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the widow was only Only said to Choose freely only After because her husband had died.... But Before Marriage, Somebody in christ Either your a Men or Women God already has your Partner who he has made just For You... So NO, you can not just go After your own will or go to whoever you want just because they are in the Lord too,No! because you will go through relationships and thats not from God those are just your own emotions and wrong decisions... A Real Son of God has to wait and pray for your Husband and Wife and wait on the Lord for your Wife or your Husband he has already made for you.... and i Can back that up With in the Bible.... All of this video most of 90% is wrongly guided for a Men or women of God....😞🤦🏻♂ The right way to pray to the Lord is, ""God guide me to the Wife or Husband you have destined for me since the beginning of the Creation of the World"" Because God already has your Men or women God created for you To Glory God within your Life and for boths of yalls Purpose God set for yall too.... Other else you will just go through your own mistakes and false emotions and thats the Same enemy trapping you......
Thank you Vlad! This is the clarity I need. This video + Sacred Search by Gary Thomas has been super helpful. "Lord, will you please give me a woman who loves the Lord more than me" WOW.
I couldn't agree more with you. I was sexually abused and humiliated as a child and grew up incapable of dating or having a gf. Although I felt the physical desire for sex I was also scared to even try to do it. I never dated successfully so that it became a dating relationship. So I retreated inward and engaged in fantasy and self pleasuring. Now I am in recovery and the cure includes no dating and no sexual activity. I am single and celibate and abstinent. I'm finally at peace knowing this is the life I want for me now!
I am 41 years old never thought about marriage or settling down because I was always having to much fun lusting for women at the night clubs for half my life. I started attending my local church to brake free from sin and after one year of attending bible college and serving as usher, for the first time I want to get married to a woman of God and I no longer desire to go to the night clubs to seek woman. So far, there is one young woman who has been so nice to me at church since day one, and I am believing and asking God for her to be the one thank God and these pastors for helping me brake free.
Literally made me cry when Lana said she had to remind her self " I am a new creation" when she felt rejected and all her fears came back about being not good enough after her past.. ladies, you are a new creation, let God do his work.. Like an onion.. let each layer fall off. This goes for guys as well, let God renew your mind daily. - I had to tell myself- I am an new creation! - I am a new creation!!
I live Vlad’s messages, but it’s kind of hypocritical to say to wait months before getting into a new relationship but Lana literally started monkey branching over to Vlad while in was dating someone else.
"If you’re single and you’re dating someone who’s addicted and they don’t seek deliverance nor do they want to put any kind of disciple in their lives, drop them like a hot potato and run from them like a plague." PREACH! Thank you, God, for this!
My fiancéé is Indian and i'm African american. Her family always wanted her to marry an Indian guy, but my family just desired me to marry a woman of God and the person God had for me. There is the culture barrier between us, but mainly for her family, but we're in love and we're seeing God move on our behalf, and in her family's hearts 🙏🏿
Made me laugh when you talked about Red Flag number 13-Praying to change the person.- IT SPOKE TO ME INDEED! "It's better to wait for God to bring the right person to you than to wait for God to change the wrong person" God surely wants me to watch this. Also, thank you Lana for reminding me that God loves us and that we are precious to Him and that we are WORTHY! I love you guys! God is using you to be a blessing to us. To God Be The Glory! Everything you talked about, gives me enough confirmation from the Lord! Thank you heaps! - Jessie from Philippines.
I have heard by many believers that God has led people together. God does lead and guide in everything. God said to do everything through prayer and supplication.
OK so it's five minutes in and pastor Vlad is already coming for me. "You want someone to take care of you but are you taking care of you?" ... oh Lord Jesus help me
I'm watching this a year later...but im going through a season of coming through a failed marriage, failed relationships and unwanted pregnancies and i recently had a baby and really wanted to be with the father of my new born but he didnt share the same sentiment. Ive been fasting & praying for God to show me some direction and reveal to me if i should continue standing in faith for breakthrough. Ive been battling unworthiness and all my partners have left me for someone else, I came across this video which has really blessed me and brought some comfort. PLEASE KEEP ME IN PRAYER. THANK YOU!
Watching this at my job- work overnights as a Crisis Counselor on the 988 Suicide Hotline and watching you guys has truly blessed me and I’m sure it also blessed the people I counsel!!! Bc I get to extend everything I learn here to them. Thank you ❤️ Praise Jesus
I am rewatching and married. I am a believer but my husband is not. This video has been great counsel to me. Not to try to change him but to change myself. Thank you
I wish my daughters find a man like this pastor!! It is a meddle in a haystack....and he was sound enough to find a lady of the Lord like his wife! She also was wise enough and blessed enough to choose him. Thank you sooo much for allowing Father to use your talents! I am sharing this with my children. May be high-school kids, Yet is never to early to learn!
A friend of mine married an Elder of a church. Reads and pray all the time and yet he cheated on her twice and slept with a family member of hers. Ask God for his discernment when being approached by Any man.
The thing that stuck out to me was that "If she is in the Lord, that's the green light to persue" I pray for and answer, but I already have it. She's in the Lord. Word up!
As a single man , open to a kingdom marriage , this gave me hope and helped me to self access and access who I entertain in hopes of developing a relationship with them
Identifying abusive, narcissistic or obsessive suitors, reviewing his or her closest friends who are not decent or godly and the people he or she follows on Facebook,etc. also are EXTREMELY important and are at the top of my list.
watching this now a year after being with someone who I wasn’t really meant to be with but ignoring all the red flags it’s crazy how all of this is ringing truth into my ear after learning all of this the hard way. But it really stuck with me and this video just reminded me how vital it is to actually appreciate my identity and being single to heal from all of the things I’ve been through. I can only thank the Lord.
This is such rich teaching and THIS is the kind of dating, marriage and singleness advice we need more of in the Church! I’ve been single as a Pringle for a while 😂 and I’m not complaining because Christ has done soo much healing and work in this season Glory This is good teaching.
Excellent. Sunday school should teach this. Parent's should also be taught this. Preach this EVERWHERE. Thank you. God bless you. I love that you look for one that loves God more then you....then they know how to love. Stating flags is so perfect. And recognizing to be aware of loss of peace. You can add to your teaching to recognize confusion. Should you or shouldn't you. God is not the author of confusion but of love power and a sound mind. Not a confused mind.
most 90% of these steps are wrongly guided and said for a Men or Women of God..... the widow was only Only said to Choose freely only After because her husband had died.... But Before Marriage, Somebody in christ Either your a Men or Women God already has your Partner who he has made just For You... So NO, you can not just go After your own will or go to whoever you want just because they are in the Lord too,No! because you will go through relationships and thats not from God those are just your own emotions and wrong decisions... A Real Son of God has to wait and pray for your Husband and Wife and wait on the Lord for your Wife or your Husband he has already made for you.... and i Can back that up With in the Bible.... All of this video most of 90% is wrongly guided for a Men or women of God....😞🤦🏻♂ The right way to pray to the Lord is, ""God guide me to the Wife or Husband you have destined for me since the beginning of the Creation of the World"" Because God already has your Men or women God created for you To Glory God within your Life and for boths of yalls Purpose God set for yall too.... Other else you will just go through your own mistakes and false emotions and thats the Same enemy trapping you......
Thank you Lana, I needed that reminder to know that I am an amazing woman of God and my past does not define me, it informs and gives me wisdom. I am good enough and I will continue to work on being the wife my husband dreams of. I continue to pray for your ministry. Thank you Pastor Vlad....I have been following your series on the Holy Spirit and He has literally become my best friend. Continue to shine for God.
I’ve been praying for such a while for confirmation from God that my fiancé is who he ordained me to marry, and not even a couple hours ago and I asked for confirmation again and then he brings me across this video! God is good
In a time where preachers act supra Holy and as if sin never came their way, we have this couple time and again talk about their mess and use their sin to teach us to stay away from sin. This is the kind of teaching we need. Love you guys.
When she said: "I AM WORTHY. Jesus Christ has cleansed my past and doesn't see me like that..." Thank you so much for sharing that - it spoke to me and I know it spoke to many other females as well
my son is 22 yrs old holding a small job. Spend all his income on friends and girl friend. They takes loans Pastor please pray for him to get rid of all this and take up. Jobs with better prospects. And get rid of all bad habits.
Father, please help Melba's son to become a responsible, godly young man. In every direction he goes, may he run into You -- hear Your voice, see Scriptures, hear Your Word, follow Your leading. May He not be able to resist Your Spirit and Your love. In Jesus's Mighty Name.....
Same here, from nagaland my most favorite man of God, I wish & praying that the world still have more man like pastor Vlad & one to be my husband after I'm ready for marriage
Beautiful testimony! Marriage is one of the greatest gift from God. It's important to marry the "one" God's will. Even there's a challenge but your love, obedience to God will stuck you together.
For two days I had feelings of anxiety, worry and loneliness, and I watched Isaiah's and Vlad's videos each time, the content not being relevant. After a few minutes in the video all those bad feelings even loneliness went away, disappeared. It's incredible because that has never happened before with other videos. God is blessing me through your videos I guess🙂
Amen! What a great teaching. I’m watching from Papua New Guinea and I’m so glad I watched this in my single season. Jesus is the only way. I’m so blessed by this Word.
“It’s better to wait for God to bring the right person to you than to change the wrong person that you bring to God (wrong person is the one you ignore all the red flags but you still do it because you are really infatuated, ignoring common sense, your own peace and wisdom of the wise counsel around you).” I really needed to hear this!!! What a timely Word and answered prayer. God is good. Thank you for your ministry and heart to serve singles through this. May God continue to bless and increase you both, your baby to come (praise God!) and your ministry. 🙏🙏🙏
Marrying is free will from God has given his word, whoever we like but only who's in the lord that's again spiritually ,practically so true makes sense.Thank God for the strong relevant message.
I love vlad and Isaiah so much they help me a lot ,ever since I started going to church I’ve been watching them and they helped me understand things so vividly the main thing I wanna focus on now is to stop getting overwhelmingly nervous before doing anything thank u vlad and Isaiah love from the Bahamas ❤️
Wow! Thank you! As a widow and dealing with being ready to start dating hearing the Truth, "she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord." Having that green light as long as they are in the Lord is amazing. I have been waiting for supernatural confirmations, but now I feel even more freedom!
I appreciate your honesty and openness Vlad and Lana in explaining how you came together and explaining the red flags that show that a relationship should not happen. Yes the Lord has to be number one in your marriage to have his blessing.
Thank you for this. I found out some of the red flags are me. So I gotta work on myself. So true about you are marrying into the family because of similarities for sure. I just read about Abraham begging his servant not to get a wife for his son Isaac from the Canaanites (if we remember, they were cursed); but from his family. This wasn't because they believed in God, but because of the similarities in their family. I believe God does communicate with us about guys though. I remember being warned about a guy having a girlfriend, also about not even talking to a certain guy, who I found out later was an atheist. This is just awesome! I love how this just works my brain! Thank you again! Love your beautiful story!🌷🌷🌷
Thank you Lana and Vlad This was a blessing especially being reminder the importance of not rushing into things when you are single and dating . I’m turning 38 on Sunday and I’ve been through one marriage and other relationships that have failed multiple times . However , I’m grateful for content like this that reminds me it’s ok to be single and serving the Lord until that special time for the right person by first becoming the right person through the word of God . And praying to finish my bachelors degree in seminary and to share the gospel !
This was really revealing to me thank you so much.. my Ex dumped me and crazy enough she is the reason why I honestly came to the feet of God and have giving myself even more to him about 2 years ago we went to the same church and I started to get more into touch to the Lord and guess what a lot of negativity started to happen to myself and then we grew apart. She was and is very knowledgeable about the Bible but I found out she is dating someone who is part of the Yoruba religion or the man she is dating now practices Santeria just like her ex who she had a son with prior to me. This makes a lot of sense to me now so glad I came across this video things are just making a lot of sense to me now that I am single I want to establish a relationship with God not with a woman. Amen 🙏🏻
This is couple goals! Love you both! So powerful for a single Christian like me. I've had these questions! I've thought there was some big sign I was supposed to wait for. Thank you for clarification!
Yes you do wait on the Lord!!!! Dont fall under the enemies trap With your own false emotions and own mistakes... Most of these youtube relationship guidense are 90% wrongly guided and not well spoken with the Real word of God🤧🤦🏻♂🤦🏻♂.... God already has your Wife or Husband God has made for you to Fulfill your purpose and Glory his Name!!!! So just pray and Wait upon the Lord for his perfect timing he has set for your Life🙏🙏
@@stephanienorris3959 Yes it will be my pleasure😊🙏, Read Genesis Chapter 24: verse 14 Thats the Story where Abraham prays unto the Lord for Guidance so God can bring to them Who will be Isaac's Wife; Abrahams son, who his Wife will be, Rebeka👰🏼. Hear me out,, In that same Verse 14, The same Word of God saids that Abraham said, Let her be the one you have *Appointed* for my son Isaac🙏❤ Thats the KEYWORD *APPOINTED* In other words he said Let that Women be the one you have Chosen and made since the creation of the World that will be my Son's Wife ❤👰🏼 So you see, Everybody who is in Christ marked with a Purpose God already has the Person you will Marry, but not only to marry but To Also Glorify and fullfills both of yalls Purpose together from the Lord!!!!❤🙏 And I can give many more examples in the bible that can backup Gods *Appointed* Kingdom-Ordained spouse for you but i will go for Hours explaining this Revelation and Topic because this is one of the Topics i Love teaching, the right way and the Truth from the Lords Word❤🙏 So please Listen, most of these youtube videos about Marriages or How to Find the right one,,, 90% of them are wrong guided and not well spoken😞🤦🏻♂ and *Not* well spoken with the bible,, they Just explain their Experiences and Etc and that is a BIG ERROR!!! for Gods People who are waiting upon the Lord for their Kingdom-Ordained Spouse.. Because all they doing is Misleading them to a Trap set by the enemy... Write down this Quote ❤✍️ " You don't choose who will be your Spouse, God chooses that Person for you, the Person who he Created and Made and *Appointed* just for you to Fullfill Gods Purpose in this world " ❤🙏 Keep in mind!!! that whenever preachers or pastors say, "Go look for your Spouse or If that relationship didnt work go Look for the next one" Beaware of that, because Thats the same Enemy setting you a Trap because you will fall in Your own False emotions and Own mistakes.... So Yes, Wait upon Gods perfect timing for you, because God has your "Appointed* kingdom-Ordained spouse all in Control and in his hands 🙏❤ Amen! Blessings!
@@bryan0710 1. Then, theoretically speaking, there should be 50% men and 50% women population in the world, if God has "one" person for each individual. That's clearly not the case. 2. Why does God allow widows to marry other men and vice versa if just ONE person was supposed to be their partner, is God inconsistent in his world? 3. Even if there was this system of one predestined individual for another, the system broke with Adam's sin and will not be restored until the forms a new Jerusalem. The reason our bodies have physical death is that God's system is long broken and is awaiting reconstruction!
Nobody has EVER made a video or book (and I watch and read a lot) like this! Thank you SO much for your twos wisdom and honesty. I keep praying for God to have my man of God appear when I need to not put so much focus on God delivering Him but me becoming a better Woman of God and the right one will come
Thank you so much for this. I’m getting married in a month and what Pastor Vlad said about struggling with Lana’s past is exactly what I’m going through and something that I fear. My future husband has given his life totally over to God and has changed completely but I’ve been struggling with forgetting his past. This was so encouraging. Thank you.
I am rewatching from Zimbabwe,. The first time i watched this In November last year , God used you guys to help confirm that i needed to leave my 2 year relationship. So many red flags on both the fundamentals and the pastoral advice
Happy birthday Vlad!😊 I wish you and your wife all the best with your ministry and I am happy to be accepted in. ☺ And also thank you for your present! 😀🥂🎁🎂 😀
Such a blessing…. Whoooosh!!! The biggest red flag for me is being with someone you’re already trying to change… and whose closest friends aren’t God chasers.
I'm watching from Albany, Georgia! I've followed Pastor Vlad for a bit on IG, and I really appreciate the fact that you always dig deep into the Word and do your best to present it without any bias!! Thanks a ton for the wisdom y'all have bestowed upon me, as I've basically been waiting on an angel or a sign from God to show me who to date and eventually marry! May the good Lord continue to bless both y'all immensely!!! 🙌
When I saw you recommend “single ready to mingle” I laughed so hard because I’m constantly telling God and others: “I’m single NOT READY to mingle”. But I feel God is soon leading me to be more social and meet others lol. (Whether to meet a potential significant other or simply a platonic friend who is a believer) 😂
This is all much appreciated 😊 I would like to add that it's anyone who hasn't healed from a relationship, whether recent, not so recent, or long ago. If someone is still holding up a candle/ shrine to someone long ago, then that person has been thoroughly romanticized in their head, and nothing you do or are, will be able to ever meet this ideal. Not the same for someone who sincerely still feels brotherly/sisterly love and respect for their deceased/ex loved one. This can actually be a good sign. Run from anyone who runs their ex/exes down. They are someone who is not prepared to take responsibility for their own actions that weren't good, and were more than likely a contributing factor/s. They will do the same to you. Do your very best to find out why the previous relationship ended. Maybe they committed adultery etc. There should be no harm in asking his family and friends, and visa versa. Don't fall for love is blind. If it's blind, it's not real. Also the very obvious but most often made mistake, " He/she is TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE!" It inevitably is. Thank you both for a great and much needed podcast. This subject is vital because children will more than likely become part of the equation. There are too many damaged people in the world due to wrong marriages and/or divorces. It creates a vicious cycle. God continue to bless you both for being true soldiers/sheep for Christ. 🙏 🔥 🙏. Btw, l love that, "When the guitar stops playing the strings are still there." I also found that older females, ( my being a female) in genuinely healthy marriages are of great help. Grandmothers are great and don't have to be your own.
Wow, I’m so glad I watch the whole video. Talking about overcoming her past and those fears of never being good enough for a good man really spoke to my heart. Thank you.
Watching from South Africa 🇿🇦, been following you this early this year and you’re a powerful couple of God full of revelation of the word of God. Lol 😂 with the things of love I can say after Jesus, you’re my marriage counsellor 👍🏾😁. I’m not yet married but I’m soon gonna be and you’ve taught and enlightened me with this marriage subject and now I won’t settle for anything less. May God increase in your lives
I say this with all respect. On the question of should you marry someone from different culture? If you are believers, you are citizens of the kingdom. Your marriage, decisions are Christ centred. If you are born again and the other person is born again , you solve your problems with your knees. Through prayers , fasting loving each other as Christ loved us. For me , I would marry anyone that Loves the Lord more than me. Being a citizen of the kingdom is important to me than where they come from. We will make it because our marriage will be Christ centred.
I am watching from Spain, thanks for the video’s. Divorced 20 years ago and my partner left 9 years ago. Meanwhile ( 5 years ago ) I gave my life to God. I waiting for the Good person to cross my road . Feeling so desesperated . Men of my age ( Christian) are mostly already in couple ! Keep waiting then and praise the Lord .
@@Psa22-6 thank you for asking. I have. Trust me this is not what I wanted. But I had to get out. He became physically abusive and was on drugs. It was do difficult for me to come to understanding that I had to get out. God has healed my heart in many ways. But there's still work. And my kid's need healing too. They saw and went through a lot. Put it this way. I didn't realize I was married to a narcissists. There was so much trauma. Only by God's grace the kid's and I made it out alive. But He is good. So now I need to stay focused on Him. And His will for my life and that of my kid's
“A person addicted needs rehab and not a relationship”❤❤❤❤ I believe the only relationship an addicted person needs to be pursuing is one with the Heavenly Father!!!! You have no idea how much I needed to here this for myself in areas as well and ones close to my heart! Let’s just say I have been fighting battles I now know only the lord can fight for me. Thanks you so much for giving your knowledge.
Noo my Brothers Dont fall in the Enemies trap.... All you have to do is WAIT for Gods perfect timing, God will Bring to you your Women or Men of God he has already DESTINED just for you Since the creation of the World that will Glorify his name in both of yalls Purpose....
Well I find it very interesting ❤ I recently prayed for a Godly husband and it was about 5 months and guess what God answered and I am following God's way...
Thank you for sharing, I remember TB Joshua sharing that it is not the right person but the right time that brings the right person. If something is wrong with these two, then there will be trouble in that marriage.
Hi I live in Australia. Bless you both xx I am a widow and have met this guy through my church. We seem to get along and think the same and most importantly love God and put Him first. I feel the Holy Spirit nudging me and putting this guy on my heart. haven't gone for coffee yet to talk but the invite is there. Its just a matter of putting together. We really like each other and are very comfortable with each other.
I can't believe it I was just asking God about this topic and here is this video. Thank you for this message Vlad and Lana. Thank you for all of your works In Jesus name Amen 🙏 ❤️
@@Amani1.M me too! I've been dating someone for 4 years who has been leading me down a destructive path. Drinking smoking, you name it. Praise the Lord Almighty for taking the mask off my eyes (which comes from the enemy!) so that we can see clearly and walk with the Lord while he holds us and sustains us with His Right Arm! Praise God.
Watching from Tennessee. I'm loving what Vlad and Lana are saying. We DO have liberty to choose.... but yes the other person DOES need to be devoted to God. This is vital. Thank you Vlad and Lana. Love you two!
This video was sent directly to me by God...as a teen christian who just started living for the Lord, this was the red light. God is amazing. All glory be to God for sending you.🙏
Once again he heard my cry and replied via you Pastor Vlad. All praise to Jehovah Jireh, my provider. As God as my witness our paths will cross one day, and we will meet either on earth or heaven. Amen.
I just sent this to my daughter and the young man she is with and is now pregnant for I think you I don't know how it showed up on my phone but I think it's powerful information God bless you both her name is Kayla his name is Corey and it's been volatile and they're not married but they do have a baby on the way and she needs to take care of herself she is 33 and there needs to be Deliverance healing and I believe in God's perfect will and plan be done in both of their lives
Thank you for this, I prayed to God for advise and this helped because I came out of a pentecostal church that taught I needed a sign. I understand now.
I really really appreciate this video because I haven't dated in years and I have not been born again all that long ago, and I do not want to repeat any of the past pain or trauma I have once went through, and because I haven't dated in years, I really really needed to hear this video. Bless you both.
When I was saved more than twenty years ago, I went through years of deliverance to heal trauma. God healed me to such an extent that the Holy Spirit has brought so much emotional and psychological freedom that I feel like I'm living in Heaven already. I went from fearing being alone for the rest of my life to the complete opposite - I can't imagine being anything other than single. It's a bit difficult to explain - it's like a neverending river of peace and joy flowing from my spiritual belly and I can't get enough of it.
I definitely agree about needing rehab not relationship. My uncle was on drugs and met a girl. She refused to date him till he changed. So he went to rehab, changed his life and then got married. Now they have a beautiful relationship.
God lead me to this couple to help me make better choices and I'm so grateful I feel delivered... I listen your videos alot and it's been so peaceful ❤️🔥😌
Rewatching from DFW. Recently dove into the word, and thankful for the confirmation. Have been in a season of solitude, focusing on self improvement relationship with God, health and wellness.
🥺🥺🥺!! I wish i saw this video much earlier! I went on and dated someone that is not in the Lord, got into fornication and later got a daughter...my daughter is only 5 months old, i decided to leave her father (who was at the time my fiancee)not because his a bad person but because we were unequally yoked and he is not in the Lord i lacked the peace of God and never knew it...i was so sure God would change him along the way..i forced him to come to the lord and love him but i learnt the hard way that am not the convictor of the hearts of men!!😂😂! Next time god willing,i will be on guard and instead of looking for certain qualities,God should help me work on my character and qualities! Thank you so much for sharing this pastor vlad and lady Lana!
Sending you love and God’s Grace and knowledge as you walk this road. Be strong and seek God more at this point. It’s done already and nothing can change, instead you can make things better by seeking the Lord more than ever before. Do not let your mind make you feel you are the worst person.
Can we shortly take a minute appriciating how amazing and sweet they are as a couple??? My Heart is joyful, they are the best role models in Fatih! GOD BLESS YALL, THANK YOU JESUS FOR EEEEVERYTHING❤ Hallelujah!
Recently single after a 2 1/2 year relationship, I was engaged for 3 months and it just ended, I am lost and I want to be healed, after hearing this I will take my time to let god do his work on me and appreciate every aspect of my singleness and the power that comes with walking with Christ🙏🏾❤️❤️ you all do so much for us through God, with your messages
I was with my ex wife for 17yrs. And married for of those. We were in church on and off but not committed. I have been back whole seeking God's will for my life for 6months now. I have meet someone that I feel like may be the 1, but Only if God truly puts her in my life. We meet in a divorce care group, but my focus is more on God and who he is, if he ever wants me to be remarriage. God has got to be #1 in your life. Yes and I know marriage should not be broken my wife had an affair and I still tried to make things work. I did what I could do in my marriage to make it work. I did not want God to be mad at me for getting divorced.
@@Dan_LTL_909 dude that’s understandable for sure i hope this person you met is the one for you🙏🏾 God knows our hearts and I am sure if you put him first he will show you when the time comes who is for us my brother❤️ thank you for sharing your story man🙏🏾
being single is so liberating I was once hurt so badly I thought I couldn’t be able to move forward, but with God he sure knows how to heal you’ll look back at it like wow
RIGHT ON SPOT FOR ALL SINGLES ABOUT TO MAKE A WRONG CHOICE,may God guide those to this video and intervene them not to make a mistake🔥🔥cmmon pastor vlad 👏👏
Vlad, your the best mate. l truely appreciated the prophetic word l received from the Lord through Pastor llya and Mariana, it was so good. Thankyou Lord.😊👍
I have been married 42 years to a non-believer, I always say once you accept the Lord you will be an outstanding Christian, for he is a good person, no vices, no drug problem, no drinking problem, no abuse problem. He has been a great provider to me and out 2 children, and still helps his children in their adult problems. What your wife said about appearances is 100% true, since I have been 19 yrs I never let my husband see me with unkept hair, sloppy clothes, I would look jn mirror before he came home. Whenever we went out for the day, I put on makeup, do my hair (he sometimes would say you don't have to do that we are just going to the mall. But I know appreciates it all. I know he had pride and though he is not a Christian, he is my husband and and I respect him (in Jesus name). We are 62 now and it is harder now to keep up the appearance but I never stop making the effort. God Bless❤
Thank you!!! Vlad & Lana, wow your testimony is so amazing. It is all about overcoming our fears and keep to the present with the Lord. The past is no longer, the future doesn't even exist, only Today, we live we exist to follow Jesus. Though I've never met either one of you, I can actually say I truly love you two....
Thank you so much, I was so bad because to have a worst past but I could see that my past don’t define me and I’m new in Jesus. I learned so so much. God bless you ❤
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Happy Birthday Vlad, many happy returns. Have a great time with Lana and your family. 😊👍
Blessed Birthday Pastor, more in love with Jesus & enjoy with Lana & family 😊 very good teaching as usual !
the widow was only Only said to Choose freely only After because her husband had died.... But Before Marriage, Somebody in christ Either your a Men or Women God already has your Partner who he has made just For You... So NO, you can not just go After your own will or go to whoever you want just because they are in the Lord too,No! because you will go through relationships and thats not from God those are just your own emotions and wrong decisions... A Real Son of God has to wait and pray for your Husband and Wife and wait on the Lord for your Wife or your Husband he has already made for you.... and i Can back that up With in the Bible.... All of this video most of 90% is wrongly guided for a Men or women of God....😞🤦🏻♂ The right way to pray to the Lord is, ""God guide me to the Wife or Husband you have destined for me since the beginning of the Creation of the World"" Because God already has your Men or women God created for you To Glory God within your Life and for boths of yalls Purpose God set for yall too.... Other else you will just go through your own mistakes and false emotions and thats the Same enemy trapping you......
Thank you Vlad! This is the clarity I need. This video + Sacred Search by Gary Thomas has been super helpful. "Lord, will you please give me a woman who loves the Lord more than me" WOW.
Only in the Lord
"If you're addicted, you need deliverance and discipline, not dating." Come on somebody 🔥🔥🔥
I couldn't agree more with you. I was sexually abused and humiliated as a child and grew up incapable of dating or having a gf. Although I felt the physical desire for sex I was also scared to even try to do it. I never dated successfully so that it became a dating relationship. So I retreated inward and engaged in fantasy and self pleasuring. Now I am in recovery and the cure includes no dating and no sexual activity. I am single and celibate and abstinent. I'm finally at peace knowing this is the life I want for me now!
Come on somebody! 🔥
@@Anthony-yy3kcGod be with you and keep you❣️
Hard truth right here
"If you are addicted you have company "
I am 41 years old never thought about marriage or settling down because I was always having to much fun lusting for women at the night clubs for half my life. I started attending my local church to brake free from sin and after one year of attending bible college and serving as usher, for the first time I want to get married to a woman of God and I no longer desire to go to the night clubs to seek woman. So far, there is one young woman who has been so nice to me at church since day one, and I am believing and asking God for her to be the one thank God and these pastors for helping me brake free.
Marriage is not your identity, your identity is in Christ! 🔥🔥🔥
May the good Lord Jesus Christ Almighty bless your heart my sister in Christ Amen 🙏 ❤️
I’m in Russia. Got saved last year and changed my life 360. And I love Pastor Vlad’s preaching ❤️❤️ bless you and your wife
Praise God! What are you doing in russia?
Literally made me cry when Lana said she had to remind her self " I am a new creation" when she felt rejected and all her fears came back about being not good enough after her past.. ladies, you are a new creation, let God do his work.. Like an onion.. let each layer fall off. This goes for guys as well, let God renew your mind daily. - I had to tell myself- I am an new creation! - I am a new creation!!
I am a new creation
So good, I agree having this experience myself!💜✝️💜🕊️🙏🕊️🫂
Yes Amen!!
I live Vlad’s messages, but it’s kind of hypocritical to say to wait months before getting into a new relationship but Lana literally started monkey branching over to Vlad while in was dating someone else.
@@garret8787😅 I have a question, what does donkey branching even mean?
"The perfect love casts out fear" that's a good one!!!!
"If you’re single and you’re dating someone who’s addicted and they don’t seek deliverance nor do they want to put any kind of disciple in their lives, drop them like a hot potato and run from them like a plague." PREACH! Thank you, God, for this!
I'm single for 3yrs. No active addictions, looking to date.?
Lol 😂
@@dwilldoit yeah😃😁😆
My fiancéé is Indian and i'm African american. Her family always wanted her to marry an Indian guy, but my family just desired me to marry a woman of God and the person God had for me. There is the culture barrier between us, but mainly for her family, but we're in love and we're seeing God move on our behalf, and in her family's hearts 🙏🏿
Very good!
"Men usually fall in love with their eyes, women with their ears." Great point!
I was waiting for God to show me my husband 😂😂😂😂😂 but thank you for this video. It has changed my perspective
I know right 😂😂😂💕
True Sam here😅
Me too! And I prayed for God to show me something and this popped up and boy! Did this clear this up for me🌈
It really did lol ❤️😂
Same here lol 😅
You both are so precious! This old lady is in tears listening to you. I love you in Christ,
Grandma
Made me laugh when you talked about Red Flag number 13-Praying to change the person.- IT SPOKE TO ME INDEED! "It's better to wait for God to bring the right person to you than to wait for God to change the wrong person" God surely wants me to watch this. Also, thank you Lana for reminding me that God loves us and that we are precious to Him and that we are WORTHY! I love you guys! God is using you to be a blessing to us. To God Be The Glory! Everything you talked about, gives me enough confirmation from the Lord! Thank you heaps! - Jessie from Philippines.
I was changed my believe after I heard that very advice from him when preached series on his single ready to mingle book
😂relate
not me praying he is more romantic
I have heard by many believers that God has led people together.
God does lead and guide in everything.
God said to do everything through prayer and supplication.
OK so it's five minutes in and pastor Vlad is already coming for me. "You want someone to take care of you but are you taking care of you?" ... oh Lord Jesus help me
Haha that spoke to me too:)
My bedroom is a smelly dump. And I love it its the only room I don't have to clean 😁
@@pennyhughes3671 activated carbon, wax melts & a wax warmer, air purifier, and vacuum cleaner.
I'm watching this a year later...but im going through a season of coming through a failed marriage, failed relationships and unwanted pregnancies and i recently had a baby and really wanted to be with the father of my new born but he didnt share the same sentiment. Ive been fasting & praying for God to show me some direction and reveal to me if i should continue standing in faith for breakthrough. Ive been battling unworthiness and all my partners have left me for someone else, I came across this video which has really blessed me and brought some comfort. PLEASE KEEP ME IN PRAYER. THANK YOU!
Amen. She is telling my story. I have a dirty past, always feared I will never been married with a good Godly man.
Watching this at my job- work overnights as a Crisis Counselor on the 988 Suicide Hotline and watching you guys has truly blessed me and I’m sure it also blessed the people I counsel!!! Bc I get to extend everything I learn here to them. Thank you ❤️ Praise Jesus
Thank you for ur job I had to talk to one couple years ago and I'm very happy of how sweet the lady was she saved me and so did my Lord ❤🙌🙏
I am rewatching and married. I am a believer but my husband is not. This video has been great counsel to me. Not to try to change him but to change myself.
Thank you
Did you divorce your husband?
I wish my daughters find a man like this pastor!! It is a meddle in a haystack....and he was sound enough to find a lady of the Lord like his wife! She also was wise enough and blessed enough to choose him. Thank you sooo much for allowing Father to use your talents! I am sharing this with my children. May be high-school kids, Yet is never to early to learn!
A friend of mine married an Elder of a church. Reads and pray all the time and yet he cheated on her twice and slept with a family member of hers. Ask God for his discernment when being approached by Any man.
I'm sure he still had red flags... I ignored red flags with someone who appeared Godly, worked for the church, yet many red flags.
The thing that stuck out to me was that "If she is in the Lord, that's the green light to persue" I pray for and answer, but I already have it. She's in the Lord. Word up!
As a single man , open to a kingdom marriage , this gave me hope and helped me to self access and access who I entertain in hopes of developing a relationship with them
Lana's story made me cry because I can relate so much to what she said. 😢 We need to remind ourselves that we are a new creation. We are not our past.
Thanks!
Thank you for giving, God bless you!
"Principles not preferences." - Love that!
Identifying abusive, narcissistic or obsessive suitors, reviewing his or her closest friends who are not decent or godly and the people he or she follows on Facebook,etc. also are EXTREMELY important and are at the top of my list.
Whom one and they follow says a lot yes I have realize
watching this now a year after being with someone who I wasn’t really meant to be with but ignoring all the red flags it’s crazy how all of this is ringing truth into my ear after learning all of this the hard way. But it really stuck with me and this video just reminded me how vital it is to actually appreciate my identity and being single to heal from all of the things I’ve been through. I can only thank the Lord.
This is such rich teaching and THIS is the kind of dating, marriage and singleness advice we need more of in the Church! I’ve been single as a Pringle for a while 😂 and I’m not complaining because Christ has done soo much healing and work in this season Glory
This is good teaching.
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Amen! I totally relate, and agree. 👍🏽
I am related… that’s me
Excellent. Sunday school should teach this. Parent's should also be taught this. Preach this EVERWHERE. Thank you. God bless you. I love that you look for one that loves God more then you....then they know how to love. Stating flags is so perfect. And recognizing to be aware of loss of peace. You can add to your teaching to recognize confusion. Should you or shouldn't you. God is not the author of confusion but of love power and a sound mind. Not a confused mind.
most 90% of these steps are wrongly guided and said for a Men or Women of God..... the widow was only Only said to Choose freely only After because her husband had died.... But Before Marriage, Somebody in christ Either your a Men or Women God already has your Partner who he has made just For You... So NO, you can not just go After your own will or go to whoever you want just because they are in the Lord too,No! because you will go through relationships and thats not from God those are just your own emotions and wrong decisions... A Real Son of God has to wait and pray for your Husband and Wife and wait on the Lord for your Wife or your Husband he has already made for you.... and i Can back that up With in the Bible.... All of this video most of 90% is wrongly guided for a Men or women of God....😞🤦🏻♂ The right way to pray to the Lord is, ""God guide me to the Wife or Husband you have destined for me since the beginning of the Creation of the World"" Because God already has your Men or women God created for you To Glory God within your Life and for boths of yalls Purpose God set for yall too.... Other else you will just go through your own mistakes and false emotions and thats the Same enemy trapping you......
Lord please bless me with a husband who loves you more than anyone or anything. Amen
Amen
This!
Good prayer but one should be really ready for such a patner and I mean really ready
Thank you Lana, I needed that reminder to know that I am an amazing woman of God and my past does not define me, it informs and gives me wisdom. I am good enough and I will continue to work on being the wife my husband dreams of. I continue to pray for your ministry. Thank you Pastor Vlad....I have been following your series on the Holy Spirit and He has literally become my best friend. Continue to shine for God.
Thank God I found the ONE, you just confirmed my whole walk in this.
Listening to you feels like home coming😄
So beautiful congratulations
Praise the Lord! God bless your relationship immensely
I’ve been praying for such a while for confirmation from God that my fiancé is who he ordained me to marry, and not even a couple hours ago and I asked for confirmation again and then he brings me across this video! God is good
In a time where preachers act supra Holy and as if sin never came their way, we have this couple time and again talk about their mess and use their sin to teach us to stay away from sin. This is the kind of teaching we need. Love you guys.
When she said: "I AM WORTHY. Jesus Christ has cleansed my past and doesn't see me like that..." Thank you so much for sharing that - it spoke to me and I know it spoke to many other females as well
my son is 22 yrs old holding a small job. Spend all his income on friends and girl friend. They takes loans
Pastor please pray for him to get rid of all this and take up. Jobs with better prospects. And get rid of all bad habits.
Father, please help Melba's son to become a responsible, godly young man. In every direction he goes, may he run into You -- hear Your voice, see Scriptures, hear Your Word, follow Your leading. May He not be able to resist Your Spirit and Your love. In Jesus's Mighty Name.....
It's so ecouraging to hear that Lana had fears even though she knew he was the right and had that peace. It gives me hope. Thank you guys ❤
Re-watching from India🇮🇳. Kohima, Nagaland✝️😇.
Same here, from nagaland my most favorite man of God, I wish & praying that the world still have more man like pastor Vlad & one to be my husband after I'm ready for marriage
Beautiful testimony!
Marriage is one of the greatest gift from God.
It's important to marry the "one" God's will. Even there's a challenge but your love, obedience to God will stuck you together.
For two days I had feelings of anxiety, worry and loneliness, and I watched Isaiah's and Vlad's videos each time, the content not being relevant. After a few minutes in the video all those bad feelings even loneliness went away, disappeared. It's incredible because that has never happened before with other videos. God is blessing me through your videos I guess🙂
1. Purity of the heart. Purity of the soul. Purity of the Mind. Purity of the body.
Amen! What a great teaching. I’m watching from Papua New Guinea and I’m so glad I watched this in my single season. Jesus is the only way. I’m so blessed by this Word.
“It’s better to wait for God to bring the right person to you than to change the wrong person that you bring to God (wrong person is the one you ignore all the red flags but you still do it because you are really infatuated, ignoring common sense, your own peace and wisdom of the wise counsel around you).” I really needed to hear this!!! What a timely Word and answered prayer. God is good. Thank you for your ministry and heart to serve singles through this. May God continue to bless and increase you both, your baby to come (praise God!) and your ministry. 🙏🙏🙏
Beautiful message. Thank you for sharing your testimony! God bless you both
Praise the Lord. God bless you!
Marrying is free will from God has given his word, whoever we like but only who's in the lord that's again spiritually ,practically so true makes sense.Thank God for the strong relevant message.
I love vlad and Isaiah so much they help me a lot ,ever since I started going to church I’ve been watching them and they helped me understand things so vividly the main thing I wanna focus on now is to stop getting overwhelmingly nervous before doing anything thank u vlad and Isaiah love from the Bahamas ❤️
Me too!
Wow! Thank you! As a widow and dealing with being ready to start dating hearing the Truth, "she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord." Having that green light as long as they are in the Lord is amazing. I have been waiting for supernatural confirmations, but now I feel even more freedom!
I appreciate your honesty and openness Vlad and Lana in explaining how you came together and explaining the red flags that show that a relationship should not happen. Yes the Lord has to be number one in your marriage to have his blessing.
Thank you for this. I found out some of the red flags are me. So I gotta work on myself.
So true about you are marrying into the family because of similarities for sure. I just read about Abraham begging his servant not to get a wife for his son Isaac from the Canaanites (if we remember, they were cursed); but from his family. This wasn't because they believed in God, but because of the similarities in their family.
I believe God does communicate with us about guys though. I remember being warned about a guy having a girlfriend, also about not even talking to a certain guy, who I found out later was an atheist.
This is just awesome! I love how this just works my brain! Thank you again! Love your beautiful story!🌷🌷🌷
Thank you Lana and Vlad
This was a blessing especially being reminder the importance of not rushing into things when you are single and dating . I’m turning 38 on Sunday and I’ve been through one marriage and other relationships that have failed multiple times . However , I’m grateful for content like this that reminds me it’s ok to be single and serving the Lord until that special time for the right person by first becoming the right person through the word of God . And praying to finish my bachelors degree in seminary and to share the gospel !
Thank you Lana for sharing your fears. Watching from Papua New Guinea. 🙏🏽
This was really revealing to me thank you so much.. my Ex dumped me and crazy enough she is the reason why I honestly came to the feet of God and have giving myself even more to him about 2 years ago we went to the same church and I started to get more into touch to the Lord and guess what a lot of negativity started to happen to myself and then we grew apart. She was and is very knowledgeable about the Bible but I found out she is dating someone who is part of the Yoruba religion or the man she is dating now practices Santeria just like her ex who she had a son with prior to me. This makes a lot of sense to me now so glad I came across this video things are just making a lot of sense to me now that I am single I want to establish a relationship with God not with a woman. Amen 🙏🏻
This is couple goals! Love you both! So powerful for a single Christian like me. I've had these questions! I've thought there was some big sign I was supposed to wait for. Thank you for clarification!
Yes you do wait on the Lord!!!!
Dont fall under the enemies trap With your own false emotions and own mistakes... Most of these youtube relationship guidense are 90% wrongly guided and not well spoken with the Real word of God🤧🤦🏻♂🤦🏻♂.... God already has your Wife or Husband God has made for you to Fulfill your purpose and Glory his Name!!!! So just pray and Wait upon the Lord for his perfect timing he has set for your Life🙏🙏
@@bryan0710 show me in the Word where it specifically says that. I don't know you but I know Pastor Vlad so I'll listen to him, thanks.
@@stephanienorris3959 Yes it will be my pleasure😊🙏, Read Genesis Chapter 24: verse 14 Thats the Story where Abraham prays unto the Lord for Guidance so God can bring to them Who will be Isaac's Wife; Abrahams son, who his Wife will be, Rebeka👰🏼. Hear me out,, In that same Verse 14, The same Word of God saids that Abraham said, Let her be the one you have *Appointed* for my son Isaac🙏❤ Thats the KEYWORD *APPOINTED* In other words he said Let that Women be the one you have Chosen and made since the creation of the World that will be my Son's Wife ❤👰🏼 So you see, Everybody who is in Christ marked with a Purpose God already has the Person you will Marry, but not only to marry but To Also Glorify and fullfills both of yalls Purpose together from the Lord!!!!❤🙏
And I can give many more examples in the bible that can backup Gods *Appointed* Kingdom-Ordained spouse for you but i will go for Hours explaining this Revelation and Topic because this is one of the Topics i Love teaching, the right way and the Truth from the Lords Word❤🙏
So please Listen, most of these youtube videos about Marriages or How to Find the right one,,, 90% of them are wrong guided and not well spoken😞🤦🏻♂ and *Not* well spoken with the bible,, they Just explain their Experiences and Etc and that is a BIG ERROR!!! for Gods People who are waiting upon the Lord for their Kingdom-Ordained Spouse.. Because all they doing is Misleading them to a Trap set by the enemy... Write down this Quote ❤✍️ " You don't choose who will be your Spouse, God chooses that Person for you, the Person who he Created and Made and *Appointed* just for you to Fullfill Gods Purpose in this world " ❤🙏
Keep in mind!!! that whenever preachers or pastors say, "Go look for your Spouse or If that relationship didnt work go Look for the next one" Beaware of that, because Thats the same Enemy setting you a Trap because you will fall in Your own False emotions and Own mistakes....
So Yes, Wait upon Gods perfect timing for you, because God has your "Appointed* kingdom-Ordained spouse all in Control and in his hands 🙏❤ Amen!
Blessings!
@@bryan0710 1. Then, theoretically speaking, there should be 50% men and 50% women population in the world, if God has "one" person for each individual. That's clearly not the case.
2. Why does God allow widows to marry other men and vice versa if just ONE person was supposed to be their partner, is God inconsistent in his world?
3. Even if there was this system of one predestined individual for another, the system broke with Adam's sin and will not be restored until the forms a new Jerusalem. The reason our bodies have physical death is that God's system is long broken and is awaiting reconstruction!
@@bachan48 🤦🏻♂🤦🏻♂🤦🏻♂🤦🏻♂🤦🏻♂🤦🏻♂🤦🏻♂
Nobody has EVER made a video or book (and I watch and read a lot) like this! Thank you SO much for your twos wisdom and honesty. I keep praying for God to have my man of God appear when I need to not put so much focus on God delivering Him but me becoming a better Woman of God and the right one will come
Thank you so much for this. I’m getting married in a month and what Pastor Vlad said about struggling with Lana’s past is exactly what I’m going through and something that I fear. My future husband has given his life totally over to God and has changed completely but I’ve been struggling with forgetting his past. This was so encouraging. Thank you.
Congratulations
What part was Lana's past? I must have missed
“She’s a great example that God can deliver anybody.” Dang Vlad 😂 Love from Hawaii 🤍
Pure thought pure action. Pursue God 🙏✝️ endure until the end. Having an intimate relationship with Jesus is better than any human being!
I am rewatching from Zimbabwe,. The first time i watched this In November last year , God used you guys to help confirm that i needed to leave my 2 year relationship. So many red flags on both the fundamentals and the pastoral advice
Happy birthday Vlad!😊 I wish you and your wife all the best with your ministry and I am happy to be accepted in. ☺
And also thank you for your present! 😀🥂🎁🎂 😀
Such a blessing…. Whoooosh!!!
The biggest red flag for me is being with someone you’re already trying to change… and whose closest friends aren’t God chasers.
I'm watching from Albany, Georgia! I've followed Pastor Vlad for a bit on IG, and I really appreciate the fact that you always dig deep into the Word and do your best to present it without any bias!! Thanks a ton for the wisdom y'all have bestowed upon me, as I've basically been waiting on an angel or a sign from God to show me who to date and eventually marry! May the good Lord continue to bless both y'all immensely!!! 🙌
When I saw you recommend “single ready to mingle” I laughed so hard because I’m constantly telling God and others: “I’m single NOT READY to mingle”. But I feel God is soon leading me to be more social and meet others lol. (Whether to meet a potential significant other or simply a platonic friend who is a believer) 😂
This is all much appreciated 😊
I would like to add that it's anyone who hasn't healed from a relationship, whether recent, not so recent, or long ago. If someone is still holding up a candle/ shrine to someone long ago, then that person has been thoroughly romanticized in their head, and nothing you do or are, will be able to ever meet this ideal.
Not the same for someone who sincerely still feels brotherly/sisterly love and respect for their deceased/ex loved one. This can actually be a good sign. Run from anyone who runs their ex/exes down. They are someone who is not prepared to take responsibility for their own actions that weren't good, and were more than likely a contributing factor/s. They will do the same to you. Do your very best to find out why the previous relationship ended. Maybe they committed adultery etc.
There should be no harm in asking his family and friends, and visa versa. Don't fall for love is blind. If it's blind, it's not real. Also the very obvious but most often made mistake, " He/she is TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE!" It inevitably is.
Thank you both for a great and much needed podcast. This subject is vital because children will more than likely become part of the equation.
There are too many damaged people in the world due to wrong marriages and/or divorces. It creates a vicious cycle.
God continue to bless you both for being true soldiers/sheep for Christ. 🙏 🔥 🙏.
Btw, l love that, "When the guitar stops playing the strings are still there."
I also found that older females, ( my being a female) in genuinely healthy marriages are of great help. Grandmothers are great and don't have to be your own.
Wow, I’m so glad I watch the whole video. Talking about overcoming her past and those fears of never being good enough for a good man really spoke to my heart. Thank you.
Watching from South Africa 🇿🇦, been following you this early this year and you’re a powerful couple of God full of revelation of the word of God. Lol 😂 with the things of love I can say after Jesus, you’re my marriage counsellor 👍🏾😁. I’m not yet married but I’m soon gonna be and you’ve taught and enlightened me with this marriage subject and now I won’t settle for anything less. May God increase in your lives
For the first time i found pastor Vlad seem very funny in some points... Mam Lana is so blessed
I say this with all respect. On the question of should you marry someone from different culture? If you are believers, you are citizens of the kingdom. Your marriage, decisions are Christ centred. If you are born again and the other person is born again , you solve your problems with your knees.
Through prayers , fasting loving each other as Christ loved us. For me , I would marry anyone that Loves the Lord more than me. Being a citizen of the kingdom is important to me than where they come from. We will make it because our marriage will be Christ centred.
Ok, but make sure your values line up. The culture thing isn’t as important as your values. Having different values will make your marriage bumpy
@@honestfriend767 ❤️
I am watching from Spain, thanks for the video’s. Divorced 20 years ago and my partner left 9 years ago. Meanwhile ( 5 years ago ) I gave my life to God.
I waiting for the Good person to cross my road . Feeling so desesperated . Men of my age ( Christian) are mostly already in couple ! Keep waiting then and praise the Lord .
Thank you. This has really helped me. 40 yrs of age separated 3 yrs. But I see there's several things that I need to work on.
Have you tried standing for your marriage? Not judging but the Lord reconciles all things, also because its a covenant unto Him.
@@Psa22-6 thank you for asking. I have. Trust me this is not what I wanted. But I had to get out. He became physically abusive and was on drugs. It was do difficult for me to come to understanding that I had to get out. God has healed my heart in many ways. But there's still work. And my kid's need healing too. They saw and went through a lot.
Put it this way. I didn't realize I was married to a narcissists. There was so much trauma. Only by God's grace the kid's and I made it out alive. But He is good. So now I need to stay focused on Him. And His will for my life and that of my kid's
@@Monalisa0622 i understand sister im sorry it ended up that way. Only God can fix hearts like those, well only He can fix any heart. Be blessed.
“A person addicted needs rehab and not a relationship”❤❤❤❤ I believe the only relationship an addicted person needs to be pursuing is one with the Heavenly Father!!!! You have no idea how much I needed to here this for myself in areas as well and ones close to my heart! Let’s just say I have been fighting battles I now know only the lord can fight for me. Thanks you so much for giving your knowledge.
Learn a lot from Your Book Single, ready to mingle.!
Really this book played a huge role in my breakthrough from brokenness ❤❤
I'm reading God therapy but will purchase Single ready to mingle next.
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Noo my Brothers Dont fall in the Enemies trap.... All you have to do is WAIT for Gods perfect timing, God will Bring to you your Women or Men of God he has already DESTINED just for you Since the creation of the World that will Glorify his name in both of yalls Purpose....
Well I find it very interesting ❤ I recently prayed for a Godly husband and it was about 5 months and guess what God answered and I am following God's way...
Thank you for sharing, I remember TB Joshua sharing that it is not the right person but the right time that brings the right person. If something is wrong with these two, then there will be trouble in that marriage.
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Hi I live in Australia. Bless you both xx I am a widow and have met this guy through my church. We seem to get along and think the same and most importantly love God and put Him first. I feel the Holy Spirit nudging me and putting this guy on my heart. haven't gone for coffee yet to talk but the invite is there. Its just a matter of putting together. We really like each other and are very comfortable with each other.
I can't believe it I was just asking God about this topic and here is this video.
Thank you for this message Vlad and Lana. Thank you for all of your works In Jesus name Amen 🙏 ❤️
Me too I feel that GOD might be leading me to a relationship I need this
@@Amani1.M me too! I've been dating someone for 4 years who has been leading me down a destructive path. Drinking smoking, you name it. Praise the Lord Almighty for taking the mask off my eyes (which comes from the enemy!) so that we can see clearly and walk with the Lord while he holds us and sustains us with His Right Arm! Praise God.
Thanks
Watching from Tennessee. I'm loving what Vlad and Lana are saying. We DO have liberty to choose.... but yes the other person DOES need to be devoted to God. This is vital. Thank you Vlad and Lana. Love you two!
Really needed this. I somehow had this taught that God will want me to marry someone that I don't like
Amen same here . Was encouraging
This video was sent directly to me by God...as a teen christian who just started living for the Lord, this was the red light. God is amazing. All glory be to God for sending you.🙏
Once again he heard my cry and replied via you Pastor Vlad. All praise to Jehovah Jireh, my provider. As God as my witness our paths will cross one day, and we will meet either on earth or heaven. Amen.
I just sent this to my daughter and the young man she is with and is now pregnant for I think you I don't know how it showed up on my phone but I think it's powerful information God bless you both her name is Kayla his name is Corey and it's been volatile and they're not married but they do have a baby on the way and she needs to take care of herself she is 33 and there needs to be Deliverance healing and I believe in God's perfect will and plan be done in both of their lives
Rewatching from Lafayette,LA. Praying for a Godly husband.
Thanks you guys helped a lot!!!
Glad it helped!
Thank you for this, I prayed to God for advise and this helped because I came out of a pentecostal church that taught I needed a sign. I understand now.
I really really appreciate this video because I haven't dated in years and I have not been born again all that long ago, and I do not want to repeat any of the past pain or trauma I have once went through, and because I haven't dated in years, I really really needed to hear this video. Bless you both.
When I was saved more than twenty years ago, I went through years of deliverance to heal trauma. God healed me to such an extent that the Holy Spirit has brought so much emotional and psychological freedom that I feel like I'm living in Heaven already. I went from fearing being alone for the rest of my life to the complete opposite - I can't imagine being anything other than single. It's a bit difficult to explain - it's like a neverending river of peace and joy flowing from my spiritual belly and I can't get enough of it.
I definitely agree about needing rehab not relationship. My uncle was on drugs and met a girl. She refused to date him till he changed. So he went to rehab, changed his life and then got married. Now they have a beautiful relationship.
God lead me to this couple to help me make better choices and I'm so grateful I feel delivered... I listen your videos alot and it's been so peaceful ❤️🔥😌
Thanks! AGAIN, J. C Wendy and Lexxie GOD
Thank you for your giving. God bless you!
Rewatching from DFW. Recently dove into the word, and thankful for the confirmation. Have been in a season of solitude, focusing on self improvement relationship with God, health and wellness.
GOD'S TIME IS THE BEST FOR ME..
GOD'S GRACE IS SUFFICIENT.
I'M SINGLE AND WAITING FOR MY FUTURE HUSBAND ❤,
OH LORD FULFIL IT THIS YEAR 2023
🥺🥺🥺!! I wish i saw this video much earlier! I went on and dated someone that is not in the Lord, got into fornication and later got a daughter...my daughter is only 5 months old, i decided to leave her father (who was at the time my fiancee)not because his a bad person but because we were unequally yoked and he is not in the Lord i lacked the peace of God and never knew it...i was so sure God would change him along the way..i forced him to come to the lord and love him but i learnt the hard way that am not the convictor of the hearts of men!!😂😂! Next time god willing,i will be on guard and instead of looking for certain qualities,God should help me work on my character and qualities! Thank you so much for sharing this pastor vlad and lady Lana!
Sending you love and God’s Grace and knowledge as you walk this road. Be strong and seek God more at this point. It’s done already and nothing can change, instead you can make things better by seeking the Lord more than ever before. Do not let your mind make you feel you are the worst person.
Can we shortly take a minute appriciating how amazing and sweet they are as a couple??? My Heart is joyful, they are the best role models in Fatih!
GOD BLESS YALL, THANK YOU JESUS FOR EEEEVERYTHING❤ Hallelujah!
Recently single after a 2 1/2 year relationship, I was engaged for 3 months and it just ended,
I am lost and I want to be healed, after hearing this I will take my time to let god do his work on me and appreciate every aspect of my singleness and the power that comes with walking with Christ🙏🏾❤️❤️ you all do so much for us through God, with your messages
I was with my ex wife for 17yrs. And married for of those. We were in church on and off but not committed. I have been back whole seeking God's will for my life for 6months now. I have meet someone that I feel like may be the 1, but Only if God truly puts her in my life. We meet in a divorce care group, but my focus is more on God and who he is, if he ever wants me to be remarriage. God has got to be #1 in your life. Yes and I know marriage should not be broken my wife had an affair and I still tried to make things work. I did what I could do in my marriage to make it work. I did not want God to be mad at me for getting divorced.
@@Dan_LTL_909 dude that’s understandable for sure i hope this person you met is the one for you🙏🏾 God knows our hearts and I am sure if you put him first he will show you when the time comes who is for us my brother❤️ thank you for sharing your story man🙏🏾
being single is so liberating I was once hurt so badly I thought I couldn’t be able to move forward, but with God he sure knows how to heal you’ll look back at it like wow
RIGHT ON SPOT FOR ALL SINGLES ABOUT TO MAKE A WRONG CHOICE,may God guide those to this video and intervene them not to make a mistake🔥🔥cmmon pastor vlad 👏👏
Thanks be to God I watched this. I received all I needed to during this time in my life.
This was the best and most helpful videoclip on the topic. Thanks a tonne Vlad and Lana.
Vlad, your the best mate. l truely appreciated the prophetic word l received from the Lord through Pastor llya and Mariana, it was so good. Thankyou Lord.😊👍
Praise GOD for the enlightenment! Indeed an eye opener to young people!
This is beautiful and powerful. Am watching from Zambia in Africa
I have been married 42 years to a non-believer, I always say once you accept the Lord you will be an outstanding Christian, for he is a good person, no vices, no drug problem, no drinking problem, no abuse problem. He has been a great provider to me and out 2 children, and still helps his children in their adult problems. What your wife said about appearances is 100% true, since I have been 19 yrs I never let my husband see me with unkept hair, sloppy clothes, I would look jn mirror before he came home. Whenever we went out for the day, I put on makeup, do my hair (he sometimes would say you don't have to do that we are just going to the mall. But I know appreciates it all. I know he had pride and though he is not a Christian, he is my husband and and I respect him (in Jesus name). We are 62 now and it is harder now to keep up the appearance but I never stop making the effort. God Bless❤
Thank you!!! Vlad & Lana, wow your testimony is so amazing. It is all about overcoming our fears and keep to the present with the Lord. The past is no longer, the future doesn't even exist, only Today, we live we exist to follow Jesus. Though I've never met either one of you, I can actually say I truly love you two....
Thank you so much, I was so bad because to have a worst past but I could see that my past don’t define me and I’m new in Jesus. I learned so so much. God bless you ❤