect the function, just makes inserting a bit more difficult sometimes. *also make sure you have a soft cup if you’re having issues*
Hey can you help me with the cup. I try to insert it and it pops open but then i can not push it further in.. Besides i can feel part of the rim outside my vulva.. I use the push down fold
Hey, when I inserted period cup i didn't face any problem and i felt really good but when I got up from squatting position the cup started going inside itself (when I inserted it was 2cm out of my inner labia but when I rechecked after 1 minute it was around nail length past my inner labia ) i got really scared and somehow took it out and now it is giving me stress. I really want to switch to period cup. Please reply it would be really helpful 🤧
@@ms.suhani I completely understand your fear trust me, I was constantly checking mine for a while to make sure it wasn’t going anywhere & I know the fear when you’d have to reach in a bit further to get it out😅, but it is normal for the cup to move up a bit when not sitting on the toilet :), your body is just positioned differently, everyone’s cervix is different yours may just be higher than mine so the cup adjusts a bit higher. But not to worry your cervix is what also stops the cup from going anywhere out of reach. If you have a bit of a hard time getting it out each time you can look into longer cups for higher cervix. But there’s nothing to worry about, in the worst case you can squat and push the cup out, after all our bodies are amazing and designed to push out something much larger. The spot in the vagina naturally moves throughout your cycle so there are just days we’re your cup may sit lower or further up than usual, that is okay!:) but if it’s a hassle go for cups built for higher cervix. This Chanel shows a few of them
Trust me a cup is the way to take back control when on your period . I been a pad user all my life and switched to a cup even though I had a scary 1st time thinking it was way too high and could not get it out I tried again and it was perfect. I gave away my pads and never want to see 1 again. What made me try after my horrible 1st experience was when I did get it put, no Leaks, no mess and no smell. Glad I tried again
When it gets filled the cup starts to slide down by itself because the weight lowers it, and then you just break the seal poking it or pinching it and then it slides out. Also there's no way it could go where you can't reach it. But the most important for new users is to feel relaxed and secure so, i hope one day you try it, is a life changer.
I didnt, almost passed out, and every time you need to take it out, you have to dig inside your own vagina..Its NOT fun. Its messy, it hurts like hell and yeah, theres the freak out.
You totally should!! I’m only 16 and I’ve only had mine for about 4 cycles now. It takes a little bit of learning but it’s definitely better than anything else I’ve tried!
@@allifearnow5965 Yes defo a bit of learning, it took me one cycle before I could even get it inside properly and it took two tries to get the cup out without any pain. Its defo worth it though, I love my cup more then pads and I used to be a pad-only gal.
DO NOT TRY WHEN YOUR NOT ON YOUR PERIOD!! I did this. I added a little water and attempted to insert the cup but it was so painful and dry. I don’t recommend this cup if you’ve never stuck “things” up there.
@@vaninimishakavi9183when not on periods try using a lot of coconut oil and try different folds. Also try to relax and open up mentally. But if we use coconut oil during periods it will sometimes feel like it's leaking or it will slip out 😅 we have to be mentally relaxed and prepared. That's most important
This is my second time using the cup. Am 20yrs with no sex life. This is my experience and tips While inserting Make sure u have washed both cup and hands. 1. Sit in squat position, go with punchdown fold 2. Hold the cup at position at hole with ur right hand and push it in with ur left hand, and make sure u r pushing towards the end of spinal 3. Don't completely push it inside, push it till the stalk is completely present in ur finger, at this time around 80% will be in, slightly push it in by rotating. 4. Once u feel the complete cup( without stalk) is inside, leave it. U will hear or feel a pop. Cup pushes itself in by suction force. Don't try while u r not on ur periods. Use water as lubricant. It will be slightly painful for 1st time only.
@@aiswarya2178 when u push it inside, it body will suck it in with suction force and it will settle at one place.. after tht u will hear or feel one pop sound. U may not understand it for first time.. and it may have leaks, but if u keep on using,u will understand everything
Not about the video itself since I'm a guy, but a tip to relax faster and more efficient is to inhale completely, wait about a second and inhale again. Then exhale, doing this a few times should make you calm and relaxed
I tried first time it went perfectly but while removing it took lot of time but every time insertion and removal is big process better pad is comfortable
@@swastidas7422 no you won't spill blood when getting the pad out. But the pad might leak if you wear it for a long time like 6-7 hours for small or medium pads. Although it depends on the pad size, absorption of pad and amount of blood releasing
I got my mensural cup 6 months ago Most of the time I Look at cup and ignore it's existence Or try to insert it for 30 minutes and starts crying in the bathroom
If the stick is not inside it'll be uncomfortable it's not like the string on a tampon 😭 the cup won't go too high trust me, you can reach the stick easily
Thats me rn. I kept a lil bit of the stem outside so i could be content that it wont get lost. Yesterday it went up by itself and i panicked when i couldnt feel the stem. Tried it again today , just hop it doesnt go up again.
Just tried the Cora cup like literally 10 min ago. You have to be relaxed take some breaths and be gentle. The process can be a bit scary because it’s something new (at least for me. I just told myself a bunch of positive affirmations after and tried to slowly walk and get confortable moving around to gain more confidence. So far I feel like I need something softer and not as firm.
Carry a personal lubricant and a backup period product. These are fantastic products, and personal lubricant has been a saving grace in using them. And it's not weird. If we need lubricant for s*x, even with arousal already being a thing, then we definitely need it for cups. No shame in not wanting to give your vag microtears. And just because, SOMETIMES, the cup doesn't seal properly inside of you, its good to keep something else on hand in the event of an emergency. I have found that over some time, getting it to seal was easier and easier. Just make sure you're pinching the cup to release the seal before you pull it back out.
So here's my experience as a first time user, I have never put anything up my vagina so I was kind of freaking out but I managed to do it. Initially I couldn't really get it in as it was hurting really bad, i tried feeling the way with my finger and after an hour of trying all different angles i finally got it in. I did the punch down fold and pushed it at like 20 to 30 dgree from horizontal. It went in and i felt a pop and it wasn't leaking. I pushed it up just enough that the stem was just inside the vagina and not too up. When taking it out i was freaking out again as it wasn't coming out and i couldn't reach the base of the cup with my fingers. So i tugged the stem a little trying to get it down a bit before putting my fingers on the base and pinching it and slowly getting it out. One thing that helped was i tried to relax as much as possibe and was patient with the process. But unfortunately the next time I tried to put it in it went in super smoothly but i couldn't get it to open up completely. So i took it out and put it back inside a 2 to 3 times but couldn't do it and because of the friction it was hurting . So i gave up for today and used a pad. Will try it again tomorrow. Hope this helps anyone.
Thank you so so much best comment in this comment section, actual real experience and details for us girls tired of the “it’s amazing” or “it didn’t work” 😂
before I started using the cup, I used tampons for a year to get used to putting things inside. then like 5-6 cycles of using the cup before finally being comfortable with it. now 3 years in, it’s the best thing. saved money on pads & tampons too.
I was very afraid initially...but trust me it's very easy...you just have to figure out how's the path is tilted inside. Also, taking out was more tense for me...but it also came out to be easy... just know that the suction has to be broken.
For anyone struggling to relax at the idea of putting these in, try thinking of your crush, or think of something relaxing like a bubble bath, put on your favorite song. Anything but the thing you're trying to do. You can also try clenching like you're trying to stop peeing, so that you can get an idea of what each muscle does down there so to more easily control it. Kind of like progressive muscle relaxation from a meditation.
When I was switching to a menstrual cup, I was too scared about putting sth inside me, so I decided to use a tampon to get used to the feeling and process. And after using tampons for a few months, I finally switched to a cup.
When I had to travel on a plane for a long time, I bought a bottle of water and kept it after it was empty. Before I went on another plane I went to the bathroom knowing it wouldn't be private. I filled the bottle with water from the sink and in the stall I washed my cup before I used it again so that I could be fresh before my next long flight.
Do you have any advice on how to completely relax? I always struggle with this, it's difficult for me to insert the cup and my muscles are always tense when it's in, which causes discomfort. The only time everything went well was only when i drank a lil bit of alcohol lmao
Lmaoo I know what you mean about the alcohol but I would recommend trying a smaller cup (like a teen size) or a different menstrual product since these don’t work for everyone
Also if you feel it all the time it could be that is too tall for your cervix, try different brands or even you can try turn it inside out (it makes it shorter), i actually use mine like that cause even when i trimmed the stem i could steel feel it. And yeah relaxation is key, but now you already know that you can be confortable if you are able to relax, maybe try something tiring like doing chores and then a warm shower and then try the cup, and finally some dessert. You'll need that dessert to celebrate that you did it relaxed or you'll need it because of the struggle. Anyways after all that you did you'll deserve it lol
I personally just breathe a lot and just tell myself that everything will be fine and that I know what I'm doing. I also put on music or a youtuber that I like
I'd think being in the sitting position while trying to insert it would be the way you can be the most relaxed while your trying to do it thru you and as long as your trying to do it at the right angle got your body to be doing it thru you
Tampons are demons of dryness and suffering...i was a pad girl with no choice but then i tried the cup, it has no comparison with tapons. Cups are a learning curve but a life changer.
@@SpiceIsNice you should definitely consider it! I’m only 16 but I really like using it! In my opinion it’s better than anything else I’ve tried (aka just a pad) and it takes a little learning but definitely a good option!!
I tried it today! I'm 15, and a virgin, but I found that I didn't have any pain whatsoever inserting it! I used the labia fold and I guess I was just really relaxed. 9/10, still slightly anxious, but overall, a good first time.
@@we.stan.onedirection Hi! As for the experience, for me personally, it was honestly harder to get out rather than to get in. Something of note though: you probably have to be at least comfortable with digging two fingers up your vagina to use them. When you're good to go with that, you'll probably find using them is pretty easy. And don't make the mistake i did buying one too big for you? Because it's smooth insert, a physical battle to get out when it's too big and your hole is too itty bitty :,).
@@rararamara8698 thank you so much sis. I was afraid. When it comes to my vagina I'm pretty scared of inserting anything. But surely I'm gonna give it a try
I just found out you have to push the stem 😳, I just use it my last period and never push the stem, I used like I use a tampon. I wonder if this is why mine leak 🤔
It could probably be due to dryness, or the fold. Try the smallest fold you can make and also lube helps. I already have 2 years using it and some days you need extra moisture no matter the experience, and also i kept using the smallest fold cause is just more comfortable. Also you need to be relaxed and be patient and gentle.
When I got mine it said you could cut the stem if it was too long and that made a big difference in comfort for me. Shouldn't be painful though so maybe you're putting it in a bit early before your period has started properly? You can also try wetting it with water before putting it in ☺️
I educate my own mom about it. She's still having reaction everytime I say I am so much comfortable using this now. No waste, no more smell, no more uncomfortable sleep, no more rashes. How convenient it is, not worrying buying pads every month. Not worrying changing pads every two hours. And lastly, being comfortable to pee and poo.
I wanted to try it, I even watch helpful videos before buying a cup. I can't get it in, but I still didn't try it with lubricant so maybe, in my first period, I try it with lubricant. I can't afford to buy another cups.
Pinch the bottom of the cup or stem, and gently and slowly take it out. You may need to release the suction by gently squeezing the sides a bit while removing it. Practice makes it a lot easier and faster
@@Charlotte.Equestrian it won't spill everywhere if you're careful, but just do it over the toilet and it will spill into the toilet(I've never used a cup or disc, but it's what everyone else says lol)
@@Charlotte.Equestrianyeah you do have to put your fingers in to get it out but not very deep. You could also pull it out by the stem and then work it out slowly by rocking it back and forth until it comes out enough to remove the rest. It naturally gets pushed out a bit from the way you sit on the toilet. Spills happen it its too full, if you pinch too hard towards the top, or if you tilt it sideways when you take it out. I've used mine for almost 9 years so I'm pretty good at keeping it level but spills do happen sometimes, but as long as its over the toilet (idk why it wouldnt be) youre ok
Inserted a cup for the first time the other day and I’d say one major thing to do before you insert the cup is being used to tampons or things inside of you before attempting the cup. I just folded it and wiggled it in. I recommend trying it out when your period is heaviest so it slides in easier. Try it in a mirror or standing up. It’s going to feel weird because of the suction but like tampons you just get used to it. Hope this helped anyone who’s feeling uncomfortable about trying it :)
The only problem with these and tampons for me is that having anything up there widening my vaginal walls while the walls are also contracting makes period cramps 1000x worse. Pads and period underwear for the win
After watching your videos i started using menstrual cup and it has made my period days much better its affordable comfortable I don't even feel that I'm on my period except for when there is cramps and i don't have to empty it every 3-4 hours I'm very happy that i found your videos ❤
i have to go swimming tmrw and i’m on my period and my mom won’t buy me one of these. i also tried putting in a tampon but it doesn’t work for me it’s way too painful. i really don’t know what to do 😭
Convince her or some aunt, believe me tampons are painful, i don't know how people use them, literally torture, i was able to use a cup after some learning and now it's the only thing i need, and above all if you are into sports this is your game, also seems that you are young so you can live your best life rn. Your mom might be hard to convince, maybe show her videos from this channel so she can be more informed and less fearful and also get serious and ask her to take you to the gynecologist, if you can't convince her the doctor might help.
Wow…why did I not EVER hear about this before??? Little late now as I am gloriously past this ‘period’ in my life. BUT had I known about it, your darn right I woulda used it.
the first time I tried doing it, it didn't go exactly according to plan. When you notice it's not sitting right, try to squiggle your finger next to the cup, remove the vacuum seal and fold it slightly and only then pull it out!!! the first few times it can take a few tries before it sits nicely. but it's definitely worth it, don't give up!!
You know even i was, She was against it and I just told her "I am gonna order because i will be comfortable with it, and it's my body and i only know how my body works, just pay :) " She didn't say anything but she paid my bill anyway lol- Later i told her everything in detail patiently and she understood..
Tell her that your friend uses it and how better it is than other options (best if you say that friend's name whom she always compares you with or tell you to be like 😆)
@@Charlotte.Equestrian oh..I used cash on delivery option and I gave her my money which i saved..but fortunately she agreed if the delivery will come when I'm not at my house, she would pay the money (which i gave)
I was terrified about it too, I heard a lot of experiences where girls couldn't find the cup, but remember that this is internet and experiences where things go wrong receive more attention than experiences where things go fine. I have a high cervix, and even when I was nervous, removing my cup was really easy. Even high vaginas are only like 8 cm long, it's really weird not being able to find your cup or having difficulties removing it.
@@stellalopes6313 removal was so difficult for me i like completely broke down my first time ...but what helped me was slightly pushing my vaginal muscles to push the cup down a little so that i can reach it , u can try it
@@stellalopes6313 i completely get it , the same happened to me ...this is my second cycle when I'm using and it is getting easier , i think practice will help u realise what works and what doesn't
19 y/o 2nd day of period (BLOODBATH) I've binged many of your guide videos and finally I tried today for the first time. I tried to do the punch down fold but it wasn't going in at all ! I feel like my cup is more on the firmer side because it tends to unfold real quick so I tried the double diamond fold. I almost got it inside, only the base and stem was left. I was in excruciating pain so I decided to get it out and give my walls some rest. My vagina doesn't hurt anymore but my lips does. I don't want to give up just yet. It'd be really appreciated if you can help me through this question 1. Can I gently screw the cup in ? 2. What shall I do when the cup unfolds before I insert all of it inside ? 3. Is it normal to experience pain to some degree while insertion or does it not hurt at all ? (I want to know this so that I know what's normal and what's not) 4. I could easily insert my middle finger up there with a little discomfort but I could insert 3/4 of my finger easily without feeling my cervix, I could have tried inserting it all but I got scared and got my bloody finger out, I did that to guide my cup but when I narrowed the diameter and tried to insert it in the same direction as my finger but that's exactly when I started to experience excruciating pain and had to get the entire thing out. I cannot pinpoint if it's my wall that's contracting or I reached the cervix.
I get some discomfort when putting it in but not pain, you might need a little bit of water based lubrication to get it in especially if your getting a lot of discomfort in your lips, you might also need a softer cup firmer cups are generally harder to get used to and if it's your first cup that's a pretty serious barrier to overcome I use a diva cup and it's been relatively easy personally if I get the cup almost all the way in and just a tiny bit is still out I will try to get it the rest of the way in but if half or more is still not in I will take it out completely and try again.
@@ashrowan2143 Thank you so much ! I had to switch to pads and it's either a red flood or nothing (and either way, extra pads are wasted) I will do some more research on this but I'm definitely switching to a softer cup
Id think the cup would be very messy to be using and cleaning during our periods. That thought does not appeal toe at all thru it compared to tampons and pads I can just change and discard. The only thing I don't like about tampons/pads are having accidents and that can cause and leave stains on your bed sheets:'( so I am curious if a cup would help diminish those kind of having those kind of accidents happen? Those are embarassing
@@vg2binkey884 if you put the cup correctly then there's no chance of spillage. And most cups can be left for upto 12 hours so you can just reinsert them before bed. Honestly most of the time I wake up and completely forget that I'm on my period. 😅
I got itt thank you!! Im having a hard time twisting it bcuz of my nails but it unfolded bcause of the pinch thing.. it just pop open. Maybe i should prac a little bit more on my next cycle....
Quick TMI story about cups! Not everyone has vaginal canals that are compatible with cups or disc's. I am a ver environmental conscious person and really want to use a cup. So I purchase one. It was Libresse brand size L because I have a really heavy flow. I was laying down on my back and incerdet the cup. IT GOT STUCK! I tried everything, relaxing, squatting, tried to reach it bit I simply couldn't. I ended up having to go to the doctor the next day. Turns out that my vaginal canal is very narrow and long so the doctor had to use scissors to puncture the cup and some tools to get it out. It was terrifying and I'm k8nda sad about the fact that I physically cannot use cups because they will get stuck 😅 I am also not really having adult fun time so that might be part of why I'm so narrow
@@celestin1984 I have no problem with periods. I’m saying out of context, as I’m sure you haven’t seen her vid talking about how many cups she has, seeing that many menstrual cups would be slightly confusing at first. Thanks tho I will start to mature, I never realized that as someone who has a period that I could be so grossed out by them 😊
I also tried mensuration cup first time I find it's difficult but then after that when I know the process how to insert mensuration cup and how to remove the I find it comfortable ❤️❤️
You squeeze the base this breaks the seal and then you can gently pull it out, sounds intimidating but it's actually easier than putting it in at least in my experience
I got the divacup plus the wash I have lubricant stuff to got size 2 as I'm gonna be 32 I felt the meduim flow might not be enough lol I do have washable period underwear coming to I finely got use to tampons so I have lots of pads but want to give them up lol so I'll probably pack them up lol and leave cup and tampons lol I have so much been wanting a cup looked ant many but I loved how this one looked and was shaped so fingers crossed I get the hang of it on the first cycle lol 😆 but I no it can take a few to get use to it
So i use tampons at all times, make sure ur on ur period. If ur not on ur period its hard to get in. Maybe sure u put the tampon far enough in. The tampon string should be the only thing out. If ur using applicators its easier to get it farther in. If u put it in right u shouldnt be able to feel it. Good luck!
In my adaptation time I trimmed my nails the shortest I could... Now that I'm more used to it, the nails don't bother me... But my nails are never too long anyway 😅
You would think it would be awful. But what's really awful is the painful dryness that comes from tampons and the diaper waddle that comes with pads (when you have a heavy flow you can't get away with those sporty little tissue paper pads) ... Plus the watertight seal means no smell gets out, and since there's no cotton, there's no strange odors wafting up when it comes time to change...
what's creepy about it...? if you use tampons, you do know that the tampon expands inside of you once inserted, right? assuming you're not a kid, hopefully you already know that most women aren't super duper tiny "down there"; you have ample space for a cup. if you're genuinely on the smaller side, many companies make smaller/mini sized cups. personally, i think cups are the most hygienic and safe option out of them all (pads, tampons, period underwear, etc). you sanitize the cup thoroughly before use, it's extremely effective when properly inserted and vacuum-sealed, and carries less risk of infection than pads/tampons. they're also WAY cheaper than constantly buying disposable period products. a large box of tampons for me was around $15 (which could probably last me for ~4 months max) and if we generously ignore the costs of extra products like night pads, pantyliners, etc... the cost of my saalt cup ($29) is already paid with two boxes of tampons. i'd highly encourage people to be open-minded about period cups if they want to at least save their money, instead of reacting childishly and remain ill-informed.
Dude it’s way better for your body and in my case it made my period less bad. The chemicals in pads and tampons are bad for you and are known for making your period worse.
@@aunibon Great for you if pads work for you, because no one is holding a gun to your head to try one! In fact, it's probably for the best if you love pad to never try a menstrual cup. After trying a cup, I have not been able to go back to the odor of decomposing blood and the constant feeling of wearing and changing a half-diaper. I didn't even notice how bad it was until I tried a cup.
I got mine 2 days ago then immediately got my period, it works so well, at first it leaked a little cuz I didn't realize that when you fold it it stays folded inside of you so you have to help it unfold lmao, it's very comfy tho and it doesn't leak anymore
Let me tell u all some of the basic imp pre inserting deeds🥶💀: CUT your NAILS , RELAX breath in breath out✨, insert SLOWly, u should know that whn u insert ur cup goes FULLY INSIDE.. yes the whole stem too (mine goes very deep abt a finger length),DON'T NERVOUS☺️, its super EASY to insert whn u r bleeding like BLOOD perform smooth transaction😅also note [* NEVER TRY INSERTING WHEN U R NOT ON UR PERIODS *],try not to take ur hands/unfold d cup b4 the cup is fullly inserted(ghhh its hella painfull !!!) ,AFTER its done u become more stressd whthr able to take back...Relax everything is fine ..about 4-5hrs ur freeeee !
i want to try one so bad but my mom keeps telling me im gross and unsanitary for wanting it inside me. like? im tired of the uncomfortable feeling of pads (especially on heavy flows). i understand i'll take a while to adjust to it. i lived my whole life thinking tampons(or any inserts) are only for people who've had sex bc my mom told me that and still tells me it.
When going to the store, bring like $25-35. Tell your mom like "I'm gonna see the soaps" or something far away from her. Find a cup that you'd like and go to a self checkout and get one for you. Hide it in your jacket to where she can't see it or before you get out of the car, leave the window open by about 1.5 inches so you can slide it in there. I'm so sorry your mom isn't letting you have a comfortable period.
@@sugabearsubliminal8333 i tried that too it opens sometimes but sometimes it doesn't 🙂 it happens on the first day only second day it's good maybe it's because coz after a few days i am doing it or something idk
I tried today and it was really too much painful it takes 30 minutes but i can not fix it but trying after many times i fixed it . But this process not a peace of cake 🙂 first time and especially for the virgin girls
Yahh i tried one just today.... First i thought it wont go in But luckily it went in in first try .. I don't feel uncomfortable.. Just to keep it mind don't put it right in in upward direction...push it back wards ,it will go in easily... And after inserted it in try pulling it out to see if it has created vacuum inside or not... If not , remove it and try to insert it again.. I'm not going back to pads ever ✨✨✨...
Its been 4weeks since I discover this mentrual cups and I bought one right away after doing my research lmao They say I should insert it during my period so I still can't figure it out if I could insert it since my period will be next month, dec 7 specifically lol
Hello! I would say, do what the lady suggests and insert it first before your period, with the help of lube. If you struggle with it, being on your period will only make it worse as your fingers etc can get covered in blood. That's what happened to me. Also best to do it in the shower or standing up in a bath, hot water helps keep you relaxed
@@madeniquevanwyk I tried it for so many days now, and I can't insert it and I wonder why. Then I tried to explore it with finger because I thought the hole is too small. Then just a while ago, I can't believe I insert it for the first time. I panicked a little bit, and reach it and do the right way getting it out. but I think I am confident now hahahah I never been so excited waiting for my period lmao My problem now is it its going to have a leak.
@@Katherine_inthehouse I'm so glad you got it right and that you're excited for your period!! In the beginning it is something to get used to, I'm still not very good with it either. I think if you check that the cup is more or less upright in there, and it feels like it opened up completely, it should have no leaks. If you pull on it a little bit and it feels like it doesn't move, it's suctioned to the walls in there so you should be fine. Good luck!!
@@madeniquevanwyk Thanks ! :D It is my second day of using menstrual cups today and I think I am doing just fine. On my first day, I don't have any problem about leaking but having a problem removing without spilling it. But on my second day, I remember the advice of women here and finally removing it without spills. But just recently, almost 8 hours after I insert my cup. I got a leak, so I applied the tips and advice again. It really helps me a lot. I can't believe how I manage this so well haha. I was planning to convince other women to try menstrual cups. sadly, when mentioning it, I feel sad how people here don't even heard about it or had some weird reaction but I understand them and still try to share what I learn haha.
@@Katherine_inthehouse oh that sounds wonderful, I'm sooo glad you're doing so well with it! It's so nice to have the advice here of the other women who use it too. Sometimes they help more than the video 😂 Yes the people here react very strange to it too, I know many people who don't even want to use tampons. But it is a very personal matter so I understand. I just wish sometimes they would be open to try it because it's much less wasteful and less chemicals than pads
Started by wearing a size s but I kept having problems So hard to insert Just found out there's an XS and it's life changing... Although it gets full fast.. it's very easy to insert Removing has never been my problem
I tried and tried but it's too painful. I just can't stop freaking out during the process. I'll try again tomorrow.
I tried a cup and just could not get it in at all! Had a lot more success with a disc (specifically hello disc) it folds easier and inserts more like a tampon for me. Definitely recommend!
@@broadwaydest Wow I never knew about a disc. Thanks a lot for the suggestion. I'll give it a try.
i can feel ur pain, i think if it doesn't work out maybe try other options? It's never okay to do something you're not comfortable w especially when its painful for u bestie
Try a disk or get a smaller sized cup! You shouldn't feel that much discomfort even if you are a virgin (assuming you are).
you can also try a softer cup if your current one is too firm. i personally have no issue with the regular firmness saalt cup, but i also got the soft saalt cup for the days when i'll be more sensitive to cramps.
Just wanted to say to anyone out there not already using one that this is an absolute GAME CHANGER when it comes to periods. I forget I'm even on mine now because it's so comfortable in comparison to pads and tampons. A bit fiddly to use at first and I will confess to having a couple of accidents with leaking and spilling at first but once you've had a bit of practice it will liberate you.
Can we use a pad over it just in case it spills accidentally for the first few occasions?
does it leak? or can you safely not wear a liner or pad with it in?
@@TiVi_br87 December 2022, my first time using menstrual cups after doing research and watching a lot of videos about it.
I tried it without my period since when I ordered mine, I was waiting for the month of Dec.
I struggle to insert it, took me a lot of time, and when I figure how to insert it the right way, I am so happy.
Videos here in RUclips really help me a lot. Every problem has a solution.
I only got leak once on my second day trying Menstrual cup. I feel the leak after 6 hours of using the cup ( I am about to change it tho that time )
I found out, I didn't check it if it was fully open inside since I am confident on my first day (even sleep without a leak)
I wear a panty liner for only two days, I didn't worry about leak since I make sure to feel the cups was open inside.
You know that it was open when you insert your finger around the cup.
I make sure to check how much blood I got in hours, so I will know next time when I should take it out.
@@Katherine_inthehouse hm, that was helpful, thank you for responding😁, Im still on the fence about trying it, but I want to. I have found ones with a loop instead of the stick part, and have had a certain one saved in my amazon cart lol. Just another random question but, can you feel it while you are sitting down or anything like that? Like if you sit a certain way do you notice its there?
@@TiVi_br87 At first, I thought I would feel it but I am surprised, even on the first time I inserted it. I feel nothing, so don't worry about it.
I can still reach the end of the cup and it is not bothering me.
But some women says that they feel the (stem? I don't know what they called it haha)
So some of them cut it, but for me, it help me to fix and remove the cup, although, you'll remove it on the cup itself and pinch it, not on the stem (it will make a suction if it was open so it is better to pinch using two finger when you reach the cup.)
It sounds hard but I get it on my first try, I just remember the advice of other women here on RUclips.
I am glad I didn't give up trying it haha it is really a life changer.
(In case anyone is struggling getting the whole cup in) ⬇️
For me the stem doesn’t go all the way in when inserting it, but it does when I stand up (goes back to low when sitting,) and is only barely past the inner lips, and for me it still works perfectly!😄 I probably just have a low cervix but thankfully doesn’t affect the function, just makes inserting a bit more difficult sometimes. *also make sure you have a soft cup if you’re having issues*
Hey can you help me with the cup. I try to insert it and it pops open but then i can not push it further in.. Besides i can feel part of the rim outside my vulva..
I use the push down fold
@@saamyarana2096 sorry I’m so late to seeing this
@@zzpeep1040 i see... Thanks a lot ! I will try doing it again with that kind of fold. I really want it to work.
Hey, when I inserted period cup i didn't face any problem and i felt really good but when I got up from squatting position the cup started going inside itself (when I inserted it was 2cm out of my inner labia but when I rechecked after 1 minute it was around nail length past my inner labia ) i got really scared and somehow took it out and now it is giving me stress. I really want to switch to period cup.
Please reply it would be really helpful 🤧
@@ms.suhani I completely understand your fear trust me, I was constantly checking mine for a while to make sure it wasn’t going anywhere & I know the fear when you’d have to reach in a bit further to get it out😅, but it is normal for the cup to move up a bit when not sitting on the toilet :), your body is just positioned differently, everyone’s cervix is different yours may just be higher than mine so the cup adjusts a bit higher. But not to worry your cervix is what also stops the cup from going anywhere out of reach. If you have a bit of a hard time getting it out each time you can look into longer cups for higher cervix. But there’s nothing to worry about, in the worst case you can squat and push the cup out, after all our bodies are amazing and designed to push out something much larger. The spot in the vagina naturally moves throughout your cycle so there are just days we’re your cup may sit lower or further up than usual, that is okay!:) but if it’s a hassle go for cups built for higher cervix. This Chanel shows a few of them
If you are gonna use a menstrual cup, I recommend having short nails so you aren’t poking yourself
Your pubic hairs should be short to. Avoid pulling your hairs
I always trim my nails short before my period starts 😂
yep! using one for the first time and my nails get super long, i also agree it'll make the process easier
Good, i don't have long nails
Learned this the hard way 😅🙈
I refuse to wear anything other than a pad because I’m way to uncomfortable with anything else
Same
Trust me a cup is the way to take back control when on your period . I been a pad user all my life and switched to a cup even though I had a scary 1st time thinking it was way too high and could not get it out I tried again and it was perfect. I gave away my pads and never want to see 1 again. What made me try after my horrible 1st experience was when I did get it put, no Leaks, no mess and no smell. Glad I tried again
Bro I'm to scared to use a tampon
@@Laeyxo same
And that’s completely ok do whatever you are comfortable with
Im just scared that i wont be able to get it out
Right
When it gets filled the cup starts to slide down by itself because the weight lowers it, and then you just break the seal poking it or pinching it and then it slides out. Also there's no way it could go where you can't reach it. But the most important for new users is to feel relaxed and secure so, i hope one day you try it, is a life changer.
It slides right out! I’m only 16 and I can use it! It takes a little learning but it’s definitely better than pads in my opinion
I didnt, almost passed out, and every time you need to take it out, you have to dig inside your own vagina..Its NOT fun. Its messy, it hurts like hell and yeah, theres the freak out.
They say u need squat 😭
I DONT WANNA REACH LIKE THAT
These videos are slowly helping me feel confident about finally trying a cup
You totally should!! I’m only 16 and I’ve only had mine for about 4 cycles now. It takes a little bit of learning but it’s definitely better than anything else I’ve tried!
@@allifearnow5965 Yes defo a bit of learning, it took me one cycle before I could even get it inside properly and it took two tries to get the cup out without any pain. Its defo worth it though, I love my cup more then pads and I used to be a pad-only gal.
Same here but still scared 😥
Same
YES I literally have one at home but idk how to put it in and these videos are helping a lot
DO NOT TRY WHEN YOUR NOT ON YOUR PERIOD!! I did this. I added a little water and attempted to insert the cup but it was so painful and dry. I don’t recommend this cup if you’ve never stuck “things” up there.
what to do i have never stuck things up there
@@vaninimishakavi9183when not on periods try using a lot of coconut oil and try different folds. Also try to relax and open up mentally. But if we use coconut oil during periods it will sometimes feel like it's leaking or it will slip out 😅 we have to be mentally relaxed and prepared. That's most important
@@Tutu-rl3ro idk man that was months ago i still cant get it i tried like yesterday and gave up its just that i can fit only one finger
@@Tutu-rl3ro no don't pls don't use petroleum jelly or coconut oil it's not safe use a lube
@@Tutu-rl3ro do NOT use coconut oil. oil/ based lubricants hold bacteria which will lead to vaginal infections. use water based lube
This is my second time using the cup. Am 20yrs with no sex life. This is my experience and tips
While inserting
Make sure u have washed both cup and hands.
1. Sit in squat position, go with punchdown fold
2. Hold the cup at position at hole with ur right hand and push it in with ur left hand, and make sure u r pushing towards the end of spinal
3. Don't completely push it inside, push it till the stalk is completely present in ur finger, at this time around 80% will be in, slightly push it in by rotating.
4. Once u feel the complete cup( without stalk) is inside, leave it. U will hear or feel a pop. Cup pushes itself in by suction force.
Don't try while u r not on ur periods. Use water as lubricant. It will be slightly painful for 1st time only.
May I know the brand that you use?
@@PsychoBelldandy It's SIRQNA, I use small size
How to know if it is opened up? I just felt slight pain and felt it move around.
Why do you suggest to not use it when not on period?! (Genuine question, I'm 22 and thinking of buying it)
@@aiswarya2178 when u push it inside, it body will suck it in with suction force and it will settle at one place.. after tht u will hear or feel one pop sound. U may not understand it for first time.. and it may have leaks, but if u keep on using,u will understand everything
Not about the video itself since I'm a guy, but a tip to relax faster and more efficient is to inhale completely, wait about a second and inhale again. Then exhale, doing this a few times should make you calm and relaxed
Thank you
I tried first time it went perfectly but while removing it took lot of time but every time insertion and removal is big process better pad is comfortable
Btw I have a doubt.. while getting that pad out does it leak? I mean are we gonna spill it everywhere? 🙂🙂
Hi next month again i tried it becomes easy
@@swastidas7422 no, the pad absorbs the blood
@@swastidas7422 no you won't spill blood when getting the pad out.
But the pad might leak if you wear it for a long time like 6-7 hours for small or medium pads. Although it depends on the pad size, absorption of pad and amount of blood releasing
I got my mensural cup 6 months ago
Most of the time I Look at cup and ignore it's existence
Or try to insert it for 30 minutes and starts crying in the bathroom
Girl i just got mine delivered i am so scared rn
U are not alone I'm here crying 😭
@@asiakhan6280hey did u inserted successfully??😢
Hey girls, if you don't mind, I can help you with the problem of inserting or removing the cup. Just ask. I know I am late, but still...
We have to go thru so much
“Including the stick” oh hell nah..
right? wth😅☹️
Exactly 😹
Nd u can trim if it is too long 😨💀
If the stick is not inside it'll be uncomfortable it's not like the string on a tampon 😭 the cup won't go too high trust me, you can reach the stick easily
Thats me rn. I kept a lil bit of the stem outside so i could be content that it wont get lost. Yesterday it went up by itself and i panicked when i couldnt feel the stem. Tried it again today , just hop it doesnt go up again.
Just tried the Cora cup like literally 10 min ago. You have to be relaxed take some breaths and be gentle. The process can be a bit scary because it’s something new (at least for me. I just told myself a bunch of positive affirmations after and tried to slowly walk and get confortable moving around to gain more confidence. So far I feel like I need something softer and not as firm.
Carry a personal lubricant and a backup period product. These are fantastic products, and personal lubricant has been a saving grace in using them. And it's not weird. If we need lubricant for s*x, even with arousal already being a thing, then we definitely need it for cups. No shame in not wanting to give your vag microtears.
And just because, SOMETIMES, the cup doesn't seal properly inside of you, its good to keep something else on hand in the event of an emergency. I have found that over some time, getting it to seal was easier and easier. Just make sure you're pinching the cup to release the seal before you pull it back out.
So here's my experience as a first time user, I have never put anything up my vagina so I was kind of freaking out but I managed to do it. Initially I couldn't really get it in as it was hurting really bad, i tried feeling the way with my finger and after an hour of trying all different angles i finally got it in. I did the punch down fold and pushed it at like 20 to 30 dgree from horizontal. It went in and i felt a pop and it wasn't leaking. I pushed it up just enough that the stem was just inside the vagina and not too up. When taking it out i was freaking out again as it wasn't coming out and i couldn't reach the base of the cup with my fingers. So i tugged the stem a little trying to get it down a bit before putting my fingers on the base and pinching it and slowly getting it out. One thing that helped was i tried to relax as much as possibe and was patient with the process. But unfortunately the next time I tried to put it in it went in super smoothly but i couldn't get it to open up completely. So i took it out and put it back inside a 2 to 3 times but couldn't do it and because of the friction it was hurting . So i gave up for today and used a pad. Will try it again tomorrow. Hope this helps anyone.
Thank you so so much best comment in this comment section, actual real experience and details for us girls tired of the “it’s amazing” or “it didn’t work” 😂
before I started using the cup, I used tampons for a year to get used to putting things inside. then like 5-6 cycles of using the cup before finally being comfortable with it. now 3 years in, it’s the best thing. saved money on pads & tampons too.
I was very afraid initially...but trust me it's very easy...you just have to figure out how's the path is tilted inside. Also, taking out was more tense for me...but it also came out to be easy... just know that the suction has to be broken.
Correct very informative
Watching from dubai
I can not use cups. I am just too tense. I struggle getting them to open up and I also struggle removing them. Menstrual discs work so well for me.
Hey what is the difference between the cups and the discs
For anyone struggling to relax at the idea of putting these in, try thinking of your crush, or think of something relaxing like a bubble bath, put on your favorite song. Anything but the thing you're trying to do. You can also try clenching like you're trying to stop peeing, so that you can get an idea of what each muscle does down there so to more easily control it. Kind of like progressive muscle relaxation from a meditation.
When I was switching to a menstrual cup, I was too scared about putting sth inside me, so I decided to use a tampon to get used to the feeling and process. And after using tampons for a few months, I finally switched to a cup.
When I had to travel on a plane for a long time, I bought a bottle of water and kept it after it was empty. Before I went on another plane I went to the bathroom knowing it wouldn't be private. I filled the bottle with water from the sink and in the stall I washed my cup before I used it again so that I could be fresh before my next long flight.
What do you mean by “ knowing it wouldn’t be private” ?
Do you have any advice on how to completely relax? I always struggle with this, it's difficult for me to insert the cup and my muscles are always tense when it's in, which causes discomfort. The only time everything went well was only when i drank a lil bit of alcohol lmao
Lmaoo I know what you mean about the alcohol but I would recommend trying a smaller cup (like a teen size) or a different menstrual product since these don’t work for everyone
Also if you feel it all the time it could be that is too tall for your cervix, try different brands or even you can try turn it inside out (it makes it shorter), i actually use mine like that cause even when i trimmed the stem i could steel feel it. And yeah relaxation is key, but now you already know that you can be confortable if you are able to relax, maybe try something tiring like doing chores and then a warm shower and then try the cup, and finally some dessert. You'll need that dessert to celebrate that you did it relaxed or you'll need it because of the struggle. Anyways after all that you did you'll deserve it lol
I personally just breathe a lot and just tell myself that everything will be fine and that I know what I'm doing. I also put on music or a youtuber that I like
Think about kissing a person you have a crush on, might help lol
I'd think being in the sitting position while trying to insert it would be the way you can be the most relaxed while your trying to do it thru you and as long as your trying to do it at the right angle got your body to be doing it thru you
I can't even hold a tampon without freaking out so I'm not doing this #padlife
Tampons are demons of dryness and suffering...i was a pad girl with no choice but then i tried the cup, it has no comparison with tapons. Cups are a learning curve but a life changer.
@@marunekochannel you know what I'll think about it kinda sounds scary tbh but possible
@@SpiceIsNice you should definitely consider it! I’m only 16 but I really like using it! In my opinion it’s better than anything else I’ve tried (aka just a pad) and it takes a little learning but definitely a good option!!
@@allifearnow5965 humm ilk see about that
Lol I'm the same
I tried it today! I'm 15, and a virgin, but I found that I didn't have any pain whatsoever inserting it! I used the labia fold and I guess I was just really relaxed. 9/10, still slightly anxious, but overall, a good first time.
Hey I’m 15 as well. Could you pls elaborate on your experience cause I’m hella scared to try it but everybody says it is safer.
@@we.stan.onedirection Hi! As for the experience, for me personally, it was honestly harder to get out rather than to get in. Something of note though: you probably have to be at least comfortable with digging two fingers up your vagina to use them. When you're good to go with that, you'll probably find using them is pretty easy. And don't make the mistake i did buying one too big for you? Because it's smooth insert, a physical battle to get out when it's too big and your hole is too itty bitty :,).
@@rararamara8698 thank you so much sis. I was afraid. When it comes to my vagina I'm pretty scared of inserting anything. But surely I'm gonna give it a try
I just found out you have to push the stem 😳, I just use it my last period and never push the stem, I used like I use a tampon. I wonder if this is why mine leak 🤔
I tried it's just too painful or won't go all the way in as it should. This is inspite of trying the teen size.
Any tips would be helpful
It could probably be due to dryness, or the fold. Try the smallest fold you can make and also lube helps. I already have 2 years using it and some days you need extra moisture no matter the experience, and also i kept using the smallest fold cause is just more comfortable. Also you need to be relaxed and be patient and gentle.
When I got mine it said you could cut the stem if it was too long and that made a big difference in comfort for me. Shouldn't be painful though so maybe you're putting it in a bit early before your period has started properly? You can also try wetting it with water before putting it in ☺️
if you have a septate hymen or the hymen opening is simply not the 'typical' size then that may be the cause of the pain. something to consider maybe
You could try it during a hot shower to relax your muscles 🤔
I tried it for the first time yesterday and it is AMAAAAZING!!!! Practice inserting it a couple times before you try it on yourself. Don't give up!
I would like to try a menstrual cup but I’m still kinda nervous plus I’m way too embarrassed to ask my mom to buy me one 😂💀…
I educate my own mom about it. She's still having reaction everytime I say I am so much comfortable using this now.
No waste, no more smell, no more uncomfortable sleep, no more rashes.
How convenient it is, not worrying buying pads every month.
Not worrying changing pads every two hours.
And lastly, being comfortable to pee and poo.
@@Katherine_inthehouseI’m just 17 can i use it?
Ive been using a menstrual cup for 10 years and this is the first time I have seen that fold!!
I really want to replace pads with a cup but just the thought of it gives me anxiety.
Sammee, especially because I'm a virgin with a seemingly strong hymen, but I want to use a cup so badly that I'm ready to go outside my comfort zone
You got it!!! Getting a cup was the absolute best decision I made, they make periods so easy!
Guys if you want something sustainable but are afraid to try with cups maybe give the menstrual panties a shot? They're great too 😊
I wanted to try it, I even watch helpful videos before buying a cup. I can't get it in, but I still didn't try it with lubricant so maybe, in my first period, I try it with lubricant.
I can't afford to buy another cups.
thank you for attempting to give a truer representation of the insertion process.
I bought this cup, It's been 3 yrs..... It's still new. But now... I am trying after this video. Thank you.
How on earth do you remove it though? At least with tampons, there’s a string
Pinch the bottom of the cup or stem, and gently and slowly take it out. You may need to release the suction by gently squeezing the sides a bit while removing it. Practice makes it a lot easier and faster
@@lucarleigho but then don’t u have to like stick ur fingers inside of u and won’t the cup just spill everywhere when u pull it out
@@Charlotte.Equestrian it won't spill everywhere if you're careful, but just do it over the toilet and it will spill into the toilet(I've never used a cup or disc, but it's what everyone else says lol)
@@iamollieandiliketovibe What about the "stick your fingers inside of you" part?
@@Charlotte.Equestrianyeah you do have to put your fingers in to get it out but not very deep. You could also pull it out by the stem and then work it out slowly by rocking it back and forth until it comes out enough to remove the rest. It naturally gets pushed out a bit from the way you sit on the toilet. Spills happen it its too full, if you pinch too hard towards the top, or if you tilt it sideways when you take it out. I've used mine for almost 9 years so I'm pretty good at keeping it level but spills do happen sometimes, but as long as its over the toilet (idk why it wouldnt be) youre ok
Inserted a cup for the first time the other day and I’d say one major thing to do before you insert the cup is being used to tampons or things inside of you before attempting the cup. I just folded it and wiggled it in. I recommend trying it out when your period is heaviest so it slides in easier. Try it in a mirror or standing up. It’s going to feel weird because of the suction but like tampons you just get used to it. Hope this helped anyone who’s feeling uncomfortable about trying it :)
The only problem with these and tampons for me is that having anything up there widening my vaginal walls while the walls are also contracting makes period cramps 1000x worse. Pads and period underwear for the win
I love that this model has some proper labia! As a gal with longer inner labia it can be a bit more tricky to not hurt yourself while inserting a cup
I usually have to run a finger around the cup, rotating it until it expands properly.
After watching your videos i started using menstrual cup and it has made my period days much better its affordable comfortable I don't even feel that I'm on my period except for when there is cramps and i don't have to empty it every 3-4 hours I'm very happy that i found your videos ❤
Even I feel that pain during vedio😂
I’m here bc I did it wrong 😂and almost cried 😅trying to figure out how to use it . Thank you for the video.
i have to go swimming tmrw and i’m on my period and my mom won’t buy me one of these. i also tried putting in a tampon but it doesn’t work for me it’s way too painful. i really don’t know what to do 😭
Girl convince your mom , a cup is really gonna help u and believe me it's gonna change your life and also no fear of toxic shock syndrome!
Try adjusting your angle, this helped me tons when figuring out tampons.
Convince her or some aunt, believe me tampons are painful, i don't know how people use them, literally torture, i was able to use a cup after some learning and now it's the only thing i need, and above all if you are into sports this is your game, also seems that you are young so you can live your best life rn. Your mom might be hard to convince, maybe show her videos from this channel so she can be more informed and less fearful and also get serious and ask her to take you to the gynecologist, if you can't convince her the doctor might help.
@@marunekochannel m
Buy yourself one and insert it in.. it's your body and you got the right to decide what works best for you.
There is period underwear and it provides zero leaks I love it
Wow…why did I not EVER hear about this before??? Little late now as I am gloriously past this ‘period’ in my life. BUT had I known about it, your darn right I woulda used it.
the first time I tried doing it, it didn't go exactly according to plan. When you notice it's not sitting right, try to squiggle your finger next to the cup, remove the vacuum seal and fold it slightly and only then pull it out!!! the first few times it can take a few tries before it sits nicely. but it's definitely worth it, don't give up!!
So as a teen I want to ask my mom about getting a cup but in scared to any tips?
@Stupid Dinosaur Get Out Of Here thanks
You know even i was, She was against it and I just told her "I am gonna order because i will be comfortable with it, and it's my body and i only know how my body works, just pay :) "
She didn't say anything but she paid my bill anyway lol- Later i told her everything in detail patiently and she understood..
Tell her that your friend uses it and how better it is than other options (best if you say that friend's name whom she always compares you with or tell you to be like 😆)
@@vante.07 bro my mom would never pay especially if she disagreed
@@Charlotte.Equestrian oh..I used cash on delivery option and I gave her my money which i saved..but fortunately she agreed if the delivery will come when I'm not at my house, she would pay the money (which i gave)
Oooo ok this was the most helpful video as far as seeing how far it goes in.
That seems so painful, how do y’all just put it in without screaming in pain 💀
We don't. You break the seal first.
Not painful at all but I used tampons for years before this. It revolutionised periods for me! So much more comfortable!
Why the hell have i gotten so many period-related shorts recently, specifically always about menstrual cups too? I'm a cis dude
Mam agreee...bt m more worried for its removal...any video for that to make the removal easier
I was terrified about it too, I heard a lot of experiences where girls couldn't find the cup, but remember that this is internet and experiences where things go wrong receive more attention than experiences where things go fine.
I have a high cervix, and even when I was nervous, removing my cup was really easy.
Even high vaginas are only like 8 cm long, it's really weird not being able to find your cup or having difficulties removing it.
@@analisamelculo85 i hope it will b better when i try in my next periods...just the removal is hard for me
@@stellalopes6313 removal was so difficult for me i like completely broke down my first time ...but what helped me was slightly pushing my vaginal muscles to push the cup down a little so that i can reach it , u can try it
@@suchibhattacharjee8003 problm with me is that i start panicking a bit, and then its gets a bit difficult to get the hold of the cup with two fingers
@@stellalopes6313 i completely get it , the same happened to me ...this is my second cycle when I'm using and it is getting easier , i think practice will help u realise what works and what doesn't
Thank you I couldn't figure it out, but now this helped so much thank you
19 y/o 2nd day of period (BLOODBATH) I've binged many of your guide videos and finally I tried today for the first time. I tried to do the punch down fold but it wasn't going in at all ! I feel like my cup is more on the firmer side because it tends to unfold real quick so I tried the double diamond fold. I almost got it inside, only the base and stem was left. I was in excruciating pain so I decided to get it out and give my walls some rest. My vagina doesn't hurt anymore but my lips does. I don't want to give up just yet.
It'd be really appreciated if you can help me through this question
1. Can I gently screw the cup in ?
2. What shall I do when the cup unfolds before I insert all of it inside ?
3. Is it normal to experience pain to some degree while insertion or does it not hurt at all ? (I want to know this so that I know what's normal and what's not)
4. I could easily insert my middle finger up there with a little discomfort but I could insert 3/4 of my finger easily without feeling my cervix, I could have tried inserting it all but I got scared and got my bloody finger out, I did that to guide my cup but when I narrowed the diameter and tried to insert it in the same direction as my finger but that's exactly when I started to experience excruciating pain and had to get the entire thing out. I cannot pinpoint if it's my wall that's contracting or I reached the cervix.
I get some discomfort when putting it in but not pain, you might need a little bit of water based lubrication to get it in especially if your getting a lot of discomfort in your lips, you might also need a softer cup firmer cups are generally harder to get used to and if it's your first cup that's a pretty serious barrier to overcome I use a diva cup and it's been relatively easy personally if I get the cup almost all the way in and just a tiny bit is still out I will try to get it the rest of the way in but if half or more is still not in I will take it out completely and try again.
@@ashrowan2143 Thank you so much ! I had to switch to pads and it's either a red flood or nothing (and either way, extra pads are wasted) I will do some more research on this but I'm definitely switching to a softer cup
I tried tampons before cups and for me cups are much easier. It's also comfortable. It just looks intimidating at first.
Id think the cup would be very messy to be using and cleaning during our periods. That thought does not appeal toe at all thru it compared to tampons and pads I can just change and discard. The only thing I don't like about tampons/pads are having accidents and that can cause and leave stains on your bed sheets:'( so I am curious if a cup would help diminish those kind of having those kind of accidents happen? Those are embarassing
@@vg2binkey884 if you put the cup correctly then there's no chance of spillage. And most cups can be left for upto 12 hours so you can just reinsert them before bed. Honestly most of the time I wake up and completely forget that I'm on my period. 😅
Using alittle water if you don't have the lube is handy too
Try menstrual cup, Start with a small size. Like literally! It lasts for 8-12 hours and is damn comfortable.Trust me, worth it.
i inserted it pretty easily but the problem is it's still folded 😭
you gotta twist it
after you insert it
Pinch the base a little bit
I got itt thank you!! Im having a hard time twisting it bcuz of my nails but it unfolded bcause of the pinch thing.. it just pop open. Maybe i should prac a little bit more on my next cycle....
@@gabrielle591 they always say you can practice even when your not on your period, but I find it easier to practice while on because your cervix moves
Quick TMI story about cups! Not everyone has vaginal canals that are compatible with cups or disc's.
I am a ver environmental conscious person and really want to use a cup. So I purchase one. It was Libresse brand size L because I have a really heavy flow. I was laying down on my back and incerdet the cup. IT GOT STUCK! I tried everything, relaxing, squatting, tried to reach it bit I simply couldn't. I ended up having to go to the doctor the next day. Turns out that my vaginal canal is very narrow and long so the doctor had to use scissors to puncture the cup and some tools to get it out. It was terrifying and I'm k8nda sad about the fact that I physically cannot use cups because they will get stuck 😅
I am also not really having adult fun time so that might be part of why I'm so narrow
AH HAIL NAH. That cup BETTER take me out to dinner first
I'm not nervous about inserting it, I'm more scared about not getting it out lol
I'm just gonna stick to pads thanks-
Tried it out today and it feels good
I looks so scary😭
no way people walk around with this inside of them. tampons make me anxious 😭
Imagine going over to her house and seeing these “tools” in her drawers 💀
If you have an issue with such "tools" maybe you need some time to mature before going to her house
@@celestin1984 I have no problem with periods. I’m saying out of context, as I’m sure you haven’t seen her vid talking about how many cups she has, seeing that many menstrual cups would be slightly confusing at first.
Thanks tho I will start to mature, I never realized that as someone who has a period that I could be so grossed out by them 😊
If I did I just might be courageous enough to ask her if and they worked well thru them for her and at preventing accidents during her cycle
I also tried mensuration cup first time I find it's difficult but then after that when I know the process how to insert mensuration cup and how to remove the I find it comfortable ❤️❤️
How do you get it out 😭
You squeeze the base this breaks the seal and then you can gently pull it out, sounds intimidating but it's actually easier than putting it in at least in my experience
It took several tries, but after two days of practice i got it in. It was so scary, and I was shaking the whole time, but I'm proud of myself.
Guys watching this: 😵😵💫😳😰🫢
This work got to be really calm and take the breaths as she said.
This terrified me-
Im a guy and I have no Idea how I ended up scrolling into this short, like if ur also another guy 😂
I got the divacup plus the wash I have lubricant stuff to got size 2 as I'm gonna be 32 I felt the meduim flow might not be enough lol I do have washable period underwear coming to I finely got use to tampons so I have lots of pads but want to give them up lol so I'll probably pack them up lol and leave cup and tampons lol I have so much been wanting a cup looked ant many but I loved how this one looked and was shaped so fingers crossed I get the hang of it on the first cycle lol 😆 but I no it can take a few to get use to it
I’ve just bought one on Amazon and it should be here on Thursday I will let u know how it goes 😭
I’m nervous about tampons the first time I tried one was the other day and it was quite painful
So i use tampons at all times, make sure ur on ur period. If ur not on ur period its hard to get in. Maybe sure u put the tampon far enough in. The tampon string should be the only thing out. If ur using applicators its easier to get it farther in. If u put it in right u shouldnt be able to feel it. Good luck!
@@ayven9641 thanks!
Just looking at this gives me shivers I don't think I can do it
What do I do if I have nails-?
Just do it carefully… and expect a little bit of pinching on occasion.. I have long nails but I still use it haha just takes a little patience 😂
In my adaptation time I trimmed my nails the shortest I could... Now that I'm more used to it, the nails don't bother me... But my nails are never too long anyway 😅
You'll pinch yourself and it hurts like hell.
Hello! Everyone I am a cup user now!
I stick to pads thanks
I would want to use period cups because they are the most environmentally friendly period product I know of
HOLY FUCK NO. THATS SO CREEPY AND FREAKY IM NEVER DOING THAT,
You would think it would be awful. But what's really awful is the painful dryness that comes from tampons and the diaper waddle that comes with pads (when you have a heavy flow you can't get away with those sporty little tissue paper pads)
...
Plus the watertight seal means no smell gets out, and since there's no cotton, there's no strange odors wafting up when it comes time to change...
what's creepy about it...? if you use tampons, you do know that the tampon expands inside of you once inserted, right? assuming you're not a kid, hopefully you already know that most women aren't super duper tiny "down there"; you have ample space for a cup. if you're genuinely on the smaller side, many companies make smaller/mini sized cups.
personally, i think cups are the most hygienic and safe option out of them all (pads, tampons, period underwear, etc). you sanitize the cup thoroughly before use, it's extremely effective when properly inserted and vacuum-sealed, and carries less risk of infection than pads/tampons. they're also WAY cheaper than constantly buying disposable period products. a large box of tampons for me was around $15 (which could probably last me for ~4 months max) and if we generously ignore the costs of extra products like night pads, pantyliners, etc... the cost of my saalt cup ($29) is already paid with two boxes of tampons. i'd highly encourage people to be open-minded about period cups if they want to at least save their money, instead of reacting childishly and remain ill-informed.
Dude it’s way better for your body and in my case it made my period less bad. The chemicals in pads and tampons are bad for you and are known for making your period worse.
@@Makusulife I’ve had no issues with pads, so I will keep using pads thank you very much
@@aunibon Great for you if pads work for you, because no one is holding a gun to your head to try one! In fact, it's probably for the best if you love pad to never try a menstrual cup. After trying a cup, I have not been able to go back to the odor of decomposing blood and the constant feeling of wearing and changing a half-diaper. I didn't even notice how bad it was until I tried a cup.
I got mine 2 days ago then immediately got my period, it works so well, at first it leaked a little cuz I didn't realize that when you fold it it stays folded inside of you so you have to help it unfold lmao, it's very comfy tho and it doesn't leak anymore
Me litteraly watching this with a cup insider of me
I've been using a cup for a few months... I had trouble positioning it correctly.. since then I bought a cup applicator ! It's much better !!!!
Just gave it a go 😅 this is Definitely going to be a trial and error, multiple tries type of thing. It feels like it's 'hitting a back wall'
Tbh when you try something else than pads you just can't go back
Let me tell u all some of the basic imp pre inserting deeds🥶💀: CUT your NAILS , RELAX breath in breath out✨, insert SLOWly, u should know that whn u insert ur cup goes FULLY INSIDE.. yes the whole stem too (mine goes very deep abt a finger length),DON'T NERVOUS☺️, its super EASY to insert whn u r bleeding like BLOOD perform smooth transaction😅also note [* NEVER TRY INSERTING WHEN U R NOT ON UR PERIODS *],try not to take ur hands/unfold d cup b4 the cup is fullly inserted(ghhh its hella painfull !!!) ,AFTER its done u become more stressd whthr able to take back...Relax everything is fine ..about 4-5hrs ur freeeee !
i want to try one so bad but my mom keeps telling me im gross and unsanitary for wanting it inside me. like? im tired of the uncomfortable feeling of pads (especially on heavy flows). i understand i'll take a while to adjust to it. i lived my whole life thinking tampons(or any inserts) are only for people who've had sex bc my mom told me that and still tells me it.
When going to the store, bring like $25-35. Tell your mom like "I'm gonna see the soaps" or something far away from her. Find a cup that you'd like and go to a self checkout and get one for you. Hide it in your jacket to where she can't see it or before you get out of the car, leave the window open by about 1.5 inches so you can slide it in there. I'm so sorry your mom isn't letting you have a comfortable period.
A cup user here my only problem is it doesn't open inside it takes like 5 to 6 tries but except that menstrual cup is seriously best for me
You can try the pinch fold method just pinch the menstrual cup and fold it and then insert it's easy and the cup will open inside too
@@sugabearsubliminal8333 i tried that too it opens sometimes but sometimes it doesn't 🙂 it happens on the first day only second day it's good maybe it's because coz after a few days i am doing it or something idk
Thank u so much, I did it on the first attempt itself 😄
The stem is usually how you get it out
I tried to remove my cup exactly how you said to and it was just so so painful! i fainted 😢 i guess the cup is not meant for me
I want to practice on inserting my cup, but the problem is is that I tend to be a bit impatient; It would take some time though.
I tried today and it was really too much painful it takes 30 minutes but i can not fix it but trying after many times i fixed it . But this process not a peace of cake 🙂 first time and especially for the virgin girls
I only use pads. The thought of using tampons or a cup scares the hell out of me
Just did it but did not realize the stem was supposed to be inserted as well; that explains why it feels weird 😂
Yahh i tried one just today....
First i thought it wont go in
But luckily it went in in first try ..
I don't feel uncomfortable..
Just to keep it mind don't put it right in in upward direction...push it back wards ,it will go in easily...
And after inserted it in try pulling it out to see if it has created vacuum inside or not...
If not , remove it and try to insert it again..
I'm not going back to pads ever ✨✨✨...
I feel I'll get a heart attack while putting it inside
Its been 4weeks since I discover this mentrual cups and I bought one right away after doing my research lmao
They say I should insert it during my period so I still can't figure it out if I could insert it since my period will be next month, dec 7 specifically lol
Hello! I would say, do what the lady suggests and insert it first before your period, with the help of lube. If you struggle with it, being on your period will only make it worse as your fingers etc can get covered in blood. That's what happened to me. Also best to do it in the shower or standing up in a bath, hot water helps keep you relaxed
@@madeniquevanwyk I tried it for so many days now, and I can't insert it and I wonder why. Then I tried to explore it with finger because I thought the hole is too small.
Then just a while ago, I can't believe I insert it for the first time. I panicked a little bit, and reach it and do the right way getting it out.
but I think I am confident now hahahah I never been so excited waiting for my period lmao
My problem now is it its going to have a leak.
@@Katherine_inthehouse I'm so glad you got it right and that you're excited for your period!! In the beginning it is something to get used to, I'm still not very good with it either.
I think if you check that the cup is more or less upright in there, and it feels like it opened up completely, it should have no leaks. If you pull on it a little bit and it feels like it doesn't move, it's suctioned to the walls in there so you should be fine. Good luck!!
@@madeniquevanwyk Thanks ! :D
It is my second day of using menstrual cups today and I think I am doing just fine.
On my first day, I don't have any problem about leaking but having a problem removing without spilling it.
But on my second day, I remember the advice of women here and finally removing it without spills.
But just recently, almost 8 hours after I insert my cup. I got a leak, so I applied the tips and advice again. It really helps me a lot.
I can't believe how I manage this so well haha. I was planning to convince other women to try menstrual cups.
sadly, when mentioning it, I feel sad how people here don't even heard about it or had some weird reaction
but I understand them and still try to share what I learn haha.
@@Katherine_inthehouse oh that sounds wonderful, I'm sooo glad you're doing so well with it! It's so nice to have the advice here of the other women who use it too. Sometimes they help more than the video 😂
Yes the people here react very strange to it too, I know many people who don't even want to use tampons. But it is a very personal matter so I understand.
I just wish sometimes they would be open to try it because it's much less wasteful and less chemicals than pads
Started by wearing a size s but I kept having problems
So hard to insert
Just found out there's an XS and it's life changing... Although it gets full fast.. it's very easy to insert
Removing has never been my problem
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I been using a cup for years I just throw it up there😂😂 I don’t even think about it