Lying To My Wife Because She’s Embarrassing, Guilt Tripping The Kids For The Holidays…AITA?!
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30:06 - …lying to my wife about the company holiday party
36:40 - …for storming out of lunch because of my SIL
41:51 - …banning alcohol for xmas
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I absolutely do not think the woman who stormed out was an asshole. I get it’s not about money but imagine the kids seeing their cousins open $200 and then they’re left with a $20 gift card, it’s like a fuck you to the kids. wouldn’t have made a scene but I would 100% leave because, personally, I couldn’t be civil after that and would probably be bitchy and afraid I’d ruin the night that way. I’d tell the husband to make up an excuse and stay with the kids while I left. I think it’s a good opportunity too for the mom to explain to the kids afterwards why the cousins got so much more and that doesn’t mean they’re loved any less BECAUSE it’s not about the money.
i agree. mom can explain why she left and why the situation was wrong to the children and say some wise words lol i think her reaction was justified imo.
If you're in a disrespectful and uncomfortable situation, you have every right to leave. I don't thanks he should have stayed
That story really pissed me off as the second I heard the store I was instantly pissed off and insulted for her.
Info about Smiggle - it is an Australian stationary store specifically focused on kids back to school supplies (pencil cases, lunchboxes, pencils, etc.). One $20 gift card would quickly amount to one pencil case especially nowadays for context about 7 yrs ago I had the same kind of gift card and even back then I could only get a small pencil case and a rubber for $20. God knows the pricing in that place now
For the alcohol one I get it. Everyone is different, but from my experience whenever there is alcohol there are at least a couple people who drink too much and go overboard. A couple of people got too drunk at my engagement party recently and my fiancé had to talk to them individually because having that behaviour at my wedding (sloppy, insulting people, spilling alcohol/food) would stress me out. I’ve found the same at Christmas parties as well…maybe this person’s family likes to just have a couple of drinks and nothing gets out of hand but if there is a history of things getting sloppy it’s freaking Christmas. You can enjoy the holiday without a side kick for once. And not respecting someone’s wishes who is hosting something for everyone (which takes money, energy, thought, time, etc) and hosting a different party is honestly so petty and childish. If you want a different Christmas with alcohol, just host it on a different evening so that people still get to drink if they want. I have Mormon family members(who don’t drink) and they’ve had non-alcoholic Christmas parties/get togethers before and the thought of someone saying “there’s no alcohol, I’m going to plan Christmas at my house instead but WITH alcohol” is just so petty and disrespectful. It’s just alcohol.
The SIL gift card situation: re-gift those $20 cards back to the SIL’s kids next year.
Yoooo that’s the play
I'd use the $20 gift cards and regift them next year with a zero balance!! Baha jokes on that nasty beotch 😂
This episode was a tough one for me. Me and my mom would watch the sesh together every week. I’ve been taking care of her the last 2 years while she’s been battling stage 4 kidney cancer. We bonded over The Sesh and looked forward to it every week. I was waiting to watch it bc she went in the hospital Tuesday.
Unfortunately, I lost my mom yesterday. You guys always brought a smile to her face even when she was having her worst days. Her favorite segment was “AITA”. So I just wanted to say thank you for making her bad days a little better. All 4 of your positive attitudes gave her a little light.
Keep doing what you guys are doing. You make the difference. ❤️
Also she was so excited for the documentary and we didn’t get the chance to watch it yet 💔 I’ll watch for her knowing she’s right with me. But it’s going to be hard.
I'm so sorry for your loss 😔 hope you made it through the holidays okay ❤
I’m sorry for your loss ❤️🩹 remember she is always with you. Talk to her. Cry to her. Be mad at her. Celebrate her. Feel all the feelings because she’s still there!
OMG. The holiday grinch parent situation is EXACTLY what I am going through right now. We will not be able to go to sleep until at least 6 AM Sunday morning. Knowing this, my mom scheduled our family gift opening at 10:30 AM. Obviously, as told the week before, we will not be able to attend. We said noon at the VERY earliest. She is sending out videos of herself sobbing so everyone knows how I am destroying her life yet again. Some times you just have to pat yourself on the back for being more a grown up than your parents.
Bro fr why are some parents so bad are processing their emotions lol, my mom always guilt trips me heavy. I’ve had divorced parents since I was 10 and I’m a full grown ass adult and it never gets easier 😅 if I’m going to one parents house, the other gets upset with me. I feel like I’m constantly balancing my parents emotions and it drives me INSANE!!
I teach and live about 45 mins (on a good traffic day) away from my mom and grandma’s house. I’m also in grad school, AND over 30. I am constantly berated for not coming home enough and when I DO make it home, if I don’t stay for a minimum of five hours, I get guilt tripped. But she has only ever been to my house once.
this happened to my husband and I very recently. we live across the country from our family and per my husband being in the military, we really only get to see family during christmas. We have to drive about 20 hrs (we don’t stop we drive in shifts) and people don’t understand that we can’t always be present.
@@KatieQu8 I make sure to stop at my mom’s at least three times a month. We stay for a couple hours, at least, each time. We even bring the dog with to see “Grandma”. My mom has come to our house twice, in the last four years. Yet she comes out this way for appointments and shopping at some point every week. At least we know that we are not alone. I am 50. I have raised a child into adulthood. I have worked very hard to break this cycle. Just know that it is not us. If you spend your life being told that you are never “enough”, you can find yourself believing it. Know that is far from true.
You should make a video of yourself crying about the video of her crying and send it out😁. That really sucks though. My step daughter is married and has a 2-year-old and they spend every holiday bouncing from house to house trying to make everyone happy. Hubby and I have always tried to be easy going and flexible how about seeing them for holidays because they already have so much on their plate. We still have 5 kids at home, my youngest is five. I would never want my kids to feel rushed or overstressed on a holiday. I don't understand parents that make things harder for their children
As someone who doesn’t drink often, I’m on that girls side 100%. If someone can’t go ONE day without drinking they have serious issues
I am honesly so suprised you about all of your attitudes to the drinking story. 1) Its her house and if she had an alcoholic father (which is a trauma all on its own) that is WAY more than enough reason to ask people not to drink in your home PERIOD. She shouldnt have to justify why she wants no alcohol in her home. 2) The SIL is disgustingly in the wrong. Not only do you go behind someones back while they are planning christmas but all for some alcohol????? Just go to the bar or home after dinner and get a drink if its that big of a deal damn that you have to drink on christmas. Its disrespectful and rude and honestly contrary to the meaning and spirit of christmas. 3) To say shes just being controlling when she may just be setting healthy boundries for herself and her home is wild. It doesnt matter whether its gotten out of hand or not its her home. It kinda broke my heart that you made fun of this lady like that. Alcohol is the most harmful drug and it has killed more people than all of the other drugs combined. She needs no excuse in the world to say no to having that in her home.
Agree!! Teen wanted to watch one with me & this came on next. She said they are immature & act like mean girls. Said they're mouth needs to be bathed in antibacterial soap lol
Pretty bad coming from a teen!!
Eww lol stoppp thinking the world needs to tiptoe around people who have ever had any trauma ever. It’s getting exhausting. She can refrain from drinking, inexcusable to try to control others. It’s not like they brought alcohol to her house anyway, they simply planned their own get together AND invited her. These comments are actually nonsense sheesh!
@@kellyhoyer8387 I dont think that people need to tiptoe around people with trauma (almost everyone has trauma). That wasnt implied nor what I meant by what I was saying. They tried bringing alcohol to her home she said no. Instead of doing the reasonable and respectful thing her SIL planned another party behind her back just so they could drink at that specific time instead of literally any other time and place that day. It was her year to host Christmas that comes with a lot of planning, purchasing, rescheduling and time and effort on the hosts part. Her SIL was in fact the asshole and our society really need to take a look at its relationship to a destructive drug like this if people really think that this is acceptable just for some alcohol.
Woulda done the same, and would have every right to do so 🥂
1. its her home and she can decide no alcohol, and anyone invited can choose to go or not go. it is a free world both ways
The sober person is so far from being an asshole. Wtf...if you cant go 1 holiday without drinking you have a problem
Now if the alcohol drinkers made the non alcoholic drinker drink it would be a problem right 😂 make it make sense boo
@@alexisc5239you’ve gotta be joking…
@@alexisc5239 that's the dumbest thing I've heard all morning. Lol good job boo
100%
@@jenniferhorn8137trying to force a person to not drink 😂 u need help
i see both sides to the alcohol situation, for a lot of people the holidays are a time to "let loose" a little and that may involve alcohol. But it is incredibly rude to plan an event behind her back and the husband should have stood up for her. Its her house and that needs to be respected. The family are huge AHs
I usually agree with you guys but not when it comes to the drinking story . Her husband may not have agreed with her but he should be supporting her. And not having booze for 3 or 4 hours for the night should be a sign of respect for the host. It shouldn't be an issue unless you have a drinking party . Have 2 parties. It's not the end of the world but it meant the world to her clearly and she got shunned. That's so tacky
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You didn’t get food poisoning. You ate wings and greasy food and now are paying the price for it lol😂 just saying. Love you girls and this show!!! ❤
I’ve been thinking about the alcoholic party for a while but I was surprised at your takes. I do think people who grew up around alcoholics can have controlling tendencies but at the same time I think it was really rude of the family to plan a separate party behind her back for the same date/time just so they could drink. OP may have already spent time and money starting to plan her party and no matter what it was her turn to host. I can’t believe people couldn’t go a few hours without drinking while being around their families. I feel like that says something in itself about the kind of people they are. I also feel that those who did grow up in alcoholic homes do appreciate sobriety and there’s nothing wrong with that. Also would you have felt differently if OP was in a religion that didn’t allow for drinking? Regardless I like what other people suggested; OP having her party or dinner and then SIL can throw a party later that night with drinking.
Nah, she sounds like a fun sucker and the family knows that. I would skip a boring ass party too.
Sorry but I disagree with the sober party one. I don't think she's an asshole. People who can't abstain from alcohol for ONE day need help. It's her house and if she doesn't want to be surrounded by drunk people, I don't see the issue. I think it was an asshole move to move the party to someone else's house just so they can drink.
And see, I think it was a power move of hers to know they drink and still host knowing she doesnt wanting alcohol there. They have done it in the past and then doesn't tell anyone she doesn't want them to drink until someone mentioned it when already planning to bring something of the sort. Could've mentioned it well in advance and I'm sure the result would've been the same, they would've still had their separate party.
@briannabotello3732 interesting take. I think that if the family needs to plan the party behind her back after finding out the host doesn't want alcohol in her house, says more about the family than the host. If you choose alcohol over a family member, you may have a problem. I've had my dad choose alcohol over me countless times and it sucks so I understand where this woman is coming from. Also, I understand now wanting people drinking in her home. It'd be completely different if she were going to other people's homes demanding they not drink in their own home. But I also understand that if the family NEEDS to drink that badly, then it is 100% their right to have a party with alcohol. But it's still shitty of them to do.
its her house, if she doesn't want to be around annoying drunk people, I dont blame her. who knows how the in-laws act when they drink.. they could be terrible. her husband should stand up for her. I think her in-laws are the a**holes, not her. if she doesn't want people drinking in her house then so be it. I dont see why that's a problem. and I think she meant grow up as in, she doesn't think they can have a good time without drinking.. which if you can't, then you have a problem
I agree I gave up drinking years ago, but became a Latter Day Saint ( Mormon) in April. No booze tea or coffee. Went with a friend from church n her family to her parents home for Thanksgiving I was happy to be invited I sure wasn't going to be rude n ask for specific anything. Her mom did call however a few days before and asked if I had any allergies to any food or drinks which I thought was very kind. Hubby's family could have went a few hours without booze n went home n drank also you're not supposed to drink n drive even one or two drinks can make you legally intoxicated i don't want that responsibility on my conscious
It seems SO rude to let her host the party this year then make another party behind her back. It really shouldn’t be a big deal that they can’t get drunk for one day. I don’t think she’s the asshole, I would be upset too if I was told to plan a party, planned the party, and no one says anything to my face they just blatantly make another party.
I don’t understand why she would want to throw the event in the first place if their behaviour is uncomfortable. Its her house yes but people can choose not to go. She sounded like she likes to have control of things(which make sense when having rough childhood) but she needs to grow up and realise you can’t control other’s choices. Maybe people in the family do have a problem but you guys must not understand addiction if you think just cutting it off for a day will do anything besides make people want to be sneaky. Idk it sounded like she was enjoying the control she had until they went behind her back and took it away from her. I don’t drink at family events but most my family does and if it helps them for the day, so be it. My mom hasn’t gone in 10 years since she doesn’t want to be around it but that’s her choice and never would she try to make others stop just because she uncomfortable🤷🏻♀️
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Yes!! I had seen Kendall's original video about the case, but the documentary truly added so much. It was beautiful to see how Jessica's family bonded with the Mile Higher team & how much support they gave to the family.
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I just watched it too. Great job! Love the Seshmas. ❤ Merry Christmas to All.
Honestly so well done! So horrific what that family has been through.
Are you going to adress your interview with Jen Gerard? It’s still up so I was just wondering where you stand. She’s done some disgusting things…. Also I gotta say your take on the alcohol shocked me…???! Don’t understand at all, very strange considering the empathatic nature I’ve felt watching your videos for years…
Like I seriously see Janelle as that kid at the bonfires pressuring kids to drink that didn’t want to so she could be cool.
Honestly. Think about what you say before you say it and think about how your words affect people.
Hypocrisy at its finest.
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she is definitely not TA for storming out. they basically demanded them to give their kids hundreds of dollars-them making it about money-and then saying don’t worry your kids will get taken care of in return and then basically spits in the parents face by giving them those gift cards. terrible people. they don’t deserve them in their lives. i would’ve done worse and took most of the money back.
y'all should spend more time with people in recovery, might have a different opinion on the liquor one
They should spend more time out in the real world in general, maybe they'll have an original thought for once. All they do is repeat "trendy" opinions. Shallow af.
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It wasn't difficult for a person of average intelligence to follow at all. I was so disgusted reading comments from people who claim to be your fans. Some were borderline cruel. At the very least, they didn't take into account that you are human beings with real feelings. I may have let a few of them know what assholes they were before I got fed up and stopped reading the comments, lol. Sometimes the Internet really blows goats.
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If my partner gave me an out to not attend their holiday party with tons of people I would be happy to take it. I don’t understand the wife stressing out over a company party at a place she doesn’t even work at, but still wanting to go 😵💫 where does she get the motivation lol
SAAAME! I am an indoor cat and prefer to stay home over socialize awkwardly with people I don’t know 😅
@@monicabarnett9231”I’m an indoor cat” 😂😂😂 idk why that made me giggle so much.. I might have to use that from now on 😂😂 absolutely hilarious!! 😂♥️ thanks for the laugh hahah so much better than saying you’re introverted!
But totally agree with both of you!! Any chance I get for some alone time at home away from socializing with randoms, the happier I am 😂😂
Lol this so much! I would be so excited if I was told I didn't have to go. 😂
Kinda confused about the alcohol comment from Janelle? Grow and drink?? That really rubbed me the wrong way
It’s even worse knowing she has a psych degree 😅 big yikes
@@thefasomanthank god she’s not putting that to use
If you rewatch the video one of the first lines the OP said was "we're all getting older it's time to grow up" as in it's time to stop drinking. That's the precedent I'm sure they based their opinion on bc she's choosing to look down on them or judge them bc they drink
@@mother_mayhem have you considered that CLEARLY they have a drinking problem if all these adults couldn't stand to go to 1 party 1 time of the year and NOT drink???? You should try looking for context clues. 😉
Who give a shit. People can do as they please. If she wants to be a party pooper she can have a one person party with herself. That's what she gets for being a control freak. @stardoll1995
I'm sorry but wtf? The woman with an alcoholic dad that just wanted to have 1 sober Christmas for everyone IS NOT AN ASSHOLE????? Am I wilding out???? Maybe it's because my family aren't big drinkers but if you can't go ONE DAY without alcohol just because it's Christmas y'all have issues, also so she has to deal with every Holiday everyone getting drunk and possibly reliving trauma but they aren't arsed enough or care about her enough to enjoy 1 alcohol free Christmas?Fuck that.
Absolutely agree 🙌🏻
@@samantharhodes8946 thank you! I sincerely started thinking I was losing my mind xD
Agree. None of my family Christmas parties involved alcohol when i was growing up. Whatever they went to do after the party, i have no idea. But making a whole other xmas party instead of going to the sober party is definitely an Ahole move. Saying drinking is part of the Christmas tradition is CRAZYYY and just not a good excuse, or a good tradition.
@@Shalin333 completely agree alcohol should NOT be a necessity for anyone having a good time and IF ANYONE FEELS LIKE IT IS that's definitely a problem they should reflect on cause it's not healhth to feel that way.
This 👏🏻 Thank you
I’m sorry girls, but saying this girl is mentally ill because she doesn’t want people to be drunk at her house is a bit ridiculous. “You’re gunna make people hate you” for not allowing them to drink in her house? I hope you listen back to this and change your minds a bit. Or at least have a bit more compassion for people who prefer to have their families in their right minds in THEIR house. It was incredibly rude for her family to plan an entire alternate event, especially when hosting events can be seen as a right of passage in some families. Rude. You don’t question not smoking in someone’s house, don’t question not drinking in someone’s house. Just fuckin deal with it. 😂 house rules.
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Family not choosing to have one effing day without alcohol were the a-holes. They could have had their own party the day after.
I completely agree. As a child of an alcoholic myself being around drunk people can be so triggering, almost every holiday was ruined my entire childhood by drunk people fighting. It’s one day, if you can’t go one day without alcohol you have a serious problem.
I have to admit I was super disappointed by their response to this story. The family not being willing to go ONE day without alcohol says so much about how little they respect and care for her. It was clear that they cared more about having alcohol & doing things their way than having an event where she felt welcomed. And HER HUSBAND not backing her up is BIG red flag. If they really wanted to have holiday drinks together, they could’ve compromised. They could’ve gone to her house in the morning for breakfast and gifts and went to the sister’s house for drinks later on that night. The family’s response to her choice to host an alcohol-free event was immature and incredibly disrespectful.
I agree very disappointed in their response. They pretend to be so open mind but they clearly are not. I don’t really know what i expected from some rich kids from Colorado. Their response screams they are boarder line alcoholics. Poor holly feel bad for her
@@jordanjohnson9864 @jordanjohnson9864 it's very triggering to me as well, from similar life experiences. Instead of going behind her back, they could have compromised. They went the jerk route instead.
@@Lubinyu86 I completely agree. It's ridiculous that they care about alcohol more than letting a family member host ONE non-alcoholic party. Like you said, they could have compromised.
I can understand wanting a dry Christmas. 😞
me too. I have a few family members that suffer with alcohol addiction and at family events they always take it too far. It's mentally so exhausting, so asking for ONE sober holiday isn't too much to ask for. I feel bad for the OP because I totally empathize with her.
My familty are not drinkers but marajuana smokers. Every holiday all the adults would disappear for 1-3 hours. Me being the oldest non-adult, would leave me to watch 2-7 children so they could go get high. If I ever host holidays, its dry and no high.
@@thewacko4620 oh my :( I’m so sorry!!
The gal trying to ban alcohol on christmas- they should have compromised as a family. They could have had a sober lunch or other short, fun Christmas event she could host and a separate drinking party for dinner. She and her husband could even go early and leave early from the boozy event like you suggested! The holidays should be about love, togetherness, and harmony at the core ❤
The fact they planned another event behind her back so they could drink says everything tbh. Sounds like they're not very nice people sober so can imagine what they're like drunk 🙄
Your comments over the sober party aint it. Especially comming from someone with a degree in psychology
Exactly my thoughts, too. Super disappointed hearing that
Exactly. They would have already known that she's sober, so when she was scheduled to host they should have known it was a possibility. They had seriously wild takes on this 🙄
it’s giving low IQ and no social awareness
But Janelle has a masters in psychology, so she LiLtErAlLy KnOwS wHaT sHe'S tAlKiNg AbOuT
Sorry but the woman who wanted a sober party is NTA. Obviously she can’t force others to come or pick and choose but?????? We also don’t need to bash her lifestyle if she wants to stay sober or be around sobriety. I too don’t like to be around a bunch of drunk people I get uncomfortable + scared even
They clearly have no experience with alcoholism and have not been around true alcoholics. Very disappointed in their response sounds like they are the ones that need to grow up.
@@kayyyb6971 literally. My ex who almost killed me was an alcoholic and drank every single day. I really don’t want to be around drunk people for a while because of it
I have family members that get so drunk their speech is slurred to the point you have no idea what they’re saying and they’re loud and children are around. I can totally understand wanting a dry Christmas.
They all drink and don’t struggle so they don’t get how hard it is 😅
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Grew up with family gatherings that were a blast with zero alcohol. Don’t see why one day is an issue, family is more important than booze.
However, I don’t think you should control what other people like.
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on the holiday story: my parents live in another state and the winters are unpredictable for travel, so we make it a point to have our "christmas" in october during halloween. you just make shit work when youre older and spread out.
I think Kendall should have at least won the present unwrapping game😅
At home sick today - So glad to have this to listen to ❤. Love the whole Sesh cast - thank you for helping my 2023 feel a little brighter.
I disagree about not leaving the Christmas party. The kids might have not known why you left. It is also important to teach our kids about boundaries. I have a lot of issues with boundaries and people taking advantage of my good nature because growing up, my family would be like, "Don't be rude, " "Be the bigger person," blablabla. At the end of the day. We have the right to feel what we feel and not be in toxic relationships. Even if those toxic relationships are family.
Merry Christmas, Ladies.
Thank you for making all of our years a little better.
Yessss my favourite type of episode! Happy Christmas Seshies 🎉❤
I love these christmas episodes! I was hoping this would ne whats coming up!!! Merry christmas to the whole sesh crew (at least those who celebrate if everyone dont, and have a great week to those who dont), and same to the janelle and kendall rae family! We love y'all
I also watched the documentary!! Had to watch in parts due to working but wow it was amazing !!! Great job!! It was so well produced and was honestly better then alot of ID shows I see from the ID channel on TV truly!! So proud of you guys!!! Thank you for going so hard for Jessica. You guys are making a difference!
The sesh is never long enough it seems. Could watch all of you for hours, Love you guys, happy holidays!
The way you guys are insensitive to the alcohol situation. 😅
My mom used to be an ER nurse so she worked on a lot of holidays, so we started doing a “fake Thanksgiving”, which was where we just hangout and eat the big meal together on a day that everyone can be there! It’s usually way less stressful that way
Awe I love you guys! Have a great holiday and little break! Everyone in that office deserves it, you have all worked SO hard this year! ❤❤❤
Merry Christmas Seshies! This is my favorite type of episode. Congratulations on the documentary. I watched it last night and it made me cry. It was so well produced, thank you for your hard work and dedication to Jessica Easterly's case and love to her family.
Non drinker here! I don’t drink because of health reasons and not going to lie…I’m a little hurt by the response. The way she talks about people who drink is condescending, but if I said for ONE year for ONE day could we do something my way instead? And my whole family went behind my back so that they could consume alcohol? Maybe I’m too close to the situation but I can’t imagine how hurt she would be that her husbands family would choose alcohol instead :(
I totally agree!
Same! The least they could do is go to her party, not drink for one day...and THEN have their own holiday party on a different day or later in the evening. Why can't they meet in the middle and have both?
Same. Like… It’s just one night and she was handed the responsibility to host Christmas this year. If she said no alcohol, I’m an adult: I 100% can handle not drinking for one night lmao. Organizing a party behind her back is craaaaaaaazy. The betrayal.
Okay I’m so glad some people agree with me here!! I thought I may have been over reacting
@@KEliza23 I agree!
Follow down the rabbit hole!!! She has so much about sister wives!! She goes from the beginning to the end! Also, LOVED the documentary! You guys did an amazing job! The story was captivating and so sad! I was so worried for Josh when he went to Justin's door! Thank you for all you guys do! Your guys are the highlight of my work week!
OMG!!! The Seshmas Olympics is the funniest thing I've seen all year, freakin love you Gal's!! ❤ Kendall, Janelle, the Documentary is AMAZING, so well produced, It made me cry. Raising the awareness and doing anything we can to help Jessica and her family is so important. I just have SO much respect and love for ALL of you at Mile Higher Media. Happy Holidays to all of you, I hope you have an AMAZING time 🎄⭐💝
Merry Grinchmas girls 🎄🎁✨️ I hope you all have a lovely Christmas. I loved the Documentary. You can tell how much love and dedication you put into it. Thanks for all the laughs and love through 2023. See you in 2024 😊
PS- I love we are ending the year with AITA 😂😂😂 HELLL YEAH ❤
This was really fun!!! Exactly shows the sesh vibes and probably the mile higher media vibes. Love you all❤❤ happy holidays!!
Congrats on the documentary! It was amazing! I was so stressed when Josh went to the door 🫣
Merry Seshmas to y’all, thank you for all the laughs this year. You all did a wonderful job with the documentary too - I felt like we got to know Jessica’s family more through you. 💜
530 days was great! Really enjoyed watching it. Merry Christmas Sesh crew! Cheers to 2024!
Wonderful documentary here's to another great year!!! You guys are the best!!
Merry Christmas guys making my mood better had some tough therapy today with grieve and and some comfort knowing I’d get to come home and cuddle up and watch you guys all laugh and bring the tea 🍵
Yay, so excited to see a Christmas episode! Merry Christmas girls to you and your families, fur babies included🐰🐶🐱
Happy holidays sesh ladies! 🎄✨
I wanted to thank you for all the work you guys put into all the podcasts this year. I always listen while working & playing the sims, lol. I’ve been having a hard time lately as I recently lost my dog of 13yrs 3 weeks ago. So I’m especially grateful for this episode. It helped me feel more in the holiday spirit & took some of that weight off my shoulders. The content you guys produce make me laugh & feel comforted. We appreciate you! 🎁💓
Also-the documentary was incredible!! Congratulations on the hard work becoming an incredible final project. I hope Jessica Easterly gets justice.
Doing some self-care and soaking in a bubble bath with epson salt while I listen to the sesh! Happy holidays Sesh girlies
Love you ladies and all the laughs you bring us, All 4 of you! Happy holidays to everyone! Be safe and have fun this winter season 💚
Happy Holidays everyone! Can't wait to see what 2024 has for the Mile Higher Media ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for another awesome year! Enjoy your guys' break, and holidays ❤ 🎄
& Great job on the documentary! You can tell how much work you guys put into it, and how much the case means to you. So many good things can come out of it and you guys should be really proud!
I LOVE you ladies so very very much, you absolutely have no idea!!! ❤❤❤
I've only just started the episode, but I hope and pray (my Christmas wishes) this will not be a 2 week wait for another episode!!!! 💜💜💜
Your documentary was PHENOMENAL, and I've watched it THREE time's, and have commented on how incredible it is 🦋🦋🦋
Please, beautiful ladies, have an amazing, peaceful, happy, exciting, and loving Christmas, and such a very happy New Year!!!! ❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹💜💜💜
Thank you for all you do, and all the love you bring and spread to the world 💖💖💖😘😘😘😍😍😍🙏🙏🙏
I got hellacious food poisoning a few years ago from Buffalo Wild Wings boneless wings with Asian zing! I was in a hotel room violently puking and violently crapping at the same time, so out of control that I couldn’t leave at checkout time!
The Sesh Olympics was absolutely hysterical 😂Thank you, I needed that! Merry Christmas 🎄 ❤
YASSSS FOR THE SONG FINCH SONGGGG!!! And the documentary..AMAZING JOB GUYSSS 🎉
Watching this sesh while I’m wrapping my babies presents 😌 happy holidays seshies, much love ❤💚
"Your guy's", "Your guys's" just say "y'alls" 😂
Last of the yearrr wow! Happy new years ladies!
The banning alcohol AITA: she is not the asshole for banning alcohol for Christmas imo. She's the host for that year, and she doesn't drink, so I think her husband's family are assholes for creating a new gathering to go to instead. It would be different if they just had an "afterparty" situation to gather and drink after their initial Christmas gathering. Totally immature imo
totally agree
right?? Simplynailogical read this AITA post too on her podcast and they also called op the asshole for having a "no alcohol" party. Like why couldnt the family be supportive for a day lol.
@kewpiebby3202 right! Like they really could go a few hours without drinking lol idk why people have to make parties about drinking
I agree. Alcoholism is way too normalized, kinda disappointing to hear people say OP’s controlling. Nothing wrong with sober parties, it is actually weird/sad if you think you can’t have fun while sober for a couple hours. You can go home n drink afterwards if you really neeeed a drink..
@@Shalin333 right! It is sad
I think the woman wanting a sober holiday is not the asshole. My family has had holidays and family gatherings ruined by certain relatives that get too drunk and start fighting. My aunt tried to then make the next event alcoholc free and either no one wants to go or they bring alcohol anyways. It's been frustrating.
But on the other hand, my boyfriends family drinks during family gatherings and everyone handles it just fine.
I looooove these episodes, I saved this to listen while I'm making my breakfast. Thank you girls and happy Christmas 🎄
There are sooo many AITA videos on youtube now, and you guys are the only ones I ever watch 😂💚
The drinking AITA is a hard one for me. When I was a child, there were several alcoholics in my life and sometimes due to that I would say I felt unsafe at times, which has left me with some trauma. I hate the smell of alcohol and being around drunk people. However I don't mind people drinking around me.
I think if I were that lady I would explain to everyone how I am feeling and compromise by not banning alcohol but just asking nobody gets like drunk drunk around me. I'd say she's being slightly selfish and should understand her families opinions but they should also respect hers in the fact that alcohol could be quite triggering
I’m super excited for this weeks episode!! Love you guys!!!😊❤
Love this podcast so much!! The energy was immaculate, merry Christmas!🥰
Im currently pregnant and have a 1.5 year old at home. Ive been mentally down lately but omg this episode gave me all the laughs I neededddd! 😭🤣🤣🤣 We need more of those backstage games!!
There is no way the woman who wanted to have an alcohol-free Christmas is an asshole. My sister had to have a dry wedding because of our alcoholic father, she isn't an "asshole" at all, she (and all of us) just didn't want her day ruined by him having an alcohol-fueled meltdown (like most Christmasses). If their gatherings were always a case of fun, happy drinking where no one got beligerant and nasty, she wouldn't have wanted to ban it. Also saying she is "controlling" because she grew up with an alcoholic father is f***ed up, your response to this was kinda wild and out of line tbh.
thank you for this comment. I really felt bad for the OP with this one :(
Thankyou ladies very enjoyable ❤
Happy new year seshies!! 🫶🎄🎆🎇 love you guys enjoy your breaks!!
I loved this entire episode. Merry Christmas you beautiful souls!
My husband retired 7 years ago, and we moved 900 miles away from our kids. We have never pressured them to come to us for holidays. My husband won’t go there either, because they live in the North, and he doesn’t want to travel there. No one really cares, even though we miss them, but FaceTime is great!
I’ll be using “I have a 10 percent idea of what you mean” from now on. 🤣
Happy holidays, ladies!! ❤️🎄💚🎅
I love u Kendall❤ but when Holly is grown and she tells u for the first time that she won’t be apart of the holiday tradition girl ur feels will explode. Dramatic, yea but that initial hurt hearing ur child is starting their own holiday traditions and you’ll celebrate with them on another day, it stings. That father spoke to soon while still hurting. The doc was exceptionally well done, y’all brought it. I signed the petition. Justice for Jessica❤️❤️
Happy Holidays Sesh Girlies❤❤
Already watched the documentary! Great job to the whole team 💕
Merry Christmas ladies!
❤❤ Happy Holidays to all my girls ❤❤ The best of wishes to you all 🙏
I loved your sister wives segment! I think it’s funny to talk about even if you’re not an expert on the show. Bc tbh I don’t watch a lot of reality shows but I love listening to drama 😂 that will be fun to do in the future
I feel like if you are grown you should be able to make your own decisions about Holidays. I'm grown 42 and i choose not to go to Holiday events with family. They are always a shit show and I want to spend my time with my husband and child in peace. People always have a problem with it. But do I care? haha. I choose to do Christmas and Thanksgiving with Mom and Dad on a more personal level (before or after). I also work on Thanksgiving and when I did show up after working 12 hours. There was no food and people there that were like who are you at my own parents home. Sorry for the long rant... but it's my time also and I deserve to have peace on the Holidays as well.
I absolutely loved this episode. Having a hard time and you ladies make me smile and laugh. Love you all. Happy hoildays the beautiful Sesh crew ❤❤❤❤
I don't think I have ever laughed so hardwatching your Olympic Games. That cotton ball one is one I'm gonna have to try with my family. Y'all seem so fun! Merry Christmas!
Christmas with the seshes love you guys happy Chrysler!
Luv all you girlz happy holidays to all 🌲⛄❄️🏔️
This episode made me laugh sooo much you guys are hilarious! Happy holidays to the sesh!
Merry Christmas 🎅 🎄to you All ❤ Awesome year thank you for all the laughs keep it fresh!!
My husband got poisoning from bdubs and he was so mad he took them back the next day and demanded a refund 😂
Yess keep doing little show lessons haha!!
I LOVED the Love is Blind segment Kendall did a few vids back!!