BOUNDARIES IN DATING | physical, emotional & spiritual pt 1
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- Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2020
- Y’all trying to get real for a sec? Why is sacrificing something we want a bad thing? Hang in there with me…A healthy person has countless desires. I WANT, I WANT, I WANT. Each day brings a new opportunity for us to allow what our “heart” wants to control our conversations, habits, and amount of happiness we feel. But a person who is sick typically has one desire. To be healthy. One thing. One want. Isn’t it weird that a person can have just one desire and that be enough for them? It doesn’t have to be a Christmas wish list of several items and if you get each one then you will be happy. Now before I get off track, I don’t want the focus to be on how many things you want, but I mentioned that so you see that desiring less can still lead people to feel happy. And on that topic specifically, I GENUINELY think that we will experience MORE Joy and Happiness by cutting out the “need” for things to fill us, then actually obtaining them. Let me say that again for the people in the back. I am mentioning two routes too feeling “happy”. 1. Get all the stuff you think you need = Feel happy. And 2. Cut down on things you want = Feel happy. And What I am saying is #2 will bring you MORE joy. Sacrificing things you want can lead to GOOD THINGS.
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Loonngg is good.. you have no idea how good it feels to soak up each second of your sharings! Why do Mondays and Wednesdays come so early and the next Monday feels soooo farr!! :(
hahah it honestly does feel super far away
LOVEEE the long videos!!
Instant gratification takes away ultimate satisfaction! Now screams louder, later lasts longer ♥️
love the long video!! definitely watching the whole thing!!❤️
“A relationship isn’t all about making you happy, it’s about making you holy.” Wow 👏🏾
One of the best things I've heard
I also chose Holy over happy. And now it is my turn for happy!
This is what Paul Washer teaches also.
My oh my🤗
This is not true. The blood of Christ makes us holy. There is no shortcut to repentance. Believing a person or a relationship can make you holy is idolatry and is breaking the 10 commandments. Don’t fall for the hype, beloved. Be strong in discernment. Test each prophet by the Holy Spirit.
6:01 Live with your bf/gf before marriage?
8:43 Long distance relationship
9:45 Spiritual boundaries about prayer
12:28 Boundaries to protect you
13:39 Accountability
18:28 Dating should not cure your aloneness
19:43 Being friend first is a good thing
22:27 Feel comfortable sharing your boundaries
23:09 Be driven by peace
25:20 Talk early about your boundaries and be communicative
26:58 See how he/she treats you
28:43 Healthy disciplines
33:43 Dating should not make you happy but holy
Thank you for this. 👍🏻🔥
Woah thanks for these notes!
Woow🔥
Yeah none of those are relatable or make sense
Thank you!!!!!
Been in a relationship for 4 years and we are finally setting boundaries. It is much harder going backwards/moving forward this way. Much harder. It’s so hard because we have already crossed the line, i feel we are going to have to change our whole lives now because the temptation is real. Please pray for strength and for guidance and conviction from God alone. We both love the Lord and my biggest desire is that we put Him first...Thank you brothers and sisters 🙏🏻❤️
Im wondering how to do this in a conversation
Like do I say I didn’t enjoy it? That it made me feel bad? I don’t want to hurt his feelings or make him think that he forced me but at the same time I don’t want to continue
@@napoleon2708 who would you rather hurt? God or your person.
@@napoleon2708 try something along the lines of:
I want to establish a new boundary of xyz. This is not a punishment to you. I was to practice this because abc. Are you willing to walk this with me?
going through the same thing! praying for you sis :) we will have victory and strength by the power of the Holy Spirit in Jesus Name!
“It was conviction because it led to behavioral change.” 🔥🔥🔥 so good! Thanks for always founding everything on God’s Word.
Aww thanks a ton, Cora! So happy you are here!
@@ToriAndChad my only issue is I'm 18 and been dating the same person for the past 3years. We recently just started praying together before going to bed(not everynight though) but I heard you mention soul ties and now I'm worried. He's older than me and we do kiss but I don't want to sleep with him just because I only want to do it with the person I'mma spend the rest of my life with. So should I stop praying with him.
@@MwilaMwila-vc8zw😮😮😮😮😊😮😮😮😢😢
Did she just say “an audition to be his wife” 😳 that’s real 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
“Peace over passion” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
"Boundaries are meant to protect you and set you up for success in your marriage. The better boundaries you have in dating the more fruitful your marriage is going to be because you're not going to walk into marriage with the baggage of what you wish you had done while you were dating." SUCH A GOOD EXPLANATION. Thank you guys for reminding us that we will reap what we sow!
Hey!! So I’m in a serious relationship (we’re both Christians!) and we have already talked about marriage. Could y’all do a video of questions you should ask each other before engagement such as as - what’s your view on generosity, how many kids you want, how do u wanna handle finances, etc. like the practical and spiritual questions you should discuss and figure out before getting engaged.
Second this!
Ruth Solomon yes! That’s the one I wanted to share.
@@aurorap.7578 haha amazing!
My husband and I went through "101 Questions Before You Get Engaged" by H. Norman Wright while we were dating. We didn't get through all of them but found quite a few of them helpful before/during engagement. [side note: I am not saying this should be a substitute for premarital counseling during engagement with a mentor/spiritual leader.]
Book: www.amazon.com/101-Questions-Ask-Before-Engaged/dp/0736913947
PDF: wzukusers.storage.googleapis.com/user-18587746/documents/56ff04de9096cbYbbsBP/101%20Questions%20To%20Ask%20Before%20You%20Get%20Engaged.pdf
Yes!!! I'd love a video on that too
“btw, can you put your pants back on” 😂 dying! love this and y’all ❤️
😂😂😂🤗
I'm dying HAHA
Why we Michel(l)es reacting so much to this? 😅
🤍😂😂
i am single as heck..but ill still watch tis xD
hahahh we genuinely think it will help so so much! And next week is boundaries for being single!
@@ToriAndChad woohooo!! I was gonna make a request for the same!! tysm in advance....looking foward to it!
Woooo!!!
It’s good to be single & watch these to know what to expect and to know what marriage is about.
Alphy, ,You are not alone.
I am a 17 year old Jewish girl and I do not have any Jewish role models online to give me advice. So, turning to other religious influencers like you guys helps a lot. Keep spreading your message! Gen z needs this lol.
Just make sure have boundaries and have sex after marriage
Sexual purity is important dont listen to other if they boring just be yourself and pray god
facts gen z neeedsss this
Dont worry it´s the same God just with different names for different cultures.
you should absolutely check out One for Israel on RUclips or podcasts. Jewish and gentile community sharing the Good News
Jar of Fireflies is a Jewish RUclipsr, you could ask there
I had never considered the difference between praying as a unit and praying as individuals within a unit until yesterday when talking to a friend and now watching this video and hearing you guys mention it again, I would really love to hear more about what you guys have to say on that topic.
I really loved what you guys had to say about building that strong foundation in friendship... I've experienced a lot of pressures throughout my time at college (as well as a lot of my friends) to enter straight into more of a romantic relationship or having that expectation of being boyfriend and girlfriend sooner than I'm comfortable with. Hearing the amount of value you guys place on building a strong friendship first is so reassuring.
for sure agree witht he friend point so much - i have felt nervous to say i wanna be more slow and become friends and have felt pressure from them/friends to go further emotionally than i want to!! was encouraged to hear this x
Right; I learned something new when they said that as well 🤯
One emotional boundary I hold, No Shared Fantasizing about Being Married/Having Kids. If we're early in the dating phase and he starts saying "I imagine us living in Pasadena with a hammock in the back yard and 2 children-" I'll shut it down. Delving into those fantasies too early can be disastrous for the heart if our being married isn't in God's plan!
Yes!!!! I never considered that as a boundary but I’m happy I ran into your comment.
FACTSSSS
Wow I love that. It’s actually so true how much that hurts us especially if things end and you didn’t want them too
Yes especially when it goes to shit and u have to grieve the future you planned together as well
And they could be misleading you with future faking.
The way he looks at you when you talk 😍
I find him more spontaneous than she is
The love in his eyes 🥵
WOW. I love how y’all said boundaries are about protecting what’s on the inside. Such a good way to think about boundaries
This is what healthy relationships look like 👏👏👏 bravo! These two are connected emotionally, physically, spiritually.
“hey put your pants back on...” HAD ME DYING. These two are funny and realistic
I keep dumbing down my morals and standards for temporary love. I just pray I am made to be married and it be successful. I’ve had a lot of pain, and no successful relationships. Never dated a guy because it becomes more of what they want then what God has called me toooo. Thank you for this series !!!! God bless. I’m ready to receive ♡︎♡︎♡︎
Girl yes! I kept sacrificing my relationship with God for a guy and it left me miserable and it was never enough for him. I left that situation and have been filled with so much peace.
It’s never gonna work out if it’s not the man God ordained for you.. and that’s a truth I’ve had to sit on patiently as I trust Gods timing.
Oh my gosh I can relate I have done that and it's not worth it I felt extremely guilty and convicted I am so glad I saw your comment I needed to this somit can stay in my spirit and never compromise again Blessings to you 🙏❤️
I am muslim and this is beautiful 💗 loved this video ALOOOT
I believe that what they talk about is applicable in every religion.
Same here!
Repent. Allah doesnt exist. accept christ
@@smokerx6291 disrespectful. Leave
I love how honest y’all are and accurate you say things that connect to the Bible. Thank you for sharing with us and being open
hahah we are out here!!!!!
Hit the nail on the head with chasing peace. That's the most important thing to me, I value peace of mind like this world values money. & the friendship; do I actually like you as a person, do I enjoy your mind and your conversation? Movies have hoodwinked us into thinking passion is the be all, but passion is fleeting. Peace is stable, & stability equals longevity. Peace>passion
Wow Tori! The point you made about having a your own personal relationship with the Lord even inside marriage was amazing.
You both are truly doing an amazing work by addressing these controversial topics.
Love you both.
Stay blessed ✨
Amen to being friends first! I was friends with my husband for 8 years before we became romantically involved and knowing I can go to him with anything is the biggest comfort to me.
@@elenabomfim665 I think some of the strong infatuation goes away but you should still find your partner to be attractive. Physical attraction is still very important in a relationship. But some of the initial oohs and aahs of being with someone will go away and I mean I don’t get butterflies anymore when I see my husband but I do get comfort. And I do still sometimes get butterflies. It’s just not constant. Hope that helps!
just got done reading my Bible, get on here and see y'all just posted. yayyy!
perfect timing!!!
I sort of disagree with the notion that, "your spouse is not meant to fulfill your alone-ness." Because in the beginning, God did say, "It is not good for man to be alone." That being said, I do want to emphasize this point - Yes, your spouse can be a source of companionship. BUT do not rely on them to fulfill that place in your heart that only God was meant to fulfill - not your friends, not your family, not your spouse, only God Himself can fill that void. Because, I'm sure all married people can attest to this: your spouse will not be perfect. Nor will he or she be able to always live up to the romanticized thoughts you may be having about marriage. Only Christ/God/the Holy Spirit is perfect. You cannot expect any human to fulfill that area in your soul that only He can fulfill.
Is it wrong to have companionship in your marriage? No! God said, "it is not good for man to be alone, so I will make a companion suitable for him." BUT, when you start to place your relationship with your spouse (or anyone) above God, and place expectations on them that only God can fulfill, that's not fair to your spouse (or anyone else). And if you take it too far, can become a source of idolatry if you're placing your spouse(or anyone else) above God.
Amen to that!
He started off saying loneliness. And then went on to say alone-ness. I believe that they mean different things. Being alone doesn't mean being lonely and being lonely doesn't mean you're alone. I'm sure what he meant was loneliness. But I agree with what you said
You missed this being alone and feeling lonely is a different thing.
Love this video & your personalities. Your characters are authentic and engaging. Thanks for the advice! God bless you two!
this brought me to tears, thank you for reflecting the Father's beautiful love through your own love!!
A whole series on boundaries? Yes please!😍😍😍🤩🤩
Oh, I love when you talked about peace over passion. I totally believe our relationships should be a sanctuary of growth.
Hearing you guys talk about communication in relationships just reminds me of HOW important it is in today’s culture. You mentioned topics for future videos/series, that’s a good one!
Every series you guys have done has encouraged me so much! I love how you're so transparent and honest with the truth in God's word. You're wisdom means so much. Thank you for sharing it!!
i totally agree...
Tori is such a sweetheart🦋 . You guys are literally the cutest and your words are so inspiring...may the Lord bless you both💕
Thank you guys for your videos! I had always thought I was religious. I believed in god and went to church growing up until I hit 18 yrs old but never followed him like I do now. I am 28 years old and have been in 3 long term relationships throughout the last 10 years. I am currently going on one year of a season of singleness which is the most I have been alone. This past year has been crazy in getting to know god and knowing he is real. He has come through for me with many answers and is telling me to be patient for a lot of things. I have never been so happy in my life! Your videos are always great to listen to and apply them to life. After three heartbreaks, I am walking with god holding hands, enjoying life with happiness and gratitude every minute and every hour of each day! God bless you two!
You guys are adorable! 😍 Thank you for being so open and transparent. I sooo needed this. I have been struggeling with boundaries so much. And this is helping me. 💗
12:40- protection is the heart of the boundaries. SO GOOD! Love you guys! I’ve really needed to hear all this. The struggle is real in dating!!
I just came across this video, and feel so blessed! I'm waiting until marriage for so many reasons and you mentioned them all, and other beliefs too! Today's generation pressure you and don't always agree with those beliefs because usually it's considered as "weird" or not "logical" etc..., so I came to a point where I felt like I should stop thinking the way I was and listen to people. But now, I'm even more aware and more convinced with the way I always believed because I know it's the best thing for me and that I wouldn't end up regretting things after. This is the best way to end up with a partner who truly respects you and loves you. Thank you guys so much for this video! I'm so happy I discovered your channel! God bless you 🙏🏻♥
That didn't feel like it was 30 min it felt like 10 min. I love that you guys use your testimony's like this! Thanks you guys💛
Y'all are my fav RUclipsrs btw:)) thank you for all the time that goes into researching and creating these videos!
I love how y'all talk in a non condescending manner. I found y'all through this video and just subscribed. I really appreciate y'all being transparent and saying u weren't perfect. Y'all are an amazing couple and you can tell Gods peace through even the screen. God bless y'all's beautiful relationship!
I love how honest you guys are and the advice you give feels like its from your heart. Even tho I am a teenager and i dont plan to date right now I go thru a lot of struggles because all of my non christian friends are already dating and the Enemy is really challenging me in this dating area. I love you guys a lot and i am soooo excited to watch your next videos 🤍
Gosh I love how you guys connect everything to the Bible, this video has so much knowledge and I’m so inspiring! I can’t wait for part 2!
Love you guys💛💛
Okay, y’all need to make a podcast or something cause I’m over here AGAIN taking a page of notes. So good you guys. I love the encouragement 💞
I recently re-entered the world of dating and your videos have been so inspirational and helpful to me to set healthy boundaries to grow an enriching relationship that I can be proud of and be secure in. Thank you so much for making these videos!
I love the comment about Chad being at peace around Tori. When I heard that, my heart melted. Now, at 30, that would be the biggest compliment to me 😍🥰
This was sooooo so so so GOOD!! I sent it to a friend that’s needed this advice for her and her SO!!
Dear Tori and Chad,
Thank you for all the wisdom and encouragement you’ve poured out in this video. I really needed to hear them. The point that stood out to me the most was the “not praying as a unity while dating” and I think that’s so interesting and has brought a new perspective because it’s so easy to be dependent on someone else when it comes to ur walk with the Lord esp when you’re not united under the same covenant yet. Thank you for sharing. Love your wisdom! Keep doing what you’re doing.
I just discovered you guys tonight and this was so encouraging! I actually out loud more than once was like WOW! Such good insight :)
The way he winks 😂 I love the amount of energy and honesty 😊
When me and my now husband were dating we set our boundaries upfront but then every few months would discuss boundaries again to see if anything had changed in what we felt our boundaries were the more we got into our relationship. We would pray about it separately and reflect and then discuss. For instance in the beginning I was a very huggy person I've always been a hugger growing up but when he told me he wasn't big on hugging I respected that and we didn't hug until we had a discussion that he said he was ok with hugging. And we did that for every step even hand holding which a lot of friends of ours didn't understand why we had to discuss something as "small" as hugging or handholding.
Thank you so much. Being a Christian in an LDR has been so challenging. I really needed this.
Love this so much! Brought so much clarity. I'm 20 and really trying to save myself for marriage and walk in the way of the Lord. God bless you guys! Sending lots of love from Malaysia!
I’m a huge believer in real practical boundaries so of course I’ve watched A LOT of “Christian dating boundaries” videos and I have to say this is probably my favorite✨the way you explained everything was so beautiful and real and it was showing boundaries from the peaceful/protective angle rather than depriving/suffering angle and I loved it!💖can’t wait to watch the rest of the series💖
I’m gonna watch this video over and over again. I listened to this video while taking a walk today and I literally started crying. It was so freeing to breathe in some fresh air and just listen to a topic that I never been taught. I’ve always been so confused on how to set boundaries but it’s something I’ve longed to do. Thank you so much right now. I’m literally sobbing right now but it’s like tears of joy and gratitude for all that God has brought me through. Thank you so much for sharing this and being open to God using you as his beautiful vessels. Much love - Maya 🤎
This so good for me to hear in my singleness, you guys have such wisdom! Thank you!❤️ I really relate to your love story and the things that you share. It’s so good to hear your honesty!
Can I just say this video is such great advice! Thank you guys for sharing your heart with us. As a young teenage Christian girl I need older and wiser Christian advice. So I just wanted to say thank you both so much! I’m so thankful that I found you guys! I really truly love your videos! God bless you guys.❤️
Wow... it's so incredibly humbling the way in which this video helped me... I am so much more aware and empowered after having watched this video. I can't thank you guys enough.
Yooo ..I didn't expect a video today . Wow !
Also, the longer the video, the better ! So Watching you guys speak is such a blessing !!!
hahahah well this is a long one hahah Happy we surprised you with a video!!!
I really liked the aspect of not praying together as a unit before marriage. I've never heard it explained as well as you guys have explained it.
Also the whole aspect of looking at your significant other realistically and since love is blind this means hanging out in a group. That's AMAZING cause honestly sometimes it's as though we never move past the crush stage.
Y'all really brought in this video. So much wisdom and INSIGHT!!!!
Love you both and I can't wait for Monday!!!!!
Loved that you spoke about boundaries being a heart issue!! So good, this video taught me so much!!
Also, the description is flames!!
This is so so huge to me at this point in my life.
I feel am at the point in my relationship where i have to sit and discuss with my partner and set some boundaries and this is just coming in in time and sharing more light!
Tori and Chad thank you so much, you remain blessed all your days.
Wow! Dating should not be used to fill a loneliness 👌
literally so pumped for this series!!!
THIS IS MIND BLOWING! Where were you guys in my 20s? Ha ha ha! It took me soooo long to learn that I had no boundaries. I definitely want to use these skills and tips when talking with my daughter about dating. Thank you. You two truly are a gift from God!
I am 100% sure that God wanted me to watch this!! This is exactly what I needed to see right now! Thank you for making this video! You guys just got a new subscriber!!!
just found your channel through gabriel conte. i found this video immediately and it was like God sent me here. the timing is perfect and I can't wait to see more from your channel
I really appreciate that you both addressed the emotional boundaries with such wisdom and boldness. It is something that is not talked about often enough especially from Christian RUclipsrs! 🙌 It reminds me of Proverbs 4:23 - something that I had to learn the hard way. I also really appreciate your perspective on Spiritual boundaries - I have never heard that in a sermon/community group/etc! Thanks y’all for great content 👏
Love this y’all!! I always appreciate your long videos... it shows that y’all put a lot of time and energy and thought into it for us:) can’t wait for the singleness boundaries video!
Woah!! What a wonderfullll video... The boundaries series is hands down the bestest series ever!! The relatibility of the sharings resonated soooo much. The proverbs shared were so apt and in line with whatever you were saying. In lieu with Chad's previous encouragement, the wait was sooooo worth it.
I loved the flow of the conversation and how beautifully you two touched on all 3 aspects of boundaries in dating... especially the discipline part. Thank you for reassuring that delayed gratification has its fruits and that we must be patient throughout.
Boundaries do not handcuff us but bind us for a better tomorrow..life does not take from us anything unless there is something else imminently awaiting its replacement.
I am sooooo looking forward to the upcoming parts as well... Thank you tons for doing this for us. You'll are the bestest! ♥
I think peace is a wonderful description! Thank y'all for y'all realness and venerability!
It was so helpful and so great!!
Love you guys!! I appreciate you guys heart to encourage us all and have a godly perspective on everything!
Man this was sooo goood I thank God for the day I discovered your channel because its been soo helpful😭
Guys, thank you very much. It is really helpful to see relationship through God's eyes and the cross. I always think that He could have chosen another sign for us, christians, but He chose suffering and donation for us in the Cross! I find great depth and sincereness in this video. I was fearing a conversation about boundaries but your advice has given me a lot of peace! Thanks again for sharing!
thank u 4 all this! never thought of it with prayer & soul ties & not really praying as one. was always wanting my ex to pray and lead more, but this makes sense. good on you Chad for wanting to protect her & for respecting her so much. I expressed all my boundaries & my ex just kept crossing them…was my 1st bf ever @ 36 yrs old & was a bust & so heartbreaking
7 months after this video came out and a lot of things that you guys shared makes me think a lot. I'm single but this is like yes, that definitely make sense. Thank you guys.🤍
You guys are amazing! This is the first youtube of you guys I've seen. I wish I would had this talk as a teen. Thanks for doing what you do.
I love the entire content of the video on so many levels to the fullest. I’m 50, been single for a long hot minute which has allowed me to draw near and closer to God with my walk and relationship with Him and I love it because I have a new clean slate on how I will approach relationship according to God’s will...my past relationships were all done according to the world...now I am motivated to approach it according to God and how you handled your relationship is definitely how I would like to enter relationship....being 50 yes I would love to find someone but I am just fine it being me and God only for however long....and He will always be my first heart I seek no matter what. Thank you both for this...such a blessing.
Can please somebody hand them an oscar? The content and advise and teaching of these two human beings is simply amazing! Hallelujah.
So flipping good!!!!! Thank you so much. Every. Single. Phrase. was impactful and meaningful. Thank you for putting in the time to prepare for, record & share this one especially!
Best Christian couple channel! You guys are the most humble and not haughty ❤️thank you
these two are so great
I'm grateful for their channel!
this is sooo good! love is blind, 28 - being in community and being social in your dating! Such an amazing and much needed bit of helps. So helpful to see how your future social life will look like. Communication and protecting your soul, your inner person! Waiting … self-control wow! set you up for security in your relationship! listen to the end! the world would be a different place if we all had this advice and instruction starting at age 10yrs old - to lay a solid foundation- To we reap a wonderful future in your adult life! it’s not about happy but holy - will be so much security in your life.
I watched your videoes on boundaries last year, and I never thought about having boundaries. It was never a thing to me, although we have them because I believe you both explained that when you feel anxious or uncomfortable, a boundary is crossed. It truly helped me.
Watching this during school lunch break!!! Sooooo excited 😊😊
Thank you guys for being vulnerable, non-judgemental, and sharing this!! Great to watch and honestly so convicting of things I can challenge of myself in singleness before asking them of a partner. Keep doin what you do!
I can’t believe I have found you you have been in my unfound dreams you touched on exactly what need thank you for your channel!!!
This was SOOO insightful!! Thank you for letting God use you both in this way to bring light to what many of us need to hear from a Biblical perspective 🙌🏽👏🏼 God bless y’all and your ministries !! So helpful 🙏🏼
Thank you for this video! I read boundaries in dating (the book) and it was extremely helpful! It was great to see this in video form and from your perspective! I completely agree with everything you said! Have a blessed day!
You guys inspire me so much. I am a Christian and I do have the same beliefs when in dating yet I have it a hard time to protect and defend it because people around me especially in this generation...makes me feel like what I belief is "old" "this is the new way" something like that.
It’s been a minute since I’ve commented. It doesn’t mean I don’t love y’all. Life has just been...well...life. I appreciate you! Thanks for the wonderful encouragement and wisdom. I’m excited to see what else God lays on your heart to bless us with. May He continue to bless and keep you. Stay safe and healthy 💜❤️💜
Tori would talk for hours and Chad would never stop looking at her like a cute adorable baby.how cute! 😍 You guys are so incredibly inspiring and thanks for the candid conversations. 👏 Can't wait for more!
This is so good. Thank you for speaking truth in love❤️ I love that the Word of God is the foundation. I'm single but I want to prepare for my future husband. God bless you 🙏🏻
Oh boi those convictions! I am physical as well and have to relearn other love languages.
Guys thanks so much for being so open 🙏🏾
Amen! We all are blessed to have you both guide us❤️ much love :)
"Conviction leads to behavioral change."
Thank you for this talk. As someone who is currently in the middle of said "changes", your words and wisdom really speak to me this season. Not only you guys offer gold nuggets of helpful practical and spiritual advice, but it feels like the struggles are validated AND that they are possible to overcome. You inspire me to keep pursuing Jesus today. Thank you! So blessed!
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I love you guys as individuals and a couple! 🙌🏽💓 you both touched bases on a lot of things i personally feel I needed to hear. I so appreciate the transparency and the heart y’all have for Christ. Thank you for sharing, and I look forward to seeing more of your videos. May God forever bless you 🙏🏽💖
Boundaries can also be not good, too. I met a guy when I moved to go to college that I really liked, but it didn't work because his boundaries were as tall as the Great Wall of China. He had so many, but he never would tell me when I went past his boundaries (he would just stop talking to me if I crossed them). Eventually, I got tired of feeling like I was talking to myself. He was never interested because he "was too busy", he told me this, and then just ghosted me. I realized later that the maybe relationship and friendship, too, must not have meant that much to him if he made no effort.
This is legit top quality content, thank you and God bless you! So helpful for many people.
You guys and your channel are such a light in this world! Thank you so much for all of your videos and making them so deeply rooted in God’s truths. Loved this one and all your videos!
Love how you guys give good and realistic examples for a certain topic that helps us to comprehend more. And thank you because i learned so much from this video and will surely apply some of which to my almost 7 yr relationship 🤍