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A question 4 u Vlad ? How do i get baptized w the Holy Spirit ? Do i pray myself n wait 4 it 2 fill me or do i need some1 2 pray w me 2 receive it ? N then how will i know when i really receive it ? I was saved n baptized w water in 2010 , but that's all i remember . Thank u ! God bless u !
"If he really loves you, he's gonna take you to the front of the church, not the backseat of his car." Man oh man!!! Little louder for the people at the back!!
Thank you Vladimir and Lana for this teaching. This is the true Christianity. Good stuff. One hardly hears this kind of teaching any more. I love Lana....she is a woman of wisdom..she's solid. God gave you t he right wife.Pastor VIad I was looking for your teaching but didn't know your full name and lo and behold you keep popping up on my phone. God is good. Wish to support this wonderful ministry. Love you guys.🙏🏻💕
Same with a girl towards a man. I cant tell you how many times I have been pressured to fornicate by women. Funny thing is, THEY do not want to be the one to give me some action, but tell me that reserving myself for marriage is insane.
@@Vikingshop Yes, I know that. But my point is that the church only talk about this issue as only MEN being the instigator, therefore causing the type of women who do this to slip under the radar! - So I am calling his (the preachers) bluff!
Well I took 3 girls to the back seat of my car at the lake but all 3 wanted to have sex :o I on the other hand I only wanted to kick back and have a decent conversation and get to know each other on the first date. But I have no idea why the hell girls jump on me when I'm truly interested in certain girls I really like and want to respect them. The funny part is they don't want to be respected :(
Michelle I dated may women with whom I could not break up with because I was not in a relationship with them. So just because you are dating a guy that doesn't mean your married or heading for divorce :) Hahahahahahahahah
@@The-Mediator It's only like divorce if you don't have physical/emotional boundaries. Yes it can still be a lot of heartbreak but that's just life. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
“As a pastor for over 20 years, I have come to the conclusion that most marriage problems are not really marriage problems. They are God problems. They can trace back to one or both people having a poor relationship with God or a faulty understanding of Him. An accurate picture of God is vital to a healthy marriage. It’s vital to everything.” - Francis Chan
Accurate. And very accurate. Actually in a marriage setting one must be careful of his/her heart. Following it in some situations may be detrimental to the marriage. The bible warns that the heart is evil and desperately wicked. Instead, stick to the word of God to guide you all the way 🙏
30:30 was sooo strong. I need this. We all need this. "Be so lost in God that the other person has to look for God to find you" . Absolutely wise words. ❤❤
You're right sister Deborah, but for e.g: you're someone who is lost in God so for me to find you I'd like to look for God but the question is how can I look for God to find you as long as I don't know you and you don't know me either ? Waiting to your answer
For everyone here I want you to trust me when I say this... having Sex before marriage IS NOT worth it. It has made more problems for me then anything.
@@mekavio8231 not sure why you posted this. This woman hasn’t exercised authority over a man. She is supporting her husband to speak to women. He is in authority.
This made me feel a lot better about being single at 31. I prayed to God and asked the Holy Spirit about this to show me, and I was guided to this video. Thank you!
I am 37 year's and single. Was engaged for 8 months but it never happened. Been single one year and five months now, this video is very biblical informative and i see where me n my ex fiance went wrong....
thank you I am 15 years old and I am on my journey of growing my relationship with God and becoming the best man I can and this podcast opened my eyes and taught me a lot!
@@saxmanjpr5092 I think the person may be referring to sexual sin if I'm correct. A lot of people think that all they need to do to get over lust or sexual perversion is to get married. Jesus is the only one that can deliver us.
@@Blessed_Sound OK But HOW does Jeus deleiver us? What methods does he use? One must go to Alcoholics Anonymous, for example and go through that program to get delivered from the addiction to drinking too much. That is a program that Jesus works through to help others. He does not always miraculously heal someone, contrary to popular belief (by Charasmatics) That is a falsehood. Jesus did not always "miraculously" heal people the same ay. Sometime he told people that their faith had healed them. (MARK 10:25) Other times he told others to go DO something (2 Kings 5:14) before a healing would occur and sometimes he had people go see a DOCTOR...Hence why Luke, the Doctor was a disciple. Jesus ofter time s delivers us by the examples I gave. Also, the bible talks about lust as being MORE than just a sexual issue and because the church only talks about lust in a sensual way, they aew getting others up for a fall! BUT it is true that sometimes the only way to get over this problem is to get married. Hence, "It is better to marry than to burn with (sensual) passion." (1 Corinthians 7:9) I... am one of them! I am 47 years old and have had the desire too marry since i was NINE...and even list my virginity at hte age of SIX by playing "doctor!" Because I as told my self rightious idiots in the church that it is better to remain single ager I as FORCED into mens groups, number one, I went to HOOKERS after the mid week mens group as over with and number two, I have masturbated so much in my life that I could have kept a buffett filled with an unending supply of "tapioca pudding!" Jesus ill deliver me from all of that THROUGH MARRIAGE as he has shown me who my wife will be one day after I complete my schooling as a late bloomer in order to be able to be gainfully employed instead of having to continue flipping burgers in my "old age" of pushing fifty!
@@saxmanjpr5092 I understand what your saying, but even as they are teaching, we should be going to Jesus for our source of deliverance becuase even after some people get married, they still deal with porn addiction and some Even deal with homosexuality (and they think if they just marry the opposite sex, it will go away but it’s not the case for some). I’m not saying marriage won’t help someone with their burning desire, but the focus we should be putting deliverance on is Jesus (unless you’re spouse is a deliverance minister, then I guess you can get deliverance through them from God).
Wish someone cared enough to warn me about this when I was young and innocent..takes years to recover from a broken heart and a destroyed life..with a wrong person..damages you for the rest of your life
It's not too late to learn. Also, you don't have to suffer for life. God specialises in mending broken hearts and restoration of hope and love as He designed it.
I am so glad this showed up on my feed, I’ve been having so much trouble with all these thoughts of my most recent ex boyfriend for the past two months… God told me, “Why find your worth in a relationship that wasn’t even godly? Let me love you and help you know that you are worthy, my sweet daughter!”
Sis, i broke up with my bf of 5 years because he didn’t or couldn’t believe in Jesus but he can believe in God and for us we stand by 1 John 2:22-23 and so yes it hurt but I had to because obedience is better than sacrifice. I love Jesus more and that’s the truth. We were unequally yoked and so I’m proud of you sis keep putting Jesus first in everything you do and he will direct your path and his will, will be done in your life.
Thank you for saying that one is NOT celibate if someone is still watching Porn and Masturbating because this is so key because that's not celibacy and usually those who extreme sexual urges are not called to singleness and two the participation in sexual sins tends to hinder singles from actually serving the LORD in ministry because of compromised actions and feelings of shame
I’m ready for a relationship Not desperate, and I created my own ministry to help others I’m 48 never been married, no children. I pray God sends me the right person in my life that’s willing to go in mission and want to give time and energy sowing in the life of others A man of great character, loving, but most of all that loves God over and above anything else. Thank you in advance ❤
I got saved am 25 have never been single. Recently I got born again God asked me to be pure from sexual sin,I removed my birth control 5 year plan to go pure for Jesus. This content is helping! Love from Kenya
As someone who was raped and was guilty of giving the enemy the opportunity, PLEASE listen to him! (1:13:22) I went through the steps before watching and this is true. God healed and restored me in less than a year! Praise Jesus for the blood shed and His power!
Man here: How are you guilty of you giving him the opportunity? Girl you better not be bullshitting me. and if you're not, I would like to know why you carry guilt when rape is very clearly and unarguably one sided.
@@googleanti-speech7618 because for years I didn’t guard my heart properly. I read secular books with porn in it thinking it’s not labeled as porn so this is ok. I allowed fantasies to run wild instead of controlling them. God gave me so many warnings about the man and I didn’t heed the blaring alarms. I gave the enemy (spiritually speaking) the opportunity and they attacked me. I should have done better to defend myself but that doesn’t excuse the guy trying to fill the void in his heart. I don’t carry guilt for the rape but a better understanding of sex and relationships. I go forward knowing the mistakes I made leading to that point and can grow with the help of Jesus.
@@brianclemons5375 i was playing around with lust and didn’t listen to God that the guy I was with only wanted me for sex. I told the guy, “I’m ok with this but no more.” He kept crossing the line until he got what he wanted. He pushed me into having sex. I never wanted sex and I didn’t realize I was dancing around it so closely.
I’ve put super glue on my fingers many times just to pull it apart. Soul ties are 1000 times worse. In fact I’d super glue my entire body to the floor and try to get up before I’d want to go back to some situations with certain people that I got “myself” into.
The idea of don't merge because of an urge ....is so beautiful. I wish i heard that before.I did that mistake and it got to me really bad but I'm grateful for God's grace that heals a broken heart.
I am 19 and always get laughed at by peers for being single. After watching this, I kind of get a glimpse of what God wants me to do. And I'm so grateful for this chef-d'oeuvre, And I pray God blesses you and your family. Sending you love from Cameron
As a 19 year old, I was completely single until last August, when I went back to college. I was praying to meet someone/for a husband. I brung a wii to school and got out Mario Kart and it attracts a group of young people to play the game. One of them is my boyfriend. I have never had thoughts like this but that day I saw him and my mind went “his arms would feel good laying on me” which is strange because I never had thoughts of that nature. We hung out with a group, again with him and his friend, and finally he asked me out at the college after we went to a Wendy’s where I asked God if I should date him and got a warm feeling in my gut. He’s very sweet, kind, and considerate which is what drew me to him. Now I’ve been having questions and doubts because he wasn’t originally a Christian- he was agnostic, but he got saved around Christmas time and I’ve been leading him closer to God. The other problem is that he has severe ADHD and depression which keeps him from working. How am I supposed to marry someone who doesn’t work? I got blessed with a full time job and benefits because God put me in the right place at the right time but I still doubt my abilities but I know if God wants me here he’ll help me do what I’m supposed to do. Same principle applied to my boyfriend. If God wills it he will make a way, no matter how absurd it seems. I’m hoping to see a breakthrough in his ability to work soon. I‘m going to continue to be patient and pray and work with my boyfriend and if God gives me the sign to break up then I will and if he doesn’t I’ll stay in the relationship and see where it goes. This was well worth waiting for.
@@aurograce2983 As a fellow Christian that also suffers from ADHD and depression, there's several ways to reduce both. It's important to note that anxiety is instrinsically related to depression: it could be a symptom or the cause. 1) Exercise: doesn't matter what or how; even if it's simple walks in the morning or at the end of the day. He's lucky to have you, as someone who can help him, giving him purpose, if that's what he lacks. Incentivize him to do it, even when he doesn't want to. 2) Catch sunlight: everyday, it helps to build up his vitamin D reserves and improves his testosterone levels (affects depression directly). 3) Teas: there's a huge variety that help to reduce anxiety, one of the key components of depression. Mint, fennel, lemongrass, strawberry, green tea and chamomile. 4) No masturbation: it affects male's well-being and testosterone levels, also lowers self-esteem and causes several other problems if he does it while watching porn. 5) Healthy diet: make sure he's eating well, since low quality can cause stomach issues that then lead to mental issues. Organic food is a option, if income is not an issue. 6) Porn: This is so important, I have to stress: AVOID ALL KINDS OF PORNOGRAPHY. Can't overstate it enough. 7) Allergies: causes mental fog, a temporary state that reduces your mental capacity and rationing; can get pretty bad sometimes and act as an anxiety trigger, hurting his self-esteem. 8) Pray: as much as I improved by myself, I felt a tremendous improvement to my condition right after my conversion to Christianity. It's safe to say that I'll help him a lot: read the Bible, remember Jesus' teachings, inspire yourselves and don't feel disheartened with anything of the world. Bring his faith together with action and the Holy Spirit will bring the results soon enough. Of course, he won't feel much as an inicial impact but, over time, his state of mind will improve a lot, he'll feel stronger, more capable and you'll both benefit. Hope I could help and may God bless you both!
My husband and I have been together for nearly 26 years, and we're still falling in love! We will be empty nesters in 2 years, and our relationship will change. We will get to know each other on a different level at that point.
Sometimes the waiting can be veeeeery long, even if you follow the advice given in this video. I prayed for my husband for 20 years, of which 11 I also fasted regularly and prayed regularly together with a group, went to seminars about relationships, read a lot of books about relationships, preparing as a singe woman, what have you .... I went to all christian conferences, seminars, camps. Still I am now 39 and in my first relationship (I never agreed to be in a relationship with a non-christian) and we see that God has been leading us together and we seek to move towards marriage. Still this road has been so much longer than I have ever wanted ...
@@y.peffle2802 yes, I was with an abusive man from 16 to 30 something. I'm now 38 and I have yet to come across a true Christian man my age range that is single.
@@therocksays7915 yeah she is, but i wouldn't date some religious fanatic christian or any other religion , EVER .. i mean how can they "relax" , while god is constantly "watching"... 😑😑😑
@@mekavio8231 God knows what your going to do he doesn't even need to watch. Plus God doesn't work in the same way we do. He watches over you like a loving father, not a creepy legalist.
@@nathanhunnisett6199 well, if god is watching over us as a loving father, tell me, why he does allowed for priests/pastors ( those that should be the most devout of his followers) for them to abuse little childeren fo so much years ( organised child abuse) of those that are the most precious of our species.. and all of this was covered up and organised.. what good is this (allpowerfull, allcaring)fatherly-god, when he KNOWS and sees this happening, not once, not twice , but millions of times over decenia..and let it happen.. any idea how tormented/abused/humiliated/lost/alone/powerless/etc those childeren felt ???even blamed by some... this is SO messed up, that those the should know the bible and god the best, that just those ppl are doing those things.. but hey, it is okay, ALL sins are to be forgiven, right ? i don't believe a good god would allow this to happen to the most innocents and helpless.. there simply is NO excuse , what is your excuse for god ?
I am blessed Pastor, I was married for 15 years and got divorced on Monday 28 June, and I knew nothing about these teachings. I thank God for your life Vlad and Lana. I will teach these to my two children. Thank you so much.
I’m now just learning how to date correctly at 37yrs old. Had I understood these deep rooted truths I could have avoided allot of bad decisions. Thanking God for His mercy and grace.
I love that Lana has been making more appearances and teachings! She's so anointed! Thank you Pasor Vlad for uplifting her gifting, I'd honestly love to see more teachings with both of you together
Marriage did expose a lot of my weaknesses that I’m working on right now. Thank God my spouse and I got to an understanding and are working together on our separate issues in love.
@@gabigabi-yp9xo If she was married. Matthew 5:32 ESV But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
I'm now married after dating my wife after 10 months. We've been married now for 5 years. We were sinning prior to our unity in marriage. We realized we were living wrong, but decided to give our marriage to Christ. We dedicated our children to the Lord. God himself restored our lives only because we dedicated our lives to serving the kingdom. It took sometime, but that's how the Lord operates. Thank you Jesus for having mercy on us. We truly love each other and always did. We were not taught properly by our parents, but we will not make the same mistakes with our boys. May the Lord bless your ministry. I would love for someone to tell me what they think of this situation.
I can relate, met my now husband and started fooling around. No guilt for the first almost year, then it hit me like a wall. My conviction was so strong I told him we have to be married to continue to do anything. We did get married, but sex wasn’t even on my mind. There was some pressure, but we did a quick courthouse wedding and we don’t regret it even now. We love eachother and are grateful to be married, and I feel like god anointed it once we gave it to him.
And that's the beauty of GRACE ❣️ we all fall short of His glory but, when we surrender everything in His hands, He makes everything beautiful. THANK YOU FATHER FOR JESUS🙏🙌 many blessings to your little family
100% agree!!! That is such a beautiful testimony!! Please share that on other platforms with many others it’s very inspiring ! Nn may God bless you and your entire family and keep you safe and healthy and fluorish always!!!
God is so good I here this teaching 7 days before the date the Lord all ready give me, that some one is coming to me praise the lord for confirmation 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I am 37, single and ready to mingle. I have a great job. I am complete in Christ but want a lifetime companion. Thanks for doing this podcast Pastor! 🙏
This is so true - sad most churches don’t preach about this to help and empower the single ones in their congregation. Thank you Pastor Vlad and Lana this is powerful God bless you both. Shalom!
U 2 are such a beautiful couple n have so much wisdom in these things . I married at 16 n had a baby at 17 . Then my marriage was destroyed becuz i found out that i wasn't even attracted 2 this guy ! Then he went 2 prison . I divorced him . We both had issues from the start ! N i never got married again . I'm 65 now n only want a relationship w Jesus 4 now . Thank u 4 this video , it was very informative 4 those who are single as well as just any1 who is interested in knowing these things . God bless u both ! ❤️🙏
Loneliness is an inner state and it's not a marriage issue or having children issue that solves loneliness....wow...thankyou so much, this is powerful, I am your newest subscriber
for a first date, my fiance and i went to find a new church to start our future in together and not only did we love that church and are still going but it also started our relationship out with God at the center from day one. we do our bible devotionals every morning together and we pray together, and we always make sure we're putting God above ourselves and its been the absolute best relationship i could ever imagine. God has blessed us and really given us the exact person he knew we needed for eachother. we encourage eachothers growth and personal relationships with Jesus and shes helped me become a better spiritual leader and have a stronger faith. its so important to follow Gods commands and to do it correctly and the blessings and love and partnership you get within that is so amazing and absolutely worth putting yourself aside for. guys, go get that beautiful woman and take her to church! it worked for me!!
Orthodox Christian here watching this at 17 years old. This calmed my spirit for I wanted to get married and even asked a girl on a date. Praise the lord for the date never took place.
You will be able to find your wife. Dont neglect studies and career. Yes off course we all want to love and be loved but 17. You are very much on time. Dont get anxious or sad. Im 33 and not married yet 🤣🤣🤣 so that is worse. God bless you.
@@etcwhatever Well said. Have you watched The Chosen ? I would recommend this show to everyone. It really made me understand the scriptures way better.
I am the mother of a young adult, and she has just started to date at 23. I must say I have been searching for content on how to have a godly dating relationship so we can help guide her and this video is awesome! Definitely the best video I have seen !
I also have a 23 year old daughter. She only dated once before. At mybwork is an 18 year old boy who wants to date her. I dont know if i should give him her number or encourage a blind date. Probably not.
I prayed over 10 years to find the right person to be married. I lived my life, traveled and had my career. My prayers haven't been answered. I had a season of struggles feeling resentful. I felt tempted with envy for the ways of this world in the ways they can just go out and get attention easily. I felt burnt out, unwanted and unseen by God. I felt stupid for waiting and trusting God while watching God blessing many of those around me. I felt isolated and heartbroken. 😢However, now I fight the lies that contradict God's goodness. He loves me and has a good plan for me to bring me hope and a future. My life may look different from many ppl in my life. But He does have a perfect plan for my life and sees me.
I will patiently wait for my soul mate. A true man of God that wants to bring me closer to God not separate me and try to get me to stay in my sin. Otherwise id rather be alone.
I really needed to hear this. I looked at it from the pov of a woman married at 21 and divorced at 31 with 2 sons at the time 5 and 1. In not unattractive, in fact I’m told I’m very attractive. I am very open, friendly, vocal a about my life of Jesus and my love for being a good mother and my love for loyal relationships. Yet I haven’t had any gentlemen on my level asked me out. And by that I mean when who are mature in their love for God, have jobs, have houses, have cars and could be good father figures. I just couldn’t understand what was wrong with me. You’re so let me see that maybe I’m just not supposed to be married again. I won’t lie this does sudden me is that I do miss having someone to confide in that could put their physical arms around me. But God knows what’s best and we have to suffer because his Son our loving Savior suffered for us.
My parents divorced when I was three, my sister was one and my brother was maybe 10. My mom never remarried, my dad did. I'm 18 now, and since then my mom has worked her way back up from the bottom and hasn't dated anyone. She best serves God through her job and in singleness. She's happy that even though the marriage went bad, that she had her kids to be with her and keep her company. The main thing I would advise for you is to put your sons first. I see way too many people who are also from divorced families get "forgotten" when their mom or dad remarries and puts their spouse above their kids. If you meet a nice guy who treats them as his own, that would be great, but don't put your desire to be married over your sons' well being. Find friends, and work your way up! It took awhile but my mom now owns her own house, paid off car and is nearing the end of her debt after years of renting and hopping apartments :)
Vlad and Lana, this video is blessing me more than you realise. I've been fasting for more or less a month because my relationship is under extreme pressure and today I'm doing an absolute fast to make sure I don't make mistakes or are mislead and your sermons are teaching me so much. Lana, Vlad is the pastor I follow, but your personal testimony helped me feel hope for the future and that I can make my way to an honourable marriage. Your relationship is showing me Jesus.
Thank you so good . been a single mom for 11 years never dated was busy raising my 3 kids, now that two are grown last one 14. I met someone . It was strange at first but good to put boundaries to be pure, just confirming so much for me right now❤️
I like how you are using language that is not provocative. I will be sharing this with my 3 daughters. They are 17, 17 and 24. I was not raised to save my virginity. But now that I am born again, I want my girls to wait till they are married. It has been difficult cause I feel guilty to tell them to wait and I did not. But I am praying that they break the generational curse.
New subscriber, found your wife’s channel first 2 days ago. This video was sent to me to help me heal. Currently going through a divorce. I feel like I did 90% of what you said not to do. Your wife’s prayer about sending a man who would love our Most High more than myself is what I was looking for but never prayed on. I instead was not equally yolked. I love and appreciate both of you. Different energies yet, unified. May our Lord & Savior continue to bless you and your families ❤
It’s such a blessing to hear the true biblical way to date. It’s been a struggle in my soul realm but this word was profound and powerful. Keep teaching because it is breaking yolks. God bless you!!!!
Desire marriage but don't be desperate for it. Brilliant! So many need to see this video especially youths. It'll save them so much grief. PS So impressed with how you prepared yourselves for marriage. Society just doesn't prepare men enough.
Thank you. I am recently divorced. I want to prepare my self to not make the mistakes of the past. I was married 26 years to my ex husband. I don’t have much time left on this earth to make mistakes with my next. Thank you for the wisdom! Please pray for me to continue to be delivered and healed. Thank you!
Wish I would've listened 2 my parents ! They tried 2 tell me what ur telling young ppl . I didn't listen n paid the highest price ! Thank u 4 the message !
"You have peace and natural fears on top of it." I love that. It's easy to have natural fears from the past. Such a whole and complete conversation, thank you.
Yes!! I have only recently prayed that prayer….. I’m obviously not ready yet (divorced and 49 years old!!) but what He is teaching me EVERY day is PRICELESS!!!
Amazing testimony Lana especially when you shared your mistake in your past. I needed to hear this. I know God has put all my past sins under the blood of Jesus. Thank you and bless you both 🙏🏽
This has been a blessing to me and has given me clarity. I wish I would've received this word a long time ago. I got married to a non Christian and he was a Hindu. We both went to premarital classes at church together. When i asked the teacher if this was okay for marriage, they in turned said if you have no issue with their religion then its okay. It was really up to me. Then 2 years ago he left in the middle of the night and I felt guilt inside me even though I did not leave him. Then I read the word that if they leave, let them leave and I am not bound to them. He didn't want a divorce for some reason, but he continues to live in another state. My parents have told me I should file for a divorce myself but I felt guilt around it. So I am conflicted as if I am sinning. Then if I choose to get re married later on that I am sinning again. I've been praying over this situation for almost two years. Please pray for me for more clarity. Thank you for your ministry.
@@stephanieceli9572 he clearly doesn't want you in his life at this moment, that is why he left you, this might be hard to hear, but you are holding on to 'something' that isn't there.. but for you, NOT wanting to close or deal with this situation yourself, because of your religion, against all common sense is not good, you should treat yourself better, a relationship without love, passing, respect and support is meaningless. i hope you find the courage to file for divorce and you may grow and become happy with someone that cares more for you. praying for you won't change anything, you have to take action to change your life and enjoy it.
It’s been another year, how are you doing? I feel that you should leave them. This seems like something holding you back for more that God is calling you to. Sometimes it just does not work, and because of their religion and no relationship to God it’s only going to get worse.
This video made me really wanna start working on myself. Not just spiritually but in my everyday life! Praise God & thank you so much Pastor Vlad & Pastor Lana!!
Replay: I learned a lot from both of you Pastors. Like, don't go in dating for fun. Sex before marriage is a sin. Marriage is only for singleness and mature to get ready married. Truly don't lie and don't do fornication.
Amen pastor I agree with what you’re saying when my wife passed away I got lonely and I thought if I got married, it will take away that loneliness and instead ended up in a divorce
I’m so happy married couples and couples that are in route to get married like you two are happening. Honestly this is beautiful. God bless this family.
I was married 38 years than my husband passed away. I have now been alone this September 6 years. I am asking God to give me another husband if He wills. I am listening to teachings on marriage and working on me to be my best for a new husband. Thank you for this I have shared this teaching with family.
I think Vlad has a knack for practical worldly advice. He breaks down what you should do not just what you should feel. I like how you share how things worked out for you with the steps you took. It is inspirational to see people going against what the world recommends you do to follow what they are led to do. That takes strength of character. You don't make excuses for doing what isn't the right thing.
The message is such a blessing for this confused generation. A lot of youths date for fun or pleasure. The point that you should date or get into a relationship only when you're ready for marriage is so relevant. Most youngsters are influenced by media and culture and want to pursue relationships based on infatuation or attraction. Because they're controlled by their feelings, they end up realising the truth of the situation very late. This leads to brokenness and feeling insecure about themselves.
I want to thank you both Vlad and Lana for this video. I'm still young but as a teenager I didn't date the Godly way because of ignorance, as a result I've had a lot of bad experiences in dating and I was ready to give up on myself. After pursuing a relationship with Christ last year, I've always wished I could take time back and do things differently because I felt too damaged, ashamed and as though God is disappointed in me and I'll never have a good marriage BUT after this video, I'm ready to date the Godly way and I'm excited to finally enjoy my singleness without shame. You have restored my hope in marriage and living a life of purity to the full. God bless you both for the wonderful work you do. This is the video that has changed my dating life forever, I'm never looking back🙏 thank you😊
Just to encourage you guys, this one by far the best "Christian dating" advice videos I've come across!! You literally covered EVERYTHING with such great wisdom and clarity! God bless you both, thank you for helping so many people with great content P.s I've seen a LOT of similar videos on this topic so please take the compliment, this really was exceptional ❤️
Dating is a modern day construct to approach an old concept. Isn't it interesting that many young people are now turning to the internet to find love? The net is doing what the matchmaker in the old days was doing.
Here is how some people think they love someone but don't actually. Why did you take away the chance from any fellow human being to be able to say that this person always truly loved her/him? Why did you seek others even 1 person even if how some say " even for 1 time"? God does love and forgives us if we fully repent and give our lives to Him and it will be as white as snow to Him but a person in a relationship will never forget , they will never be able to say that they were always truly actually loved. Why take that away from someone else in their life to be able to be with someone in their life that truly loved them faithfully? Why take that away from yourself? Why take that away from your family and or future family? What do you want to actually really teach your kids ( the next future generation) and have them know and feel about their parents and how things truly should be? Really work on that with God keep going to Him even if it takes a while in full singleness before pursuing someone that God actually has for you. It is truly possible for good to permanently never desire/ nor want to seek/ nor to fall for any of those things, God loves you and wants you to give Him everything and trust in His hands, to give not only porn and sexting which is literally the same thing just a different medium/to give seeking, desiring others but to give everything literally everything of your life over to Him and keep working with Him, it is truly possible with Him it truly is. Before pursuing a relationship with someone please analyze and ask yourself everything you should ask. Don't hurt someone nor what you can have with someone. A relationship never starts when you are married but starts when you first want and start to pursue someone. It is remembered and is important don't throw away the importance of it nor the importance of anyone's life and time that they can have with someone. Porn is abuse to literally everyone and it is a whole cycle that can be stopped with each individual and can help to stop the spread of more youth being confused by it. There are even 5 and 6 year olds that are addicted to porn more so nowadays this cycle all of it needs to stop. The adults and the youth that become adults are who need to also instruct others well but from God's wisdom. What will we have for our families , for fellow human beings, and for our youth of the future.
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A question 4 u Vlad ? How do i get baptized w the Holy Spirit ? Do i pray myself n wait 4 it 2 fill me or do i need some1 2 pray w me 2 receive it ? N then how will i know when i really receive it ? I was saved n baptized w water in 2010 , but that's all i remember . Thank u ! God bless u !
I got the answers i asked u about thru the word n videos , but thank u n God bless ! 🙏
Thank you for this very sound teaching
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Thank you Vlad & Lana
"If he really loves you, he's gonna take you to the front of the church, not the backseat of his car."
Man oh man!!! Little louder for the people at the back!!
Thank you Vladimir and Lana for this teaching. This is the true Christianity. Good stuff. One hardly hears this kind of teaching any more. I love Lana....she is a woman of wisdom..she's solid. God gave you t he right wife.Pastor VIad I was looking for your teaching but didn't know your full name and lo and behold you keep popping up on my phone. God is good. Wish to support this wonderful ministry. Love you guys.🙏🏻💕
Same with a girl towards a man. I cant tell you how many times I have been pressured to fornicate by women. Funny thing is, THEY do not want to be the one to give me some action, but tell me that reserving myself for marriage is insane.
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@@Vikingshop Yes, I know that. But my point is that the church only talk about this issue as only MEN being the instigator, therefore causing the type of women who do this to slip under the radar! - So I am calling his (the preachers) bluff!
Well I took 3 girls to the back seat of my car at the lake but all 3 wanted to have sex :o I on the other hand I only wanted to kick back and have a decent conversation and get to know each other on the first date. But I have no idea why the hell girls jump on me when I'm truly interested in certain girls I really like and want to respect them. The funny part is they don't want to be respected :(
“The more people you date, the more you break up and that prepares you for divorce.” That is a powerful statement!
Michelle I dated may women with whom I could not break up with because I was not in a relationship with them. So just because you are dating a guy that doesn't mean your married or heading for divorce :) Hahahahahahahahah
@@Dale65378
Whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or married - you have to end it some way, some how - and that’s what divorce is.
@@The-Mediator that you have also with some friendships that doesnt go forward then you are divorce also with your Friends right 🤣🤣🤣
@@The-Mediator It's only like divorce if you don't have physical/emotional boundaries. Yes it can still be a lot of heartbreak but that's just life. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
The brain works just like that
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Don’t stir up the feelings that you’re not able to meet right now. Man, I felt that one.
YES
@Nae Nicole RIGHT!!!!!????
Yes!!
“As a pastor for over 20 years, I have come to the conclusion that most marriage problems are not really marriage problems. They are God problems. They can trace back to one or both people having a poor relationship with God or a faulty understanding of Him. An accurate picture of God is vital to a healthy marriage. It’s vital to everything.” - Francis Chan
That is so true🙏🙌💯
This so true
Facts 💯
Accurate. And very accurate. Actually in a marriage setting one must be careful of his/her heart. Following it in some situations may be detrimental to the marriage. The bible warns that the heart is evil and desperately wicked.
Instead, stick to the word of God to guide you all the way 🙏
MAJOR KEY ALERT
30:30 was sooo strong. I need this. We all need this. "Be so lost in God that the other person has to look for God to find you" . Absolutely wise words. ❤❤
You're right sister Deborah, but for e.g: you're someone who is lost in God so for me to find you I'd like to look for God but the question is how can I look for God to find you as long as I don't know you and you don't know me either ? Waiting to your answer
It's a way to lifetime loneness
Vlad is always full of wisdom. absolutely such a blessing to have Vlad on youtube, thank you!
For everyone here I want you to trust me when I say this... having Sex before marriage IS NOT worth it. It has made more problems for me then anything.
Thanks for that I will remember that
Me too I wish I knew better I’m stressed I need to talk to someone
I agree 1000%
@@noelashaoona are you okay?
@@Jenny-fl5cn no I’m not
"Don't stir up the feelings of someone of the opposite sex that you are unable to meet right now." Thank you. I needed to hear this.
1 Timothy 2:12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet.
@@mekavio8231 not sure why you posted this. This woman hasn’t exercised authority over a man. She is supporting her husband to speak to women. He is in authority.
@@jenniferwalsh1731 🤫🤫🤫
This is what our generation needs to hear not what the culture has dictated
Replay!
@@jessicaschmidt9231 hey
For real.
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facts
This made me feel a lot better about being single at 31. I prayed to God and asked the Holy Spirit about this to show me, and I was guided to this video. Thank you!
I am 37 year's and single. Was engaged for 8 months but it never happened. Been single one year and five months now, this video is very biblical informative and i see where me n my ex fiance went wrong....
Jenna, Vlad is good. He came on my feed in response to the Israeli war. Now his relationship vids are showing up and encouraging this 38 year old.
I am men ,44 years old , do you like to know me ?
@@robb1312😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@robb1312are you born again?
thank you I am 15 years old and I am on my journey of growing my relationship with God and becoming the best man I can and this podcast opened my eyes and taught me a lot!
Thank God there are youngsters looking for Wisdom. Way to be.
Amen
I'll be praying for you bro, I am 23 and growing with the Lord it is beutiful he recently began to break my heart for what breaks his.
Deliverance doesn’t happen in marriage it happens in CHRIST!
Not true. Our marriage to Christ takes place at the rapture, (Revelation 119:6-9) until then, we are only BETROTHED to him
@@saxmanjpr5092 I think the person may be referring to sexual sin if I'm correct. A lot of people think that all they need to do to get over lust or sexual perversion is to get married. Jesus is the only one that can deliver us.
@@Blessed_Sound OK But HOW does Jeus deleiver us? What methods does he use? One must go to Alcoholics Anonymous, for example and go through that program to get delivered from the addiction to drinking too much. That is a program that Jesus works through to help others. He does not always miraculously heal someone, contrary to popular belief (by Charasmatics) That is a falsehood. Jesus did not always "miraculously" heal people the same ay. Sometime he told people that their faith had healed them. (MARK 10:25) Other times he told others to go DO something (2 Kings 5:14) before a healing would occur and sometimes he had people go see a DOCTOR...Hence why Luke, the Doctor was a disciple. Jesus ofter time s delivers us by the examples I gave. Also, the bible talks about lust as being MORE than just a sexual issue and because the church only talks about lust in a sensual way, they aew getting others up for a fall! BUT it is true that sometimes the only way to get over this problem is to get married. Hence, "It is better to marry than to burn with (sensual) passion." (1 Corinthians 7:9) I... am one of them! I am 47 years old and have had the desire too marry since i was NINE...and even list my virginity at hte age of SIX by playing "doctor!" Because I as told my self rightious idiots in the church that it is better to remain single ager I as FORCED into mens groups, number one, I went to HOOKERS after the mid week mens group as over with and number two, I have masturbated so much in my life that I could have kept a buffett filled with an unending supply of "tapioca pudding!" Jesus ill deliver me from all of that THROUGH MARRIAGE as he has shown me who my wife will be one day after I complete my schooling as a late bloomer in order to be able to be gainfully employed instead of having to continue flipping burgers in my "old age" of pushing fifty!
@@saxmanjpr5092 I understand what your saying, but even as they are teaching, we should be going to Jesus for our source of deliverance becuase even after some people get married, they still deal with porn addiction and some Even deal with homosexuality (and they think if they just marry the opposite sex, it will go away but it’s not the case for some). I’m not saying marriage won’t help someone with their burning desire, but the focus we should be putting deliverance on is Jesus (unless you’re spouse is a deliverance minister, then I guess you can get deliverance through them from God).
@@saxmanjpr5092 the marriage supper of the lamb takes place after not during the translation.
Wish someone cared enough to warn me about this when I was young and innocent..takes years to recover from a broken heart and a destroyed life..with a wrong person..damages you for the rest of your life
so true.
God will make a way for you little mama. Cling to Jesus.
It's not too late to learn. Also, you don't have to suffer for life. God specialises in mending broken hearts and restoration of hope and love as He designed it.
@LISA STILES oh thank you so much God bless you
Little mama Jesus can heal you and this is your ministry!!
“You have to be Holy before you are happy”
“You need deliverance not a date, oooh”
Vlad stays with the bars 😂 poetic with it!
The wisdom coming out of this ministry is such a blessing , thank you
I am so glad this showed up on my feed, I’ve been having so much trouble with all these thoughts of my most recent ex boyfriend for the past two months…
God told me, “Why find your worth in a relationship that wasn’t even godly? Let me love you and help you know that you are worthy, my sweet daughter!”
Beautiful! Thank you Lord, the best wife and Husband to us all, until…… (His perfect timing, His plan, His Way: YAHWAY!!!!)
I am currently going thru this pray for me please!!!
Sis, i broke up with my bf of 5 years because he didn’t or couldn’t believe in Jesus but he can believe in God and for us we stand by 1 John 2:22-23 and so yes it hurt but I had to because obedience is better than sacrifice. I love Jesus more and that’s the truth. We were unequally yoked and so I’m proud of you sis keep putting Jesus first in everything you do and he will direct your path and his will, will be done in your life.
Awe 😭
Bless the Lord!!
I’m turning 27 & single and am sooo grateful for this teaching! I thank God for wise counsellors such as you guys 🤗
Amen they are such wise counselors, I love this ministry! ❤️ glory be to Yah 🙏🏽
I’m little bit older then you & wish we’ve had this teaching in church 20(+) years ago.
M 30 n half years still single but sometimes its not easy.. waiting for godly girl
Thank you for saying that one is NOT celibate if someone is still watching Porn and Masturbating because this is so key because that's not celibacy and usually those who extreme sexual urges are not called to singleness and two the participation in sexual sins tends to hinder singles from actually serving the LORD in ministry because of compromised actions and feelings of shame
Oops sorry I didn't mean to post this under your comment 🤦♀️
You don't play with someone's heart for fun 🔥😬
Absolutely!🤩🤩🤩
Amen
“You need to be come holy before you can become happy in marriage” 👏 9:35
Thanks
Woah, 5:30 society more focused on falling in love instead of WALKING in love. You make it amazingly apparent!
💢The other person has to look for God to find you👏🏾😌❤️ what a Masterpiece🕯️
A take home piece..
Ooh yeah
this hit right on the head..
amazing...
I have said if you want to date me ask my Father's in Heaven permission to have me...if he says yes we are go ...
That is so true.
HALLELUJAH!! Aaaaaaamen!!!
Compatibility tools:
Gender factor
Faith factor
Values factor
The peace factor
Attraction factor
Thanks so much guys 💕
I’m ready for a relationship
Not desperate, and I created my own ministry to help others
I’m 48 never been married, no children. I pray God sends me the right person in my life that’s willing to go in mission and want to give time and energy sowing in the life of others
A man of great character, loving, but most of all that loves God over and above anything else. Thank you in advance ❤
God bless you Bianca, I pray that the Lord will grant you the desire of your heart ❤
I got saved am 25 have never been single. Recently I got born again God asked me to be pure from sexual sin,I removed my birth control 5 year plan to go pure for Jesus. This content is helping!
Love from Kenya
God be with you and bless you always !!!
Good for you to obey our Lord!
Amen .love from kenya too
Love and lots of love from Kenya too
As someone who was raped and was guilty of giving the enemy the opportunity, PLEASE listen to him! (1:13:22) I went through the steps before watching and this is true. God healed and restored me in less than a year! Praise Jesus for the blood shed and His power!
Man here: How are you guilty of you giving him the opportunity? Girl you better not be bullshitting me. and if you're not, I would like to know why you carry guilt when rape is very clearly and unarguably one sided.
@@googleanti-speech7618 because for years I didn’t guard my heart properly. I read secular books with porn in it thinking it’s not labeled as porn so this is ok. I allowed fantasies to run wild instead of controlling them. God gave me so many warnings about the man and I didn’t heed the blaring alarms. I gave the enemy (spiritually speaking) the opportunity and they attacked me. I should have done better to defend myself but that doesn’t excuse the guy trying to fill the void in his heart.
I don’t carry guilt for the rape but a better understanding of sex and relationships. I go forward knowing the mistakes I made leading to that point and can grow with the help of Jesus.
For me, it was the place I put myself. And i understand what your saying. And forgiving yourself.
So you willingly had sex, but feel guilty after and call it rape???
@@brianclemons5375 i was playing around with lust and didn’t listen to God that the guy I was with only wanted me for sex. I told the guy, “I’m ok with this but no more.” He kept crossing the line until he got what he wanted. He pushed me into having sex. I never wanted sex and I didn’t realize I was dancing around it so closely.
I’ve put super glue on my fingers many times just to pull it apart. Soul ties are 1000 times worse. In fact I’d super glue my entire body to the floor and try to get up before I’d want to go back to some situations with certain people that I got “myself” into.
The idea of don't merge because of an urge ....is so beautiful. I wish i heard that before.I did that mistake and it got to me really bad but I'm grateful for God's grace that heals a broken heart.
Dont stir up the feelings of someone else .. of which you are unable to meet🔥🙌🏼
This should be taught to all teenagers, I'm 55 and this has taught me a lot. Thank you Vlad and Lana.
You are ready for dating when you are ready for marriage. 👍👍
I am 19 and always get laughed at by peers for being single. After watching this, I kind of get a glimpse of what God wants me to do. And I'm so grateful for this chef-d'oeuvre, And I pray God blesses you and your family. Sending you love from Cameron
I'd be 22 on February same as u, coincidentally from Cameroon too
I'm 19 too and single don't trip
As a 19 year old, I was completely single until last August, when I went back to college. I was praying to meet someone/for a husband. I brung a wii to school and got out Mario Kart and it attracts a group of young people to play the game. One of them is my boyfriend. I have never had thoughts like this but that day I saw him and my mind went “his arms would feel good laying on me” which is strange because I never had thoughts of that nature. We hung out with a group, again with him and his friend, and finally he asked me out at the college after we went to a Wendy’s where I asked God if I should date him and got a warm feeling in my gut. He’s very sweet, kind, and considerate which is what drew me to him. Now I’ve been having questions and doubts because he wasn’t originally a Christian- he was agnostic, but he got saved around Christmas time and I’ve been leading him closer to God. The other problem is that he has severe ADHD and depression which keeps him from working. How am I supposed to marry someone who doesn’t work? I got blessed with a full time job and benefits because God put me in the right place at the right time but I still doubt my abilities but I know if God wants me here he’ll help me do what I’m supposed to do. Same principle applied to my boyfriend. If God wills it he will make a way, no matter how absurd it seems. I’m hoping to see a breakthrough in his ability to work soon. I‘m going to continue to be patient and pray and work with my boyfriend and if God gives me the sign to break up then I will and if he doesn’t I’ll stay in the relationship and see where it goes. This was well worth waiting for.
I am 28. Let them laugh.
@@aurograce2983 As a fellow Christian that also suffers from ADHD and depression, there's several ways to reduce both. It's important to note that anxiety is instrinsically related to depression: it could be a symptom or the cause.
1) Exercise: doesn't matter what or how; even if it's simple walks in the morning or at the end of the day. He's lucky to have you, as someone who can help him, giving him purpose, if that's what he lacks. Incentivize him to do it, even when he doesn't want to.
2) Catch sunlight: everyday, it helps to build up his vitamin D reserves and improves his testosterone levels (affects depression directly).
3) Teas: there's a huge variety that help to reduce anxiety, one of the key components of depression. Mint, fennel, lemongrass, strawberry, green tea and chamomile.
4) No masturbation: it affects male's well-being and testosterone levels, also lowers self-esteem and causes several other problems if he does it while watching porn.
5) Healthy diet: make sure he's eating well, since low quality can cause stomach issues that then lead to mental issues. Organic food is a option, if income is not an issue.
6) Porn: This is so important, I have to stress: AVOID ALL KINDS OF PORNOGRAPHY. Can't overstate it enough.
7) Allergies: causes mental fog, a temporary state that reduces your mental capacity and rationing; can get pretty bad sometimes and act as an anxiety trigger, hurting his self-esteem.
8) Pray: as much as I improved by myself, I felt a tremendous improvement to my condition right after my conversion to Christianity. It's safe to say that I'll help him a lot: read the Bible, remember Jesus' teachings, inspire yourselves and don't feel disheartened with anything of the world. Bring his faith together with action and the Holy Spirit will bring the results soon enough.
Of course, he won't feel much as an inicial impact but, over time, his state of mind will improve a lot, he'll feel stronger, more capable and you'll both benefit.
Hope I could help and may God bless you both!
My husband and I have been together for nearly 26 years, and we're still falling in love! We will be empty nesters in 2 years, and our relationship will change. We will get to know each other on a different level at that point.
I love it when you said you wanted the Husband who loved God more than you or anyone. That is the perfect marriage. I want that.... ❤
That's the greatest quality must possess.
Sometimes the waiting can be veeeeery long, even if you follow the advice given in this video. I prayed for my husband for 20 years, of which 11 I also fasted regularly and prayed regularly together with a group, went to seminars about relationships, read a lot of books about relationships, preparing as a singe woman, what have you .... I went to all christian conferences, seminars, camps. Still I am now 39 and in my first relationship (I never agreed to be in a relationship with a non-christian) and we see that God has been leading us together and we seek to move towards marriage. Still this road has been so much longer than I have ever wanted ...
Sometimes we don’t see ourselves like God sees us.
The problem is most Christians are married by 39 and not many men left. I really can't think of 1 man at my church that is 39 and single
I would have loved to marry in my early twenties!
@@y.peffle2802 my dad got remarried in his 30’s to a Lutheran woman who’s now my stepmom so it does happen and this marriage is equally yoked
@@y.peffle2802 yes, I was with an abusive man from 16 to 30 something. I'm now 38 and I have yet to come across a true Christian man my age range that is single.
Your wife is so beautiful and wise! I love that you guys are in the ministry of teaching others about marriage, together!
Yessss 😍🥰
She is hot lol 🥵 all due respect great job Holy Spirit and Vlad. Thank you for your sermons sir
@@therocksays7915 yeah she is, but i wouldn't date some religious fanatic christian or any other religion , EVER .. i mean how can they "relax" , while god is constantly "watching"... 😑😑😑
@@mekavio8231 God knows what your going to do he doesn't even need to watch. Plus God doesn't work in the same way we do. He watches over you like a loving father, not a creepy legalist.
@@nathanhunnisett6199 well, if god is watching over us as a loving father, tell me, why he does allowed for priests/pastors ( those that should be the most devout of his followers) for them to abuse little childeren fo so much years ( organised child abuse) of those that are the most precious of our species.. and all of this was covered up and organised..
what good is this (allpowerfull, allcaring)fatherly-god, when he KNOWS and sees this happening, not once, not twice , but millions of times over decenia..and let it happen.. any idea how tormented/abused/humiliated/lost/alone/powerless/etc those childeren felt ???even blamed by some... this is SO messed up, that those the should know the bible and god the best, that just those ppl are doing those things.. but hey, it is okay, ALL sins are to be forgiven, right ?
i don't believe a good god would allow this to happen to the most innocents and helpless.. there simply is NO excuse , what is your excuse for god ?
I am blessed Pastor, I was married for 15 years and got divorced on Monday 28 June, and I knew nothing about these teachings. I thank God for your life Vlad and Lana. I will teach these to my two children. Thank you so much.
I’m now just learning how to date correctly at 37yrs old. Had I understood these deep rooted truths I could have avoided allot of bad decisions. Thanking God for His mercy and grace.
I'm 17, thank you pastors, this was very informative. Every teen needs to hear this!!
Same here,
This message should not be taken lightly
I should say : every parents of teenagers should hear this.
Bruh I am 15 I'll think about it
Especially the advice about staying single in your teen years and tithing them to allow God to work in one's life! I love that analogy :)
1 Timothy 2:12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet.
Dating many people requires you to break up with many people. That’s what I was doing since I was 19-23 before I got fully delivered
A man my the name of Jonathan Lindval taught that dating is preparation for divorce, not marriage!
I love that Lana has been making more appearances and teachings! She's so anointed! Thank you Pasor Vlad for uplifting her gifting, I'd honestly love to see more teachings with both of you together
“Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life” (Proverbs 4:23).
Marriage did expose a lot of my weaknesses that I’m working on right now. Thank God my spouse and I got to an understanding and are working together on our separate issues in love.
I’m a single mom who is seeing a single dad and this is so helpful to make sure we do things right. I took notes as I watched, thank you!
What does the Bible say about single moms and dating...
@@Zgmflegend the path is pretty narrow aint it
@@Zgmflegendwhat says?
@@gabigabi-yp9xo If she was married. Matthew 5:32 ESV
But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
I'm now married after dating my wife after 10 months. We've been married now for 5 years. We were sinning prior to our unity in marriage. We realized we were living wrong, but decided to give our marriage to Christ. We dedicated our children to the Lord. God himself restored our lives only because we dedicated our lives to serving the kingdom. It took sometime, but that's how the Lord operates. Thank you Jesus for having mercy on us. We truly love each other and always did. We were not taught properly by our parents, but we will not make the same mistakes with our boys. May the Lord bless your ministry. I would love for someone to tell me what they think of this situation.
I can relate, met my now husband and started fooling around. No guilt for the first almost year, then it hit me like a wall. My conviction was so strong I told him we have to be married to continue to do anything. We did get married, but sex wasn’t even on my mind. There was some pressure, but we did a quick courthouse wedding and we don’t regret it even now. We love eachother and are grateful to be married, and I feel like god anointed it once we gave it to him.
And that's the beauty of GRACE ❣️ we all fall short of His glory but, when we surrender everything in His hands, He makes everything beautiful. THANK YOU FATHER FOR JESUS🙏🙌 many blessings to your little family
100% agree!!! That is such a beautiful testimony!! Please share that on other platforms with many others it’s very inspiring ! Nn may God bless you and your entire family and keep you safe and healthy and fluorish always!!!
Hallelujah!!
What God sanctified is good.
Thank you for sharing this!
God is so good I here this teaching 7 days before the date the Lord all ready give me, that some one is coming to me praise the lord for confirmation 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I am 37, single and ready to mingle. I have a great job. I am complete in Christ but want a lifetime companion. Thanks for doing this podcast Pastor! 🙏
I'm 37 too!
Did you get your companion?
Two years has passed are you married now ? 😊
This is so true - sad most churches don’t preach about this to help and empower the single ones in their congregation. Thank you Pastor Vlad and Lana this is powerful God bless you both. Shalom!
U 2 are such a beautiful couple n have so much wisdom in these things . I married at 16 n had a baby at 17 . Then my marriage was destroyed becuz i found out that i wasn't even attracted 2 this guy ! Then he went 2 prison . I divorced him . We both had issues from the start ! N i never got married again . I'm 65 now n only want a relationship w Jesus 4 now . Thank u 4 this video , it was very informative 4 those who are single as well as just any1 who is interested in knowing these things . God bless u both ! ❤️🙏
Loneliness is an inner state and it's not a marriage issue or having children issue that solves loneliness....wow...thankyou so much, this is powerful, I am your newest subscriber
for a first date, my fiance and i went to find a new church to start our future in together and not only did we love that church and are still going but it also started our relationship out with God at the center from day one. we do our bible devotionals every morning together and we pray together, and we always make sure we're putting God above ourselves and its been the absolute best relationship i could ever imagine. God has blessed us and really given us the exact person he knew we needed for eachother. we encourage eachothers growth and personal relationships with Jesus and shes helped me become a better spiritual leader and have a stronger faith. its so important to follow Gods commands and to do it correctly and the blessings and love and partnership you get within that is so amazing and absolutely worth putting yourself aside for. guys, go get that beautiful woman and take her to church! it worked for me!!
You are ready to date when you don't need too. Yes love it! 🙏✝️
Orthodox Christian here watching this at 17 years old. This calmed my spirit for I wanted to get married and even asked a girl on a date. Praise the lord for the date never took place.
You will be able to find your wife. Dont neglect studies and career. Yes off course we all want to love and be loved but 17. You are very much on time. Dont get anxious or sad. Im 33 and not married yet 🤣🤣🤣 so that is worse. God bless you.
@@etcwhatever Well said. Have you watched The Chosen ? I would recommend this show to everyone. It really made me understand the scriptures way better.
@@boyar3033 no, one my friends really likes that series. I take this as a sign to check it out. Thank you.
Be so lost in God, the other person needs to look for God to find you
That's true. We must be found in the presence of God and he will provide our right partner.
This was a blessing, thank you 🙏🏼
Thank you for giving. God bless!
I'm not desperate, by any means, but ready to be in a serious relationship & get married covenant style!
I am the mother of a young adult, and she has just started to date at 23. I must say I have been searching for content on how to have a godly dating relationship so we can help guide her and this video is awesome! Definitely the best video I have seen !
I also have a 23 year old daughter. She only dated once before. At mybwork is an 18 year old boy who wants to date her. I dont know if i should give him her number or encourage a blind date. Probably not.
"It is not good for man to be alone I will find you a helper that is suitable for you". " Be fruitful and fill the earth "
AMEN, I am not going to compromise my principles 🔥🔥🔥🔥
True dear, me too 🙌🏼✨⚡
I prayed over 10 years to find the right person to be married. I lived my life, traveled and had my career. My prayers haven't been answered. I had a season of struggles feeling resentful. I felt tempted with envy for the ways of this world in the ways they can just go out and get attention easily. I felt burnt out, unwanted and unseen by God. I felt stupid for waiting and trusting God while watching God blessing many of those around me. I felt isolated and heartbroken. 😢However, now I fight the lies that contradict God's goodness. He loves me and has a good plan for me to bring me hope and a future. My life may look different from many ppl in my life. But He does have a perfect plan for my life and sees me.
I will patiently wait for my soul mate. A true man of God that wants to bring me closer to God not separate me and try to get me to stay in my sin.
Otherwise id rather be alone.
Same
Pastor Vlad got flattered when Pastor Lanna said he's the best gift that came to her life. hihihihihi
Thats was a sweet moment! I am happy to see happy couples.
Yeah he was. 😊😊😊
Pastor lanna?
Soooo cute hey; a highlight for sure
I really needed to hear this. I looked at it from the pov of a woman married at 21 and divorced at 31 with 2 sons at the time 5 and 1. In not unattractive, in fact I’m told I’m very attractive. I am very open, friendly, vocal a about my life of Jesus and my love for being a good mother and my love for loyal relationships. Yet I haven’t had any gentlemen on my level asked me out. And by that I mean when who are mature in their love for God, have jobs, have houses, have cars and could be good father figures. I just couldn’t understand what was wrong with me. You’re so let me see that maybe I’m just not supposed to be married again. I won’t lie this does sudden me is that I do miss having someone to confide in that could put their physical arms around me. But God knows what’s best and we have to suffer because his Son our loving Savior suffered for us.
My parents divorced when I was three, my sister was one and my brother was maybe 10. My mom never remarried, my dad did. I'm 18 now, and since then my mom has worked her way back up from the bottom and hasn't dated anyone. She best serves God through her job and in singleness. She's happy that even though the marriage went bad, that she had her kids to be with her and keep her company. The main thing I would advise for you is to put your sons first. I see way too many people who are also from divorced families get "forgotten" when their mom or dad remarries and puts their spouse above their kids. If you meet a nice guy who treats them as his own, that would be great, but don't put your desire to be married over your sons' well being. Find friends, and work your way up! It took awhile but my mom now owns her own house, paid off car and is nearing the end of her debt after years of renting and hopping apartments :)
This comment reeks of narcissism.
Thanks!
Vlad and Lana, this video is blessing me more than you realise. I've been fasting for more or less a month because my relationship is under extreme pressure and today I'm doing an absolute fast to make sure I don't make mistakes or are mislead and your sermons are teaching me so much. Lana, Vlad is the pastor I follow, but your personal testimony helped me feel hope for the future and that I can make my way to an honourable marriage. Your relationship is showing me Jesus.
Thank you so good . been a single mom for 11 years never dated was busy raising my 3 kids, now that two are grown last one 14. I met someone . It was strange at first but good to put boundaries to be pure, just confirming so much for me right now❤️
"Do not be equally yolked with unbeliever"Up 👍👍👍
I like how you are using language that is not provocative. I will be sharing this with my 3 daughters. They are 17, 17 and 24. I was not raised to save my virginity. But now that I am born again, I want my girls to wait till they are married. It has been difficult cause I feel guilty to tell them to wait and I did not. But I am praying that they break the generational curse.
New subscriber, found your wife’s channel first 2 days ago. This video was sent to me to help me heal. Currently going through a divorce. I feel like I did 90% of what you said not to do. Your wife’s prayer about sending a man who would love our Most High more than myself is what I was looking for but never prayed on. I instead was not equally yolked. I love and appreciate both of you. Different energies yet, unified. May our Lord & Savior continue to bless you and your families ❤
Be lost in God , so that person needs to find God to find you! Wow!
Amen
It’s such a blessing to hear the true biblical way to date. It’s been a struggle in my soul realm but this word was profound and powerful. Keep teaching because it is breaking yolks. God bless you!!!!
Desire marriage but don't be desperate for it. Brilliant! So many need to see this video especially youths. It'll save them so much grief.
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So impressed with how you prepared yourselves for marriage. Society just doesn't prepare men enough.
Oh no!🥵🥵🥶🥶
Thank you. I am recently divorced. I want to prepare my self to not make the mistakes of the past. I was married 26 years to my ex husband. I don’t have much time left on this earth to make mistakes with my next. Thank you for the wisdom! Please pray for me to continue to be delivered and healed. Thank you!
With long life God will satisfy you
Wish I would've listened 2 my parents ! They tried 2 tell me what ur telling young ppl . I didn't listen n paid the highest price ! Thank u 4 the message !
"You have peace and natural fears on top of it." I love that. It's easy to have natural fears from the past. Such a whole and complete conversation, thank you.
I actually prayed to Jesus to teach me how to be in a relationship , and then here I am . Praise be to God forever 🙏❤️
Yes!! I have only recently prayed that prayer….. I’m obviously not ready yet (divorced and 49 years old!!) but what He is teaching me EVERY day is PRICELESS!!!
This is the best teaching I’ve ever received on single hood. It’s an underserved demographic in the body of Christ.
“If he really loves you he’s going to take you to the front of the. Church not the back seat of his car”
Amazing testimony Lana especially when you shared your mistake in your past. I needed to hear this. I know God has put all my past sins under the blood of Jesus. Thank you and bless you both 🙏🏽
This has been a blessing to me and has given me clarity. I wish I would've received this word a long time ago. I got married to a non Christian and he was a Hindu. We both went to premarital classes at church together. When i asked the teacher if this was okay for marriage, they in turned said if you have no issue with their religion then its okay. It was really up to me. Then 2 years ago he left in the middle of the night and I felt guilt inside me even though I did not leave him. Then I read the word that if they leave, let them leave and I am not bound to them. He didn't want a divorce for some reason, but he continues to live in another state. My parents have told me I should file for a divorce myself but I felt guilt around it. So I am conflicted as if I am sinning. Then if I choose to get re married later on that I am sinning again. I've been praying over this situation for almost two years. Please pray for me for more clarity. Thank you for your ministry.
Only 2 $ ?? SHAME !
@@mekavio8231 because it's been 2 years since he left, what's shameful about it?
@@stephanieceli9572 he clearly doesn't want you in his life at this moment, that is why he left you, this might be hard to hear, but you are holding on to 'something' that isn't there.. but for you, NOT wanting to close or deal with this situation yourself, because of your religion, against all common sense is not good, you should treat yourself better, a relationship without love, passing, respect and support is meaningless.
i hope you find the courage to file for divorce and you may grow and become happy with someone that cares more for you.
praying for you won't change anything, you have to take action to change your life and enjoy it.
Thank you!
It’s been another year, how are you doing? I feel that you should leave them. This seems like something holding you back for more that God is calling you to. Sometimes it just does not work, and because of their religion and no relationship to God it’s only going to get worse.
This video made me really wanna start working on myself. Not just spiritually but in my everyday life! Praise God & thank you so much Pastor Vlad & Pastor Lana!!
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I learned a lot from both of you Pastors. Like, don't go in dating for fun. Sex before marriage is a sin. Marriage is only for singleness and mature to get ready married. Truly don't lie and don't do fornication.
Amen pastor I agree with what you’re saying when my wife passed away I got lonely and I thought if I got married, it will take away that loneliness and instead ended up in a divorce
I'm part of the replay/rewatch fam!!!!! 🔥🔥
I’m so happy married couples and couples that are in route to get married like you two are happening. Honestly this is beautiful. God bless this family.
Thank God I’m single, I was married, then widowed. I’m glad I haven’t remarried ❤️
JEsus loves us.
I’m sorry about your lost. But, fascinated by your strength. I wish you continued healing.
All your videos have been word for word direct to my heart
I was married 38 years than my husband passed away. I have now been alone this September 6 years. I am asking God to give me another husband if He wills. I am listening to teachings on marriage and working on me to be my best for a new husband. Thank you for this I have shared this teaching with family.
I think Vlad has a knack for practical worldly advice. He breaks down what you should do not just what you should feel. I like how you share how things worked out for you with the steps you took. It is inspirational to see people going against what the world recommends you do to follow what they are led to do. That takes strength of character. You don't make excuses for doing what isn't the right thing.
Yeah,very practical.
The message is such a blessing for this confused generation. A lot of youths date for fun or pleasure. The point that you should date or get into a relationship only when you're ready for marriage is so relevant. Most youngsters are influenced by media and culture and want to pursue relationships based on infatuation or attraction. Because they're controlled by their feelings, they end up realising the truth of the situation very late. This leads to brokenness and feeling insecure about themselves.
I want to thank you both Vlad and Lana for this video. I'm still young but as a teenager I didn't date the Godly way because of ignorance, as a result I've had a lot of bad experiences in dating and I was ready to give up on myself. After pursuing a relationship with Christ last year, I've always wished I could take time back and do things differently because I felt too damaged, ashamed and as though God is disappointed in me and I'll never have a good marriage BUT after this video, I'm ready to date the Godly way and I'm excited to finally enjoy my singleness without shame. You have restored my hope in marriage and living a life of purity to the full. God bless you both for the wonderful work you do. This is the video that has changed my dating life forever, I'm never looking back🙏 thank you😊
Just to encourage you guys, this one by far the best "Christian dating" advice videos I've come across!!
You literally covered EVERYTHING with such great wisdom and clarity! God bless you both, thank you for helping so many people with great content
P.s I've seen a LOT of similar videos on this topic so please take the compliment, this really was exceptional ❤️
SUCH a blessing!!!!! Amen!!!
Indeed awesome and all encompassing
This is biblical gold... Thanks y'all a lot of youth are going to be blessed by this if they follow it
I don’t date anymore. God doesn’t promote “Dating” No one “Dated” in the bible. So I become close friends and then we can get engage and marry.
Dating is a modern day construct to approach an old concept. Isn't it interesting that many young people are now turning to the internet to find love? The net is doing what the matchmaker in the old days was doing.
Yesssss I agree!!!
@@KiRetteCouture old one as well.
That is became God designed Bethrothal. Dating is a man made concept that as invented in the 1600s!
Amen, I saw this and thought what scriptures back up this message ?
I agree with 'fixing' being spiritually unequal. Only willingness to heed to the Spirit will 'fix' your faith.
You can't go into a relationship expecting a man to be what only God can be.
Amen
If you do, you will be very disappointed.
Here is how some people think they love someone but don't actually. Why did you take away the chance from any fellow human being to be able to say that this person always truly loved her/him? Why did you seek others even 1 person even if how some say " even for 1 time"? God does love and forgives us if we fully repent and give our lives to Him and it will be as white as snow to Him but a person in a relationship will never forget , they will never be able to say that they were always truly actually loved. Why take that away from someone else in their life to be able to be with someone in their life that truly loved them faithfully? Why take that away from yourself? Why take that away from your family and or future family? What do you want to actually really teach your kids ( the next future generation) and have them know and feel about their parents and how things truly should be? Really work on that with God keep going to Him even if it takes a while in full singleness before pursuing someone that God actually has for you. It is truly possible for good to permanently never desire/ nor want to seek/ nor to fall for any of those things, God loves you and wants you to give Him everything and trust in His hands, to give not only porn and sexting which is literally the same thing just a different medium/to give seeking, desiring others but to give everything literally everything of your life over to Him and keep working with Him, it is truly possible with Him it truly is. Before pursuing a relationship with someone please analyze and ask yourself everything you should ask. Don't hurt someone nor what you can have with someone. A relationship never starts when you are married but starts when you first want and start to pursue someone. It is remembered and is important don't throw away the importance of it nor the importance of anyone's life and time that they can have with someone. Porn is abuse to literally everyone and it is a whole cycle that can be stopped with each individual and can help to stop the spread of more youth being confused by it. There are even 5 and 6 year olds that are addicted to porn more so nowadays this cycle all of it needs to stop. The adults and the youth that become adults are who need to also instruct others well but from God's wisdom. What will we have for our families , for fellow human beings, and for our youth of the future.
The Holy Spirit led me to your ministry recently, I really like what I’m hearing and seeing. Keep it up God bless you.
I posses my vessel of honour ..my body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. Long live pastor Vlad and Lana .