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Change Your Mind, Change Your Life 🌤
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- Опубликовано: 29 ноя 2018
- Change your life by changing your MIND. Let's talk about cultivating the right mindset, releasing limiting beliefs, transforming negative self talk and learning to forgive. Your thoughts create your reality. Everything-your life and your perception of the world-begins with how healthy your mind is. Let's reshape your mind to be strong, resilient, and supportive. I've changed my life this way and I know you can too. 💛
I'm grateful to be a part of RUclips Giving Week, working with MatPat of The Game Theorists (such a good channel!) to raise money for the Brain & Behavior Research Foundation and support better mental health! Check them out here: www.bbrfoundation.org/
// resources mentioned
→ book: Mindset by Carol Dweck | amzn.to/1YYESay
→ graphic: Fixed vs Growth Mindset | bit.ly/2KHWTd2
→ podcast: Rewrite your stories through love (The Lavendaire Lifestyle Ep. 2) | spoti.fi/2KLaakU
→ quote: The Wisdom of Sundays by Oprah Winfrey | amzn.to/2P9Bc6c
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→ Master your mindset (w/ worksheet) | bit.ly/2LxNI1B
→ Law of Attraction | bit.ly/2HPNe1r
→ How to deal with self criticitsm | bit.ly/2SJsezK
→ 11 ways self love will change your life | bit.ly/2GenT0r
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// A B O U T
I’m Aileen, a lifestyle blogger sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.
Lavendaire is my blog about personal growth + lifestyle design. Follow along and learn how you can create a life you love.
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Disclaimer: This is NOT a sponsored video. All opinions expressed are wholly my own.
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forgiveness is for you. That's what my spiritual teacher told me. it's not for the person who hurt you.
Michaelle Stephen Very true! 💕
yes, so so true... because when we don't forgive, we're the ones that are suffering... so well said
I needed to read this
When we change our mind for positivity, we change our world.
That's true
Yes!!
yes yes yes!
*A lot of your videos have been changing a lot of our lives and our minds. Thank you Aileen.*
Winner of a video, I been tryin to find out about "children of the mind pdf" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Giyoe Fonogan Builder - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my co-worker got great success with it.
@@nerdysuzcategui3811 I haven't heard of that one! I'll add it to my list of things to research up :-) thank you for sharing!
Yeach, that's definitely right👍👍
@@who3881 🙏🙏 namaste to you.
I try to remember this every day: "Think new thoughts and you will change your mind. Change your mind and you will change your life."
Positive self-talk is vital.
I'm trying hard to do this daily i want too believe I can do it
Set up an alarm on your phone@@puffymuffin9064
1.fixed & growth mindset
2.transform limiting beliefs into positive beliefs
3.transform negative self talk into positive supporting loving self talk
4.forgive yourself and other,and let go of the past
I'm a huge believer of perspective but I still often catch myself having limiting beliefs in certain aspects of my life -- your videos always are a good reality check for me and a reminder that it's all a work in progress! I think this is such a great way to kick of the last month of 2018 as we look forward to 2019!
Journaling definitely helps and meditation! That's how I'm changing mine :-)
Piquetures by Nomi yes
I see you literally everywhere 😄👏😀
@@TheWellNourishedHomemaker hearts to you, Audrey! And your channel :)
@@dlahon We have similar tastes ^^ :)
*I have the second tip. When you are able to back up your new beliefs with PROOF, your affirmations are set and you have more confidence in those new beliefs.*
Having grown up in poverty, mindset is a huge deal. I never embraced telling myself that I was a poor person like much of my family did. I'm happy to say that I live a comfortable life (not lavish, but comfortable) and it wouldn't have been possible without a growth mindset.
Simply Bentley Absolutely not! Great job !! 💕
Simply Bentley that’s great! I agree, your mindset has a lot to do when how we view our financial circumstances.
Same here!
So true. My mom grew up in poverty and she even said that poverty is a mindset. My grandparents never grew while she did even being a single mom for years but doing what she needed to invest in herself
Yeah, I am not poor but not rich either. I belong to a middle class family, where I can easily get access to the necessities but can't have that lavish lifestyle. I used to see my friends who were rich and felt jealous. But now, I am really proud to say that I am born in a lovely family, where my parents are so lovely and understanding and provide me everything that I need(my necessities). I learnt the habit of practicing gratitude and it really really made my life so great💕
Spanish, Indonesian, and Arabic subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description 💕
Truth! When you change your mind by thinking higher thoughts (appreciation, love, worthiness, etc) you literally change your reality. XO
Wendi Blum Very true. It’s amazing the power our minds hold. 💕
Yup. If your view the world through a lens of anger and pessimism, there is no doubt that that is exactly what you'll see and experience.
Thankyou for reminding❤️
Limiting beliefs really do hold us back and it's important to recognize this and to work on changing those beliefs. This is why self-reflection and continuous self-improvement is so important! Cheers!
Adriana Girdler Absolutely ! There’s always room for growth. Self-love is so important. Which is why I create content to spread the word. :)) 💕
Rebuild the story and pretend like you were the superhero in all of this; I tried this, I rebuild stories in my head and i swear it's the best tip I got lately, because it really shiften my whole mindset! Thank you so much AiIeen for your wise words
That's a great idea! Thankyou for sharing this wonderful tip
The mind is our most powerful tool that can’t be taken away. 💛 love this video!
Carly Burr Absolutely. It won’t wake up one day and decide to walk out of our lives neither. 💕
"you give yourself your own validation"... Oh myy.. U put it so well Aileen.. U are amazinggg...i really love you n ur channel... 💖
s k That’s right! External validation can be taken away from you. When you validate yourself no one can take it away! 💕
i appreciate so much this types of videos. right now i’m in a very difficult time. i’m in the school of my dreams but i’m still struggling at adapting myself. it’s all different and sometimes i find myself talking and thinking about how i am not deserving of my position and school.
thank u lav. i’ll definitely take this advice. thank u.
i would love to hear u talk more about forgiveness 🧡
Zaynab EF me to :)
Me too
Since this work week started I've been watching your videos non stop to help me get through the day at work while learning more about personal development and improving my habits. I am a silent subscriber for a couple of years now and finally soaked myself with your inspiring videos. You're one of the few people who inspires me as a content creator on this platform. Please don't stop sharing your wisdom and experiences to us. You have a very sweet and wonderful soul, Aileen. xoxo
I’ve been struggling a lot with negative thoughts and forgiving myself. I will definitely take on the growth mindset more! Growth is a continuous thing and I’ll remind myself that more often. Also I find that I compare myself to my role models but have to remind myself that they’ve been doing it long and that my time to shine will come. continuing to challenge these thoughts is crucial to my mental health so thank you for reminding me to do so. xo💓
I have been followed your channel for half a year and your videos give me a lot of inspiration, provide me new perspectives toward life, and cheer me up when I feel down. Thank you.
Your videos have changed me so much, in a good way. I'm so grateful for you and your channel (genuinely). Thank you for sharing your art and thoughts. Much love x
Always love this subject. Everyday when I wake up, I listen “ the law of attraction “ on your Chanel. And now, I have one more . Amazing!
Idk why but whenever I'm stressed or not feeling good, I see ur videos n get motivated n my mood automatically changes. Ilysm
Things have been difficult lately and I’m finding it hard to have a positive mindset so your video came out at the right time ! Thanks Aileen
Elin Lin I hope things are going better for you now ! 💕
D.E.Y.A Thanks D.E.Y.A :) Things are getting better. Positive affirmations helped me a lot.
Elin Lin Happy for you! 😊💕
I do what I do in my life and walk away from all negative people as I accept my past I've turn hate to love by self love and confidence to feel good about life and don't care about what negative people think because it's small minded past disappointments I'm free thank you I'm getting counselling to close that chapters of my life thank you so much for your time and consideration 🙏💞 justice lots of love from London Lawrence Simon Anne Marie
Love you Aileen, we girls are proud of you and your amazing work,just listening to you itself gives us immense happiness and meaning to our lives ❤
Yes it defs helped! Thanks for this, Aileen. And I appreciate that you’re taking another step to help others who are suffering from mental health. 😊
Love how you focus so much on helping others! I always been negative Nancy😂😅 without knowing it.
It always felt that I had bad luck and things happend to me.
Since I realized that it's all about HOW you deal with stuff. So much changed😍.
Thanks to minimalism I stay focused on what really matters.
Yes I was the same
I will start working on positive affirmations because negative self talk is one of my biggest issues. I have to learn to change that mindset. Thank you for this xx
Her second podcast was one of my favorites! Out of all the podcast episodes I have ever listened to, that one hit me the most. I have never felt so empowered and refreshed and happy before! I highly recommend that episode to everyone!!!
I love all your videos but this one really touched my heart. Especially when you talked about rewriting your stories. It made me realize how negative I have been to myself about my past. Knowing I can start rewriting them now and become more positive and loving to myself is so beautiful. Thank you so much for this video x
Amazing, wishing you well 💖
Aileen thank you so much you told me to take responsibility for my self,be grateful,love my self ....how depressed and anxious before I meet you ....but after I met you and heard your amazing voices,everything has changed.💫🍀I never thought I could be so happy ,because I just change my mindset✨💕💓.Though sometimes I am upset about I am unproductive and things was interrupted ☹️Send my love to you 💗💖
I agree with you, Aileen! In the affiliate marketing business, it is really important to have that mindset. At the beginning of this business, I did not succeed and encountered many trials, yet I did not give up for I strongly believe in myself that I can get what I want to be and I am up for the challenges that I will go through. Hence, changing your mindset with positivity will surely have a big change in your life.
I'm a huge believer of the growth mindset. I have the fixed and growth mindset diagram posted in front of my desk so that it's a reminder for me to continue having this mindset in everything that I do and for people that I oversee and mentor. Thanks for reinforcing this!
I absolutely love this video! Just when I really needed it it's true to not let your past ruin the potential future 'you'. Its definitely not easy! But I always say do not let your circumstances breed self loath /hatred in your heart towards yourself or to others. ALWAYS find a way to search and focus on the positives internally and externally. I love you sooo much Aileen keep doing what you are doing. YOU ARE CHANGE THE WORLD ! 😚
I believe so much in the power of words, in what we say to ourselves. I love that your videos are so unique and so inspiring, I learn so much. Thank you!!!!
That oprah quote hit me so hard! Forgiveness is a major block i still stumble on everyday. Thank you for sharing! This is so inspiring! Love from Belgium!
Hi Aileen, You have been thoughtful to post this weekly video and not forgetting about it while doing the weekly challenges videos. This show that you have not forgotten about us😘. I am grateful for that.
I have been able to successfully diminish my limiting beliefs by listening to positive affirmations in the morning and at night 🤗
This video is just in the right time for me, for everything of mine from lifestyle and love story to study. Thank you for waking me up. I know I CAN DO IT!
thank u aileen. i’m experiencing hardships lately. w/ this reminder, i more firmly believe that a positive mindset is powerful. hope i can meet you someday. glad u are part of my life. thank you for everything. 😭
Sending you love & strength 💓
Maya Padilla Best wishes to you.. if you ever want to watch more inspirational videos, I have a few! 💕
I think I should watch this video every morning to remember all of this! And to implement these to my daily life. 💜
I really wish that I had known your channel back when I was going through a rough patch in my life that lasted maybe a year and a half. Admittedly, I probably would've scoffed at the title of this video and most of your others but maybe I could've gotten something from it...that being said, I've learned a lot on my own and I get so much out of your videos NOW...so I am grateful for you and for your channel and for the timelessness of the internet. You are so helpful and wonderful
I love you Lavendaire... You inspire me so much
Wow aileen back to back. I love all ur inspiring videos
i'm leaning more towards the growth mindset! That's why I'm working constantly on my channel, my fitness and life!
Just watching you talking gives me positive energy & makes me feel inspired :) Thank you so much Aileen .. Love you
I needed this video Too! I've been feeling really unmotivated today buuuuut instead of self-pitying I've kept thinking positive and keeping my growth mindset which is great 😊💕
Your videos have really sparked a change in my life. It came when I was looking and receptive to change. Thank you for your existence on RUclips. Love from Nigeria.
I love you and your videos! 🙏❤️ Thank you once again!
I LOOOOVE YOUR LAST VIDEOS. i really really do need them right now. thank you so much for these kinds of videos
Aileen, you helped me a lot when I was feeling lost in my life. I changed a lot bcoz of u. I am still in a journey of finding my passion.. Thank you so much as you encouraged me to start my journey
Our thoughts have such a profound impact on our perception of ourselves, others and situations. It's so simple but so challenging to actually put into practice - how you perceive a situation is EVERYTHING. This is so powerful! I also recommend a podcast called "Unf*ck your brain," it is excellent and helps to work through this in practical ways! Thank you for covering this, Aileen! Loving the new podcast episodes and this new series on the channel! 💙💙💙
This is honestly such a fantastic resource! Great job on consolidating negative thoughts, providing ways to counter them, and providing relevant examples! Love this!
exactely. mindset is very important thing that have power can change whole my life.
I trying to talk myself ,was like, okay. I'm
so proud of me and definitely I'm presious and have many talent able to give happiness to others for sure.
I loved it when you talked about forgiveness. Letting go of the past. 🥰
thank you so much for a booster, I so needed this, keep shining & enlightening xx lots of love
Thank you Aileen for helping me 😊😭💜😊😃really thank you! U are helping me change my mindset for good
The best thing I did tomorrow is, I found yur channel. Thanks❤😌
You are just a great life teacher....thank you for all the informations and tips you show us to learn how to improve our soul, brain and life
I’m writing my senior thesis on how parents pass on independence to their children and I’m using one of Carol Dweck’s studies. So funny that this video came at a coincidental time. I’m motivated to finish my project now! Haha.
madsolea good luck on your paper ! 💕
That is a great topic ! I would love to read that. I'm currently researching about self-efficacy for my own thesis, but I'm still at the beginning. I wish you the best for yours =)
Life is crazy, isn't it?! If you are looking at Mindset stuff, Alia Crum is an amazing researcher on the topic
Love u for all your work...going to start listening to your podcast when I go for my walks....🌻
Another thing that is super helpful is asking if a thought, action, fill-in-the-blank will help me. If so, great, use it, hold it, improve it, treasure it. If not, change it, rewrite it, combat it.
Your videos are so positive and motivational. Thanks for sharing. Love you and love your channel.
I needed this so soooo much. Every week to me became very hard to face and I felt like I’ve been dragging myself to school every day. Thank you for reminding me there’s a sunny side to everything ❤️ Hi from the Philippines! :)
Thanks for the video Aileen! Very timely for me 💗
You're always so inspiring ! I havent even finished watching it yet but all the things you're producing are always so helpful. Keep doing you and you're inspiring a generation. 😊
I always wished for having an elder sister to guide me , motivates me to achieve my goal and helps me to grow myself as a better human being . And i think my wish is now fulfilled 💜😘 i love your videos and keep sending us positive vibes through your lavendaire videos✨
The dislikes seriously make no sense to me. But to each their own.. Personally, I gain so much value from her videos that, honestly, there have been times when I found myself not wanting to watch them because I knew the truth that I would find, and at those times, the truths I was kind of avoiding...likely because I may not have been feeling like I was honoring myself to the fullest. I noticed that because, similarly, that's what seems to happen sometimes with my writing, I avoid writing for fear that I have been procrastinating on it (it really makes no sense when I describe it), knowing that the writing, like her videos, point me to the truth and guide me toward what I want and need for myself. So honestly, thank you so much for what you do. I think you're such a badass, Aileen!! ✊😊
Such a beautiful human being! Cant thank you enough
Thank you so much lovely!! I am saving this video and going to rewatch it and share with loved ones. You consolidated so many essential keys to a happy productive healthy life in one very quick video. You amaze me. You are walking in the fullness of your giftings and you are blessings me and so many others. Namaste 💓Joy☮ Also I hope you have a peaceful, fun holiday with your family and friends.
Thanks girl I just love you!!!!!😍
The forgiveness one is a big one. I've lived with regret of not finishing a bachelor's degree (I have an associate's) and I felt like I had wasted my 20s because I've had to have a FT job as well as a PT job just to get by. I have to stop dwelling on my past and look to better my future and look at the good I did experience in my 20s with gratitude.
you are really so good, as I have mentioned before, I'm not interested to follow anyone or wasting my time listen to anyone, but I have to admit, your way let me do that with you, I found myself watching your videos(most of them) and you have a good way for the explanation, I do respect you and well done coz you inspired lots of people. keep going
I really admire u from d bottom of my heart
You are really my inspiration..you always inspires me ...whenever I feel down I come towards your videos....don't stop be youreself
Love you lavendaire
You are such an inspiration to me ❤️☀️
just recently I noticed again how my life changed because of your videos, but also because of the books you recommended, I'm in such a different place and on a very different path, than I was a year ago !
Amazing
Thank you for this video! I am in a moment in my life where I have chosen to believe in me and trying new things. I am a positive person but sometimes it's just hard to keep going without being discouraged, thank your for your inspiring video (I took notes!)
Growth mindset did blow my mind and helped me a lot! It totally changed my perspective! Life-changing concept!
I am so happy that I found your channel
I often forget to forgive myself. I am not perfect, but I love myself Including a personality that is not perfect. Your video always reminds me!!
Hitouch LIFE No one is perfect and that’s okay. 💕
I just tell My Self that "If they can do it, I can do it too!"
It was my reflection by the time I have to learn to drive a car; just because I have to learn as part of my work. And..... Its so amazing! I already know how. Like, I feel driving a car is a part of me......... Mindsetting is really powerful.
Thank you Aileen.🤍namaste
This is so timely for me, we just had our Foundation Day in the school I work, in this event we are all required to dance and I experience depression and I felt my insecurities were so high that I cried myself to sleep every night for the whole week. I feel so not enough because of the fact that I do not know how to dance while my colleague dance so gracefully, I realize I was having a fixed mindset that is holding me back. Thank You very much for the inspiration Aileen, I am new in your channel. I am from the Philippines. God Bless :)
Anything our mind thinks, consciously or subconsciously, becomes our reality. Great video!!
You are such an inspiring person in my life! Thank you for being you and so smart and thoughtful with every one of your videos. You are helping me grow with my self confidence and help me realize my self worth. Keep up with the amazing work you are amazing
u always inspiring me by the way what you are.. thanks for creating " lavendaire " for us... you are my ever green inspiration
Aileen this is so helpful....i have struggled with this in the past but here I am doing the things I never thought I'd do
This was such an important video in my current situation. Listening to you helped with my process of moving on with something like a meditation. Thank you so much! ♥
Aileen, you are killing it! This video has been very healing. It reinforces why I love what Marie Kondo said in her Spark Joy book, "Success is 90% dependent on mindset." I have been doing morning pages and I noticed that I am slowly shifting into a growth mindset. It takes time, but baby steps are something! Also, my AoL is on the way shipping! I am so excited. I went through the digital PDF and I love the addition of the Self Love section and the small adjustments to the goal book monthly pages! It is amazing!
I’m so happy you’re starting to work on it! ❤️
Those small steps at the beginning are usually the hardest. Best of luck, Pamela!
@@MindMoneyBalance Thank you for the luck and the kind words! I need all the luck I can get! ((:
I just realised that I do this exact same thing with learning languages, I say I'm not good at it and don't try that hard. It's something I've vaguely known but there's something about putting it into words. Thank you for this video!
Thank you so much for the inspiring videos. I just feel I want to watch more and more of your content.
I've learn so much with you!!!! And i'm a better person now!! So Aileen Thank you so so so so so muchh
I like your positive videos I need this video thanks
Who are you ?? A motivational speaker and my most favorite youtuber ! I recently am watching your videos and now you are my inspiration for sure ! Lots of love
What you said about seeking validation made me tear up. 💕
Thank you for this beautiful video ! I'm a positive person but, sometimes, as all of us, I'm also not. Your videos are the best way to go back on tracks, to move on for a better future. Kisses from France! 💜🌹
I love how you mentioned that we shouldn't get validation from others even though it feels good to get that. Ultimately, it is God that validates us and ourselves and that's all that matters. I decided to take a week off of my Snapchat due to the fact that I felt like I was seeking validation from others hoping someone would comment on my Snapchat post or that I'll get a lot of views. At the end of the day, those things don't matter. Thank you for the video!
You are making me crazy positive! Thanku so much aileen :::: ♥️
Thank you for your lovely video. Always inspiring to be or best. I really needed to hear what you said about forgiveness, a hard thing to when you are going through the pain. Thank you ☺️ 💕