*SPICY* COUPLES Q&A w/ MILENA & JORDAN CICIOTTI

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  • Опубликовано: 18 янв 2025

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  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +511

    do yall want to see more collabs???

  • @JanaeCrawford
    @JanaeCrawford 3 года назад +204

    “We’re light switches, girls are like ovens they have to be preheated”
    YESSSSSSSSS Jordan. PERFECTLY SAID 🙌🏽😂❤️

    • @sh4783
      @sh4783 3 года назад +1

      True most of the time. There are instances tho...

  • @SamuelJayakumar
    @SamuelJayakumar 3 года назад +97

    Well said! “A relationship is literally a communication “ 👏 Amen to that!

  • @veritygrace1257
    @veritygrace1257 3 года назад +205

    This collab is everything 🥲

  • @ginadeguzman7807
    @ginadeguzman7807 3 года назад +39

    I worked with Chad when he was modeling for a job in Maryland! Everyone loved how kind he was and at the end of the day, we all got crab cakes together. So glad to see him doing well! Chad, you & Tori are amazing and using this platform for the Lord is incredible 🙌🏼 I also love the Ciciottis so this great seeing you all together. Keep doing what you’re doing! ❤️ Love from Maryland!

  • @Itsthenatashagrace
    @Itsthenatashagrace 3 года назад +93

    How to describe Chad and Tori- such kindness, truth and gentleness. Authentically willing, and full of pure encouragement. ❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +8

      awell dang. trying to get us emotional lol

    • @Itsthenatashagrace
      @Itsthenatashagrace 3 года назад +2

      @@ToriAndChad just reminding you of who you are 😉 y’all do so much for us. ❤️ feeling so blessed.

  • @marykatherineodonnell4495
    @marykatherineodonnell4495 3 года назад +79

    I love the reminder of having a gentle spirit when communicating and not just being a reaction to our circumstances. I always appreciate it when y'all share different Bibles and devotionals. I grew up with a formal translation of the Bible, which was intimidating to read. I bought the Thrive Bible because of Tori, which has been life changing. Thank you for the recs! Congratulations Carol!!!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +2

      lets gooo! We loved reading this comment! and how much it encouraged us!

    • @marykatherineodonnell4495
      @marykatherineodonnell4495 3 года назад

      @@ToriAndChad Yay!!! My circumstances are all over the place haha, so I really needed to hear that today! I very much enjoy the Thrive Bible, this is the first time in my life where I have been able to read the Bible everyday! Thanks again : )

  • @beautifulmariah6677
    @beautifulmariah6677 3 года назад +75

    Chads eyes when Jordan said “people can doubt your words but they won’t doubt your actions”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ryushizu17
    @ryushizu17 3 года назад +85

    1) 2:37 How to go about trying to be intimate with your partner?
    2) 6:29 How can I make sure my spouse is actually listening to me?
    3) 12:10 One thing you did that changed the relationship for the better?
    4) 18:03 How do you help your spouse grow their faith without seeming pushy?
    5) 23:34 What’s your favourite thing about the other couple?

  • @allisonlucas018
    @allisonlucas018 3 года назад +11

    I love that final question to each other. It's so important to encourage one another and uplift one another. And both couples honestly do that all the time and it's very uplifting!

  • @nathaliadesouza1781
    @nathaliadesouza1781 3 года назад +22

    Love how godly tori and chad are. Always biblically on point.

  • @jphil1848
    @jphil1848 3 года назад +6

    Wow this was so real and genuine, not sugar coated or some lofty standard but practical pieces of good advice. Loved it

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr 3 года назад +41

    Man what an incredible collab! Love it because we get twice the wisdom, fun and encouragement! There were just so many 🔥 things said here! You are all so amazing! Not gonna lie, I want more! Hahaha

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +4

      LETS GOO!!!! So much fun to do this! We hope to do more collabs like this in the future!

  • @nishakhaira9736
    @nishakhaira9736 3 года назад +13

    Only 6 mins in and y’all are dropping such good insight..praise the Lord for revelation

  • @esterakan8145
    @esterakan8145 3 года назад +10

    You guys this really warmed my heart, I am so grateful for all the work you guys do. We definitely want more collabs, have an blessed and amazing weekend

  • @michellel2435
    @michellel2435 3 года назад +8

    Lol the end where Milena looks so confused.. But seriously, I've been waiting for what feels like forever for this collab! You guys are both my favorite YT couples and I'm so happy to see the amazingness that came from all of you getting together. It was so fun to watch too!

  • @ninascherr9681
    @ninascherr9681 3 года назад +13

    Tori is 🔥🔥🔥 always bringing it back to the Scripture. Loveeeee this collab!

  • @LeniceRomney
    @LeniceRomney 3 года назад +27

    "Men are like light switches and women are ovens that need to be preheated." Jordan Ciciotti

  • @kerminagattas2339
    @kerminagattas2339 3 года назад +39

    This couple friendship is so pure and so beautiful!!! I LOVE ITT!!! ❤ and ofc I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +3

      awww thanks a lot, Kermina!!

  • @elenavaladez1478
    @elenavaladez1478 3 года назад +7

    Tori and Chad with Milena and Jordan is an amazing collab! The conversations were so encouraging and helpful, glad to see Godly couples and Godly friends

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic 3 года назад +5

    Tori you are so wonderful !!. You are so rooted in the scriptures and what it means to be a Christian and it’s so evident in your speech, it’s a wonderful gift (teaching). I love this video, it was so funny 😂😂 it’s great seeing you guys together ! Would love to see more collabs together 🥰

  • @shaughnsmit2076
    @shaughnsmit2076 3 года назад +18

    Such a sweet description Chad!! Glory to God and we appreciate you guys’ ministry!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +2

      Aww thanks a ton for reading it my man!

  • @camilaisquierdo9903
    @camilaisquierdo9903 3 года назад +16

    I love you guys! 🥰 The four of you are so genuine. You are a blessing to many! Greetings from Argentina!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +2

      Aww thanks for being so kind to us!!

  • @LaurenVR.
    @LaurenVR. 3 года назад +2

    Long time subscriber to Milena and this is the only video I’ve watched of y’all’s so far but I’m already subscribing!! You and your husband seem so sweet and genuine

  • @ChristianeMatundu
    @ChristianeMatundu 3 года назад +15

    Omg, I love seeing both of my favourite RUclipsrs link up☺☺☺I am sooooo Happy!!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +2

      awww yay! We are happy you're excited about this!!!

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech 3 года назад +3

    Chad I love what you said about being the thermostat in your home!

  • @siennaw6255
    @siennaw6255 3 года назад +5

    Guys, this was the actual best. My fave youtubers all together!!! Woohoo! Blessing us with the fire content

  • @allisonlucas018
    @allisonlucas018 3 года назад +7

    This is the perfect collab for spicy relationship q&a! Can't wait to see what wisdom you all respond with!

  • @bethanychavez4911
    @bethanychavez4911 3 года назад +4

    We need more youtubers like these guys. So uplifting and such good and beautiful people working to further GODS kingdom and not their own!

  • @7magi7
    @7magi7 3 года назад +7

    Guyssss!! I've been watching you for a while now and I just want to encourage you to continue spreading the words of Jesus... i have learnt so much, especially about marriage, and thank you for that ♥️

  • @Patrick-l6p
    @Patrick-l6p 4 месяца назад

    The lights witch and oven analogy was spot on and perfect

  • @d.hadassah8128
    @d.hadassah8128 3 года назад +2

    All the glory to God!!!! This video is such an encouragement!

  • @CorrinaRoseWrites
    @CorrinaRoseWrites 3 года назад +4

    Love the wisdom and examples of Scripture throughout this! 🙌

  • @cassidytaylor7183
    @cassidytaylor7183 3 года назад +1

    this was soooooo wholesome to watch and listen to. love christ centred friendships and conversations. you four together are glowing xxxxx

  • @luanagonzalez5441
    @luanagonzalez5441 3 года назад +3

    HIII!! so excited to watch, and people please read the description because the encouragement today is fire!!! and the Hamilton reference hahaha love it!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +1

      awww thank you for reading that! That means so much to me!

    • @luanagonzalez5441
      @luanagonzalez5441 3 года назад +1

      @@ToriAndChad The encoragement always make my day better!!

  • @seilahpickering942
    @seilahpickering942 3 года назад +6

    LOVE this. def need collab with Jess and Gabriel. you guys are awesome. and the Ciciotti's have a new subscriber just found out about them through this video, so cool! stay safe! God bless.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +1

      Aww yay! So happy yall are pumped about their channel!

  • @angelamarie3708
    @angelamarie3708 3 года назад

    Tori, I think that you show so much wisdom in the answer about as your hubby is talking, you are listening to Holy Spirit. It’s saved me many times in conversation. ♥️ love y’all!

  • @jasmineys929
    @jasmineys929 3 года назад +8

    Tori be ready with The Word!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @iuliaturcas4348
    @iuliaturcas4348 3 года назад +9

    Such a great video idea!!! 💛 I can’t wait to watch it! I love the way you respond to questions and the fact that you are so honest and open! 🤗 You two are such an example to me and I always look forward to listening to what you have to say on any topic! Love you!!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +2

      Yay!!! We can't wait to hear what you think!!! We love you!

    • @iuliaturcas4348
      @iuliaturcas4348 3 года назад +2

      @@ToriAndChad I will for sure love it!!!

  • @SarahsDalyLife
    @SarahsDalyLife 3 года назад +70

    What I love about these couples is their ability to be vulnerable and speak about "uncomfortable" topics with grace and clarity. Another Christian couple on RUclips just laughs at sexual stuff and makes everything into a meme... Kinda annoying. We love adults who speak about things they're comfortable sharing with CLARITY.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +6

      well thanks for saying that! These are things we def needs to encourage people in!

  • @mckennayoder3138
    @mckennayoder3138 3 года назад +1

    Ugh I just love you all! Please do more videos like this! Y’all make me want to get out of my own mundane routine of life and prioritize time of fellowship with friends. That’s a lot coming from someone who’s pretty introverted and loves being a hermit most of the time lol. God bless you all! 💖

  • @katrinafoster9483
    @katrinafoster9483 3 года назад +6

    I love this video! A lot of fruitful advice in the beginning regarding marriage. I'm going to ask my husband to watch as well so we can work to grow deeper in marriage and faith together! (Married 4 months tomorrow) ☺️

  • @dakotadupee2176
    @dakotadupee2176 3 года назад +2

    Okay I absolutely love this! I LOVE Jordan and Milena and I love you guys! You guys definitely clicked so well and I can’t wait to see this friendship blossom❤️

  • @christianejoy
    @christianejoy 3 года назад +2

    Can't wait to see you guys with Jess and Gabe too!!!

  • @tannerdefelicis4356
    @tannerdefelicis4356 3 года назад +6

    I was going to say, if one partner is having trouble with intimacy even after marriage, chances are there is something deeper going on. That could be a sign of past sexual abuse, or sexual baggage such as a negative association (ex. past intimacy before marriage, sex = guilt, "sex is bad" purity culture). Especially if it's a case of past sexual abuse, both partners need to act upon this and get help immediately. I cannot stress this enough: if both partners don't resolve this issue, your marriage will not last long. One of my aunts and uncles marriage unfortunately ended because they both did not seek help to improve their marriage when it came to intimacy issues because of a sexual abuse past that was not dealt with.

  • @steviemanley9410
    @steviemanley9410 3 года назад +8

    My seminary teacher always said “men are like microwaves & women are like ovens” 😂 it’s so true though

  • @whitneywilliams6168
    @whitneywilliams6168 3 года назад +3

    This is absolutely amazing!! Four of the kindest and Jesus loving people around 💛.
    Loved this video!

  • @petravidrascu1708
    @petravidrascu1708 3 года назад +1

    If there’s any a time when you’ve questioned if God is using ye.. he’s definitely is! God spoke to me exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you 🙏

  • @StephanieSharesJesus
    @StephanieSharesJesus 3 года назад

    I loved that you talked about translations of the Bible. Language has been evolving for so long, even just in my 30 years alive the English language has changed a lot...with new words added, new slangs, changes in what some words mean, and it's important to have a translation we can understand from when it was originally written up until today.❤

  • @christiannamiddlebrook2871
    @christiannamiddlebrook2871 3 года назад +8

    I felt like I was intruding on a personal conversation (at the end)! 🥺 I love this!

  • @franz5714
    @franz5714 3 года назад +10

    This video is double the fun and double the wisdom haha! So goood!! The word you guys spoke in this is just * chefs kiss * 👌🏼🙏🏼😭🥰

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +2

      awww yay!!! Thanks for tuning in! We appreciate it!

  • @AGSBallTrophy
    @AGSBallTrophy 3 года назад +2

    Y’all have dropped so much wisdom on this channel thank you😭❤️

  • @alexistafrawe9004
    @alexistafrawe9004 3 года назад +1

    Ugh I love this collab honestly so here for it!! Two of my favorites!!

  • @its_jem7636
    @its_jem7636 3 года назад +3

    This was so touching and uplifting you guys bring so much Joy ❤️it’s amazing to see the Holy Spirit work in your lives. You are glowing for Jesus!!

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 3 года назад +1

    You all give life and encouragement.
    Great content
    Thanks for sharing

  • @mlvabcd
    @mlvabcd 3 года назад +9

    The silent message wanting sound effects from Chad is hilarious 😂

  • @keana._
    @keana._ 3 года назад +1

    Dang love that find your Bible thing, so cool! Loved this video!

  • @dainamoreno6381
    @dainamoreno6381 3 года назад +2

    I love the Ciciotti’s and the masters!

  • @finding132
    @finding132 2 года назад

    Tori and Chad please could you do a topic on temperament and compatability

  • @taynacarvalho6471
    @taynacarvalho6471 3 года назад +9

    Yaaaay, I'm so excited!!! I'm laughing already with the intro🤗🥰💛

  • @veritygrace1257
    @veritygrace1257 3 года назад +8

    Yesssss been waiting for this since I saw your insta story 🥰

  • @tracylynm614
    @tracylynm614 3 года назад +1

    I absolutely loved this! You guys are a blessing and so blessed!

  • @christinawatkinsyoutube
    @christinawatkinsyoutube 3 года назад +1

    my faaave people in one video!!! this was so awesome! and so emosh at the end hahaha

  • @maelyngrace4779
    @maelyngrace4779 3 года назад +1

    aww this video made me smile, seeing my two fav Christian couples come together!

  • @consueladcosta29
    @consueladcosta29 3 года назад +3

    This was soooo wholesome!!! I can't right now 🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏻‍♀️🥺🥺🥺🙈🙈🙈 Two couples so in love with Jesus and one another sharing their words of wisdom provided by the Holy Spirit to us *sigh* what more can I ask 🙈
    Love you'll ❣❣❣❣

  • @alarnabruinsma7050
    @alarnabruinsma7050 3 года назад +1

    Now this collab... this is my most favourite!!!! Y'all are so awesome; thank you for imparting your wisdom!! :D

  • @bethanychavez4911
    @bethanychavez4911 3 года назад +1

    Good friendships are such a blessing! God is sooo good

  • @kaidesvignes445
    @kaidesvignes445 3 года назад +2

    I’m bursting with excitement for this collab 🙌🏽🙌🏽🥳🥳

  • @roseaustin4783
    @roseaustin4783 3 года назад +2

    Wow Tori I love what you were saying about helping your spouse in spiritual growth 🔥🤩😍

  • @nicolecress
    @nicolecress 3 года назад +1

    Such a great video. Love y’all’s friendship and wisdom.

  • @sharonlefa1634
    @sharonlefa1634 3 года назад +2

    Oh my goodness !!! This makes me so happy I could cry 😭😭😭 love this so much ! This literally feels like Christian RUclips Avengers 🙌🏾😭

  • @hannahrobby
    @hannahrobby 3 года назад +4

    Thank you all for all the good you bring to this Earth. Thank you, Lord for bringing Your light through these lovely people 🙏🥰🇦🇺❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for supporting us and believing in us!

  • @kab1792
    @kab1792 3 года назад +1

    This was gold! I love all you guys, such an encouragement!

  • @maciemiller4389
    @maciemiller4389 3 года назад +1

    The duo we didn’t know we needed!!

  • @suttonhulse9373
    @suttonhulse9373 3 года назад +2

    "That's a weird way to start a conversation" killed me! Absolute comedy gold my guy!

  • @jessmin6288
    @jessmin6288 3 года назад +3

    The first of many collabs!!! :) i hope there's more to come! Love yalls ❤

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +1

      I would love to do more!!! We lov eyou too!

    • @jessmin6288
      @jessmin6288 3 года назад

      @@ToriAndChad don't feel pressured to collab with others though! At the end of the day, we're here to support what yalls do! :) hope your new home renovations are going well btw!! :)

  • @Miracleshappentv
    @Miracleshappentv 3 года назад +7

    You all pray for me , leaving for Vegas tomorrow. Preaching Friday night, Saturday morning to the men , Saturday night and Sunday morning. Love you both

  • @sierragarza2174
    @sierragarza2174 3 года назад

    First time watching on y’all’s channel, love love love topic and collab so much. I have learned so much that I am going to be applying to my life & marriage. Thank you for being so open and transparent

  • @carolwilliamsblog
    @carolwilliamsblog 3 года назад +14

    Is it ok that this is now my most favourite video ever?! 😁 Loved the fire that y'all were sharing in this video. I'm starting to look at how to be in a relationship as a Christian, not that there is anyone in the picture yet, but I feel like I'm getting prepared for that upcoming season. Love you both!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +4

      hahah you may be biased a bit because you are the SUBSCRIBER OF THE WEEK!!!

    • @carolwilliamsblog
      @carolwilliamsblog 3 года назад +1

      @@ToriAndChad Quite possibly! 🤣 Thank you so much, I wasn't expecting it ☺️

  • @jellepadilla2583
    @jellepadilla2583 3 года назад +13

    My fave people in one videooooo 💛

  • @julianna.3852
    @julianna.3852 3 года назад +1

    so happy to see both of my favourite Christian couples in a video together WOW ❤️ this conversation was SO good & meaningful, differently learned a lot!!

  • @Cirore
    @Cirore 3 года назад +1

    Yes !!!!! The video we ‘ve been waiting for years!!!!! Thank you Jesus

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад

      hahah 2.5 years in the making!

  • @juniaestola3684
    @juniaestola3684 3 года назад +1

    Literally have wanted y’all to become friends for so long haha so glad it finally happened! Also love the collab!! :)

    • @juniaestola3684
      @juniaestola3684 3 года назад +1

      Also love how both of y’all are such different couple’s and impact all of us in such different ways! So cool to see the gifts God has specifically given each of you and how you use them!

  • @thegraciepetersen
    @thegraciepetersen 3 года назад +4

    Love this collab!!! You two couples are my favorite!!!❤️

  • @Derriann9705
    @Derriann9705 3 года назад +1

    SO happy to see you all together! Such a fun and encouraging video. God bless you guys ❤️🙏🏾

  • @Meleannieliz
    @Meleannieliz 3 года назад +2

    I loved this, my husband and I needed it💕

  • @followingfinley2268
    @followingfinley2268 3 года назад +1

    This is a collab I didn’t know I needed!!

  • @rfanaccount
    @rfanaccount 3 года назад +2

    this was such a fun video to watch! cant wait for more content! keep up the awesome work

  • @shawnee.
    @shawnee. 3 года назад +1

    Oh my Gosh!!! YES!!!!! I LOVE YOU GUYS FOR THIS🤩 This was Awesome and Powerful !! My heart can rest easy knowing that you guys are friends 😄

  • @hannahjames2906
    @hannahjames2906 3 года назад +4

    Gonna grab my popcorn for this one!🍿 Love you guys❤️

  • @cubcakecreations
    @cubcakecreations 3 года назад +4

    Hi!!! Love you all and your videos! Hope you are having a wonderful week!

  • @mpho_m
    @mpho_m 3 года назад +1

    Just found your guys. Absolutely love this video.❤️❤️ Also shoutout to Editor Zac 👏👏

  • @shanaalisab2691
    @shanaalisab2691 3 года назад +2

    I love this! It’s truly so genuine 🥰

  • @franial5206
    @franial5206 3 года назад +1

    Awww I've been waiting for this! 😍😍🥰🥰 My two favorite RUclips couples 🥳🤩 love the colab

  • @Mjys-nw6lx
    @Mjys-nw6lx 3 года назад +1

    Loved every second. Thank you so much!

  • @taniaannanil576
    @taniaannanil576 3 года назад +3

    My fav people together . Very Very excited to watch this :)

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +2

      that makes us super happy!!!

  • @beckyc7263
    @beckyc7263 3 года назад +4

    That NLT plug was THE most skilled plug ever- well done, Chad!

  • @jennifernguyen6675
    @jennifernguyen6675 3 года назад +1

    Love these couples. We need more like them!!!

  • @SamuelJayakumar
    @SamuelJayakumar 3 года назад +3

    Beautiful description Chadizzle!

  • @averybird9160
    @averybird9160 3 года назад +1

    Congrats on 90K!!!