BOUNDARIES FOR SINGLES BEFORE DATING | valuing yourself, not being used pt 2

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  • Опубликовано: 16 июл 2024

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  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +171

    Don't forget to like this video (only if you liked it tho) hahah.

  • @dariarichards104
    @dariarichards104 3 года назад +794

    “You have to be so hidden in God’s word that they have to seek after Him to find you” now that is some wisdom if I ever saw it

  • @jennie_gossi04
    @jennie_gossi04 3 года назад +249

    “I’m hidden because I know I’m meant to be discovered” PERIOD😍

    • @ragazzasolare77
      @ragazzasolare77 3 года назад +4

      But, we also have to position ourselves to be found. Example, Ruth positioned herself to be found by Boaz.

    • @i.am.michellekirabo
      @i.am.michellekirabo 3 года назад +2

      Amen Amen Amen Thank you Jennifer for noting this down💯❤

    • @maayaantow1034
      @maayaantow1034 3 года назад +1

      😍😍😍

  • @lauren8668
    @lauren8668 3 года назад +335

    Love how you talked about how relationships complement you, not complete you. We are full and complete in Christ alone!

  • @ginnydyck2866
    @ginnydyck2866 3 года назад +256

    Chad's facial expressions when tori was speaking were GOLD

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +25

      She was crushing it!!!

    • @catherined6399
      @catherined6399 3 года назад +9

      @@ToriAndChad Tori is not beating around the bushes here! love it!

  • @Lovi_la
    @Lovi_la 3 года назад +121

    Also, the write up at the end 😲😲😲
    "The only people who would be upset about you having boundaries are those who were benefiting from you having none"
    This right here is gold🥺❤️

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 3 года назад +1

      Absolute GOLD!!!

  • @hopeolivia590
    @hopeolivia590 3 года назад +216

    SHE SAIIDD DISCOUNT 😂😭 know your worth people... God gives good gifts that you don't have to force xx

  • @leannemorin1615
    @leannemorin1615 3 года назад +40

    I grew up in a Christian household, but it never really stuck. Your videos have brought me back to Christ and I will forever be grateful!

  • @CambriaThompson2020
    @CambriaThompson2020 3 года назад +107

    y’all neeeeeeeed a podcast. i would be watching it all the time! you guys are so wise and it’s so helpful to hear from a godly christian perspective that is based from scripture. thankful for y’all :)

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +23

      Awww we want to make one!!! Pray we can make it happen!!!

    • @kaitlynyu4260
      @kaitlynyu4260 3 года назад +5

      @@ToriAndChad YES PLEASE MAKE A PODCAST!!!!

    • @adebisiogunsanya1444
      @adebisiogunsanya1444 3 года назад +3

      Please do

    • @oceansapphire926
      @oceansapphire926 2 года назад

      Yessssss please start a podcast! I would loooooooove that!

    • @jeffreymei1261
      @jeffreymei1261 2 года назад +3

      @@oceansapphire926 Messy Masterpiece Podcast

  • @taylorcamille5493
    @taylorcamille5493 3 года назад +7

    "I'm hidden because I know that I'm meant to be discovered!" She's just dropping gems so casually 👏🏽

  • @ducgiangho9807
    @ducgiangho9807 3 года назад +72

    Always look up at you guys for a Godly marriage, even though i shouldn't idolize marriage.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +22

      It's important to have good examples! We have TONS!!!

  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +42

    hey guys!!! driving home now :) can’t wait to reply to your comments!!!! hope you enjoy the video!!!

  • @radiantlyreanna6436
    @radiantlyreanna6436 3 года назад +13

    "If you don't start acting like your worth it guys are gonna start treating you like that." the hugest lightbulb just went off. I have been asking God why this relationship stuff has been going wrong and why guys just don't want to commit. the truth is that I need to start looking inwardly too me and realizing I am worth it. wowwwww!!! 🤩

  • @mzbuzzy
    @mzbuzzy 3 года назад +4

    Listen, from the first 2 minutes I said to myself "Here goes another Beautiful Christian Couple frolicking in the meadows of Unity and Joy, reminiscing on their singleness as if it only lasted the dew of an early morning ". I literally asked God "Do I have to watch this" and I felt like I needed to continue. I learned about myself and my self pleasing tendencies when it comes to "friendly" guy relationships. I love the feeling of someone checking on me with cute texts. But, in my heart I know it won't lead to anything serious. Thanks for the video. Fellow viewers don't exit the video, they got GEMS

  • @taylormays8750
    @taylormays8750 3 года назад +32

    whewwww tori was spitting that Holy Ghost fireeeeee

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +8

      Just Holy Spirit was hitting everywhere!

  • @Anna-se3cc
    @Anna-se3cc 3 года назад +131

    Also maybe can you do the boundaries you had with Chad when you friend zoned him? Placing boundaries on someone you don’t want to date, but want to stay friends with :)

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +39

      Dang that is a great idea!!!

    • @benjiman7
      @benjiman7 3 года назад +8

      Ooooof dang this one hits home..:: this is what is happening to me rn from a cool friend 😂😂

    • @kaysimorris9529
      @kaysimorris9529 3 года назад +2

      Yes, personally struggling with this one right now!!

    • @justynak3867
      @justynak3867 3 года назад

      I tried and the man kept flirting with me. A professed Christan. I was shaking and blocked him but I blocked him before also and then unblocked. God didn't bless me with good luck. Been alone for so long. Chad said to be strong and not negative naggy Nancy but some day I feel so low, then what. Its hard to let go. Maybe I need more self control. Sometimes I just want to die, to cry.

    • @benjiman7
      @benjiman7 3 года назад +1

      @@justynak3867 hey listen up

  • @tabithaakoto4469
    @tabithaakoto4469 3 года назад +45

    Do you ever just wanna go grab coffee with tori? Lol I do😂

  • @christinelee2535
    @christinelee2535 3 года назад +71

    I am completely embracing my single season right now and this is gold! Im only halfway through the video but I already feel so validated in my beliefs and you guys are spitting absolute wisdom. Thank you Tori and Chad :,) also I died “how mUch cAn I ToUUUUCHHHH”

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +6

      Aww thanks for saying that and for being so kind!!!

  • @MJS.94
    @MJS.94 3 года назад +34

    A muslim girl here! This video is amazing and I wished I found your channel before. Boundaries are so important and everyone should put your advices on practice. MUCH LOVE!

    • @sarahchadwick4672
      @sarahchadwick4672 Год назад

      Hello! How are you doing now? I know this comment was from 2 years ago! 🙊

  • @karengarcia3382
    @karengarcia3382 3 года назад +18

    Y’all are speaking truth over here!!👏🏼👏🏼
    The only one that can satisfy our hearts is God🥰

  • @naomigrace8261
    @naomigrace8261 3 года назад +18

    Psalm 139:23-24
    23 Search me, God, and know my heart;
    test me and know my anxious thoughts.
    24 See if there is any offensive way in me,
    and lead me in the way everlasting.

  • @gathonimwangi6758
    @gathonimwangi6758 3 года назад +10

    Right when I watched this video is exactly when I needed to watch it. Thank-you both.
    "I am hidden because I am meant to be discovered." - I like it!

  • @oreenilolobo
    @oreenilolobo 3 года назад +8

    Can definitely relate to chad about being a people pleaser and I was stuck In that pattern until I read this boundaries book. The book is life changing plus it’s from a biblical perspective!!!! Everyone needs to read it.. thank you for your wisdom guys 💕

  • @breannapreuett7264
    @breannapreuett7264 3 года назад +11

    I’m only in high school, but this was such eye opening and encouraging wisdom! God is using you two for sure!

  • @patriciagithae
    @patriciagithae 3 года назад +32

    Sweet cheese!!! Its 2am😱😱i literally just finished my bedtime prayers then saw this! sadly I have exams tomorrow so imma save this for the weekend. Love you guys♥️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +10

      Aww don't stay up late to watch! Make sure to focus on your exams and getting good sleep! We love you! Praying it goes well!

    • @danielleschipper5705
      @danielleschipper5705 3 года назад +5

      Good luck with your exams.

    • @katarzynawronska6813
      @katarzynawronska6813 3 года назад +2

      good luck with the exams!

    • @patriciagithae
      @patriciagithae 3 года назад +3

      Thanks guys...now I'm just waiting to graduate

  • @coffeewithari5880
    @coffeewithari5880 3 года назад +27

    Wow, perfect timing- this confirmed my interactions with some of my guy friends. Thank you 🙏 Dios les bendiga!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +6

      Thanks for the support and commenting!

  • @katherinearthur6827
    @katherinearthur6827 3 года назад +12

    I just recently discovered y'alls channel and have been so encouraged by it! I so appreciate how open both of you are with your struggles and how God has moved in your life. I was just recently praying and hoping that God would provide godly resources that would help me in growing into the woman that He wants me to be. So stumbling across your channel was a huge blessing and answer to prayer! God has really spoken to me through your videos, so thank you for allowing Christ to speak through you!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +1

      Aww dang that is an amazing testimony! We are so thankful you found us!!! Thank you for watching!

  • @LaurenEllis1
    @LaurenEllis1 3 года назад +24

    Videos like these make me really really wish I knew Jesus earlier in life... take notes ladies and gents! Save yourself from hurt and really consider taking these points seriously. You won’t regret it🙏🏼

  • @hannah.merritt
    @hannah.merritt 3 года назад +4

    literally I’m screaming “GO OFF THEN TORI!” speaking only facts rn!

  • @aliviaksmith
    @aliviaksmith 3 года назад +16

    The Holy Spirit is speaking through yall 😍

  • @juniaestola3684
    @juniaestola3684 3 года назад +46

    WOW THIS WAS SO GOOD!!! & I needed this so much!! Tori you should seriously write a book 😂😂 no but for real this single girl absolutely loved all this truth!!

  • @ashleyh.2178
    @ashleyh.2178 3 года назад +12

    ahhhh yessss 🙌🏼 love how you talked about establishing boundaries. I struggled with people-pleasing too and the reminder that Jesus even established them went right to my spirit!!

  • @britainelise9374
    @britainelise9374 3 года назад +9

    Y’all, my heart needed 👏 to 👏 hear 👏 this 👏 today 👏 Thank you!!

  • @thaisass6024
    @thaisass6024 3 года назад +12

    This was so pure, loving, remarkable and overall, humble. It's amazing to me that I can find videos like this on the internet and have it be filled with so much grace and good intention. I think you guys are really going to become something special. Thank you for this ♥️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +1

      Aww wow thank you so much for saying all of that! Thank you thank you thank you!

  • @onicakaruga8626
    @onicakaruga8626 3 года назад +9

    Discovered you guys yesterday. Spent the day watching your videos back to back. And I couldn’t be more grateful for your content. I hope you know you are making a difference and inspiring many. Lots of love from Kenya 🇰🇪

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +2

      Aww thank you for watching our older content! That means a ton!

  • @anjinteal7614
    @anjinteal7614 3 года назад

    Yall literally make the perfect balance of serious and funny vids. I love it!

  • @cailynhoneycutt6364
    @cailynhoneycutt6364 3 года назад

    Boundaries and boundaries in dating are both my favorite books!!!! Thank you so much for the video! I needed this!

  • @Noemie2018
    @Noemie2018 3 года назад

    so glad I found your channel! It is filled to the brim with wisdom and beautiful faith, had to subscribe after just a few minutes!! thank you for your content and your words

  • @brielleblood7176
    @brielleblood7176 3 года назад +4

    i look forward to these so much!! thank you thank you💗

  • @kierrakelly6490
    @kierrakelly6490 3 года назад

    I am not even seven minutes in, and Tori, you were speaking on how I was feeling yesterday. That is crazy. Thank you for that message. I needed that.

  • @hannahsmith1993
    @hannahsmith1993 3 года назад +1

    Tori you are so beautiful, inside and out!!! And your channel is so encouraging! Thanks guys!

  • @gabrielamartinyuk9894
    @gabrielamartinyuk9894 3 года назад

    I love how he leans into her! It’s so endearing .

  • @rayeSmith7
    @rayeSmith7 3 года назад

    This video is incredible!! So many wise words that I am soaking up - thank you so much for your wisdom Tori and Chad!🙏🏼❤️

  • @sarahguindon1188
    @sarahguindon1188 3 года назад +3

    I’m currently going through a difficult time letting go of a guy who I have a romantic past with, but still talk to everyday because he’s my best friend. We’re both Christian’s, but have a deep history of living in sin when we’re together. When I saw this was the topic of this weeks video, it was such a sign from God. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. And tori your such a beautiful person inside and out. So glad I stumbled across your guy’s channel😊 Will continue to support you guys and watch your videos as I always walk away with such great Christian centred advice

  • @elsiehochstetler8800
    @elsiehochstetler8800 3 года назад

    you guys are so inspirational! i hadn't realized till i listened to this video that it is so important to have boundaries . thank~ you guys ... you opened an eye for me!

  • @1012345MB
    @1012345MB 2 года назад +1

    This series is 🔥🔥 so needed

  • @CassidyJKing
    @CassidyJKing 2 года назад

    I’m watching these videos so late lol bc I just discovered y’all, but can I just say WOW.
    So much wisdom and truth in this video!! It honestly really hit home with me. I appreciate y’all being so honest and real. Keep up the good work, i can definitely feel God speaking through y’all!! :)

  • @ratchl
    @ratchl 3 года назад +1

    I love how encouraging you guys are to one another ❤️ thank you for another great video!

  • @taennyh9276
    @taennyh9276 3 года назад +1

    Thank you guys for that video. It’s so encouraging to me!!! Love it 🧡
    May God bless you 🙏🏽

  • @berdineaangeenbrug9516
    @berdineaangeenbrug9516 3 года назад +2

    "What you consume, you will end up wanting." I want your sweater lol 😍 Your video's are soo good! They helped me really! Thank you so much ❤

  • @hbunge022
    @hbunge022 3 года назад

    I'm finally getting around to watching the older videos and had to stop this one and save for later when I could take notes on all the truth bombs!! thank y'all for sharing such Godly wisdom!!

  • @kelceyluttrell4970
    @kelceyluttrell4970 3 года назад +3

    This was so beautifully said and so incredibly wise. Thank you for doing what Gods called you to do. This is exactly what I needed 🤍

  • @feliciaahlander1448
    @feliciaahlander1448 3 года назад

    I just want to say THANK YOU for addressing all these difficult topics. Do not think you understand how much it means to us that you talk about this, it helps so so much🤍🤍

  • @MaiteSa
    @MaiteSa 3 года назад +7

    So excited for this video! Thank you two for keeping me strong in this walk of purity! 😊

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for being willing to watch our videos!!!

  • @TheTravelingExplorer
    @TheTravelingExplorer 3 года назад

    I needed this video so much! Thank you guys for posting this!!!

  • @ginadossantos1297
    @ginadossantos1297 3 года назад

    This is such a comfort channel for me lately.

  • @violaizkool123
    @violaizkool123 3 года назад +1

    Love y'alls videos, always so uplifting and helpful. Thank you- fav RUclipsrs😊

  • @Jo-Kerkmann17
    @Jo-Kerkmann17 3 года назад +3

    I literally waited days to find a new video of you guys. You are awesome

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +1

      hahah have you watched all the older ones?!

  • @angielainey2003
    @angielainey2003 2 года назад

    this channel is such a safe place

  • @Anna-se3cc
    @Anna-se3cc 3 года назад +11

    Love this!! Haha Tori is just doing so many mic drop statements of wisdom. Thank you for sharing all these series. So many people are learning from the wisdom you all have to share!💞

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад

      Awww thanks for saying that!

  • @rosieposie3712
    @rosieposie3712 3 года назад +1

    I love love love seeing both of you. You complete each other wonderfully. And that messages are very valuable. I’m so thankful that i found this channel. I literally grab my notes and pause every minutes or so. May i live a life full of joy and love in God’s way like you guys. Thank you so much!

  • @jaderobertsonnn
    @jaderobertsonnn 3 года назад +7

    So many gems in this, loved it !! Definitely going to be on repeat.

  • @chinazaanyaegbunam1392
    @chinazaanyaegbunam1392 3 года назад +7

    Y'all literally give the best advice. Love to you both honestly 🤍🤍

  • @allison_noelle
    @allison_noelle 3 года назад

    I’ve never had someone so accurately describe the struggles of being a people pleaser. Chad put words to my internal struggle no one sees or knows about. You both spoke beautifully 🤍

  • @sabrinah6827
    @sabrinah6827 3 года назад +3

    Love this!! Thank you guys so much! I love your channel! it's so helpful and needed! God bless you guys!!

  • @feavenweldemichael3392
    @feavenweldemichael3392 3 года назад +3

    This convicted me and I’m so happy I got to hear this today. It’s was actually perfect timing. I watched this video 3times and sent it to a couple of friends. Thank you Chad and Tori, y’all are amazing!!!! THANK YOUUUUU 💛

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +1

      SO happy you liked it! and thank you for watching and sending to other people! that helps a lot!

  • @paulawolmarans4023
    @paulawolmarans4023 3 года назад +2

    love this! please keep making more of these I love that they are super applicable and relevant for singles :)

  • @sarahjeancordova536
    @sarahjeancordova536 3 года назад +1

    This topic is an eye opener to all the girls out there who jump off to compromise their self worth because of holding on to someone continuously.

  • @christinawatkinsyoutube
    @christinawatkinsyoutube 3 года назад

    some of the stuff ya'll whack out is GOLD!!! i need to get my notebook!!!

  • @treesaroshnic.j.3663
    @treesaroshnic.j.3663 3 года назад

    Thankyou Tori and Chad, for the advice, esp touched me that you said that you have to know the creater who made you to know yourself

  • @iftheslipperfits
    @iftheslipperfits 3 года назад

    This has been so incredibly helpful. So much wisdom. Thank you to you both 💗

  • @wankumbugracenangoyi1367
    @wankumbugracenangoyi1367 3 года назад +3

    Love this!! This God given wisdom is just "WOW"!!!! God bless you guys😊

  • @jemimawheatley4825
    @jemimawheatley4825 3 года назад +2

    This is so good! Love what you said about not lowering your standards 🔥

  • @ariannajoy3417
    @ariannajoy3417 3 года назад +3

    This is awesome! Thank you for this I love that you pointed out the importance of knowing your worth in God, and having enough love for the other individual to put those boundaries 🤍 beautifully said 👏🏽

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +1

      yessssss!!! thank you for the loveee!

  • @lindseymitchell9499
    @lindseymitchell9499 3 года назад +5

    Guys, thank you SO MUCH! Really late to the dating game, and I just mustered up the courage to try online dating, but now I'm feeling insecure. Tori, your tips on spiritual boundaries are great - I've never heard that anywhere else! Keep it coming ya'll, my vulnerable soul needs it! :)

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +2

      Aww we got yoru back Lindsey! Know your worth and remember 2 Tim 1:7, God does NOT work in the spirit of fear (aka insecurity...) that is a work of the enemy!

  • @livinlife9555
    @livinlife9555 3 года назад

    so so good! as a single person, it was both convicting and encouraging! so many people need to hear this! thank you for sharing :)

  • @CanadianBatmanNerd
    @CanadianBatmanNerd 3 года назад

    Thank you for talking about this. I've only ever heard about boundaries in dating relationships. No one ever told me I can (and should) have boundaries in my friendships with guys. Crazy man.

  • @camtalks25
    @camtalks25 2 года назад +1

    I learned so much new wisdom! This video is awesome, know a lot of friends who need to hear this! God bless you guys

  • @marcovforte
    @marcovforte 3 года назад

    Can totally relate to that feeling of distracting yourself Chad. Constantly texting and talking to people to get your fill, especially women. I totally get that and understand that feeling. Something I've become very aware of recently as a single person and have been working on for a while now. Thanks for sharing that!

  • @Harvester2222
    @Harvester2222 3 года назад +1

    I'm new to your channel. I am learning so much. I really struggle with boundaries on different levels but mostly with the opposite sex.
    I actually have that book & started reading it.
    I am a people pleaser and I self sabotage myself as well, BIG time!

  • @rachelsjames21
    @rachelsjames21 3 года назад

    Just found your channel last night under recommended
    . Wow! Already just loved hearing about your love story segments and this video about singleness. God spoke to me through you both about being comfortable with being single and just trusting Him with my future husband. I'm 25 and this video encouraged me to continue to seek Christ and love myself. Loved the boundaries talk too. I'm going to try sobering to hear God's voice 🙂

  • @victory1835
    @victory1835 3 года назад

    Thank you guys so much for this video. It‘s so encouraging and helpful knowing we are not alone. God bless you!❤️🙏🏾

  • @girlyeyes1126
    @girlyeyes1126 3 года назад

    before I start, just wanted to say that I came from part one and absolutely LOVED IT. as a teenager, ya'll are giving such great wisdom that I will definitely take to heart. Not only that but you guys seem like REAL PEOPLE. So many times I've seen series like this where Christian couples give good advice but it seems so mechanical. You guys are great! I'm glad the Lord is able to use you in this way. Thanks for this!

  • @taynacarvalho6471
    @taynacarvalho6471 3 года назад

    I'm just watching this and I'm like 🥺🔥😭🔥 I can't describe how much I needed to hear this. thanks for speaking truth with love and for showing us what we don't want to admit🤭💙 God bless you guys even more! 🙏🏾

  • @andrecoetzee5082
    @andrecoetzee5082 8 месяцев назад

    Your wisdom about relationships is just so mature and wise. I really love it.

  • @bethanybraselton2386
    @bethanybraselton2386 3 года назад +3

    this video was sooo good and super helpful thank you for your hard work!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +2

      Thank you for taking the time to watch this video and encourage us!!!

  • @rileyanderson4980
    @rileyanderson4980 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this. It’s nice to here from someone the same age as me!

  • @moriahs3900
    @moriahs3900 3 года назад +3

    Also Tori definitely killed it in this video but Chad you're rocking the caption game as always. You guys are both rock stars 😎

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +1

      Aww thanks for saying that, Moriah! We love seeing your name pop up!

  • @PatMan_95
    @PatMan_95 3 года назад +3

    Haven't started the video yet, but I'm single right now and I already know this video will be helpful, having watched all the other videos in this series! So thankful for you guys and this channel. God bless you both!
    also... TORI YOU ARE SO POWERFUL! ... with the strength that comes from God :)

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад

      Hope you loved it!!! Thanks for being so kind!!!

  • @katrinaweicker654
    @katrinaweicker654 3 года назад +3

    Do you guys ever miss?? The amount of wisdom and clarity that has come to me through videos like this from you guys is truly mind-blowing and I can't begin to tell you how grateful I am

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +3

      hahah if it means anything it took us three tries on three different days to get through this video because we felt like it just wasn't working...

  • @wezouskimac5659
    @wezouskimac5659 3 года назад

    ive been watching the videos non stop, yall need a podcast likeeeeee❤️‍🔥🔥

  • @alphy3348
    @alphy3348 3 года назад +7

    i just got my answer which ive been asking god since the end of my last relationship..my brain was so much disturbed about thoughst like when ill meet the right one....how do i know hes the right one...wat if its i end up with someone just because of some sort of commitment issues..
    these doubts kept messing with my studies and my primary duties and responsibilities in life.
    i now understand its important to know we are complete in christ with or without our partner and that christs grace is sufficient for us...
    but not that i feel that way right now..but just that now i k i gotta work on that before meeting ''the right person''(im just 19 so maybe i have time)
    thankyou so much tori and chad..like from the heart.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +2

      Yes and Amen! We are complete in Christ ALONE! and you have SO SO SO MUCH time! Don't jeopardize your peace because you're in a rush to get what God has already promised you! Walk in confidence knowing He has the best for you!

  • @jtraffie1523
    @jtraffie1523 3 года назад

    Chad and Tori!! You guys I’ve absolutely loved these videos., I am in a single season in my life right now, and you guys have had so much insight. Differently then most I just have just recently really come to a place where I’m interested in having a relationship, it’s scary world out there and to have spaces like this one that Christ based but at the same time so common sense is awesome!! Thanks for the videos. Jethro

  • @coffeewithari5880
    @coffeewithari5880 3 года назад +4

    I love this series! It would be super awesome if you guys could also talk about when to have the dreaded DTR (define the relationship) in the context of friendship to dating, and how to know when one should move on and not rot in the friend-zone. :) Thanks again!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +2

      Those are great things for us to focus on and talk about! Did you by chance watch our first Boundaries video?!

  • @lyttle1832
    @lyttle1832 10 месяцев назад

    I first listened to this video 2 years ago when I had come freshly out of a relationship and mehhnnnn did I forget all these nuggets you two are dropping and did the exact opposite this past two years!!!
    This is definitely hitting different! Gash you’ll definitely go round in circles till you learn the lesson mean for you smh

  • @isabellalacy9901
    @isabellalacy9901 3 года назад +2

    I’m excited to watch this video! I’m excited to see what God has put on y’all’s hearts for this video

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +1

      Woooo!! Let us know what you think!!!

  • @hopeadamson8217
    @hopeadamson8217 3 года назад

    I’ve read Boundaries toooooo!!!! It’s so amazing!!!!!!! It challenged me too!!!

  • @saracampbell3347
    @saracampbell3347 2 года назад +1

    I love how Chad puts the question to us of "Is what I'm doing giving me life?" I have found that statement to be so true. If we are focused on material, worldly things we aren't able to feel content or have true meaning. We find life through Christ. A lot of people have asked me when I'm going to start dating and I tell them that I want to find myself through God first. Watching your videos has helped me be content in this current phase of my life knowing that I'm taking this season to know God and myself better. Thank you for taking the time to put these videos together ❤

  • @hannahanderson782
    @hannahanderson782 3 года назад

    This video has spoken to literally EVERYTHING that the Lord has been speaking to me, laying on my heart and convicting me of recently. Thank you for your wisdom! I took three pages of notes ☺️ please PLEASE do the Q&A!!

  • @lillyannavillarreal
    @lillyannavillarreal 3 года назад +2

    I haven’t even finished the video yet... but I just feel like they’re my parents, spitting straight FACTS right to me 🥺