Heck yassssssssssssss it's crazy !!!! I'm just happy I'll be an OG when you guys hit 100K or 500K or even more in the future cause I'm sure you will. Once people discover your channel and your hearts, I don't think anyone can stay away. You both are gems ❤️
its true!! and it is actually so old school, like not a new thing. love watching period dramas :D and they are all over respecting the honor and purity of the other one (obviously might also been political/not only a heart decision) but this world is so upside down. love seeing clear again, just love people and protect hearts&souls. And all is good^^
Whoah!!! Wait a minute that line "you dont want every guy to want you; you want the right guy to want you" just hit me❤️❤️... Y'all are just on fire today 🔥🔥
Great quote - “Your past is only your past if you move on from it and learn from it. Otherwise it is your long suffering present.” Thank you for sharing. Love your work guys!
When Tori started to talk about being pursued, that really spoke to my heart. I'm a older teenaged girl, and some of my friends tell me that I should pursue this guy I like. I keep smiling and saying no (because I believe the girl should be pursued), but it's hard when you're not even sure it's the right thing to do. Thank you so much for strengthening my beliefs!
Oh my gosh - My boyfriend pursues me so well, I feel so loved, cared about, and that I have his attention. If a man ain't going to lead (pursue) while dating/courting, then he won't lead in marriage. This is HUGE. Wait for a man who will protect your heart and pursue you. He will put you first and respect your dignity as a woman and (if baptized) a daughter of God. Know your worth and hold the men in your life to those standards. You've got this. Stay strong, keep the faith.
Honestly, if you have the Holy Spirit, for most of this stuff, you will automatically know if it’s a sin or not. For people who don’t have a relationship with God but just follow rules and religion, I can see why they need to ask, “Is this wrong?...” But when you have His Spirit you will see that His heart is for us to have freedom and it’s not about how close you can get to temptation without sinning. Ask the question of what is God’s best for you? Is it God’s best for you to have someone play with your feelings, entice lust in you when there’s no commitment, then break your heart? Loving someone does not mean constant touching and kissing. It means looking after their heart. I think too many people are just making excuses 🤷🏻♀️
So good ❤️ that actually really helped me to hear it again. I remember once the Lord blew my mind and showed me there is no hard line when it comes to certain things, He’s the line. Where the flesh begins is where the line is. Practical wisdom is still very useful too like in this video. Religion wants a one size fits all answer but He always pushes it further. If you even look at a woman and lust in your heart, you’ve already committed adultery. Like wow, what would that look like in a relationship? He says don’t walk in the flesh. Whatever produces the flesh produces death. We need to re-evaluate love 🤦 even if we feel alone in the fight to do it the right way. Stay encouraged girl!! 💪💪💪❤️ you’re on the right track.
I agree with you. It’s also important to mention that some Christians weren’t raised in a Christian home and/or a home that followed all Christian principles in their daily life. Patterns of thought and behavior can be challenging to change. 🙏❤️
Hi, I'm a mom of 5 girls. I sure hope you guys are still around when my girls will be older and can watch your vlogs. This is just great what you are doing. Thank you so much.
The Bible based practical life discussions you two share with all of us is literally making the world such a better place! Thank you for sharing your faith and educating all of us about how to live and love for God ✝️
"that's on you, girl, that's on you" For changing in front of him and provoking lustful thoughts... Well... halfway. It's also the guy who is responsible for what he does with his thoughts. I do agree that a couple shouldn't change in front of each other because that could help either one stumble. BUT, let's also remember personal accountability for our own thoughts, feelings, and actions.
I have to go to sleep but I can’t stop listening to all your guys’ wisdom and advice! It’s so good and Godly and want I want and need in my life. But I shall pray now. Goodnight!
"fruit of marriage without the protection of marriage"....geesh. I feel like I need to be taking notes when I watch y'all's videos. God speaking right through y'all 🙌🏾
A SEVERE MERCY IS MY FAVORITTE BOOOK!! They portray an authentic Christian relationship so well! Not to mention C.S. Lewis' writings and friendship with the couple! wow, i thought no one knew about it! :)
Amazing advice Chad on that last question! Boundaries were easy to keep at bible school with my bf but so much harder when we visit each other back at home. We're about to see each other after 6 months apart but I can already sense how God has been preparing us both for better boundaries and seeking purity first.
Such an encouraging video!! My favorite part was comparing where we are in life regarding relationships as being like a seed/plant! To love how God is nourishing us and growing us each at our own pace, making everything beautiful and good in his perfect timing. And if anyone throws a fit when we try to establish a boundary...then maybe they aren't the best fit for us. So excited for how your channel is growing and that more people are being blessed by how God is working through your lives! ❤
What a heartwarming gesture of showing your care for all those who put forth their questions. I love the way you two answered to the best of your capacity... your belief in the sanctity of true human connection is what is most awe-worthy. I believe in your goodness, in the world’s goodness, and all that still shines in the face of despair and entropy. Thank you for uploading today..couldn't have asked for a better birthday gift! :) Looking forward to the next video as always... God bless you both. ♥
can yall do a video one day on the expectations of your future with others? not necessarily with a significant other, but with friends and family members. also please do a bible study series!!
I was not expecting a video today(Tuesday) now I have to rewatch this with a pen and paper in hand cuz this vid is loaded😅 also ya'll gave me mom and dad vibes. 🧡
this is such good advice! especially for young teens like myself. I feel so blessed to learn this information at a young age, before dating again. I'm 19 and I dated when I wasn't saved (16) I have been single for 2.5 years and I am enjoying my singleness :)
YESSS!!! SO happy you all feel encouraged by our videos... without sounding arrogant we wish we would have listened (or heard for that matter) advice on these topics when we were young... Of course there are so many better places to get advice and we encourage yall to seek them out! But if anything, stay tuned for more of our talks!
Wow! I feel like we are in similar situations. I dated when I was 15-16 and now I am 18 and I’ve been single for two years. I was saved when I dated the first time, but I didn’t have any idea of what Godly dating looked like. I’m glad your enjoying your singleness. I pray that God continues to use it to spread His kingdom.
Love you guys and your ministry so much! Also, the verse you guys reference is Ephesians 4:27. I have it memorized because it is so simple! And important! “And do not give the devil a foothold.” - Ephesians 4:27 (NIV)
Love the description box. I like the q & a thing on this video because your subscribers can connect through it. Your advice can help them at the same tine give clarity to people who are on the same boat as the one who sends the questions. Lol, i can relate with guy and girls friendship so much since i have a guy bestfriend but well ofcourse boundaries are very important if youre having friendships with an opposite sex. Love this videoooo🐢🐨
@@ToriAndChad lol i missed the single boundaries but i already watched it. Just necer drop a commentary cause im too late lol. Thanks for the love then hoomans lol 🐢🐨
@@ToriAndChad I really appreciate it as an eighteen year old, it is preparing me for godly relationships and making me me value myself more. Thank you so much👏🔥😊
The amount of wisdom you guys churn out. I mean it when I say thanks. I didn't know there were still people with these beautiful values - it means something huge coming from Christian friends💓 being a Muslim myself.
A Severe Mercy is the first book I want to read next year (next to the bible!). You're the second person that I've heard recommend it within a week. 😊 it sounds sooo good!
1. Oh my goodness I love y’all! You’re so full of wisdom and it speaks volume every time! 2. If you guys do another Q&A I have a few questions How do distance myself in a way I can make sure both sexes are staying pure but not pushing each other away? When is the right time to stay in touch on the phone should i talk every day or once a week? What are safe conversations to have that won’t tempt each other into sin?
I’m so blessed to have been led to your channel. This is the 6th video I’ve watched from your channel tonight! Finished the singleness series and now onto this one. 🙏🏽🙌🏽 May God continue to bless you both so that you continue to reach others with biblical advice and guidance through your ministry. ✝️
Can't wait to get home, sit down and enjoy while getting some Godly wisdom here!!💃 So to sum it up, boundaries are practically the best thing one can do for their benefit! Ladies and gentlemen, it is for your own good, you are not missing out you are only protecting yourself and loving the other person by putting those boundaries. Thanks Tori and Chad once again for sharing. ...i hope my future husband somewhere across the world is also watching this lol😂...
When I hear you guys talk I I can’t help but see Jesus’s character run right through you guys. You have such a calm loving presence about you guys that is so full of wisdom and grace! Both of you encourage me to be a better person and grow in Christ even more! Thank you for making videos like this because I feel so strongly that the world needs to hear this because I feel like society has really scewed our views on a lot of things and people need this perspective. It can be the first time they’re hearing this and it fills me with hope and confidence that people will hold onto this. Some may not get it right away or say this is stupid, but each person who comes in contact with your channel is not just coincidence. God is showing them something, working in their hearts and it serves purpose! You guys serve purpose! You are just his vessel! 💛
Well by God... That was so so so kind, Nadya!!! Thank you for saying that! We could not agree more about how eachperson who finds our channel is not by coincidence and we just hope for open ears and hearts! We appreciate you!
Love how you said that some things are black/white and some things through your own context because for me personally when I get a boyfriend and we go on dates if we ride together then there’s no touching while we’re in the vehicle,not even holding hands because that’s a boundary I NEED.also whenever we get where we’re going WE WILL NOT STAY IN THE VEHICLE 🙅🏼♀️those are boundaries I need but ones that others may not🤷🏼♀️
You guys s videos are the only videos that I can't get enough of listening to every word, while I have no patience to sit thru and listen to any other videos or fast forwarding so many times. Really amazing contents on all of the topics. Thank you
When you said your past becomes your long-term present if you don’t change it...ooof that’s good. And so true. You guys are always spitting facts and truth and I’m amazed how great God is speaking through you. I always take notes when you make these sit-down videos and look back on them, very encouraging
In a profane world, I frankly think that we can’t stop what’s happening. We can in our own personal lives, preserve and protect the sacred and what’s important to us. Whatever public values might be in a given age, we can choose to live by own values. We all are independent to that extent and no one else but God and us control our own fate.
I'm 15 minutes in and this vlog makes so much sense ! These are such good advice and thoughts ! Love you guys 💖 my routine has an hour to your videos like I re-watch them and it makes my day the best and I have such good energy and thoughts after that !
Have y’all ever thought about being in youth/ kids ministry or even young adult ministry and being leaders in that way??? If not you so should! Love y’all
No one cared to help us be accountable. We asked for help and no one even tried. 😢 I have so many regrets because of that. Thank you for your videos. It is nice to know others have made similar mistakes.
Wow, thank you for all you do. You two are blessings and are making such an impact for Jesus!! May God bless you in ways you could have never imagined before :)
Oh my goodness you guys just drop so much wisdom in every video. I was like oh this video doesn’t really relate to me but I’ll still watch and support and you dropped gems! 💎 Love ittttt
I’ve found your channel today and this is the third video I’m watching! So happy about it 🥰✨. Greetings from Paraguay 🇵🇾❤️ (sorry for my English hahaha)
hahah yay! Thanks for watching so many videos! I am so happy you liked them! And do not apologize your english! It is perfect and we appreciate you speaking in a language that we can respond to you in even though it isn't your first language...Tori and I really need to learn spanish!
hahah yay for reading the description! The announcement is next week! but new video is tomorrow!!! We are pumped to get new merch designs as time allows!
So happy you posted a new video! 💛 You are my favourite RUclips couple and I feel so blessed by all your online content! Love you so much and wishing you a very blessed and merry Christmas!!! 🤗
Just watched your a few if your videos for the first time tonight and was so encouraged! I love listening to how intentional you both are in your answers, thoughts and opinions, and how biblically based all that you say is. Can tell God is clearly working in both of your lives, and in the lives of those your ministering too!
you guys are my favorites. when i get on youtube, your page is always the first one i check to see if there's any new content :) also, weird observation, did you guys intentionally match your shirts to your eyes? maybe its just the lighting, but i always love the colors and atmosphere in your videos; its so relaxing. thank you so much for your encouragement and wisdom! i love that you're always able to connect your personal experiences from your past to the advice you give in the present, it makes your videos so much more genuine and honest. i might have to watch this one again because there were so many good things in it ...
After watching this video, I feel so encouraged!!🙏🏼 I always know going into these videos that it will be good but WOAH!! I am just blown away. With each video the advice keeps getting better, I love it!❤
This feels so good to hear because its so true, I admire your wisdom guys! All your videos truly blesses me and probably this is the best channel ever!! Thank you for sharing all this with us
your videos always encourage me. love and beliefs like these are so rare esp w how the world is nowadays. values are being challenged constantly - we live in a very tumultuous point in human history. God is using you both as instruments to encourage Christians all over the world. keep up the good work. God sees :)
THANK YOU. THANK YOU! THANK YOU!! Such good advice and I love the challenge not to go back to your normal routines! Time to refocus with God is needed especially as we continue in this difficult season. Appreciate you guys so much! PUMPED for the special announcement - I assume in tomorrow's video (;
LOVE your perspectives on all of these questions!! Ty for creating a space for people to ask genuine hard questions AND THEN GIVING THE BEST ADVICE!! XO
I feel like this directly to me because I am in a season of singleness and this is just awesome wisdom to listen to.!!! Something that you y'all made reference to do with watering where you're planted... that advice is awesome.. that's what I need to remember to do!!! I feel like should and I don't think on the positive things that are going on I just think about what I don't have or what I need and what I should have .. whether or not I've got something should not determine my happiness in Jesus...
ANyone else seeing our channel grow??? the heck? hahah All thanks to your wonderful supportive people!
Heck yassssssssssssss it's crazy !!!! I'm just happy I'll be an OG when you guys hit 100K or 500K or even more in the future cause I'm sure you will. Once people discover your channel and your hearts, I don't think anyone can stay away. You both are gems ❤️
sometimes i wish there were more subscribe buttons HAhAha
Oh yes love the growth 🥰😍
Im always watching them grow like baby yoda grow
You are a gem to us!!! We love yoU!
The whole mindset of caring and protecting someone's heart & purity is such a gamechanger when you realise how important that is!
YES WE LOVE THAT!!!
its true!! and it is actually so old school, like not a new thing. love watching period dramas :D and they are all over respecting the honor and purity of the other one (obviously might also been political/not only a heart decision) but this world is so upside down. love seeing clear again, just love people and protect hearts&souls. And all is good^^
Protecting and loving your own heart and then someone elses
such a game changerrr
@@abby-hv6ll yesss
Sooo GOOOD! "Don't try get the fruit of marriage without the protection of marriage." LOve it!
We love you!
“If they’re not going to work to get you they’re not going to work to keep you.” This is so true
Faxxx
Whoah!!! Wait a minute that line "you dont want every guy to want you; you want the right guy to want you" just hit me❤️❤️... Y'all are just on fire today 🔥🔥
Tori was spitting fire hahah
I’m always completely blown away by the amount of wisdom both of you have. It truly blesses me.
Well this comment blessed us!
Totally agreed with this
Agreed
Great quote - “Your past is only your past if you move on from it and learn from it. Otherwise it is your long suffering present.” Thank you for sharing. Love your work guys!
This quote is so healing. All your quotes are empowering.
When someone wants to be with you, he will be.
AMEN!
When Tori started to talk about being pursued, that really spoke to my heart. I'm a older teenaged girl, and some of my friends tell me that I should pursue this guy I like. I keep smiling and saying no (because I believe the girl should be pursued), but it's hard when you're not even sure it's the right thing to do. Thank you so much for strengthening my beliefs!
Well still let them know your interested. Like try to get to know them as a friend
We believe in you!!!
Oh my gosh - My boyfriend pursues me so well, I feel so loved, cared about, and that I have his attention. If a man ain't going to lead (pursue) while dating/courting, then he won't lead in marriage. This is HUGE. Wait for a man who will protect your heart and pursue you. He will put you first and respect your dignity as a woman and (if baptized) a daughter of God. Know your worth and hold the men in your life to those standards. You've got this. Stay strong, keep the faith.
Honestly, if you have the Holy Spirit, for most of this stuff, you will automatically know if it’s a sin or not. For people who don’t have a relationship with God but just follow rules and religion, I can see why they need to ask, “Is this wrong?...” But when you have His Spirit you will see that His heart is for us to have freedom and it’s not about how close you can get to temptation without sinning. Ask the question of what is God’s best for you? Is it God’s best for you to have someone play with your feelings, entice lust in you when there’s no commitment, then break your heart? Loving someone does not mean constant touching and kissing. It means looking after their heart. I think too many people are just making excuses 🤷🏻♀️
CHRISTINA SPITTING FIREEEEEEE!!!! You get it, girl!!! Dang that was good!
@@ToriAndChad aww thanks! ♥️
that’s so good!!
So good ❤️ that actually really helped me to hear it again. I remember once the Lord blew my mind and showed me there is no hard line when it comes to certain things, He’s the line. Where the flesh begins is where the line is. Practical wisdom is still very useful too like in this video. Religion wants a one size fits all answer but He always pushes it further. If you even look at a woman and lust in your heart, you’ve already committed adultery. Like wow, what would that look like in a relationship? He says don’t walk in the flesh. Whatever produces the flesh produces death. We need to re-evaluate love 🤦 even if we feel alone in the fight to do it the right way. Stay encouraged girl!! 💪💪💪❤️ you’re on the right track.
I agree with you.
It’s also important to mention that some Christians weren’t raised in a Christian home and/or a home that followed all Christian principles in their daily life.
Patterns of thought and behavior can be challenging to change.
🙏❤️
*me watching all the Dating/Marriage videos while still single and no man in sight*
Preparation 😂😂😭✊
@@natty6247 i would love to think that hahah🥲
Same gurl 😂
Same!😂😭
Hi, I'm a mom of 5 girls. I sure hope you guys are still around when my girls will be older and can watch your vlogs. This is just great what you are doing. Thank you so much.
hahah screen record them! ;) thank you for the encouragement!
Great suggestion. Love ya.
“There’s freedom in boundaries” so good! Plus that analogy you shared is so good!!!!!🙌🏾
"You're getting the fruit of marriage and not the protection of marriage " I felt that
The Bible based practical life discussions you two share with all of us is literally making the world such a better place! Thank you for sharing your faith and educating all of us about how to live and love for God ✝️
You are so kind to say that, Katherine! Thank you very kindly!!!
Cheers to all those here before 50k subs! Love this channel, such wholesome and fun content!
Thanks a ton! We really owe so much to those of you who were here so early and pushed us forward and kept us motivated and encouraged!
"Start small" such a good thing to begin with !
Amen!
"that's on you, girl, that's on you" For changing in front of him and provoking lustful thoughts... Well... halfway. It's also the guy who is responsible for what he does with his thoughts. I do agree that a couple shouldn't change in front of each other because that could help either one stumble. BUT, let's also remember personal accountability for our own thoughts, feelings, and actions.
Tori, Chad.. thank you for talking to us about this kind of stuff and for the dedication you show. Be blessed!
Bless you too!!! Thanks for encouraging us!
I have to go to sleep but I can’t stop listening to all your guys’ wisdom and advice! It’s so good and Godly and want I want and need in my life. But I shall pray now. Goodnight!
Thanks a ton for saying that Marco!
"fruit of marriage without the protection of marriage"....geesh. I feel like I need to be taking notes when I watch y'all's videos. God speaking right through y'all 🙌🏾
A SEVERE MERCY IS MY FAVORITTE BOOOK!! They portray an authentic Christian relationship so well! Not to mention C.S. Lewis' writings and friendship with the couple! wow, i thought no one knew about it! :)
Please please do a video of boundaries while engaged!!!!!!!!!!
will do! that is a great one to have!
Amazing advice Chad on that last question! Boundaries were easy to keep at bible school with my bf but so much harder when we visit each other back at home.
We're about to see each other after 6 months apart but I can already sense how God has been preparing us both for better boundaries and seeking purity first.
Such an encouraging video!! My favorite part was comparing where we are in life regarding relationships as being like a seed/plant! To love how God is nourishing us and growing us each at our own pace, making everything beautiful and good in his perfect timing. And if anyone throws a fit when we try to establish a boundary...then maybe they aren't the best fit for us. So excited for how your channel is growing and that more people are being blessed by how God is working through your lives! ❤
Wow Moriah! Always so so so thoughtful with how you encourage us while we are trying to encourage you!
What a heartwarming gesture of showing your care for all those who put forth their questions. I love the way you two answered to the best of your capacity... your belief in the sanctity of true human connection is what is most awe-worthy. I believe in your goodness, in the world’s goodness, and all that still shines in the face of despair and entropy. Thank you for uploading today..couldn't have asked for a better birthday gift! :)
Looking forward to the next video as always... God bless you both. ♥
We love you, Shweta!!! You are so good with your words... Happy BIRTHDAY!!!!!! Stay tuned for the video tomorrow!!!
@@ToriAndChad Yaayyyy!! Thank you for your wishes.. I gleefully accept that compliment..:))
Lots of love!
can yall do a video one day on the expectations of your future with others? not necessarily with a significant other, but with friends and family members.
also please do a bible study series!!
Yes absolutely! Our next videos on in marriage, then friends and family!!! Would love to do a bible study as well!
I was not expecting a video today(Tuesday) now I have to rewatch this with a pen and paper in hand cuz this vid is loaded😅 also ya'll gave me mom and dad vibes. 🧡
hahahah is that a good thing or a bad thing?!!
@@ToriAndChad it's a good thing. Cuz I respect and look up to my parents. Same w/ you guys♥️
25:00 That quote about "your past" was deep! I LOVE IT!
FIRST!
Hahaha yes
hahah jk. I won't be that person... love yall!
@@ToriAndChad love you guys back
Tori and Chad Masters you’re first just because RUclips didn’t notify me😂😂
hahah I know you would be in here super early!!!
The way chad looks at tori is soo cute...❤️❤️ All love to you guys 💕
I can always spot another Transformation Church watcher because we’re always quoting gems from Pastor Mike’s sermons ❤️🙏🏾 Amazing video!
I’m starting to realize how important community is! Especially same sex friends and people who keep you accountable.
this is such good advice! especially for young teens like myself. I feel so blessed to learn this information at a young age, before dating again. I'm 19 and I dated when I wasn't saved (16) I have been single for 2.5 years and I am enjoying my singleness :)
I am also a young teen. I agree with you how it is great that we get to know all of this great advice at a young age before we start dating.
YESSS!!! SO happy you all feel encouraged by our videos... without sounding arrogant we wish we would have listened (or heard for that matter) advice on these topics when we were young... Of course there are so many better places to get advice and we encourage yall to seek them out! But if anything, stay tuned for more of our talks!
Wow! I feel like we are in similar situations. I dated when I was 15-16 and now I am 18 and I’ve been single for two years. I was saved when I dated the first time, but I didn’t have any idea of what Godly dating looked like. I’m glad your enjoying your singleness. I pray that God continues to use it to spread His kingdom.
Love you guys and your ministry so much! Also, the verse you guys reference is Ephesians 4:27. I have it memorized because it is so simple! And important!
“And do not give the devil a foothold.” - Ephesians 4:27 (NIV)
YESSSS!!! No footholds ever!
I'm on my prayer and fasting right now and I'm binge watching from motivational speakers and you are one of those.God led me here for a reason
I’ve never been this early! Excited to watch this ❤️❤️
We hope you liked it!!!
Love the enemy/victory/battle metaphor Chad!! Really great perspective
Aww thank you so much!!!
Ugh these videos feed my soul. Thank you.
Aww that means so much!!!
Love the description box. I like the q & a thing on this video because your subscribers can connect through it. Your advice can help them at the same tine give clarity to people who are on the same boat as the one who sends the questions. Lol, i can relate with guy and girls friendship so much since i have a guy bestfriend but well ofcourse boundaries are very important if youre having friendships with an opposite sex. Love this videoooo🐢🐨
We love you!!!
@@ToriAndChad lol i missed the single boundaries but i already watched it. Just necer drop a commentary cause im too late lol. Thanks for the love then hoomans lol 🐢🐨
Tori is on fire with these words of wisdom 🔥👏
She crushes it!!!
@@ToriAndChad I really appreciate it as an eighteen year old, it is preparing me for godly relationships and making me me value myself more. Thank you so much👏🔥😊
Aww this is exactly our goal!!!
The amount of wisdom you guys churn out. I mean it when I say thanks. I didn't know there were still people with these beautiful values - it means something huge coming from Christian friends💓 being a Muslim myself.
A Severe Mercy is the first book I want to read next year (next to the bible!). You're the second person that I've heard recommend it within a week. 😊 it sounds sooo good!
woooo! Let us know how you like it!!!
1. Oh my goodness I love y’all! You’re so full of wisdom and it speaks volume every time! 2. If you guys do another Q&A I have a few questions
How do distance myself in a way I can make sure both sexes are staying pure but not pushing each other away?
When is the right time to stay in touch on the phone should i talk every day or once a week?
What are safe conversations to have that won’t tempt each other into sin?
We will do our best to answer those questions in another boundary video!!! Thankyou so much for the love!
You guys are such a blessing! Praying to have the kind of relationship you both have in the future. ❤
Just make sure to not settle for any less!
@@ToriAndChad Wow, I really needed this reminder in my current season. Thank you so much 🥺❤
Thanks for the love!!!
"You can't expect what you can't express"💯👑
I love your channel. It had helped me out to have a different approach to many teenage themes like sex, relationships, that I am struggling with.
We are so happy to hear that because we want to make these conversations healthy and fairly, even though they are awkward haha
I’m so blessed to have been led to your channel. This is the 6th video I’ve watched from your channel tonight! Finished the singleness series and now onto this one. 🙏🏽🙌🏽 May God continue to bless you both so that you continue to reach others with biblical advice and guidance through your ministry. ✝️
Can't wait to get home, sit down and enjoy while getting some Godly wisdom here!!💃
So to sum it up, boundaries are practically the best thing one can do for their benefit! Ladies and gentlemen, it is for your own good, you are not missing out you are only protecting yourself and loving the other person by putting those boundaries.
Thanks Tori and Chad once again for sharing.
...i hope my future husband somewhere across the world is also watching this lol😂...
Let us know what you think about it!!!
Same about the husband thinggg
AMEN 😂😂✊ he better be 👀
The life that Tori speaks in just WOW!! In last video she brought. I love you guys❤️
it's wild right?!?! lol she crushes it. We love you!
"You cannot expect what you do not express". So powerful!! Thank you so much to you both for these videos!! 😘😘
When I hear you guys talk I I can’t help but see Jesus’s character run right through you guys. You have such a calm loving presence about you guys that is so full of wisdom and grace! Both of you encourage me to be a better person and grow in Christ even more! Thank you for making videos like this because I feel so strongly that the world needs to hear this because I feel like society has really scewed our views on a lot of things and people need this perspective. It can be the first time they’re hearing this and it fills me with hope and confidence that people will hold onto this. Some may not get it right away or say this is stupid, but each person who comes in contact with your channel is not just coincidence. God is showing them something, working in their hearts and it serves purpose! You guys serve purpose! You are just his vessel! 💛
Well by God... That was so so so kind, Nadya!!! Thank you for saying that! We could not agree more about how eachperson who finds our channel is not by coincidence and we just hope for open ears and hearts! We appreciate you!
Love how you said that some things are black/white and some things through your own context because for me personally when I get a boyfriend and we go on dates if we ride together then there’s no touching while we’re in the vehicle,not even holding hands because that’s a boundary I NEED.also whenever we get where we’re going WE WILL NOT STAY IN THE VEHICLE 🙅🏼♀️those are boundaries I need but ones that others may not🤷🏼♀️
You guys s videos are the only videos that I can't get enough of listening to every word, while I have no patience to sit thru and listen to any other videos or fast forwarding so many times. Really amazing contents on all of the topics. Thank you
When you said your past becomes your long-term present if you don’t change it...ooof that’s good. And so true. You guys are always spitting facts and truth and I’m amazed how great God is speaking through you. I always take notes when you make these sit-down videos and look back on them, very encouraging
In a profane world, I frankly think that we can’t stop what’s happening. We can in our own personal lives, preserve and protect the sacred and what’s important to us. Whatever public values might be in a given age, we can choose to live by own values. We all are independent to that extent and no one else but God and us control our own fate.
LOVE that yall are doing a whole series on boundaries! So helpful and such wisdom!!!
Thanks for the love! Happy to you are enjoying it!
Yes please do a video on boundaries with parents! I am 18 and my parents do not respect my boundaries and it has caused me so much anxiety
That is coming soon!!!!
Carry Same 😔
I'm 15 minutes in and this vlog makes so much sense ! These are such good advice and thoughts ! Love you guys 💖 my routine has an hour to your videos like I re-watch them and it makes my day the best and I have such good energy and thoughts after that !
We love you!!! and are so thankful you rewatch videos... it makes us so happy to read that!
@@ToriAndChad you guys make my heart happy ❤️
I had to keep rewinding the first 7 seconds cause what she said is golden!
The intro just doesn’t get old , so beautiful 🥰🥰
Aww thanks for saying that! We didn't know if we need to change it next year or not
Have y’all ever thought about being in youth/ kids ministry or even young adult ministry and being leaders in that way??? If not you so should! Love y’all
The point on spiritual boundaries is a plus wisdom for me .. hadn't thought about it actually ..😉 thanks guys ♥️
“If they’re not gonna pursue you in dating, they’re not gonna pursue you in marriage” 👏🏼
the way they look at each other
No one cared to help us be accountable. We asked for help and no one even tried. 😢 I have so many regrets because of that. Thank you for your videos. It is nice to know others have made similar mistakes.
y’all have been such a blessing in my life. I love your videos & you guys so much! 💗
You are a blessing in our life as well, Tiana!
I think my body is notified when y'all post now lol. Always here to learn from you guys and support you.
That means so much!!! thank you for saying that!!!
@@ToriAndChad You're welcome💙💙. I also discovered your JUCE videos and they're so good!!
You are so very right there’s very much power in touching.
There is sooo much freedom in boundaries. Wow powerful. Thanks so much for this video guys, i LOVE IT
Wow, thank you for all you do. You two are blessings and are making such an impact for Jesus!! May God bless you in ways you could have never imagined before :)
May God bless you too, Chelsea!
Oh my goodness you guys just drop so much wisdom in every video. I was like oh this video doesn’t really relate to me but I’ll still watch and support and you dropped gems! 💎 Love ittttt
Awww that means a lot to hear!!!
I’ve found your channel today and this is the third video I’m watching! So happy about it 🥰✨. Greetings from Paraguay 🇵🇾❤️ (sorry for my English hahaha)
hahah yay! Thanks for watching so many videos! I am so happy you liked them! And do not apologize your english! It is perfect and we appreciate you speaking in a language that we can respond to you in even though it isn't your first language...Tori and I really need to learn spanish!
Gurl your English is beyond beautiful and well written, no one would guess it isn't your first language.
So excited for the anouncement/video tomorrow!!! 😱🥰🥳😉 Thanks for your wise words! So bad that you guys have to make new designs for the merch..
hahah yay for reading the description! The announcement is next week! but new video is tomorrow!!! We are pumped to get new merch designs as time allows!
So happy you posted a new video! 💛 You are my favourite RUclips couple and I feel so blessed by all your online content! Love you so much and wishing you a very blessed and merry Christmas!!! 🤗
That is so kind of you, Lulia! Thank you for saying that! We love you and wish you so much encouragement and excitement for Christmas!!!
You are so sweet! 💛 Thank you very much!!! 🤗🤗
Just watched your a few if your videos for the first time tonight and was so encouraged! I love listening to how intentional you both are in your answers, thoughts and opinions, and how biblically based all that you say is. Can tell God is clearly working in both of your lives, and in the lives of those your ministering too!
awwww the woodpecker moment!!
y’all’s analogies are so good!!
hahah thank you!!!
you guys are my favorites. when i get on youtube, your page is always the first one i check to see if there's any new content :) also, weird observation, did you guys intentionally match your shirts to your eyes? maybe its just the lighting, but i always love the colors and atmosphere in your videos; its so relaxing. thank you so much for your encouragement and wisdom! i love that you're always able to connect your personal experiences from your past to the advice you give in the present, it makes your videos so much more genuine and honest. i might have to watch this one again because there were so many good things in it ...
Tori you are such an example of the woman of God that i want to be!! thankyou for being faithful to this calling, dont ever stop!
After watching this video, I feel so encouraged!!🙏🏼 I always know going into these videos that it will be good but WOAH!! I am just blown away. With each video the advice keeps getting better, I love it!❤
Wow the Dog analogy is so good and reminds me partially of the prodigal son.
yes so true!!! Just need the Dog to come back!
I loved this❤️❤️BTW Tori, u are rocking that Beanie!
You two are cuteee!! it's too much for me! haha
hahah awwwwee We feel the same about your sweet comments!!
The blooming seee analogy really got me. Thank you both for sharing your wisdom ❤️
“just have well wishes from afar”
bruh I’ve never heard it put that well 👏
So intrigued to watch this video. I’ve been waiting for this video
Hope it delivers on what you want! But stay tuned we still have two more parts to this series!
This feels so good to hear because its so true, I admire your wisdom guys!
All your videos truly blesses me and probably this is the best channel ever!! Thank you for sharing all this with us
Love your wisdom and firm yet kind advice. You guys are incredible. Thank you for always encouraging people to put Jesus first!
your videos always encourage me. love and beliefs like these are so rare esp w how the world is nowadays. values are being challenged constantly - we live in a very tumultuous point in human history. God is using you both as instruments to encourage Christians all over the world. keep up the good work. God sees :)
You are so right... we are all in this together!!! Thanks for the love!
So excited to watch this! ❤️❤️ taking notes hahah
Send them to us! We love seeing what sticks out to yall!
this is so helpful,a lot of young people need to watch this
This is so helpful, You answered so many good questions. Thank you both for your wisdom!❤️🙏
Aww thank makes us super happy!
Absolutely love that you guys talk about this stuff and so freely, thank you 😄🥳💯helps the many questions of life
This was so helpful and encouraging!! Always appreciate hearing your guys perspective on these tough topics!! Blessings!!
Aww we appreciate that!
Always excited with Tori and Chad's videos 🥰
That makes us super happy!!!
Woow the anology about the dog!! So good! Thanks for sharing Tori 🤍
She loves that analogy!!!
THANK YOU. THANK YOU! THANK YOU!!
Such good advice and I love the challenge not to go back to your normal routines! Time to refocus with God is needed especially as we continue in this difficult season. Appreciate you guys so much! PUMPED for the special announcement - I assume in tomorrow's video (;
LOVE your perspectives on all of these questions!! Ty for creating a space for people to ask genuine hard questions AND THEN GIVING THE BEST ADVICE!! XO
I feel like this directly to me because I am in a season of singleness and this is just awesome wisdom to listen to.!!! Something that you y'all made reference to do with watering where you're planted... that advice is awesome.. that's what I need to remember to do!!! I feel like should and I don't think on the positive things that are going on I just think about what I don't have or what I need and what I should have .. whether or not I've got something should not determine my happiness in Jesus...